Baby there is nothing wrong with a average man! A man that goes to work everyday, is respectful and kind, is a GOOD man! Been HAPPILY married to 1 man for 26 years. My husband and I are besties for life. We laugh, love a and pray together. My engagement ring that I still wear cost $699.00..My LOVE for him and his love for me is PRICELESS!
My husband is a high value man! We have worked hard together and made a good living financially..but honestly I say this often...I would have lived with him in a housing project..the LOVE , KINDNESS & RESPECT is PRICELESS!..
My husband retired at a salary of about $110,000. That was after getting a practical degree, working at the same hospital for 40 years, taking call and working his butt off, me penny pinching and clipping coupons while raising our kids, taking our "vacations" to see family or going camping, and him retiring at the age of 72. We did it together and both worked our tails off. And we started when I was 19 and he was 22. It takes a lifetime and dedication and commitment and devotion. And these girls think they can fall into it because they "deserve" it. Lord help me!!
The Internet is raising the mindset today. The ability to go through the process is what's missing. Work smarter not harder has been taken out of wack.... Luckily we have his info/content to help those who's ready to receive it.
@@lkreinmiller-author Can't blame your 3rd for feeling that way. It's a trap for men the way divorce is set up today. Women don't have to have any accountability for their behavior, leaving men powerless to demand mutual respect. I think marriage can work as originally intended with a prenup, but a prenup itself goes against the point of the vows you take at the alter/judge.
I wish like heck I had listened to this man before he passed away. He was the real deal. People like him is always taken away from us. Rest up brother...
...and respect the man in your life without despising them. You miss him and that's it. YOU DIE ALONE. However, if yout picked something out of this God bless you.
Agreed, both ends too, men as well lol. Summary: I met a girl on a dating app yesterday we video called. And she went on a long rant on how she is tired of being a strong woman and she wants to be a stay at home mom etc and wants a man that brings in all the income...She was not in shape, the nice photos she had was her in a wig, how do i know? because she was on the call bare headed...she was quite delusional. I challenged her views by just asking her what she would offer a man like that etc and how does she feel she matches up to it etc she got mad. She was talking about how a guy she met on the app was too nice and she had to cut him off etc, From how she was talking I thought she was a knockout lol paired with her photos, obviously seeing her was a different story. She was all types of delusional, 26 years old and saying she isn't settling for less...but yet she is less. I'm sure there are tons delusional dudes out there too lol but as a heterosexual male I can only talk about my experiences.
FACTS!! Went to couples counseling and she actually said, "if he would just do what I ask, everything would be okay!" The "female" therapist said, "that's part of the problem, you can't put your expectations on others!" Long story short, she was pissed at the therapist and we never went back and we never resolved our issues.
@@eyehashereyehadonai8036 they aren’t gonna be worried about your bs comment in ten years they’re gonna be living their life something you need to be doing
@@Alexz5040 🙄Yet today, your Goofy A$$ is commenting. You could have kept that thought to yourself. You need to take several seats 🪑. Focus on these two words, “ SHUT” and “ UP”! Uncertain Hefa 🐮
i got into him after he passed, sucks that he did but since i started late i feel like the amount of videos he has is enough to guide me for a lifetime
I'm pretty sure he knew he was helping in some capacity. I admire his ability to move past the feminist and the few who are still single and will, in fact, die alone. My mother did, sadly! and even she said Kevin opened her eyes at 65 to a lot of the things she felt and later found, to be wrong about.
When my younger sister divorced her nice, respectful, highly-educated, and high earner husband for no reason in particular, my mother told her to use her head. She did it anyway. She was equally highly-educated and had been a very high earner too. He found another wife. She didn't find another husband. They did not have any children.
When I met my wife I was working at People Ready and she was working in the corporate world making multiple times more that me and what convinced her that I was marriage material was A) when we went on a double date we got a flat and I changed the tire because the guy who’s car it was didn’t know how to, B) when she moved into a new apartment I got my homeboys and we boxed up and moved all her stuff in less that 5 hours and C) one time when we went on a date at an expensive restaurant and I paid for everything which showed her that, knowing the amount of money it cost and that I worked at a day labor company, she knew how much effort it took to save to pay for the date and that if we married she would be well taken care of. She knew that she had a good man who just happened to not have a good job. And once we got married I got a great job so she could be a stay at home mom. Now she has her own private therapy practice(after I paid for her to go back to school to get her MSW). Point is…average guys who work regular jobs many times make great husbands. Ladies, stop chasing the bag.
My wife left for the attention and thrill of another man, after abducting the children. All she had to do was lie and say that I hit her and they let her keep the children away from me. Life is already kicking her fast ass and I just sit back and watch. I had nothing 10 years ago after she took everything, but now I'm a Millionaire x2. I live a nice life near D.C. and she lives destitute in the ghetto.
I'm a 24 year old man. Thank you, Kevin. Thank you for teaching me how to vet a woman to be a good wife. You're saving so many young men from headache after headache.
Nantha Grey - And you’ve saved yourself? Gtfoh with that bull shit. The fact you felt the need to come here and mock the man’s passing tells every man here all we need to know about you. Go adopt a kitty and die alone. That’s your future. 30 years from now when miserable and alone, perhaps you can think back and thank Mr Samuels for helping to save many women from suffering your fate. Of course you won’t because you’re a woman and will accept no accountability whatsoever.
@@deathrager2404 I definitely think the same.... That or they paid ole girl he was with at the time of his death to kill him. He was trying to help us and they definitely didn't want that
@@jayryan75 but even if they didnt directly killed him, women are the result of what the system wants. i hope his death was not in vain, simply dealing with modern women = an early death. reminds me of al bundy cha cha cha. youtube that. he points at his wife during the cha cha cha theme and sings: early grave, cha cha cha. its hilarous as hell. and very truthful. just dealing with modern women results in an early death.
“You were supposed to be getting taught this stuff from the time u were a girl… that’s why you’re 25 and u don’t even know who was supposed to have taught you … Women have failed you.” ~KS (THIS) 🤞🏾💯
At 25, I thought the same thing as this young lady. At 48 I see how wrong I was. I’m determined to teach my child better. If moms don’t teach our girls better, their futures will be difficult. Moms, we are responsible for preparing our daughters to win.
Too many black women waste their prime child bearing years chasing dreams and fantasies and then after they hit what we in the manosphere call "The Wall", which is at age 30, those same women turn around and try to get serious about men and building a family. Unfortunately, by then many successful men are looking at the new models on the block, age 19-29 to start families and build legacies with.
@Sarah He wasn't referring to his own relationship preferences. He literally just made a statement that has been observed over time and have lots of truth to it that most woman in their prime 20s waste it and wait too long until it's late by age 30 or up to find a man to build with. Unfortunately the case is always that most the good men that was turned down in favour of her having unrealistic fantasies about men. these good men will no longer be available and quite frankly tend have more options by age 30 especially if they have become high value men.
im 17 and more prepared for my future than her😂 she’s got some soul searching to do. every time you ask why someone is going to college they don’t have an answer or is going for “fun” it’s sad.
Miss this man. Going on a year and this man is still saving relationships and building character in people. A true legend. Real truth always lives on. R.I.P Godfather
These delusional women done gave this man ten years of presidential gray in a single year…. Man… there ain’t a single amount you could pay me to deal with the narcissists he has to bring down to earth every night.
As an older woman, it has been my experience that younger women don’t want to respect our advice about men. “What do we know? We’re old school.” And, more importantly, they don’t have the stamina, discipline, or heart to play the game to win. The programming they are under is too ingrained in their psyche and they are too emotional to play the long game. THAT’s FACTS!
Thats the sad part, but honest. I learn a lot of from older men and women. I'm only 27 and some of my greatest conversations have been with 70 - 90 year olds. If no one my age/generation as ever told you, I gladly will. Thank you so much for your education and being. I believe the older generations provide the manual for the basics of life if that makes sense.
The other sad part is that so many modern women think that all these men they meet, and date are replaceable and think they can just throw the guy away and find a new one instantly with just one swipe. That's why many women end up lonely or settling with men that they're not even really that attracted too, bc they let all their other good options go thinking they could do better. We only got so much time with dating bc it becomes much harder as we age. Not impossible but much harder. Nobody has to be in a relationship if they don't want to. That's a personal choice but there may be some consequences. I'm sure it gets very lonely to still be the single one while everyone else around you after a certain age has someone and a family. It can't just be one big party forever.
I think it has to do more with this social media... Also some set the bar so high that it makes it impossible to find this "perfect" relationship... There is no such thing.... Not saying lower yourself but bend a little...
@@SynterraSteen You sound like one of the lost and delusional women that Kevin references. It's men who make the ultimate decision to get married, so you don't pick a husband. Women have their way picking and choosing men to fornicate with. Then from there it's men who decide they want relationships or marriage. Women control sex. Men control relationships and marriage. Simple and plain. But most women's heads are so inflated from the number of guys approaching them for sex that they always fail to realize that men are approaching them for sex and for not marriage. Here is a common, everyday example showing who controls what. Do men or women ask this question "I'm not having sex with you until you're ready to be in a relationship"? Women, obviously ask such questions, not men because men have never been known to need or want to be in relationships in order to have sex. That question shows that by withholding sex she is in control of sex and by waiting for his decision to be in a relationship that he is in control of the relationship. Get it now? Geesh!
Honestly Kevin, I think a lot of these women today are fine with being 200+lbs, buying a dog and dying alone. They've bought into the idea of independence, feminism and men being seen as expendable. This country may be on it's way to becoming a bigger version of Japan.
Japan's going through its modern social woes, but despite the increasing divorce rates + indie women, traditional values still just about binding the society together. Not as far gone as USA. Both experiments of industrilialised capitalist democracies, showing RofW the social ills on horizon. Not that one is better than the other. They each have acute specific problems that the other may soon confront
RIP Mr. Samuels. You've lit the torch. Rest assured, Men will carry that torch and never let that light die. Your body may have given out, but your legacy and your message will forever endure. Rest easy. The hard work you put in, was not in vain. You got the ball rolling, and it will never stop. Thank you, and rest easy. We got this.
The 25 year old "Philly" looked at her mom's situation taking care of her sickly father as a waste of her mom's life, rather than seeing her mother bare her cross for her husband and the marriage. She learned the wrong lesson from seeing her mother struggle. The result is now fear and anxiety about marriage. When the result of your life experiences is fear and reservation, you were either taught the wrong values or learned the wrong values in life. She would ultimately be a woman that would not honor her marriage vows, or never commit to a marriage.
Right. She should've seen that situation as it being exactly what she was supposed to be doing as a wife. Running out on someone at the end of their life is typically the wrong way to go. And seeing this example in her parents should've inspired her to want to be like that. It's blatantly obvious she learned from only the negative side of relationships and had chosen to not take accountability of her poor choices and outlook.
She's scared to be in the position of her mother, but doesn't think about what would happen if she was in her father's position. Being chronically ill alone is no joke.
I think you have to add in a lack of work ethic as well. She wants the Disney princess marriage and life. When as anyone that is married knows it is work. It is worth it in the end. This her mom should have told her.
Man and Wo - Man, if some of you would take the time to look at the Bible in an optimistic way, then who you were told who wrote the Bible. Try the perception way when you read the Bible. It's only a tool for life, it will only give you wisdom knowledge and understanding in many situations.
I would have listened to Mr. KS every day had I known about him. I found out about him through another blogger who interviewed him just within the last six months. I missed a lot of gems that I am finally picking up from him. He left a legacy in these videos. Prayers to his family and friends. May he rest in peace. 💙🕊💙
@@DeeFitnessLifeBze Its work but what we both wanted. Better to clock the years married than not. I agree with KS. Do not date unless you intend to marry.
After listening to about half this podcast, this is what this woman wants even if she doesn't realize it. She doesn't want marriage. She doesn't want kids. She wants a boyfriend who will take on her troubles and financial debt for the occasional booty call. Give me a thumbs down guys if you think I'm wrong. Or if you think she is "funny". Or if you think she is attractive. Because I think she is neither and on top of that she is also delusional. She drank the Koolaid and now she is a below average looking woman with no prospects and she thinks Kevin can wave a magic wand and fix what she spent the last 10 years messing up.
@@superdave8248 It has to be frustrating to Mr KS when you get multiple women in a row who think the same type of way. After those women want to battle, you get a woman who can't even answer a simple age question. She appeared smug and entitled, which is my own independent interpretation and first impression of her.
I have been beyond humbled I’m so grateful that I started watching him before I turned 18 my entire mindset and life goals have been changed completely I never really cared about a man’s money but now I’m more aware that I can’t get caught up with a guy that’s not serious about getting married before having kids and not letting my pride get in the way of my marriage not to nag be the peace in the home create an environment he wants to come back to not just doing Chores and cooking contribute in paying the bills and ofc much more putting him before me
Sir, we are too far gone! Many BW have simply given up. Their weight is out of control, in proportion to their attitudinal behavior. They would rather spend their time deflecting deviating and demonizing the Godfather rather than look in the mirror. They are undaunted and unabashed by your factorial information all while holding on to their several delusions.... From an doting optimist ITS OVER!
I’m crushed, I literally just found him yesterday and Googled him just to find out he passed. Very sad, this man was speaking the brutal truth and had a lot of work to do. Unfortunately my Mother didn’t teach me how to be a wife, she was too wrapped up in being a hateful narcissist and was very jealous of my youth & beauty. I was just a little girl and had no idea she was mentally ill, I just thought she hated me. Fortunately my Father loved me and made sure to make up for my mothers lack of motherly qualities. I understand completely what a man wants/needs and completely understand that men don’t want to be nagged, argued with and screamed at. Thankfully he instilled good values in me, he has passed I miss him terribly, I cannot count on my Mother to guide me properly. I was excited to encounter someone with the courage to speak the truth. RIP!
While it’s very sad that Kevin passed, he has left a goldmine of content that will be teaching people for decades. If you haven’t already discovered it, go look at channel. He did these lives 5-7 nights per week for over 2 years… that is 1000’s of hours to watch and learn from. Hope you enjoy it & it helps. 😃👍☮️
Everything you said was spot on, Samuel, because there's nothing worse than having a wife who has no real value, and is vain, narrow-minded, uncooperative, senseless, argumentative and disrespectful.
Imagine if there was a KS drinking game. Every time someone says “toxic”, “I feel like”, or act like they can’t hear when KS asks a basic question…take a shot. We’d all be sh_tfaced by the 2nd caller.
Yeah its classic Kevin: "how long was your latest relationsship?" "What?" Kevin: "What is your dress size?" "What?" Kevin: "who ended your last relationsship?" "What?" Kevin: "who singed for divorce?" "What u saying?"
We need the following T-Shirts "You Can't Make This Stuff Up" "When I Get My Masters" "I'm A PhD" "Winter's Coming" "Who Filed For Divorce?" "Are You In Therapy?"
This my first full live I’ve watched since he passed and man it just still feels unreal that it’s almost a year since he’s passed and I just haven’t felt the want to watch his content because I know they’ll never be another one coming , Rest in Peace Kevin man we definitely took you for granted but you for sure left behind timeless content .
I've noticed one main theme throughout all the conversations with women, and that is they all think they have TIME. I live each day thinking that it might be my last.
@Sarah I have no idea what your response means and I'm not a dude. What I'm saying is that these women seem to think they can put off their lives until their 30's or 40's while they live for "themselves", then its too late to start a family, etc. For example, "Oh, I'm going to have children one day" and they're already in their early 30s. Or I'm going to get married "one day", but there are so many other things they want to do FIRST.
@@povofpoa2220 , no no what I meant was that I don't waste my days away. I like to live each day to the fullest because as they say, we are not promised tomorrow. When I watch these KS videos, alot of the women are always saying "some day", but the time is NOW. But that might be something I've started learning as I get older.
@Sarah, no I just meant to live each day to the fullest, don't squander away your time. As for your comment about reproducing, I agree women can have kids later than 30s. Just watching these videos it was a common theme I noticed that many of the women aren't even considering something could happen and they should get their lives going. I admit, I probably didn't either at that age but I DID get married and have three children in my 20s and 30s. AS you get older, you realize how important "time" is and you don't wanna waste it.
@@destinixshakur I wasn’t taught either. My mother was a single mother. Don’t know my father. She never spoke about men to me or my sisters. Just told us to go to school & be independent. Do you for you. No wonder I had such a struggle when it came to dating. I understand when KS says that your mother is supposed to teach us how to be wives but what about the mothers who aren’t wives themselves?
Every single one of these women used the word “toxic” when describing relationships and I have a feeling none of them were actually in a truly “toxic” relationship. I think they just weren’t getting what “they wanted” or felt like they could “do better”
💯 Toxic to them is either: - I didn’t get what I wanted - Thinks the grass is greener on the other side of their inbox It’s there get out of jail free card without taking responsibility.
Gents… always be weary of a woman who says “I can be supportive.” This is a very narcissistic thing to say. It means they will only support you on their terms. Even their support of you will always circle back to being about them.
True indeed. All of their support is conditional while they expect unconditional support from you. It’s a losing proposition being with a woman like this.
I don't think I've ever heard a man use toxic as an excuse on why a relationship ended. I can tell you the reason why every relationship in my life ended in detail and none of them would involve the word toxic in them.
Toxic is just a buzzword these females throw around as a way to say “I couldn’t tame him and make him bend him to my will and do my bidding” essentially. Ironically if you were to gather all their exes up the very traits they describe as “toxic” are the same traits that attracted her to him in the first place.
@@deerick3109 I've used it to describe attitudes, habits, and things theyve specifically done but never contributed that as solely the reason a relationship ended. "Her constantly picking fights just to stir up drama was toxic"
Wow ! This stream was frightening. This why I’m taking my teenage son to Japan, Thailand and The Philippines this year. There is no way I would let one of those women in my house 💯
Deep down she is scared about how her Mom had to take care of her dad and doesn't want that for herself so she doesn't allow herself to become attached to a man by way of self sabotage. Her Mom had her hands full taking care of her Dad and might have been scared herself thus unknowing scared her daughter. She needs to look at how strong her Mom was and get counseling to address the things she either didn't pick up or wasn't taught. I feel for her.
I agree that her mom was busy with caring for her dad. Thus, she did not get to see their relationship before her dad got sick. Obviously, her parents loved each other greatly. But, she did not focus on the love, loyalty, respect and honor that her mom and dad had for each other. A love like that will give one strength to care for a sick Loved One. I hope that their daughter will not run from that type of love and that type of committed relationship out of fear that something will happen.
She was definitely traumatized about that part of her life because of her negative thought process.. that’s why she needs to talk to a counselor or therapist..
I finally have a solid plan at 29 years old. After getting a useless degree, having a failed engagement, and earning two low trade skills. Kevin gives the fatherly wisdom I just recently discovered in books. Shout out to Robert Greene and Dave Ramsey. Men, even if you wanted your 20s its not too late to put in the work to have better 30s.
I started from scratch at 33, now 5 years later I’m at 6 figures ....but it takes work and sacrifice, I stopped smoking weed, and got serious about a career and earning certifications
I dated a BW just like this. Even worse, a PHD grad. Same personality. They don't take this seriously. I ultimately moved to Asia and have zero regrets. Definitely dodged a bullet. KS saved my life and my legacy. RIP. Men, get your finances and game together so you have options to leave women like this alone. When you become better you deserve better.
Kevin saying marriage not being about partnership but instead duty and responsibility was an eye opener. I think that’s a line more young men should also hear.
Men hear about the duties of marriage from a young age. What men fail to see from a young age are incentives to be married. Women are told about the benefits of marriage but they aren't told of the responsibilities (duties) required of them to maintain the position.
My wife says this all the time. 👍🏾 I keep telling her to think about a podcast or a RUclips channel and she says women won’t listen: “They will hear me. They may even support me. But they won’t LISTEN.”
I'm white and I know for a fact that most white women of my age went to college to get a husband. In fact, we jokingly said that we were there working on our M.R.S. degree. The advice my father gave me was that whether I chose to go to a university or business school or technical college, I should get some sort of training so I could support myself IF I HAD TO and I would never have to live with a man who mistreated me simply because I was totally dependent on him financially. So, we were taught to get some sort of training so we could fall back on that IF our marriage didn't work out. It seems that most black women are taught to go to college and get a job and if the career doesn't work out they will fall back on the marriage. We have a totally different point of view. I was also never taught by my mother that men were my adversary. I was taught to be a wife. My mother and father were married almost 50 years and the marriage ended with the death of my father so I learned how to be a wife by watching them. I also learned to be a wife because my mother taught me how to be a wife. She taught me how to clean and sew and wash clothes and cook and how to care for babies and how to get along with a man. I thought there was no higher calling than to be a loving and supportive wife and mother who provided a stable home so our children could have a happy and healthy and secure home. I guess that's why I would never make a good feminist. Feminism is supposedly about giving women options...unless of course, the option you choose is to be a wife or mother and that doesn't fit the feminist narrative. Many young black women seem to think that when they marry their life is basically over and that's why they want to delay getting married for such a long time. They want to have their career at a certain place and they want to have a certain degree and all this must be done before they marry because when they marry their life is over. I guess I don't understand that. Where is it written that if you marry you have to stop working and drop out of school? I have three sisters and all four of us married and all four of us worked outside of the home to help our husbands provide the kind of lifestyle we wanted. The marriages of all four of us ended at the death of our husbands and there was not a divorce in the crowd. I believe mine was the shortest marriage and I was married for over 30 years before my marriage ended with the death of my husband. The attitude of many black women makes me sad.
My mother taught us the same thing. Perhaps with younger black women its a generational thing- where they fall back on marriage as a career option. Then again I am from the UK and if you are sitting around twiddling your thumbs waiting for a man to support you, you will be waiting your entire life! Our norms are very different
Exactly. Total pop culture stuff. It’s like a habit, people do it naturally and don’t even realize it or think deeply on it, if they think on it at all🤔
I think Kevin has run out of actresses. I say that, because this EXACT CONVERSATION happened before with THIS woman! I remember, because this was one of the first vids of his I watched. Clearly his sales grift is on point
First chic: Thought she was more attractive, than she really was. Thought she was more intelligent, than she really was. I'd always encounter females like her, while single.😢
Its his opinion. He isnt God so cannot say what will and wont happen in a womans life. He can only talk possibilities and worst case scenarios which he does.
@@silentwitness536 Honey what he says is irrelevant because the women arent the ones asking men out anyway. So all of this 'what do the men you want, want?' is irrelevant 😂
She rolled her eyes at the things that were actually attributes, proving that cooking and cleaning are things that she doesnt want to do. I was literally laughing out loud.
And that should be taught as a child.. you should wanna have a good home cooked meal and a clean home after the person who provides for the home comes in.. my gma taught me at least that
To me, talking about my wife now. She's feminine, wind in my sails, believe in my visions even more than I do at times. I pay for everything as for now, she's stayin at home with our daughter and we're starting a company together on the side of my main business. That's all I need. A Woman. Could make the list long but you get the picture. The intimacy is incredible important too, never deny your love pleasure.
@@Mondycole But he’s on point about a lot things. Men want to be valued, appreciated, respected. And we all, men and women think that we are better then we are when in reality most of us are average. And I don’t mean it in a derogatory way, that’s just the reality.
These girls were never taught these things,you have to understand that a lot of people in that age group parents were jacked up to the extreme,so who were going to teach them
The first woman provided a great opportunity. It's really how most modern Western women think. {not just black women} Kevin only had to point out the obvious. Or at least what's obvious to us men. These women seem to have no idea. They simply project their own feelings and wishes on to men.
I'm married to a really good loyal man. I put on weight over COVID and he never cheated on me or anything. I've spent two years making sure I lost that weight so I make sure I'm good enough for him. If women want to marry up they need to work hard to keep thier men.
Brilliant! You just answered a question I’ve had for 10 years..Who teaches you to be a wife? Your mother! Of course, my parents were married for 71 years, my mother was always an excellent wife and mother, she was tired of living and ill toward the end, but she refused to leave my father and waited until he died, she died a few months after he died..
How you know she was an excellent wife, u don’t know what that lady been thru and how much sht she had to deal with it and lie about just for u to make a comment thru those 71 years
So true about a girl being raised by her father. I was treated like a son by my father. And my husband when we were young pointed that out to me. The 21yo speech is mad aggressive. I truly applaud you Mr. Samuels trying to educate young women.
Take it from me… It’s much more taxing on your body and mind in EVERY way possible to start having children in your late 30s to early 40s. I got married at 38, had my first a week shy of my 40th birthday, had another at 41 and one more at 42. Fortunately I was extremely naturally fertile with no conception or pregnancy issues. I’m 59 now and thank god I was AND am still very healthy and active and my kids are awesome! But I am not the norm in this situation. That is why having children is best suited for those in their 20s and early 30s. Good luck, ma’am. You’ll need it.
back in the day, by the time we graduated high school, we were self sufficient. we were able to sew, cook, bake,do laundry, and when we went off to college, we had dual majors too. Usually by the 4th year we were cuffed (engaged). After graduation, we were married to our college beau. if we were still single after college, we relied on relatives, friends, socials and parties to meet him or her.
Older women seem to only sabotage younger women. Probably because they are still on the market themselves, and they can't compete unless they drag them down to their level. Or they simply can't stand the idea of younger women doing better than they did.
Agreed! But I would rather invest in my roth, llc, 403b, and IRA so when I'm 45 in 9 years I will have over 1 million. 50 I want to have 2.5 million and then I'll probably get back into traveling.
@@DJSpotG Thats not exactly a good promotion of Philly women when you have to mention her.. Shes not hot, not at all.. Amber was her best when she dated Kanye.. When he dropped her, that was the end
I’m from Philly and every guy I’ve ever encountered has told me “ you can’t be from Philly because if you were, why aren’t there more women like you”. Philly women are hard / difficult.
That first caller reminded me of my ex fiance. Thank the Most High we didn't gett married or it would have been terrible, she didn't want to be a wife either
@@rodplays3726 In short, RUclips is confused. Long version, some programmer put a ":" instead of a ";" or something goofy like that. I'm learning it myself right now and simple things like that can cause weird glitches that cause a domino effect with unpredictable consequences.
Looking at this video got me wishing i wasn’t an average man I know I get what I put out I’m truly happy I have a wife that loves me and she supports me She works from home and I work at a hospital in Louisville Kentucky All I can say is I’m glad Kevin been helping me think better and carry myself better as a man
Its kind of a double entendre. I think he meant that hes not putting them on his platform but at the same time he wasn't about to put them on to some game.
Having respect for oneself and of others, plus having modest decency is huge as a first impression anywhere you are can last the person a lifetime of positive results.
He has this platform to want to help them gain an understanding to realities of being a wife, what a man looks for… you’re not looking to be *a wife* with your ass, camel toe pics, & showing titty meat all on IG.. f the “labels” folks try to throw on everything 🤷🏾♂️ mfs can call it “sLuT ShAmInG” if they want, she’s not wifeable displaying herself in that light, a man only sees them as *an actual item* even if she were to get a relationship or marriage proposal 🤷🏾♂️
I’ve been binge watching his videos lately and I realized what a missed opportunity to ask an OG for advice. I would gladly ask for individual counseling at this point in my life. I’m 39 and would have loved to get the answers I need and go straight to the results. I have no problem with work ethic and learning from all sources.
Baby there is nothing wrong with a average man! A man that goes to work everyday, is respectful and kind, is a GOOD man! Been HAPPILY married to 1 man for 26 years. My husband and I are besties for life. We laugh, love a and pray together. My engagement ring that I still wear cost $699.00..My LOVE for him and his love for me is PRICELESS!
My husband is a high value man! We have worked hard together and made a good living financially..but honestly I say this often...I would have lived with him in a housing project..the LOVE , KINDNESS & RESPECT is PRICELESS!..
I love it, and wish y'all many happy years ❤️
A hardworking stable man is all I ever wanted. I want a man I can truly enjoy life with and he be my best friend raising our kids.
U r priceless. I've been blessed to find a woman just like u
@@michaeljones2773 Thank you Mr. Jones.
My husband retired at a salary of about $110,000. That was after getting a practical degree, working at the same hospital for 40 years, taking call and working his butt off, me penny pinching and clipping coupons while raising our kids, taking our "vacations" to see family or going camping, and him retiring at the age of 72. We did it together and both worked our tails off. And we started when I was 19 and he was 22. It takes a lifetime and dedication and commitment and devotion. And these girls think they can fall into it because they "deserve" it. Lord help me!!
Bless you ,you did it right.
The Internet is raising the mindset today. The ability to go through the process is what's missing. Work smarter not harder has been taken out of wack.... Luckily we have his info/content to help those who's ready to receive it.
Hope you raised some kids to have the same mindset! Did it right!
@@twizted3k 3 great kids, 2 amazing kids-in-law. 3rd kid sees all this nonsense and has decided getting married in this day and age is a dumb move.
@@lkreinmiller-author Can't blame your 3rd for feeling that way. It's a trap for men the way divorce is set up today. Women don't have to have any accountability for their behavior, leaving men powerless to demand mutual respect. I think marriage can work as originally intended with a prenup, but a prenup itself goes against the point of the vows you take at the alter/judge.
I wish like heck I had listened to this man before he passed away. He was the real deal. People like him is always taken away from us. Rest up brother...
Kevin and Patrice, two legends gone way too early.
I feel you on that sentiment. Found KS two weeks before his passing and can't believe I missed this ride.
@@TheMoogaKing I Feel The Same Way Yo
AGREED AGREED AGREED MY CONDOLENCES TO US ALL WHO HE TOUCHED TAUGHT AND TALKED REAL TO REAL WOMEN WILLING AND READY TO LISTEN
big facts i didn’t know who he was , and honestly he’s a blessing to me and to our world 🌎
All Kevin was trying to get a lot of us black women to understand is to be realistic and to date on our level.
...and respect the man in your life without despising them. You miss him and that's it. YOU DIE ALONE. However, if yout picked something out of this God bless you.
@@johnstonemuguro3896 thank you for your positive feedback 🙏🏾
I wish many women saw it like this. Most see it as attacks which are not.
@@MotivatedI It's up to us women individually to take the blinders off
Agreed, both ends too, men as well lol. Summary: I met a girl on a dating app yesterday we video called. And she went on a long rant on how she is tired of being a strong woman and she wants to be a stay at home mom etc and wants a man that brings in all the income...She was not in shape, the nice photos she had was her in a wig, how do i know? because she was on the call bare headed...she was quite delusional. I challenged her views by just asking her what she would offer a man like that etc and how does she feel she matches up to it etc she got mad. She was talking about how a guy she met on the app was too nice and she had to cut him off etc, From how she was talking I thought she was a knockout lol paired with her photos, obviously seeing her was a different story. She was all types of delusional, 26 years old and saying she isn't settling for less...but yet she is less. I'm sure there are tons delusional dudes out there too lol but as a heterosexual male I can only talk about my experiences.
A woman’s definition of Toxic is when the man doesn’t do what she wants him to do. 🤯
Correct
FACTS!! Went to couples counseling and she actually said, "if he would just do what I ask, everything would be okay!" The "female" therapist said, "that's part of the problem, you can't put your expectations on others!" Long story short, she was pissed at the therapist and we never went back and we never resolved our issues.
💯
Yup
exactly.
“Until you’re stable, relationships are off the table.”
- Bars
Gospel truth.
@Energetic Coach yep
I had this revealed to me today and you have affirmed it for me.
Bars exactly
Until you’re stable, you won’t be able to handle anything put on you.
DON DEMARCO!
forgive my ignorance but what does bars mean?
Kevin’s advice worked for me and my husband proposed within a year and we married 6 months later. Ladies, DO THE WORK!
Post a comment in 10 years. 3 years isn’t much. - KS🗣️
@@eyehashereyehadonai8036 who are you? This isn’t my first marriage so trust and believe, I CHOSE better and know better.
@@eyehashereyehadonai8036 the great I AM
@@eyehashereyehadonai8036 they aren’t gonna be worried about your bs comment in ten years they’re gonna be living their life something you need to be doing
@@Alexz5040 🙄Yet today, your Goofy A$$ is commenting. You could have kept that thought to yourself. You need to take several seats 🪑. Focus on these two words, “ SHUT” and “ UP”! Uncertain Hefa 🐮
Who is watching this right now in 2024 I sure do miss him saying hey big head
April 2024. I've been binge watching him.
I miss my boy dearly…He was The Siccest 😂🤣🤣🤣
🙋🏽♂️
Yes. I miss KS. I wanted so bad to speak with him before he died.
Me❤
I wonder if Kevin ever realised how potent his legacy would be. His videos will live on decades helping people all over the world.
He did he said it before he blew up. Saying his channel will be reviewed on in educational channels.
i got into him after he passed, sucks that he did but since i started late i feel like the amount of videos he has is enough to guide me for a lifetime
🤣
He died about a couple of months after this video.
I'm pretty sure he knew he was helping in some capacity. I admire his ability to move past the feminist and the few who are still single and will, in fact, die alone. My mother did, sadly! and even she said Kevin opened her eyes at 65 to a lot of the things she felt and later found, to be wrong about.
When my younger sister divorced her nice, respectful, highly-educated, and high earner husband for no reason in particular, my mother told her to use her head. She did it anyway. She was equally highly-educated and had been a very high earner too. He found another wife. She didn't find another husband. They did not have any children.
Your sister saved that man tbh. Bet he's living his best life.
@@ODEelephant He is indeed very happy. We still remain friends. He is more of a brother than the two I have.
IS YOUR SISTER DEAD..SHE CAN FIND A HUSBAND IF SHE WANTS ONE
Amen to that
They cannot conceive of unforeseen consequences because they are ch ildren
Kevin:"How old are you?"
Her:"Guess?"
Kevin:"yeah guess these nuts"
Never gets old 😂🤣😂
Hardcore 💀
🤣🤣 remember Kevin also said, "don't play with me."
@@kenardnorman4377 🤣🤣 yes, that was the cherry on top!
That one never gets old...I laugh every time 🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭
Right 🤣😂😭
When I met my wife I was working at People Ready and she was working in the corporate world making multiple times more that me and what convinced her that I was marriage material was A) when we went on a double date we got a flat and I changed the tire because the guy who’s car it was didn’t know how to, B) when she moved into a new apartment I got my homeboys and we boxed up and moved all her stuff in less that 5 hours and C) one time when we went on a date at an expensive restaurant and I paid for everything which showed her that, knowing the amount of money it cost and that I worked at a day labor company, she knew how much effort it took to save to pay for the date and that if we married she would be well taken care of. She knew that she had a good man who just happened to not have a good job. And once we got married I got a great job so she could be a stay at home mom. Now she has her own private therapy practice(after I paid for her to go back to school to get her MSW). Point is…average guys who work regular jobs many times make great husbands. Ladies, stop chasing the bag.
Congrats Sir!
Beautiful
This!!! ❤❤❤ Takes a hell of a lot more than money to be a high value man.
Good for you…
💯👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿🙌🏿
My wife left for the attention and thrill of another man, after abducting the children. All she had to do was lie and say that I hit her and they let her keep the children away from me. Life is already kicking her fast ass and I just sit back and watch. I had nothing 10 years ago after she took everything, but now I'm a Millionaire x2. I live a nice life near D.C. and she lives destitute in the ghetto.
Hoping you are able to rescue your children from destitute. Wishing you the best and a healthy relationship with someone else.
If you don’t mind I would like to have a convo on how you became a millionaire
@@SuperMan-qv7nd I'm curious my damn self 🤔🤔🤔
she belong to the streets 🙏🏽
Seinfeld “the best revenge is living well”
I'm a 24 year old man. Thank you, Kevin. Thank you for teaching me how to vet a woman to be a good wife. You're saving so many young men from headache after headache.
He couldn’t even save himself
@@i3ella553 You sound silly
@@i3ella553 you do sound silly
Nantha Grey - And you’ve saved yourself? Gtfoh with that bull shit. The fact you felt the need to come here and mock the man’s passing tells every man here all we need to know about you.
Go adopt a kitty and die alone. That’s your future. 30 years from now when miserable and alone, perhaps you can think back and thank Mr Samuels for helping to save many women from suffering your fate. Of course you won’t because you’re a woman and will accept no accountability whatsoever.
@@i3ella553 😂
Kevin looks absolutely exhausted here. Poor guy he literally died trying to help the black community.
😔
Abd most black women celebrated his death including family members I know. They are disgusting pos
Kevin looked so tired here. He worked soooo hard. Thanks for everything...I'm still watching, listening and learning. Miss you much 🖤🕊🙏🏾
He looked SO TIRED CUZ he DID SO MANY GD DRUGZZZZ !!! Which is WHY HES A DEAD LOSER NOW !!!!
He was a PATHETIC PIECE OF SHIT !!!! Good Riddance …!!
Yeah he wasn’t having the BS on that day
he died from the stress these broads were giving him. rip king samuels.
@@deathrager2404 I definitely think the same.... That or they paid ole girl he was with at the time of his death to kill him. He was trying to help us and they definitely didn't want that
@@jayryan75 but even if they didnt directly killed him, women are the result of what the system wants. i hope his death was not in vain, simply dealing with modern women = an early death. reminds me of al bundy cha cha cha. youtube that. he points at his wife during the cha cha cha theme and sings: early grave, cha cha cha. its hilarous as hell. and very truthful. just dealing with modern women results in an early death.
I still have yet to find a woman that says she offers wisdom, patience, respect and peace.
Not one ! (They don't think it's important)
feminenity and submisiveness👍🏾
Never gonna happen 😂
Wisdom, lol dream on
I offer all four, with no problem at all!🙂
“You were supposed to be getting taught this stuff from the time u were a girl… that’s why you’re 25 and u don’t even know who was supposed to have taught you … Women have failed you.” ~KS (THIS) 🤞🏾💯
Unfortunately, this is very accurate... 🎯
Absolutely!
Your listening to Kevin so I think women have failed u mam
Many older women have failed us and for this reason, even many of them suffer from their bad decisions. Say *NO* to ‘Boomers’ Intellect’ 😅
Okay!
At 25, I thought the same thing as this young lady. At 48 I see how wrong I was. I’m determined to teach my child better. If moms don’t teach our girls better, their futures will be difficult. Moms, we are responsible for preparing our daughters to win.
Too many black women waste their prime child bearing years chasing dreams and fantasies and then after they hit what we in the manosphere call "The Wall", which is at age 30, those same women turn around and try to get serious about men and building a family. Unfortunately, by then many successful men are looking at the new models on the block, age 19-29 to start families and build legacies with.
@Sarah You completely missed the point of what he was saying.
@Sarah He wasn't referring to his own relationship preferences. He literally just made a statement that has been observed over time and have lots of truth to it that most woman in their prime 20s waste it and wait too long until it's late by age 30 or up to find a man to build with. Unfortunately the case is always that most the good men that was turned down in favour of her having unrealistic fantasies about men. these good men will no longer be available and quite frankly tend have more options by age 30 especially if they have become high value men.
im 17 and more prepared for my future than her😂 she’s got some soul searching to do. every time you ask why someone is going to college they don’t have an answer or is going for “fun” it’s sad.
Looking at the generation of woman their mothers have failed them seriously
Miss this man. Going on a year and this man is still saving relationships and building character in people. A true legend. Real truth always lives on. R.I.P Godfather
U pales be all over our folks content quit watching learning stealing and copying from us yall weirdos
“Becoming toxic” must be some new buzz word/ phrase these days, too many women throw that around now, I’ve noticed… So glad I’m out the game, Smh…
🙏🏾
Toxic is thrown around Like Cap
It's basically a word that describes what attracted them to the person in the first place lol
Toxic, clout , cap, savage
Na fr. For me, the only way to win is not to play
These delusional women done gave this man ten years of presidential gray in a single year…. Man… there ain’t a single amount you could pay me to deal with the narcissists he has to bring down to earth every night.
😂😂😂
Oh funny and true
But the thing is even after the conversation he still hasn't brought them down to earth.
My hair has grayed a lot just from listening to this channel for a year.
@@adrianprince7266 yea most people don't change, we're creatures of habit and comfort is easily accessed now.
Even after his passing he's educating, and bringing light to people on this stuff, R.I.P. brother Samuels.
This man is, I mean, is, and will continue to be a priceless GIFT to the black community, and to our world in general! Rest on my brother!
He is priceless gift to the white community too. In fact, he is a priceless gift to all men of all races.
@@tomniebrzydowski3759He said that already; take your needy mind elsewhere.
As an older woman, it has been my experience that younger women don’t want to respect our advice about men. “What do we know? We’re old school.” And, more importantly, they don’t have the stamina, discipline, or heart to play the game to win. The programming they are under is too ingrained in their psyche and they are too emotional to play the long game. THAT’s FACTS!
Thats the sad part, but honest. I learn a lot of from older men and women. I'm only 27 and some of my greatest conversations have been with 70 - 90 year olds. If no one my age/generation as ever told you, I gladly will. Thank you so much for your education and being. I believe the older generations provide the manual for the basics of life if that makes sense.
Please give me some wisdom. I don’t really have older women around me
The other sad part is that so many modern women think that all these men they meet, and date are replaceable and think they can just throw the guy away and find a new one instantly with just one swipe. That's why many women end up lonely or settling with men that they're not even really that attracted too, bc they let all their other good options go thinking they could do better. We only got so much time with dating bc it becomes much harder as we age. Not impossible but much harder. Nobody has to be in a relationship if they don't want to. That's a personal choice but there may be some consequences. I'm sure it gets very lonely to still be the single one while everyone else around you after a certain age has someone and a family. It can't just be one big party forever.
I think it has to do more with this social media... Also some set the bar so high that it makes it impossible to find this "perfect" relationship... There is no such thing.... Not saying lower yourself but bend a little...
You’re right. I think that’s my problem. I don’t have the stamina or heart to play the game to win. Dating is exhausting.
These women are under the delusion that getting a husband is like going shopping and picking them off a shelf.
It is though. It’s not that hard
@@SynterraSteen bird
Is easy to get a guy to has sex with but not a husband. I know l been there.
@@linglam1170 thank you a woman with accountability and sense
@@SynterraSteen You sound like one of the lost and delusional women that Kevin references. It's men who make the ultimate decision to get married, so you don't pick a husband. Women have their way picking and choosing men to fornicate with. Then from there it's men who decide they want relationships or marriage. Women control sex. Men control relationships and marriage. Simple and plain. But most women's heads are so inflated from the number of guys approaching them for sex that they always fail to realize that men are approaching them for sex and for not marriage. Here is a common, everyday example showing who controls what. Do men or women ask this question "I'm not having sex with you until you're ready to be in a relationship"? Women, obviously ask such questions, not men because men have never been known to need or want to be in relationships in order to have sex. That question shows that by withholding sex she is in control of sex and by waiting for his decision to be in a relationship that he is in control of the relationship. Get it now? Geesh!
Honestly Kevin, I think a lot of these women today are fine with being 200+lbs, buying a dog and dying alone. They've bought into the idea of independence, feminism and men being seen as expendable. This country may be on it's way to becoming a bigger version of Japan.
I agree. This independent BS is the wave they are riding.
Some decide to be with another woman.
Great insight add to that the duldos and other devices to satisfy their toxic pleasures. This independence shows how weak they really are tbh.
But let's see what happens when men stop building
Japan's going through its modern social woes, but despite the increasing divorce rates + indie women, traditional values still just about binding the society together. Not as far gone as USA. Both experiments of industrilialised capitalist democracies, showing RofW the social ills on horizon. Not that one is better than the other. They each have acute specific problems that the other may soon confront
She looked so disgusted when she was forced to say that she can cook and clean.
What modern women bring to the table:
- sarcasm
- pettiness
- independence
- partnership on her terms
Well put!
You put that so perfect…Thank you!
I am not getting married so it doesn't matter. I will be debt free in June 2022. I can't wait
@@jwa7378 Bless your heart
Well said
With tears in my eyes 👀, I miss this man's work! Rest in power!
RIP
How? It's all still posted for your viewing pleasure.
He would say man up and quit crying😂
RIP Mr. Samuels.
You've lit the torch. Rest assured, Men will carry that torch and never let that light die.
Your body may have given out, but your legacy and your message will forever endure.
Rest easy. The hard work you put in, was not in vain. You got the ball rolling, and it will never stop.
Thank you, and rest easy. We got this.
💯💯💯. Time for redemption
We love you and miss you Kevin. Been going back rewatching and your works and mind were so therapeutic and helpful, continue to rest bro
The 25 year old "Philly" looked at her mom's situation taking care of her sickly father as a waste of her mom's life, rather than seeing her mother bare her cross for her husband and the marriage. She learned the wrong lesson from seeing her mother struggle. The result is now fear and anxiety about marriage. When the result of your life experiences is fear and reservation, you were either taught the wrong values or learned the wrong values in life. She would ultimately be a woman that would not honor her marriage vows, or never commit to a marriage.
Right. She should've seen that situation as it being exactly what she was supposed to be doing as a wife. Running out on someone at the end of their life is typically the wrong way to go. And seeing this example in her parents should've inspired her to want to be like that. It's blatantly obvious she learned from only the negative side of relationships and had chosen to not take accountability of her poor choices and outlook.
She's scared to be in the position of her mother, but doesn't think about what would happen if she was in her father's position. Being chronically ill alone is no joke.
I think you have to add in a lack of work ethic as well. She wants the Disney princess marriage and life. When as anyone that is married knows it is work. It is worth it in the end. This her mom should have told her.
Man and Wo - Man, if some of you would take the time to look at the Bible in an optimistic way, then who you were told who wrote the Bible. Try the perception way when you read the Bible. It's only a tool for life, it will only give you wisdom knowledge and understanding in many situations.
@@MimiRAM0NE 🤦🏽♀️😢
I would have listened to Mr. KS every day had I known about him. I found out about him through another blogger who interviewed him just within the last six months. I missed a lot of gems that I am finally picking up from him. He left a legacy in these videos. Prayers to his family and friends. May he rest in peace. 💙🕊💙
I listened to him for almost a year, Changed my life being a wife, woman and mom honestly.
@@DeeFitnessLifeBze Married 28 years. I am going to continue to apply what I didn't know. I see changes already. Be encouraged my SiStar.
@@aureliapetty-owens6333 omg 28yrs lots of respect to you.
@@DeeFitnessLifeBze Its work but what we both wanted. Better to clock the years married than not. I agree with KS. Do not date unless you intend to marry.
@@DeeFitnessLifeBze Thank you. 🥰
Kevin : "how old are you?"
Black woman : "guess"
Kevin ends the conversation
Me: 😂😂😂😂😂
She wasn't readyyy 🥶
Usher singing in the background : "Please don't waaaaaaste my time" 😂😂😂
After listening to about half this podcast, this is what this woman wants even if she doesn't realize it.
She doesn't want marriage. She doesn't want kids. She wants a boyfriend who will take on her troubles and financial debt for the occasional booty call.
Give me a thumbs down guys if you think I'm wrong. Or if you think she is "funny". Or if you think she is attractive. Because I think she is neither and on top of that she is also delusional. She drank the Koolaid and now she is a below average looking woman with no prospects and she thinks Kevin can wave a magic wand and fix what she spent the last 10 years messing up.
@@superdave8248 It has to be frustrating to Mr KS when you get multiple women in a row who think the same type of way. After those women want to battle, you get a woman who can't even answer a simple age question. She appeared smug and entitled, which is my own independent interpretation and first impression of her.
😂😂😂😂😂
I have been beyond humbled I’m so grateful that I started watching him before I turned 18 my entire mindset and life goals have been changed completely I never really cared about a man’s money but now I’m more aware that I can’t get caught up with a guy that’s not serious about getting married before having kids and not letting my pride get in the way of my marriage not to nag be the peace in the home create an environment he wants to come back to not just doing Chores and cooking contribute in paying the bills and ofc much more putting him before me
Brother you were right on point. No serious man wants witty, smart ass, snarky conversation with his woman.
Shut up! Yes U do meat hammer.
KS: "How old are you?"
Her: "Guess."
She was ready for the mental gymnastics to begin lmao 🤦🏽♂️
She warmed up in a leotard that says "JUICY"
They all play mind games
She failed miserably 😁
@@dyelawnhotfire lmao this is gold
Sir, we are too far gone! Many BW have simply given up. Their weight is out of control, in proportion to their attitudinal behavior. They would rather spend their time deflecting deviating and demonizing the Godfather rather than look in the mirror. They are undaunted and unabashed by your factorial information all while holding on to their several delusions.... From an doting optimist ITS OVER!
I’m crushed, I literally just found him yesterday and Googled him just to find out he passed. Very sad, this man was speaking the brutal truth and had a lot of work to do.
Unfortunately my Mother didn’t teach me how to be a wife, she was too wrapped up in being a hateful narcissist and was very jealous of my youth & beauty. I was just a little girl and had no idea she was mentally ill, I just thought she hated me.
Fortunately my Father loved me and made sure to make up for my mothers lack of motherly qualities. I understand completely what a man wants/needs and completely understand that men don’t want to be nagged, argued with and screamed at.
Thankfully he instilled good values in me, he has passed I miss him terribly, I cannot count on my Mother to guide me properly. I was excited to encounter someone with the courage to speak the truth. RIP!
While it’s very sad that Kevin passed, he has left a goldmine of content that will be teaching people for decades. If you haven’t already discovered it, go look at channel. He did these lives 5-7 nights per week for over 2 years… that is 1000’s of hours to watch and learn from. Hope you enjoy it & it helps. 😃👍☮️
I could do relate to the mother situation, my mother is a narcissist too. Didn’t have a father and I made so many mistakes. Smh
Psy ops had to take him out cause he was fixing to many things...
@@moneroai Black ops
Most women think that "dancing in the sheets" is the "b all/end all"---- water into top shelf whisky.
Everything you said was spot on, Samuel, because there's nothing worse than having a wife who has no real value, and is vain, narrow-minded, uncooperative, senseless, argumentative and disrespectful.
That was my ex, all that you said I experienced it with her. One Ball Busting B@#$h.
His name is Kevin not Samuel
Have some respect Mr./Sir Samuels he's dignified respected elder
But you're right
Imagine if there was a KS drinking game. Every time someone says “toxic”, “I feel like”, or act like they can’t hear when KS asks a basic question…take a shot. We’d all be sh_tfaced by the 2nd caller.
Or alcohol poisoning before the second call 🙃
Wrong! About 4 minutes into the first call!!!! 🤣🤣🤣
Sounds like a good idea for a watch party
We would die from The toxic alcohol.
Yeah its classic
Kevin: "how long was your latest relationsship?"
"What?"
Kevin: "What is your dress size?"
"What?"
Kevin: "who ended your last relationsship?"
"What?"
Kevin: "who singed for divorce?"
"What u saying?"
We need the following T-Shirts
"You Can't Make This Stuff Up"
"When I Get My Masters"
"I'm A PhD"
"Winter's Coming"
"Who Filed For Divorce?"
"Are You In Therapy?"
@krispy kreme 👍🏾😩
💀💀
“Fix your Smoke detector.”
@krispy kreme Missed that one.
"Let's Talk About It"
@45:00 “Marriage isn’t about partnership, it’s about duty and responsibility.” That one hit me deep.
Not true
@@dannieisKING Even robin had to take orders from Batman 🤷♂️
It truly is duty and responsibility!!!
@@biggssmalls7281 right on!!!!
@@dannieisKING could you tell us your marriage success story please?
This my first full live I’ve watched since he passed and man it just still feels unreal that it’s almost a year since he’s passed and I just haven’t felt the want to watch his content because I know they’ll never be another one coming , Rest in Peace Kevin man we definitely took you for granted but you for sure left behind timeless content .
I've noticed one main theme throughout all the conversations with women, and that is they all think they have TIME. I live each day thinking that it might be my last.
@Sarah I have no idea what your response means and I'm not a dude. What I'm saying is that these women seem to think they can put off their lives until their 30's or 40's while they live for "themselves", then its too late to start a family, etc. For example, "Oh, I'm going to have children one day" and they're already in their early 30s. Or I'm going to get married "one day", but there are so many other things they want to do FIRST.
that's a sad stressful way of living yikes. Do yourself a favor and don't listen to kitten Samuels. You won't regret it
@Sarah She said she lives everyday thinking that it might be her last.
Sounds pretty sad and stressfull.
@@povofpoa2220 , no no what I meant was that I don't waste my days away. I like to live each day to the fullest because as they say, we are not promised tomorrow. When I watch these KS videos, alot of the women are always saying "some day", but the time is NOW. But that might be something I've started learning as I get older.
@Sarah, no I just meant to live each day to the fullest, don't squander away your time. As for your comment about reproducing, I agree women can have kids later than 30s. Just watching these videos it was a common theme I noticed that many of the women aren't even considering something could happen and they should get their lives going. I admit, I probably didn't either at that age but I DID get married and have three children in my 20s and 30s. AS you get older, you realize how important "time" is and you don't wanna waste it.
"Marriage is not a partnership, its a duty."
Duely Noted.
It is tho facts
@@destinixshakur had to learn this in my own marriage!
@@elizabethdavis8610 I had to learn this through time . I was not taught
@@destinixshakur I wasn’t taught either. My mother was a single mother. Don’t know my father. She never spoke about men to me or my sisters. Just told us to go to school & be independent. Do you for you. No wonder I had such a struggle when it came to dating. I understand when KS says that your mother is supposed to teach us how to be wives but what about the mothers who aren’t wives themselves?
It's actually both.
Every single one of these women used the word “toxic” when describing relationships and I have a feeling none of them were actually in a truly “toxic” relationship. I think they just weren’t getting what “they wanted” or felt like they could “do better”
That's exactly what it is. These hos don't know what toxic is
💯 Toxic to them is either:
- I didn’t get what I wanted
- Thinks the grass is greener on the other side of their inbox
It’s there get out of jail free card without taking responsibility.
Kevin we are so thankful for having had you, made a lasting effect on us men for decades to come!
Gents… always be weary of a woman who says “I can be supportive.” This is a very narcissistic thing to say. It means they will only support you on their terms. Even their support of you will always circle back to being about them.
Unfortunately wasted a cpl of years with someone who was exactly like this
I'm currently dealing with someone like this
True indeed. All of their support is conditional while they expect unconditional support from you. It’s a losing proposition being with a woman like this.
@@kirbyaugustine761 imagine not paying any bills until you were completely satisfied by every thing she did. no one wants to talk about that
@@eyeamawake I COULD pay the mortgage, but you're gonna have to step your head game up🤷🏽♂️
I hear "toxic" and any sympathy I have is right out the window.
I don't think I've ever heard a man use toxic as an excuse on why a relationship ended. I can tell you the reason why every relationship in my life ended in detail and none of them would involve the word toxic in them.
Toxic is just a buzzword these females throw around as a way to say “I couldn’t tame him and make him bend him to my will and do my bidding” essentially. Ironically if you were to gather all their exes up the very traits they describe as “toxic” are the same traits that attracted her to him in the first place.
Yep and narcissistic
@@deerick3109 I've used it to describe attitudes, habits, and things theyve specifically done but never contributed that as solely the reason a relationship ended. "Her constantly picking fights just to stir up drama was toxic"
The god father is still…. UNDEFEATED!!!!
Logical process, intelligent forethought & balls will never lose. Sorry.
@@SaveYourselfGents expansive vocabulary and articulate speech
120-0 out here and going!
Wow ! This stream was frightening.
This why I’m taking my teenage son to Japan, Thailand and The Philippines this year.
There is no way I would let one of those women in my house 💯
HELL YEAHHHHHH!!!!!!
He could get a catalog from those countries. Teens love to shop online.
One of “ these women” was yo momma
You're a great father. I salute you sir
Deep down she is scared about how her Mom had to take care of her dad and doesn't want that for herself so she doesn't allow herself to become attached to a man by way of self sabotage. Her Mom had her hands full taking care of her Dad and might have been scared herself thus unknowing scared her daughter. She needs to look at how strong her Mom was and get counseling to address the things she either didn't pick up or wasn't taught. I feel for her.
Wow I love it
I agree that her mom was busy with caring for her dad. Thus, she did not get to see their relationship before her dad got sick. Obviously, her parents loved each other greatly. But, she did not focus on the love, loyalty, respect and honor that her mom and dad had for each other. A love like that will give one strength to care for a sick Loved One. I hope that their daughter will not run from that type of love and that type of committed relationship out of fear that something will happen.
Her seeing her mom taking care of her dad never leaving even after it gets tuff should be a good thing not bad that should heal you not scar you
She was definitely traumatized about that part of her life because of her negative thought process.. that’s why she needs to talk to a counselor or therapist..
What if she gets sick??
“Women throw the word toxic around like men throw around the word entrepreneur”….
-KS
That made me laugh out loud seriously because it’s true!
you should see how these dating profiles throw around “ceo”...shit is crazy
I’m an entrepreneur... I successfully fail business ideas 🙆🏾♂️... spectacularly...
@@mercandog507 everybody on LinkedIn is an entrepreneur
I finally have a solid plan at 29 years old. After getting a useless degree, having a failed engagement, and earning two low trade skills. Kevin gives the fatherly wisdom I just recently discovered in books. Shout out to Robert Greene and Dave Ramsey. Men, even if you wanted your 20s its not too late to put in the work to have better 30s.
What trade or business did u learn or start?
Add Esther Vilar Manipulated Man. That's a manifesto for all guys.
You are correct Brother. Stay on your purpose. No matter what. I'm in my early 50s, and I can offer you encouragement from the other side. Good luck.
@@lazuligrotto5674 EMT and LMT.
I started from scratch at 33, now 5 years later I’m at 6 figures ....but it takes work and sacrifice, I stopped smoking weed, and got serious about a career and earning certifications
I dated a BW just like this. Even worse, a PHD grad. Same personality. They don't take this seriously. I ultimately moved to Asia and have zero regrets. Definitely dodged a bullet. KS saved my life and my legacy. RIP.
Men, get your finances and game together so you have options to leave women like this alone. When you become better you deserve better.
We’ve been seeing how important “D” discipline is
🙏🏾
Lol 😂
I've cleared out all my 304s and it optimized my routine and focus, it works, but it's just a choice
@@jv3music damn straight brother
STI? No thanks.
Kevin saying marriage not being about partnership but instead duty and responsibility was an eye opener. I think that’s a line more young men should also hear.
Men hear about the duties of marriage from a young age.
What men fail to see from a young age are incentives to be married.
Women are told about the benefits of marriage but they aren't told of the responsibilities (duties) required of them to maintain the position.
Like solus said as young men we already taught dat its yall that find it surprising
@@solusaldraindamn that was perfectly said never thought of that great comment.
Men understand that it's duty . Women leave the relationships. That's the point he was making
Not true. Older women do try to help out younger women. They don’t listen, because they think they know what’s best.
💯🔥🔥🔥💯
Agreed. Some older women sabotage younger ones, but mostly younger ones don’t want to listen to wiser ones.
My wife says this all the time. 👍🏾
I keep telling her to think about a podcast or a RUclips channel and she says women won’t listen: “They will hear me. They may even support me. But they won’t LISTEN.”
Older women don’t generally give younger women good advices because the see them as their competition
🎯
I'm white and I know for a fact that most white women of my age went to college to get a husband. In fact, we jokingly said that we were there working on our M.R.S. degree. The advice my father gave me was that whether I chose to go to a university or business school or technical college, I should get some sort of training so I could support myself IF I HAD TO and I would never have to live with a man who mistreated me simply because I was totally dependent on him financially.
So, we were taught to get some sort of training so we could fall back on that IF our marriage didn't work out. It seems that most black women are taught to go to college and get a job and if the career doesn't work out they will fall back on the marriage. We have a totally different point of view. I was also never taught by my mother that men were my adversary. I was taught to be a wife. My mother and father were married almost 50 years and the marriage ended with the death of my father so I learned how to be a wife by watching them. I also learned to be a wife because my mother taught me how to be a wife. She taught me how to clean and sew and wash clothes and cook and how to care for babies and how to get along with a man.
I thought there was no higher calling than to be a loving and supportive wife and mother who provided a stable home so our children could have a happy and healthy and secure home. I guess that's why I would never make a good feminist. Feminism is supposedly about giving women options...unless of course, the option you choose is to be a wife or mother and that doesn't fit the feminist narrative.
Many young black women seem to think that when they marry their life is basically over and that's why they want to delay getting married for such a long time. They want to have their career at a certain place and they want to have a certain degree and all this must be done before they marry because when they marry their life is over. I guess I don't understand that. Where is it written that if you marry you have to stop working and drop out of school? I have three sisters and all four of us married and all four of us worked outside of the home to help our husbands provide the kind of lifestyle we wanted. The marriages of all four of us ended at the death of our husbands and there was not a divorce in the crowd. I believe mine was the shortest marriage and I was married for over 30 years before my marriage ended with the death of my husband. The attitude of many black women makes me sad.
My mother taught us the same thing. Perhaps with younger black women its a generational thing- where they fall back on marriage as a career option. Then again I am from the UK and if you are sitting around twiddling your thumbs waiting for a man to support you, you will be waiting your entire life! Our norms are very different
Splendid. Breath of fresh air. I think all you've mentioned has been totally missed from this generation.
"Toxic is a buzzword that women throw around like men throw around entrepreneur"
Lol😂👍🏾
Exactly. Total pop culture stuff.
It’s like a habit, people do it naturally and don’t even realize it or think deeply on it, if they think on it at all🤔
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. So true!
Hahaha YES 😆
NOT even close. Women throw around the word toxic way more. Worst part is they are the toxic ones 🤣
Kevin tells her school didn't help her, and her response is she can go again? 😅
second times the charm right.
😂😂😂
She will find her futur husband at school = she will return riding the Cc
The 8th year is the charm
Hahahahaha
I think Kevin has run out of actresses. I say that, because this EXACT CONVERSATION happened before with THIS woman! I remember, because this was one of the first vids of his I watched. Clearly his sales grift is on point
"The ring's just a placeholder," she says.
Yea, she's definitely looking for a bigger, better deal than what the current guy offers.
Yes that's indeed what that meant. Damn! The meaning of that statement just flew over my head. Good catch.
good catch, that is exactly what she meant
This makes me see what mistakes i made,and i had no plan....we need this outward talk...honest talk
First chic: Thought she was more attractive, than she really was.
Thought she was more intelligent, than she really was.
I'd always encounter females like her, while single.😢
To many he seems harsh but he literally is just telling the truth.
I can not do nothing but respect it.
The truth is harsh for delusional people.
Its his opinion. He isnt God so cannot say what will and wont happen in a womans life. He can only talk possibilities and worst case scenarios which he does.
@@TheUltimateRage in the bible it says woe to those that hate the truth
@@blackice7408 what is the truth?
@@silentwitness536 Honey what he says is irrelevant because the women arent the ones asking men out anyway. So all of this 'what do the men you want, want?' is irrelevant 😂
She rolled her eyes at the things that were actually attributes, proving that cooking and cleaning are things that she doesnt want to do. I was literally laughing out loud.
So sad
And that should be taught as a child.. you should wanna have a good home cooked meal and a clean home after the person who provides for the home comes in.. my gma taught me at least that
Right! Im like cooking for your man is a good thing. But she isn't thrilled about it lol she definitely doesn't want marriage
You can see Kevin shake his head when her funky ahh rolled her eyes.
To me, talking about my wife now. She's feminine, wind in my sails, believe in my visions even more than I do at times. I pay for everything as for now, she's stayin at home with our daughter and we're starting a company together on the side of my main business.
That's all I need. A Woman.
Could make the list long but you get the picture. The intimacy is incredible important too, never deny your love pleasure.
As a man, I’m learning so much from his videos.
Me too bro
@@Mondycole But he’s on point about a lot things. Men want to be valued, appreciated, respected. And we all, men and women think that we are better then we are when in reality most of us are average. And I don’t mean it in a derogatory way, that’s just the reality.
I'm convinced that women under 30 don't like being a woman and what it means to be a wife💯
@Black Boy King TV Lmao that's like asking men to study a Bible about God the Mother and blaming males for the downfall of humanity...get real lol
These girls were never taught these things,you have to understand that a lot of people in that age group parents were jacked up to the extreme,so who were going to teach them
@ black boy king TV..thats funny as hell...All Women..really!.lol
When a woman says the relationship was toxic it means she was toxic.
"Guess deez nuts" 🤣 what a champion. R.I.P my man. So educational. The world is darker without you and your lessons and humor.
Man I'm dead 🤣💀
Belly laugh right there. Basically saying "I ain't playin with you"
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣💀💀💀⚰️⚰️
He taught men not to allow women to play games them. You play games, you dismissed expeditiously!
His memory will be a comfort in dark times
"Wow" - A poster child for everything KS speaks about.
The first woman provided a great opportunity. It's really how most modern Western women think. {not just black women} Kevin only had to point out the obvious. Or at least what's obvious to us men. These women seem to have no idea. They simply project their own feelings and wishes on to men.
I think he answered his question with this show 😅🤦🏾♂️
KS reminds me so much of my dad. Listening and learning from my dad made me the person I am today.
Does he start out every conversation with a "Back in my days...."
If that’s your idea of a father figure, you’ve got a serious problem
I'm married to a really good loyal man. I put on weight over COVID and he never cheated on me or anything. I've spent two years making sure I lost that weight so I make sure I'm good enough for him. If women want to marry up they need to work hard to keep thier men.
Same 😊
Brilliant! You just answered a question I’ve had for 10 years..Who teaches you to be a wife? Your mother! Of course, my parents were married for 71 years, my mother was always an excellent wife and mother, she was tired of living and ill toward the end, but she refused to leave my father and waited until he died, she died a few months after he died..
71 years??!!!!. They were made for each other and your mother is one of the greatest of all. 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌
@@JudahLPV 🙌🏽
Yas! 🙌🏾
How you know she was an excellent wife, u don’t know what that lady been thru and how much sht she had to deal with it and lie about just for u to make a comment thru those 71 years
Our parents are our role models.
So true about a girl being raised by her father. I was treated like a son by my father. And my husband when we were young pointed that out to me. The 21yo speech is mad aggressive. I truly applaud you Mr. Samuels trying to educate young women.
🎵 Addicted to your good lies... til I find a better one 🎵
That song speaks volumes
Take it from me…
It’s much more taxing on your body and mind in EVERY way possible to start having children in your late 30s to early 40s. I got married at 38, had my first a week shy of my 40th birthday, had another at 41 and one more at 42. Fortunately I was extremely naturally fertile with no conception or pregnancy issues. I’m 59 now and thank god I was AND am still very healthy and active and my kids are awesome! But I am not the norm in this situation. That is why having children is best suited for those in their 20s and early 30s. Good luck, ma’am. You’ll need it.
You are literally the only advisor and influencer I’ve listened to. Love your content. The knowledge and education in this is great. Keep it up Kevin.
I wanna see an interview that has a high value woman on there that meets his expectations
They probably all wifed up.
Oprah Winfrey
Church women.
You’ll never see that because it wouldn’t get hits.
That’s the point they wouldn’t come on the show, they have no need to
She’s gonna get it after this, she has enough humility to figure it out.🙏🏿💯
“Philly has some of the worst women in the world” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣💀💀💀💀☠️☠️☠️
I'm from Philly he ain't lying 😂😂😂😂
WOW!! I’m a southern girl. If I ever become single…I’ll move there. Be sweet. And be peace to me a Philly man.
I lost it when he said that cause its true 😖😖😂😂😂😂
Facts. I'm from north philly.
Think they bad come to newark nj
“I want to be ready for marriage.”
Translation: “I want to sample as many men as I can in the next 5 years.”
Womanese
@@ezramantini8078 it took many years but I became fluent 😆
@@healthcoachrich 🤣🤣💯💯🔥
She wants to try on as many as possible before making a decision.
back in the day, by the time we graduated high school, we were self sufficient. we were able to sew, cook, bake,do laundry, and when we went off to college, we had dual majors too. Usually by the 4th year we were cuffed (engaged). After graduation, we were married to our college beau. if we were still single after college, we relied on relatives, friends, socials and parties to meet him or her.
Elder woman giving young women advice would mean they learned from their mistakes.
....or they passing the mistake on to the next generation....
Depends on the person. Like at the gym plenty of outshape dudes are acting like they swole and give shitty unsolicited advice.
Yea they don't gaf. Most women don't even raise their daughters to be better. They want them to be the same.
Older women seem to only sabotage younger women. Probably because they are still on the market themselves, and they can't compete unless they drag them down to their level. Or they simply can't stand the idea of younger women doing better than they did.
@@benanders4412 Took the words outta my mouth...Older chicks love letting younger women DROWN!!
This is sad. And entertaining. And educational. And all that makes it addicting
Mr Samuels you don’t need to be independently wealthy to travel the world…..you just need to know how to manage your money.
AGREED!!!
Agreed! But I would rather invest in my roth, llc, 403b, and IRA so when I'm 45 in 9 years I will have over 1 million. 50 I want to have 2.5 million and then I'll probably get back into traveling.
That’s true
You don’t need to be wealthy but you can’t be broke either.
Yes indeed. You can do many things if you can manage money
this man was a beacon to the black community and people mostly women cheered when he passed
KS: Philly got some of the worst women in the world.
Guest: Am I one of them?
KS: So far, you're right on par. 🤣
😂😂😂
Look at Amber Rose, she might be the finest one that has came out of there... And Thats scary
@@MRHEEL-ys2rq what about eve???
@@DJSpotG Thats not exactly a good promotion of Philly women when you have to mention her.. Shes not hot, not at all.. Amber was her best when she dated Kanye.. When he dropped her, that was the end
@@MRHEEL-ys2rq I think I am 😍
I’m from Philly and every guy I’ve ever encountered has told me “ you can’t be from Philly because if you were, why aren’t there more women like you”. Philly women are hard / difficult.
Philly ....uptown ...its half and half 🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️
@@kingboss2158 I’m from West Oak Lane and they’re a mixed bag last I checked. Haven’t lived in Philly In over 15 years…😕
Ate the women in Philly that bad?.
Alot of women from Northern states have vast amounts of masculine energy.
@RonYo most sisters from the Northeast used to have a level of style about themselves, but it looks like things have changed in Philly, sad.
love his channel. Found out about him after his passing. I watch his videos almost daily.
If your retirement plan revolves around "getting married" you're screwed already.
This most be coming from a woman who didn't have a plan and now she's a cat lady
That first caller reminded me of my ex fiance. Thank the Most High we didn't gett married or it would have been terrible, she didn't want to be a wife either
Why is this comment 3 months ago now im lost
Shalom brother! ..... Hope your doing good ... All praises!
@@rodplays3726 In short, RUclips is confused.
Long version, some programmer put a ":" instead of a ";" or something goofy like that. I'm learning it myself right now and simple things like that can cause weird glitches that cause a domino effect with unpredictable consequences.
@@RandomPerson-nd2ey lmao thank you that made me laugh i dont know why
Ayo wthell we got a time traveler in the chat!
Looking at this video got me wishing i wasn’t an average man I know I get what I put out
I’m truly happy I have a wife that loves me and she supports me
She works from home and I work at a hospital in Louisville Kentucky
All I can say is I’m glad Kevin been helping me think better and carry myself better as a man
Good bless you brother. You can still change your situation. Theres so many ways to make money these days.
Good for you my man!
Bless you and your family
The fact that he said if I go on your IG and you got your booty all out he isn’t going to put you on. Don’t let that go over your head females.
Ha
Its kind of a double entendre. I think he meant that hes not putting them on his platform but at the same time he wasn't about to put them on to some game.
Having respect for oneself and of others, plus having modest decency is huge as a first impression anywhere you are can last the person a lifetime of positive results.
He has this platform to want to help them gain an understanding to realities of being a wife, what a man looks for… you’re not looking to be *a wife* with your ass, camel toe pics, & showing titty meat all on IG.. f the “labels” folks try to throw on everything 🤷🏾♂️ mfs can call it “sLuT ShAmInG” if they want, she’s not wifeable displaying herself in that light, a man only sees them as *an actual item* even if she were to get a relationship or marriage proposal 🤷🏾♂️
@@jonesboi804 well said
I’ve been binge watching his videos lately and I realized what a missed opportunity to ask an OG for advice. I would gladly ask for individual counseling at this point in my life. I’m 39 and would have loved to get the answers I need and go straight to the results. I have no problem with work ethic and learning from all sources.
Almost every woman that calls him lie thru their teeth
The young lady that said her father raised her to be a wife, within the first few minutes you could see there would be no peace in a house with her.
After that third caller, when Kevin was rubbing his temples.. I FELT that. 😂 Bless him for tolerating all that frustration to teach the youth. 🙏