My sister became pregnant and her boyfriend married her. They had another child during the marriage. Even though her husband worked everyday took care of the home, my sister was still living the girls gone wild life. He eventually left her. To this day my sister has not remarried and all the men she became involved with never saw her as a potential wife. She’s almost 60 and still single. Listen to what Kevin says, he’s speaking truth.
Ten Lies that Women think Men also believe: 1: Men will forgive their promiscuous past. 2:Men aspire and love being Stepfathers. 3: The men that they friendzoned will always be there for them as a back up plan. After they’ve been pumped and dumped by the Chads and Tyrones. 4: Men want partnerships and don’t want to be the leaders of their relationships. 5: That men will accept them as they are. Regardless of their age, weight or parental situation. 6: Men don’t have standards. 7: Men care about a women’s income and education. 8: Having a degree and a high paying job will increase a woman’s SMV (Sexual Market Place Value) 9: That being fat is the same as being curvy. 10: Men will always find them attractive at any age or size. Even when they’ve hit the wall.
For point number 9, I find it hilarious that being obese is considered curvy. Obese is literally the definition of less curves and having a more cylindrical shape in all directions. So there are no curves unless they count the over head perspective which is pretty much a circle for such people.
This reminds me how my ex kept talking shit about me to my daughter that she made her hate me but I still stayed around for my daughter supporting her and covering her needs I didn’t say a word but when my daughter was 16 I sat her down to talk to her about me she said daddy you don’t need to say anything now I know the true story I remember how she treated you when I was 5 but still want to hear you if you like to talk so I told her truth without making her mom look bad still so now we have very good father daughter relationship thank you God
Single mothers talk sh*t about the father of their children because they lack accountability for the part they played in the failed relationship. In most cases, women are the root cause of it because they have thrown the intelligent part of their nature out the window to focus entirely on their emotions because in their distorted mindset, it's all about how women feel and what they want to feel that fits into their false sense of reality; but when their children become adults, they realize that their mothers were the ones who were sh*tty with bad qualities because accountability felt like kryptonite.
Damn dude thank you for not stooping to your exs level.. it helped your daughter so much.. and made her a healthier person to see her father act with respect and care
As a white Canadian male, what Kevin speaks about, can also apply to "Modern" white women, in general. The similarities are eerily similar. When I was in my 30's I would have benefitted from listening to Kevin. I hope the young men who are listening to Kevin truly think about what he is saying. There is gold in his advice.
@@lertubThe "Modern Women" affliction believes in spreading the sh-t in a fairly equal and dynamic way. In the end, men are all brothers, regardless of race, religion, etc.
Single dad here. Raised my boy myself since he was a year old. Now he is 16, straight A student. Plays outside LB in football, and runs 11.24 100M in track. Men raise men.
You are doing a fine job with your child and should be proud…go take a road trip with him for a vacation when you can. Quality time makes memories and creates magical moments. 🌟
Nor only for the black community. I'm a white man from Germany and these trends are here as well and me and all brothers have to be enlightened of modern women desillusions.
@7 Dollar Roethlisberger facts. I think that a lot of women fantasize about the wedding day, but not the actual marriage and the amount of work it takes to sustain that.
@@calogerocapicchioni6554 Yup, it's like how they want the high value man but never think about how he got there and maintains it. They want his lifestyle, not fit into it or support it. The women who walk away from these men. They usually have the same complaints, and it aint cheating. It's lack of attention and not being around much smh. 6 figure men travel a lot and work their butts off.
@@calogerocapicchioni6554 It's their special day of being a princess in the center of attention. Validated in front of their peer group. A party with cake and wine. That's as deep as it goes. Thy can tick this day off of their bucket list and strategise with their friends how to milk the poor workhorse of a man in divorce so they don't have to work a day in their life. And back on the carousel they go, having broken the man, the narcissists that such women are.
This channel makes me remember how lucky I am to have my husband. He's better than me and I don't deserve him. The world inflates the heads of women, I'm not excluded from this. This channel helps me keep my head straight and make sure I treat my husband the way he deserves. Thank you.
I would disagree within which you said about yourself second line!@violet5610 "He's better than me .&.I don't deserve him"! I would say if I was to ask your husband! He would say! "You're better for him".&."simply by having you in his life"! Through the good bad.&.any other!! Tears to laughter!! It makes his life a better place to be! Just by having you within it. Never undersell your own value lady.
I agree with you. I struck gold when I met my husband. Nothing made me happier than making him happy. I didn't deserve him but I'm so lucky that he disagreed. And yes, was better than me and that's how it's supposed to be. I submitted to him willingly. Unfortunately, I’ve been a widow for the last five years and I doubt I’ll find another great man.
So you mean a man marry you and you two are not evenly yoked, you're low on morals and values you like discipline and consistently consistency you do nothing with your life you've been amounted to nothing wow maybe he should have married another woman since you think so little of yourself
"Im not gonna go get an abortion every time i get pregnant" They act like getting pregnant is something that just happens. The casualness with which black women treat motherhood is astounding to me.
it’s some severe 304 syndrome.. but then again it cuts both ways.. I met a guy who’s girl told him she was pregnant and he was seriously considering ghost in her
What about the men who do the impregnating? I could get behind KS message as a house wife/stay at home mom, but he hardly ever gives men any accountability
Her: "You think a father can raise a daughter!?" This was such a disturbing response/question. The child is literally HALF of him. If you feel so strongly that the man you made a father is inadequate of raising his own, you are apart of the problem because YOU CHOSE that man.
Responsibility HAS to fall on women when it comes to procreation. Take 10 men and 10 women. If one woman sleeps with all the guys, 1 baby is made. If one guy sleeps with all the women, 10 babies are made... Did you not see it when Kevin brought up how most of the black kids are coming from a small minority of guys?
@@aaronjohnston1584 happiness is relative. Don’t rely on chasing happiness. …. I know a guy who left his wife because he was unhappy, shacked up with a hot young thing who made him happy, and drove himself into a bridge last week - leaving 2 kids.
Thank god I met my boyfriend at 11 and we started dating at 12 (a few break ups and get back together in our really young teenage years) but now we’re 35 and own a home and we’re even able to take in one of his elderly relatives who couldn’t live alone anymore, we moved him into our downstairs. We’ve gone through EVERYTHING together and he’d do anything for me and I would do anything for him. We’ve had bad days, bad months, even some bad years!!! But never crossed our minds to leave each other. Stronger together.
She said men can't raise girls. My father raised me and my sister while divorced and single. She is married over 20 years. He never bashed my mother even though she was the one that cheated and left us.
That was a gem of a comparison. You could see the gears in her head turning trying to find a reason why it doesn't apply to her but we all know it's true
I commend this woman for having the courage to sit there for over an hour just getting DESTROYED by facts and reality; having her delusion shattered right in front of her face. That takes balls. I hope this helped her and I hope this video helps heal the community.
I had to come back to this vid to hear more bars because of what I’m going through with a woman now who is actually my son’s mom. But the bar for the day is… “You can’t build with someone who keeps leaving the job site.” -K.S. WOW!!! BARS!!! 🔥🔥🔥
@TradMum What modern woman is going to let a man lead them? At least a modern blk woman won't. Their social media friends told them that they need to boss up and move like men. Good luck to them
I just came across this show. Kevin gave excellent advice. I just saw in the comments that he passed away a couple of years ago. I'm so sorry to hear that. RIP Kevin 🙏❤️💐
Kevin definitely speaks the truth in these videos. My mother, after getting divorced from my father, focused on her career and now at 60 is struggling to find a good job in her field to pay the bills because few companies want to hire her at that age. So she works 2 jobs to make ends meet, but it still isn't enough, so my brother and I have offered to cover the rest of her financial costs so she doesn't end up homeless. Because of this and because of Kevin I will definitely be prioritizing relationships and cooperating with a man so I don't end up in a similar situation when I'm older
Aww so proud of you & your brother thats generous & Loving but yet Sad that its come down to that.. atleast now you see to better your relationship w Men you R on the right path!
She attracts men that have girlfriends or wives because they see her as side chick or just for sex type of woman. She doesn't meet men that are looking for a wife because they overlook her. She still doesn't get it.
My mom never married when she came to America and had me with my then married dad. He was sort of trying to make it work with my mom but he was a Colombian national and got caught up in drugs and got deported. My mom still works but is largely on government assistance, dad got divorced and kicked out of the house from his original wife and after seeing all this I've been with my fiance for the the past 6 years and plan on marrying soon and having a kid hopefully and being a stay at home with a small side job. Life wasn't meant to go about it being single and miserable.
I've dated a few single mothers in my lifetime and while they each had positive qualities, their sense of entitlement was a bit over the top. One treated me like I was still just an option and another turned out to still have a party mentality and ultimately, we were not compatible for the long haul. In short, my experiences with them has led me to believe that a single mother should NEVER be the first option for a single man without kids! Gents, build your own empire and legacy with your own seed!
You're absolutely correct. I've had the same experience. I dated a woman with a child who use to talk bad about her baby daddy and she was extremely entitled. She would talk crazy like she had a big D,baller waiting for her around the corner. I got out of that situation. I dodged a bullet. Most of these women with children are entitled, delusional,live in a fantasy world and really believe they have more options that they actually have. Most of all they blame the men but they fail to realize they picked the man they had the children with
@@Xeroph619 when I was still in the dating world, this is what I heard from a couple single moms. They preferred a man with no kids or a man with kids much older than their kids.
I'm a 43 year old engaged man (& oh white af) and I've learning a lot from this man. If my fit, friendly, feminine, childless fiancee saw this channel she'd quickly put 2&2 together. Thanks GF.
When he said “unfortunately she’s half of you” 😂😂 As an Hispanic man, Kevin did more than just help the black community. He is a voice for truth. RIP Kevin, wish I would’ve ran into your content sooner.
When I was in school getting my degree, one of the statistics that shocked me and kinda got pushed under the rug was that Single Fathers raise better children then Single Mothers. Kevin’s content just proves it.
I have two friends who are single fathers who raised their kids after intense custody battles to get them. They are definitely better parents across the board of the women they had the kids with and they had to fight tooth and nail to get their children.
@@Love-fn9bi Because the dynamics between men with kids marrying women and women with kids marrying men aren't the same. Men CARE that you have children because that's (generally) money out of their pocket to care for HER kids. And men are (generally) expected to be providers for children anyway, so women who end up with men with kids aren't (generally) being expected to help provide for his kids. That's why men and women are judged differently. The things women look for in a mate and that men look for in a mate are simply are not the same.
Holy f. I was in bet at 1800 or earlier. No tv for me until 10 years old. My parents were very strict but a 5 year old up at almost midnight? What in the f hell? Where is the friggin father?
It’s so sad listening to this woman, nothing she did was ever wrong, no accountability, she needs a lot of work, and damaging the lives of her young kids.
Kevin is a modern day saint. I live in an Asian country and I believe the lack of government support helps keep Asian women grounded. No benefits or social security in a lot of these countries. I'm a father of three, two daughters - and I'm trying to instill my daughters with his wisdom. My favourite saying of his is 'Marry before you carry!' Keep up the good work, Kevin. You're a godsend!
From what I've observed about the asian cultures (at least east, north-east ones like Japan, Korea..) some of the most influental factors are lack of government support (just based off what _you_ say, idk the actual aid the government has for women), family burden culture (taking care of parents, grandparents, etc) and the extreme work culture (996 culture) . From what I see, Asian men don't even *GET* to see how terrible feminism _actually_ is because the other cultural problems mask it so much and come before it. The government bit is also interesting, because studies done in America show that women *_OVERWHELMINGLY_* vote left/democratic and for *MORE* government. They _love_ big daddy government, especially because they basically pay 0 net taxes. Your best bet for your daughter is a more antiquated approach of marrying them off early, but given your cultural circumstance, you might not even be able to do that unfortunately. 1st world societies really f**ked themselves with this feminism shit. 🤡🌎
I like to rewatch these every once in a while. I know I have some critical decisions to make, considering my mother was JUST like this, and still is. She's upset that none of her kids talk to her because we all know how stubborn she is. She rarely ever keeps herself up aside from getting her hair done, and she doesn't go out or socializes all that often. She still has our dog, but she definitely had that bitter attitude that came behind having 4 kids by two men who really didn't want to be involved. She wasn't a super feminine woman by any stretch of the definition, and her behavior was leaning heavily on masculine for as long as I can remember. I fear for her most times because she lives alone and never tells anybody when something goes wrong. But i think its because reality has sunk in. She understands how unfair it would be to have us hang around at her beck and call. It hurts, lowkey, but that is my mirror if I am not to be a married woman. Kids or no kids.
She think she got a 75% chance of getting married?!? I got no kids but at 46 YO I know where my number is and it is NOT over 50% because I’ve aged out of the process and cannot provide children. We have to know where we stand realistically before we can move up or down.
Don't forget that hypocrite ass Steve Harvey he'll do anything for some money including lie to these women. Steve Harvey has did a lot of damage to black women and they don't even know it. And so has Tyler Perry and he dress up like a woman
This Is a thankless job Kevin Samuel is doing and I don't care if he makes a million dollars out of it.the value of this man un the black community Is vastly underrated.
And it's not just a black problem... Granted it's worse in the black community but even in the UK white community this sort of attitude is rife. These women just don't seem to see the correlation... If every partner they've had has been bad then they're either your choosing the small minority of wrong partners or they just keep scaring the good partners away... Why is it that the father of her youngest has married someone else and not her... It's not all women and it's not all men... However it would statistically appear to be a problem with women having too many expectations of the men they are choosing (women being the ones ending the relationships)... You want a $500k a year man? Wtf would he choose you when he can get a newer cleaner version that is willing to work WITH him not against him. Men aren't biologically meant to be monogynous anyway so this whole cheating bs doesn't make sense... Not saying it's fair or right by a man can't help being what a man is. Women aren't that way biologically, it's something that's increased since the whole independent women men aren't shit crap that's been drilled into women these days... Pisses me off listening to these things... But it's so relatable that I can't help it.
Why do women tend to think that the conversation on this particular topic has ANYTHING to do with what they “feel”? You can feel anything you want, but that has zero to do with what men want.
That comment he made about the kid being up til after 11pm makes a great point. EVERY family I know with the father in the house is so much better organised/structured. I see it with my kids too. All it takes is a look from me and THEY KNOW but their mother can't seem to pull it off. And I didn't realise how rare it had gotten to have a well behaved family but almost every restaurant visit we had people would come up and comment on how well behaved my babies were, I'm talking 1 year olds and toddlers even. I realised folks were just so grateful that their night out wasn't spoiled by spoiled, loud, unruly kids. Kids love and thrive when they understand the rules and have them enforced consistently. I hate that parents raise children. No. You raise them to be adults and adults have to operate within the rules. This shouldn't come as a surprise to any kid who has been raised right.
Yup it's that implied threat of hands on their butts. In school when we had a female sub, it was party time. Male sub? N one wanna test those waters. It's why guys tend to cooperate because no one really wants to get into fisticuffs. Throw women into it and dudes get killed.
I know what you mean. My 1st year teaching I tried being nice and the kids , 9th graders , ran over me. The next quarter I became better by setting and enforcing class rules consistently. Once they release that everything calmed down and I started to enjoy it. The kids did to.
I am an old fart. But I still remember that it was the second drawer on the left that squeaked loudly because that was the one the paddle was kept in. HA. Might not have taught anything else worthwhile but you learned not to disrupt anyone else's chance to learn anything. Wasn't any vandalism or much of any other nonsense either. That said we had two recesses and after lunch to bleed off MOST of our rambunctiousness. And P. E. Kids HAVE to be kids or you TURN THEM INTO "problems". Now recess is used for political correctness indoctrination, gender identity exploration, or something equally non bill-paying.
This woman's casual hatred of men is appalling. It's repugnant. She hasn't given any thought to her hatred, contempt, and vilification of men. "And what do you bring to the table?" "I'm nice." She's not even that. She's filled with an idle rage. I pity her son, but her daughter as well.
I’m a grown assed Black Man (45) and this almost brought me to tears. THEY came for us, RELENTLESSLY for hundreds of years, and we FOUGHT them back-only to have our own “women” help in our destruction!!??!? God help the CHILDREN! 🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️
They bought into the feminist movement and said to hell with us. They chose to join a white woman’s movement but when the chips are on the line they get behind their men black women do not
That attitude is insufferable, I couldn’t stand having to sit next to her at bar for a full drink, let doing so on purpose. Can you imagine the despicable mindsets these children are gonna have.
When my wife left after 20 yrs of marriage, I raised my 2 daughters ALONE...they are now 38 and 40 and doing great...DON'T TELL ME MEN CAN'T RAISE GIRLS!!!!
Nobody’s saying men/women can’t raise children on their own. HOWEVER, are they going to have the same emotional balance and healthy relationship example as someone with a two parent home? Definitely not.
@@jeremiahdavis3398 A lot of women don't understand this. They think a man is just suppose to overlook there pass and just accept shit. Doesn't work that way with high quality guys.
The fact that modern women having multiple babies out of wedlock is more excepted than being married to a husband is very telling of why our community is the way it is..smh
@Maynard Mcnair My family hasn't had a marriage since 2014. We've had a lot of babies being born, but no weddings. So, when he said 80% of our kids are born out of wedlock, I never paid attention to it before, but I'm starting to realize how serious it is.
Fail to prepare ,presto fail because those children havnt been put in a position to help them selves let alone anyone else ,here in the UK by age 16 were paying full rent to our parents and not a penny is held back to be gifted to us to use wisley so by the time we're 18 we're debt ridden and living check to check abd when we're 25 plus no different and those mums are asking for help with living costs when they set their breadbusket up failure from the word go .
This woman is exactly what's wrong with the community... She takes pride in being a single mother and doesn't even recognize how destructive her mindset is on her children. Telling her daughter to be just like her when she knows she's miserable is ludicrous, speaking down on men consistently in the presence of her young son is absolutely atrocious. You ask most children that are raised in these single mother households if they've ever had a positive tangible male influence & they'll say no, because these women project their hatred for men onto them. I've always said the increase in homosexuality and not only the black community but across the board has been because of shitty parents... Ain't no way the percentage of gays skyrocketed over the past 4 decades cause "it's more accepted" these parents have created an environment of incredible hatred towards men's masculinity that they sissify the boys & then in tern masculinized the girls. It's a horror cycle
I second this.. I thought I was a weirdo to think homosexuality came from poor parenting of single parents talking down on the opposite gender ending up with a whole lot of sissified men.. thanks for pointing that out
@@licioussamuelsit comes from that and also comes from Modern diet and modern lifestyle the atrezen in the water and sprayed on crops biologically turned male frogs female, plastic acts as estrogen screens all day porn, etc
I've said this before too. And homosexuality is higher among blacks than among other demographics which is not surprising when you look at the rates of fatherlessness. It correlates perfectly. Masculine women raising their sons to be either angry and violent or feminine and weak. It's a truly vicious cycle that Kevin worked so hard to undo.
It’s true, and my father who was married to my mother until he died (1954 to 2022) used to say that Rev. Lee’s answer to marital problems was, “ women will never know…” That was with regards to women born between 1900 and 1975. I wonder what Reverend Lee would say about women born between 1976 and 2050??? I don’t think it would be much better, SMH 🤦🏽♂️!
This woman is strange. It's like she gets it and then doesn't get it at the same time. She'll say 'you're right' and then say some other bs in the next breath. I'm afraid it's too late for women like her. You can't mold stale bread.
Unfortunately, she is not that strange. Too many black women are like this, and you are supposed to deal with it, or you are not a strong man. Therefore, I want to die alone. Men will have to adapt.
I have a father, all the things KS has been saying is no news to me, myself and sister are all married with children for years known, is just I finally realized most people can't stomach this level of truth
I miss him a lot he was very intelligent I feel like if a lot of women got out of their feelings they would really benefit he taught me a lot as a 19 year old lady REST IN POWER KEVIN 😢🙏🏾💙
Kevin definitely woke me up about retirement. I raised my contribution to my 403b to 10%. He scared me into doing a better job saving for the future. I will have my pension, 403b, and social security and my own personal savings.
He scared me too! My job contributes 40%, I contribute at 30% and I am living below my means. I have a husband but still not enough to survive out here in these streets. My goal is to get a raise and raise that contribution. I also am saving too.
My sister became pregnant and her boyfriend married her. They had another child during the marriage. Even though her husband worked everyday took care of the home, my sister was still living the girls gone wild life. He eventually left her. To this day my sister has not remarried and all the men she became involved with never saw her as a potential wife. She’s almost 60 and still single. Listen to what Kevin says, he’s speaking truth.
My sister is the same way. Unbelievable!
Now she officially belongs to the streets!
@@bluu_ice6554 she's age 60 bruh, the streets already retired the Jersey 20 years ago
Marriage is considered slavery to most women
@@colbalt95 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣💀💀💀
Ten Lies that Women think Men also believe:
1: Men will forgive their promiscuous past.
2:Men aspire and love being Stepfathers.
3: The men that they friendzoned will always be there for them as a back up plan. After they’ve been pumped and dumped by the Chads and Tyrones.
4: Men want partnerships and don’t want to be the leaders of their relationships.
5: That men will accept them as they are. Regardless of their age, weight or parental situation.
6: Men don’t have standards.
7: Men care about a women’s income and education.
8: Having a degree and a high paying job will increase a woman’s SMV (Sexual Market Place Value)
9: That being fat is the same as being curvy.
10: Men will always find them attractive at any age or size. Even when they’ve hit the wall.
Number 3 is the best one only simps will wait in the friendzone for there chance.
facts
For point number 9, I find it hilarious that being obese is considered curvy. Obese is literally the definition of less curves and having a more cylindrical shape in all directions. So there are no curves unless they count the over head perspective which is pretty much a circle for such people.
for woman, that is a delusional goal requirement list
Heavy with 8 and 9
“It’s funny when a man is going to lose his life defending you, but he ain’t a man for you to follow.” -K.S. WOW! BARS! 🔥🔥🔥
Some real shit ain't it .. makes you really think about who you dealing with and why
Ouchh..."be a man n fix this fix that fight for us defend us......but we're not obeying, following or listening to no man"
Straight Proverb!!!!❤️😞😔😢🫶🏾
@@ddawk1019 Your statement(from a woman's pov) just assured that there is hope for us.
This reminds me how my ex kept talking shit about me to my daughter that she made her hate me but I still stayed around for my daughter supporting her and covering her needs I didn’t say a word but when my daughter was 16 I sat her down to talk to her about me she said daddy you don’t need to say anything now I know the true story I remember how she treated you when I was 5 but still want to hear you if you like to talk so I told her truth without making her mom look bad still so now we have very good father daughter relationship thank you God
Amen!!!
Single mothers talk sh*t about the father of their children because they lack accountability for the part they played in the failed relationship. In most cases, women are the root cause of it because they have thrown the intelligent part of their nature out the window to focus entirely on their emotions because in their distorted mindset, it's all about how women feel and what they want to feel that fits into their false sense of reality; but when their children become adults, they realize that their mothers were the ones who were sh*tty with bad qualities because accountability felt like kryptonite.
Damn dude thank you for not stooping to your exs level.. it helped your daughter so much.. and made her a healthier person to see her father act with respect and care
What did this devine entity do?
Your comment made me feel emotional.
As a white Canadian male, what Kevin speaks about, can also apply to "Modern" white women, in general. The similarities are eerily similar. When I was in my 30's I would have benefitted from listening to Kevin. I hope the young men who are listening to Kevin truly think about what he is saying. There is gold in his advice.
You’re correct.
It’s definitely a conversation for all modern women in a westernized reality.
Salute sir
Damn bro, didn’t know white guys were going through the same thing.
Very well put!!
@@lertubThe "Modern Women" affliction believes in spreading the sh-t in a fairly equal and dynamic way. In the end, men are all brothers, regardless of race, religion, etc.
70 year old white male here that enjoys listening to a man with intelligence, and integrity
Same here he's brilliant
White 60 year single female..just eating it up..you’re right..he was brilliant
Share some wisdom with us the younger generation, what should we prepare for or what did you learn in your years?
@@bonganipeter9433 make more money and save more
@El dorado Well said, and same here. It's delightful, listening to a man bringing intelligence and facts to the chaotic matter of relationships.
Single dad here. Raised my boy myself since he was a year old. Now he is 16, straight A student. Plays outside LB in football, and runs 11.24 100M in track. Men raise men.
You are doing a fine job with your child and should be proud…go take a road trip with him for a vacation when you can. Quality time makes memories and creates magical moments. 🌟
Me also sir . Single Black dad. Single Dads raise kids better than single Moms ! Facts
men raise boys to be men women raise men to be beta's/gay
"You don't get higher than your baby daddy", is one of the biggest facts I've ever heard.
This man is giving therapy for free...being a father figure for free, and giving the cheat codes to relationships to the black community for free.
I was thinking the same.
Truth!
Nor only for the black community. I'm a white man from Germany and these trends are here as well and me and all brothers have to be enlightened of modern women desillusions.
I am Asian. This man is gold. He’s helped me more than anyone else when it comes to real relationships. Gone too soon. RIP.
Does therapy even give you advice like this? Or make you reflect like this?
Im Brazilian and I can see the same thing here. Men needs to know this. So we can raise daughters and sons. R.I.P KS.
When Kevin said “it’s not hard to get a husband, it’s hard for y’all to be wives” nothing but facts 📖
@7 Dollar Roethlisberger facts. I think that a lot of women fantasize about the wedding day, but not the actual marriage and the amount of work it takes to sustain that.
Boom
@@calogerocapicchioni6554 Yup, it's like how they want the high value man but never think about how he got there and maintains it. They want his lifestyle, not fit into it or support it. The women who walk away from these men. They usually have the same complaints, and it aint cheating. It's lack of attention and not being around much smh. 6 figure men travel a lot and work their butts off.
@@calogerocapicchioni6554 It's their special day of being a princess in the center of attention. Validated in front of their peer group. A party with cake and wine. That's as deep as it goes. Thy can tick this day off of their bucket list and strategise with their friends how to milk the poor workhorse of a man in divorce so they don't have to work a day in their life. And back on the carousel they go, having broken the man, the narcissists that such women are.
as i read this he said it....wow
This channel makes me remember how lucky I am to have my husband. He's better than me and I don't deserve him. The world inflates the heads of women, I'm not excluded from this. This channel helps me keep my head straight and make sure I treat my husband the way he deserves. Thank you.
I would disagree within which you said about yourself second line!@violet5610
"He's better than me .&.I don't deserve him"!
I would say if I was to ask your husband!
He would say!
"You're better for him".&."simply by having you in his life"!
Through the good bad.&.any other!!
Tears to laughter!!
It makes his life a better place to be!
Just by having you within it.
Never undersell your own value lady.
I agree with you. I struck gold when I met my husband. Nothing made me happier than making him happy. I didn't deserve him but I'm so lucky that he disagreed. And yes, was better than me and that's how it's supposed to be. I submitted to him willingly. Unfortunately, I’ve been a widow for the last five years and I doubt I’ll find another great man.
So you mean a man marry you and you two are not evenly yoked, you're low on morals and values you like discipline and consistently consistency you do nothing with your life you've been amounted to nothing wow maybe he should have married another woman since you think so little of yourself
Sorry to hear. But least you experienced it@@stardustmelody2709
Preach the word!!!!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾❤️😔😔🥺😢
"Im not gonna go get an abortion every time i get pregnant"
They act like getting pregnant is something that just happens. The casualness with which black women treat motherhood is astounding to me.
it’s some severe 304 syndrome.. but then again it cuts both ways.. I met a guy who’s girl told him she was pregnant and he was seriously considering ghost in her
😊😊
FACTS
P
What about the men who do the impregnating? I could get behind KS message as a house wife/stay at home mom, but he hardly ever gives men any accountability
This is like listening to a child. This is an adult mother with the wisdom of a ten year old.
Unbearable to watch...and to think, she has offspring. 😳
If you don't *live up* to responsibilities, you don't *grow up.*
That's a slap in the head for all ten year olds.
But looking at queen Latifa
My ten year old has more wisdom than this !!
"A man is expected to risk his life and defend you, but you think you're not expected to follow him as a woman and let him lead"-Kevin 💯
That's about it really. No thanks.
Facts most of these modern single woman 👩🏽 want too be the man and so independent well you can be independent and die alone
Make sure she's the right one - as they say, because the wrong one will leave you hanging off a cliff.
@@metalmike570 By a fingernail if you are lucky!
I want this on a shirt
This woman is polite, but her DELUSION is strong. She thinks she is the one.
BS. You say all the sassy and melodramatic expressions. She had nothing but disrespect for men acting like she isn't responsible for who she fucks
Kevin was straight spitting facts here, He had a gift, few could reason with a modern women! You are missed Sir!
Her: "You think a father can raise a daughter!?"
This was such a disturbing response/question. The child is literally HALF of him. If you feel so strongly that the man you made a father is inadequate of raising his own, you are apart of the problem because YOU CHOSE that man.
Mic 🎤 drop for this one..... *Goodnight Errbaddy* ✌️
Exactly!
Ask her if she can raise a son
I raised my daughter by myself
Mic 🎤drop✌️
"I take care of my kids"
As Chris Rock said...."You're SUPPOSED to take care of your kids ! What do you want? A cookie?"
Ladies want special recognition for being human/ mothers
Men too, women do it and men don’t, what’s up? Cmon, stop making single mothers. Marry her. So many excuses but men spreading seeds like a garden 🙈
Responsibility HAS to fall on women when it comes to procreation.
Take 10 men and 10 women. If one woman sleeps with all the guys, 1 baby is made. If one guy sleeps with all the women, 10 babies are made... Did you not see it when Kevin brought up how most of the black kids are coming from a small minority of guys?
@@tyrone2434
If you actually looked a what Chris Rock said he said it to both men AND women.. Why do you assume he was only talking about women?
@@eleveneleven572 I wasn’t talking to chris rock 🤣 I’m replying to a comment bro please I mean no hate
I’m glad he pointed out the utter lack of structure with the 5 year old! What man wants to deal with that? Times 2?
Can’t even properly put into words how much this man is needed today.
There’s no one on RUclips who’s even half as good at this as Kevin was
"You can't build with somebody who keeps leaving the job site" 💯✊🏾 👑
💯
Kevin and Andrew is what this world need What a tragedy Rip Kevin free Tate
Deep message.
This video has to be one of Queen Latifah's most underappreciated performances.
Lol. Looks just like her.
Lol. She's cute though.
😂
😂
Samesame mannerisms too. Lol
Damn I love this man! I’m so sorry I found him later instead of sooner especially because of his passing. So sad-what a loss! This man is a gem!
What is it about this dude? Man he is like SOLID GOLD!
Every time I hear him talk I wish I could bottle what he has.
Omg I didn't know he passed .. im just finding him .. rest in peace king❤
Im 47 yrs old no kids own 2 businesses 2 houses totally single but extremely busy
who rubs your feet at night?
@@blaineVannhe’s prob ticklish bro
Are you happy?
@@aaronjohnston1584 happiness is relative. Don’t rely on chasing happiness.
…. I know a guy who left his wife because he was unhappy, shacked up with a hot young thing who made him happy, and drove himself into a bridge last week - leaving 2 kids.
It’s funny that a “real man” has to lose his life defending you but he’s not a man for you to follow.
Godfather dropping gems.
Right!?
I gave a huge round of applause on that one! Nobody in the coffee shop knew what the hell I was clapping for.
She doesn't value any man
💯
Mic drop 🎤
That Kia Optima analogy was golden. Masterfully conveyed the dynamics of the dating scene.
That was golden.
Walked her right into it.
Spot on
Sir.... Watch it again... she did not get that analogy.... she did not realize that she was the used car.
@@babyfacenelson2704 I know right.
Kadeesha said I’m not just gonna go out and get an abortion every time I get pregnant… my God how far we have fallen….
Thank god I met my boyfriend at 11 and we started dating at 12 (a few break ups and get back together in our really young teenage years) but now we’re 35 and own a home and we’re even able to take in one of his elderly relatives who couldn’t live alone anymore, we moved him into our downstairs. We’ve gone through EVERYTHING together and he’d do anything for me and I would do anything for him. We’ve had bad days, bad months, even some bad years!!! But never crossed our minds to leave each other. Stronger together.
She said men can't raise girls. My father raised me and my sister while divorced and single. She is married over 20 years. He never bashed my mother even though she was the one that cheated and left us.
God bless that man 👊🏾
Your dad is a good man 🙌🏽.
Single father's raise better children most of the time.
What a man!
A man can't really raise a lil girl to be a woman and a woman can't really raise a lil boy to be a man
Her "I needed a reliable car"
Kevin: " men need a reliable woman" FACTS
That was a gem of a comparison. You could see the gears in her head turning trying to find a reason why it doesn't apply to her but we all know it's true
@@starskater1988 That part hit her so bad
@@hem2032 and YET she still doesn't get it......sad
You do know he’s always referring to hvm and what they want. He rarely mention what average earning men want which is most men..
Went straight over her head though....
I commend this woman for having the courage to sit there for over an hour just getting DESTROYED by facts and reality; having her delusion shattered right in front of her face. That takes balls. I hope this helped her and I hope this video helps heal the community.
I had to come back to this vid to hear more bars because of what I’m going through with a woman now who is actually my son’s mom. But the bar for the day is… “You can’t build with someone who keeps leaving the job site.” -K.S. WOW!!! BARS!!! 🔥🔥🔥
Good luck 🍀
Samuels: "When a man goes to lose his life for you, but he's not a man for you to follow."
Me: Facts!
No answer for dat one
@@freshdude2603 Right.
bars
@@FatherAndTeacherTV that shit hit different when he made that statement
@TradMum What modern woman is going to let a man lead them? At least a modern blk woman won't. Their social media friends told them that they need to boss up and move like men. Good luck to them
There are so many women in their 30s and 40s that still behave like teenagers. It's exhausting to see now.
I just came across this show. Kevin gave excellent advice. I just saw in the comments that he passed away a couple of years ago. I'm so sorry to hear that. RIP Kevin 🙏❤️💐
This is by far one of my favorite videos By the Late Great Godfather Rip. This man changed my life so much.
Mines too one of my favorite ones I’ve saw so far
Kevin definitely speaks the truth in these videos. My mother, after getting divorced from my father, focused on her career and now at 60 is struggling to find a good job in her field to pay the bills because few companies want to hire her at that age. So she works 2 jobs to make ends meet, but it still isn't enough, so my brother and I have offered to cover the rest of her financial costs so she doesn't end up homeless. Because of this and because of Kevin I will definitely be prioritizing relationships and cooperating with a man so I don't end up in a similar situation when I'm older
You’re wise
🙏💪🍆
Aww so proud of you & your brother thats generous & Loving but yet Sad that its come down to that.. atleast now you see to better your relationship w Men you R on the right path!
She attracts men that have girlfriends or wives because they see her as side chick or just for sex type of woman. She doesn't meet men that are looking for a wife because they overlook her. She still doesn't get it.
My mom never married when she came to America and had me with my then married dad. He was sort of trying to make it work with my mom but he was a Colombian national and got caught up in drugs and got deported. My mom still works but is largely on government assistance, dad got divorced and kicked out of the house from his original wife and after seeing all this I've been with my fiance for the the past 6 years and plan on marrying soon and having a kid hopefully and being a stay at home with a small side job. Life wasn't meant to go about it being single and miserable.
I've dated a few single mothers in my lifetime and while they each had positive qualities, their sense of entitlement was a bit over the top. One treated me like I was still just an option and another turned out to still have a party mentality and ultimately, we were not compatible for the long haul. In short, my experiences with them has led me to believe that a single mother should NEVER be the first option for a single man without kids! Gents, build your own empire and legacy with your own seed!
My friend would say he doesn’t like playing on another man’s saved file.
You're absolutely correct. I've had the same experience. I dated a woman with a child who use to talk bad about her baby daddy and she was extremely entitled. She would talk crazy like she had a big D,baller waiting for her around the corner. I got out of that situation. I dodged a bullet. Most of these women with children are entitled, delusional,live in a fantasy world and really believe they have more options that they actually have. Most of all they blame the men but they fail to realize they picked the man they had the children with
Single mothers need to find single fathers. Both sides play the fair game.
Go Kevin!
@@Xeroph619 when I was still in the dating world, this is what I heard from a couple single moms. They preferred a man with no kids or a man with kids much older than their kids.
I'm a 43 year old engaged man (& oh white af) and I've learning a lot from this man. If my fit, friendly, feminine, childless fiancee saw this channel she'd quickly put 2&2 together. Thanks GF.
Can you imagine being a 16 year old girl who goes to school on a Monday morning and every one of her classmates saw this over the weekend?
Kevin: I kept asking myself "who does she remind me of"? Answer: Queen Latifah
queen la queefa
but she ain't got Queen Latifah money.
I thought I was the only one
🎯
When she was cute, with less weight and not sleeping with women.
Queen Latifah trippin!!
LOL!! I said the same thing!!! 💯
Holy shit😂
Noice great minds see alike!!!
She trying to "set it off"
🤣🤣😭😭
When he said “unfortunately she’s half of you” 😂😂
As an Hispanic man, Kevin did more than just help the black community. He is a voice for truth. RIP Kevin, wish I would’ve ran into your content sooner.
Still relevant today Kevin. You completed your assignment and the momentum continues with other creators. Sleep easy.
“You don’t get no higher than your baby daddy!” Preach Kevin!
especially 2 of them
I do not believe it.
Truck driver.... that's it
@@Richie-xr7zb why not?
@@scotttracy9333 she can't believe it, because she probably has 3 babydaddys and she only has hope left to cling to...
When I was in school getting my degree, one of the statistics that shocked me and kinda got pushed under the rug was that Single Fathers raise better children then Single Mothers. Kevin’s content just proves it.
Perfect...but that does not fit any woman's narrative.
I have two friends who are single fathers who raised their kids after intense custody battles to get them. They are definitely better parents across the board of the women they had the kids with and they had to fight tooth and nail to get their children.
Well a lot more women don’t mind being step mothers, that also play apart too. Men are not judged like women for having kids
@@Love-fn9bi😍
@@Love-fn9bi Because the dynamics between men with kids marrying women and women with kids marrying men aren't the same. Men CARE that you have children because that's (generally) money out of their pocket to care for HER kids. And men are (generally) expected to be providers for children anyway, so women who end up with men with kids aren't (generally) being expected to help provide for his kids. That's why men and women are judged differently. The things women look for in a mate and that men look for in a mate are simply are not the same.
This was painful to get through. Kevin was doing God's work here.
Omg, this is the story of my life as a son of a single mother. 60 minutes into this video.
A 5 year old should not be up at 11:20pm. He is right.
Holy f. I was in bet at 1800 or earlier. No tv for me until 10 years old. My parents were very strict but a 5 year old up at almost midnight? What in the f hell? Where is the friggin father?
Kevin is single-handedly showing men how to properly evaluate women and not to settle for a low value woman, EVER!!!
Big facts!
Low value women?? For a bunch of yall do nothing ass men? Lmaooo
KS IS A JOKE
😂
@@jackiedsolis1977 sign language
@@jackiedsolis1977 Why are even here? This isn't Twitter, lady.
This has to be the most POWERFUL KS video made!
It’s so sad listening to this woman, nothing she did was ever wrong, no accountability, she needs a lot of work, and damaging the lives of her young kids.
It's not sad at all. She's getting the results of the choices that she's made.
She's exactly where she needs to be: on her own 👈
🐱🐶+🌻=👵🏿👈.
Brah Kevin be killing me with these titles 😂 first Andre 3000 now Kadijah lol keep em coming
Oh shit, Crank Lucas is in the house!!! 😎
Bruh lolol. Andre 3000 had me on the floor 🤣 😂 U gotta tell me who kadijah is?
@@watdog2012 kadijah is a character from Living Single. A popular show in the 90s. Played by Queen Latifah
U ain't lying Crank lol 😂🤣
Hilarious as hell because she actually looks like Latifah/Kadijah. Dent in the middle of forehead and all 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣
"Black Family is husband, wife, and children"
"Black Comunity is mother and children."
Sad and very true
10000%
All by design, stay woke
This is so 100% true
Sad but true.
70-year-old man here who invested early and now sits back and enjoys retirement without a care in the world. And alone.
A master class by Kevin. Absolutely crushing debate. He lays it all out.
Kevin is a modern day saint. I live in an Asian country and I believe the lack of government support helps keep Asian women grounded. No benefits or social security in a lot of these countries. I'm a father of three, two daughters - and I'm trying to instill my daughters with his wisdom. My favourite saying of his is 'Marry before you carry!' Keep up the good work, Kevin. You're a godsend!
100% correct…I am African and there’s not a single government support for no woman…You are either building with a man or you get kicked to the curbs
From what I've observed about the asian cultures (at least east, north-east ones like Japan, Korea..) some of the most influental factors are lack of government support (just based off what _you_ say, idk the actual aid the government has for women), family burden culture (taking care of parents, grandparents, etc) and the extreme work culture (996 culture) .
From what I see, Asian men don't even *GET* to see how terrible feminism _actually_ is because the other cultural problems mask it so much and come before it.
The government bit is also interesting, because studies done in America show that women *_OVERWHELMINGLY_* vote left/democratic and for *MORE* government. They _love_ big daddy government, especially because they basically pay 0 net taxes.
Your best bet for your daughter is a more antiquated approach of marrying them off early, but given your cultural circumstance, you might not even be able to do that unfortunately.
1st world societies really f**ked themselves with this feminism shit. 🤡🌎
Yessir!!!! Women would respect and honor men more if the government didnt take care of them.
@@DTreatz
Great comment. You know your stuff! Take 'Big Daddy Government' away and you will see so called 'strong independent women' melt away.
Benefits keeps modern women too comfortable.
This worries me and makes me want to continually push guidance into my daughter's lives.
Stay vigilant, the future depends on fathers putting in the work today.
Right on bro
You have to my brother this is the only way that they will be straightforward what's ahead of them. Salute to you
❤️✊🏾
That you say that and are actively in their lives will almost 100% make your daughters better off than to see the world this way.
I like to rewatch these every once in a while. I know I have some critical decisions to make, considering my mother was JUST like this, and still is. She's upset that none of her kids talk to her because we all know how stubborn she is. She rarely ever keeps herself up aside from getting her hair done, and she doesn't go out or socializes all that often. She still has our dog, but she definitely had that bitter attitude that came behind having 4 kids by two men who really didn't want to be involved. She wasn't a super feminine woman by any stretch of the definition, and her behavior was leaning heavily on masculine for as long as I can remember. I fear for her most times because she lives alone and never tells anybody when something goes wrong. But i think its because reality has sunk in. She understands how unfair it would be to have us hang around at her beck and call. It hurts, lowkey, but that is my mirror if I am not to be a married woman. Kids or no kids.
MEN PROVIDE STRUCTURE! "Ladies wanna believe in hope and manifest!" A hope and a dream is not a PLAN!
Kevin has done more in my opinion for that black community then all the conscious gurus combined...this is real work!!👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏☝💪
She think she got a 75% chance of getting married?!? I got no kids but at 46 YO I know where my number is and it is NOT over 50% because I’ve aged out of the process and cannot provide children. We have to know where we stand realistically before we can move up or down.
@@jackievargas8457 do you have eggs though? If so you can work around it.
He is Goated
Don't forget that hypocrite ass Steve Harvey he'll do anything for some money including lie to these women. Steve Harvey has did a lot of damage to black women and they don't even know it. And so has Tyler Perry and he dress up like a woman
Not just the black community.
This Is a thankless job Kevin Samuel is doing and I don't care if he makes a million dollars out of it.the value of this man un the black community Is vastly underrated.
I get what you're saying but a job that makes you millions in fans and dollars is not thankless
And it's not just a black problem... Granted it's worse in the black community but even in the UK white community this sort of attitude is rife. These women just don't seem to see the correlation... If every partner they've had has been bad then they're either your choosing the small minority of wrong partners or they just keep scaring the good partners away... Why is it that the father of her youngest has married someone else and not her... It's not all women and it's not all men... However it would statistically appear to be a problem with women having too many expectations of the men they are choosing (women being the ones ending the relationships)... You want a $500k a year man? Wtf would he choose you when he can get a newer cleaner version that is willing to work WITH him not against him. Men aren't biologically meant to be monogynous anyway so this whole cheating bs doesn't make sense... Not saying it's fair or right by a man can't help being what a man is. Women aren't that way biologically, it's something that's increased since the whole independent women men aren't shit crap that's been drilled into women these days... Pisses me off listening to these things... But it's so relatable that I can't help it.
@@kurtmayhew895 Man let the track breath! You are spitting HOT FIRE! 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
@@cliffpostell508 truth be the truth 👍
I agree. Truth is medicine.
Why do women tend to think that the conversation on this particular topic has ANYTHING to do with what they “feel”? You can feel anything you want, but that has zero to do with what men want.
I love how honest the man is. This should be a video ALL young woman watch.
That comment he made about the kid being up til after 11pm makes a great point. EVERY family I know with the father in the house is so much better organised/structured. I see it with my kids too. All it takes is a look from me and THEY KNOW but their mother can't seem to pull it off. And I didn't realise how rare it had gotten to have a well behaved family but almost every restaurant visit we had people would come up and comment on how well behaved my babies were, I'm talking 1 year olds and toddlers even. I realised folks were just so grateful that their night out wasn't spoiled by spoiled, loud, unruly kids. Kids love and thrive when they understand the rules and have them enforced consistently. I hate that parents raise children. No. You raise them to be adults and adults have to operate within the rules. This shouldn't come as a surprise to any kid who has been raised right.
Yup it's that implied threat of hands on their butts. In school when we had a female sub, it was party time. Male sub? N one wanna test those waters. It's why guys tend to cooperate because no one really wants to get into fisticuffs. Throw women into it and dudes get killed.
Well said .
I know what you mean. My 1st year teaching I tried being nice and the kids , 9th graders , ran over me. The next quarter I became better by setting and enforcing class rules consistently. Once they release that everything calmed down and I started to enjoy it. The kids did to.
I am an old fart. But I still remember that it was the second drawer on the left that squeaked loudly because that was the one the paddle was kept in. HA.
Might not have taught anything else worthwhile but you learned not to disrupt anyone else's chance to learn anything.
Wasn't any vandalism or much of any other nonsense either.
That said we had two recesses and after lunch to bleed off MOST of our rambunctiousness. And P. E.
Kids HAVE to be kids or you TURN THEM INTO "problems".
Now recess is used for political correctness indoctrination, gender identity exploration, or something equally non bill-paying.
Too God be the Glory King 🤴🏽✌🏾
When he said that you don't get higher than your baby daddy, her brain short circuited. LMAO!
😂😂😂😂😂
@Edward Robinson 6:01
like you can literally see the hamster wheel in their brain frying
And she's a liar. She said she was 16 when she got pregnant by her 24 year old boyfriend. And claims he was depending on her.... foh.
Let’s a 5 year old stay up till 11pm… enough said
That man say Khadijah from Living Single I can’t with this man 🤣🤣🤣
This man was doing good died way too soon his message is well needed In our community
I notice his subscribers count is still growing
This woman's casual hatred of men is appalling. It's repugnant. She hasn't given any thought to her hatred, contempt, and vilification of men.
"And what do you bring to the table?"
"I'm nice."
She's not even that. She's filled with an idle rage. I pity her son, but her daughter as well.
I think he was taken out..
@@puddingtame3483 they always come for the truth.
Many believe somebody or somebody's helped him with leaving here early.
I’m a grown assed Black Man (45) and this almost brought me to tears. THEY came for us, RELENTLESSLY for hundreds of years, and we FOUGHT them back-only to have our own “women” help in our destruction!!??!? God help the CHILDREN! 🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️
These women are delusional, it's gonna get worse because they love social media more than a man, trust & believe that.
They bought into the feminist movement and said to hell with us. They chose to join a white woman’s movement but when the chips are on the line they get behind their men black women do not
Truer words were never spoken
Do the plantation narrative, sir. Your racial conspiracy theory does to you what feminism does to women.
Everything you need to know is in the (1611) Bible.
That attitude is insufferable, I couldn’t stand having to sit next to her at bar for a full drink, let doing so on purpose. Can you imagine the despicable mindsets these children are gonna have.
When my wife left after 20 yrs of marriage, I raised my 2 daughters ALONE...they are now 38 and 40 and doing great...DON'T TELL ME MEN CAN'T RAISE GIRLS!!!!
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Kevin will say their masculine bc the father raised them. Yep
Are they married?
Nobody’s saying men/women can’t raise children on their own. HOWEVER, are they going to have the same emotional balance and healthy relationship example as someone with a two parent home? Definitely not.
facts 💯
He gave her 1 hour and she still didn't get it. RIP godfather
He was talking to a brick wall. She’s too short on brain cells to get it.
Awesome analysis, Kevin. He is right on every point!
Why she called in looking like Qeen Latifah though 😭😭💀💀💀
She has contradicted herself so many times it’s just embarrassing . I appreciate her honesty but it just exposes the lack of self awareness.
She just liked the attention and enjoyed pulling Kevin leg when discussing stocks and stuff. She lack facts with stuff she was saying. Smh
Man the quote from KS “ you don’t get bigger then your baby daddy” 🎯🎯😭😭
@@jeremiahdavis3398 A lot of women don't understand this. They think a man is just suppose to overlook there pass and just accept shit. Doesn't work that way with high quality guys.
Exactly wat I was thinking
At least she is being open to accept constructive criticism on such a public forum. 🌹
This is the conversation every father needs to have with his daughter !
and son
Indeed!
I can say that I was 1 in 4 a black woman who was married for 16 years until he passed away in 2023.
Sorry for your loss.
Amazing! I watched these videos and can not believe how very women having kids with different men. Got to be 90%.
They love their kids so much that they gave them all their own Father’s. 😂
The fact that modern women having multiple babies out of wedlock is more excepted than being married to a husband is very telling of why our community is the way it is..smh
Well said.
Faaacts
@Maynard Mcnair My family hasn't had a marriage since 2014. We've had a lot of babies being born, but no weddings. So, when he said 80% of our kids are born out of wedlock, I never paid attention to it before, but I'm starting to realize how serious it is.
Yep!!!
This sh*t is unbelievable... 🤦🏽... This woman just said "eww" to marrying a man that got her pregnant. You CAN NOT MAKE THIS SH*T UP!!!!
She needs a reality check and she didn't get it here, tho ks tried his best
Facts
Why did she keep going "mmmm" after he said something?? Lol
When he took the jacket off u know he was gon bring some smoke
“You have abstinence “
Mother of 2:” and I have been doing that.”
No, you have not been doing that.
Lol just few months
They only considered it after they’re used up. Wish an old broad would pull that stunt. 😂
😂😂😂😂😂💯
This conversation was so deep. Logic over emotions. This is a true reality show, not like that junk on mainstream media. Thank u KS!
Agreed 👍✌️
Amen
Kevin does it well. It’s basic bait and swap techniques. Nothing ground breaking. Just simple. The Notorious K.R.S.
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Man KS needs a vacation for real he trying but these modern woman just not getting it smh 🤦🏾♂️
It's all too familiar the way women dodge accountability when put on the spot. "Uh uh uh well well uh" lmfao
I love how she was paying attention. O think he appreciated how attentive she was. He could have been the step dad she needed. Lol.
"I'm going to make a way" equates to I will be relying on my children to take care of me 😳
Pretty much. My own mother in a nutshell
Preach
@@ieshjust16 🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯
Fail to prepare ,presto fail because those children havnt been put in a position to help them selves let alone anyone else ,here in the UK by age 16 were paying full rent to our parents and not a penny is held back to be gifted to us to use wisley so by the time we're 18 we're debt ridden and living check to check abd when we're 25 plus no different and those mums are asking for help with living costs when they set their breadbusket up failure from the word go .
Or slinging booty
This woman is exactly what's wrong with the community... She takes pride in being a single mother and doesn't even recognize how destructive her mindset is on her children. Telling her daughter to be just like her when she knows she's miserable is ludicrous, speaking down on men consistently in the presence of her young son is absolutely atrocious.
You ask most children that are raised in these single mother households if they've ever had a positive tangible male influence & they'll say no, because these women project their hatred for men onto them. I've always said the increase in homosexuality and not only the black community but across the board has been because of shitty parents... Ain't no way the percentage of gays skyrocketed over the past 4 decades cause "it's more accepted" these parents have created an environment of incredible hatred towards men's masculinity that they sissify the boys & then in tern masculinized the girls. It's a horror cycle
She should leave good men alone.
I second this.. I thought I was a weirdo to think homosexuality came from poor parenting of single parents talking down on the opposite gender ending up with a whole lot of sissified men.. thanks for pointing that out
Big facts, Chiseled Adonis?...now why does this tag look so familiar hmmm?🤔
@@licioussamuelsit comes from that and also comes from Modern diet and modern lifestyle the atrezen in the water and sprayed on crops biologically turned male frogs female, plastic acts as estrogen screens all day porn, etc
I've said this before too. And homosexuality is higher among blacks than among other demographics which is not surprising when you look at the rates of fatherlessness. It correlates perfectly. Masculine women raising their sons to be either angry and violent or feminine and weak. It's a truly vicious cycle that Kevin worked so hard to undo.
Not having this guy is a bad thing for the people
It’s true, and my father who was married to my mother until he died (1954 to 2022) used to say that Rev. Lee’s answer to marital problems was, “ women will never know…”
That was with regards to women born between 1900 and 1975.
I wonder what Reverend Lee would say about women born between 1976 and 2050???
I don’t think it would be much better, SMH 🤦🏽♂️!
This woman is strange. It's like she gets it and then doesn't get it at the same time. She'll say 'you're right' and then say some other bs in the next breath. I'm afraid it's too late for women like her. You can't mold stale bread.
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Naw she's like most people. She gets it, she doesn't accept it.
Perfectly stated! Her facial expressions and communication is highly bizarre. Just chaotic. Smh
@@naimreed8247 I think you nailed it here.
Unfortunately, she is not that strange. Too many black women are like this, and you are supposed to deal with it, or you are not a strong man. Therefore, I want to die alone. Men will have to adapt.
Damn, this woman could actually win a Queen Latina look alike contest hands down…
Queen Latifah, yes she looks just like her!
Absolutely! Thats what made the title so funny 🤣
Yes!..I thought I was the only one, she could pass for her sister
Yes.!! Very pretty
@@Jbs6187 I'm not sure of the number. She just looked pleasing to the eye.
This was a long conversation but a great one!!!
RIP, KS. Job well done. Too bad you didn't get to enjoy the fruits of your hard work/labor. Salute, good brother.
KS is been a father figure to too many of us in the black community, and I don't think he's getting enough credit for this work
I LOVE HIS MENTORSHIP 👋 IT'S NEEDED
Sad that you have to go to you tube to search for your missing father.
He's like that uncle you don't want to believe but you know it's the truth.
It’s sad that most of y’all are fatherless tbh.
I have a father, all the things KS has been saying is no news to me, myself and sister are all married with children for years known, is just I finally realized most people can't stomach this level of truth
I miss him a lot he was very intelligent I feel like if a lot of women got out of their feelings they would really benefit he taught me a lot as a 19 year old lady REST IN POWER KEVIN 😢🙏🏾💙
True most BW was so into their feelings they missed the Message.
Kudos to you young lady and very sad to know that it was a black woman that killed him trust dat very sad
I miss him as well 😢
This videos should be show to high-school!
A year later, I realize this woman is listening.That is welcoming. That's a start.
Kevin definitely woke me up about retirement. I raised my contribution to my 403b to 10%. He scared me into doing a better job saving for the future. I will have my pension, 403b, and social security and my own personal savings.
I have to start looking into retirement. 😅
He scared me too! My job contributes 40%, I contribute at 30% and I am living below my means. I have a husband but still not enough to survive out here in these streets. My goal is to get a raise and raise that contribution. I also am saving too.
"So many women can't have lives because they are taking care of their mother." I felt that 🥺 the truth
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That's the reason I left my X. Her mother still controls her at 55.