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  • Опубликовано: 15 ноя 2024

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  • @wayside_gardener
    @wayside_gardener Месяц назад +164

    "How can we be angry with people who don't know what they're doing". Excellent quote.

    • @NorthernPear
      @NorthernPear Месяц назад +5

      @@wayside_gardener “forgive them, Father, for they know not what they do”

    • @Gman12959
      @Gman12959 Месяц назад +2

      Yeah well it happens multiple times per day, every day. The world is lost. I no longer see the colorful earth as it once was. It’s now hazy to me, a lot of gray.

    • @Gman12959
      @Gman12959 Месяц назад

      @@NorthernPearway to quote one of the youngest religions around today by the way.

    • @ekurisona663
      @ekurisona663 Месяц назад +1

      to know all is to forgive all

    • @FitnessOutSideTheBox
      @FitnessOutSideTheBox Месяц назад +3

      Problem is that they are fully aware that they are wrong and doing bad things intentionally. Bad and evil people exist.

  • @myselfasevan
    @myselfasevan Месяц назад +293

    If only I can have this guy’s central nervous system for just one day

    • @cogyoutube
      @cogyoutube Месяц назад +11

      Hey I watch your videos often. And I wish I was like you 😂 Don’t be too hard on yourself 🙂 You help a lot.

    • @Rufio1975
      @Rufio1975 Месяц назад +32

      Or his hair. I'm bald

    • @janegrey9
      @janegrey9 Месяц назад +2

      lol so true

    • @SuperstarPecanbar
      @SuperstarPecanbar Месяц назад +2

      @@Rufio1975 facts

    • @ez_ullah_fun
      @ez_ullah_fun Месяц назад +10

      Yes but he’s put in the work and effort for it. We can achieve it too.

  • @andreajoy224
    @andreajoy224 Месяц назад +45

    "Truly, look within; that what you are seeking is seeking you." Love this. Thank you! Beautiful Fall day. Beautiful time of year. 🤗

    • @conniefearnside2279
      @conniefearnside2279 29 дней назад +3

      That quote (though not word for word) is originally from the Sufi mystic, Rumi.. who has a store of beautiful pearls of wisdom

    • @Cy4nSw4n
      @Cy4nSw4n 28 дней назад +2

      Yaay Rumi! 😊❤

  • @lorenstarcrey-tz3sb
    @lorenstarcrey-tz3sb Месяц назад +18

    Right now is such a building part of my life- within the span of 2 years, I lost my father, had a horrible car crash, failed out of my first year of college, and got diagnosed with adhd (and am finally getting adequate help for it!!). I’m back in school and still struggling but I’m actually getting back up when I fall, and asking for help. I still feel super stuck most times but the biggest thing I’ve seen with these experiences is that the issues you want fixed most can only be healed with time. If you accept the situation you’re in to an extent, you are able to slowly make it better without even realizing it. I have hope that I can succeed, and I know whoever is reading this can have that hope too. Bad things happen, life can be so overwhelming and unpredictable, but getting up every day and trying to be kind and make a positive impression on someone is the biggest part.

  • @NorthernPear
    @NorthernPear Месяц назад +43

    Seneca’s letters have become very popular. I’m in Alaska and local bookstores sold out, online bookstores seem to be sold out; I’m basically on a waitlist on Amazon for a new copy. I think the U of Chicago Press owes you a commission, or at least a thank-you card. 😄

  • @UNTITLEDPR0JECT
    @UNTITLEDPR0JECT 22 дня назад +5

    Very reminiscent of Marcus Aurelius' Meditations. bravo!

  • @simon215a
    @simon215a Месяц назад +35

    Thanks a lot. It is feeling like walking and speaking with a friend for seeking wisdom together. Very nice and peaceful morning and routine.

    • @conniefearnside2279
      @conniefearnside2279 29 дней назад +1

      @@simon215a reminds me of walking for hours with a friend back in high school. We walked by the boardwalk at Coney Island or the nearby Manhattan Beach neighborhoods just talking through all of life's issues. Fond memories. I wish I had an adult friend to do this with now. No place to walk here. No sidewalks. Must seek out the woods I guess

    • @simon215a
      @simon215a 29 дней назад

      @@conniefearnside2279 True. So many seeking such friend is wisdom, including me. It so rare at least in my life. But at least now we have youtube and can find same minded people even if they are youtubers and far away.

  • @MaybeMazi
    @MaybeMazi Месяц назад +15

    You’re the only therapist I’ll ever need thank you 🙏🏻

    • @mabaker
      @mabaker Месяц назад +3

      All you need is you. Not external handsome gurus.

    • @user-miko777
      @user-miko777 29 дней назад +3

      @@mabaker loved how you added handsome in the sentence. True compliment to his beauty . lol

    • @MaybeMazi
      @MaybeMazi 26 дней назад

      @@mabaker yeah but he helps too and ig he’s just here to help and nothing else

  • @ayyyowill2803
    @ayyyowill2803 Месяц назад +17

    Perfect timing as always. Thank you

  • @JoVeda_xo
    @JoVeda_xo Месяц назад +8

    I miss the feeling of hope.

  • @zensvlognotapro
    @zensvlognotapro Месяц назад +4

    Talking with substance while walking at beautiful scenery/ park 👍.

  • @seaborn00
    @seaborn00 Месяц назад +9

    Sending love from morocco, Thank you for your wisdom keep up ❤

  • @cat-u7o6y
    @cat-u7o6y Месяц назад +10

    i'm seventeen and have been feeling very lost in life , your videos help me learn and find guidance. thank you !!!

  • @Cy4nSw4n
    @Cy4nSw4n 28 дней назад +12

    This vid is one of my favorites! I love the tree analogy. And this scenery is gorgeous
    All suffering really is internal, isn't it? I think it takes a lot of courage to stand face to face with this fact. It's facing the fact that it's on us to go inwards and shift our thoughts and viewpoints
    And then of course, it's up to us to stay on this journey long term ❤

    • @EMartones
      @EMartones 23 дня назад +2

      The path to better ourselves should not be a competition with ourselves… sometimes our goals seem too hard or too distant. Even if you reach your goals sporadically, you are still turning the wheel, they set a direction, and they aim for adding value to your life, you grow, you become happier, and you learn to appreciate the journey itself, which might be even more enjoyable than reaching your goal.

    • @Cy4nSw4n
      @Cy4nSw4n 20 дней назад +2

      @EMartones I always love your wisdom. ❤️ I've been too hard on myself before. Aand yeah, it definitely never helped lol. I'm in a better mindset lately though. At least somewhat. I've been through quite a lot in my life. I'm in some sort of phase where I'm beginning to finally trust my own self. Learning philosophy is helping immensely

    • @EMartones
      @EMartones 19 дней назад +2

      @@Cy4nSw4n Thank you, I didn’t mean to intrude, my perception from reading your comments that you have been dealing with some difficult issues. If I may, one more suggestion, sometimes it helps to lose yourself in music…do something you enjoy without thinking. Perhaps you are already aware the tremendous ability the way music affects our emotions, music speak to us the way words cannot why we form a powerful connection to it.
      We all deserve the best life has to offer, the ones who most struggle believing they are worthy are often the ones who have the most positive qualities and deserve it the most.

    • @Cy4nSw4n
      @Cy4nSw4n 18 дней назад +1

      @EMartones I truly appreciate it ❤️ and oh my gosh I love musik!! Seriously, it might be wise to not even mention it because i might start droning on about bands and such and not shut up lool ❤️❤️

  • @BKing007
    @BKing007 Месяц назад +5

    Hack into the roots of the problems tree, not into the branches 🙏🏼 I've been working on trying to change subconscious mind and thought process, trying to change habits a bit as well, it's great to see you every now and then because it's very peaceful for me personally and plenty insightful as well

  • @hanne1606
    @hanne1606 29 дней назад +3

    Yes, I have a leak in my roof and my fear went crazy. I need to deal with my fear also, not just the roof. Thank you ❤

  • @magframed
    @magframed 29 дней назад +2

    Really glad that this channel has grown so much! The amount of wisdom is phenomenal. It makes you think. Much better than most of the internet noise today.

  • @Seagram_Hstiung
    @Seagram_Hstiung Месяц назад +2

    I needed this “last puzzle piece” to finish ~this~ “map” of my introspections I have been trying for the longest to complete… to “finally KNOW what to do or where to go”.
    I felt lost for a while and kept “waiting” for things to present themselves so I can act on them. By acting on them I would finally “embark on a path”
    But like you said in the beginning, I can see how in this “stand still” I have actually let myself be still
    And the excuses of “oh I’m healing, oh I need a sign, oh this and that”… I am already over it.
    I watched the movie “Soul” for the first time yesterday. Its message and your piece finally hammered in the root
    I’ve always heard of it but only now has it profoundly resonated. The answer lies within. It’s how we look at things and that can always change
    Thank you!

  • @seandunlap1743
    @seandunlap1743 22 дня назад +2

    I am working to see these difficulties as an opportunity to prepare and correct. I know that these difficulties are of my own creation- and the solutions are also mine to create. Through observation I have seen my own faults as the main contributor to my own stress and the stress given to those around me. Likewise my own love is exponentially reflected back to the world, when given freely.

  • @abesapien9930
    @abesapien9930 28 дней назад +12

    Please take this point of disagreement in the right spirit (I am a huge fan of your channel): I disagree with your metaphor of attempting to see adults as just misguided children, because 1) Children do not have the powers to damage our lives as adults do. For example, children cannot overturn or seriously disrupt our freedoms, government, or way of life. 2) A child's ignorance is not their own fault. But an adult who persists in ignorance, despite correction, despite the availability of information, should not have our sympathies, in my view. Thanks for reading.

  • @megganvandermast8441
    @megganvandermast8441 Месяц назад +3

    Thank you for focusing on this point. This foundation of changing the focus to our internal rather than the external can help shift the consciousness of humanity. Each of us playing out our roles while here in such a beautifully productive way. Thank you.

  • @zagreus_117
    @zagreus_117 Месяц назад +6

    Please keep doing what you do. You’re amazing ❤

  • @jenniferdon5442
    @jenniferdon5442 Месяц назад +2

    I read the title of this video as I was putting off a bit of work that would only take me an hour or so, and your previous videos that I had listened to proved unchallengeable thus I could no longer justify not doing what I knew I was supposed to, I didn't want to pity myself for not foreseeing the full consequences of not doing that work, so rather than watching this video, I got on with my work, finished it, and figured out what was the next priority, once there was a moment of 'downtime' I decided to watch this video, and I must say I'm very grateful for your continued videos!

  • @artisticexpressions59
    @artisticexpressions59 Месяц назад +1

    The work of life as you call it, is a constant work in progress for me, which I thoroughly enjoy..it is life's essence and makes every day truly worthwhile. I love the timing on your videos, just priceless...

  • @AlejandroLopez-ff7sl
    @AlejandroLopez-ff7sl 29 дней назад +1

    this is my favorite channel ever. it always has a very valuable message. thanks for your effort, time, and energy 🙏

  • @megshan09
    @megshan09 Месяц назад +2

    Peace and gentle guidance, thank you for an impressive video.

  • @MattsFreeChannel1
    @MattsFreeChannel1 Месяц назад +3

    "It might, but there's no guarantee." This separates stuff that seems relevant and authentic to the topic from stuff that seems just superficial. Thanks for being honest, in that it's not just, "Shaking them could never work," but, rather, it might not, and you're just leFt with the same problem.

  • @itssteadypoet
    @itssteadypoet 29 дней назад +1

    this is exactly what i needed tonight, thank you so much sir🙏

  • @katja410
    @katja410 Месяц назад

    Yes. Thank you!! ❤Everyone is doing it's best. From his vantage point. And. Some love peace. Some love war. Same love, that connects all.

  • @mmmariiia
    @mmmariiia 29 дней назад +1

    Your beautiful face encourages me to believe in goodness ❤ God bless you

  • @katja410
    @katja410 Месяц назад +1

    We are rational - and feeling beings. The denial of the latter is a problem for most people and reason why they cannot access healthy logic.

  • @moondive4ever
    @moondive4ever Месяц назад

    Such an amazing talk. Thank you for offering this to us. I really appreciate it.

  • @LoveStar333
    @LoveStar333 27 дней назад +2

    No tree has branches so foolish as to fight amongst themselves. 🍁 ~Native American Proverb

  • @reluctantme5183
    @reluctantme5183 Месяц назад

    Thank you for setting one's internal lattice of growth, love and meaning on the right path today. Finding self meaning is a perpetual process which shows our human frailty. I took a good fall walk also today. ❤🖖

  • @annorraxx4341
    @annorraxx4341 Месяц назад

    This video popped up in my feed and was the exact message I needed for something that I’ve been going through that finally came to a head today. Thank you ❤

  • @whithercanada
    @whithercanada Месяц назад +1

    This reminds me of the Sick Man's Prayer from the 12 steps

  • @mimipipi120
    @mimipipi120 Месяц назад +4

    I just finished reading "Wintering" by Katherine May, highly recommend it.

  • @aditibhatnagar6130
    @aditibhatnagar6130 Месяц назад +1

    On anger management, my mum asked me to remember- their saying so doesn’t make it so. This single reminder has helped me control myself in many situations that could easily go out of hand.

  • @AnnieDaddo
    @AnnieDaddo Месяц назад

    Thank you for your insights yet again.Just before I listened to your thoughts I was meditating on a book about prayer I read each morning in the stillness.Not prayers but understanding how to look within to be your authentic self devoid of all the Gods we seek in our world to seduce us so we feel important.The quote from C.S.Lewis says it all in a nutshell: “The prayer preceding all prayers is “May it be the real I who speaks.May it be the real Thou that I speak to”.Go well in your days ,dear heart.Your life’s work is serving many,especially yourself and that is important.Always.🙏❤🌏🦘🦘🐨🌱x

  • @KKGOODBOY000
    @KKGOODBOY000 Месяц назад +2

    you're my favorite content creator love

  • @Reflective_Path-vd2st
    @Reflective_Path-vd2st 24 дня назад

    Work on the inside "arena" vs trying to work on the outside "arena". As you said, it is really the only thing we have control over. And though I'd like to, I don't fully agree that those that do wrong don't know they are doing wrong. That's a possible reason for some scenarios, but usually isn't for most. Many simply 'thrive' on inflicting pain and suffering onto others, knowing full well that it's the wrong thing to do. Not getting angry and forgiving those that do harm to others, is more of a personal coping mechanism that helps us to not get consumed by others decisions and wrong doing, aka externals. Thank you for all your posts.

  • @gurpreet3279
    @gurpreet3279 Месяц назад

    Thank you so much brother for what you are providing us ❤

  • @diyaathappa
    @diyaathappa Месяц назад

    Wow , beautiful lesson thank you and the picturesque background looks marvelous! 🌟

  • @beeticket
    @beeticket 28 дней назад

    I think that your mind is a piece of eternity. Thanks for helping to wake us up.

  • @white6505
    @white6505 Месяц назад +8

    its been so long. St. Mary I pray for your intercession and for your mercy, i pray that you concede me this grace, in the name of your holy son, that i may do what i know i must do. that i break away from the bonds of this horrible addiction. that i am truly free, that i may end what i started so many years ago. I am in your hands, please guide me along the way. Please show me what the other side looks like. free me from my miseries and show me the higher things, show me truth which is bigger than myself. May i stop putting this off. may i fight my battle, today. may i not forget that there is purpose and beauty even in the worst difficulties. may nothing stop me in my way. Have mercy on me, for we are mortal, and one day we must give account on your Son's presence, of what we have done with our being. Help me to stop complaining. may i not feel hopeless, may i aways remember that i have a purpose as a human being and as a man. Allow me to follow it, and let my mind rest when faced with that which i cannot change.

    • @quinnco9
      @quinnco9 Месяц назад

      Shared this prayer with my Catholic friend, who loved it. Thank you

    • @white6505
      @white6505 Месяц назад

      @@quinnco9 im glad, ask him to please pray for me!

  • @ggfffgggds
    @ggfffgggds Месяц назад

    This was perfect timing for today, exactly what i needed to hear

  • @wehavetheenergy
    @wehavetheenergy 26 дней назад +1

    Thank you 🙏

  • @whatwouldpicarddomakeitso9607
    @whatwouldpicarddomakeitso9607 26 дней назад

    Thank you for sharing. 🇬🇧💛🤍

  • @newlife2288
    @newlife2288 Месяц назад

    Thank you. It found me today through your reaching out to me. ❤

  • @tbunnyshy1
    @tbunnyshy1 Месяц назад

    Thank you. It’s time. 🕊

  • @zantigar
    @zantigar Месяц назад

    Very powerful and convincing stuff - wonderfully presented!

  • @alma6065
    @alma6065 Месяц назад

    I think we all somehow make our lives more difficult than they really are. I read somewhere that our brains love problems, and it’s part of our nature. When we don’t have problems, we often look for them, and then we try to fix everything. On the other hand, we don’t like to feel bad. In the end, I think we should give ourselves the opportunity to not feel good. We should allow ourselves to experience our anger and the full spectrum of our emotions, letting them be present, recognizing them, and being there for them. It’s our inner child seeking our attention.❤

  • @EdouardMGrst
    @EdouardMGrst Месяц назад +1

    I fully agree with you.

  • @Englishroserebecca
    @Englishroserebecca Месяц назад +6

    Thank you for another very good video. Beautiful park with so many wonderful colours on the trees.

  • @DailyQuiet
    @DailyQuiet 29 дней назад +1

    Wonderful, thank you

  • @malakissami8199
    @malakissami8199 29 дней назад

    I've never seen that way before so thank you so much

  • @curiousme8
    @curiousme8 29 дней назад

    Thank you for sharing ❤

  • @angeliachenoweth2522
    @angeliachenoweth2522 Месяц назад

    Thank you. So very well said.

  • @Bestlivve
    @Bestlivve Месяц назад

    I have been watching quite a few of accepting the universe videos and with my hand on heart can honestly say I'm changing for the better.....I'm also a slow learner but that's OK.

  • @joshuamoser
    @joshuamoser Месяц назад +1

    Thank you

  • @sweettidings
    @sweettidings Месяц назад

    Thank you for the inspiration.. ❤

  • @EMartones
    @EMartones 25 дней назад +2

    Beautiful autumn day frail leaves gently swaying and falling, feeling the gentle cool breeze caressing your face, sounds of your footsteps and silence. The visual fall landscapes kaleidoscope of brilliant colors, show us the beauty, capture the melancholy magic of the season, and help us to notice more deeply the beauty of life even in its last stages, coming to life in its death, a bittersweet mixture of melancholy and fulfillment. Breathtaking moments, thoughts, and emotions about our own mortality, as we reflect the times of our youth, life’s heartaches, disappointments, regret and the many what if’s?!? We will never have the answers to.
    Long walks joyful solitude being together in nature can give us an inexplicable feeling of tranquility, peace, and joy…embracing uncertainty feel the breath, the strength that comes from within and radiates out can be exhilarating…

    • @andreajoy224
      @andreajoy224 24 дня назад

      @@EMartones 🍂😊🤗

    • @EMartones
      @EMartones 23 дня назад +1

      @@andreajoy224 Thanks 💃

  • @Mentesestoicas_
    @Mentesestoicas_ Месяц назад +4

    I know is pure logic of satistics but this dude needs to stop stalking my life to know me so much.

  • @canttReid
    @canttReid Месяц назад

    Love you brother. I thoroughly enjoy seeing a new upload from you arrive in my feed.
    This is the hardest concept to overcome for me yet. The nazi’s thought they knew what was the truth and killed innocent people. The opposition killed the nazi’s because they thought they knew the truth.
    How can we fight for what we believe to be true when it combats what others believe to be the truth?

  • @PrinceJha-fz4cv
    @PrinceJha-fz4cv Месяц назад +1

    Thank you for introducing me to Emerson.

  • @flowerofvenuss
    @flowerofvenuss 28 дней назад

    thank you so much for this

  • @jazzy4164
    @jazzy4164 Месяц назад

    You need to do a qna , really curious about you. Love your work.

  • @hadesggx
    @hadesggx Месяц назад

    Hey thanks man! Really needed this

  • @TheVail1234
    @TheVail1234 Месяц назад

    Very smart dude. Please keep on rolling

  • @lanalana2951
    @lanalana2951 22 дня назад

    You have Keanu Reeves vibe) Thank you for this video

  • @Buckleupbucko
    @Buckleupbucko Месяц назад

    Thanks a lot. I’ll get back to work

  • @amruthark9071
    @amruthark9071 Месяц назад

    Needed this..!! Thank you..!!:)

  • @S...S...Baigajmer
    @S...S...Baigajmer Месяц назад

    this format of videos suits me a lot

  • @soili3991
    @soili3991 Месяц назад

    Thank you❤

  • @Geemeel1
    @Geemeel1 Месяц назад +1

    An old wise Soul came back to us , embodied in the most beautiful body and charismatic face I've seen in long times, he might be even Seneca himself reincarnated. Believe me!! 💖

  • @rev.9683
    @rev.9683 Месяц назад

    Thankyou for this ♡

  • @lisahyyppa3360
    @lisahyyppa3360 Месяц назад

    Thank you for these messages that you share. They afford opportunity to reflect upon & accentuate my own messages as i share/include them in a dialogue of my life’s journey (personal account, not for profiteering purposes. Rather for His Higher wisdom as i am ‘here’ to share fair warning messages, prayers & encouragement, global outreach in multidimensional perspective, being led by the indwelling Holy Spirit in total allegiance unto & dependence upon Christ Jesus). God Bless you with much love & gratitude in Christ Jesus

    • @lisahyyppa3360
      @lisahyyppa3360 Месяц назад

      ruclips.net/video/yFsiKSPmXYI/видео.htmlsi=R76lLgmr6zlormQU
      Please do not be alarmed by the video of the crashed wreckage of a military aircraft. This message you share accentuates many, many, many warning messages in regards to my personal life’s journey (i am protected by Jesus Christ and the Arch Angel Michael). Indeed, we must evaluate ourselves & be accountable in ALL of our actions &/or inactions.

  • @quintinheerah3588
    @quintinheerah3588 Месяц назад

    Wisdom for our times

  • @rayanknezic8682
    @rayanknezic8682 27 дней назад +1

    What camera and lense do you use to film yourself, man? Great video

  • @solromero7415
    @solromero7415 Месяц назад

    Thank you . . .

  • @JeanDelucre2358
    @JeanDelucre2358 Месяц назад

    As always, another wonderful video! Thank you for this gift. I do have one question, and I hope you don't mind me asking. Do you record from your phone? Do you use a mic? Your resolution and sound are always high quality.

  • @richardchong366
    @richardchong366 Месяц назад

    Thank you for your video

  • @lucasjsnyder
    @lucasjsnyder Месяц назад

    I would love to know where this video was taken. Looks amazing.

  • @fabianespinozadiaz
    @fabianespinozadiaz Месяц назад

    great video, thanks

  • @lukeddm
    @lukeddm Месяц назад +1

    We sure do seem to gravitate to this cycle, don't we.

  • @myodesign
    @myodesign 26 дней назад

    May I ask what kind of gear you are using to film? Especially the audio? It's quite good.

  • @kabilanbaskaran6813
    @kabilanbaskaran6813 Месяц назад +1

    You’re a modern day Seneca!!

  • @juan-cruz-98
    @juan-cruz-98 Месяц назад

    Que lindo lugar.

  • @bkk3010
    @bkk3010 Месяц назад

    Honestly can I be your student? As a young adult i find your wisdom as a scalpel to how I frame my perspective on things and i just really would like to learn all I can from you.

  • @FracturedParadigms
    @FracturedParadigms Месяц назад +5

    A closed hand that does not give can also not receive

  • @ThazzaKnoife
    @ThazzaKnoife 29 дней назад

    By chance have you ever read The Courage To Be Disliked by Ichiro Kishimi? It would be interesting to hear your thoughts on it and how it intersects or not with your current understanding and view of philosophy.

  • @rationalideal
    @rationalideal Месяц назад +1

    Bad acts are the product of ignorant judgments about what is the good, since all rational beings seek, naturally, some good. Our modern culture and world has misidentified pleasure as the good, repeating the ancient epicurean tradition. We need to reject pleasure as the highest good, and recognize the only good, virtue itself.

  • @daolinchen
    @daolinchen 29 дней назад

    some people try to harm other people on purpose, and you will get angry, try not to get triggered, go jogging, jump into cold water or just buy some time to accept the fact that you are human... this will happen until the rest of your life, learn to deal with it: You will get angry!

  • @sabahatnaheed1435
    @sabahatnaheed1435 Месяц назад

    wow the background so beautiful. where is that?

  • @susbedoo
    @susbedoo Месяц назад +1

    How do you let go of emotions? Especially the unrequited love. Why do we lose all rationality when it comes to this?

    • @bluewizzard8843
      @bluewizzard8843 Месяц назад +1

      Emotions are different than rational thoughts. Emotions aren't wrong ever. What Matters how we decide to deal with them. Feeling anger, eadness , aggression anything is valuable. It's true when you understand you will feel less anger, sadness, depression but for now you need to feel them and Accept them.

    • @susbedoo
      @susbedoo Месяц назад +1

      @@bluewizzard8843 I am having a hard time accepting reality. Is something wrong with my brain? Why does it want to suffer? Irony, the brain is making me type all this.
      I don't wanna be an emotional fool anymore.

  • @spacecoverseur
    @spacecoverseur 29 дней назад

    I certainly agree with your share and suggestions.
    "my two cents"
    My guess is, that you must grown up in a relative secure environment. I mean, compassionate and loving parents which have treated you full heartedly and with respect, despite their individual imperfections. If it's the case, that would explain your World view, obviously it's tied to the mindset too.
    In my case I did experience different kinds of human behaviors, or personalities. It's tied to my upbringing and it was full on filled with insecurities and cruel / ill minded behavior. Unfortunately it's because of generational trauma.
    I am sure you had something equally to fight with, from the feeling side, just a different set of challenges.
    My guess is, lack of availability since my assumption goes that you had high achieving parents.
    In my case it was the opposite, it was too controlling and micromanaging and violent, though very available and physical also, in the sense of love.
    Both extremes bring a different set of challenges. Also a different Pain/Reward situation.
    I guess if I had a little bit of what you had and you a little bit of what I had. We would probably wouldn't catch up here on RUclips under these circumstances.
    If i am totally mistaken, feel free to call me out and I will show Humility. (i am not all knowing, just a good guesser)
    Almost forgot, your video motivated me to "finally" get my RUclips Channel started. Very appreciative from my end!

  • @pydxq8167
    @pydxq8167 Месяц назад

    great video thaanks

  • @aklcraigc
    @aklcraigc Месяц назад +2

    The problem with the analogy of children not knowing any better and us not being angry about it, is that children then don't get to enforce their world view on us via. an election (if I'm reading the slant correctly). One of course must start with oneself, but I think it would be naive to not be (for example) angry at the election of the Nazi party. Adult views have real world consequences which one can be on the wrong or right side of.

    • @aya-h98
      @aya-h98 24 дня назад

      I totally agree. Right now, a lot of politicians are complicit in disgusting war crimes, genocide, and of course if we want to look internally, putting imperial interests over their own people's welfare. I understand the idea of not letting anger against them consume you - but I disagree with the idea of internalizing all your beliefs and values. We should, in fact, work externally too. Maybe we can't go up to politicians and shake them ( because, let's face it - they don't care ), but I absolutely believe in working within your community towards helping influence the external world as much as possible. Fundraisers for humanitarian aid, demonstrations, signing petitions, and voting for those who truly do not have it in their agenda to keep the brutal status quo. I'm not a big fan of this stoic self-help content (maybe this was not the message of the video - but sure felt like it) of telling people essentially to stay in their lane and turn off the "care" button. Because in a way, anger is a sign you care about something, and it is absolutely something you should listen to and not try to tame into submission without channelling it into positive action.

  • @albertgiraudier
    @albertgiraudier 10 дней назад

    Nice Barbour jacket

  • @HIIMBETTY
    @HIIMBETTY 25 дней назад

    the way i clocked in for this pookie boo