Why Some Men Don't Fear Being Rejected By Women
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- Опубликовано: 30 сен 2024
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Dan sir, I got rejected by 8/10 women initially.but after reading Your magic book 'The flow'and applying the rules 2-3 women out 10 rejected me and thats coz they are in serious relatiinship but still they were attracted to me. Thats was the result of cofidence which i gain after watching your vidios and reading that book of yours Thank you again for helping thousands of guys like me...and we have to get rejected to get the best women. For us...your advices are pure gold
Thank yo dan👍
Great to hear Deepak! I love your mindset too. Some guys, who are looking for ANY excuse not to face up to their fear of talking to women, want a 100% success rate. It's not possible because you sometimes come across women who have a boyfriend, or just aren't a good match for you. As for you already getting 70-80% of the women you meet - that is awesome. You can increase that to 80-90% as you improve your skills, but even 70-80% gets you plenty of hot, beautiful, pretty and sexy women. Much better than the 0% that most guys are getting these days. Enjoy the fun times ahead! Cheers, Dan 👍
"Women are not wired to reward weakness" "They are not wired to breed weakness".
I have watched many of Dan's videos. But this is eye opening, the way he worded this.
I was for a time terrified of rejection. Once I got confident and successful, started dressing better...now woman hit on me everyday. 😂Im not jacked,tall 5"7" 150pounds. 41 years old and even have woman half my age trying to get me. Listen to this man boys....wish I found his lessons when I was young.
It baffles my mind how some men are scared to approach. These girls at the bar are their for a reason lol
Hi dan your videos help out a lot! I got a hot gf that is 5 inches taller than me . Initially her respect for me wasn’t really there , until I started gaining that respect from her. By displaying traits mentioned in your videos. Fast forward her love and respect for me has increased. She’s a jealous girl and it’s funny to me , she looks at me and kisses me on the cheek often . I love being masculine and I can tell she loves being girly around me . She wants to have a kid now and it’s insane. Guys usually give up on a woman once they start testing there confidence but I stuck through it and laughed at her test and continued to be the same confident man . Now things between me and her are going great . Thanks Dan for letting me in on your secrets . I’m only 18yrs old , and it feels good to know what a lot of guys don’t know .
What if woman rejected you but few days later act like she is intrested again? Try again or just ignore her?
I’m guilty on all counts.
I’m in my mid 30’s and whilst I’ve hooked up with a few hotties over the years, I definitely felt that I lucked those girls. I’ve never felt totally confident in approaching and have either missed opportunities outright or just been totally nervous and anxious when I did have the chance.
After my latest heart break nearly 6 months ago, I vow to get on top of this and change my dating life for the better. My flirting/ bantering skills have already improved 10 fold this year.
Im not fear to be rejected. But I fear that i miss my chance and I have only one. I leave in small town but I know few interesting womans. But im afraid if i make a move, and she is not ready enough then it spoil everything and I will lose my chance for ever. So I wait for the move trying to create spark and attraction. But finally i never make a move beceause of this, and even i feel i build some chemistry... im still afreid not to be rejected but to lose my only one chance and never get it back. Its like reveling all cards in pokred, check them and lose. So i always wait for better hand.
Hi Dan just recently started watching your videos you make some great content . I can attest as a 47 year old guy that living with the fear of rejection is a miserable existence .. At the beginning of the year I came out of a very long relationship which
should have ended years and years ago . I know I stayed because i believe that i couldn’t find someone that i truly wanted to be with . I know that might sound terrible but that’s how it was . My confidence has always been rock bottom when it comes to attracting women , but I know I had to make the change albeit this late .which one of your programs would you recommend to get me on the right track . I refuse to live like this any longer .
The scenarios of guys you describe in this video describes me perfectly .
Regards ….
Glad to hear that my videos have been helping you. If you have trouble attracting women during conversations and want them to want you sexually and romantically, the best program for you is The Flow: store.themodernman.com/in/4209c24 I created and used The Flow to go from having NO options with women, to enjoying my choice of women for over 10 years, before then settling down with my perfect girl, who I am still with to this day (11 years together). If you use the techniques from The Flow, women will feel attracted to you and you will know what to say and do to go from one step to the next with them. Enjoy the fun times ahead with women! Cheers, Dan
Thanks for your reply Dan I will definitely purchase that from your site . You are doing really good important work for those of us that struggle with this aspect of life . ❤
I fall under basically all the stuff mentioned in this video. I'm 30 years old, I have never once had a girlfriend, I can't even score a simple date with a girl every time I've tried asking a girl out they would flat out say no and say because i'm ugly and not attractive enough to date them. I'm basically done trying and have given up. Dating this day and age just doesn't seem worth it. i've been single 30 years encounting. and i'm convinced i'll never experience dating a woman.
If that's what you believe about yourself, you should watch these two videos:
ruclips.net/video/nQiYHFcVqn8/видео.html
www.themodernman.com/the-secret-to-success-with-women.html
Go to the gym. It will boost your confidence and it will just improve you overall (aside from women). Then the women will come. Confidence is everything. Looks are not their main concern, trust me. Women are different from men in that way.
Start small and build yourself up my man, but whatever you do don’t give up!
Imma pray 4 u brother
You can’t just say shi like that and expect positive things to happen bro
I'm watching some Dan Bacon videos before attending a large university gala next week. I've made a commitment to really escalate this time and flirt with girls, rejections be damned... I know I can do it, I just need reassurance and a nudge in the right direction. Thanks for all the stellar content, Dan!
Great to hear Edric! I highly recommend that you watch this before the event ruclips.net/video/G9ThUt9icy0/видео.html
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Dan upping his style game and looking sharp.
I think it would be awesome if you made a specific video on flirting techniques. I know you give examples all the time but some guys are genuinely so bad at it they basically need a 20+ minute video on learning how to do basic bantering.
For sure.
Oh my GOD
I thought you're such talented dirty man because of these photos you're sharing , but after listening videos like that I find you a sincere messenger more than a talented coach. thank you May GOD blesses your sincere words and works
Hey Dan could you do a video on why women friend groups get mad at men? This one girl I was seeing asked how I felt about her and I said she could get more of an arse. She got mad at me and told her friend and they gave me the cold shoulder. I got the cold shoulder again from this group of girls after I stopped pursuing one of her friends. She would just stand near me and would say anything and I would always start a conversation with her. I tried to move it forward but she then started talking to other guys so I stopped talking to her completely during class and then their friends gave me the cold shoulder. What the heck? What’s going on here?
Mr. Bacon I'm gonna have to get your program 🥓
Your contents are fire. No more masterbations.
32 and never dated or girlfriend, kissed over 60, even the hottest ones and rejected them even by mistake.. its really about knowing my mom was dieing At my birth and avoiding all love.. even the sun/warmth makes me extremely uncomfortable/pain. But working on it. Just fix the connection you have with female love from the childhood✌️
In a ancient tribal society. If a man hits on a taken women, he will end up dead in the night.
Dan, I love the humor in your videos! You have great down to earth advice, and by far the most entertaining videos to watch.
What if the girl has a boyfriend, but you really, really like her? Should you wait for her to break up? Or should you try with other girls, although you know that the girl you really want is another?
Well, your last sentence partially reveals your mindset. You would probably compare or expect unattainable standards that you know from your crush.
When you start dating others, think of it as an exercise that doesn't initially commit you to anything.
As long as you don't make any hasty confessions.
Opt A)
You don't want to commit completely, because you're secretly waiting for your crush.
Be clear about this for yourself, don't make promises/confessions you don't want to keep.
Opt B)
You want to commit fully, then offer her a fair and open chance to get to know eachother and everything that comes after, without any ifs or buts.
I've been in both scenarios too afraid to approach hot women and also bold enough to approach them.
Excellent points, thanks Dan. I'm going to review your Flow program again and take responsibility and action!
Dan, you’re a wise man when it comes to dating.
Thanks dan...
You are the man 😎
You changed my mindset... 🤟
Great to hear Senty! It only gets better from where you are now. Enjoy the fun times ahead! Cheers, Dan
All this hits the nail on the head for me. My ex finding out till it was all a lie. Made feel things that were false. Now I have to start over again. Thanks Dan
A goal one day is to meet Dan and do a podcast with him.
Your a global icon for dating, very much appreciated.
Good timing. You might actually have that opportunity. Working on something that will be announced next year.
I fear women destroying my life
Damn Dan, i was scared AF of woman, but I'm getting good at this using your techniques. This weekend I had 3 girls talking and flirting with me, and girls were checking me out cuz of my vibe. I wonder xhat my life will be like when I master this .
Great Dan...
Cheers 👍 Glad you enjoyed the vid Ram
I think if this stuff were taught to kids. Obviously in appropriate stages, I think war would be way less likely and the world we be an infinitely happier place to be. I’ve listened to a ton of saying that experts in my life and every so often I run into a real gen of a teacher. Dan is definitely one of those.
The new format is great!
Thanks Beethovan 👍
Dan, what's your advice on how to deal with toxic family members from your wifes side constantly interfering and causing issues in your marriage.
Thanks Dan
I wrote a couple of articles on the topic on my website:
www.themodernman.com/blog/my-girlfriend-broke-up-with-me-because-of-her-family.html
www.themodernman.com/blog/my-girlfriends-parents-hate-me.html
Also: If you make your wife feel a compelling level of respect, attraction and love for you, she will want to distance herself from them so she doesn't lose you.
Thanks Dan your advise is always spot on
I would like to know if you recommend to practice game inside your social circle ( work, University, school..) or outside your social circle!
Hey Dan... Fantastic video. However, how can you handle a girl who is attracted to you and but is dodging all opportunities to hang out with you and be with you sexually?
Also, how do you go for a kiss with women who can't make eye contact with you?
My female friend is married ( or states and says she is deathly afraid of her husband. ) I believe this a test to check my confidence and manhood ( see if I would turn tail and slink away) also no pics in her office of her husband, or any one else
For me, being afraid she'll say no is much less of an issue than trying anyway when I *expect* her to say no.
Hi Dan,
I am dating a girl since 2 months and we have been on 3 dates. I am not chasing relationship, and only focused on making her feel attracted whenever I see her.
She has broken up with a guy recently, so she is not opening up to me. She says she doesn't feel the same.
She holds my hand, hugs me, and touch me, but she is not letting me escalate to kiss and sex. She is rejecting me right from first meet.
What should I do?
This is a very difficult situation and I am not able to fix it.
You just described me perfectly this sucks
Yes mr. Bacon 🥓 its hard to date in todays world as an average man. Social media has boosted womens egoes. So it makes it very intimidating
How do you act and respond to co-workers (group of girls that you’re friendly with) that are heavily teasing you? And is this a test?
It's definately a test hot womens always do that and if they are with friends they do that even more. The simple answer is being confident.
Interesting....
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Cheers AJ - glad you enjoyed the vid man
Dan, the master of masters!
Phenomenal talk, as usual.
Pay attention to what Dan is saying. If you sit on the sidelines making plans, nothing will happen, There are plenty of girls looking for a nice man. Don't worry, relax, you are a nice man. If you weren't, you would have done something to improve yourself. There is a lid for every kettle. Just be yourself, and you will find a woman who loves you. You don't realize it, but someone is looking for you!
Just remember, be yourself, and you will not have to fake anything.
Cheers William 👍 I will add to that: As long as 'being yourself' includes being confident and displaying other attractive personality traits, then great. Yet, if 'being yourself' means that a guy is insecure, shy, too soft, etc, then he's not going to have much or any success and won't get the kind of girls he really wants. Being yourself works if you also know how to display attractive personality traits (e.g. confidence, emotional masculinity, charisma, charm, humor, social intelligence). Cheers, Dan
Totally agree with Dan, just being you may not be the answer to your problems. You’ve gotta develop confidence, charisma, charm and humour and then mesh it with your own unique personality. That’s the YOU that women will feel attracted to.
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Great content👍
Thanks Dan
the best way to overcome this fear is being rejected once
It would be nice if that were true, but unfortunately it isn't. Getting rejected hurts most guys and causes them to go into their shell and avoid doing it again in future. What makes a guy overcome his fear of rejection is what I explain in the video. Without that, the fear will usually remain and in many cases, deepen. Cheers, Dan
@@DanBacon_ it worked on me, though. I saw that this i not the end of the world, I dated some women that I got rejected before
Awesome - that shows how strong you are. Not many men can do what you did, which is why videos like mine exist. Most men are damaged by the rejections they've received and can't get past it. Good on you though for doing what did. Very impressive 👍
I think destinate to die alone and never have a relationship. Not had a relationship within 44 years . Gave up a long time ago
Hi Dan, I’m torn about something. I want to go out and meet women more often, but I have some debt and back taxes that I’m not proud of and get insecure about how a woman would feel about that. I also am working on moving further along in my music career. I work for myself, am a talented drummer working on putting myself out there in my city, and am a good looking, emotionally intelligent guy. By emotionally intelligent I mean I’ve processed my baggage in therapy, I’m aware of my emotions, can stay centered when things get tough. Not like using ‘emotional intelligence’ as a means to emotional vomit on the first date haha. I’ve watched and listened to all of your programs and they have helped my confidence levels go up quite a bit. I’m 27 and I go back in forth between getting fired up to get out there more and quitting dating until I’m more developed as a man in a few years. This probably sounds like the ‘not good enough.. yet’ mindset you talk about in some of your other content. Maybe it comes back just getting out there and practicing the confidence mindset in The Flow?
Yes, you have to put it into practice, not just learn it. You essentially have the keys to the car, but are too scared to drive it. In terms of waiting until you're in a better position before you even try to talk to to women, watch this: ruclips.net/video/7UcgZgeLbNg/видео.html
BTW: Look at all the success stories guys leave in the comments section of my videos. They have learned from my programs, used the advice and then gotten the results. Remaining stuck at just learning isn't going to get you what you want. You have to use the techniques from the program and you will then see that women feel attracted to you and you're able to move things forward, despite not being where you want to be at in life.
Almost all guys who get laid or get a girlfriend are NOT already successful in life. If that was required, no guy in school, at university or working a casual, part time or low paying job would get a girlfriend...but, they do.
@@DanBacon_ thanks Dan. You said what I needed to hear. Great video by the way. I’ve been working a lot and consequently (also partly because of the insecurity I mentioned) have been finding it hard to motivate myself to go out to meet women. This area has been like the dark cloud metaphor you mentioned for my whole life. Im tired of it and I know it’s up to me to take the action. I’m a lot stronger and more confident now than where I was at this point last year. You’re the man.
Hey Dan, wtf is masculinity? I'm just not getting it. One of my bigger struggles is standing up for my self wth people or relationships.
So I've been seeing that im able to make women attracted but being able to keep it together is my worry. I have trouble maintaining that dominant position
I'll make a video on the topic of masculinity soon - stay tuned. In the meantime, I dedicate an entire section of The Flow to the topic of masculinity and provide examples. The Flow: store.themodernman.com/in/4209c24 I also give examples of masculinity in terms of relationships with women, in my program Make Her Love You For Life: store.themodernman.com/in/36c8289
Thank you
Hey dan "I am a good-looking Indian, and all my friends with not-so-good-looking faces have girlfriends, but I am unable to attract anyone. Why is that?"
Confidence/ flirting game/ approaching technique?
It would have to be one of those, you might have to fill us in a little more so Dan can give you a prognosis.
Hey Dan, have you ever thought of doing YT livestreams. So we can ask you questions on the spot.
Also, I recently watched BTABB again, and I was curious how is your vision of your purpose looking like nowadays. Is it still tech, ai, psychology, etc?
Yes, but not on RUclips. I will be offering that next year. Something in the works. Stay tuned.
Man I love Dan Bacon 🥓
He seems to genuinely care, he's like the older male in my life that I never had, who seems to genuinely care.
A class act 👌