4 Ways Men Scare Women Away Without Knowing it
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Throughout your life, there have been SO MANY women who have felt attracted to you and liked you, but then been SCARED off by your reaction to them.
She would have had sex or a relationship with you, but was too afraid to show interest, or she lost interest based on how you were reacting to her.
Watch the video above and see if you've been making any of the 4 common mistakes men make that scare women off; often without the man even realizing it.
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Dan, as a mental health nurse I work with all kinds of guys of all ages who seriously struggle with issues around women and relationships- your channel has helped me to help them, and I know your offering life saving advice to a raging epidemic of lonely and confused guys, your work and what you do is more important than you know- thank you so much for your contribution to mens health, you are appreciated brother.
Thank you for letting me know that. It's great men like you that help spread the positive message I teach and together we change the world, one man at a time. I definitely have patients like yours in the back of my mind as well when making videos, because I too used to be lonely and confused regarding women. So, thank you for helping the cause and helping to lift up and support the men of this world. Cheers, Dan 👍
I think men assume women are so confident because if men were given that much attention they would be extremely confident
I hate it because I 100% believe in it. Forget black pill, forget red pill, forget MGTOW- this dude speaks the freaking truth.
Haha, I love that. Yes, the truth hurts sometimes, but in this case, it also gives you a chance to become stronger, level up and experience what you want with women. Enjoy the fun times ahead with women. Cheers, Dan 👍
You made my girlfriend fall head over heels for me brother. Thank you for all that you do
Well done man! Congrats and credit to you for putting the advice into action. Enjoy the great times ahead! Cheers, Dan 👍
Once I realised "women just are, and men have to become" then I also realised "men have to put themselves out there for potential rejection, as women are terrified of rejection so won't actually take action even if attracted" ... the whole game became easier on me psychologically.
Good Work Dan!... great video!
Exactly. So many guys are waiting and hoping for the day that women suddenly change, 'man up' and start approaching and asking men out. Not going to happen because women are not physically wired that way (i.e. the sexual pursuit area of a woman's brain is 2.5 times smaller compared to a man's brain). Got to go after what you want as a man. Cheers, Dan
You got me on avoiding eye contact... i do this a lot because i'm scared on showing interest in a way lol
The short clips of those women expressing themselves got me rolling on the floor. 😂😂😂🤣
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I got your E-book the 'FLOW' I can’t wait to read it and start applying it. It’s been a rough week but I know this is definitely going to be a great thing! Thanks for everything! All the best Dan!
Awesome man! You are on the right path now. Read it and begin applying some of the techniques (especially the first technique in the section on Confidence). You will see an immediate improvement in results, if you use the techniques. Then, it only gets better and better from there! Enjoy the fun times ahead with women! Cheers, Dan 👍
Dan Bacon I do have a question. Your videos have made me realize that I am just as good as any woman and that I do not need to impress her. My question is when you do check a woman out and give her that smile that your checking her out and showing interest how do you do it in a way that does not make that smile come across as creepy looking.
It will come across as creepy if you are afraid to show interest. A type of guy that women refer to as creepy is one who clearly finds women attractive, but tries very hard to conceal it. Yet, what you feel on the inside comes through via your body language, which is why it's best to just be honest and let your interest show in a confidence, relaxed manner as I demonstrated in the video. Cheers, Dan 👍
Now I know why I'm single 😂
Dan, you're a legend mate! I'm 27 years old and feel... like I've gotten nowehere in this area. I feel hope again bu watching some videos last night and then THIS video! I'm subscribing right now, and I am going to buy your book Flow.
Awesome to hear Hayden. I look forward to hearing a success story from you sometime soon. Read The Flow and put the advice into action. You will see an immediate difference. Enjoy the amazing times ahead with women! Cheers, Dan
Yep this just hapend to me.
She was interested.
I slow played it.
I acted insensitive and detached.
She ghosted me.
Facts. So extreme are not the key. Not being too nice but not being to rude or aggressive. Just discovered your channel and it's amazing, great, and making light about this subject.
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Hi Dan I've been able to attract women. Still, after a month or so when it comes to maintaining the attraction I've noticed that I start to become more attached and end up thinking she's gonna maybe start losing interest in me and start to talk to another guy. If u could plz tell me a way to overcome this fear of mine as it's been happening repeatedly.
You need to create a dynamic where you are showing interest, but she is the one trying to get you to commit more and more. You have to put yourself in the position of power, otherwise you will be at her mercy. Cheers, Dan
@@DanBacon_ So if I keep myself in the position of power I can maintain her attraction forever and she won't fall for other guys?
@@douma1131buddy, women can and will fall for another guy. But who cares? She should be the one worried that you're going to find a girl who's better than her. How do you accomplish that? By showing her that you have options, some of which are hotter than her.
Dan, can you explain this situation please mate. I frequent this supermarket and there was a girl in there that gave every sign under the sun she was interested, held eye contact/big smile/side eyeing me as I walked by her etc, even my firiend said she likes you buddy. I saw her two other times after that and she was still looking although not as obvious as the first time. I approached her last week I said 'I know this is a bit random but I could not leave this supermarket without knowing your name I'd be kicking my self, you look great' and this girl didn't even give me her name she just scurried off 😂I'm laughing about it now but at the time it was baffling. This girl was on the younger side maybe 20 so maybe she was shy about the whole thing possibly first time she'd ever been approached in public but it's an absolute head scratcher given the interest level. I get guys have to put themselves out there Dan and take the lumps but situations like this do put you off giving it a crack, cheers.
Good on you for approaching and giving it a shot, but you used the wrong conversation starter for that situation. Since she had been giving you lots of signs of interest and was working there (i.e. you could just go back and see her again), all you needed was a simple, "Hey, how are you? Busy day today?" The conversation starter you used, which I provided in a RUclips video was suited to the situation I was in at the time (i.e. walking past a model woman in the middle of the city, who I then got the number of and got into a sexual relationship with). Charming conversation starters like that help show a woman that you're not a creep or weirdo, which is why they work. Saying, "Hey, how are you? Busy day today?" to a woman walking past you in the city will result in her seeing you as a creep or weirdo. Get it? 😄 👍 You essentially came on a little too strong at the supermarket and used a conversation starter that didn't match the situation. BTW: I have an entire program about starting conversations with women and picking them up in 21 different environments (including when women are working in clothing stores, as receptionists, etc). Check it out here: store.themodernman.com/21_great_ways_to_get_a_girlfriend.html Cheers, Dan
The great thing that Dan Bacon does is help you see things from a woman's perspective and when you do it all makes logical sense.
Exactly 👍 Without that, it's just one side of the story. A full perspective is needed to understand the situation properly and then see the real solution. Cheers, Dan
Your doing great work bro! Out here saving lives once again
Cheers Diondre - glad you enjoyed the vid man 👍
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Very good video Dan! You said something really interesting at the end of the video that was about resentment.
I recently noticed it in myself, I always avoided women, in my mind I would think "oh this whole game is not worth, why should I be the one to discard myself and adapt to the women's liking?" And at the root of this thought I found resentment. I'm still in the beginning of the process, so I don't think I will be able to use this new finding in my own favor, yet. But I will keep trying to improve, not only this social skills with women, but social skills in general.
Thank you for the video!
I love you so much man.. I appreciate you a lot.
Hey man, how do you deal with negative emotions? And what's the best thing to say after hello with a woman if you approached her on the streets?
Awesome video, as always!! Keeping eye contact with the lady is a great point you made! By the way, I just finished reading The Flow, and I can't wait to use the steps of The Flow in person with women!!
Cheers, CJ
All I can say is thank you Dan, your knowledge is 100% worth. My romantic life has changed for good. MUCHAS GRACIAS ERES UN CHINGÓN.
Bro just called me out on everything i do wrong 😂
You care about balance and flow. May GOD Blesses you
You’ve changed the entire trajectory of my life. Thank you endlessly, Dan. I hope people truly study and apply this stuff because it’s the ultimate truth. Of all the dating and red pill content out there - this is the real deal. This is life changing stuff. You’re exceptionally and uniquely brilliant when it comes to understanding attraction Dan. There’s truly no other content worth watching besides Dan Bacon.
Dan you never fail to surprise me! Each time it’s something that makes me click…. I desperately needed this advice, I’ve literally scared woman that I actually liked by being in that detached mindset
Thanks Dan may u blessed Fs with much many yrs as you help more guys in the worlllld .Thanks once again Dan
What happen you vibing then you do light touches and girl says don't touch me
Yes dan, it a universal truth. This advice is better than 99.999 percent POA out there on youtube. its always a man's role to get what he wants not in insecure but in a confident way. Every Men should follow this I can assure it works denifinitly.cheers Dan🎉
So good advice for guys about girls given in a very wise, clear, comfortable and friendly, just normal way. Thank you Dan.
Dan the Legend! Thank you for kicking us boyz in the ass to go do what we are born to do.
What I've learned from this video is to allow myself to express what I'm authentically thinking and feeling not just with women, but in life as well in regards to what I like and don't like, my beliefs and whatever else. So women can really pick up on all of this stuff? How did women learn it? Is it an inherent intuition that women in general have about men? Apparently I need to stop trying to hide and let myself want what I want because it sounds like I ultimately can't hide regardless of how hard I try
Generally speaking, women are inherently better at understanding this stuff than men because it is necessary when selecting a breeding partner, which is what is really going on beneath the surface of attraction, dating and relationships. For example: Men are instinctively attracted to physically attractive, healthy, youthful looking women without having to think about it. That instinctive attraction pushes men to go for women who would produce healthy, good looking babies, even if a man doesn't want to have children. Women are instinctively attracted to confident, masculine men without having to think about it. That instinctive attraction pushes women to go for men who are more likely to be respected by other men (safer for her) and more likely to have the balls and sense of masculine responsibility to protect and provide for her. Cheers, Dan
@@DanBacon_ I've never thought of it that way but that makes sense
Its like have a basketball in your hand, people think you gonna hit the basket, great, round of applause! Are u gonna shoot? Nah, too desperate to do that, i know im gonna hit it anyway, everyone knows it. Just needy to show off that type of things.
No basketballs were thrown that day.
For sure. Unfortunately happens for a lot of handsome guys too who know they look good, but never start conversations with women to give themselves a chance. Then, average guys like me step in and take all the girls. In most cases with women, it's the guy who gives himself a chance that gets the result. Shoot your shot. Cheers, Dan
Congrats on 400K subs, finally! 😀🥳
Dan you knowledge and quick wit when it comes to social dynamics is. Impressive
I tried the acting like not caring and being masculine but my appearance don’t help so have to make it a case to show that I’m not a douche and it was a game changer. I like to use Jason mamoa as an example that dude looks intimidating imagine if he put to play all his masculine traits men would be scared let alone women
Good to hear. Simply focus on making women feel attracted and move things forward. Don't wait for a fantasy world to suddenly occur where women change and begin approaching and trying to pick up men. It's not going to happen. You have to talk to women, make them feel attracted and move things forward. Without that, a guy is relying on luck and every guy reading this comment knows how 'lucky' he is when it comes to attracting pretty women who then want to stay with him. Get this area of your life under control. Cheers, Dan
keep up the good work
thank you for everything 🙏
love u from ethiopia
Cheers man. A lot of hot women in Ethiopia 😄 Back when I was single, I was planning on visiting a number of countries in Africa, including Ethiopia. Yet, then one night, my wife walked into a nightclub and I stopped looking for new women to attract. Hope all is well. Cheers, Dan
Dan ℹ thank you one million times you have changed my reality about women
Awesome to hear man. You're on the right path. It will only get better for you from now on. Enjoy the great times ahead with women! Cheers, Dan
Dan is the best of the best
Dan, I feel like I wanna give up on my current relationship. Could you do a video about girlfriends who is in a relationship but still go out and see other guy friends?
My gf keep mentioning other dudes names and I’m really confused on what to do. I feel very suspicious from the inside.
Awesome video.
Bro how to stay attract my girl in long term relationship ❤
Women don't even treat me like a human.
Dan Bacon is a chad 💪, he knows a lot
This was the video I needed. Going through it right now trying to find the balance. I’ve always been a lover boy but have been going too far the opposite way
Dan, this is one super SPOT ON analogy. I do the exact same thing, but in the end I know I am losing the game. You're the master of psychology and truly the best tutor!
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Dan I am putting The Flow to work for me as I own it. I do have one question. I currently do not have a car; I have an escooter. I do not have my own place; I have co-living where no guests are allowed. As far as money, just enough to stay afloat and working on it. In MY mind, these logistics hold me back and I'm 38 not 18. Rebuilding my life. Will things be impaired due to this. I feel like women will look down on this set up. Thinking too much?
Some women will, some women won't. Don't wait until you are have a perfect life to get started. Most guys who get laid or get a girlfriend, do so when they aren't yet successful in life. Me included. I once brought a catwalk model back to a shared house I was living in, where the grass hadn't been cut in months and the wardrobe in my bedroom didn't even have doors. We still had sex. Just attract and hook up with women while you are leveling up as a man.
@@DanBacon_ Man THANK YOU. I just needed to hear it from I know is qualified.
Hey Dan, Will the flow help me to attract any girl? What about the 10% of women you mentioned in another video about "What to expect when you approach a woman"? I know it's a small percentage but my mind keeps creating self doubts about it... it makes me scared of rejections
You can make any woman feel attracted, but you can't pick up any woman. It's like a beautiful woman who is showing her cleavage: 100% of men will instantly feel some attraction to her, but she won't be able to pick up 100% of men because some men just won't be into her. It's called reality my friend. You have to stop wishing to live in fantasy land. Some guys do that as an excuse to never have to talk to women. It's like getting a driver's license and not driving because you COULD have an accident. Oh, no! Stay in your house! Lock the doors! Haha, just drive the damn car man and get on with it. Talk to women and make them feel attracted and get on with it. No more excuses man. Cheers, Dan 👍
How do I go about getting the flow?
Good stuffs 👌🏿
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How would I try to get a girls number in a drive thru. I only see her when I'm going to a drive thru when I'm getting food sometimes, and I barely have any time to talk to her. She seems happy to see me when I show up
We have a program about attracting women in 21 different environments, which is called 21 Great Ways to Get a Girlfriend. One of the ways happens to be when driving past in a car. You can also use the advice about getting a girlfriend who works in a retail store and apply that when doing through the drive thru. Here's the program: store.themodernman.com/21_great_ways_to_get_a_girlfriend.html Cheers, Dan
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I've had alot of sucess with my gf thanks to Dan, but recently i've been following hardcore redpills to much and i've noticed im taking it to far and my gf starts to say im overprotective and so on. Dan manage to strike the perfect balance between all of this.
Good to hear man. You should also watch my playlist of relationship videos here: ruclips.net/video/TddVXo4chmY/видео.html Cheers, Dan
Overprotective is a big no no. She's an adult. In the modern world. Give her emotional support and positive reinforcement yes. But cut out the caveman she's my property nonsense.
thanks, good video
What would be the good rule of thumb if I setup a date, she canceled one day before but also asked me to reschedule for the next week. I sent her a text asking how she was doing, didn't reply, I saw her at the gym and we talked a bit as if nothing had happened then the week when we were supposed to have the rescheduled date passed, she sent me a text during this week, we talked a bit and then she didn't reply to my latest text. I'll probably find her tomorrow at the gym and I was thinking about asking her out again to see what happens, and if I don't see her I'll send her another text although she didn't reply to my last one. Also, that would be my final attempt to have something with her. I don't think I was acting needy and maybe I was acting too uninterested as Dan says in this video. What do you guys think?
It really depends on what you mean by "we talked a bit" (via text). As I explain in my program, Text Attraction, text is not for talking to women for the sake of it. The only reason you should text a woman is to attract her and set up a date, or flirt with her a little and then end the conversation. You should not be trying to talk to her and get to know her via text. Here is my free playlist of videos about texting, with some examples of how to attract women via text for dates, sex and relationships: ruclips.net/video/spCdxFxuFIg/видео.html Cheers, Dan
@@DanBacon_ Just a few texts (probably not more than 10 per interaction and we only had a few interactions via text) and I was trying to act flirty but I think I didn't do it right or she simply didn't want me to act that way and didn't follow up. Anyway, I'll watch that video and learn from my mistakes.
Thanks a lot Dan!
Thanks
She block me, I do no cintact, still no result
My friend, I don't and have never advised no contact. Watch this: ruclips.net/video/tqolmvt2GiU/видео.html
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Hi bro is any advice for me
Because my Crush looks me but never speak what this matter?
Sir ever sinced i found you. I found you the only person on earth who knows what under the hood of a woman. Even einstein aint got shiiiit on you lol. Ever since i lost my girl ive been watching your videos for months now. Im saving up to by the flow. However i have a slight problem and just wanted some insight from you and maybe some other guys. I have strabismus and its been killing my self esteem since childhood im 26 now and whenever i get rejected i always think im doomed becoz of my condition. However i had 2 relationships before the first one in high school where i was natural confident and the one i lost 3 months back where i became the most insecure guy on earth. I just want to know is my conditions one of the superficial things that girls wont usually care about.
I've found that women hate insecurity in men. If you are confident and mentally strong even though you have a condition that could make you insecure, women will admire you. This is just my opinion as a 59-year old man.
You have to remind yourself of the reality around you. That being, you HAVE seen many guys with misaligned eyes with a girlfriend or wife. Yes, a guy with strabismus is not what women are looking for. However, many women will overlook things like that if the attraction is strong. Additionally, you should never focus on what you don't have to offer women. Always focus on the good things about you, improve the things you can about yourself and 100% completely ignore and forget the things you can't. For example: I didn't even know what my height was until I made this video: ruclips.net/video/Qrm2eeHib34/видео.html I literally had to get my wife to measure my height before making the video. That's how much I have ignored anything that doesn't make me confident as a man around women. Total block out. Focus on your attractive traits and improve the things about you that you can (i.e. your confidence, charisma, charm, masculinity). Cheers, Dan
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Dear Dan, where can we post some inquiries? I left you a message on Instagram
Dan can I get your email?
I don't give out my email for this reason: www.themodernman.com/my-personal-reply-to-you.html