12 Common Mistakes That Guys Make With Women

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  • Опубликовано: 3 окт 2024
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    The 12 common mistakes that guys make with women are:
    1. Thinking that being nice to a woman is good enough.
    2. Being too easily impressed by women.
    3. Thinking that he can buy her attraction or love.
    4. Thinking that attracting her or seducing her is "wrong."
    5. Sharing his feelings before she is even properly attracted.
    6. Thinking that he has to have money or looks to get a girl.
    7. Doing whatever she wants in the hope that it will impress her and make her like him.
    8. Being annoyed when women test, rather than seeing it as an opportunity.
    9. Trying too hard to be liked.
    10. Being insecure.
    11. Not even knowing what to do to succeed.
    12. Making excuses rather than addressing the real issues.

Комментарии • 61

  • @speedyj9690
    @speedyj9690 8 лет назад +323

    I don't know why but ever since i start watching these videos i'm became more confident in myself, no other videos made me feel more confident than these videos have. Time to put what i learned about women into action. Really Great videos

  • @dazzlingandbrash
    @dazzlingandbrash 5 лет назад +97

    "Women instinctively seek to breed strength into the human race. Not weakness."
    So much simple truth. Enjoyed watching all of this. It helped me understand myself even better 💁🏼‍♀️

  • @franklavilla3385
    @franklavilla3385 6 лет назад +65

    Dan I feel more confident just listening to u!

  • @evil3gamer
    @evil3gamer 3 года назад +12

    I didnt want to watch this video. And now I'm just sitting here in your comment section typing out how you just saved my whole life, I keep having to retype it because it still feels like I'm not really giving it the proper credit, but no joke, you just took a person that thought it was time to end everything and give up, and now I know that I can love and be loved from now on. What do I even do now, Ive never felt like this..like I just genuinely have peace about it and i am excited because It feels like the confidence is already there lol like I feel physically and mentally different. I can't believe you just did this for free, but freakin thank you

  • @sifat9667
    @sifat9667 5 лет назад +44

    "This guy's got big ears... What's going on there?" *Dead*
    Great video Dan. Keep em coming.

  • @HDRhaben
    @HDRhaben 5 лет назад +33

    Since I watch your videos I become more likeable not only for women, also for men. In summary I have better conversations with people. And I got more selfcare. Furthermore I texted with the girl I like the most and the text conversation was the best I ever made in my live. The most time I only need my own love and acceptance, but for a very weird reason since I don't want to impress people they automatically come to me and want to hang out. Strangers talk to me in a friendly way. It's like they see my charisma and like to interact with me. Finally I can better listen to what other people say,too and I know what to say to women, so they smile and have an even better day. I can give more and I get more back, that's so amazing. Thanks Dan Bacon!!! You make guys to men!!

  • @koru1111
    @koru1111 4 месяца назад +2

    This is my reality check 23:50
    I'm so glad I came across this.

  • @justjames1111
    @justjames1111 2 года назад +14

    Years ago, I spoke to a relationship counsellor (female) and told her 'I worked hard, provided for my family, didn't drink, didn't do drugs and was faithful to my wife'..and the counsellor said 'it's not enough though'...and then disappeared into a meeting...leaving me stood in the corridor thinking WTF? You see, as a young boy then a young man parents, and especially mothers, frequently do not tell their sons how to keep a woman happy...they'll just come out with some clap-trap e.g just work hard and be a nice guy...which is fuckin' useless advice...I've come to realise that mothers do a lot of harm to their sons this way, so that when they meet a woman...basically they are just guessing how to behave...some men happen to be naturals...but the vast majority aren't...so they commit the errors you talk about Dan.
    What you say here is gold dust, and what all men need to know about how to attract, treat and keep a woman happy for life. Good job mate.

  • @carolinavaldez1547
    @carolinavaldez1547 3 года назад +11

    I'm in a lesbian relationship and your videos have helped me just with my confidence. My partner is also older than me so I was making a lot of mistakes and not understanding what I was doing wrong. Thank you so much. I'm not sure I can reconcile my current relationship but it's definitely helped me understand and be better for the next time. Thank you so much.

  • @seanbellew2595
    @seanbellew2595 8 лет назад +121

    You've really saved my 'Bacon'

  • @carlosdimas313
    @carlosdimas313 4 года назад +14

    Since I started listening to this videos I my confidence level has risen.

  • @Sparky_D
    @Sparky_D 7 месяцев назад +3

    Found your channel a couple of days ago, currently binge watching everything plus I bought your Flow. Awesome stuff mate

    • @DanBacon_
      @DanBacon_  7 месяцев назад +1

      Awesome - great to meet you Dave. You will love The Flow. Be sure to use the first technique I explain at the start of the section on Confidence in The Flow. Very important technique. Enjoy the great times ahead with women! Hopefully see a success story from you sometime soon (post a comment on a new video, to ensure I see the comment and I will reply). Cheers, Dan

    • @Sparky_D
      @Sparky_D 7 месяцев назад +3

      @@DanBacon_ thanks mate. I met a hot chick at a mates wedding a couple of weeks ago, went to her birthday party last weekend and went home with her. Epic. That was actually before getting your Flow. Now is time to make it into something lasting

  • @gambit_toys6554
    @gambit_toys6554 5 лет назад +7

    he explains it better than other coaches and cuts the bullshit.

  • @brucemendis2952
    @brucemendis2952 5 лет назад +5

    Thank you Dan 😊🙏! Your hard work has guided people who are struggling to get a woman in their lives.

  • @Magicspirit11
    @Magicspirit11 7 лет назад +12

    All true. The best advice on the web. I would only add one thing; After you build up the sexual attraction you go on distance again. In other words you withdraw from her and DON'T call or text after the first date. Wait...She should contact you first, most likely on the third day. Before the 2nd date you apologize and cancel/postpone. Then she is yours on the 2nd date.

    • @DanBacon_
      @DanBacon_  7 лет назад +3

      Lol...pretty complicated if you do it that way! I agree that doing it that way CAN work, but it doesn't actually need to be that complicated. I explain the easy way to go from hello to sex in The Flow: www.themodernman.com/blog/the-flow-ebook.html

    • @Magicspirit11
      @Magicspirit11 7 лет назад +7

      it's me You didn't understand what I meant. Its called reach and withdraw. If you cancel once for work related resons she will respect you even more...

  • @ahumblemansrahumblemansr3691
    @ahumblemansrahumblemansr3691 6 лет назад +10

    Gentlemen, let those pictures put things in perspective. You have to value yourself above all.

  • @whererthewmdsrogers4124
    @whererthewmdsrogers4124 8 лет назад +10

    Great video!
    Thank you Dan!
    Love your stuff and it has already helped me!
    Very inspiring!

    • @DanBacon_
      @DanBacon_  8 лет назад +4

      Thanks. Glad to be of assistance. Enjoy the great times ahead with women!

  • @supersaiyan8437
    @supersaiyan8437 3 года назад +6

    That’s exactly why I pull girls I’m not attracted but can’t pull girls I am attracted to 😂😂

  • @RichOmar875
    @RichOmar875 18 дней назад

    I'm glad I found this channel!

  • @Panzer_ze_tank
    @Panzer_ze_tank 5 лет назад +11

    I love it when you started chirping those guys between 27 28 min. Savage!

  • @roohsoul2007
    @roohsoul2007 4 года назад +3

    r dan bacon sir your advice is priceless. This is the truth which 99 ‰ guys dont know .thankyou so much for these vidios.

  • @finnishguy845
    @finnishguy845 7 лет назад +12

    12:44, well, at least this is based on experience XD

    • @DanBacon_
      @DanBacon_  7 лет назад +8

      Plenty of experience ;) Very enjoyable...

  • @adnanulhaq2771
    @adnanulhaq2771 6 лет назад +3

    OMG, Just AWESOME, I have no words for this guy.

  • @James-dy4wm
    @James-dy4wm 7 лет назад +7

    change your name to Don Bacon coz you the boss! great channel.

  • @antonczerny
    @antonczerny 6 лет назад +3

    5:19. Mind blowing!

  • @AbsolutImp99
    @AbsolutImp99 9 лет назад +16

    Hello Dan!
    I would like to ask for your help since my 4 months old relationship went down pretty fast yesterday. The problem was that we were separated for 5 weeks (we kept up chatting) and when she came back she said she didn't feel the same as before. Then she went away for another week and we agreed to meet on the 4th of august to settle down the issue... so we haven't broken up yet but i'm pretty sure that we will. Please tell me some advice on what to do on that meeting and keep up doing your videos because they are very useful.

    • @DanBacon_
      @DanBacon_  9 лет назад +23

      AbsolutImp99 - Hey Absolut - if she doesn't feel the same way as she did before, it essentially means that you've stopped making her feel the type of respect and attraction that she needs to feel in a relationship (i.e. she bosses you around, you need her more than she needs you, she feels emotionally stronger than you, she feels like you're not making enough progress in life and are hiding from your achieving big things in life behind the relationship with her, etc).
      This should help you:
      www.themodernman.com/blog/my-girlfriend-said-she-doesnt-feel-the-same-way-anymore.html
      www.themodernman.com/dating/relationships/who-should-wear-the-pants-in-a-relationship.html
      www.themodernman.com/dating/relationships/how-to-get-the-spark-back-in-a-relationship.html
      Cheers
      Dan

  • @mrmastermixvideo
    @mrmastermixvideo 6 лет назад +5

    excellent information! go Dan!!!

  • @computerrefurbishment9748
    @computerrefurbishment9748 4 года назад +2

    I've had women friends sneer that their boyfriend/husband "does everything they say". I learnt from that. *update - typed this before seeing item 7

  • @sulev111
    @sulev111 6 лет назад +14

    give me power, sensei

  • @Toni_Garrn
    @Toni_Garrn Год назад

    What a great video! 🙏🏽

  • @emekaabuah6029
    @emekaabuah6029 3 года назад

    Seriously you're doing a good job.

  • @bojanbozovic9200
    @bojanbozovic9200 Год назад

    Thank you

  • @Farehaven
    @Farehaven 11 месяцев назад

    You have a lot of charisma

  • @thewisefoolm_e_m_e_s4915
    @thewisefoolm_e_m_e_s4915 4 года назад

    Great content as usual

  • @sebzero5247
    @sebzero5247 9 лет назад +6

    Great video.

    • @DanBacon_
      @DanBacon_  9 лет назад

      Seb Zero - Thanks Seb!

  • @wek33
    @wek33 4 года назад +3

    i am so actually so lucky to work at a place with numerous hot and cute girls that i can practice on every day. i don't hold a higher position, but i do hold a slightly higher status within the workplace that gives me an edge of confidence and attractiveness i can leverage. it really couldn't be made any easier, but i, being me, am a total dumbass and have yet to be successful with any of them lol

  • @eddiejpardovani
    @eddiejpardovani 4 года назад

    Magnificent and intelligent content

  • @pavelpavlov8143
    @pavelpavlov8143 4 года назад

    Dan You are great ...

  • @शिवनेत्र
    @शिवनेत्र 3 года назад

    Plz give the solution for when you say how you feel too fast

  • @robertwiegman1
    @robertwiegman1 3 года назад

    Awesome video :)

  • @mykol8089
    @mykol8089 6 лет назад +2

    Can you fix a relationship if you already did some of these and she lost interest?

  • @paulcolin-fj9ns
    @paulcolin-fj9ns Год назад

    Boy have changed since decades ago

  • @Bleeeeeeeeeeeed
    @Bleeeeeeeeeeeed 4 года назад +2

    My online dad

  • @alirezaRahmanikhalili
    @alirezaRahmanikhalili 4 года назад +1

    the best

  • @kalwayne4898
    @kalwayne4898 Год назад

    I made all the mistakes.

  • @davonbenson1927
    @davonbenson1927 7 лет назад +3

    I thought that I was the only one that rub on women's heads on pictures. Lol!

  • @sincerelyme7423
    @sincerelyme7423 Год назад

    👌

  • @timothythomas1626
    @timothythomas1626 4 года назад

    Hang around in the strip Club untill the Black Lights go off and the white lights come on. It could be like unto that as They Live. LOL. Not quite that bad. But lets just say Black Lights do wonders for women. I used to be a Strip Club DJ.

  • @dodopoopinpoop
    @dodopoopinpoop 6 лет назад +10

    Quick question: What should I do when a woman tells me I'm moving to fast (unprovoked) but she still invites me to hang out. Is that just a test and should I still try these attraction tactics or what?

    • @DanBacon_
      @DanBacon_  6 лет назад +8

      Well, you need to ensure that you're not using the Friends First approach: ruclips.net/video/6kzV77TAOEY/видео.html If you are, she will usually say that. Sometimes it is a test too though. If she is testing, you just need to keep building up attraction while maintaining your confidence. See: www.themodernman.com/blog/why-do-women-play-games.html

    • @dodopoopinpoop
      @dodopoopinpoop 6 лет назад +7

      Dan Bacon Thank you so much Dan. Your the best dude seriously.