We Found Paradise... | Recap (2/4)
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- Опубликовано: 1 июн 2024
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Sailing to a tropical island in the middle of nowhere, using bottles of rum as currency, trading with the locals and living off of what we catch, days spent in powerade blue water, without another soul for miles around. These were the visions that we had when we first dreamt of Sailing the World. And after spending years fixing up our boat and saving enough cash, we had that exact experience. But what surprised us was that those experiences were just the tip of the iceberg, and to get there we’d have to overcome an insane number of challenges.
This is the second installment of our Recap series where we are telling our entire story from the very beginning over the course of 4 episodes. If you missed the first one make sure you watch it first. Now in real time we are currently preparing to hunker down for the winter here at D-Marin, Turgutreis in Turkey and we thought this would be the perfect time to dive into the big picture story of how we got here.
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What I've learned from you guys: he's become a better Man and she became a great woman. The growth of you both is highly admirable! You are two strong people.
I lived by the ocean/bay for 15+ years and have always wanted to buy a sailboat and learn to sail. One day I saw a cheap 25ft sailboat for sale and my wife said, "Just buy it! We have been talking about doing it for over a decade!" so we bought it. Took me a few weeks of practice to learn on my own and watching RUclips videos on how to. Changed our lives. Best thing we have ever bought. Now we have a newer 34ft and the enjoyment everyone gets from it is amazing! My only regret is.... not buying a sailboat years earlier. 😕
These early recaps show that Jordan is extremely lucky that Desiree stayed with him.
Have to agree, you just can't talk that way to anyone, especially someone who you care about.
@@davidd337 When you think the situation is putting your house on the line the stress can over take protocol and normal language. Its still not what you want to happen and if it does one must be just as quick to eat humble pie and seek forgiveness. The forgiver must forgive in the appropriate amount of time too for there to be a strengthening of the bond between the two
Bahahahahaha! That’s exactly what I’ve been saying… I hope he counts his lucky stars every single day!
I can’t get a girl to stay thru 1/10000000 of what she did!!!!
@@beorbeorian150 wtf are you on about?!? Get a clue, take your meds, and then take a nap!
Some people’s kids! Everyone should be paid the same amount for the same job… you’re clearly a terrible person!!
How many times have you been divorced? 👌🏼
Well they’re not only partners but also are a crew. Open sea is not the place for individualists. The gender roles are primal and solid there. She knows that he’s the guy she’s counting on to sort everything out when the shit hits the fan and she is his queen, so even when he’s out being an asshole and she is upset she shows the wisdom to take a step back, regroup and leave the discussion to a time when he’s feeling like crap because of his previous attitude.
Make no mistake, she’s one hell of a keeper too, you just can’t take any woman out to conditions like this.
Her feminine energy is strong. She’s holding everything together. He’s the brick, she’s the cement.
As someone married for a LONG time now (lol)... good for yall for sticking together through the tough times. Far too many people just call it quits these days - because that's the easy way out. Strong, life-long relationships aren't easy, but they ARE worth it. Good on you both!! ❤
It's good to see you guys being honest about the situation on board at the time. Most people hide the truth. Very commendable!
From an old sailor, I tell my wife, "If we are going to fight, we need to take your clothes off." Have a good laugh.
With our best wishes,
Raul and Joan Bryan, Texas
Oh man, me and my wife have the same chemistry on board for over 35 years. She's struggling with my attitude everytime I expect here to known things, I've never teached her well...
Especially in tricky situations where it matters most, I'm not always threating her with the respect she deserves...
Crazy how y'all grew up and now are seasoned sailors. It does take a special relationship to be together all the time. The molding of the "2 shall become 1" is reality. When you watch veteran couples sail or dock their boat, the couple moves as if they are an extension of the other without talking. What did you name your new dingy? To see how far you have come on your new boat and RUclips is monumental. And now a baby. Truly Blessed! 🎉🎉
Thank you! The new dinghy is Little Shit II 😅 very creative!
@@ProjectAtticus 😅😅😅 Hey, I love that little Shite! 😅😅😅
@@ProjectAtticus what ever happened to Attics one? Did I miss anything???
This was the episode where I wanted to beat you be up Jordan for being so mean to Desiree. But I appreciate the honesty about admitting to losing your temper and hardest of all, not editing it out of the final cut. It's hard to record oneself and reflect on hard topics like a relationship fight so openly the way you both do.
@@24hourtravellers I agree. It was hard to watch. But that's honestly relationships/marriage. Jordan & Desiree seem to have smoothed out the rough patches. If not I pray for protection over your marriage and that you both grow to be a loving couple filled with Love, devotion and grace towards each other Amen!
Thanks for showing the real, frustrating moments. It's reality and the way you both handled it and showed it is so amazing.
You guys were my anchor during COVID, my escape from the lockdown.
All while the elite were out drinking and partying..
What is amazing is to see how far you've come and where you're at today. From the Carribean to the Mediterranean, to a new soul onboard, you truly are the family of adventure.
An offshore passage creates lifetime memories, every sailor should do it at least once
The honesty of these recaps is amazing. Thanks for sharing since a lot of us hoping to live on boats have all these unrealistic expectations.
Your honesty and openess about the challenges- also vis-a-vis partnership - is so admirable. Cannot thank you enough. It just lifts the show above the others.
Desiree and Jordan, you guys are awesome!! Love your videos and really appreciate the production quality. We're a few years into "Trying to start" our cruising adventure and still have the feeling you had in this video not knowing if it will actually happen but you guys never fail to inspire! Thanks a lot! -Ryan and Danielle
Hey guys, ur youtubes are awesome, great sound quality, great montage/editing. TY. Fair winds and enjoy the privilege of sailing the adventure.
Will you be spending any time on the south coast? We (Dutch wife/American man) built a house in a small village near Dalyan, Turkiye - other nearby must see locations in this area would be Fethiye, Gocek, Bozburun, Datca, Marmaris and Bodrum. Turkiye is a paradise.
To all those who aren't sure they will like this video , as i wasn't when i saw the title, it is actually exceedingly good and well worth a watch. Do watch the first one before this and i'm sure you wont regret it...
Team Atticus, excellent job in turning a format that is usually a 'filler' video into something that stands in its own two feet and is both informative and enjoyable yet emotionally challenging. You show sailing life warts and all which takes a lot of courage and honesty yet reassures everyone else who has challenges. Bravo!!!
She said she doesn't look good in a Bikini???...NO!!!. She is beautiful always, especially now that she is a Mother. You have an awesome Family.
LOVE LOVE LOVE this series you're doing! We go back and watch your early stuff all of the time, and this has been a great recap. Jordan, you're the best storyteller! You guys are always our favorites!
I'm amazed at how long I've been watching you guys. I feel like I'm a part of your adventures. Thank you!!!
And she didn't chuck ya overboard... must be love. :D
Young newlyweds should watch this because there is great insight into many if not all marriages, and finally accepting those relationship course corrections necessary to make a marriage work.
3 years is nothing. It took us 8 and we still feel blessed.
"we're still trying to figure the teacher student balance, also the husband, wife balance". Love it.
In some of the worst places and things ive done in my lifetime I learned this...Its not that you have to do or experience something, but moreso that you GET TO. Look at life as the opportunity to suffer. WIthout suffering comes no growth. The more you suffer the more you will appreciate your accomplishments. So welcome your suffering because the victories are sweeter when its over.
Try to always forgive, forget and move forward. Know you are all loved by many around the world. ❤ 46 years a teacher in the mountains, on the slopes and I can tell you one thing; it is difficult to learn from/teach a partner/spouse. We have a saying, joking/not; just because you sleep together doesn't mean you you ski together. Sadly, many a relationship/ experience destroyed.
The best way for Desiree to learn & feel comfortable is for her to be able to go out and sail! Get total feel and control of the boat. Same goes for baking a trailer, a wide open parking lot without a coach.... I share these this as I care so much about you. Sail on and treasure you sweet daughter as life is short.
Ahh so you guys are real and just like the rest of us...... Thanks for the peek behind the curtain, sailing or a land locked, navigating life as a couple is always a trying journey. My lovely wife and I have been married for 48 years and after two kids and three grand kids, finally getting really good at this love thing. Sail on, keep heading for the horizon, the storms and the opposing currents are all temporary. Love is eternal.
"It was just like, me being an asshole..." Oh man Jordan I laughed at that one cause I've lived it so many times. Pam and I have been sailing together for 40 years, and hopefully she would concur, I'm less of an asshole now than I was not too long ago. ☺ We're actually a pretty good team and I still love sailing with her but, awareness of my potential to be that way helps a lot. Love this recap and both of your honesty and openness for us. Desiree, you're amazing. Oh, and I love the way you guys interact with the locals (Allen and all), respectful, appreciative, and open to what they share with you
Way to be open about the hard parts. You guys have come so far together. ❤
I love this recap series so much! So far it's been all videos I've not seen. I'm totally inspired to go watch your old videos, now. Genius!
I remember watching those videos when they came out y'all gave me inspiration to get my own sail boat
Your daughter will truly enjoy this. Thanks for sharing.
These recaps are really good. Thanks for doing it! It make me want to rewatch the entire library.
Time flies!!!
Flies too...🫣😁
Great episode. We'll put together. An dam you guys have come a long way. So happy for you. An thanx again for sharing. I have more year to go then we are planning on following in your wake.
Pretty cool story guys!
I love Türkey! I work there 5 weeks on and 5 weeks off. I live in a small village called Filyos north of Çaycuma. I’ve ventured to the Med side once and it’s amazing.
Enjoying yawls recap videos.
So this is where I started watching the channel!!
😊 I was traveling at that time but got sick and due to illness I'm now housed and can't travel. This would definitely be just after the disaster chapter.
Thank you I was a little low on hope.
🙏🌎💚🌍💚🌏🙏
ALL Right! Thanks for sharing. Ya get 2 people on a boat for any length of time. ya better keep your sense of humor. If you don't know yourself well, you soon will!
I love you to for sharing. Sir Francis Chichester, "Anyone can sail a boat around the world sober. It takes aral good sailor to do it drunk."
I love your honesty with the struggles you have had with your relationship. That is brave. Just what it takes to be adventurers.
Hello from Canada!I cruised the same spots in Cuba 25 years ago!it was just as destitute but the people were incredible. I remember the struggle to purchase desiel.bread was impossible. Looks like it hasn't changed much!
I think the Belize section was one of my favorites. Watching how beautiful the landscape is and watching how receptive and friendly the fishing camp was really enjoyable.
Yesss another episode! The most humble and inspiring family 🖤 I've been living vicariously through your videos for the past few years. Always makes my days so much better. Thank you for telling your story and inspiring others, and someday I'll hope I can follow your footsteps!
I'm new to your channel. There is something different about your channel. HONESTY. It's really admirable.
This "Lookback" is genius! I don't know how I got onto this channel, but I wouldn't be hooked without the understanding of your journey to date... This helps us viewers connect with your story. Great Move - And looking forward to joining the journey :)
I think the saying is "There are a lot of tears in sailing".
Thank you guys for the recap! I watch a lot of sailing channels including yours, and I really like the chance to see the whole journey at once. Love you guys!
It sure has been an amazing journey following you on your sailing adventures. Nothing has been easy, you have worked hard and learned a lot along the way. It’s so refreshing to watch your episodes as you really portray exactly how it is. Unlike others where it’s champagne sailing when we know that’s only the very good days. May the sun shine on all three of you. Fair winds
P&J
Dude when you said then girlfriend, I braved myself for a breakup story. Then I saw yall together and what you went through and it made me very sad. Then I saw you about to propose omg,,, I thought she broke with you I hated her. Very glad yall got married👍🏿. Great job. Keep going. I thought she broke on you. If yall can do that yall can do anything. I could understand how she could leave you after all that. Great stuff!
Have been following your journey for several years now. Wonderful recap you are doing. Love seeing how far you have come, the life you have made, the family you have developed! The videos are truly a joy to watch. Be well - Keith
One does not "overcome" the process, one must goes through it... 🙏🌟👍
Wow memory lane. How awesome. So nice to have those recorded. Was in love with your journey then as I am still now! ❤❤❤🙌🏼🙏🏻👍🏻❤️❤️❤️
Thx, enjoying the recaps!
What an amazing Flash Back. Such an incredible videos and adventures. ❤
It's good to see the momentum over the years. Sharing with my friends.
As I look out the window onto thunder mountain, just a mile and half away from the Mendenhall glacier in Juneau Alaska, your story reminds me of the beauty of a strong relationship and of living surrounded by beauty. I have watched you from the beginning and have always appreciated your openness about the hard things, especially around relationship. You could give us a bikini goals video every week, but instead share the hot mess side of life. That’s were the good stuff really is. Happy to get to share in your adventures, both of you are such humble and kind humans!!!!
Great video. I'm enjoying the recap. Amazing how far you've come, and now with Isa. Beautiful family. Looking forward to more adventures
With all the bumps n bruises you guys sustain, you need to keep some comfrey on board. It’s the best thing for pain n itchy bug bites, bruises n cuts. Also catnip for tummy troubles n to promote sleep. Mixed with camomile it works awesome!!!
Gread video! I have really been enjoying the recaps.
Love the honesty!!
Love watching you guys! Your content is awesome. ❤
It is nice to see the past adventures that you guys had, especially during the time you guys spent in Cuba. I get sad and happy to see how the Cuban people live.
Thank you for the video. We enjoy seeing you guys every week.
With our best wishes,
Raul and Joan Bryan, Texas
My wife and I are in the hard part of this journey. We are cutting down our budget, have our sights on the boat and are preparing to try to get started in June. From day to day I lose hope, get overwhelmed. Watching these videos have helped us refocus when the complications seem impossible. I started watching on your Atlantic crossing. I went back to the beginning and binge watched yall from the beginning. Thank you so much for these videos. I hope to see yall out there one day.
It's soooo good to see a couple truly love each other enough to keep working and learning each other! You guys rock and I love all your back story✌️💜
Fantastic series...thank you!
Another great episode! Thanks so much!
Another lovely recap. Well done guys.
I love these ❤
AMAZING! I'm loving the recap series.
Once again awesome….great story.
Fabulous-appreciate you so much! 👍❤️
No need for the bikini anything. Your stories and your thoughts are everything.
Stay strong, those ppl are not perfect. Keep talking to each other.
I found that reading Sgt Yorks "good book" really helps.
It would be helpful to share how men think so she can understand, specially in emergency situations.
Great recap. Thanx for this!!!
Your story is absolutely inspirational ❤ thank you so much for sharing. As growing up sledding weekends on my grandparents sailboat in Chicago IL my dream is to do what your doing. Hope to cross paths sometime ❤
Great video! Love the retrospective
super video, have a nice trip
thanks for making my day.....
I'm really enjoying these recaps. Thank you so much.
I remember so many of these clips and waiting week after week for them to post.
Thank you for this video… we have been there… and the fact that you have shared your experiences… I guess what I’m saying we are all human and we admire how successful you have been at keeping yourselves together… we are in our late 70s and still in love too…
John and Penny…Retired Sailors…
love how candid you guys are in this one! This is such a great series, can't wait for the rest!
Great to see the recap. Memories of following you along every week... ❤
Absolutely brilliant thank you for sharing you heartsxx
Awesome throwback vid. Really good to see Atticus 1 again. Hope to see you guys on Oahu one day🤙🏽.
You guys are amazing
Fabulous footage. Love your vlogs and looking at your adventures. Just wow! ❤
First time experiences and memories are the best. You did well.
Thank you for making this series. Great to see all those places and moments again. It has been such a journey so far.
Love you guys…such an awesome re-cap! Allen has the most amazing eyes! Loved seeing you interact with others and trading fish for rum & fishing line! 💛💥🫶
I really enjoyed the pure and raw honesty
Awesome journey!
You 2 are lucky that you have learning to sail as a reason for arguing because if it weren't for that there would be a real reason you were having a fight.
A life lived Buds, truly a life lived. What memories. Your adventures in the Rio Dulce were amazing, great to see them again.
Extremely compelling story. Very enjoyable to watch. Thank you!
Great video. Even though I have watched all your videos from the beginning it was nice to look back. Hope everyone is doing well and will be looking forward to next week. Love you guy’s ❤❤
What beautiful couple you guys are! You've created so many memories together. Congratulations on your beautiful baby girl. ❤😊 it is admirable to see you both travel and enjoy life to the fullest.
I can remember watching you guys back then..wow the growth
Love to see this content again with your hindsight take. So pleased for you guys and what you’ve achieved. Blessing to the three of you. X
Was a educational and fun video.
And have watched you from the beginning❤❤❤