Thank you for the video. I'm married to an Egyptian. I was born in central Europe. I don't have any problems or issues. I fell in love with an Egyptian man. I converted to Islam. My husband is my destiny. I love him so much. I believe it's God's plan. ❤
Hey there! Yes, I'm familiar with your story. The fact that you've embraced Islam is the most beautiful and precious blessing. I wish you continued happiness and fulfilment in your journey.
What are you thoughts on Arab women born in the west like myself? Our mentality and interactions are very different to Arab men who are born in Arab countries. I find that Arab men who marry westerners treat them better than Arab women even if they were born in the West like them. Thats why many Arab women in the West seek cross cultural relationships. Nothing is wrong with us.
Interesting point you raised here. If I were to generalize, I'd say Arab men living in the West, when they prefer to marry an Arab woman-regardless of her place of birth-often have specific expectations. When these expectations are not met, every man reacts differently - some may leave because it's not what they signed up for, and others may try to change her, believing it's not her default mode. But it all depends on the mentality of the couple and how each person is socially conditioned. I assume that when an Arab man marries a Western woman, he anticipates differences, so when these differences come to the surface, they do not surprise him. However, with an Arab woman born in the West, the society she has lived in may greatly influence her behavior, beliefs, values, and political views, which may not align with the 'expected.' This mismatch can lead to problems, especially when it was not evident before the marriage and each couple deals with these problems differently. There's nothing wrong with aspiring to marry someone from a different culture, as long as clear communication occurs before marriage. If we expect better treatment from a partner of a different culture and don't receive it, we may find ourselves facing the same dilemma we initially were trying to escape from. Do you see what I mean?
@@Fuadtalks Thanks for your reply Fuad. Yes, I do see what you mean. I appreciate your clarification as it allows me to understand things more from the man's view.
I am foreign and am product of cross cultural relationships! That being said my family is Christian and grew up very welcoming and loving! All they ask is that my partners family is as accepting of me and my culture as we are of them. My ex mother in law is still very much part of my life and I still look out for her. My family will always care for her. We don’t allow race to separate us! We are all Children of Jah!
I love the video at the end. I was raised in a very culturally diverse family and I pray to have a beautiful relationship/marriage such as these in my future.
Definitely speaking with your family to convince them of a cross cultural marriage is something to be respectful about. I was as patient with my parents as possible. Sadly my mother disowned me. However, eventually my father decided to give me permission to marry my husband. Patience is everything.
Dear Fuad, I don't think it's possible to object to what you just revealed.. all options are nicely summarized, you said them clearly and they are completely logical. (that's why I love your videos so much) Thank you very much - always.
'الجميل يرى الجمال في كل شيء مهما ظهر قبحه لغيره ! والقبيح يرى القبح في كل جمال مهما طغى جماله !' Translates to: 'The beautiful sees beauty in everything, no matter how ugly it may appear to others! And the ugly sees ugliness in all beauty, no matter how dominant its beauty!' Thank you for viewing Middle Eastern men in this positive light!
Hi Fuad! 🎉 Thank you so much for your channel. You're such a blessing. I want your opinion on something. How do women who have cut ties with their birth family because of domestic violence and abuse marry traditional men? I've done a lot of work on myself over the years to heal from my trauma and be a good traditional wife. It gives me jitters bringing my history of abuse and my no contact status with potential suitors because I feel that I would be judged for my lineage and not be considered wife material.
Hi Fuad, I've watched all your videos. I dont know who to ask this. So you're my only hope. 🙏🏻 I met a nice arabic man. I don't see any red flags, but there is one thing that bothers me. He doesn't ask me personal questions. I mean questions about my childhood, work, my views on current topics etc. There is a language barrier every now and then, his english is ok. This makes me feel that he is not that interested about me, even if all other things work out (met his mother, friends, talks about future with me). I just cannot fall in love with someone who only know surface of me. Can asking personal questions from woman be considered as rude for him? Or is it just that he wants to be in love and with someone, but doesnt care to get to know me deeper? Or is it the language barrier..😔 Thank you for your videos, they've helped me alot! 🤍
Hey Carolina, I suggest you give things time; you'll eventually get to the topics you want him to know about you. I don't think he perceives discussing deeper topics as rude; it could just be his personality type. Eventually, you'll get to speak about what you want. If he doesn't open these topics, you can take the conversation where you want it to go. No need to worry, I'd say.
Mine asks questions but not all in one, just one per meeting😅😮 how long are you seeing each other & when did you start seeing his parents & when did he start talking about a future with u❤
Mmm interesting, but it just comes down to love. If you meet and love each other's personality why not seal the deal. I just think that respecting family is important whether it's His or her family coz everyone has feelings and deserves respect but in some cases families over step the boundaries. When a man takes a women to be his wife he leaves his mother and father and cleaves to his wife they become one or else don't get married. A women does not want to be the outsider or the competition of jealousy in family. So equality in family relationship is important. I don't think western women marry because they have issues it's just genuine love when they meet. If a woman really loves her husband she will anything to please him as long as he values her and treats her right.
I disagree with family always come first, please be very careful how you give advice, I come from a very toxic family and they forced me to marry a man who I met on the wedding day, my parents were very cruel people but on the surface so respected in the community. I am now trying to leave this forced marriage (my husband has been abusive and we never connected) thankfully I am in the uk and not in a country where I could not have a second chance. After my terrible experience with my husband I am considering marrying from another culture it is just too painful for me to think about staying in my culture.
Thank you for the video. I'm married to an Egyptian. I was born in central Europe. I don't have any problems or issues. I fell in love with an Egyptian man. I converted to Islam. My husband is my destiny. I love him so much. I believe it's God's plan. ❤
Oh, I watch your videos! Hope you're having a good day!
Hey there! Yes, I'm familiar with your story. The fact that you've embraced Islam is the most beautiful and precious blessing. I wish you continued happiness and fulfilment in your journey.
@@Fuadtalks Inshallah 🙏
@@梨-i5lah I didn't expect such a comment. I'm very pleased, thank you very much😊
What are you thoughts on Arab women born in the west like myself? Our mentality and interactions are very different to Arab men who are born in Arab countries. I find that Arab men who marry westerners treat them better than Arab women even if they were born in the West like them. Thats why many Arab women in the West seek cross cultural relationships. Nothing is wrong with us.
Interesting point you raised here. If I were to generalize, I'd say Arab men living in the West, when they prefer to marry an Arab woman-regardless of her place of birth-often have specific expectations. When these expectations are not met, every man reacts differently - some may leave because it's not what they signed up for, and others may try to change her, believing it's not her default mode. But it all depends on the mentality of the couple and how each person is socially conditioned.
I assume that when an Arab man marries a Western woman, he anticipates differences, so when these differences come to the surface, they do not surprise him. However, with an Arab woman born in the West, the society she has lived in may greatly influence her behavior, beliefs, values, and political views, which may not align with the 'expected.' This mismatch can lead to problems, especially when it was not evident before the marriage and each couple deals with these problems differently.
There's nothing wrong with aspiring to marry someone from a different culture, as long as clear communication occurs before marriage. If we expect better treatment from a partner of a different culture and don't receive it, we may find ourselves facing the same dilemma we initially were trying to escape from. Do you see what I mean?
@@Fuadtalks Thanks for your reply Fuad. Yes, I do see what you mean. I appreciate your clarification as it allows me to understand things more from the man's view.
I am foreign and am product of cross cultural relationships! That being said my family is Christian and grew up very welcoming and loving! All they ask is that my partners family is as accepting of me and my culture as we are of them. My ex mother in law is still very much part of my life and I still look out for her. My family will always care for her. We don’t allow race to separate us! We are all Children of Jah!
Glad you have it this way with your family!
This is ignorance God created all human race so we can marry whoever loves us
I love the video at the end. I was raised in a very culturally diverse family and I pray to have a beautiful relationship/marriage such as these in my future.
Definitely speaking with your family to convince them of a cross cultural marriage is something to be respectful about. I was as patient with my parents as possible. Sadly my mother disowned me. However, eventually my father decided to give me permission to marry my husband. Patience is everything.
It’s a personal, emotional, and spiritual connection. 🤍🤍🤍
🤍🙏
Glad I'm not normal- and it was sweet to see all the interracial couples in the end!
I've got to say, Fuad, you are having a really good hair day today.
Dear Fuad,
I don't think it's possible to object to what you just revealed.. all options are nicely summarized, you said them clearly and they are completely logical. (that's why I love your videos so much) Thank you very much - always.
Hey there! Thank you very much for your feedback! Much appreciated!
I am American but am attracted to Middle Eastern men, from their outside exterior which is handsome to their beautiful souls ❤
'الجميل يرى الجمال في كل شيء مهما ظهر قبحه لغيره !
والقبيح يرى القبح في كل جمال مهما طغى جماله !'
Translates to: 'The beautiful sees beauty in everything, no matter how ugly it may appear to others! And the ugly sees ugliness in all beauty, no matter how dominant its beauty!'
Thank you for viewing Middle Eastern men in this positive light!
You are amazing, Fuad! Thank you for always sharing your wisdom with us! ♥️
Hi Fuad! 🎉 Thank you so much for your channel. You're such a blessing. I want your opinion on something. How do women who have cut ties with their birth family because of domestic violence and abuse marry traditional men? I've done a lot of work on myself over the years to heal from my trauma and be a good traditional wife. It gives me jitters bringing my history of abuse and my no contact status with potential suitors because I feel that I would be judged for my lineage and not be considered wife material.
I'm always attracted to Arab Men... especially Syrians... I don't know why... even though I came from different race and religion..
Hi Fuad,
I've watched all your videos. I dont know who to ask this. So you're my only hope. 🙏🏻
I met a nice arabic man. I don't see any red flags, but there is one thing that bothers me. He doesn't ask me personal questions. I mean questions about my childhood, work, my views on current topics etc. There is a language barrier every now and then, his english is ok. This makes me feel that he is not that interested about me, even if all other things work out (met his mother, friends, talks about future with me). I just cannot fall in love with someone who only know surface of me.
Can asking personal questions from woman be considered as rude for him? Or is it just that he wants to be in love and with someone, but doesnt care to get to know me deeper? Or is it the language barrier..😔
Thank you for your videos, they've helped me alot! 🤍
Hey Carolina, I suggest you give things time; you'll eventually get to the topics you want him to know about you. I don't think he perceives discussing deeper topics as rude; it could just be his personality type. Eventually, you'll get to speak about what you want. If he doesn't open these topics, you can take the conversation where you want it to go. No need to worry, I'd say.
Mine asks questions but not all in one, just one per meeting😅😮 how long are you seeing each other & when did you start seeing his parents & when did he start talking about a future with u❤
Mmm interesting, but it just comes down to love. If you meet and love each other's personality why not seal the deal. I just think that respecting family is important whether it's His or her family coz everyone has feelings and deserves respect but in some cases families over step the boundaries. When a man takes a women to be his wife he leaves his mother and father and cleaves to his wife they become one or else don't get married. A women does not want to be the outsider or the competition of jealousy in family. So equality in family relationship is important. I don't think western women marry because they have issues it's just genuine love when they meet. If a woman really loves her husband she will anything to please him as long as he values her and treats her right.
I disagree with family always come first, please be very careful how you give advice, I come from a very toxic family and they forced me to marry a man who I met on the wedding day, my parents were very cruel people but on the surface so respected in the community. I am now trying to leave this forced marriage (my husband has been abusive and we never connected) thankfully I am in the uk and not in a country where I could not have a second chance. After my terrible experience with my husband I am considering marrying from another culture it is just too painful for me to think about staying in my culture.
Hallo good morning ,am from indonesia ,i have boyfriends from moroco ,but he complrcated
Why is he complicated... 🙃
Racism