"Corrupt women are for corrupt men, and corrupt men for corrupt women. Good women are for good men, and good men for good women. They are innocent of the calumnies people utter. There shall be forgiveness for them and a generous provision." - Surah An-Nur (24:26)
yup you can not say no ever to sex and he gets control of your bank account and if you leave the country or not.My best friend asked me to be his sex slave. I was shocked and aftaid. I then started looking more into the Quran. They can lie to foreigners, rape, steal from and their greatest symbol of status is a foreign sex slave.
Made a huge insult. Was dating a Jordanian man, gave him a birthday gift snd he put it in a closet. Left it there several weeks so i took it back and got a refund
I really think everyone should find a woman or a man from their own culture! It is very hard for different cultures to undestand and respect each other without issues! I listen all this and I would never be able to accept all the things you are talking about!
As a Muslim woman, I guess I agree with you. I’m used to my own culture. I couldn’t imagine being with a man who didn’t care if my b00bs were out or if my a55 was out. I prefer a guy who wants to protect my modesty.
I Love being married to someone of a different culture. Better genes for the children to have dna as far different as possible. Multi lingual children multi cultural children and I love learning new things from my husband and vice verse. It’s an enriching experience.
What happens if you don't like people from your own culture because of their negative cultural hang ups? Being of the same culture but born in different countries, particularly if one is born and brought up in their country of origin but the other person, who is of the same culture, is born in a western country, there will be alot of differences despite belonging to the same culture.
What is talked about in this video applies 80% to Arabian Gulf men and perhaps other consevative muslim men from countries like Pakistan or Bangladesh or India... but Muslim men in the Levant Middle East have a different outlook because they have a different more Mediteranean culture.
@@greenleaf8226What he explains in the video actually applies to every Muslim man. If it is not true, then it is not because he is liberal and modern, but because he is not a real man. I am shocked when I see how some men present their wives on the internet these days. Their bodies have been operated on and the man then wants to boast about it? I would be ashamed. And I would never allow myself to be humiliated for such a man. If a man really loves a woman, he cannot share her and he feels male jealousy, that is his natural disposition.
Well I am a European Muslim woman, me and my future husband is Moroccan we're in a LDR, we're going to get married this December inshallah, I hope he never change. May Allah guide us through this path, thanks for sharing 👍.
Wrong...Islam teaches muslims to be the best for their wife/wives...if you cant afford to then dont marry...check your facts right before commenting without facts. Islam is perfect but muslims as individuals are not, let that sink in
I’m American and my husband is from Egypt. But we are both Muslim as I am a revert. We are very happy with each other, Allhamdullilah. He gives me freedom when I need it and I do my best to give him all the respect that is due to him.
As long as you live in West it’s ok . But you forget Egyptian gave terrorised Copts for centuries . All Egyptians love western women for the passport and having “ white “ children “. You are means to an end . My family are Egyptian and I can’t stand their hypocrisy .
You do very good job with the video and informing girls about the cultural differences. When the west girl is young, living in Arab country with Arabic husband might be a challenge for her if she is ambitious. Would be for me at the age of 20. Today, I am more the quiet one who appreciate more the modesty and family. But much much older. One think I have to admit. I have been always treated like a queen by Arabic men. i miss this herein my country.
I might have found the odd one out. Currently with an Egyptian man who wants us to be two individuals, and got excited at the idea I'd earn more than him. I'm the odd one out from my own culture, I just want to be a mother at home and I work to be safe and so I could afford motherhood.
I feel sorry for you. A real man doesn't behave like that. If he allows you to go to work, only you can decide what you do with your money. You don't have to give your husband any of your money. All Islamic scholars agree on this. The husband has to bear all household costs and all costs for the children alone. And even costs for the wife. You can keep your money for yourself and use it as you please.
@@UmmMahdi-nu4on Yes, I know. I am telling this to one of my nieces in every letter/email/phone call. She works and he does not. Imagine that! He inherited a business from his parents but he got broke within 3 years of his parents' death. Now she, Manal, has to work as a school teacher and has to support herself, him, and 4 children. Imagine! I am so dispaired. I begged her to divorce him many times. I am so upset. Who can help please?
Human nature is the same irrespective of religion, race and nationality. You will be surprised to see that the fundamentals are identical. People like to use the religion card to give an impression of piety and culture but in effect the real person is revealed once you live with them. We see everyday those lovely religious people who abuse, mistreat and demean others just like non-religious and mainstream types.
I like your videos❤ i am dealing with arabs since many years, and especially arabs from syria Libanon and northafrica have a much alike culture as we in greece. Mediterranen. I find arabs kind and generous and also funny.
I’m Christian, and my fiancé is Muslim, he has had multiple conversations with me about his religion and I’m willing to listen. However, I am not in the market to convert… Do you think this would become a issue later?
It will most definitely become an issue. The Muslim men I met were not honest. No matter what he tells you now, when it is time to take serious steps towards marriage/building a family, the guilt in him for not following what is expected from him as a muslim, will prevail. From my personal observations shame is big theme in the muslim communities and their religion fuels it in order to make them "act right". I hope your story has a happy end but just keep an open eye and mind.
You should do it for yourself, study the religion and make up your mind. If he’s a practicing Muslim I guess it will be part of his life and so will cause issues 2:26
It’s not required for you to convert. I am a Christian too and my husband is Muslim we don’t have any issues but we did both agree if we have children together it would be raised Muslim. I think you should follow your heart. Ask God for guidance and every man is different. At the end of the day your relationship is yours. Do what works for y’all.
You raise some pertinent points. I have a question though...do mature Arab men also marry mature divorced women or is there a stigma attached to this notion?
I am Chinese And Buddhist , im vegetarian and also accidentally I ever learn Islam in the pas ,and accidentally i've meet Syrian Kurdish man .. I have crush on him .. Hope everything's will work for us 🥰 Thank you for sharing this beautiful videos 😊🙏🌹 , hopefully he have feeling for me to ❤😊
Culture anything can follow if getting a good person. I have gotten many proposals, but I can't make any decision. I am single society is worried about marriage or not. I am focusing on my life. I believe marriage is Allahs' decision, doesn't matter the country. Cleaning and hygiene depend on the person. I like to marry whoever follows prophet Muhammad's message. No one is perfect, but trying. This century people making international food or medetaranian food. People can make any food as we have a lot of cooking channels. Marriage Allah's hand, he will bring on time. Maybe a loved one or better than that person. That is thawakkul.. But we have to try different media or bureaus and get ready. People can wear any dress and stay home. But the most important thing is compatibility and admiration to listen to each other. Prophet muhammed’ a food was mainly barley, vinegar with onion., half kubbus, dates and he eats only one by 4. American school are following that, not Muslims.
Excellent comment. Allah is first and guides when two people come together and continues to bless and support their journey together as they always include Him.
In Greece, if a Muslim man wants to marry a Greek woman he is forced to become Christian, and the kids must be baptized in the Greek Orthodox faith! Thank God I'm proud to be Greek!!! We respect our values, religion, traditions, and culture!
There is no way muslim man change his religion to getting married to a christian woman Even woman can’t married to a christian man unless she doesn’t care her religion
@@DiamondsRexpensive... No!... again you write False Lies... there are many muslims happily married to non muslims... they do not have to convert... why do you keep writing Lies??
I think it’s important to note that if a Muslim man marries a non-Muslim, she should convert. Staying as a Christian or Jew doesn’t work for the relationship nor is it acceptable in the deen.
What rubbish are you writing??...i dont know who fed you this wrong idea... No, a non Muslim woman does not have to convert, it is her free choice to do so. Muslim men are allowed to marry non Muslims, it is accepted in the religion.
@@greenleaf8226It is forbidden for a Muslim man to marry an atheist or a Buddhist, Hindu, Yazidi or whatever. We all know that a Muslim man can marry a Christian or Jewish woman. However, these marriages often do not last long and the children suffer. Many problems only arise after a few years and are then serious. So you should think carefully about something like this. Personally, I see no relevant reason why a Muslim man should marry a non-Muslim woman other than because of her looks. And that is makruh, because our beloved Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, Amin, ordered men to marry women according to the strength of their faith. That means you should marry a believing woman who is Muslim and raises the children according to Islam.
@@UmmMahdi-nu4on so a non Muslim woman has only looks ,but no character.But i agree, a Muslim should not marry a non Muslim woman.I was married to a Muslim and didn`t have a good experience.First he respected my religion,later he always talked bad about it .
Gladly, I didn't marry none after my experience throughout London Arab Community and after the experience through Emarati Arab Community too..... Both 2️⃣ experiences worth it Millions Ryials Saudi, ya Fouad!!!! 🤑 😎 Lol 😂 Alhamdulillah..... Ufff 😰 Asefa, ya akhuy 🤷🏼♀️
I met many arabs in Malaysia... if they want to marry non arab woman... she must be second, third or fourth wive 💔. Especially if the the arab guy is rich
😅The majority of Senegalese men marry to multiple wives... As a Senegalese woman I am pissed off and regret why I didn't accept the Arab man who kindly proposed to me😢
Hello, I have been watching some of your videos and I would like to address some issues. First of all not all Westerners are the same and that means not all females growing up in the United States have the same values as another in their households. For example if we held a cigarette in our hands lit or unlit we will wish to God we were never born, especially when it came to our mother. Second I was not allowed to date and before I married my children's father my brother came along. I remember when we went to a drive-in movie, my children's father was upset because the whole family showed up and my brother in-law made himself comfortable by sending between both of us. I now have a 15 year old granddaughter, she's not allowed to go anywhere by herself and after school her mother's there to pick her up. I have a 24 year old grandson, who has not been with a girl but rather wait till he's married and she must be a virgin herself the reason is he wants to pay for the wedding. He feels if he has to wait for marriage so should the female. He wants everything brand new for his bride and I mean everything that includes all household items. When he decides to go out he made a specifically clear he wants it in public so no one can accuse him or her with anything. He feels it's a man's responsibility to care for his family not the female. He just let go of a female who he found out that she has been lying to him. He didn't mind giving her money but the fact she's been lying to him have a multiple guys on Facebook and going out to clubs with friends while at work. Someone drove by and caught her on top of it decided to go in there and video it while he was at work, he called his fiance on his lunch break and it went from there. So not everybody drinks, and not everybody goes to certain things that they shouldn't be, he dumped her. Our family has zero tolerance of infidelity and a girl must stay a virgin until she's married. Is our family tradition and my family's culture. I'm telling you this because not everyone in Western countries are all the same. When I was growing up, at my grandfather's house females were not allowed to wear pants we had to wear dresses close to our ankles, no makeup, and much more. He was an ordained Pentecostal preacher that was life. I just wanted to share that with you.
@@tgazman77... No they are not majority and also not minority Christians who live this way... You are just as bad as the person who thinks only negative thoughts about muslim people... you have no idea, but are full of imaginative thoughts and assumptions.
When you are another religion you start out with 2 strikes against you when you marry a Muslim arab. They are not bad or anything -- just cultural differences, etc.
Yes we should respect muslim culture when in Muslim country. Also I hope the Muslim men and women will respect Western culture. So please take off as much as clothing possible and respect western values. Dont look upon gay people and celebrate diversity and celebrate christanism and atheism. Also I hope in Muslim countries I can find non-halal certificate products so I feel welcoming just like we welcome muslims♥️. Shukran
No need to shukran...with your imagination... in the majority of muslim countries, you can wear western clothes, buy non halal foods, celebrate christmas, go to church if you like and party until the cows come home... i dont know where you got your mistaken fanciful ideas about life in an arabic muslim country.
@@DiamondsRexpensive... what negative rubbish are you writing?... 1st you need to learn self respect before you spread disrespectful negative Lies about other people you clearly know little about
Raising children in a mixed family far from Muslim countries. How can someone who is away from home most of the day have a greater influence on the upbringing of children in the area of faith than a woman who is home alone with children almost non-stop?
this video is informative ... BUT... you very quickly forgot your 1st point about different cultures = different mentalities... then you proceeded to talk only about things that pertain to Arabian Gulf men and their specific culture... many things you explained do not at all happen the same in other muslim cultures...
It's not just about the Arabian Gulf. He's talking about Arabs in general. Whether Egyptian, Tunisian, Moroccan, Emirati, Saudi, Yemeni. What he describes applies to all Arabs. Perhaps it's different for Turks, Albanians and Bosnians. But he's talking about Arabs here. So I can only agree with Moroccans. Of course there are men who don't attach any importance to that, but they don't practice their religion and are clearly sinning in many ways. You can't use that as an example. We're assuming a practicing Muslim Arab man in this example.
"Corrupt women are for corrupt men, and corrupt men for corrupt women. Good women are for good men, and good men for good women. They are innocent of the calumnies people utter. There shall be forgiveness for them and a generous provision."
- Surah An-Nur (24:26)
In short, if you marry an Arab, he will control your life. He will be super charming to reel you in, but once you’re married, that’s all over. Run.
yup you can not say no ever to sex and he gets control of your bank account and if you leave the country or not.My best friend asked me to be his sex slave. I was shocked and aftaid. I then started looking more into the Quran. They can lie to foreigners, rape, steal from and their greatest symbol of status is a foreign sex slave.
Made a huge insult. Was dating a Jordanian man, gave him a birthday gift snd he put it in a closet. Left it there several weeks so i took it back and got a refund
😂😂😂😂 good for you number one rule a woman never buys a gift 🎁
@@DiamondsRexpensiveyou know that men deserve love too right?
Islam the religion is perfect, a Muslim isnt. Know the difference.
He put it in the cuboard because he's an ungrateful rude
'no manners' person...it has nothing to do with being Jordanian.
I really think everyone should find a woman or a man from their own culture! It is very hard for different cultures to undestand and respect each other without issues! I listen all this and I would never be able to accept all the things you are talking about!
As a Muslim woman, I guess I agree with you.
I’m used to my own culture. I couldn’t imagine being with a man who didn’t care if my b00bs were out or if my a55 was out.
I prefer a guy who wants to protect my modesty.
I Love being married to someone of a different culture. Better genes for the children to have dna as far different as possible. Multi lingual children multi cultural children and I love learning new things from my husband and vice verse. It’s an enriching experience.
What happens if you don't like people from your own culture because of their negative cultural hang ups? Being of the same culture but born in different countries, particularly if one is born and brought up in their country of origin but the other person, who is of the same culture, is born in a western country, there will be alot of differences despite belonging to the same culture.
What is talked about in this video applies 80% to Arabian Gulf men and perhaps other consevative muslim men from countries like Pakistan or Bangladesh or India...
but Muslim men in the Levant Middle East have a different outlook because they have a different more Mediteranean culture.
@@greenleaf8226What he explains in the video actually applies to every Muslim man. If it is not true, then it is not because he is liberal and modern, but because he is not a real man. I am shocked when I see how some men present their wives on the internet these days. Their bodies have been operated on and the man then wants to boast about it? I would be ashamed. And I would never allow myself to be humiliated for such a man. If a man really loves a woman, he cannot share her and he feels male jealousy, that is his natural disposition.
Well I am a European Muslim woman, me and my future husband is Moroccan we're in a LDR, we're going to get married this December inshallah, I hope he never change. May Allah guide us through this path, thanks for sharing 👍.
Be careful with Moroccan men sister
May Allah bless you and don't listen to the bitter ones, they wish, someone would marry them
@@BlueBlue23 i did marry a Moroccan man so I know
Expect a narcisstic man
💯
Wrong...Islam teaches muslims to be the best for their wife/wives...if you cant afford to then dont marry...check your facts right before commenting without facts. Islam is perfect but muslims as individuals are not, let that sink in
Most American women can't and don't know how to deal with an Arab man. Just go find another American, that simple.
Do you mean Arab men?
Yes the attitude change after he becomes your husband is very important issue. Bring in separate counties especially.
I’m American and my husband is from Egypt. But we are both Muslim as I am a revert. We are very happy with each other, Allhamdullilah. He gives me freedom when I need it and I do my best to give him all the respect that is due to him.
Sounds perfect ❤️
Thank you! ☺️
As long as you live in West it’s ok . But you forget Egyptian gave terrorised Copts for centuries . All Egyptians love western women for the passport and having “ white “ children “. You are means to an end .
My family are Egyptian and I can’t stand their hypocrisy .
Think it concerns the background ? Any cultures when they return to the home country revert back to the own traditions and cultural background ❤❤❤❤
You do very good job with the video and informing girls about the cultural differences.
When the west girl is young, living in Arab country with Arabic husband might be a challenge for her if she is ambitious.
Would be for me at the age of 20.
Today, I am more the quiet one who appreciate more the modesty and family. But much much older.
One think I have to admit. I have been always treated like a queen by Arabic men. i miss this herein my country.
I might have found the odd one out. Currently with an Egyptian man who wants us to be two individuals, and got excited at the idea I'd earn more than him. I'm the odd one out from my own culture, I just want to be a mother at home and I work to be safe and so I could afford motherhood.
I feel sorry for you. A real man doesn't behave like that. If he allows you to go to work, only you can decide what you do with your money. You don't have to give your husband any of your money. All Islamic scholars agree on this. The husband has to bear all household costs and all costs for the children alone. And even costs for the wife. You can keep your money for yourself and use it as you please.
@@UmmMahdi-nu4on Yes, I know. I am telling this to one of my nieces in every letter/email/phone call.
She works and he does not. Imagine that! He inherited a business from his parents but he got broke within 3 years of his parents' death.
Now she, Manal, has to work as a school teacher and has to support herself, him, and 4 children. Imagine!
I am so dispaired. I begged her to divorce him many times. I am so upset.
Who can help please?
Human nature is the same irrespective of religion, race and nationality. You will be surprised to see that the fundamentals are identical.
People like to use the religion card to give an impression of piety and culture but in effect the real person is revealed once you live with them. We see everyday those lovely religious people who abuse, mistreat and demean others just like non-religious and mainstream types.
Expect him to flirt n cheat
They cheat no one cheats like Arab's 😂😂😂
I like your videos❤ i am dealing with arabs since many years, and especially arabs from syria Libanon and northafrica have a much alike culture as we in greece. Mediterranen. I find arabs kind and generous and also funny.
Interesting. Good reason to marry within your culture
I’m Christian, and my fiancé is Muslim, he has had multiple conversations with me about his religion and I’m willing to listen. However, I am not in the market to convert… Do you think this would become a issue later?
I'm not sure, but he will definitely want to raise the kids in islamic religion. In this relationship, one of you will not be true to their religion.
It will most definitely become an issue. The Muslim men I met were not honest. No matter what he tells you now, when it is time to take serious steps towards marriage/building a family, the guilt in him for not following what is expected from him as a muslim, will prevail. From my personal observations shame is big theme in the muslim communities and their religion fuels it in order to make them "act right". I hope your story has a happy end but just keep an open eye and mind.
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You should do it for yourself, study the religion and make up your mind. If he’s a practicing Muslim I guess it will be part of his life and so will cause issues 2:26
It’s not required for you to convert. I am a Christian too and my husband is Muslim we don’t have any issues but we did both agree if we have children together it would be raised Muslim. I think you should follow your heart. Ask God for guidance and every man is different. At the end of the day your relationship is yours. Do what works for y’all.
You raise some pertinent points. I have a question though...do mature Arab men also marry mature divorced women or is there a stigma attached to this notion?
and he will want to marry a second wife if his wife cant have children or in case he wants many children.
No not necessarily... i know of 2 couples who cannot have children they still are together, without extra wives involved.
I am Chinese And Buddhist , im vegetarian and also accidentally I ever learn Islam in the pas ,and accidentally i've meet Syrian Kurdish man .. I have crush on him .. Hope everything's will work for us 🥰
Thank you for sharing this beautiful videos 😊🙏🌹 , hopefully he have feeling for me to ❤😊
How did you guys met?
May Allah bless your union in dunya and akhirah
@@tgazman77....
shoosh 🤫...
be nice wish her well with good intention, wish her luck and keep religion out of it.
Run@@Euphrates2747-y5
Kurdish are so handsome ❤
Culture anything can follow if getting a good person. I have gotten many proposals, but I can't make any decision. I am single society is worried about marriage or not. I am focusing on my life. I believe marriage is Allahs' decision, doesn't matter the country. Cleaning and hygiene depend on the person. I like to marry whoever follows prophet Muhammad's message. No one is perfect, but trying. This century people making international food or medetaranian food. People can make any food as we have a lot of cooking channels. Marriage Allah's hand, he will bring on time. Maybe a loved one or better than that person. That is thawakkul.. But we have to try different media or bureaus and get ready. People can wear any dress and stay home. But the most important thing is compatibility and admiration to listen to each other.
Prophet muhammed’ a food was mainly barley, vinegar with onion., half kubbus, dates and he eats only one by 4. American school are following that, not Muslims.
Excellent comment. Allah is first and guides when two people come together and continues to bless and support their journey together as they always include Him.
In Greece, if a Muslim man wants to marry a Greek woman he is forced to become Christian, and the kids must be baptized in the Greek Orthodox faith! Thank God I'm proud to be Greek!!! We respect our values, religion, traditions, and culture!
@@DiamondsRexpensive what??!! no she doesn.t !! we can marry christian and jewish women
There is no way muslim man change his religion to getting married to a christian woman Even woman can’t married to a christian man unless she doesn’t care her religion
Thank you fuad teaching people to our religion
@@DiamondsRexpensive...
No!... again you write False Lies...
there are many muslims happily married to non muslims... they do not have to convert...
why do you keep writing Lies??
You're proud of forced conversion to your religion? So much for the peaceful and tolerant Christians.
better not marry at all😂
Got that right stay single 😂😂
Family Friday is a nice tradition we should adapt to the Western world 😊
Family Friday is the same as Family Sunday in the West...
its still practiced in many countries
Jews have a family tradition also from Friday night to Saturday night
I think it’s important to note that if a Muslim man marries a non-Muslim, she should convert. Staying as a Christian or Jew doesn’t work for the relationship nor is it acceptable in the deen.
So why marry her, knowing she’s not a muzslimina?
What rubbish are you writing??...i dont know who fed you this wrong idea... No, a non Muslim woman does not have to convert, it is her free choice to do so. Muslim men are allowed to marry non Muslims, it is accepted in the religion.
@@greenleaf8226It is forbidden for a Muslim man to marry an atheist or a Buddhist, Hindu, Yazidi or whatever. We all know that a Muslim man can marry a Christian or Jewish woman. However, these marriages often do not last long and the children suffer. Many problems only arise after a few years and are then serious. So you should think carefully about something like this. Personally, I see no relevant reason why a Muslim man should marry a non-Muslim woman other than because of her looks. And that is makruh, because our beloved Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, Amin, ordered men to marry women according to the strength of their faith. That means you should marry a believing woman who is Muslim and raises the children according to Islam.
@@UmmMahdi-nu4on so a non Muslim woman has only looks ,but no character.But i agree, a Muslim should not marry a non Muslim woman.I was married to a Muslim and didn`t have a good experience.First he respected my religion,later he always talked bad about it .
@@Ingrid-wf4cl Hmm, sounds familiar.
Very informative!
yes it is...but also leaning heavily leaning towards only certain Muslim cultures.
Gladly, I didn't marry none after my experience throughout London Arab Community and after the experience through Emarati Arab Community too.....
Both 2️⃣ experiences worth it Millions Ryials Saudi, ya Fouad!!!! 🤑 😎
Lol 😂
Alhamdulillah..... Ufff 😰
Asefa, ya akhuy 🤷🏼♀️
I met many arabs in Malaysia... if they want to marry non arab woman... she must be second, third or fourth wive 💔. Especially if the the arab guy is rich
I dont know what low class confused men you met??
but no she does not have to be 2nd or 3rd wife.
very very interesting.. i appreciate this 🙏
Keep your program people will know about ☪️
Somali men and Arabs men are no different 👍
@Fuad Talks, can you please tell me the name of the music of the second half of this video? You used it in other videos too. I love that music.
😅The majority of Senegalese men marry to multiple wives... As a Senegalese woman I am pissed off and regret why I didn't accept the Arab man who kindly proposed to me😢
Multiple wives is common practice in certain African tribes, no matter what religion the people are.
@@DiamondsRexpensive...
here you go again!
Spreading Lies...
No..most Arab men do not marry multiple wives, Nor do they want to.
Stop spreading Lies.
well said
Hello, I have been watching some of your videos and I would like to address some issues. First of all not all Westerners are the same and that means not all females growing up in the United States have the same values as another in their households. For example if we held a cigarette in our hands lit or unlit we will wish to God we were never born, especially when it came to our mother. Second I was not allowed to date and before I married my children's father my brother came along. I remember when we went to a drive-in movie, my children's father was upset because the whole family showed up and my brother in-law made himself comfortable by sending between both of us. I now have a 15 year old granddaughter, she's not allowed to go anywhere by herself and after school her mother's there to pick her up. I have a 24 year old grandson, who has not been with a girl but rather wait till he's married and she must be a virgin herself the reason is he wants to pay for the wedding. He feels if he has to wait for marriage so should the female. He wants everything brand new for his bride and I mean everything that includes all household items. When he decides to go out he made a specifically clear he wants it in public so no one can accuse him or her with anything. He feels it's a man's responsibility to care for his family not the female. He just let go of a female who he found out that she has been lying to him. He didn't mind giving her money but the fact she's been lying to him have a multiple guys on Facebook and going out to clubs with friends while at work. Someone drove by and caught her on top of it decided to go in there and video it while he was at work, he called his fiance on his lunch break and it went from there. So not everybody drinks, and not everybody goes to certain things that they shouldn't be, he dumped her. Our family has zero tolerance of infidelity and a girl must stay a virgin until she's married. Is our family tradition and my family's culture. I'm telling you this because not everyone in Western countries are all the same. When I was growing up, at my grandfather's house females were not allowed to wear pants we had to wear dresses close to our ankles, no makeup, and much more. He was an ordained Pentecostal preacher that was life. I just wanted to share that with you.
lol where are you from? Kentucky? 😅😊
Good for you. But you are aware that you are the minority western who still hold to that value dont you?
@@Toot-dp6rq...why are you so sarcastic and rude??
there are plenty Christians who grow up and live this way
@@tgazman77... No they are not majority and also not minority Christians who live this way...
You are just as bad as the person who thinks only negative thoughts about muslim people...
you have no idea, but are full of imaginative thoughts and assumptions.
@@Toot-dp6rq😅😅🤣😂
@Aneliii keep your Shukran. The Muslims don’t need or want your “thanks”. Peace out ✌️
When you are another religion you start out with 2 strikes against you when you marry a Muslim arab. They are not bad or anything -- just cultural differences, etc.
Yes we should respect muslim culture when in Muslim country. Also I hope the Muslim men and women will respect Western culture. So please take off as much as clothing possible and respect western values. Dont look upon gay people and celebrate diversity and celebrate christanism and atheism. Also I hope in Muslim countries I can find non-halal certificate products so I feel welcoming just like we welcome muslims♥️. Shukran
@@DiamondsRexpensivethey are not getting it, unfortunately my friend 😢 they don’t understand that this is IMPOSSIBLE
@@DiamondsRexpensiveit’s not against our religion it literally says in our book to respect the leadership and culture of the country you live dumbass
No need to shukran...with your imagination...
in the majority of muslim countries, you can wear western clothes, buy non halal foods, celebrate christmas, go to church if you like and party until the cows come home...
i dont know where you got your mistaken fanciful ideas about life in an arabic muslim country.
@@DiamondsRexpensive...
what negative rubbish are you writing?...
1st you need to learn self respect before you spread disrespectful negative Lies about other people you clearly know little about
I’m almost 40 enough with the rules. How sweet this religion is suited for 17 year olds.
Raising children in a mixed family far from Muslim countries. How can someone who is away from home most of the day have a greater influence on the upbringing of children in the area of faith than a woman who is home alone with children almost non-stop?
Would you declare kurds from arab countries also as arabs, or do they have a very different mentality?
Kurds, Eastern Eiropeans, East Asians, Levant Middle Easterners...all these geographic regions have muslims and each have a different mentality
Mutual love and respect for one another built on GOD with the knowledge of JESUS CHRIST makes for a blessed home , marriage and family
Why are you making it specific about Arab men?
because he's arab...? and he can only speak for the men of the culture he was raised in
You say you will have to understand well sure He has to teach u
this video is informative ... BUT... you very quickly forgot your 1st point about
different cultures = different mentalities...
then you proceeded to talk only about things that pertain to Arabian Gulf men and their specific culture...
many things you explained do not at all happen the same in other muslim cultures...
It's not just about the Arabian Gulf. He's talking about Arabs in general. Whether Egyptian, Tunisian, Moroccan, Emirati, Saudi, Yemeni. What he describes applies to all Arabs. Perhaps it's different for Turks, Albanians and Bosnians. But he's talking about Arabs here. So I can only agree with Moroccans. Of course there are men who don't attach any importance to that, but they don't practice their religion and are clearly sinning in many ways. You can't use that as an example. We're assuming a practicing Muslim Arab man in this example.
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Some habits should be changed.
Men like you should also hide his skin 😉 Because some men are the same if not more beautiful than women.
You need a haircut
Fuad please give me your contact number. Iam non Muslim live in Dammam saudi arabia