as someone with social anxiety disorder this is like the most relatable thing I've ever seen. I used to go every day 100% silent and not say a word to anyone but after doing some self discovery I was able to surround myself with the right people who understood that just because I'm quiet doesn't mean you can't get to know me and doesn't mean that I can't be cool. I know sometimes you overthink the things you do or obsess about how people act around you but If you focus on all that and don't move on from it you're not going to make any progress. I know you've probably been told this a million times but please just be yourself because the right people will like you for you and if they don't then their not the right people for you (also you seem rly cool so if for some reason someone doesn't like you that's their problem). Obviously it takes a very very long time to get over social anxiety and sometimes you feel alone but I bet there are so many people that want to be your friend but have the same fear that you won't like them. Ik this is easier said then done but you should talk to the girl in math and the girl in PE because they might rly want to talk to you but are just waiting for you to start the conversation.
i dont usually comment, but you did great today at school! I get that moment in pe where i feel so special to that kind of person but like instead they have circle of friends yknow? Ofc they consider me as a friend and appreciate me but i want to be that friend that they prioritize, as a first option, talk to me 24/7. Srry for sharing just like that, and just as i said, i know that kind of feeling and youre not alone :) youre a great person and i hope the right people will find you 💗
i know how you felt by that girl in p.e and it's natural how you feel so just in case don't blame yourself for feeling that way. And I'm pretty sure that girl does enjoy talking to you and maybe she was too shy to save that spot for you or that person already took it before she got there. Stuff like this happens as students like you are too distracted with school and many thoughts you have going on. So don't feel discouraged :) And also if you don't feel comfortable doing stuff like that girl in math class asked of you to tell the teacher, you don't have to do it and it's no problem. Keep in mind friends should be understanding of eachother. And happy holidays blu3 skyes, i hope you have a wonderful one! ❤
btw if ur still a loner, the way i made friends (a lot) was js asking a bunch of questions , “where ur from,what’s ur fav shop to go to, this might be a weird question but do u have any skincare?” stuff like that!! 75% success rate! xx hope it goes well 🫶
this is so me!! i was such a friend maker in middle school and now that im in highschool ig i forgot how to make new friends so ive gone all of this year without even saying words in school. glad to see realistic types of videos
im usually just a silent viewer but i want to say i totally understand how you feel about the girl in p.e. i dont think you were being dramatic at all, and i have similar experiences (as an 8th grader) i just want you to know you aren't alone!
this is such a refreshing vlog to see. it feels so real and I totally understand the feeling you had about the girl in P.E. a similar thing happened to me. Just keep going, days will keep getting better :)
Your school does actually look quite… how to say it? Helpful? At least it tries to aid its students, with so many different activities, yk here in Italy we’ve been stuck in the same godforsaken room for what has been 5 never ending years we only get outside of that coffin for PE (and we often don’t even have the chance ‘cause our school is full of students and has only two gyms), and now that we are in our last year before exams we barely even have the time to raise our heads from the desk/books (we normally have 6 hours of school [08:00am-01:40pm] sounds bad? we also get 7 hours on Tuesdays and Thursdays and from time to time we gotta fullfill an obligatory post-scholastic course, THAT LASTS THREE HOURS MORE) it’s truly hell on earth, and having no friends to at least distract yourself is just the cherry on top, you just feel like an alien, I hope all this struggle will be worth it in the future…
bro this is so relatable, i have like two friends but we do block scheduling at my school so i only see one of them every other day and my other day i’m just all alone lol. i kinda hate it, it makes me so sad lmao but if you happen to like realistic fiction type books, my favorite book ever is solitaire by alice oseman!
For a book recomendation, read bluestar's prophecy or children of the fox! They're more for younger readers but still quite well written! If you're into graphic novels, Unico Awakening is one of my personal favorites!
I don’t have friends either but if you do then when you graduate you may never see them again. You may see them walking one day in the future but you may not even recognise each other. This may not happen but then again it might❤.
Some books recs: solitaire by Alice oseman, a picture of Dorian Gray by Oscar Wilde, the song of Achilles by Madeline miller, and summer bird blue (I forgot the author sorry) I hope you enjoy them! My fav was solitaire :)
I haven’t had any new friends in years, I’ve just kept up with my same friend group. But I think if you try to make some acquaintances, you might enjoy yourself more, y’know? I know it’s really hard too, I don’t like talking to people I’m not familiar with, and I’m bad at talking ain general. But by socializing with other people your age, even if it’s just an attempt, you’ll find out more about yourself and you found at first. Edit: btw, have you read the Warrior Cats series? I also love horses, and your seat is actually impressive!!
I have a book recommendation but it's a lil childish but I always laugh also a tiny bit on the girlish side if you are still interested there is a series Lottie brooks..(I hope I didn't make a fool out of myself...)
hey im not sure what type of books you like but one of my fav books is invisible boys by holden sheppered its meant to be a kids book but its really not lol it sounds cringy but it made me cry and laugh (but theres also like adult scenes if that makes sense?) so maybe that can be a recomendation? and also solitare by alice osemen she has many other books and a comic sirise but solitare is my fav out of them all (sorry my spelling is bad lol)
omg the horse is so prettyy, and maybe the girl in pe does like you, someone might have taken your usual spot! a book I highly recommend is moth flight’s vision by Erin Hunter (pen name)!
Hey! Im here w books recommendations im not sure wut kinda books ur into but heres some i like! Or wanna read myself. Ok 1. Percy Jackson (series) 2. Chronicles of Narnia (series) 3. Lord of the rings (series) 4. Dork diaries (series) 5. Cupcake diaries (series) 6. Anne of Green gables (series) 7. Diary of a wimpy kid That's all! 😅
Another day of school with fake friends that don’t even talk to me and people making me uncomfortable but I’m to scared to even speak a squeak Anyways I hope you have a jolly Christmas :D and a happy new year Get ur mind off ur worries and have a merry merry Christmas
I don't think it's very likely that the girl didn't save you a spot because she didn't like you. There are many reasons why she might not have. For example, someone took the spot and she was nervous to say that it was reserved, or she might not have thought about it at all because she was daydreaming, etc. If you were in her shoes, and you were on a treadmill, and someone took the spot next to you, would you say it is reserved? Or would you overthink the whole situation and in the end be too anxious to say anything about it. That example might be weirdly specific but that is exactly what I would do. Don't get discouraged, but make sure she understands that you do wanna become friends with her by for example saving her a spot if you get the chance. I believe in you! 💪
im sorry this isnt really related to the video, but you like stephen king right? im in the middle of reading cujo and ive already read insomnia. i really like his work so far, is there any other stephen king books you would recommend? :D
Hi I have a book recommendation!! It's not the longest or the best book in the world and it's not for everyone, but please consider giving it a try! (It's been my favourite book since I was seven years old) It's called 'The Little Prince' by Antoine De Saint-Exupery!
@blu3_skyes as an equestrian w/ only a few friends this is so relatable in the next vid could u show us how u survive during lunch? i always get scared when my friends aren’t there idk what to do cuz it is so embarrassing sitting alone cuz then teachers sit w/ u edit: also try do to some stuff at ur barn even if it’s scary ppl r so nice and ik it seems hard but u CAN make friends there! if the barn hosts something go to it! if u have an opportunity to go to a show go!
@@blu3_skyes I’ve read both The Shining AND Salems Lot! I own both of them, they’re so so good. My personal favs by him (I’ve read around 9-10) are Needful Things, Desperation, And Carrie :3
I love your videos! Weirdly enough, im an extrovert, but these calm me. You can do this! Keep powering through highschool and you can achieve your goals. Love from america 🩷 Also, a book recommendation: what we saw by mary downing hahn
I'm a dumb extrovert sorry I 😢 I just can't help being an extrovert 😢😢😢😢😢pls forgive me everyone I'll try to become a loner / introvert / cool like y'all 😢
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as someone with social anxiety disorder this is like the most relatable thing I've ever seen. I used to go every day 100% silent and not say a word to anyone but after doing some self discovery I was able to surround myself with the right people who understood that just because I'm quiet doesn't mean you can't get to know me and doesn't mean that I can't be cool. I know sometimes you overthink the things you do or obsess about how people act around you but If you focus on all that and don't move on from it you're not going to make any progress. I know you've probably been told this a million times but please just be yourself because the right people will like you for you and if they don't then their not the right people for you (also you seem rly cool so if for some reason someone doesn't like you that's their problem). Obviously it takes a very very long time to get over social anxiety and sometimes you feel alone but I bet there are so many people that want to be your friend but have the same fear that you won't like them. Ik this is easier said then done but you should talk to the girl in math and the girl in PE because they might rly want to talk to you but are just waiting for you to start the conversation.
Fact: Youll always be loved more that youll ever be aware of
I’m really proud of you for actually being able to get through a school day while still keeping a positive attitude :)
i dont usually comment, but you did great today at school! I get that moment in pe where i feel so special to that kind of person but like instead they have circle of friends yknow? Ofc they consider me as a friend and appreciate me but i want to be that friend that they prioritize, as a first option, talk to me 24/7. Srry for sharing just like that, and just as i said, i know that kind of feeling and youre not alone :) youre a great person and i hope the right people will find you 💗
i know how you felt by that girl in p.e and it's natural how you feel so just in case don't blame yourself for feeling that way. And I'm pretty sure that girl does enjoy talking to you and maybe she was too shy to save that spot for you or that person already took it before she got there. Stuff like this happens as students like you are too distracted with school and many thoughts you have going on. So don't feel discouraged :)
And also if you don't feel comfortable doing stuff like that girl in math class asked of you to tell the teacher, you don't have to do it and it's no problem. Keep in mind friends should be understanding of eachother.
And happy holidays blu3 skyes, i hope you have a wonderful one! ❤
btw if ur still a loner, the way i made friends (a lot) was js asking a bunch of questions , “where ur from,what’s ur fav shop to go to, this might be a weird question but do u have any skincare?” stuff like that!! 75% success rate! xx hope it goes well 🫶
its so cool u filmed all of this, ik its tough being a loner but remember u have ppl that will always be by ur side right here!!
this is so me!! i was such a friend maker in middle school and now that im in highschool ig i forgot how to make new friends so ive gone all of this year without even saying words in school. glad to see realistic types of videos
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i love the ‘14 years ago’ vibe of this, iyk what i mean lol, this is such a cool and unique day-in-the-life vid! ❤
im usually just a silent viewer but i want to say i totally understand how you feel about the girl in p.e. i dont think you were being dramatic at all, and i have similar experiences (as an 8th grader) i just want you to know you aren't alone!
i love the thumbnail style its so cute!!
I like seeing these kind of vlogs!!! Also I luvvvv ur shoes there so cute!!!
this is such a refreshing vlog to see. it feels so real and I totally understand the feeling you had about the girl in P.E. a similar thing happened to me. Just keep going, days will keep getting better :)
man honestly i love this, this felt too real😊
i keep getting your vids recommended to me and only today did i notice how calming they are. subscribed :3
Girl how do you not have any friends you seem like the sweetest!
Your school does actually look quite… how to say it? Helpful? At least it tries to aid its students, with so many different activities, yk here in Italy we’ve been stuck in the same godforsaken room for what has been 5 never ending years we only get outside of that coffin for PE (and we often don’t even have the chance ‘cause our school is full of students and has only two gyms), and now that we are in our last year before exams we barely even have the time to raise our heads from the desk/books (we normally have 6 hours of school [08:00am-01:40pm] sounds bad? we also get 7 hours on Tuesdays and Thursdays and from time to time we gotta fullfill an obligatory post-scholastic course, THAT LASTS THREE HOURS MORE) it’s truly hell on earth, and having no friends to at least distract yourself is just the cherry on top, you just feel like an alien, I hope all this struggle will be worth it in the future…
I love it now i know ok not the only one :) but your horse is very cute!
bro this is so relatable, i have like two friends but we do block scheduling at my school so i only see one of them every other day and my other day i’m just all alone lol. i kinda hate it, it makes me so sad lmao but if you happen to like realistic fiction type books, my favorite book ever is solitaire by alice oseman!
I have a book recommendation for you :)
It’s one called “The perks on being a timid wallflower”
I very much hope you can relax in your Christmas break,everyone deserves time off school especially you.
For a book recomendation, read bluestar's prophecy or children of the fox! They're more for younger readers but still quite well written! If you're into graphic novels, Unico Awakening is one of my personal favorites!
I don’t have friends either but if you do then when you graduate you may never see them again. You may see them walking one day in the future but you may not even recognise each other. This may not happen but then again it might❤.
Love the video :D
Some books recs: solitaire by Alice oseman, a picture of Dorian Gray by Oscar Wilde, the song of Achilles by Madeline miller, and summer bird blue (I forgot the author sorry)
I hope you enjoy them! My fav was solitaire :)
Omg I would’ve never known you rode horses!!! I ride too! Im a hunter jumper! When did you start riding? I would love to see more
Yaay new video!🦋🦋
have you tried reading the silent oatient? its super good imo ^_^
I haven’t had any new friends in years, I’ve just kept up with my same friend group. But I think if you try to make some acquaintances, you might enjoy yourself more, y’know? I know it’s really hard too, I don’t like talking to people I’m not familiar with, and I’m bad at talking ain general. But by socializing with other people your age, even if it’s just an attempt, you’ll find out more about yourself and you found at first.
Edit: btw, have you read the Warrior Cats series? I also love horses, and your seat is actually impressive!!
it’s kind of crazy that your school literally has a treadmill. Personally idc that much cuz I don’t take PE but still cool lol
I suggest u read born at Midnight its like a kind of fantasy like teenage dark romance i read half kf the boook no spoilers❤❤❤❤❤
hey! a book that I loved reading was 'then there was one' by Wendy cross, it ends on a massive plot twist and I LOVED it
you seem like such a fun person to be around
I’m how it feels to be a loner…. I was just in 5th grade, and most of the times were a loner, but not anymore, luckily I’m in six grade in 2025!
I have a book recommendation but it's a lil childish but I always laugh also a tiny bit on the girlish side if you are still interested there is a series
Lottie brooks..(I hope I didn't make a fool out of myself...)
Ur so lucky you have snow where I am it got 45°C (113°F) 😭
hey im not sure what type of books you like but one of my fav books is invisible boys by holden sheppered its meant to be a kids book but its really not lol it sounds cringy but it made me cry and laugh (but theres also like adult scenes if that makes sense?) so maybe that can be a recomendation? and also solitare by alice osemen she has many other books and a comic sirise but solitare is my fav out of them all (sorry my spelling is bad lol)
If you haven’t read it I recommend heaven by meiko kawakami! It’s kinda depressing tho just a heads up
omg the horse is so prettyy, and maybe the girl in pe does like you, someone might have taken your usual spot! a book I highly recommend is moth flight’s vision by Erin Hunter (pen name)!
Wait did you eat lunch? If you didn't, do you at least eat it everyday? Sorry if im coming off weird, im just worried
Hey! Im here w books recommendations im not sure wut kinda books ur into but heres some i like! Or wanna read myself. Ok
1. Percy Jackson (series)
2. Chronicles of Narnia (series)
3. Lord of the rings (series)
4. Dork diaries (series)
5. Cupcake diaries (series)
6. Anne of Green gables (series)
7. Diary of a wimpy kid
That's all! 😅
Another day of school with fake friends that don’t even talk to me and people making me uncomfortable but I’m to scared to even speak a squeak
Anyways I hope you have a jolly Christmas :D and a happy new year
Get ur mind off ur worries and have a merry merry Christmas
💙
I don't think it's very likely that the girl didn't save you a spot because she didn't like you. There are many reasons why she might not have. For example, someone took the spot and she was nervous to say that it was reserved, or she might not have thought about it at all because she was daydreaming, etc. If you were in her shoes, and you were on a treadmill, and someone took the spot next to you, would you say it is reserved? Or would you overthink the whole situation and in the end be too anxious to say anything about it. That example might be weirdly specific but that is exactly what I would do. Don't get discouraged, but make sure she understands that you do wanna become friends with her by for example saving her a spot if you get the chance. I believe in you! 💪
"Rebel of the sands" by Alwin Hamilton.
Have you read Brandon Sanderson? He got me through college with no friends
im sorry this isnt really related to the video, but you like stephen king right? im in the middle of reading cujo and ive already read insomnia. i really like his work so far, is there any other stephen king books you would recommend? :D
insomnia is the fifth stephen king book ive read, and out of all of them it was my fav, but i also rlly liked the shining and needful things :)
@@blu3_skyes ty!!
riding horces look so funnn but im sure she likes u does she seem to have social anxiety? but im sorry sbt that BUT GLAD THERES SNOWWW
you could read the power by naomi alderman
It’s so cool that you ride!!
As someone who is not social I go through the same thing but if you don’t mind can we be friends?
i recommend criers war and iron heart
u seem so cool i’d wanna be ur friend:(
BOOK RECOMMENDATION THE MAZE RUNNER !!1!1!1!1! PLS READ!!
if u want any good sci fi books to read, i suggest Phillip dick, i LOVEEEE his books, they can be a little connfusing tho :3
I enjoyed hell followed with us, It might be a little weird tho lmao
Hi I have a book recommendation!! It's not the longest or the best book in the world and it's not for everyone, but please consider giving it a try! (It's been my favourite book since I was seven years old) It's called 'The Little Prince' by Antoine De Saint-Exupery!
@blu3_skyes as an equestrian w/ only a few friends this is so relatable in the next vid could u show us how u survive during lunch? i always get scared when my friends aren’t there idk what to do cuz it is so embarrassing sitting alone cuz then teachers sit w/ u
edit: also try do to some stuff at ur barn even if it’s scary ppl r so nice and ik it seems hard but u CAN make friends there! if the barn hosts something go to it! if u have an opportunity to go to a show go!
Have you read The Giver? Perhaps it is to your taste.
oh my god I LOVE Stephen King!! I’ve read so so many of his books!! What’s your favorite one by him??
ive read five of his books, and my top favs so far are insomnia, the shining, and salems lot!
@@blu3_skyes I’ve read both The Shining AND Salems Lot! I own both of them, they’re so so good. My personal favs by him (I’ve read around 9-10) are Needful Things, Desperation, And Carrie :3
@Dakota_Bugzz oooh, never heard of desperation! ill check it out :D
@@blu3_skyes it’s so good! Especially if you like the thriller/horror aspect of his writing >_
If I went to school with you I'd be your friend you seem so sweet
Christmas is next week. Are you excited?
Who else clicked cause they're a complete loner??
I love your videos! Weirdly enough, im an extrovert, but these calm me. You can do this! Keep powering through highschool and you can achieve your goals. Love from america 🩷
Also, a book recommendation: what we saw by mary downing hahn
If u need a friend, i can be one 😊
U read Stephen king?! His books are the best!!!
Hi! I could be your friend :p I rlly don’t mind!
I'm a dumb extrovert sorry I 😢 I just can't help being an extrovert 😢😢😢😢😢pls forgive me everyone I'll try to become a loner / introvert / cool like y'all 😢
Nothing wrong with that dude, everybody’s unique in this world, just remember to be yourself and let others be themselves too
Do u wanna be friends? :]
how to fix not being a loner in one easy step
1: get friends
i recommend rumble fish or the outsiders both by S E hinton!!
i loved the outsiders!!!!
@ O M G (thats so real were both loners aswell it reminds me of ponyboy a little)