Meaningful Moments in the Aftermath of Gun Violence | Fred Guttenberg | TEDxBocaRaton

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  • Опубликовано: 20 май 2024
  • On February 14th, my daughter Jaime Guttenberg was murdered at her High School in Parkland Florida. This day has forever transformed my family and our lives. Sadly, what happened to our family is no longer unique. My life since then has become a series of unique and unexpected moments with those who have been a long-time part of my life but also with many new relationships that only exist because of what happened to us. Fred Guttenberg’s professional life includes over a decade of experience in sales and management with Johnson and Johnson, followed by 15 years as an entrepreneur, having built a business that consisted of 19 Dunkin Donuts, which he sold in November 2016. Fred’s brother Michael was one of the original first responders during 9/11 at the WTC. Michael was with a team of doctors who got trapped in the WTC as it collapsed. Amazingly, the room that they hid out in did not collapse. As a result of the ground zero exposure, Michael was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer which he battled, along with Fred’s help and support until October 2017, when he passed away. In February of 2018 he was actively looking for a new purpose when Fred and his family were again struck by another National American tragedy; only this one was far worse. His 14-year-old daughter Jaime, a freshman at Marjory Stone Douglas High School was one of 17 victims brutally murdered in the Parkland Florida school shooting. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

Комментарии • 93

  • @shannonpaige9169
    @shannonpaige9169 3 года назад +52

    You are so strong. She is looking down on you. She is very proud. There is nothing anyone can say to heal your pain. I'm so sorry for your loss, but you're voice is being heard.

  • @vela-rn2jz
    @vela-rn2jz Год назад +22

    🌹I think it’s speaks volumes that in two years this video has only been watched 5,000 times.. and only 50 people have commented.. and now only a handful of Americans watching the trial…yet the Johnny drop trial had a million viewers.. and was all over social media.

    • @lizhatch7770
      @lizhatch7770 Год назад +2

      Very true. Very sad that other countries can tacklers problem and USA cannot. The surviving kids who are becoming activists, GOD BLESS THEM. They are the only hope we have that something will change. I am hopeful that with some young people CARING and making the effort, something will get better. I pray they continue to have strength to fight the good fight. Also, we all must become informed and vote, complacency is something I have been guilty of up until our country has become so divided in the last 7 or so years.

  • @belleg3424
    @belleg3424 Год назад +7

    How is this not viral… this is so important

  • @sabrinabrown2090
    @sabrinabrown2090 4 года назад +51

    He lost his daughter that is just heart breaking💔

  • @tiffanyhumes2383
    @tiffanyhumes2383 Год назад +11

    God bless you sir! Your daughter would be so proud of how you are honoring her name and fighting for justice! 🙏🏻

  • @iyavh1247
    @iyavh1247 2 года назад +10

    "It's out of the worst moments, that our heroes and leaders are born" - Fred Guttenberg

  • @kayp.3832
    @kayp.3832 4 года назад +41

    As usual, Fred DID THAT.

  • @angelaforshey2224
    @angelaforshey2224 Год назад +3

    I'm so amazed by your strength sir

  • @tomcatonyoutube
    @tomcatonyoutube Год назад +5

    What a strong father. What a strong community. Parkland is still strong as the videos I’ve seen since of the high school, have shown. I probably will never meet these people but I always think about all of those kids and staff who were killed.

  • @nathansmith2955
    @nathansmith2955 Год назад +3

    I’ve been watching this man’s journey since this tragedy. His story is so inspiring. Sending strength and healing to you and your family mr guttenberg! Your daughter is so beyond proud

    • @William14094
      @William14094 14 часов назад

      Truthfully, he’s most interested in having the whole world feel his pain than he is about bringing change.

  • @joannarevel9960
    @joannarevel9960 Год назад +5

    Amazing, heartfelt, that speech will save lives, my deepest respect

  • @karenslone7624
    @karenslone7624 Год назад +3

    I hope you don’t stop your mission , Jamie is watching you and is so proud of her dad, God Bless You . I hope you run for high office. I can tell u are so smart.

  • @HeatherMonahanOfficial
    @HeatherMonahanOfficial 4 года назад +21

    This was so touching and amazing thank you for sharing!

  • @MrRobertito17
    @MrRobertito17 Год назад +3

    I know Jaime is proud of you Mr. Guttenberg; you have such a great spirit.

  • @timgmail6549
    @timgmail6549 3 года назад +7

    RIP - she is in a better place.

  • @kathyjakabcin4115
    @kathyjakabcin4115 Год назад +2

    Very powerful speech. I support you and your cause in reducing gun violence and eliminating automatic rifles of any kind. I am devastated at the ruling yesterday of giving the Parkland shooter life in prison. We need legislation in all 50 states making it a death sentence when the evidence is clear of murder by use of guns and/or assault rifles.....

  • @kellykellett3682
    @kellykellett3682 Год назад +4

    This country needs to get its priorities in order. Fred needs to run for office! Someone who KNOWS this pain WILL make a difference and he’s making a difference right now.

    • @airam-sj2172
      @airam-sj2172 Год назад

      Presidents have limited power. They are not superheroes or fairy tail characters. Obama couldn't pass any change in gun laws restrictions after Sandy Hook because of the Republicans. I have learned that presidents are just an ornamental element in the political arena. There are more powerful people behind them running the show. Now, those politicians with genuine good intentions don't make it too far. Sadly I don't see a meaningful change in guns control in this country where mass shootings happens every day even if they are not reported.

  • @TrentEngineFan
    @TrentEngineFan Год назад

    It's incredible what people can do when grief is their fuel.

  • @ijm1261
    @ijm1261 8 месяцев назад

    I love his message, he's such a great father. Jaime would be proud 🥹

  • @iyavh1247
    @iyavh1247 2 года назад +4

    Pass Jamie's Law NOW!! Lawmakers do your part please!

  • @traceykeegan4203
    @traceykeegan4203 Год назад +2

    Bravo Daddy !👏👏👏 That's what she's saying to you. Fight on brave man. You are not alone.

  • @tomz1daful
    @tomz1daful 4 года назад

    It's about Cattle management. Thanks Fred. You said all the right things.

  • @thejew1789
    @thejew1789 4 года назад +18

    There are no words accurate for what Fred is. Hero is the only one that comes to mind.

  • @benisaacs6253
    @benisaacs6253 4 года назад +13

    My daughter died in a gun free zone after local, state, and federal law enforcement failed at their job so I wanna take away law abiding gun owners right to self defense

  • @jub8891
    @jub8891 4 года назад +8

    he lives with a sound he never heard...?

    • @alikiabateman7998
      @alikiabateman7998 4 года назад +9

      theres videos where the gunshoots from this incident could be heard, so yes, he probably did

  • @carrotap3001
    @carrotap3001 Год назад +3

    What is his goal?

    • @steviebexoticreptile7720
      @steviebexoticreptile7720 Год назад +1

      His goal is to tell you that even though he got justice for his daughters death that he isn't done now he's after your right to own a gun and violating your 2nd amendment

    • @ABCDEF-no1cv
      @ABCDEF-no1cv Год назад

      @@steviebexoticreptile7720 what justice ??

    • @steviebexoticreptile7720
      @steviebexoticreptile7720 Год назад

      @@ABCDEF-no1cv well the shooter is in prison right

    • @steviebexoticreptile7720
      @steviebexoticreptile7720 Год назад

      @@ABCDEF-no1cv he went to court with a jury of his peers and was sentenced for his crimes...if you feel he deserves more then blame the lawyers but here in Chicago there mother crying that there babies deaths are unsolved so I think the man needs to grieve and leave it alone...you can protest against gun violence that's his right but attacking wrecklessly through anger isn't smart to make a point especially when the government can't do anything about it

    • @shrekxrohankishibe
      @shrekxrohankishibe 8 месяцев назад

      @@steviebexoticreptile7720he’s not trying to take your 2nd amendment away. He’s said several times he’s against gun violence.

  • @bytansity1761
    @bytansity1761 Год назад

    0:40

  • @Yugetubes
    @Yugetubes 4 года назад +3

    The tool doesn't matter. My brother was stabbed. My friend's brother was shot. The problem is people who use violence for purposes other than keeping people safe. And, no. Mr Guttenberg you do not need a uniform or a badge to be a decent person.

    • @marryson123
      @marryson123 4 года назад +1

      The irony is, the decent person in uniform and a badge failed to protect his daughter like they promised.

    • @Yugetubes
      @Yugetubes 4 года назад

      @@marryson123 He valued his retirement above the lives of those kids.

    • @Yugetubes
      @Yugetubes 4 года назад +1

      @@marryson123 I should also ask, why do we automatically assume he is/was a decent person? A badge and uniform does not make a man. This person chose money and personal safety over the lives of 17(?) children.

  • @zacharyreshovsky4055
    @zacharyreshovsky4055 Год назад +3

    I don't understand why we are SO out of step with gun control in other countries. Assault weapons ban should have gone into effect a LONG time ago.

  • @carrotap3001
    @carrotap3001 Год назад

    Oh WOW!! Now Biden?! No.

  • @amihogatai8432
    @amihogatai8432 Год назад

    republicans will never let guns go away. blood makes people lots and lots of money.

  • @steviebexoticreptile7720
    @steviebexoticreptile7720 Год назад

    This guy got his justice in the court system for his daughter...but why attack our our 2nd amendment cause of a few bad seeds...police kill more ppl then school massacres just saying but not justifying these horrible acts

  • @trowelstar
    @trowelstar 4 года назад +11

    Being a victim doesn't make you a expert of the solution it makes you the expert of emotion. His outburst proved that. We get it he lost his daughter no shade to that but telling America too disarmed themselves is just going to create more victims and more emotion and no solutions. What about my family? I shouldn't be able to protect my family because someone else grief? There were over 2.3 home invasion in this country last year how much more will that skyrocket if criminals know they have the advantage cause gun laws don't stop crime the 2nd Amendment does. Criminals don't fear paper they fear bullets.

    • @iamanunaik
      @iamanunaik 2 года назад +1

      Gun sellers make money off of guns that may kill you or me. They have a bottom line linked to our death . No emotion just hard truth

    • @aoifefurey8135
      @aoifefurey8135 2 года назад +1

      How come other countries don't have more murders than the usa then with strict gun laws? Your comment makes no sense.

    • @charliehammer8780
      @charliehammer8780 2 года назад +2

      @@iamanunaik Gun sellers make money off of guns that may *_save_* you or me as well. As a matter of fact, according to a study by the Center for Disease Control in Atlanta, guns in the hands of law abiding citizens _save_ an estimated 500,000 to _3 MILLION_ people each year. Compare those numbers to the average 10,000 gun murders each year and I hope you realize just how badly you are being lied to.

    • @charliehammer8780
      @charliehammer8780 2 года назад +2

      @@aoifefurey8135 Do you mean countries like Venezuela? El Salvador? Jamaica? All of those countries have very strict restrictions on who can own a gun and because of this, civilian gun ownership is non-existent in those countries. And yet, all of those countries that I mentioned surpass the United states in gun murders each year! How is that possible? Meanwhile, in Switzerland, a country that has the same kind of permissive gun laws that the United States has, gun crime is almost non-existent! How is _that_ possible? Great Britain banned civilian ownership of guns as well and if you go to Google and search for gun crime in Britain you will see that it is up by 80% in the last 10 years. The only people who suffer with these gun bans is the regular citizen who cannot protect their own home and family from burglars and home invasions. The only people who suffer are those who are disarmed in the face of violent criminals who know that they can do whatever they want to those that they perceive to be weaker than themselves.

    • @roybiv7018
      @roybiv7018 2 года назад

      @@iamanunaik Car sellers make money off of cars that may kill you or me. Your second sentence... is... :: Facepalm::

  • @markfloding9971
    @markfloding9971 3 года назад +2

    Today an AK 47 means more than your Neighbor...

  • @nope6908
    @nope6908 3 года назад +1

    School is supposed to be a happy place?

  • @ronbotex
    @ronbotex 4 года назад +4

    Sad this channel censors comments that disagree with the speaker, but typical.

  • @marryson123
    @marryson123 4 года назад +9

    If your daughter was killed by a bomb or a knife. Do you blame the bomb or the knife? Maybe you should blame the person who did it instead. What about blaming the guy who you trusted to protect the public(aka the police officer) for not doing his job like the government promised? How is more gun laws going to fix Violence in general?

    • @alexandrostheodorou8387
      @alexandrostheodorou8387 Год назад +2

      Can lower the casualties. Harder to kill a person, less likely you’ll do it.

  • @OMGWUNSIU
    @OMGWUNSIU 4 года назад +7

    How does taking guns used for lawful purposes away from law abiding citizens make any sense whatsoever? Grief has clouded this guys mind. How sad for his family and for the cause of freedom. Sorry Fred, but you are just plain wrong. My sympathy for your loss.

    • @OMGWUNSIU
      @OMGWUNSIU 4 года назад +4

      @Nicole Davies we ALREADY HAVE background checks and waiting periods...

    • @aoifefurey8135
      @aoifefurey8135 2 года назад +1

      Hes not wrong

    • @OMGWUNSIU
      @OMGWUNSIU 2 года назад +3

      @@aoifefurey8135 Factually speaking he is incorrect.

    • @steviebexoticreptile7720
      @steviebexoticreptile7720 Год назад +1

      Why does he let his anger come after gun when the gun didn't do anything it's just a tool that need a person to operate it...blame mister Cruz for your pain and suffering but don't threaten the citizens with attacking out 2nd amendment

    • @stewartwatson7136
      @stewartwatson7136 Год назад +1

      @@steviebexoticreptile7720 exactly

  • @b7ake
    @b7ake Год назад +1

    5k views in 2 years. Proof that Fred Guttenberg isn’t popular and has to pay Bots to amplify his content on Twitter.

  • @NatralSelection
    @NatralSelection 4 года назад +2

    Propaganda. I'm sorry for his loss... because it IS tragic... but what he's espousing endangers EVERYONE.

  • @gunsquawk4443
    @gunsquawk4443 2 года назад +8

    So... your daughter being killed with an AR15, is a good enough reason to take away my daughter's right to protect herself with an AR15? Not realistic. Totally absurd.

    • @ronanmesser149
      @ronanmesser149 2 года назад +16

      if america is so unsafe you feel the need to protect yourself and your duaghter with an ar-15, maybe you're considering the wrong things.

    • @Melinamiu007
      @Melinamiu007 Год назад

      Your daughter is obviously at war and should consider escaping the country.

  • @gprince3173
    @gprince3173 4 года назад +2

    Fred stop blaming guns. There was a COP there. The COP should have engaged the shooter. THERE IS NO EXCUSE FOR THE COWARDLY COP DID NOT ENGAGE!!!! You sir are an ingnoramous!!! Do want more shootings like this? You should be supporting the 2nd admenment. Encourage people to carry; you want people to be defenseless against defending themselves from assault and from tyrannical governments. I do not even own a firearm; but I am glad other citizens do! I am not talking about cops either. They are part of the tyrannical government that are trying to control us.
    I am sorry that your daughter died. I am not sorry for you! You are part of the problem due to ignorance as to why we have the Constitution and the Bill of Rights; the 2nd admenment is what ensures our freedoms!!!

  • @esteemedenergy
    @esteemedenergy 4 года назад +7

    So Fred, you failed to protect your child and now you blame everyone else.

    • @SecurFireWall
      @SecurFireWall 4 года назад +19

      So apparently parents don’t have jobs while there kids go to school

    • @LittleJerryFan92
      @LittleJerryFan92 4 года назад +15

      That’s a really cheap copout to hide your bigotry against someone losing their daughter out of their own control but okay.

    • @princesspam37
      @princesspam37 3 года назад +12

      That wasnt his fault his daughter got murder

    • @williamgraham1444
      @williamgraham1444 3 года назад +6

      What did he do exactly?

    • @blessed_lana6965
      @blessed_lana6965 2 года назад +5

      I condemn your lack of compassion.