This guy was texting me, trying to get to know me, asking about my likes and dislikes. And then he said you seem to be doing many things and taking care of people but who takes care of you. I even got teary. No one had ever asked me that. Then he said don't worry, I'm here now and everything will be alright. True to his word he is taking care of me emotionally, financially, mentally etc and intentionally taking me to do things I mentioned liking. I thank God every day 😭. To think I almost didn't give him my number, the devil is a liar 😂
My greenest flag is a man who knows how to take charge and PLEASE NOT I do not mean being controlling or not letting you have an opinion but a man who knows how to handle things. It gives me the safety vibes I so value in a relationship. High up the list with that will be a man who can maturely and vulnerably communicate. Over,lol
Claire’s point on just hate on them with me and don’t be out here defending them,key key key,like it’s not that serious,men you don’t need to act mature and reasonable all the time,it gets boring,Claire am so happy for you, you found your person,bless you forever
A man that chooses to put you first in all situations, be it with friends, be it with inlaws, be it with work, be it with kids even. making my safety and wellbeing a priority means you choose me again and again.
One with a strong relationship with God, kindness, good at communication, giver, caring, tangible love and support. I would take those as my green flags. Oops not forgetting prioritising my happiness😊
Sorry to break your bubble but this is somewhat not realistic long term. Work on your communication skills so that it can be easy to communicate your needs or wants rather than relying on assumptions. Your partner will not always be an angel to determine what you need.
Kemi 😅. As my ally (only single woman on a set), humor me. These experiences with your EXES that you refer to on different shows, is it one EX oba many scattered? 😂. I ask because I often say "I dated this guy" and while some are different, many times I be reffering to the same person. 😅. P
I understand you prim, l relate with prim about searching for a father figure, am on the same journey and l haven't been successful 😔 yet. I yearn for it so badly that l don't allow myself to date anyone who doesn't possess that care, provision and attention.
You pray and believe God to direct one towards you as you also work towards being the best person they could ever meet. I mean you ought to have green flags as well.
People ain't intentional, they don't crave change, don't care in Gen, the relationships of this generation today is stresss.. People feel bothered like how can we be partners without mindin the little things, no communication 🤷♀️ men, please it's the pretty little things ba dear ohh👍💯🙏
Indeed where did the handy men and providers go 😅😅😅 CARS are plaguing Black women around the world we need a global agreement. This was so lovely as usual thank you Fiona Claire and Prim (sorry if there’s misspelling) Also can we give it up for Claire’s dad, may it be unto us such sweetness and kindness of fathers around the world. Amen. And to the one who was careless with you Fiona what an idiot to squander a freaking dime piece
Aman who puts God first its a green flag. All i can say is that always pray to God to show you the right one coz a man can pretend to have those green flags while dating and you think he is a keeper you go for marriage and he starts to raise his red flags.
In a previous video you guys said you like men who are feminists. Equal partners and what not, right? But now its like you talking about all these things that men are "supposed to do" for women, because apparently its their role. I feel like these are double standards. You cant be feminists who also believe in gender roles. Thats why i find feminism so confusing.
Peace of mind and not repulsion when you are around each other. Can you be around each other in silence and enjoy it? I also think that when they bring out the best in you, that's a definite green flag. We have said all these things, but if you are doing them for your partner and you feel drained --- hunny, it's a no-no.
Smbody identify my need before me asking.. Hooo.. I pray.. It hasn't happened surely but I pray GOD Opens MA mind and brain so I choose wisely.. This is a REAL GREEN FLAG y'all 📌❤️
This guy was texting me, trying to get to know me, asking about my likes and dislikes. And then he said you seem to be doing many things and taking care of people but who takes care of you. I even got teary. No one had ever asked me that. Then he said don't worry, I'm here now and everything will be alright. True to his word he is taking care of me emotionally, financially, mentally etc and intentionally taking me to do things I mentioned liking. I thank God every day 😭. To think I almost didn't give him my number, the devil is a liar 😂
I totally relate
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Beautiful story ❤
🤣🤣🤣 Prim with the sarcasm.. "May be he thought you like dented cars"... "He was busy holding your hand"
For me a green flag at first sight is a good cologne,clipped nails,clean body odour,a listener and crisp clear speech
Also confidence without boastfulness and ego and showing off,someone confident yet humble
Me and Kemi be hanging in there like... 'green' every time Claire says 'red flag'😂😂😂
These ladies are always smart ❤️ today in a special way Claire looks extraordinarily beautiful 🎁
For me a man that can be vulnerable...thats such a Green bedsheet
Scam
Kindness, Effort, intentionality, Consistency are my top green flags💞
Are you all that yourself?
Claire's learning, unlearning and relearning is my green flag too.
My greenest flag is a man who knows how to take charge and PLEASE NOT I do not mean being controlling or not letting you have an opinion but a man who knows how to handle things. It gives me the safety vibes I so value in a relationship. High up the list with that will be a man who can maturely and vulnerably communicate. Over,lol
Fiona deserves a good man because she has had it rough with those past boyfriends eh!
Women love a bit of toxicity in men. You guys never go for nice dudes, it's always the bad boyz
Oh God …i was checking this page almost everyday for a new video…am humbly addicted😊
It's like my husband was being described❤ I really thank the heavens for such an amazing soul
Loving the consistency ❤
You ladies look stunning
Claire’s point on just hate on them with me and don’t be out here defending them,key key key,like it’s not that serious,men you don’t need to act mature and reasonable all the time,it gets boring,Claire am so happy for you, you found your person,bless you forever
You ladies look so beautiful ❤
To relate to all these green flags one day with someone’s son! Amen! 😭❤️🕯️
Kemi's jumpsuit 👍🏾
A man that chooses to put you first in all situations, be it with friends, be it with inlaws, be it with work, be it with kids even. making my safety and wellbeing a priority means you choose me again and again.
Biggest scam.. in today's time's that's a ticking time bomb for a man. Never again
Don't worry Clare, i think the person meant your back is turned towards Prim. Otherwise we all know you do not have beef, your alright!😊
The beauty, the beauty , the beauty 😍😍
One with a strong relationship with God, kindness, good at communication, giver, caring, tangible love and support. I would take those as my green flags. Oops not forgetting prioritising my happiness😊
Our queen prim, is shedding weight... We love you either ways
Hello what's the title of the podcast where prim talks about sharing bills. 😊
Kindness is a blue tick, going an extra mile to make u happy ia a green tick, emulating my dad is super....boys borrow a leaf
A guy who provides without you asking. Like he knows especially the timing of when you need what. Thats a big green flag
Sorry to break your bubble but this is somewhat not realistic long term. Work on your communication skills so that it can be easy to communicate your needs or wants rather than relying on assumptions. Your partner will not always be an angel to determine what you need.
I think my green flags are communication, consistence, kindness quality time, generosity etc
You have an accurate sense of the definition of a green flag.
He held your hand in an assuring way 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Kemi 😅. As my ally (only single woman on a set), humor me. These experiences with your EXES that you refer to on different shows, is it one EX oba many scattered? 😂. I ask because I often say "I dated this guy" and while some are different, many times I be reffering to the same person. 😅. P
Konka Prim with ur bible quotations 😂😂😂😂😂😂 the humour is on another level
Hi namesake.😊
I understand you prim, l relate with prim about searching for a father figure, am on the same journey and l haven't been successful 😔 yet. I yearn for it so badly that l don't allow myself to date anyone who doesn't possess that care, provision and attention.
His future plans always have an ‘us’ and ‘we’. He never says anything into the future that doesn’t have a version of me.
Does your version have him in the picture???
Please do a red flag/green flag episode about sibling relationships. I know someone who can be a guest speaker on this.
Thank you. I can't wait for that episode.
And yes kemis point of cares about what you care about even when it doesn’t make sense to them
Could this conversations be podcasted ?
Totally unrelated - Prim your are looking mzuri.
U guys r so smart 🎉
Are you Solomon with the wisdom 😂😂😂naye Prim
Where do we find those men that hold those flags
You pray and believe God to direct one towards you as you also work towards being the best person they could ever meet. I mean you ought to have green flags as well.
Prim and her biblical allusion, Solomon.... Ecclesiastes.... Holy spirit 🙌
A man who knows how to use a few tools is definitely sexy 😊😊😊😊. 😂😂😂😂 Doing the simple repairs in the home.
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Prim looks like she is in her feelings😂
Nawapenda ❤
People ain't intentional, they don't crave change, don't care in Gen, the relationships of this generation today is stresss.. People feel bothered like how can we be partners without mindin the little things, no communication 🤷♀️ men, please it's the pretty little things ba dear ohh👍💯🙏
Fabulous team
A provider and a man who cares wuuuuuu,he's everything.
Not Claire mixing flags 😂😂 nice vedio ladies
Indeed where did the handy men and providers go 😅😅😅 CARS are plaguing Black women around the world we need a global agreement. This was so lovely as usual thank you Fiona Claire and Prim (sorry if there’s misspelling)
Also can we give it up for Claire’s dad, may it be unto us such sweetness and kindness of fathers around the world. Amen. And to the one who was careless with you Fiona what an idiot to squander a freaking dime piece
Thank you gals.
Height is a green flag too.
Big butt in women is also a green flag.
@@aquarius254 thank you.. and a pretty face too with big boobs
i recall landing on this channel in april last year n loved ut straight away...
Feels good watching something
Best Reagrds yall😊
Maybe Zerida should replace Claire for sometime we see.
Me am in to reg flags only I want to run so far
Primmmmmmmmmmmmmm😂❤❤
💚💚💚💚 totally agree!
Yes Fiona that Amen
Aman who puts God first its a green flag. All i can say is that always pray to God to show you the right one coz a man can pretend to have those green flags while dating and you think he is a keeper you go for marriage and he starts to raise his red flags.
In a previous video you guys said you like men who are feminists. Equal partners and what not, right? But now its like you talking about all these things that men are "supposed to do" for women, because apparently its their role. I feel like these are double standards. You cant be feminists who also believe in gender roles. Thats why i find feminism so confusing.
😂😂😂😂 I watch this too much
Peace of mind and not repulsion when you are around each other. Can you be around each other in silence and enjoy it?
I also think that when they bring out the best in you, that's a definite green flag. We have said all these things, but if you are doing them for your partner and you feel drained --- hunny, it's a no-no.
Smbody identify my need before me asking.. Hooo.. I pray.. It hasn't happened surely but I pray GOD Opens MA mind and brain so I choose wisely.. This is a REAL GREEN FLAG y'all 📌❤️
First here 👯♀️
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