Ask Him THESE Questions To Create An Emotional Connection And Deepen The Intimacy

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  • Опубликовано: 6 июл 2024
  • In this video, relationship coach Valerie Greene shared some deep questions you can ask a man to create an emotional connection and intimacy with him.
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Комментарии • 127

  • @HelenaHartCoaching
    @HelenaHartCoaching  5 лет назад +10

    Apply for a FREE "Breakthrough To Lasting Love" personal coaching session with Valerie here: www.coachvaleriegreene.com/dap/a/?a=141&p=www.coachvaleriegreene.com/free-strategy-session

    • @karenbaker5323
      @karenbaker5323 4 года назад

      I thought my man and I had talked about everything, but these questions go even deeper than we've gone. So, I believe we have even deeper places we can go now
      Thank you both so much for help!

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  4 года назад +1

      You’re welcome Karen, I’m glad this was helpful! ❤️

  • @niicolereneeb9034
    @niicolereneeb9034 5 лет назад +26

    I say be natural.. spend time with boyfriend while sharing fun and laughter and things will grow and fall together and he will tell you how he feel without you asking. I don’t like scripted relationships where you meet and interview a person . I met my boyfriend at work, eat lunch together, laugh and spend time with him, and have nice talks . We go with the flow. 🥰

  • @mirandagriffith3167
    @mirandagriffith3167 5 лет назад +134

    What does love mean to you?
    What do I mean to you?
    Do you believe everything happens for a reason, or do we just find reasons after things happen?
    What is one behavior that you never tolerate?
    What is the one thing that makes you feel alive?
    What would your perfect day look like?
    Do you usually follow your head or your heart when making decisions?
    What is something that never ends well?
    If you could change anything about the way you were raised, what would it be?
    What’s your favorite non-physical quality about me?
    If our relationship ended, what’s the one thing about it you’d miss the most?
    What do you think was your most vulnerable moment in our relationship?
    What’s one secret you’ve wanted to tell me, but haven’t?
    What’s your favorite way to receive affection?
    What’s one thing you think makes our relationship unique from everyone else’s?
    If you could change one thing about our relationship what would it be?
    What did you think when you first met me?
    What about our relationship makes you really happy?
    If you had one word to describe our relationship what would it be?
    What’s your biggest fear for this relationship?
    What’s one difference between us that you absolutely love?
    What’s one similarity between us that you absolutely love?
    What about me made you fall in love?
    after getting to know someone I use these questions as well and there always great especially the answers

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  5 лет назад +11

      Thanks for posting these Miranda, they’re fantastic! 💜

    • @mirandagriffith3167
      @mirandagriffith3167 5 лет назад +5

      your very welcome your videos have helped me get out of my shell and open up to my best friend that I've known since fifth grade and we've been in and out of each others lives and just recently started talking and it became more but we both hid how we truly felt until I asked some of the questions you have in your videos and now I'm slowly working on getting closer to my best friend of ten years

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  5 лет назад +2

      I’m so happy to hear that! Keep me posted on how everything goes! 💕

    • @valeriegreene
      @valeriegreene 5 лет назад +3

      Yes thanks for posting these, Miranda :) There are so many deep questions we can ask if we connect to our heart and our curiosity

    • @mirandagriffith3167
      @mirandagriffith3167 5 лет назад +1

      there is! I never thought just a couple questions could bring someone so close it feels great to become closer to my best friend he even asked me on a date this Saturday to the race track and it went from me texting first to him and when he goes out to drink with his sister and cousin he texts me telling me how much he loves and misses me it's truly amazed me how well he's opened up

  • @shayleenwebb4021
    @shayleenwebb4021 4 года назад +14

    Helena you are such a great active listener! I admire how you reiterate everything she says!💖😘
    Brilliant!

  • @deena3003
    @deena3003 4 года назад +6

    I usually listen to the man talk during dinner. I gauge how I feel about him and his level of energy. Asking boatloads of questions especially at dinner is not a good idea. I asks a man questions in bite sizes at different times to understand him.

  • @tennillegeier7238
    @tennillegeier7238 4 года назад +13

    These are good questions to ask yourself too, it had me thinking about how I would answer.

  • @SewDiva5691
    @SewDiva5691 5 лет назад +9

    Another EPIC video! I appreciate both of you So much. I need to watch & listen to this vid over & over again. And Thank You for the free gifts 🙏🏻. Please make a sequel! BTW you both look Radiant!👌🏻😊

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  5 лет назад +3

      Thank you so much! I’ll definitely bring Valerie on again soon. 💕

  • @jolieinphilly8983
    @jolieinphilly8983 5 лет назад +11

    These are great open-ended questions to generate discussion and create connection!

  • @thezeeyez7151
    @thezeeyez7151 4 года назад +3

    Into me see....intimacy, which is much needed in the world we now live in. These questions allow any relationship to go to the next level. If you think a relationship is shallow or surface, this kind of communication will give you an idea of how well you click and or can firm a genuine bind.
    Great video 👌👍

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  4 года назад +1

      I love what you said here, thanks for sharing your insights!

  • @tracylaverty4721
    @tracylaverty4721 5 лет назад +5

    Great session and would love a Part 2!!!

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  5 лет назад +1

      Thanks Tracy! I’ll definitely bring Valerie back on again soon. 💕

  • @melissabrown8691
    @melissabrown8691 5 лет назад +3

    Love her! Thank you for your channel. Awesome content

  • @Rose.Adorna.7
    @Rose.Adorna.7 2 года назад +2

    This is absolute gold. Thank you for sharing.

  • @djw3707
    @djw3707 5 лет назад +16

    This was particularly good, Ladies.! Yes, please do another one on more ways to connect and create emotional intimacy with a man.

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  5 лет назад +3

      Thanks for the great suggestion! I’ll bring Valerie back on to talk about that. 💕

  • @user-sm9tg4rc1n
    @user-sm9tg4rc1n 5 лет назад +12

    Valerie is amazing! More videos please!!

  • @centpushups
    @centpushups 9 месяцев назад +1

    Trying to over come childhood emotional neglect. And these are amazing questions to ask. As i grew up never hearing these from my caregivers.

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  9 месяцев назад +1

      Thanks for sharing your experience here. ❤️ These videos I recorded with Valerie might also be helpful: ruclips.net/video/chFbnKP3blo/видео.htmlsi=pk-VJ2s1-AnaJigf and ruclips.net/video/v2NkEPYVovA/видео.htmlsi=imH7n8n-xoi5Q_Sy.

  • @thezeeyez7151
    @thezeeyez7151 4 года назад +1

    Really enjoyed this video ladies. Thanks so much 😊

  • @lindahastings3684
    @lindahastings3684 5 лет назад

    Very informative!

  • @laurenpaer252
    @laurenpaer252 3 года назад +1

    Fantastic episode- great questions!

  • @halliceola2630
    @halliceola2630 5 лет назад +18

    Wow! I didn't really think that asking questions in a curious way is what causes a great connection? I like asking questions in that type of mindset. I'm kinda like a cat, very curious. Thank you I appreciate this especially how to respond to his answers.

  • @deena3003
    @deena3003 4 года назад +4

    I love that question about, what movie is more like your life?

  • @sharonjohns1686
    @sharonjohns1686 4 года назад +7

    Valerie is one of the best and very mature

  • @amyakanicole
    @amyakanicole 5 лет назад +7

    PART TWO...YES PLEASE!!!!!

  • @auroraarcturusambassador8042
    @auroraarcturusambassador8042 5 лет назад +1

    Yes definitely, more pls!

  • @caperucitaroja216
    @caperucitaroja216 Год назад +1

    Love this conversation. I took a lot from this. Emotional connections sharing is when you are exchanging experience together. Going deeper with your thoughts and feelings

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Год назад +1

      I’m glad you enjoyed it! 💜 The latest podcast episode I recorded with Valerie might also be helpful - you can listen to it on Spotify here: open.spotify.com/episode/3F7R4b82PO8E24W9PGH33M?si=drXYPhLTSI-1GZVQ55G-eg
      …or on Apple Podcasts here: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/master-your-magnetism-with-helena-hart/id1585522214?i=1000608014961

  • @marygoodman9530
    @marygoodman9530 5 лет назад +11

    great tips, However it's always best to just be who we are from the beginning

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  5 лет назад +4

      Thank you, Mary! Yes, showing up authentically right from the start is key.

    • @beebuzz959
      @beebuzz959 4 года назад +1

      I don't think anyone is saying anything different that to do that, but they are offering information we can personalize that can enhance the chance for intimacy if it's right.

  • @sirena9167
    @sirena9167 3 года назад +1

    Excellent video!!!

  • @charleenhopkins3590
    @charleenhopkins3590 4 года назад

    thinking , where can i get that book?

  • @Iguanchik
    @Iguanchik 5 лет назад +4

    Valerie, you look so much like my friend, Gila! you even sound similar

  • @Amalhirad320
    @Amalhirad320 5 лет назад +5

    thanks helena both of u 👍

  • @cookiimonster7196
    @cookiimonster7196 5 лет назад +1

    Q2 how did you choose your career

  • @cathyroman1739
    @cathyroman1739 5 лет назад +1

    That was fantastic! Thank you!

  • @erykab3688
    @erykab3688 5 лет назад +2

    Helena could you make a video of how to ask this type of questions with someone who lives in a different state. Do you think talking to him directly in the phone rather than texting?

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  5 лет назад +4

      Hi Eryka, I’d recommend starting by asking some of these questions when you’re actually talking to him (rather than over text), because that’s what’s actually going to build the connection.

  • @cookiimonster7196
    @cookiimonster7196 5 лет назад +3

    Q1 what are you excited about lately

  • @annabellanillas677
    @annabellanillas677 5 лет назад +1

    Hi Valerie and Helena I am listening I learn alot from your insights. My question is - are these question could also be asked in online conversation? because the guy says he wants to know me...

    • @beebuzz959
      @beebuzz959 4 года назад

      Yes!

    • @beebuzz959
      @beebuzz959 4 года назад

      I just read below that they both agree it's great to ask these in person because that's when real connections are formed. Also, I realized this was months ago when you asked, but I responded just in case.

  • @620annika
    @620annika 4 года назад +2

    Do you have any videos on how to create healthy distance and "chase" when you are in a long term relationship with a man?

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  4 года назад +2

      This video would be a good place to start (hope it helps!): ruclips.net/video/DAEU3E3OzIk/видео.html

  • @carrielegg5480
    @carrielegg5480 5 лет назад

    this is really good!! I have a question. My relationship ended in march and last email was April 20th..There has been no contact in anyway at all since April 20th. For me..I do believe there is a strong connection between us. I want to contact him. I am honoring his boundaries..because he told me in the last email to not contact him and he has a girlfriend now. I am living my life and taking care of myself and building my stability. So...do I make contact with him? And if so...what would I say? Thank you!

    • @cherryboo65b56
      @cherryboo65b56 5 лет назад +2

      Carrie Legg Why would you want to contact him? His new girlfriend would not be thrilled and he may get quite angry with you not respecting his request. Find someone new.

    • @carrielegg5480
      @carrielegg5480 5 лет назад +2

      @@cherryboo65b56 thank you for your response and support. That was three weeks ago that I posted that ....things have changed since 3 weeks ago.

  • @dnoelani5588
    @dnoelani5588 5 месяцев назад

    I came to this video because i had a guy i like tell me the only reason he didnt ask me out is because, even though he found me attractive, he loves hanging with me and he appreciates me, he just didnt feel a connection. He has told me many things he said he has never told anyone else. We have connected on many things (though he has forgotten some of those conversations) lol maybe i need to sprinkle these in more often. 😂🤣😂

  • @taz12184
    @taz12184 5 лет назад +7

    Your hair looks super cute helana. Luv the little curls at the bottom

  • @zburcutunali
    @zburcutunali 3 года назад

    Thank you very much for the tips. Those really helped me. And i want to ask you something. After i ask a queation to the man and get the answer, i tell him what my answer is to that question before he asks me what my answer would be. I do.this all the time and now i feel like its so wrong. Is it?

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  3 года назад +3

      You’re welcome! Rather than jumping in to “fill the space” with your answer, I’d wait until he asks and see if that feels any different to you. 💞

    • @zburcutunali
      @zburcutunali 3 года назад +1

      @@HelenaHartCoaching thanks ♥️♥️

  • @sweetmishy0
    @sweetmishy0 4 года назад +2

    Totally going to ask these qu to the new man im with

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  4 года назад

      We'd love to hear how it goes!

    • @sweetmishy0
      @sweetmishy0 4 года назад

      @@HelenaHartCoaching i asked what he feared the most with being with me. He said because i was so confident success and beautiful he was scared i would find some one better. He then dumped me a couple nights ago saying he couldnt see us in a full on relationship. I think his insecurities got to him

  • @evelyncaday9845
    @evelyncaday9845 4 года назад

    Would you recommend this video to a girl with an avoidant attachment man?

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  4 года назад +1

      Hi Evelyn, I’d recommend these videos to anyone dealing with a partner who has an avoidant attachment style: ruclips.net/video/xu9mQ6mtfcU/видео.html and ruclips.net/video/5uioaICJXQ4/видео.html.

  • @TheSuperkid117
    @TheSuperkid117 5 лет назад +2

    Any friend with benefits relationships advice? I really like my fwb and Idk how to tell him

    • @beebuzz959
      @beebuzz959 4 года назад

      I'd look for videos on that specifically, but remember to go back in your feeling, feminine energy.

    • @barbarag.269
      @barbarag.269 2 года назад

      Stop sleeping with him.

  • @cathycarter3
    @cathycarter3 5 лет назад +1

    What if the guy does not prompt you to answer a question you’ve asked them?

    • @valeriegreene
      @valeriegreene 5 лет назад +2

      Some guys are nervous and don't think to ask you so you can just wait till he's answered, share your response (validate him and share your positive feelings, etc.) and then say, "Would you like to hear my answer to that question?" If he seems authentically interested, then he's a good guy and he's just nervous, etc. If he consistently wants to talk about himself and doesn't seem interested in you, then that's a red flag.

  • @esegift9169
    @esegift9169 4 года назад

    D book is not free anymore
    Cant download it

  • @shayleenwebb4021
    @shayleenwebb4021 5 лет назад +1

    Helena your so pretty and smart! Valerie great questions!! Thank you both!

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  5 лет назад +1

      You’re welcome, Shayleen! You’re so sweet! 💗

    • @beebuzz959
      @beebuzz959 4 года назад

      And I want to add that Valerie is super cute too! I love her hair, skin, lips, eyes, and eyebrows.

  • @fecarcamo2506
    @fecarcamo2506 4 года назад

    How to rekindled the connection with my hubby without appearing like too needy?

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  4 года назад +2

      Valerie and I actually just recorded a video on this topic that I'll be posting soon, I think you'll love it! In the meantime, this one should be helpful: ruclips.net/video/DAEU3E3OzIk/видео.html

  • @margarethickey4895
    @margarethickey4895 3 года назад

    How do I get him to talk about a problem we are having and I am not sure if I will see him again, even though we are talking

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  3 года назад +1

      Hi Margaret, these videos might be helpful if you haven’t seen them yet: ruclips.net/video/xu9mQ6mtfcU/видео.html, ruclips.net/video/dZgnCb7xZ1g/видео.html and ruclips.net/video/7YE2TMD3Q1I/видео.html.

  • @nikolatraynor9883
    @nikolatraynor9883 5 лет назад +1

    This is what I think you cannot really connect with a man last you are together in person

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  5 лет назад

      I agree, being with him in person is extremely important for the connection to build.

  • @maybeitsree1942
    @maybeitsree1942 5 лет назад +4

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @nikolatraynor9883
    @nikolatraynor9883 5 лет назад +2

    Just chatting with a guy on Facebook is not real enough for me need to have a real solid connection and go out on dates

  • @mariacaballero3765
    @mariacaballero3765 4 года назад

    I like to know questions for first date. Blessings. ❤️

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  4 года назад +2

      Hi Maria, these videos should give you some ideas: ruclips.net/video/phczr3Z5foQ/видео.html and ruclips.net/video/6gr-5q8Sw4w/видео.html.

    • @mariacaballero3765
      @mariacaballero3765 4 года назад +1

      @@HelenaHartCoaching I appreciate you. ❤️

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  4 года назад +2

      Aww thank you! ❤️

  • @aleksandrakettner905
    @aleksandrakettner905 3 года назад +1

    💌

  • @CandyLemon36
    @CandyLemon36 7 месяцев назад

    This content is a source of groundbreaking and novel ideas. I read a book with akin subjects that transformed my approach to life. "The Art of Meaningful Relationships in the 21st Century" by Leo Flint

  • @lilbitqueenbee4life
    @lilbitqueenbee4life 3 года назад +1

    🌻🧡🧡💛🧡🧡🌻