When your partner's parenting style creates problems | Parenting - 104
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- Опубликовано: 5 окт 2024
- It's one thing to handle your child, but a very different struggle to handle your partner's parenting style. Disagreements with your spouse over how to raise your child can result in serious conflicts. Here's some ideas to deal with that.
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My husband is obsessed with things being organised and neat and kids being disciplined and mannered and he is always cross with them as they are not upto his expectations.... moreover he always blames and curses me for not teaching them the right things which always creates tension at home... I try to balance both but fall short on both sides...
Yes... I face the same issue.... And also puts the study part of my son purely on me.... By force.... And always questions my strategies and plans.... I feel he gives unreasonable ideas which can only make him hate parents.... I feel soo stressed and helpless...
One of the most wonderful pieces of wisdom I have ever seen on RUclips
Thank you so much. I go through this all the time, where me and my husband are on loggerheads on deciding things for my daughter. Your talk will come extremely handy, thanks
Hai Mr. Sridhar! Hearty wishes on your great efforts in shaping the future generation by your valuable suggestions to parents and elders as well. The way you take up different issues, key points that you suggest with real time examples aided by your beautiful articulation are succinct and truly commendable. Thanks for being a great guide to us dedicating your career on a wonderful cause, the future society
Wow. Thanks for answering what i thought was a dead end. Needed this advice.
Ossssssssum brother. I was about to raise a request to post a video on this topic... A very delicate one which hardly anyone discloses.... Thnx for sharing. God bless you brother.😇🙏
After watching this video i immediately shared to my hub... that much helpful for both of us.. Thank u Sri ji
Very very useful good impressive talk. My husband's attitude of unplanning creates stress to ne. Now it's relieved by yr talk. Thanks sridhar
THANKS A MILLION......SHRIDHAR SIR ......YOUR PARENTING VIDEOS ARE SUPER DUPER MOTIVATING ....WORTH WATCHING.....I HAV SUBSCRIBED YOUR CHANNEL TOO.....I LOVE TO HEAR SUCH GOOD ADVICE.....I'M TRYING TO CHANGE MYSELF....MY BEHAVIOUR
My husband does whatever my mother-in-law says,how to deal with
Ur not alone sister 😏
Same with me🙋
Me too dont know how to live life like this
Same n she is jealous of our success n try to stop our success.my husband allow her to do.
Same pinch🤦♀️
I really dont know psychology but seriously i handle it in a balanced way as you said .. appreciate all your videos Sir ..
Solved my problems for now...If only it was that easy and fluent like u said..but yes...I think I'll try to work as u advised...
Thank you so much for making such nice videos …I like every video of yours . These videos help me a lot and I feel so relaxed whenever I get annoyed by my children
Appreciate all your videos . You are so practical .
Kindly make a video on selfish in laws.
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I have a special child, who has a strong memory power. I want him to go to school like any other child because no one knows what the future holds. But my husband wants him to be home schooled and learn life skills (rather than algebra, trig, history, Geo, civics etc)..Fights/arguments in daily basis...
nice one. v relevant. it's not the spouse , but if elders in the family interfere with our parenting and try to distract the kids with different lines of habits,principles,traditions,thoughts,etc. it becomes v difficult to justify or change their lines of thinking. it becomes rather much more difficult with working mothers where the time they get with the kids is again much more limited.. we cant directly defy the elders nor tell the kids that we don't agree with this too. kindly throw some light over this issue pls.
Excellent suggestion... Thanks
Very nice and thought provoking 😍💕
Thank you. Is there a video on parenting when parents are divorced?
Thank you sir for explaining each and every sensitive issues that we were facing every day lives and deeply we don't find these topics can also have a part in the parenting skills if you didn't say
Wonderfully explained!
I liked ur video I go through such problem with my spouse. I will try to adapt what you spoke about. Thank you sridar
Dear sir, u talk about keeping calm and let things go their way then how is the children going to develop gratitude, respect and care for elders,,, which most children lack in today's time.. b'coz if we improvise the children of what we r doing for the children today is simply sent into the junk box by saying 'so what' .. now this bring in humiliation from both the children n the spouse...... If a person is being humiliated then how is it possible to talk wisely to the spouse... Either the person goes silent or bumps into a mess,,, in both these conditions the children grabs the easiest way out
Kindly make a video on Parenting kids with a narcissistic spouse.
Thanks, Very well said, life is the same all around the world. Hope it come peace between Pakistan and India.
We are born in 70,s our children in digital world . There is huge diff , how to stop screen addiction.
I feel games like roblox and minecraft are addictive to my 9 year old . But he also wants to create games and struggling hard in scripting .
Anger restlessness avoiding food are some of bad habits he developed .
Please make a video on this .
Sir my husband has abandoned my child and me some years back and now filed for divorce. But the mental and emotional torture that I am going through...I feel I take out my pain and anger on my child. I long to have a good relationship with my six year old. Pls help
You are doing a great job
Really amazing stuff. I must appreciate you sir.
Very well said
Please give some pernting videos for baby from 0 To 2 years old.
Please make a video on how to handle teenage romance /infatuation
Awesome suggestions. I really like Ur all ideas . N it also helps me a lot. I have a question that how to deal when kids when they fight with each other for small small reasons and just waste their time and ruin the house atmosphere.
Thanxs ......but I'm facing dis problems daily......between me n my kids....same time my husband n kids...I'm very much confused wht to do....plz help me out frm dis situations...I cannot disclose here
U solve my problem, thanks
Excellent video......sir.
Kindly tell how to handle this corona situation as teaching and maintaining hygiene is too difficult when husband never agree what I say. Diffrance of opinion with husband in case of child should not go out or must take shower after coming back home. It can be risky in Lockdown .
Hope u could make a speech on caste which is a great problem for intercaste marriage even between oc category
In our state people acted like very prograssive till the milestone when their daughter tell she want to marry outside caste, and volcana errupts.
Makes sense.......👍
What about parent's wrong parenting?
Ye hamare ghar me bahut hota hai.. But irony ye hai arguement start me karti hun and I have realised many times mere husband 90 percent sahi hote hai.. 😄
Also make a video for 10 year old child what point we as a parent must take care. While always diferance of opinion in case of child when child's behavior and words are rude .
Hi sir my husband doesn't to to me . He is behaving professional in personal life.
Hi Sridhar what can I do when my parents don't understand my feelings
Thank you sir,when i ask my son to open the door or light the lamp he says always it's me to do, how to explain my son sir
Hello , can I join our team .? I have completed counseling diploma but not practice it . Thanks
Who are you talking to?
Please sir aap English may to baat karte ho so please side me Hindi may translate diya kare . Aapki video is tarah English naa Janney Valo ke liye bhi helpful hogi . please sir is suggestions ko ignore mat karna
Well, I don't totally agree with you, Shridhar, when you say that parenting is a 50-50 issue, and both parents have equal authority. Because unfortunately, this is false biologically. Father's sperm just carries DNA, whereas mother's egg carries DNA as well as lots of other nutrition, which is necessary for the embryo to develop into a baby. Besides, a mother keeps the baby for 9 months in her womb. So looking at it purely from a biological perspective, a mother contributes much more to creating the child than the father. So why should both the parents have equal authority? Isn't it unfair? Unfortunately, whether we accept it or not, a father is much lesser of a parent than the mother, looking at it purely scientifically. So I believe that the mother should have the higher authority.
Think over it.
I am a male and I totally agree with you.
I think parents should teach their children skill that they are good at.
Suck as if father is a footballer he should teach him football, if mother is a very good articians so she should.
Parents shouldn't try to invade each other's USP in upbringing their child .
Shridhar bhaiya mein hindi subject se hu.previous year k papers ke liye me kon se publication ki book lu
He is also teaching at middle school.
To kya hua
You confuse me... Some points are contradictory between different topics
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How to deal with a teenage son who follows his father who indulges in domestic violence 😒😔 How to react when a teenage boy follows his father and beats up the mother brutally for asking him to study be socially connected or attend his classes. ....My sister is facing this problem. Pls help. Psychiatric help didn't work as the boy refuses to come to the counselor. The boy has broken his mother z hand and few months back hit her on her face so brutally that her nose broke and she was in hospital. My sister is s very pious timid woman. But her husband is a porn addict and a womaniser. Pls guide. Her husband is beyond correction....but her son 😒😔 He is just 14. What if he behaves like this to outsiders. Her husband being a womaniser is a reserved type totally cut off from society. Hence the boy has no other role model. Pls guide. Pls post a video on how to deal with a cheating spouse to bring up responsible morally strong children 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏