I am SD UF and I am definitely entitled. My parents put their hopes and dreams into me, but also taught me to be a useless idiot. Now I'm torn between living my best life like they wanted, and being a functional adult. It is infuriating and I hope I can learn to be more attractive to others.
Mr. Jacob you are not hopeless. Everyone starts somewhere I think that if you focus on becoming more mature and thoughtful and on breaking patterns of entitlement you'll be able to change and also feel better about yourself. Having gratitude and taking on responsibility is good place to start. Don't feel bad😢
Wow this was an eye opener! Had no idea I was this type but everything just clicks. INFJ - competitive athlete as child, 20s very hard, very poor, mentally broken, then trained as a counsellor. 30s had kids. Now late 40s have meshed very SD focused energy again with UD insights to push forward. Very motivated. Wise maybe! Oldest of 4 too. I blame the parents.
Ok, I was letting myself become uf because I didn’t think it was a huge deal and I want some maturity for adulthood, but if I’m decaying everything around me (which I am) then I need to change huh
Can a person go from sd/sf to sd/uf multiple times in their life? It seems like that's something that could be possible. In the first set of videos you did on the octagram variants , I wasn't sure if I was ud/uf or sd/uf. Plus, I had just watched a video where you said entps are the most delusional types, but you didn't specify in what ways we are delusional (I'm assuming in the trickster and/or demon). That made me question everything I thought I knew about myself for a bit. I'm pretty sure I was sd/sf as a child even though there are variables that would make it seem like I'm ud/uf. Like being the oldest, my father was an alcoholic, my peers basically shunned me because we moved a lot and I was an unusual/weird child (though I did have friends that were older than me), my parents got divorced when I was 14, and I knew that there were a lot of things from my childhood that have caused problems for me as an adult. But I was definitely enabled. Everything came really easily to me, especially school. My siblings and I didn't want for anything. I had a whole world of action figures, toys, and Legos that I could play with. I knew how to manipulate anyone to get what I wanted or get out of trouble, and my mom is an istp, so she pretty much let me do what I wanted. Especially as a teenager. Then I joined the navy when I was 20, and that didn't teach me many real-life skills. 9 years later, the navy downsized, and 92% of the people that joined the navy in the same year as me got laid off (including me). I was 29, and I spent most of my 30s in a hole of bitterness and depression. I fucked up my back and because I didn't know how to eat properly, I got fat (I have lost 90% of my fat). I didn't know how to maintain my finances or remember to pay my bills. I've been learning how to be a real adult, lol. I've been going to college to be a metallurgical engineer, but I've had to learn how to study and manage my time because the way I did school as a child doesn't work in college. I think I'm coming out of my sd/uf finally. It's been a real learning experience. My closest friend is an intj ud/uf, and we do enable each other in unhealthy ways sometimes, and I do look up to him for his responsible-ness.
One Question according to the Subconcious and the Ego if im an Isfp and I am into my subconcious ENTJ does my ego isfp creativity goes away or how does it work. Do I lose the positive effect of Isfp or does it further improve in my subconcious probably yes?
I think I mistyped myself as a UDUF in the past seeing this video. I am realizing my entitlement and arrogance has cost me a lot of valuable time that could be spent developing good relationships and making good memories instead of isolating myself and clinging to my past way of living. But the thing is, I cannot completely get over myself cuz there were so many things serving as an obstacle to form that connection, maybe its my lack of will, stupidity, hesitating due to holding onto past beliefs that i didn't bother to ever verify, laziness, god I hate what I have become, I hope I rise from my ashes some day.. Also, does weed help you return to your subconscious?
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I am SD UF and I am definitely entitled. My parents put their hopes and dreams into me, but also taught me to be a useless idiot. Now I'm torn between living my best life like they wanted, and being a functional adult. It is infuriating and I hope I can learn to be more attractive to others.
Mr. Jacob you are not hopeless. Everyone starts somewhere I think that if you focus on becoming more mature and thoughtful and on breaking patterns of entitlement you'll be able to change and also feel better about yourself. Having gratitude and taking on responsibility is good place to start. Don't feel bad😢
You're not a useless idiot. There's just lots to catch up on!
I literally said this to myself this morning: 'It sucks to be me.' Looks like I'm having another UF streak >
Thank you. Good stuff, like always. I appreciate your work.
Wow this was an eye opener! Had no idea I was this type but everything just clicks. INFJ - competitive athlete as child, 20s very hard, very poor, mentally broken, then trained as a counsellor. 30s had kids. Now late 40s have meshed very SD focused energy again with UD insights to push forward. Very motivated. Wise maybe! Oldest of 4 too. I blame the parents.
OK, now I know my Octagram. Thank you 👍🏼👍🏼
What happens if the golden pair got married but 1 is sd/uf & other is ud/sf?
No, same octograms. Different octograms in bronze pair@@Brickwilliams
@@nemesis27 yeah you’re right, idk why I said that…
Ok, I was letting myself become uf because I didn’t think it was a huge deal and I want some maturity for adulthood, but if I’m decaying everything around me (which I am) then I need to change huh
Going to school everyday of our childhood from 7-2 makes us uf. School sucks
The description says "Subconscious Developed Subconscious Focused SD | UF" instead of "Unconscious Focused"
What are the main ways people become uf? Is it lack of cognitive origin? Responsibilities of adulthood? Not using inferior function?
Thank you for another really great episode and I love the "no" haha
Can a person go from sd/sf to sd/uf multiple times in their life? It seems like that's something that could be possible.
In the first set of videos you did on the octagram variants , I wasn't sure if I was ud/uf or sd/uf. Plus, I had just watched a video where you said entps are the most delusional types, but you didn't specify in what ways we are delusional (I'm assuming in the trickster and/or demon). That made me question everything I thought I knew about myself for a bit.
I'm pretty sure I was sd/sf as a child even though there are variables that would make it seem like I'm ud/uf. Like being the oldest, my father was an alcoholic, my peers basically shunned me because we moved a lot and I was an unusual/weird child (though I did have friends that were older than me), my parents got divorced when I was 14, and I knew that there were a lot of things from my childhood that have caused problems for me as an adult. But I was definitely enabled. Everything came really easily to me, especially school. My siblings and I didn't want for anything. I had a whole world of action figures, toys, and Legos that I could play with. I knew how to manipulate anyone to get what I wanted or get out of trouble, and my mom is an istp, so she pretty much let me do what I wanted. Especially as a teenager. Then I joined the navy when I was 20, and that didn't teach me many real-life skills. 9 years later, the navy downsized, and 92% of the people that joined the navy in the same year as me got laid off (including me). I was 29, and I spent most of my 30s in a hole of bitterness and depression. I fucked up my back and because I didn't know how to eat properly, I got fat (I have lost 90% of my fat). I didn't know how to maintain my finances or remember to pay my bills. I've been learning how to be a real adult, lol. I've been going to college to be a metallurgical engineer, but I've had to learn how to study and manage my time because the way I did school as a child doesn't work in college. I think I'm coming out of my sd/uf finally. It's been a real learning experience.
My closest friend is an intj ud/uf, and we do enable each other in unhealthy ways sometimes, and I do look up to him for his responsible-ness.
I think you’re right bro.
You're Sd/Uf
One Question according to the Subconcious and the Ego if im an Isfp and I am into my subconcious ENTJ does my ego isfp creativity goes away or how does it work. Do I lose the positive effect of Isfp or does it further improve in my subconcious probably yes?
Great lecture CSJ, You're awesome❤❤
So the goal isn't to get the SD UF types to move to SD SF?
AYO? What is that knight doing?
This so accurate
Can you please coach me soon
Wondering due to cognitive structure would the golden pair cause each other to go into SDUF?
Or at least in “uf” depending on what has been developed they would become uduf or sduf
I’m an SDUF infj, id be sf if I had anyone to talk to
I think I mistyped myself as a UDUF in the past seeing this video. I am realizing my entitlement and arrogance has cost me a lot of valuable time that could be spent developing good relationships and making good memories instead of isolating myself and clinging to my past way of living. But the thing is, I cannot completely get over myself cuz there were so many things serving as an obstacle to form that connection, maybe its my lack of will, stupidity, hesitating due to holding onto past beliefs that i didn't bother to ever verify, laziness, god I hate what I have become, I hope I rise from my ashes some day.. Also, does weed help you return to your subconscious?
You will, in time.
Depends on what type you consume.
R u an infp ?
I was surprised to read the word decay, not maturity, when discussing SD UF.
You’re most welcome :)
I'm the second child and UD/SF
Ah it sounds like me.
Has this channel typed Dwayne the Rock Johnson? I want to know his type.
ESTP
Isfj bro
ESTP