What I Wish I Knew About $3X Before I Got Married |

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  • Опубликовано: 10 дек 2024

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  • @VictoriaFash
    @VictoriaFash  Год назад +128

    Okay, enough of the rude comments. What is wrong with you guys?? I have been talking about sex for years on this channel and have never been scared to discuss the topic. RUclips does not permit the repeated used of sexual words and I will not get my videos demonetized to satisfy you. I also took liberty to add some humor in it, and you guys won't let me hear word. The message in this video is clear, every single point is understandable. If you find it so annoying, please move on and refrain from leaving ridiculous comments on my videos. Gosh! If its so easy, take up your camera and start the conversation!

    • @bluemoon2920
      @bluemoon2920 Год назад +15

      I have come to realize that it is impossible to please everyone, and this realization has brought great contentment to my life. This truth is especially evident when observing people's behavior on the Internet. It seems that individuals often feel the need to create something out of nothing in order to make a comment.

    • @johnadepelumi93
      @johnadepelumi93 Год назад +21

      This is my first time on your channel and I see nothing wrong in this video. In fact, I find it very educative. A lot of people really don't know what they want. We continue to blame marriages that failed because of sex on the society or church because they didn't prepare the couples for these marital surprises. Then when we find someone who talks about it, we still pick offences. We will never satisfy everybody. I hope this does not discourage you from making more of these videos. I believe there are a tonne of people who are learning the right things because you decided to pick up your camera, record and share these videos. God bless you for the good work.

    • @IJodumodu
      @IJodumodu Год назад +5

      You go girl ❤

    • @jennifernyarko6779
      @jennifernyarko6779 Год назад +3

      Don't mind them....please save the energy, ma🤦

    • @jennifernyarko6779
      @jennifernyarko6779 Год назад +5

      You're actually an interesting character😂😂 thanks for the knowledge shared. I didn't know foreplay is sex. Good to know

  • @oncheugbabe6509
    @oncheugbabe6509 Год назад +75

    I think the best thing about this video is how you're communicating the information with childlike modesty and excitement.

    • @stewartmuwangala2053
      @stewartmuwangala2053 Год назад +1

      She couldn’t even say bom bom 😂

    • @oncheugbabe6509
      @oncheugbabe6509 Год назад +4

      @@stewartmuwangala2053 🤣🤣
      Aunty dey blush like pinkin ontop adult matter. Cute and adorable.

    • @angelsings
      @angelsings Год назад

      😂😂😂

  • @wysefavor
    @wysefavor Год назад +41

    As a man, I really appreciate your honesty and transparency..I am a fan, and I respect you so much my sister..God bless and keep you ma'am!! Keep being bold and be true, we men are learning and subscribing!🙏

  • @jamez1224
    @jamez1224 Год назад +9

    Brave woman. I’m a married man & I come here once in a while to learn.

  • @patrickukwuoma3316
    @patrickukwuoma3316 Год назад +3

    You did a great job breaking it down into the very unseen details. Thanks i appreciate what you are doing

  • @ramatumarie
    @ramatumarie Год назад +14

    Wow this was 100% spot on and so accurate! Definitely spoke to me and I wish I knew all these things before I got married.

  • @SamBecky-h4w
    @SamBecky-h4w Год назад +19

    In the context of marriage, you are doing great. We are learning a lot from you.

  • @kayodeajayi1923
    @kayodeajayi1923 Год назад +8

    Stumbled on this video and I appreciate the depth, simplicity and realistic approach. God bless your heart Victoria.

  • @SamBecky-h4w
    @SamBecky-h4w Год назад +38

    Don't be shy when talking about this topics, you're helping a lot of couples.

    • @odeyalesamuel3825
      @odeyalesamuel3825 Год назад

      Absolutely....communicate and don't be shy...

    • @VictoriaFash
      @VictoriaFash  Год назад +8

      You guys are mistaking humour for shyness. If you've been on this channel long enough, you'll know I don't shy away from topics like this

    • @oyewolegeorgina7433
      @oyewolegeorgina7433 Год назад +1

      Victoria don't shy,she will say what she want to say,.She is just adding ingr.edients to it.

  • @briannyamuhu5192
    @briannyamuhu5192 Год назад +4

    She is such a vibe.And very Bold. I had to subscribe. God bless your marriage.

  • @TheAdedolapo.
    @TheAdedolapo. Год назад +32

    I love how vocal you are about this topic🙌🏻🙌🏻 Thank you Mrs. Fash

  • @TrustYourself77
    @TrustYourself77 Год назад +26

    I'm not married and I'm nowhere near being a virgin (as far as religion is concerned) yet, I see a lot of similarities in your journey and mine. The only difference is, I learned with multiple partners and you get to learn with just one.
    It's so nice hearing about the kind of relationship you have with your husband and yourself. Thank you for allowing us in

    • @gailainsley6939
      @gailainsley6939 11 месяцев назад +1

      This is my exact situation. I'm really glad because I got to learn my body and have come to the realisation that I do it better on myself 😂 Also, what she said about hormonal changes dictating the drive is spot on 👌

  • @efemenaakpezi7857
    @efemenaakpezi7857 Год назад +9

    "So yah"😂😂😂😂
    Thank you so much for this
    My mindset is really changing

  • @bukunmiadejobi9821
    @bukunmiadejobi9821 Год назад +10

    The "ya" "ya" at the end of every sentence gets me😂😂

  • @ifechukwuejiofor8479
    @ifechukwuejiofor8479 11 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you, Victoria Fash, for this video. I admire how authentic you are.

  • @olasunkanmiaiyedun9703
    @olasunkanmiaiyedun9703 Год назад +10

    Thank you Mrs Fash for creating this Christian channel vibe for the Married.
    Thank you for having the ones that have decided to follow the voice of the Master and keeping the bed undefiled. This is the BIG SECRET GOD wanted us to discover in Marriage, not before marriage and that is why many don't enjoy S3X; it's not just an act, it involves the soul, just like Music. We should learn this secret only in Marriage.
    To all the "virgin guys and ladies", you're doing the right thing...God has got your back, receive Grace to stay through till that night of your wedding. I and my wife was, and we are still exploring new things about S3X and our bodies every time, even after 13years of being Married.
    I recommend this channel for the just married and about to marry, to prepare their mind for a jolly ride in MARRIAGE. God bless you Vicky.

    • @VictoriaFash
      @VictoriaFash  Год назад +5

      Thank you so much

    • @Elsieblue-Mandyzkitchen
      @Elsieblue-Mandyzkitchen Год назад +2

      God bless you for this.
      You took the words right out.
      We are 12yrs in marriage and still exploring . We haven't even gone half way in it. True Christian marriage is the best🎉

  • @tunde6573
    @tunde6573 Год назад +28

    Wishing you a belated Happy Birthday, Victoria.
    You are indeed a blessing. Thanks for your transparency and courage to say things the way they are.
    Keep being steadfast in Christ.
    God bless your marriage more and more

  • @philemonakanji4465
    @philemonakanji4465 Год назад +8

    Virtue has gone out of them👑 What an educative video! Thanks for sharing 💯💯💯

  • @Browning_T11
    @Browning_T11 Год назад +8

    You made me laugh the whole video! I’m giggling and blushing ☺️

  • @Emmary899
    @Emmary899 Год назад +33

    Happy birthday Mrs Victoria 🎉 you are a blessing to a whole generation and a model to me ❤ An unapologetic and beautiful christian ❤

  • @daveo6277
    @daveo6277 Год назад +2

    The "yeah-yea's" got me!
    Very Yoruba'd and proud! Love it!

  • @SamBecky-h4w
    @SamBecky-h4w Год назад +10

    I am glad you are sharing this with others. That's great girl. Keep it up.

  • @patrickakhilomen4864
    @patrickakhilomen4864 Год назад +5

    I love your openness....sharing this with my wife. You just gained a subscriber.

  • @Theveilednarrator
    @Theveilednarrator Год назад +6

    You just gained a subscriber… I love how real you are.

  • @Jojo111
    @Jojo111 Год назад +10

    Beautiful topic and this will help alot of virgins..and non virgins.. i love the way you talked about it,,,

  • @oladoyinolayiwola2181
    @oladoyinolayiwola2181 Год назад +7

    Very good information especially for Christain couples. God bless you Victoria.

  • @TheJoyedTribe
    @TheJoyedTribe Год назад +31

    Once Victoria starts talking and she keeps saying yaahhhh!!!yaahhhhh!!yyaahhh!! and she is smilingg! just know that it is oveeerrrrrrrrrrr😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 wahala for who never marry bayii. we no get anything to share, but we dey learn for the future😉😉😉 Belated happy birthday to you sis. God bless you

  • @robertofori-gyebi1944
    @robertofori-gyebi1944 Год назад +4

    Just chanced upon your channel, was educative and did enjoy your video. Thanks for making this video!

  • @EmiolaDada
    @EmiolaDada 10 месяцев назад

    Love your clarity and sincerity

  • @thetruthsayer8347
    @thetruthsayer8347 Год назад +7

    Novels also gives false expectations about doing the do.

  • @olajidealli
    @olajidealli Год назад +1

    The hilarious thing about this video is the way you say the “ya” and “enh”. It’s so funny. I laughed tire for here. Thumbs up!

  • @sagranti1
    @sagranti1 Год назад +2

    Your content is really helpful. Got married in June and still trying to find our way around the do😊. Thanks alot and God bless you.

    • @VictoriaFash
      @VictoriaFash  Год назад +1

      It is well Sis, take it one day at a time and watch the video after this

  • @senisalami5204
    @senisalami5204 Год назад +2

    Better late than never. I'm a fairly new subscriber and l just ran into this video. Let me also send my own belated heartfelt congratulations on your birthday even though it was in July. I didn't know at all. Wishing you long life, joy and blissful married life all the way. Happy cheers to you and your hubby.

  • @mobileconnectprofessionals925
    @mobileconnectprofessionals925 Год назад +4

    Ya
    Ya
    Ya
    Happy belated birthday Mrs Fash. We love you.

  • @nanaagyakoma9499
    @nanaagyakoma9499 Год назад +26

    July is my Month too😌🤗 Love you Vic. I'm learning a lot cos I'm also a virgin waiting to do the do after marriage 😂

  • @mariamaleem7917
    @mariamaleem7917 Год назад +2

    And all those Yeah yeah yeah! 😂😂 I feel you 😂😂

  • @desirek.doedzakator1085
    @desirek.doedzakator1085 Год назад +5

    Great video! Thanks for sharing your personal experiences. Happy birthday!

  • @tolanimary
    @tolanimary Год назад +1

    I have really missed your videos and im glad to be back. Thank you for always educating us❤

  • @boluwatifeoladipo7245
    @boluwatifeoladipo7245 Год назад +7

    Happy Birthday, Mrs Victoria. This episode is a banger and everything.

  • @queenesther909
    @queenesther909 Год назад +4

    Happy birthday mrs fash.... We appreciate you always on this channel
    Thank you for blessing us

  • @preciousosueke2721
    @preciousosueke2721 Год назад +6

    Wow this video is very educative, informative and well detailed. Thank u beautiful ❤

  • @msadanwodo6942
    @msadanwodo6942 Год назад +1

    I love all the 'yeah!' 😅❣️
    Thank you so much, it was educative

  • @omololaanthony2128
    @omololaanthony2128 Год назад +3

    Victoria, been a while I have seen or commented on ur video... Your videos are always always educative.. On point. Understand ur body is one of the things I take home in this video. Thank you for your consistency. Weldone as always. Happy belated birthday.

  • @evelynamoh4196
    @evelynamoh4196 10 месяцев назад

    Hey boo, ignore the nasty haters. Your content has been a blessing and I will continue to support 😘

  • @Owoeyebkl
    @Owoeyebkl Год назад +1

    You are right and i love the choice of your words

  • @allin4559
    @allin4559 Год назад +1

    Thanks male married 20+ all good points .. great to hear from female point of view.

  • @Elsieblue-Mandyzkitchen
    @Elsieblue-Mandyzkitchen Год назад +1

    😂😂😂😂victoria your ya ya ya ya are countless .
    You cracked me up a lot.
    Your video is so helpful and impactful.
    God bless you sis.
    You just got a new subscriber darl.❤
    Elsie in Owerri Nigeria

  • @jasmineleigh9373
    @jasmineleigh9373 Год назад +3

    hahaha i am here smiling and fidgeting and getting shy with you lol. thanks for sharing

  • @MomentsWithDammie
    @MomentsWithDammie Год назад +8

    I recently got married, i can relate with a lot of what you said in this video about $&x

  • @mbandanadergenchumi4839
    @mbandanadergenchumi4839 Год назад +3

    Great message ❤
    Happy birthday 🎉

  • @opeyemiomoloja328
    @opeyemiomoloja328 Год назад +2

    Yaahhh
    I really enjoyed this teaching....
    Thank you so much 👍
    My first time

  • @eseemasodje1485
    @eseemasodje1485 Год назад +1

    Thanks for sharing Mrs Fash. Your hair is beautiful ❤️

  • @MaryUsanga
    @MaryUsanga Год назад +1

    New sister onboard I just dey smile plenty plenty thanks for the information I wish i wish now I know

  • @jacintaebefuna5423
    @jacintaebefuna5423 Год назад +2

    Yeah! ×1000000
    Thanks momma, I enjoyed this topic

  • @cynthiaanya5738
    @cynthiaanya5738 Год назад +3

    Happy Birthday and many more glorious years ahead. May the Almighty God continue to bless you and your family

  • @a_place_of_wellness
    @a_place_of_wellness Год назад +5

    Many blessings on your birthday beautiful🎉. I laughed a lot watching this video😂. And I surely learnt a lot too. Thanks mamma❤

  • @mandlablessingnhlapo9896
    @mandlablessingnhlapo9896 Год назад +1

    Thank You Women of God for sharing your life and this video it is a big sacrifice for us. We Honor and Thank you for this educational, informative and life changing video. I have learn a lot and you have open something big and May God Bless you, inspired, lead you to produce more content in future. I Thank You and Appreciate the Video.

  • @nathanreggie
    @nathanreggie Год назад +2

    Happy birthday Mrs Fash. Thank you for this educative and informative 🙏

  • @clarandlovu3280
    @clarandlovu3280 Год назад +1

    "i feel like im sharing too much" 😅😅😅 i laughed

  • @ln2542
    @ln2542 Год назад

    Thanks!!! God bless you!

  • @chukwujekwualeke1542
    @chukwujekwualeke1542 Год назад +1

    Happy Fruitful Birthday, Ma. God bless you richly, Amen.

  • @ajuadanielangefac411
    @ajuadanielangefac411 Год назад +7

    Happy belated birthday Mrs Fash. I literally get an excitement rush when I get a notification from your channel 😂😂
    Much love from Cameroon

  • @UwaumaTSP
    @UwaumaTSP Год назад +2

    Happy birthday belated dear Victoria. You are blessed and highly favoured

  • @TalksWithTess_tesscontents
    @TalksWithTess_tesscontents Год назад +2

    This yeah, yeah, yeah😂😂😂 to avoid the real talk ehn😂😂😂

  • @lindasspace6894
    @lindasspace6894 Год назад +2

    Thank God you mentioned you will not be lubricated all the time.i used to think i have a problem because when i got married I suddenly started finding myself dry most times and lubricant became my friend

  • @hamrahyambali4021
    @hamrahyambali4021 Год назад +2

    Happy birthday Mrs Victoria Fash, the good Lord makes the year fulfilling for you.
    Good to know we share thesame birth dates my birthday was on Sunday as well.

  • @choiceelbuba6632
    @choiceelbuba6632 Год назад +1

    Happy birthday dear. You are a blessing

  • @ibironkeajiboye5817
    @ibironkeajiboye5817 Год назад +3

    It's not bad thing joor, it's a good thing to enjoy on a weekend. Lol. Nice video and educative

  • @cuprunnethover2509
    @cuprunnethover2509 Год назад +11

    Happy Birthday! I like you hairstyle! It's very pretty! I am not married yet! Thanks for sharing this information with us though! I guess you really won't know until you start doing it! 😊 It was very informative! You clarified a lot of things that I didn't know! I wondered why my parents room "stunk" sometimes! 🤔🤣 I couldn't of course figure it out!
    Thank you! My husband to be may just send you a gift or something! 🤣

    • @VictoriaFash
      @VictoriaFash  Год назад

      😄😄😄
      Thank you for watching ❤️

  • @faithegbogun2221
    @faithegbogun2221 Год назад +3

    Super Educative 🔥🔥. Happy Belated Birthday Ma'am🎉🎉

  • @rebeccaolaonipekun
    @rebeccaolaonipekun Год назад +1

    Thank you for this ❤️❤️ Happy birthday in areas long life and prosperity 💕💕

  • @glowreeeeey
    @glowreeeeey Год назад

    First time on your channel and I'm happy to say you've just earned a new subscriber
    God job Sis 👍

  • @lateefatinuke9783
    @lateefatinuke9783 Год назад

    Belated Birthday Favourite RUclipsr🥰....God bless you!

  • @megan_alexis
    @megan_alexis Год назад +1

    Thank you for this video !!! You’re so funny !!!

  • @singlesmeetinternational
    @singlesmeetinternational Год назад +1

    Happy birthday and God bleas you . Have a great celebration. ❤

  • @Thegracemary
    @Thegracemary Год назад +1

    Very insightful. Thank you 🙌🏽

  • @naomijohn5274
    @naomijohn5274 Год назад +5

    Happy birthday Mrs. Fash ❤️. Wish you Long life, Good health and peace of mind in Jesus name

  • @gsupport5264
    @gsupport5264 Год назад +3

    Thank you for this topic, I understand foreplay as sex too but my friends don't agree with me. They believe that they must penetrate all the time.

  • @kassyd4065
    @kassyd4065 Год назад +1

    Happy birthday Mrs Fash... I love the Great work you put into every video

  • @estherumoh200
    @estherumoh200 Год назад +21

    Belated happy birthday, Mrs V!
    Your videos have helped me in this marriage o
    Started watching 2 years ago and I got married two weeks ago😂.... everything you've taught came very handy since my first time with hubby.
    Thank you❤

    • @hemhemoh
      @hemhemoh Год назад

      Cingratulations on your union😊

    • @estherumoh200
      @estherumoh200 Год назад

      @@hemhemoh
      Thank you 😊

    • @VictoriaFash
      @VictoriaFash  Год назад +2

      Aww... I'm really glad! Congratulations, your home is forever blessed

    • @estherumoh200
      @estherumoh200 Год назад

      @@VictoriaFash
      Thank you, Ma😍

    • @Big_Bimms
      @Big_Bimms Год назад +1

      Congratulations ❤

  • @Estherk
    @Estherk Год назад +17

    I think the title was supposed to be : things I got to find out about sex in marriage. Because what would you have used the information for before marriage, especially in a Christian context + some of this knowledge could only come by experience ☺️

  • @mo_words
    @mo_words Год назад +2

    The "yah yah" though😀

  • @DanielJesusObsessedFit
    @DanielJesusObsessedFit Год назад +3

    its cute that you were a virgin at marriage, you a blessed and so is your husband to have you. Im a virgin and i want a virgin serious christian wife too. Rejected a lot of women to realise the dream, still holding on

    • @VictoriaFash
      @VictoriaFash  Год назад +10

      Hmmn... virginity is not what guarantees a good wife. Don't miss out on great women because they lost theirs... shalom

  • @nnenniaifepe5073
    @nnenniaifepe5073 Год назад +5

    The church shyed away from sex talk in the past but its no longer the case.
    I know pastors like Pastor kingsely and alot of others are real about this topic and many Pentecostal churches are open about sex.
    We are not there yet but we are trying.
    Well done babe

    • @VictoriaFash
      @VictoriaFash  Год назад +1

      We'll surely get there... thank you 🥰

  • @oluwaseyigodsgift7324
    @oluwaseyigodsgift7324 Год назад

    Happy birthday in arrears. Blessings. keep the good job on

  • @giftlicious2936
    @giftlicious2936 Год назад +2

    Glad I didn't skip ur video like I wanted. Now am a subscriber...u speak so sweet,lovely and humble and yet friendly..u have same mindset I have about sex...I felt like it's me expressing my self right there🥰🥰🥰

  • @rayrae1926
    @rayrae1926 Год назад +1

    Yeah!!!😂😂😂😂😂
    Happy birthday Mrs. Fash💗💗💗.

  • @amakachimnonso42
    @amakachimnonso42 Год назад +1

    😅😅😂 haba vickie, which one is no need for raga rogo😅. You look good and glowing🎉. Happy birthday girl

  • @SamBecky-h4w
    @SamBecky-h4w Год назад +1

    You are a good teacher

  • @mercymangwanamubayiwa3530
    @mercymangwanamubayiwa3530 Год назад +2

    I actually felt like you’re just expressing my experience lol

  • @Mariam-ara
    @Mariam-ara Год назад +1

    Welldone on how open this went😊

  • @sandraezejianyaele
    @sandraezejianyaele Год назад +6

    Victoria the Victoria, you are so funny. I also thought sex was for the man and for so many years l was interested in making sure that my husband was satisfied until l received anointing 😀😀. Sex is meant to be for both of us and at this point l want advice that as a single lady you need to read, research and go for seminars before getting married because there are so many things that we learnt growing up that should be unlearned. We need to be talking about sex so that we will be able to enjoy the pleasure that comes with it . I want to also state emphatically that sex is not only for our husbands bus also for us as wives.

    • @VictoriaFash
      @VictoriaFash  Год назад +2

      The anoiting indeed 🤣🤣🤣... thank you so much for your comment

  • @successolugbuyiro614
    @successolugbuyiro614 Год назад

    Thank you for this video

  • @blessingomeh5408
    @blessingomeh5408 Год назад +1

    I have learnt a lot in this video.

  • @ibironkeajiboye5817
    @ibironkeajiboye5817 Год назад

    It's the 'yeah's in this video for me

  • @eluanmark4204
    @eluanmark4204 Год назад +3

    Awww you look so good with your pretty hairdo. Happy belated birthday beautiful Mrs Fash, I wish you the very best and yessss I love this video🥰.

  • @bilquisoyekan5480
    @bilquisoyekan5480 Год назад +18

    Thank you for emphasizing LUBRICANT …. NOT Saliva!!!

  • @benjaminzeyeh3329
    @benjaminzeyeh3329 Год назад +1

    Supa educative ❤😊

  • @SasaSasa-wy9wu
    @SasaSasa-wy9wu Год назад +1

    Doing my KEIGELS right now LOL

  • @blessingomeh5408
    @blessingomeh5408 Год назад +4

    Didn't know the part of it being messy. I hate another person's body sweat.

    • @VictoriaFash
      @VictoriaFash  Год назад

      😄😄😄

    • @encyclopaedia641
      @encyclopaedia641 9 месяцев назад

      Oh dear. That part turned me off to be honest 😢. Me that I’m always fantasising about how fun and cool sex would be not knowing it would be messy oh gosh.