The Gates: the Great Untold Prerequisite to Getting What You Want
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- Опубликовано: 16 ноя 2024
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The path to achieving what you want is never straightforward-it’s filled with challenges and obstacles that often reveal themselves only as you progress. In this episode, Teal Swan uncovers the great untold prerequisite for getting what you want, helping you navigate the inevitable "gates" you’ll encounter on your journey. Learn how to consciously embrace these barriers as opportunities for personal transformation and success.
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Teal Swan Intro by Christian De Raco
”Each time you hit a gate and do what it takes to pass through it, you are growing. You are developing. You are strengthening. Your deepest values are being revealed. You are becoming more aware. You are refining yourself. You are transforming. You are being forged. You are expanding personally, as well as causing universal expansion”. Teal Swan 🌎🙏😘
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Yes! This is my journey now stepping through the gates of fantasy and denial also moving through discipline and consistency which I have avoided my whole life have def thought about giving up but am moving through it thank you appreciate this video ❤
the Afifa example really resonated with me. i live in an islamic household and i'm really getting tired of all the oppression and disempowerment.
Best wishes for you to live a happier life your way!
This is partly why we are hostile to islam in the UK. I hope you break free and discover yourself.
I can't believe I've been following teal for 12 years when her follower count was still in the hundos. The growth was inevitable. She has t missed a single Saturday upload!
”On the road to getting what you want, you will encounter every oppositional factor that exists within you to the getting of what you want”. Teal Swan 🌎🙏😘
Is what you want good?
Yes. This is pretty much how it is.
@@NoahJanaKimble-fy9rconly if it’s also what God wants for you. Only if it is in line with divine Self realization.
What you want .......is already there, its yours ❤ but you have to really believe it, its that simple 🙏
@@maiaheiss2991 Sure. And who knows that? Only you can know yourself and that requires true shadow work. And that work goes far beyond the new age.
Watching this captivating video stirs up painful memories of the recent end of my 4 year relationship. My beloved partner chose to depart, leaving me with an unyielding ache. Despite my relentless efforts to reconcile, I find myself grappling with frustration and an inability to envision a future without him. Despite attempts to purge him from my mind, I remain haunted by his absence, feeling compelled to express my longing here.
Its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 5 years ended, but i couldn't just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back.
Intriguing! I'm curious, how did you find a spiritual counselor, and what's the most effective way for me to reach him?
Meet Owen Abiola, a renowned spiritual counselor acclaimed for his talent in bringing back ex-partners.
Thank you for this valuable information.
@@ArnisByrne this is obviously a bot but please anyone tempted by black magic know that it'll come right back to you! and this is the definition of powerlessness - not knowing in your heart of hearts you will collide with your true love, once you become...
9:55 My greatest fear was leaving my loved ones behind 💔 to follow my path. In 2023 I did just that, ALONE. I'm healing, choosing compassion and learning to move forward.
This is my greatest fear too. Been struggling with it most of my life
I've never heard anyone speak on this - Tel you are such a gift. This is the strength of the warrior path. I love you have a good week as well as always
You are so needed on this planet. Only the real ones KNOW THIS
Simply amazing. I only wish you could understand how grateful I am for you.
And I mean this lesson is simple, too.
The art of allowing, detachment, attraction - all relative to your inner state, only and forever
The worst 4 years of my life turned into the best to wake me up. thank god...
I do believe that I am at a gate myself. It makes so much sense hearing all this. Thank you Teal!
Brilliant! I'm near the end of my road at 79. I have passed through these gates and no wonder I feel exhausted. Teal lays these out in perfect order. Always when the gate appears as they will, I know I can't turn back. And I'm sure there is no one that would want to know why or how. So this is perfect for me to share with others, so few in my village that are willing to keep on going. But self-compassion and thus compassion for others facing their gates is one of the gifts.
But boy, I do not find they become easier with knowledge.
Keep on keeping on everyone!
Oh wow, such a beautiful attitude at 79! You inspired me. And yes, i agree, they don't get easier or less painful. To the contrary. ❤
This is shocking to hear
- 00:19 🚧 Gates are obstacles that block progress towards achieving what we want, each requiring a unique solution to overcome.
- 01:10 🧠 Gates often reveal internal oppositional factors that must be addressed for personal growth.
- 02:53 🏋️♂️ Each gate passed builds personal strength, awareness, and transformation.
- 04:08 🔁 Desire drives personal and universal expansion, and people suffer when they resist this endless process.
- 05:18 🔓 People often get what they want when they stop desiring it intensely, as resistance lessens.
- 05:27 🎯 The final gate to achieving your deepest desires requires facing what you’ve avoided your entire life.
- 06:48 💔 The hardest challenges often stem from past traumas, requiring a willingness to confront deep fears.
- 09:44 🛡️ In many cases, passing through a gate requires risking something deeply feared, like rejection or danger.
- 13:17 🛑 A common barrier to getting what you want is avoiding the negative and refusing to face difficult realities.
- 14:20 🧪 The process of confronting these gates is essential for personal transformation and evolution.
The statue of David was explained simply by stating the statue was always there I just chipped away what wasn't. Michael Angelo
Thank you for posting the cliff notes here for when we don’t have 14 min or our baby is sleeping amen. Love Teals voice and manner and I’m an auditory learner. But still it’s nice to have this for review either way. Blessings and love and hugs dear ones and our beloved Teal!❤❤❤
At 5:18- how to stop desiring intensely? Or is it a natural gradual process?
@@Adyy0001 all things are gradual with the exception of tamarity. Moxie often finds the fastest route to the absolute of determination.
@@Adyy0001 Do you think the two statements are mutually exclusive?
I looooove this one ❤️ currently unlocking a gate in my life that has stopped me in the past. The key for this one is more self acceptance/integration, instead of the false key (or trap) that seems more obvious and has fooled me before, which is self rejection/abandonment. 🔑🔓
🎉yes
Wow, that comment was helpful😮thank you
Chapeau ☝️
How are my gates in the same order Teal is describing? I'm currently at the "injury-gate." When she mentioned it, I was like 👁👄👁 I want true love and BOOOOOOOY are there SOOOO many gates and they're SOOOO hard, but what's been encouraging is witnessing my growth and having all these "Aha! That's why I had to suffer like this!" moments. It also helps that my conscious journey to center what I seek in my heart started with a shamanic dose of shrooms on Mount Shasta where I almost died. I can keep thinking back to that moment when it gets hard and I want to quit because it's so obvious that this journey is the reason I'm still alive at all. Happy gate-passing-through! 🌟
”One common gate that people hit on the road to what they want, is the resistance to going through so many of these gates on the road to what they want. A common way that people work through this resistance, is to give up on what they want to the point where they don’t really want it anymore. By doing so, they are no longer in resistance to the not getting of it. And so, the gate swings open. This is why you may have observed that people often get what they want, when they don’t even really want it anymore”. Teal Swan 🌎🙏😘
Its terrifying i went through this. I had desire so boundless it was near uncontrollable. It burned me up. I saw the truth of what world i was living in, and it was like having my heart dim into a non existence whisper of what it was. I sat through it. Processed it. Witnessed the fear, the shame the guilt. I sunk and fell to succumbing to worse tendencies. Fell deeper. Innevitably i gave up. I stopped believing. But not just in my desires, my hopes my dreams, i gave up believing the world could change or be anything but what it was. In the moment of accepting the brutality, the visceral nature of life, knowing it was a walk of suffering to endure all the way to the grave, i found the capacity to endure. To accept. To find my own way forward in spite of obstacles. I dont bother, i dont struggle, every day i strive to continue on walking through life. I move day by day, and take what it throws my way. And i endure it. I bare the gravity of the world in motion and know im not seperate, just a part of the music. My part is the fall, and the rise, the melody and rythm. The sound, and the silence. And i love it all dearly. Its a beautiful thing.
Thank you, Grandmaster Teal, we must undoubtedly throw ourselves into the fire of self-refinement of what we most need to transform.
What took me so long to get here?
This is the best stuff I’ve heard in a long time . Absolutely going through the one where you have to completely go out alone face starvation, and complete rejection from everyone that might have supported me in my life.
NEW LEVEL UNLOCKED!!!
Hi, i dont know about this but im 51, lost my kids last year, got no family or friends to rely on, my dad which i never new because of my narcasist mother, he died in 2017, i feel time is running out for me now, i just dont wanna be here anymore but i cannot leave my 10 year old, my son got his moms family for what they are so i think he will be ok, but it just seems to be getting harder and harder to stay alive! ive tried a lot of things in 40 odd years but nothing is working! i feel soo alown and so confused about everything in my life! im just strggling to coope on my own and the pain is allmost unbearable! much love to you bab, and take care
You want to be friends? Xo
@@angelmccutcheon2190 Hi, yes i would like to be friends thank you! its ok, sometimes i have very, very low days! like everyone! but i think its learning techniques to over come them and its even harder when one is a loner by nature and find it difficult to talk and to "make friends"! much love to you thank you , take care and have a great day!
@@angelmccutcheon2190 yes, but this is the second time ive said yes but i carnt find my first yes, yes i would like to be friends but ive no idea how to do that? are you teasing me?
This is one of my absolute favorite videos that you've made in a long time! It's been a while since one hit me this hard. Thank you for all you do 🙏❤️🔥
This is one of your most epic video. It's the hero's journey. Thank you Teal❤
Living a lot of this right now, surfing as much as I can, lots of time spent being a pretzel on the balcony of a kind souls house. Feeling and working through all of it. Wild, painful, liberating. It all began to crumble, I suppose the falsehoods I believed in those I still hold beloved on my birthday this year (it’s my “golden year”, 10/23). All that’s left is what I’ve striven never to forget of the once integrated stuff, lots keeps popping up and I’m taking it all into and through me mostly quietly.
I’m in much peace through all the emotions. Can’t say the same for the ones who have nixed me out.
Alls I gotta say to me is now you get to do the big move for 6 months you’ve spent the last 6 years feeling internally as thought you were already in that home. My first solo living situation, it’s funny because that was my wish to “go” since the 5th grade. Finally getting what my souls been nudging me to. Pain yes, but the bliss is over poweringly welcome. A few plans for the next year regarding where I’ll be. No more self imposed chains, which yes I placed to stop myself from burning up, now it seems they’ve dissolved into me some how.
Deep respect and gratitude from me to you Teal, thank you for sharing. ❤
Thank you for this! I got a lot out of this - flashing back to many gates over my lifetime as well as one I am faced with now. I am trying to move forward in my work and career after being let go a year ago and can’t seem to stop procrastinating- I have realized it’s trauma based so now questioning my current desire and possibly pivoting. Or I work through that trauma of the past and not take it with me. That’s a gate right there! So thank you! 🙏🏻 ❤
Yesss! This is SO true - I’ve often encountered the “unfairness” feeling of the gates….its by design, to level us up by going through the fear and alchemizing it.
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Wow. Teal's most truest video thus far. I'm awestruck. My life feels like a battle field between good and evil and it feels like I always get to walk away with my life only. Teal is so aware. Thanks, Teal.
Oh my goodness. This video gives me the same feeling of epiphany I got seeing Teal’s earliest videos, especially the first 2 years when I was blown the h away at each one. I’m right up on a gate. I can get what I want if I can just endure some discomfort which seems unendurable right now. It’s now or never. I’m praying so hard that Spirit will help me in some way.
Thank you so much for this Teal! I can’t even express how grateful I am to have come across you and your wisdom on RUclips!❤I thought I had done something wrong/experiencing karma or was constantly on the wrong path, this has completely changed the way I think about challenges in life ❤❤❤❤❤❤thank u thank u thank u
Thank you Teal!! This hit the nail on the head for me. Right now, i have determined that i will be alone, separate from my sister. I am here to support them, but they only want one thing - money and control.
My mind immediately visualized the "Neverending Story" gates upon seeing the title; was so thrilled when Teal mentioned them! Thank you, love!
My favourite of Teal’s videos so far. Incredible wisdom ! Thank you Teal.
You're not gonna believe this but I had the exact question of these "gates/barriers that you pass through" in my mind yesterday and I found your video today that answered my question as I'm currently passing a gate.
Thank y’all again for illuminating functional options. Plus a NEVER ENDING STORY, my childhood favorite, reference!
This week I found myself in a Win/Lose story. I did not run away from the discomfort… I smile through it & away from it.
No fear of being un-worthy. My smile never wavers, for the experience is needed. A reminder to see reality as it is.
Feels good to genuinely smile through discomfort & my smile grows bigger as I progress through & away, from a Win/Lose story.
Y’all are welcome at any BBQ I’m at.
PS- as I type, a little blue bird flies so close, that I hear its glide.
PPS- Way to go production team, the soft lighting looks great!
Teal- you are a genius
Whenever I listen to Teal I feel I don't want to listen to anyone but her
11:20 I’m so glad that I heard this! It’s always the case when you’re committed to a cause.
Thank you Teal 💚 I was indeed thinking what is a gate? and then I realised that i am right in the middle of it. This video empowers me, and helps me to understand why I am where i am and not be so hopeless about my situation.
Thank you Teal. Your video found me this morning. I take that as motivational power to move across the next gate awaiting. Wishing everyone a powerful and transformational eclipse season 2024.
This is like the best worst news. Thanks teal...
This week, I failed the Florida bar exam and Hurricane Helene destroyed everything in my home.
This video made me realize what is going on with these gates, and what I need to stop avoiding.
Amazing, Teal. I really like the idea of you calling these obstacles gates. Everything you’ve said has been so true and incredibly insightful….enlightened. Your level of awareness is so inspiring. You’re extraordinarily talented and intelligent. I’ve been hitting the worst gate for years and refusing to break through it because I’d lose everything I have left and be homeless. I have never heard anyone voice this predicament in the slightest way I just heard you do it. I’ve yet to hear examples like you used until now. I guess I’m just not as strong as I need to be and will have to settle for not getting what I want. I have suffered like most of us do, my whole life. What little I have left I need to stay alive. I can’t just break through the gate and leave it and hope I’ll finally get what I truly want out of this life. I won’t have a life left at all. I understand what you’re saying is wise and real; and maybe others are able to do it because they are more courageous than I. I will end up literally losing my life if I do it. Maybe in time I’ll be in a better position but not now, not yet.
be careful what you wish for, it might come true
Absolutely.
When you understand everything comes with a set of consequences you Consciously choose accepting those consequences.😊
@@KarenGriffith_SoulfulCoaching if it is important enough to you, that is another thing Teal discussed.
Monay
So very true
We can also use that law to manifest good things :)
Makes so much sense. I felt like something was going on, but this is it.
T Swan, thank you for your teachings & guidance🌟🪙🌟
Dang!❤
Im hitting gates! Since I was 7 😂 Im still hitting 😂❤ But have less resistance to experiencing hitting 'Gates'. Its all good❤ Good for the ego ♥️🔥
Thank you for showing and exemplify this 'concept' and give it a language
Congrats on another fabulous video Teal. Tough truth to face for most people but inevitable to pass the gates for true growth. Reminds me of warrior energy😊
Wow!! So clearly stated. Grateful for you Teal!
Having encountered many posts (by accident): The one source of information that I have obtained, is that knowledge is power… and the more we understand regarding a particular subject or issue… the more potential we have for success:
However…
The most difficult part of learning or understanding, is learning how to communicate with others and their opinions and expectations… and well as with the elements which can open the gate or doorway to our success.
Is it okay to say that sometimes I love your videos? I hope it is. Thank you, Teal! You have a good week too.
@TeaISwanOfficiaI-1 Ok.
@TeaISwanOfficiaI-1 Also - THX
@5:13 what if what I want is Teal Swan Ending to an Emerald Saga.... You make a Neverending Story Reference, That definitely deserves me to show my love and appreciation for you Teal. THANKS 😁 🥰 For everything
This gate metaphor reminds me of that movie In Time with Justin Timberlake and Amanda Siefred. How the cost of time increases with each district he enters.
Oh yeah
Wow I just watched the last 5 minutes last night because I forgot the ending 😅
Oh you hit me hard with that final gate, called out so hard. I needed this i accept the lesson thank you once more
Thank you Teal ♥
this woman is golden.
I’m thankful for you being on this earth Teal. Your work is very valuable to me.
My biggest fear is having the negative judgment of my loved ones for my choice or labeled as a bad mother or selfish person for pursuing what I want. That is my next (and maybe last) gate to getting that thing I want so much
I have “chosen” inauthenticity and now I’m homeless and it’s still hard choosing authenticity.
You can only be authentic to the degree you are self aware.
Wake up before it's too late in this lifetime 😮
They are the tests on the journey of life. Sometimes extremely difficult.
Wait, this is exactly like the hero's journey - or the story circle! Love seeing that
Teal I think you should wrote a book about this and previous video because the tip are you giving in that video are totally true especially to where I born ❤❤❤❤
This is so true, it resonates! 🙏🏻
This is exactly where I am at.
I set out in my relationship to let someone in as far as possible, to be truly known, deeply, and never alone.
After a good number of year, I realized that my wife had never really let me all the way in, and that in turn,I hadn't let her all the way in.
We had come to a stop, and when I told her that I wanted to be let in All the way,and if that could not be done, then I would have to let myself out.
We opened up alright, and let each other all the way in,but as a result, are awaiting our impending divorce.
Thus, I must face the reality of being alone anyway, with the hope of achieving what I truly desire.
My whole reality has been destroyed, and yet,I would not go back.
On the road again ❤ I can’t wait to get on the road again
Thank you Teal 🙏🏼💗
💯 🎉 This is where Spiritual Bypassing in the various communities has people assuming they can escape their own reality. I genuinely dove into doing the work on myself years ago when I saw the patterns & life was seemingly unfair only to enter into communities that were interspersed with people avoiding themselves & hiding out.
It made me super aware of MySelf because I could See Me in them!
Those Gates are no joke & when you think you’ve gotten over the hump the next one appears.
But I’m also one to want to peel back layers & go beyond deep into the abyss!
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There is no top to the mountain 🥰
Minds me of the platos we hit in video games, the skill lvl increases so your capability to beat other players is harder because they are more skilled than previous opponents, and you teammstes may not be at your skill lvl either, so the goal is to reflect, and restratigize, lead to communicate positively and sternly, command respect, give perspective and reason to explaination , be patient eith youself and the loses how can i learn and groe from this moment. Beautiful lessons thank you, i hope this story was relatable. ❤
My problem has not been having trouble attracting what I want, but what I have fought for being taken away from me. I have given up aspirations for higher jobs, relationships, etc because I'm sick of dealing with the BS. Now I'm trying to get rid of a romantic interest out of nowhere trying to hold onto me. Funny how that works.
Please do more on this subject. More exemples.
this format really suits me
Oh boy, why does this make so much sense...............eek
OMG this one really hit home for me. Thank you so much for putting this content out there for everyone to enjoy.
I've hit the biggest gate a year ago and still ongoing- my dark night of the soul.
God it's the hardest experience of my entire existence and I've barely made it through.
you got this!
Im so going through this❤ and I feel like I prepared for this my whole entire life. Thank you
13:10 Thank you, I needed to hear this video today.
How is your message so relevant & mind blowing? 😮
So glad your video was suggested to me. 🙏 many blessings.
I love so many of Teal's videos but this was one of the best for sure. So impressive and strong
The Gates there never-ending to only one's self😇😇😇❤️
This is an awesome concept Teal!! Changed the view of the challenges we encounter on the road to our desires.
I am so grateful for you Teal ❤ Looking forward to see you in Prague again.
Spot in. Amazing. Just what i needed to hear. Thank you. Thank you. You are absolutely correct.
Thanks Teal
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Teal is right: this factor is often overlooked by manifestation coaches.
Thank you, Teal! Your wisdom shines through more with the current Jupiter transitting Gemini (you, being a Gemini yourself)!
This video is truly eye-opening; thank you Ms. Swan.
Video found me at the perfect time, thanks Teal
Tremendously affirming and encouraging, thank you Teal 🙏
Thank you dear teacher. This fully resonates with my present reality.
My name is Mia and I'm going through exactly what you described in that example lol
💚💚💚💚💚💚💚 SHE SHINES AGAIN...
Does anyone else feel compelled to return Teal's goodbye salutation?
Yes, and I did so.
Same
A part of me has been dragging it self through the asfalt, and is now barely moving, "I can't do this anymore". Another part of me feels like it just had the best roller coaster ride of it's life and is jumping out of it's own skin to continue riding!
Larry Burkett's book on "Giving and Tithing" drew me closer to God and helped my spirituality. 2021 was a year I literally lived it. I cashed in my life savings and gave it all away. My total giving amounted to 27,000 dollars. Everyone thought I was delusional. Today, 1 receive 65,000 dollars every two months. I have a property in Calabasas, CA, and travel a lot. God has promoted me more than once and opened doors for me to live beyond my dreams.
God kept to his promises to and for me
There's wonder working power in following
Kingdom principles on giving and tithing.
Hallelujah!
But then, how do you get all that in that period of time? What is it you do please, mind sharing?
And thanks to my co-worker (Michael) who suggested Ms Susan Jane Christy
How can I start this digital market, any guidelines and how can I reach out to her?
So nice to see Susan Jane Christy talked about here. Her good works are speaking already, and like wild fire, she's spreading.
Thanks so much Teal! I’m going through this process. Your advice helped me see with clarity. Love, Jose
Beyond needed, Beyond thankful to you 🙏 Came at the exact time!
Good timing, as usual
i appreciate you and your bold perspective going where no one has whenst gone! Thank u ❤❤❤!
Thank you Teal 🙏🙌🏻👌🩷
This wisdom is beyond. Perfectly said 🙏🏼
You are awesome Teal
Honestly I was expecting something a little more in-depth than an explanation of cost management. I learned this stuff in Boy Scouts when I was 13.
Curious on how this applies to romantic relationships. Would love to hear more insightful explanations, and less examples.