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  • Опубликовано: 15 ноя 2024

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  • @TangerineTravels
    @TangerineTravels  3 года назад +1388

    Don't panic, Tangerine Travels isn't over. Although this marks the end of one season in our lives, it's the start of a new chapter for Tangerine Travels.

    • @FlamencoOz
      @FlamencoOz 3 года назад +94

      RE channel direction, I think separate content would be a great fresh direction. Male vs female point of view on your travels in future.

    • @dillansession15
      @dillansession15 3 года назад +42

      I wish you both the best. I'm looking forward to new content on the channel.

    • @CristianLopez-uj5zv
      @CristianLopez-uj5zv 3 года назад +31

      Oh yes I will panic. So sad 😢. Be blessed you both

    • @renelopez2244
      @renelopez2244 3 года назад +29

      You guys will be great...
      Tangerine travels 2.0 each making these individual choices on thier own and venturing off.
      I wish you the best and hope that you guys will collaborate with each other...
      This will be great

    • @victoriasummers7444
      @victoriasummers7444 3 года назад +20

      I am sorry to hear this news and I am sure it is difficult for the both of you. I have no real input for what I’d like to see for the future of your channel. I think that is something that is best left in your hands. What do you envision for your own lives regarding TT?

  • @TheNewTravel
    @TheNewTravel 3 года назад +1109

    Jordan and Maddie, I think you both showed a lot of maturity in this video. Sorry to hear this... but I'm happy to see how comfortable you both still are together. And i'm looking forward to seeing the next stage of Tangerine Travels

    • @paulatudor691
      @paulatudor691 2 года назад +5

      Sometimes people drift in different directions. I have my oldest daughter that got divorced a couple of years ago. I tried to help them and her husband bent over backwards for the kids. They have my other daughter as like a home life when they aren’t with their dad. She said she just didn’t love him anymore and I said you had two children together so you had to care at one point in the marriage. They are co parents and are nice to each other . I am happy they put their children first.

  • @TimMaloneyNMactor
    @TimMaloneyNMactor 3 года назад +160

    I kept waiting for the "got ya" moment . Thanks for showing us what Adults look like . Felicidades .

  • @angelicalozano9502
    @angelicalozano9502 3 года назад +182

    I’m so impressed that you are able to be vulnerable and honest with us. You both seem to be handling your situation maturely. Wishing you both only the best. Glad you decided to continue Tangerine Travels, if it works out, great for us & you two. If it doesn’t, it was a great experience to have had with you. Bless your future , whatever path it takes!

  • @andromedaaldebaran1378
    @andromedaaldebaran1378 2 года назад +316

    Just gonna throw this out there: I'm 70 now and just about everyone I've ever known faced the most difficult period in their lives sometime during their 30s. I'm speaking about individuals, and psychologically. I'm no exception, and my entire 30's were pretty rough until toward the end, and after 40 everything has seemed to steadily go uphill. So I'm passing that on for what it's worth. I do wish you both the best in whatever life brings you. And thanks for all the enjoyable and informative videos you did together!

    • @ShowseeTravels
      @ShowseeTravels 2 года назад +3

      Agreed

    • @TheRealHumpa
      @TheRealHumpa 2 года назад +4

      Very true

    • @PoodleParti
      @PoodleParti 2 года назад +5

      Oh you mean uphill as in a good thing not it getting harder and harder? Its got harder and harder for me.

    • @mysticaltyger2009
      @mysticaltyger2009 2 года назад +10

      I'm 51 and also found my 30s to be my most difficult time so far. It was age 28-39 for me.

    • @OttawaAndy
      @OttawaAndy 2 года назад +1

      Yup, same.

  • @MishaElRusito
    @MishaElRusito 3 года назад +1036

    I am sorry to hear that guys. But I'm glad you guys clarified and asked that kids/family question before getting married. Otherwise it would have been way more difficult to break up. As it says "don't be afraid of break ups before marriage, be afraid of a break up when you're married". In any case, wishing both of you best of luck. ❤️

    • @joemartinez9040
      @joemartinez9040 3 года назад +82

      That sux. But not a good enough reason (In My Opinion)

    • @soullight2932
      @soullight2932 3 года назад +18

      @@joemartinez9040 ok thanks I wasn't the only one thinking that but everyone is different but that was my opinion too

    • @lorisanchez9491
      @lorisanchez9491 3 года назад +21

      @@joemartinez9040 I agree. Perhaps taking a break and going their separate ways for a bit may be helpful......but I suspect they will come full circle and back to each other. Either way, I wish them both well :)

    • @WestCoastUSA546
      @WestCoastUSA546 3 года назад +11

      Brake ups when married aren't more painful vs when not married but in a serious relationship/ deep emotional attachment.. I have done both, and mine wasn't...
      But they would be a LOT more complicated when kids are involved.

    • @klaidenmorad103
      @klaidenmorad103 3 года назад +3

      @@joemartinez9040 well said

  • @tohuwohu
    @tohuwohu 3 года назад +880

    In a world filled with immaturity, it was refreshing to see a couple handle life in such a mature way.

    • @deanaspencer4549
      @deanaspencer4549 3 года назад +8

      Very sorry for the pain that we all experience when our lives turn upside down. You'll pull thru and I applaud your maturity.

    • @FetalJuice88
      @FetalJuice88 3 года назад +25

      mature = making breakup explanation videos for RUclips = LOL

    • @justcarry-ontraveldiy8739
      @justcarry-ontraveldiy8739 3 года назад +2

      I couldn't agree more!!

    • @MyTrishAdvisor
      @MyTrishAdvisor 3 года назад +3

      Exactly! ❤️

    • @hstteacher
      @hstteacher 3 года назад +5

      Sorry for your loss, but you are both displaying a lot of maturity - I applaud that. Glad you were honest with each other and realized that you could not go forward together. But, your friendship, the lessons you have learned together and your memories will enhance your lives. Best wishes as you move on to the next stage.

  • @JonFD
    @JonFD 3 года назад +248

    Breaking up is not a failure, it’s a healthy and loving thing to do when you realize that you don’t want the same things. Staying together, being miserable and resenting each other, because you’re afraid of change, that comes closer to failure. You will always be family to each other, and that’s a beautiful thing.

    • @karencalkins6982
      @karencalkins6982 3 года назад +1

      Sorry for your news, but so happy that you sill will work together. After all, you are my family. I would miss your correspondence. New times , new futures .

    • @geoffreylee8998
      @geoffreylee8998 3 года назад +2

      That is so true....well said!

    • @AnnAndNala
      @AnnAndNala 3 года назад +4

      Bravo! Great comment! 🙌

    • @jorgegdv2011
      @jorgegdv2011 Год назад +2

      A break up it is a failure, but you can learn from your failures. If you don't recognise a failure then you didn't learn anything.

    • @livableincome
      @livableincome Год назад +1

      My sister and her nice boyfriend broke up for the exact same reason. She married someone who wanted kids and they have two wonderful children. He enjoyed putting his art first and travelling. Eventually he met and married a girl who is also an artist. They are very happy too. It all worked out well in the end.

  • @yoga6553
    @yoga6553 Год назад +30

    I used to say that I never wanted kids. Unfortunately by the time I was ready to have children (late 30’s) unfortunately it was too late. Biggest regret of my life. Careful what you wish for…

    • @chuckh4077
      @chuckh4077 Год назад +2

      Adopt then

    • @syrenaxhaferi7278
      @syrenaxhaferi7278 9 месяцев назад

      I was 40 when I had my baby.....needed to go to a naturopathic doctor

    • @6packjesus
      @6packjesus 7 месяцев назад +1

      @@chuckh4077how is that the exact same thing ?

    • @chuckh4077
      @chuckh4077 7 месяцев назад +1

      @@6packjesus adopted kids are the same. 😆

    • @6packjesus
      @6packjesus 7 месяцев назад

      @@chuckh4077 so ur telling me that as a women having the ability of having kids but doesn’t then deciding to adopt one is Exactly the same. For a guy sure cuz you don’t carry a baby regardless lol

  • @sararichardson737
    @sararichardson737 3 года назад +121

    You really didn’t owe us this but thanks for the candour.

    • @josefino106
      @josefino106 3 года назад +1

      Dido

    • @wannabe413
      @wannabe413 3 года назад +3

      They surely owed us! They care what their fans want, and their channel is so popular due to their authenticity and willingness to be open about their personal struggles & accomplishments.

    • @Drew-di6nt
      @Drew-di6nt 3 года назад +1

      No they don’t owe anyone like you said BUT what tends to happen if they keep TT online is people start asking questions. You can tell when things have changed in a relationship and channel.

    • @29aaronjones
      @29aaronjones 3 года назад +2

      @@josefino106 ditto is the actual spelling

  • @keith4669
    @keith4669 3 года назад +83

    I do admire the fact that you decided to talk about this PUBLICLY, with EACH OTHER. That's NOT easy.

  • @wgb_jd
    @wgb_jd 3 года назад +123

    Two good friends doing a travel channel together, sometimes apart, sometimes together. Sometimes with special guests. Sounds good to me. It actually sounds more like a professional TV show. I'll be watching.

    • @valgoodridge1810
      @valgoodridge1810 3 года назад +8

      Exactly what I was thinking. As long as they are able to work together part of the time they can simply treat the channel as a business enterprise . Which when you think about it is what all RUclips channels really are.

    • @DiamanteKlopman
      @DiamanteKlopman 3 года назад +3

      You could do tematic videos were you both travel to comparable places, having the comparison on this channel, sending traffic from here to each one's channel with more detailed content on each location; leaving cliff hangers like: "wanna know what happened on this bar? see that on my channel" and stuff :D

    • @wgb_jd
      @wgb_jd 3 года назад +10

      By the way, as a lawyer who has practiced in both family law and small business law, let me say that the only way this will work is if you can look each other in the eye and say there will be no bitterness, jealousy, or resentment, ever. Also, it is important to have a written partnership agreement. If nothing else it will delineate your respective rights, obligations and day-to day responsibilities so there is no misunderstanding later as to what was agreed upon. You guys have been at this long enough that I'm sure you can foresee a lot of the potential issues. You don't even need a lawyer. Just do some research. Finally, thanks for the life-changing information you two have provided. It's had a definite impact on my retirement plans, and I'm sure many thousands of others. You should both be proud of what you have built here.

    • @wgb_jd
      @wgb_jd 3 года назад +2

      @@goutfromfriedokra3936 Every business partnership has to consider these issues. They are not insurmountable problems if hashed out and agreed upon in advance. IMHO it would be a shame to throw away what these two have already built.

    • @bangoker
      @bangoker 3 года назад

      @@goutfromfriedokra3936 pretty sure RUclips gives you enough info to know how each individual video is performing $ wise

  • @raymondkellogg2030
    @raymondkellogg2030 2 года назад +33

    The most HONEST VIDEO I've ever seen. Thank you so much. Incredibly rare. Your bravery is exemplary. This is why RUclips or social media in general is so much better than commercial media. You will NEVER get this kind of honesty on main stream media. I understand both sides of your dilemna. Neither one of you is wrong. You must go where your hearts lead. To do anything else leads to huge regrets at the end of your life. I am 68 years old, and trust me when I tell you that there is nothing worse than to get to the end of your life with huge regrets. You are doing the right thing. It may hurt temporarily, but you must remain true to your inner heart's feelings, even when it leads to pain. You must stay true to yourself. My child has grown. My wife has passed. At first we decided to have no children. I had a vascectomy. Later, we decided to adopt. I regret neither decision. They were both "right" at that time of our lives. Now I have 8 grandchildren and I have no regrets. That is the most important thing. There are no "wrong" decisions; only "honest or true" decisions. Thank you so much for having the guts to make this video. It restores my faith in humanity...that most people are not extremists, as the media would like you to believe, but that most people are "normal" and have the same problems, desires, and struggles that you and I have. In the end, we are all a lot more alike, than we are different. And that gives me hope. Thank you, thank you, thank you.

    • @thommysides4616
      @thommysides4616 Год назад +1

      Raymond.... I'm a 63 year old American living in South Africa and I know what it is to have to start over. Your long winded words here really spoke to me. Love ya man!!!!!!!

  • @percyburlingame230
    @percyburlingame230 3 года назад +156

    The level of maturity in this video. I praise y’all.

  • @jimluparello2724
    @jimluparello2724 3 года назад +68

    I’m so surprised and heartbroken but I know it happens. I wish both of you the very best in whatever you do.

  • @edwardrendon6492
    @edwardrendon6492 3 года назад +114

    I’m so sorry for the two of you. I’ve always thought you were the cutest couple. Always loved your take on life in Mexico. So mature of you two to handle it this way. Wish you both the best.

  • @tomruth9487
    @tomruth9487 2 года назад +71

    Relationships are hard, there's no question about it. You guys are really special. Glad there is still such a great friendship. Best of luck to you both.

  • @Corn_Fed_Beef
    @Corn_Fed_Beef 3 года назад +267

    You know something I've learned over the years. I've learned that just because a romantic relationship comes to an end does not mean that that relationship was not a success. You guys came together and actually built something amazing and the fact that you guys want a different path in life and felt it was best to split apart for the good of both of you without becoming mortal enemies proves that even though it has came to an end it was actually a success. That's just my opinion.

    • @roblaw1317
      @roblaw1317 3 года назад +2

      So sad💔 but also happy that you two are able to not hate each other and make it work, wishing you two all the best❤

    • @mlwelter
      @mlwelter 3 года назад +1

      agree that any and all good times are s true blessing in our lives. I wish you both the best, thanks for sharing such intimate details,

    • @ledaswan5990
      @ledaswan5990 2 года назад +5

      And an opinion I completely agree with. If you’re married for 25 years or together for 2 years and then break up that doesn’t mean your relationship “failed” things change,people change. The only failure I see is if you stay in a relationship where you’re both miserable. Til death do us part is great if you both love each other and enjoy each other. But to follow some rule just out of tradition or fear seems like a recipe for misery. Also just my opinion

  • @ttocselbag5054
    @ttocselbag5054 3 года назад +98

    Que Sera Sera. What I’ve learned after 59 years on this planet is-life is full of surprises and unexpected turns-Godspeed to you two yungins. ❤️

    • @adzisme
      @adzisme 3 года назад +2

      Who gets the dog?

    • @mistymiller673
      @mistymiller673 3 года назад

      @@adzisme Laska belonged to Jordan first, but I suspect they’ll have joint custody for a while

  • @paulawilliams7030
    @paulawilliams7030 3 года назад +42

    My first thought when i read your breaking up was “OhNo” but after hearing your explanations I sincerely wish you both the best and hope you continue to be friends.

  • @danjsilve
    @danjsilve 2 года назад +61

    I commend you both, for your bravery, and maturity. I am 58, and I rarely have had a healthy breakup.

    • @patriciavandevelde5469
      @patriciavandevelde5469 Год назад +1

      I m 61 tried it 2 times not worth the hazzle! It s always the same song!!!!!!!!!

  • @leedsdevil
    @leedsdevil 3 года назад +51

    Sad news, but it’s good to see you’ve reconciled as friends and partners. Best wishes on staying in each other’s life as a friend and support system.

  • @nintendoneil
    @nintendoneil 3 года назад +65

    This is strangely shocking for me. I’ve followed you both for a long time, and I always thought you were perfect together,. It feels like my parents are breaking up.

    • @misshulagirl05
      @misshulagirl05 3 года назад +4

      Right?! I’m weirdly emotional & upset about this news 😢😭

  • @JoseTapia-qp5lc
    @JoseTapia-qp5lc 3 года назад +32

    Would never thought you guys would end breaking up I pictured you guys having kids

    • @brendataylor8388
      @brendataylor8388 3 года назад +7

      Me too! I was looking forward to seeing toddlers in backpacks doing “Centro of centro”🤣

    • @JesusGarcia-nf4yl
      @JesusGarcia-nf4yl 3 года назад +3

      Me too I wanted to see their kids traveling with them :(

    • @BigJdoinBigThangz
      @BigJdoinBigThangz 3 года назад

      Same here

  • @amyg3500
    @amyg3500 2 года назад +21

    Sometimes irreconcilable differences are just that. I hope you both find happiness and look back on your time together with smiles. My heart breaks a little for you both but better days are ahead. ❤

  • @cathydavis9959
    @cathydavis9959 3 года назад +68

    Well I’m sad but happy that you’re so respectful to each other, take care of yourselves AND Laska ♥️

  • @tjrioux3059
    @tjrioux3059 3 года назад +31

    I lost the love of my life 40 years ago because of this dream he had of having (a large) family. But it wasn’t long before I got back on my feet and on with a happy life. However, I have never forgotten him. This is such an individual thing and no one is wrong. We love you guys and respect your lack of spite or anger. Unsubscribe? hell no!!

    • @craigslstuser9
      @craigslstuser9 3 года назад +1

      IMO they were too close to each other all the time in a foreign place & different culture without friends. For a healthy relationship distance is important. If someone start focusing 100% on the individual plans forgetting the fun & liberty felt in the relationship, breakup happens. I wish the best for them but i think compromise & sacrifice is part of a good committed relationship which is becoming less common these days. We as humanity suffering from the highest levels of individualism & Narcissism these days sad but true and we all know it. I wish the best happens for both.

  • @nothing563019
    @nothing563019 3 года назад +212

    This literally had to have been the most mature, honest, civil break-up that i've ever seen. Should be shown to all couples to show them how to communicate. So sad you had to make the decision but i wish the best to both of you in your futures as you both seem like great people.

    • @deanalbertson7203
      @deanalbertson7203 3 года назад +2

      This video does not show the whole process of the break up.

    • @aacevedo42900
      @aacevedo42900 3 года назад +1

      Everything is perfect on video. I'd like to see what was said between them when the camera was off

  • @112188Francisco
    @112188Francisco Год назад +46

    bros already engaged

    • @KOBE8895
      @KOBE8895 8 месяцев назад

      Thats very true

    • @safeandeffectivelol
      @safeandeffectivelol Месяц назад

      He's ready to be popping out children

    • @perrybb2
      @perrybb2 Месяц назад +1

      Bet he doesn't regret that for a second

  • @ivonnelara007
    @ivonnelara007 3 года назад +35

    Omg my shock levels are overflown. Thank you for sharing this with us, you are both great people and I'm sorry things didn't work out for you.

  • @michellel.6001
    @michellel.6001 3 года назад +24

    You were the first travel vloggers that I ever watched and although I’ve watched other people’s videos since then I always come back to Tangerine 🍊 Travels because you both have such a strong sense of integrity, honesty and just plain genuineness. I know this must be a really hard time for you both but if it’s any comfort you are doing the right thing. Stay strong my friends.

  • @azraygun
    @azraygun 3 года назад +32

    It's nice to see mature, civil and rational people work their way through an emotional disaster with dignity and respect for one another.

  • @lawrencelawrence3920
    @lawrencelawrence3920 2 года назад +41

    As a senior, years ago my girlfriend wanted kids but I was not ready financially and in maturity. We broke up and I told her that she could do much better than me in fulfilling her wishes. She had kids and I didn't but I feel that by not having them I missed out on a big part of life that would have matured me in that direction. I also feel that I denied my family and distant relatives the pleasure of my children. Big regret on my part.

    • @flyhappy9712
      @flyhappy9712 2 года назад +12

      You’re being honest and that’s great!
      I choose no kids and have ZERO regrets.

    • @lawrencelawrence3920
      @lawrencelawrence3920 2 года назад

      @@judithgrace9850 they can especially if they are bad kids and if you are not ready to have them. They can also be rewarding and someone to have fun with and raise.

    • @GUITARTIME2024
      @GUITARTIME2024 2 года назад +14

      Lawrence, I wouldn't feel regret. One thing having a kid does is amplify certain negative feelings you might have towards certain family members. Not sure why but its common. Also, they are expensive, and even the good kids are fairly ungrateful. Plus, kids worry you forever. Just enjoy life.

    • @platinumUser7
      @platinumUser7 Год назад +1

      Thank you for sharing

    • @leonab545
      @leonab545 Год назад +1

      @@GUITARTIME2024 true. I didn’t seek out having kids and life just isn’t working that direction and I was just thinking I might start regretting and now I am just leaning towards being content with life as it is. I already know the negatives, so I am okay.
      I helped raise other people’s kids and when I stayed overnight, responsible for another life 24/7, I would get sick! The worry is insane. It made me physically ill. That’s definitely not something I would want constantly. Also I just couldn’t afford to have kids.
      But I was okay either way, and so life is still good either way.

  • @tonia.5861
    @tonia.5861 3 года назад +26

    Children are forever. They are challenging enough even when you want them desperately and love them to the moon and back. This could not have been an easy decision for either of you.
    Your biggest problems may come when one of you gets into another relationship….it could dredge up emotions you don’t even know you have yet so be cautious. Best wishes to you both for your future.

  • @rebeccapierson5498
    @rebeccapierson5498 3 года назад +153

    When one partner wants kids and the other doesn't, that usually means that it's time to change paths. It's ok to not want kids and it's ok to want them. I'm glad y'all figured it out before it was too late.

    • @travelmanMN
      @travelmanMN 3 года назад +1

    • @centurionmx2703
      @centurionmx2703 3 года назад +4

      Se va a quedar sola con 🐕. Ojalá el forme una familia. No hay nada mejor que los hijos. Cada vez hay más mujeres egoístas. Por eso se quedan amargadas! Good luck 👍

    • @Unoniomus
      @Unoniomus 2 года назад +10

      @@centurionmx2703 No hay nada de malo con no querer hijos. Ella ni dijo que no quería, dijo que todavía no sabía. Tu comentario fue innecesario.

    • @alilombardi142
      @alilombardi142 2 года назад +4

      @@centurionmx2703 que comentario Mas rudo. Mas respeto con lo que dices.

    • @DavidGarcia-kj3tv
      @DavidGarcia-kj3tv 2 года назад +1

      Comp no c van a dar cuenta cuando eya dijo cuando tienes hijos ya tienes que estar con esa persona para siempre..eya no esta Segura so quiere estar con El toda la vida..mas claro no pude estar..y hojala y El Chavo encuentre su pareja..que si quiera algo enserio

  • @maureencohen379
    @maureencohen379 3 года назад +44

    I’m taking this harder than than I should. I’ve come to really enjoy you both as a couple and individually. This was a beautiful explanation and the honestly is what has made your channel so special all this time.. Sending you both love and looking forward to seeing both of your futures unfold. It is encouraging that you both want to stay in Mexico 🇲🇽

  • @thebeesqueen2831
    @thebeesqueen2831 3 года назад +45

    You two are beautiful souls. We appreciate your maturity, honesty, and the love you share for one another, even if it will be platonic moving forward in the future. Much love to you both!

  • @aaronalexanderortizsantos3585
    @aaronalexanderortizsantos3585 3 года назад +34

    Hey I know you didn't have to do this for us, and I know how hard it is to make your life public, so I hope you both have an amazing life and thanks for the content you made for us all these years

  • @josevenancio5008
    @josevenancio5008 3 года назад +34

    15 year break-up here so totally understand the pain, difficulty and decision making of parting ways. All the best for both.

    • @ericktellez7632
      @ericktellez7632 3 года назад

      God damn man if even after 15 years doesnt work then what does

    • @mstyles2667
      @mstyles2667 3 года назад +5

      @@ericktellez7632 People change...many people divorce after 25-30 years as once the kids are gone they realize they are not the same people who fell in love all those years ago. I am leaving a relationship of 15 years myself, it just ran it's course and the things I want at 41 and vastly different than what I wanted at 26. It is what it is.

    • @MrMaziar58
      @MrMaziar58 3 года назад +2

      31 years break up cause simply she wasn’t happy anymore!
      It’s ok I’m doing fine
      And the life is still going on.

    • @jlina
      @jlina 3 года назад +1

      @@ericktellez7632 A break up after 15 years doesn't mean a failure! It means it's time for something different. People change it's the people that don't break up and are silently miserable that life is hard for

  • @beauteoussounds1156
    @beauteoussounds1156 3 года назад +45

    This hit me harder than I expected. Glad you’re processing it so thoughtfully and I only wish the best for you both. ✌🏼

  • @louistorres
    @louistorres 2 года назад +121

    As a wedding photographer for the last 17 years, I can read couples faces and in watching some of your videos, I could see that there was a bit of a strain. Of course, I never know what it could be but I can read it. Breakups happen and you will both find your happy companion. Trust me, I've seen that happen tons of times throughout the years. :)

    • @bobgoodi2620
      @bobgoodi2620 2 года назад +10

      Sounds like one of them needed some salsa in the mix for a change 🙄

    • @rafaeltorre1643
      @rafaeltorre1643 2 года назад +11

      You're right. He was more quiet and her excited to dominate the page. You can see when couples have a lack of physical affection. It's the little things that aren't seen that are a clear sign.

    • @bobgoodi2620
      @bobgoodi2620 2 года назад +7

      @@rafaeltorre1643 True! Looks to me that he now seems more relaxed and happier from what I can see on hes channel through observation. This is coming from a horse's mouth might l add. 😂

    • @Nightbird.
      @Nightbird. 2 года назад +5

      @@rafaeltorre1643 They asked for kind comments and you and Bob Goodi are being total assholes and judging them. Just stop because you don't know these people and have no right making such comments about them. Disgusting..

    • @williamboyle8918
      @williamboyle8918 2 года назад

      @@Nightbird. wah

  • @jacquiswann9325
    @jacquiswann9325 3 года назад +22

    While the situation is sad, I applaud both of you for recognizing each other's truth and handling the speration with dignity. It is clear that there remains love and respect between you two and I wish you both the best of luck and will continue to watch and see what path unfolds for you.

  • @miguel-h
    @miguel-h 3 года назад +171

    The question on everyone’s mind: how’s Laska doing? 😥

  • @agl5132
    @agl5132 3 года назад +43

    This is your life and your decisions are yours alone. You're both young and who knows what your future holds. You may continue down this path, you may reunite or move onto other partners and still remain the best of friends. Whatever the future holds I wish you both the best.

  • @jeffsor47
    @jeffsor47 2 года назад +8

    Just wait and see how good friends they remain after he gets a younger, prettier new girlfriend? One of the oldest stories in the book.

  • @stevenwest4763
    @stevenwest4763 3 года назад +29

    I thought you two had wonderful chemistry. Good luck you two!

  • @JohnDoe-tw5md
    @JohnDoe-tw5md 3 года назад +69

    Echoing so many others - you guys are a class act. We will miss what has been but are excited to experience what’s to come - whether together or individually or both. You’ve built quite a brand in Tangerine Travels - keep nurturing it!!
    Hugs 🙏

  • @katie8655
    @katie8655 3 года назад +64

    So glad you'll still be making videos together but if that becomes too difficult please still make them individually! Love seeing you both!

  • @tod3msn
    @tod3msn 2 года назад +51

    The body language is so powerful. The dude is very tense and uncomfortable. He's moved on. He doesn't want to be in the clip. The woman is more ambivalent and still dealing with the end of the relationship. It impacted her a lot more.

  • @Itsnotaboutbeingperfect
    @Itsnotaboutbeingperfect 3 года назад +24

    Oh my gosh… I thought this was going to be a joke. I was waiting for the punch line. I’m so sorry it ended this way for you guys. My heart actually sank when I realized you weren’t joking. I’m so sad for you but also happy that you are handling it in such a mature way. I wish the very best in the future for the both of you

  • @alexescalera
    @alexescalera 3 года назад +24

    First of all, good morning
    Second thing, I am a little sad of hearing this news, but understand the situation and I just want the best for you guys, on that same note I would really prefer to continue to see you both making videos together as long as that dinamic keeps working and healthy & don't turn uncomfortable for any of you guys, or Laska.
    Love you guys!

  • @hnttakata713
    @hnttakata713 3 года назад +75

    Congratulations for being best friends. Now, share what it’s like dating in Mexico. Or going out in Mexico.

  • @joannflorez2667
    @joannflorez2667 2 года назад +44

    This shows how respectful you are of each other. Best luck to both of you.

  • @HereBeBarr
    @HereBeBarr 3 года назад +242

    Best of luck to you both going forward. Very mature decision.

  • @johnbutera3623
    @johnbutera3623 3 года назад +29

    I hope I speak for many people when I say that I admire and enjoy watching both of you and I will continue to do so whether that is together or separately. I admire your honesty, realize how difficult this time is for both of you and appreciate that you were so candid in sharing all of this with your viewers. Hopefully you will be inundated with caring and supportive messages. I also hope that everyone leaves comments that are respectful of your privacy.

  • @alasker4118
    @alasker4118 3 года назад +25

    Sad to hear about this. You feel like old friends even though we're never met. Hopefully, this will work itself out. Good luck to you both.

  • @happybooker1
    @happybooker1 2 года назад +15

    After 3 marriages and 3 divorces, 2 kids, 1 grandson, and being happily single for 25 years now, there are things I wish I'd done differently in my old life. You both are handling this with aplomb and dignity. Best wishes to you both and to TT in the future.

  • @MyTrishAdvisor
    @MyTrishAdvisor 3 года назад +27

    Love you guys!! I'm glad you guys can remain such great friends and continue to work together. Can't wait to see what unfolds for Tangerine Travels I'm glad you guys are staying in Mexico!! 🇲🇽❤️

    • @chuckh4077
      @chuckh4077 Год назад +1

      But what happened to her? Is she still in Mexico or back in America? Is she making her own videos?

  • @Thelustral909
    @Thelustral909 3 года назад +37

    Tangerine Travels, dropping completely unexpected news bombs on us 💣 Wow! This is a lot to process... First off, I'm so sorry to hear that this happened. My heart breaks for both of you. 💔 This must be incredibly difficult thing to process, let alone share with your friends, family and thousands of subscribers. As a loyal viewer and subscriber, over the past few years, I can honestly say, you guys changed my life. You both helped me to discover my own country. As a Mexican American, living in the US, I had the same narrow mindedness and prejudices that everyone around the world has about Mexico. Your adventures (along with a bunch of other RUclipsrs) helped me rediscover my own land and I completely reevaluate my views. Your videos were a sense of comfort and made me long to go back to a place I don't know. And now, I am looking forward to the day where I can go visit all those beautiful & magical places that you guys have visited. So yes, I will continue to support both of you, in which ever endeavor it might take. Also this might a great time for Tangerine Travels reinvent itself and become something new and exciting. You both deserve to be happy and now that you're both free, who knows what blessings the universe has in stored for both of you. IMO, take some time off and refocus on yourselves. Both of you should take some time off, to process and heal. After all, we're still in the middle of a pandemic and we're not going anywhere any time soon. Love you guys! 🤗 ❤

    • @llynrimsa
      @llynrimsa 3 года назад

      So sad to hear this, but sincerely wish you the best in your future endeavours, together and apart. Good for you taking this step before things became bitter. Looking forward to seeing new videos in the future.

    • @yair08
      @yair08 3 года назад +2

      Honestly, this is one the best comments. Took the words right out my mouth.

    • @Thelustral909
      @Thelustral909 3 года назад

      @@yair08 Great minds think alike! 😉

  • @Fuzzypants11
    @Fuzzypants11 3 года назад +15

    You guys were the first travel vloggers we watched. We called you “our kids”. So sad to hear your news. We wish you nothing but great things in your future. You are both wonderful people. Thank you for the inspiration and guidance as we prepared for our own journey moving to Mexico this November. ❤️

  • @Steelhorsecowboy
    @Steelhorsecowboy 2 года назад +30

    Good luck, Jordan. Being a Dad is the best part of life. You will never regret this decision.

  • @williamtaudien
    @williamtaudien 3 года назад +37

    Traveling together is the ultimate test for sure. So many stressful situations that can happen along the way.

  • @lauramarin1777
    @lauramarin1777 3 года назад +30

    Every day I realize that nothing lasts forever. You two are great people. Wish you the best!

  • @johngerard4649
    @johngerard4649 3 года назад +15

    I think everyone is saddened to hear of your breakup. I can understand your reasoning as rearing children is a real life changer, mostly good but it definitely has it's moments. I will not be unsubscribing because somewhere along the way I adopted the both of you and I still care about both of you. I have enjoyed your efforts being both informative and entertaining. And wanting to learn more about Mexico, not just the two weeks I spend there on an annual basis, I live vicariously through your videos. Take care of yourselves and I look forward to seeing what life holds in store for you both. And most of all be happy moving forward.

  • @sunnyonwheels
    @sunnyonwheels 3 года назад +9

    I've only recently started watching your videos on the recommendation of a friend, but have already found them helpful. I'm honestly very impressed with the level of maturity you are both displaying. As a single mom whose ex was completely irresponsible, I can tell you that if your spouse thinks he wants kids and realizes afterwards he would rather be living the life of a single guy with no responsibilities, it is beyond devastating for the kids they abandon. I wouldn't trade having kids for the world, but if it's not what makes your heart light up, then it's not something you can do to please another person. I'm sorry that you're going through this difficult time, but encouraged to see two wonderful people genuinely caring enough to really honor the other individual and their needs and desires. As for the future, I'm sure your integrity will be rewarded in many wonderful things ahead for you both. Wishing you the best and sending prayers for you both, and looking forward to more Tangerine Travels videos!

  • @garythompson400
    @garythompson400 3 года назад +110

    Such a mature, rational, tough decision. Respect to you both. Best to you.

  • @doctornebula
    @doctornebula 2 года назад +17

    You both came together and created something great - this channel. Bravo! Now new chapters for both of you. Awesome!

  • @mckdogdrums3543
    @mckdogdrums3543 3 года назад +33

    Dam guys... Sorry to hear
    Wish you all the best

  • @YellowProductions
    @YellowProductions 3 года назад +129

    I wish you the best in the future Jordan and Maddie!

  • @tomb1598
    @tomb1598 3 года назад +32

    My heart breaks for you. I wish you both nothing but the best in your individual travels. You have both left a legacy which we hope to be able to still visit via your RUclips videos. Best wishes from your fans in Western Canada. Nope, we won’t unsubscribe. Take care and we look forward to whatever future videos (we hope) that you will produce, either individually, or as a friendly team..

  • @eleveneleven572
    @eleveneleven572 2 года назад +56

    Speaking from my own experience not having kids seemed no big deal when we were young. Being in your 40's going forward with no kids is no fun at all. An old age with no family can be very lonely.

    • @DrBeeSpeaks
      @DrBeeSpeaks 2 года назад +9

      It can be lonely if you don't value your own solitude. Yet if you do enjoy spending time with yourself-you see not having kids as a major BLESSING. It is fun, I travel all the time. And I have lots of kids in my life because I have a big family, therefore I don't need to have any of my own. Plus you can adopt if you want and support children charities.

    • @zezbid4
      @zezbid4 2 года назад +2

      get yourself a dog

    • @eleveneleven572
      @eleveneleven572 2 года назад +1

      @@DrBeeSpeaks
      I do value all those things, but I'm not like most people. I was an only child so learnt to love solitude and was spared the drama of siblings. Most people however cannot cope well with that and that was my point.

    • @eleveneleven572
      @eleveneleven572 2 года назад +5

      @@zezbid4
      Got a dog 😂 👍

    • @janellip1873
      @janellip1873 2 года назад +5

      Im totally with you. Not having kids is no big deal IF you dont want them, but if you do that is a problem. Most people regret not having kids when they are old and have no one to be there for them. People can act like this isnt important, but most will have their children and grandkids to enrich their lives. If you can be satisfied with having friends and extended family then fine, but thats not the same as your own offspring that will likely love you enough to be there for you.
      And it is very flippant and rude for someone to say "get a pet." Or "just adopt". Why dont most married people do that? It is natural to want your own offspring like most everyone else has (if it is what you wanted).

  • @maxadriane
    @maxadriane 3 года назад +20

    Thinking of you both and hoping you find peace in your future lives.❤️

  • @dianestutchman3932
    @dianestutchman3932 3 года назад +48

    Dear, dear Kids (I'm a 68 year-old new grandmother), I am grieving over your breakup, but even more proud of your honesty and transparency between yourselves and Tangerine Travels family. You both have our support always and we're ready to pivot and adapt with your lives and RUclips content. I'm all for your working together and collaborating with others. This video is a shining testament to your strength of character. Keep moving forward and keep us in rapt tow! All the best, and Aloha!

  • @grega4450
    @grega4450 3 года назад +71

    My prediction. U 2 will be back together. Whatever happens best of luck to both of you. Love the channel

    • @getsmartbusinessradio9287
      @getsmartbusinessradio9287 3 года назад +3

      Agree

    • @gzhang207
      @gzhang207 3 года назад +1

      Yeah, traveling together means very tightly tangled life without the each’s own space. just take a break from the relationship and reflect.

  • @LegflexUtube
    @LegflexUtube Год назад +4

    Having kids will change your life forever and in a very positive way. I almost did not have kids, I am so glad we did. I can't imagine life without our son. Living to 80 or so with no kids could get pretty lonely. Best wishes to both of you.

  • @gg13308
    @gg13308 3 года назад +31

    Sorry to hear about your loss. But it's better to find out now, than later. Time heals every thing. Keep traveling and letting us see Mexico

  • @cathymoriarty9683
    @cathymoriarty9683 3 года назад +144

    You're both so mature, giving and thoughtful with each other. Best wishes to both of you.

    • @erzr
      @erzr 2 года назад

      They act like teenagers, so you sound highly delusional.

    • @bryanryan4504
      @bryanryan4504 2 года назад +2

      They're not mature

  • @cindyleeger
    @cindyleeger 3 года назад +36

    I found you guys 3 years ago, you have both grown so much. Best of luck.

  • @katherinescooking
    @katherinescooking 2 года назад +17

    Y’all are so mature and I respect your love and friendship. Bless you both!

  • @Theman26642
    @Theman26642 3 года назад +58

    I feel like your relationship was never the focus of the channel. I think you guys can still be great co-hosts and create great content. Might take some time getting used to having a mostly business relationship only (albeit it sounds like you guys will remain good friends). I think the best is yet to come for Tangerine Travels. :)

    • @Poker-is8dt
      @Poker-is8dt 3 года назад

      The old saying goes friends to lovers is possible, lovers to friends impossible

  • @PrimusMagus
    @PrimusMagus 3 года назад +22

    I understand... but remember that it's really hard to find someone as compatible as you two are in so many other ways. Best of luck to you both.

    • @pjgfountaine7690
      @pjgfountaine7690 3 года назад +3

      i was shocked. the two of themseemed to have such a connection and got along so well, i was beginning to really think these guys were so well matched. but it is better to find out the irreconcilable differences BEFORE children came into the relationship.

  • @triplegg5354
    @triplegg5354 3 года назад +77

    The sadness in the eyes and the maturity in life priceless.

    • @voodooprincess11
      @voodooprincess11 3 года назад +7

      Eh, I think the maturity is one sided.

    • @triplegg5354
      @triplegg5354 3 года назад +3

      We really can’t judge that, it takes a lot to move forward, we can’t be on their business just appreciate the fact is a awesome channel with very good down to earth people that’s all, who can straight up review a location and say their own opinions without trying to make you hear what you wanna hear that’s what makes this a good channel reality.

  • @lalocorzoaquino7630
    @lalocorzoaquino7630 3 года назад +21

    Los comencé a seguir desde que tenían como 130 suscriptores y siempre les deseé mucho éxito hoy con 250k mucho éxito ahora a cada uno por separado

  • @kathleennolan5888
    @kathleennolan5888 3 года назад +23

    You guys are a class act. My heart goes out to you both AND I’m inspired by the grace and maturity you have show here. I look forward to seeing your takes on life in Mexico as you move and grow from your time together.

    • @thor9563
      @thor9563 3 года назад

      Well said, me too.

  • @lynnelent1008
    @lynnelent1008 3 года назад +35

    I'm sorry that you've had to make such a difficult decision about your relationship. You've given many people some wonderful insights about travel and living in Mexico. I think back to some of the videos fairly often.
    I wish you the best and hope to see what new directions you take with Tangerine Travels.

  • @ty9884
    @ty9884 3 года назад +33

    You're still finishing each other's sentences. Good sign. Best to both in the future.

  • @Yolduranduran
    @Yolduranduran 3 года назад +34

    That is so good that you two discussed being parents seriously. I see so many people having kids and then not really wanting the responsibility and being bad parents. Children are people don't treat them like pets, they have feelings and are majorly affected by their parents. Good for you.

    • @AFuller2020
      @AFuller2020 2 года назад +2

      Well she has the full back tattoo, which means she's really into...wait for it....garnishing attention for .....herself.... He should find a girl who can make a pie crust and sew, better life ahead.

    • @ithaca4201
      @ithaca4201 2 года назад +1

      @@AFuller2020 lol, ok grandpa

    • @petep5207
      @petep5207 2 года назад

      @@ithaca4201 He is right, and was proven right. Jordan did WAYYYYY better. Not sit down and STFU.

  • @Chiisainyo
    @Chiisainyo 3 года назад +54

    I'm sorry for you guys. Breakups are already hard enough on their own, being in the public eye does not make it any easier. I'm glad that you had a healthy breakup despite the circumstances. This is a really mature way to face it from both of you. Take time to heal if you need it, take a breather. Make videos apart if you need or want some more room for a while or permanently. Do what's best for both of you. My best wishes to both of you. I hope each one will find the individual path that'll lead you to happines.

  • @laurayale369
    @laurayale369 3 года назад +19

    Maddie, I married an older man who already had grown children and that solved my no children problem! We were together for 40 years. He just died in January and now I am on a new chapter which I think will include a trip to Q'ro.

  • @nicholasmusial5213
    @nicholasmusial5213 3 года назад +14

    Honestly, I’m super proud of you guys. It can’t be an easy trail to blaze, but you guys are both great, and are clearly handling this as maturely as possible. Looking forward to continued great travel content from you both. Take care!

  • @Flickit100
    @Flickit100 Год назад +3

    Wow, the fact that you can both sit down together and analyze what happened without arguments is amazing.

  • @rosevillanueva2067
    @rosevillanueva2067 3 года назад +34

    While I will miss you as a couple, I wholeheartedly understand that your roads won’t travel together forever. Still you remain good friends and your hearts will mend after being truthful with yourselves. Life gets as good as you make it. Best of luck in your future endeavors. I’ll remain a subscriber.

  • @timlove1
    @timlove1 3 года назад +21

    Something to consider: We’re your fans. We love your videos. That I’ve seen, none of your videos has displayed any romantic elements of your relationship. Your videos play exactly the same as a friendship. I strongly believe this can still work as long as you BOTH want it to.
    I look forward to more of your work, but only if you’re up to it. We love you both. Best wishes and happiness to you both!

  • @rickgreene713
    @rickgreene713 3 года назад +36

    Relationships, even strong ones always get to a point where they rise to the next level, like marriage and kids, or fizzle out. It sounds as though you've made the healthy choice based on each of your individual wants going forward. Good luck to you both.

  • @lilkatielady
    @lilkatielady 2 года назад +5

    Thank you for posting this. I am 37 years young and my boyfriend is 30. I have not, do not, and there's a good chance I will not have a desire to have children. My boyfriend has some genes in his family that he would rather not pass on but he seems like he is more open to adopting in the far future than me. I just can't picture myself at 45 years old adopting a child. This issue is an elephant that isn't really in the room because it doesn't get brought up a lot but maybe in the attic.

  • @philexile0
    @philexile0 3 года назад +45

    I'm sticking with TT regardless. Looking forward to future adventures in whatever form they take!

  • @Shazzyhtown
    @Shazzyhtown 3 года назад +45

    Sorry for this break up, but I'm glad your friendship still carries on. I'm not unsubscribing from you guys😉
    I think recording separately would work. And you can be in two different areas. This may add more variety to the videos. We Tangereneys love you both unconditionally. We're not going anywhere!!! 🤗😎

  • @goulash64
    @goulash64 3 года назад +45

    oh my god. I'm so sad, you guys are so cute together. I'm hoping that maybe you will work it out in the future. Good luck to you both.

  • @ehartsoe
    @ehartsoe 2 года назад +4

    We are getting the partial story

  • @gloriaurzuavillasenor22
    @gloriaurzuavillasenor22 3 года назад +7

    I am devastated!. Please continue making videos, either individually or together. Do not leave Mexico guys, I LOVE YOU!