ADHD and Anti-Social Personality Disorder: Minimizing the Risks
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- Опубликовано: 27 окт 2013
- In this interview conducted at the NYU Langone Child Study Center on Feb. 24, 2012, Rachel Klein, Ph.D., talks about one of the findings of a first-of-its-kind research study, which followed children diagnosed with ADHD into adulthood. While a majority of the children went on to successful adult lives, around 20 percent developed something called Anti-Social Personality Disorder, which is strongly associated with negative outcomes in adulthood, including substance abuse and criminality. Dr. Klein talks about warning signs that begin during the teen years, and what parents can do to minimize the risks.
Dr. Klein is the Fascitelli Family Professor of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry, and the Director of the Anita Saltz Institute for Anxiety and Mood Disorders at the NYU Langone Child Study Center and Department of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry, NYU Langone Medical Center.
Learn more about NYU Langone's Child Study Center: www.nyulangone.org/locations/c...
My brother has an ASPD diagnosis, he’s almost 30 now, catching up to me.
But I just wanted to throw in something positive and say.. I’ve always loved him and I still do.
It’s a disorder, I see it like any other. It’s how he is and how he’s going to be so I’m ready to accept that, always.
vice2vursa
hey, I used to post comments like yours all over the place. Don’t do that, that’s bad energy that you carry everywhere and you think nobody realizes but in reality everybody notices. Just some advice, tryna help you. Take care.
@@SpartanChalo13 I just hate sociopaths and all cluster b personality disordered people with a passion. I don't think they deserve to live in a civilized society. only kind hearted people deserve it. me showing sympathy towards people like that in the past only got me burned in the end so now I just want to see them all dead. Telling someone I think their brother should be killed in such a manner is definitely going too far though..
vice2vursa dude I have NPD and I self diagnosed myself a sociopath (Lol). So I definitely see where you’re coming from. I wish all humans were perfect dude but that’s not gonna happen.
vice2vursa People with this disorder don't live happy lives. Calm down bucko, you let a cluster B turn you into a Psychopath
Indiiigod666 Either I was victim of a sociopath or I am the sociopath. I’m a mess right now because of these pieces of shit.
My dad has ASPD. He used to shoot his neighbours with special guns filled with wood, tie explosives to dogs and lots of horrible things. Whenever he talked about he was laughing and seemingly proud of it. He was beating me until I was 5 and when I started going to school he stopped but kept on hurting me physically just enough to not give me bruises in visible places. He’d also throw things, yell, kick the dog, slam things and break things too. When I was crying he was just going harder. Growing up he stopped beating me noticing I was growing smarter and able to tell someone about it so he simply started being abusive verbally (arguments every day with my mother at the dinning table, finding anything wrong or slightly badly made as an excuse to scream and be rude). It’s been months that my mom and I ran away with my sister and my mother announced that she quit him. He’s been showing up at my sister’s job and forcing her to go take a coffee with him and eventually I got arrested due to a fight with my mother so the only choices I had was “go live with your dad or go in another family”. They called my dad but I got back to live with my mother. Now he knows where we live and he often shows up to give us gifts to get us back. He also asked me lots of times to go back to him and lied about having a new girlfriend and financial support. He actually wants to use me to not pay the child support to my mom. His whole life revolves around him and he likes being a coward to others. He loses his job because of his character and I’m glad that this will soon be over. Please do not get involved with ASPD people because you find them “different” and “interesting”.
This girl understand people like me who have all this. Don’t get me wrong some do enjoy hurting others but most do only get enjoyment out of hurting others if it’s a revenge thing at least for me. Like if I was to be an asshole to someone for no reason I’d feel really bad, but if someone was an asshole to me or did something really mean I enjoy making their life a living hell as bad as that sounds.
I am borderline, I have sympathy. But I have the other part of me that is 100% a sociopath. I would love to talk to someone. But I disagree about its all bad. I think this "side" makes me better. Or people better to certain extents
The mad patato care to elaborate on that?
I’m having trouble myself. I thought I was safe from this kind of thing; and I let my guard down in the process. Eventually, I came up with the theory that instead of admitting to my dark deeds, I instead created the illusion that I cared for others through my ability to feel empathy. I do get aggressive and tend to stray from a “good” trend once in a while; however, it always leads to me questioning my morals as a person; and whether or not what I’m doing is logical.
@@harlenpierre7453 I'm an incel and my first girlfriend had borderline personality disorder. I now want to kill her and use her as a sex slave but im not a ciminal so I decided to to just beat the fuck out of her. people with cluster b personalities don't deserve empathy, they deserve to be used for human experiments. if only other people acknowledged the dangers these people possess, they'd kill them to in order to preserve a civilized society.
vice2vursa wtf !!
@@swanklabrecords3122 Bro I said the same shit when I reread my comment after 5 months. lol I was like, WTF I really said that shit lol.
I was diagnosed by one therapist, who was also a nurse practitioner, that based on what I told her, no friends, no feelings, no regrets (lately), and difficult interpersonal relationships, and harming animals, that I likely have anti-social personality disorder..
But I just don't know, a few roommates thought I had more autistic/ Asperger behaviors and symptoms, plus I do cry. I get upset about things, I have emotions. My mother has stage IV cancer which she was diagnosed with about 2 months ago, and I cried at the hospital, I cried on the way there. I cried a few days ago when I hugged my Dad, and so did he. I don't seem to "manipulate" people, I have a charming personality, but that's just a facade since I don't want to be some weird quiet guy with people I work with. I try to get to know people, and sure I can't always relate, but I honestly think this is related to Autism. I also have a very hard time communicating, socializing and picking up on social cues, I have no idea how to talk to most people so I'll often ask questions or sometimes I do talk about myself too much- without realizing how bored the other person is.
I tried to explain this in a mental hospital months ago, but they didn't see it that way. They said they didn't see any Autism behaviors, or symptoms, even though I was telling them I was depressed, anxious, and severely damaged from some things that happened when I was a child. I have trouble with the opposite sex, I drive the speed limit, I've gotten in one wreck in my life and it was after being in a bad place mentally, and lack of sleep. I pay my bills on time (I have two credit card lines), no one helps me out with them and I don't demand money from anyone. I also don't blame my parents (this goes back and forth sometimes) for how I came out as an adult. I was however diagnosed with ADD when I was a kid so who knows. Maybe someone with ASPD can let me know if I sound like I have a personality disorder or not. I do tend to avoid people, its just a trust thing. I also don't really know how to interact properly with people or how to make friends properly. I'm 31.
I am no expert but U have anti social personality disorder; u don’t have autism; one of my close family member have same symptoms as u describe here; I lived with that family member for years(can’t tell who is that )
It’s genetic or some time how did u grow up (childhood- major part) which gets u ASPD;
Therapy is the best way to treat this or some coach can help;
Even it’s uncomfortable at-least do one thing everyday which can make u proud about ur self like learning new instrument or learning anything new. My family helped this family member by boosting her self confidence, telling her everyday that she is perfectly normal, do meditation, read books, make new friends, get use to it, best is make a new long term goal of life, everyday work toward that goal, go to park, amaze ur self with achieving something, again I am no expert but I have live with this kind of person : they are overachiever and if they fail in life or lost someone or getics also play major role they get this symptoms and get the ASPD. But it’s perfectly curable by therapist and self help( meditation, exercise)..
good luck
it might sound silly but try deep breathing(yoga exercise) every morning for 5 minutes in nature or in quit room , try this 21 day
U will feel calm after second or third day and u will find ur self relax around people and u will find ur self more social then ever becoz :
In Deep breathing ;
More oxygen in stomach = less anxiety, less stress, release of dopamine in brain , feeling of happiness in everyday life
I feel the same way dude is interesting?
i was diagnosed with add but I have trouble understanding grammar i might dyslexia
let me ask you this do you think talking to people is waste of your time?
@@Blue-tj1hh I feel like talking to people is a waste of time
Can absolutely relate to every single thing you have shared. I also believe I am more ASD but maybe it's a bit of both?
This is a something common in most American law enforcement officers.
Darren Spohn no bs
_@OP_ No. Don’t spread misinformation.
Im always shy and quiet,i used to have a cat that was 18 years old..i talked to him and i felt like he was understanding me...now he died 1 year ago and im alone since i have no friends and my parents are always busy
stay strong✌🏻
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Does anybody have experience with having Sociopathy and ADHD? If yes, can you elaborate more on how medication for ADHD may have contributed in any positive ways like connectedness, responsibility, improved empathy etc? Appreciate for your time
No professional, but I knew a guy in HS who seemed to fit this description and had an ADHD diagnoses myself that briefly seemed to go down that road.
You could probably infer the answer from this video, which is (imo) "sort of". The lack of empathy (in actuality, they'll probably have plenty of socially useless empathy) is not primary but a defensive response to a difficult situation. People devalue standards they struggle to live up to. If medication makes it more manageable, they have less incentive to devalue those standards, *however,* a lifetime of defense mechanisms don't go away the moment their usefulness is over. They still need to relearn all the mental strategies others learn but they neglected because they wouldn't have worked for them at the time. This can be very difficult for a person to do after a certain age, and the difficulty is only compounded if they have a whole bunch of new stressors (like a criminal record) making those new strategies unprofitable.
Here my dude i take vyvanse 70mg and dextroamphetamine 5mg and trintillex 10mg to control adhd and aspd violebt tendecies caused by excessive trauma which left me extremely violent and dangerous. I committed lots of atrocious things as a child without remorse, sympathy, empathy, etc. Im extremely charming and charismatic and be able to get my way all the time and get away from trouble. I had problems with the police and been able to get away with it. They always left with this kid is just being a kid. Long story short, I'm 21 and I'm less worst than I was back then. I had help from psychotherapy, behavioral therapy, etc. Dont get me wrong I still get the urges to manipulate when things don't go my way and when there are things that I desire.
I find I'm scared of myself and when input myself in social situations and someone were to piss me off I would spend the night thinking how to get revenge and thoughts of murder i thought this was normal
Antisocial personality disorder does not mean you’re an introvert or shy or avoid certain social situations
@@littletreasure7709 can you read?
@@EggBenis yes I can actually you divvy.
Im a 34 year old psychopath, but i manage to stop being a lyer and now im way brutally honest where i just say what in my mind regardless if i end up hurting someone's feelings. I lack empathy, I can't be in a relationship because I can't stand being nice or a gentleman unless im lucky enough to meet a psychopath chick like me. Yes i am shallow af when come to having a relationship. I feel fake if i try to be nice and i feel better if just be myself which is being obnoxious, make mean jokes and be full of myself. Is that call being a narcissist? Oh man im screwed cause i always felt left out from society but then again i always wish that one day i wake up and every humans disappear except for me and all the shopping mall are still open. Man that would be nice....
Yes it is psychopaths are highly narcissistic but you should still go to a doctor and get it done so you don't worry while there's nothing to worry about
Is it possible for psychopaths to feel emotions?
Nah they just kidding or try something for manipulate u. Because i am the sociopath and i know how that feels but my family trained me good, like a dexter. I transformed to this form accidently, by that shits. How the people is thinking the robots feeling human things ? This looks like stupidly. This demons looks like a zombies. Anything cannot fix this ones. Just this bad psychopaths deserves die and go to hell. Or somebody comes and gives what is the justice. Like a jigsaw...
I have ADHD so this video caught my eye
Sasame
I do to, but I hate all sociopaths and I want them all dead.
vice2vursa that’s kind of a sociopathic thing to say dumbass.
@@vice2versa you realise it's still a mental illness right? It's not anyone's fault. What you said is disgusting.
@@deadpaul6587 I used to think the same thing back then but reality quickly kicked some sense into me. Now i think society is too light on people with this condition. that condition is not worthy of any empathy.
showing any empathy or sympathy towards people like that only opens you up to be taken advantage of. they will see your kindness or care as weakness. they can't help themselves, its just how they are wired. they are not going to see things from your point of view or lens. they have an entirely different outlook on the world and will size you up for whatever weaknesses they can find and try to play on that.
The sociopathic brain lives in a constant state of survival mode. in survival mode, the brain is numb to the suffering of others completely shielding them of any emotional attachment allowing them to see others as objects.
You are much safer viewing them with indifference or coldness. The honest sociopaths you see that get interviewed will also agree with me on that one. Save your kindness and empathy for those that truly deserve it. caring about sociopaths is wasted energy. they should be treated with disdain and contempt and should not be allowed rights.
I have adhd I really dodged a bullet not having this one
This woman in this video is so fascinating in her body language.
She's externalizing her fear of having this disorder herself.
I know more about these matters then Dr. Rachel Klein and Im not even a Dr.
sure u do hun
nice. ever heard of the dunning-kruger effect?
Dr. Klein is formally educated, compassionate and wise in how to gain acceptance and defines borders. I need her for my child. How you a make an appointment.
You right about everything else except hurting animals
I can see the link. However would it be undiagnosed ADHD? Because perhaps treatment on medication can create a pause and awareness that may develop instead of thinking thy are out of control and resorting to other means to get what they want or need?
You're saying i need to compartmentalize scenes of experiences of me or other people to put into comsideration of actions in effect with consequences... so hard, like a clit. I'll do it.
Intergenerational trauma
Complex traumatic stress disorder
Possibly developmental trauma disorder because i was 3 and dropped a couple times by what mom admitted to the other week. Bless her soul lol
I’m a 55-year-old man and I’ve suffered with this my entire life. I’ve been arrested several times, and in jail. My neighbors hate me on both sides. I’ve been in fights so many times I can’t count I broken fingers on my hand from punching I had so many fights. Both of my hands are bandaged. This disorder slowly kills a person I have a feeling that I’m not going to live a full life.
I love and accept you. We're fucking angry. We've been misunderstood and the opportunity to validate our vulnerability in sharing that feeling has been swept under the rug because other people can't deal with the complexity of our issues. Here if you want to reach out.
At 4:39 she say when you no longer have "ADHD" ? Why do some people think it just goes away and you don't have it well into adulthood? I'm 38 and still suffer from it if not on proper medication. My mother is 69 and still suffers from it. Is this doctor stating that if you are in treatment you don't show symptoms of ADHD? Or that you just outgrow the disorder itself?
sometimes it outgrows itself. my friend used to have it but she kinda cured herself
Not all cases are the same.
It's very controversial. I suppose with some people, brain structure changes over time. There have been cases of someone being diagnosed as autistic as a child, but with the brain structure changes that happen during puberty and into the mid 20s, they no longer meet the diagnostic criteria for autism. Perhaps it is the same with some people who have ADHD.
I’m a 13 year old and I like uh am not very kind to my pets, I sort of like being mean to people who mess with me and I uh, stab boxes? Everyone is saying she’s wrong can someone help me? I want to know if something is wrong or if this is kind of common
If you are being serious then know nothing is "wrong" with you, you are just different and your brain is wired differently. Ask yourself why you do what you do and consider changing those actions if it hurts yourself or others. While retaliation is a natural response to being wronged, why not desire to be better than your anger or violence?
It may be helpful to find a hobby or exercise whenever you feel upset and want to lash out violently.
Best of luck, life gets better after you turn 18 and can live by yourself!
When searching for information on the internet, it's always best to check multiple sources. Personally I don't agree with most of what this woman is saying, but I am not a professional. Make sure to watch more videos/read more articles, and use all the information you have obtained to form a more balanced opinion. However, makes sure not to listen to people who say that someone like you is a monster or a psychopath or that you should be killed. I can guarantee you they are wrong. You have every right to exist no matter what your behaviour says about you. If you're not harming anyone, you shouldn't be harmed.
deadpaul ok then :) I have actually come to the conclusion that I am just hyperactive and all of those thing weren’t me lashing out it was me releasing energy. I have gotten better at controlling it. Thank you
*I don't talk to much, I am a anti-social.*
Chicomatsu Slicous create a group.. ill join . I am also an anti-social
anti social develops when we sacrifice ourselves and then we r empty so we withdraw due to lack of interest and outcome..
@@isseisharma9418 can you explain this idea deeper? Do you think we can find ourselves back and feel complete and make connection with the world again?
@@trappart9209 yh ..we can feel complete and whole by doing , feeling what is good for us , going for our dreams and connect with others and slowly , our behaviour will change completely...sorry i dint go deeper in it. ..but ultimately , our dreams should be followed ,
u can watch john gray phd podcasts , bulletproof podcasts too..
I am having trouble with a 50 year old man in town who is determined to pick a fight with me I live in a small town in Nebraska and one day I was in one of the stores there and I noticed a man walking in a little later he had a funny look in his eye as he looked at me I soon got out of the store and walked to another store and as I was walking in his girl friend said something about the rain and he looked at me and said "yeah it makes me want to slap the shit out of someone" the following year I saw him staring at me and went into a ally to avoid him he pulled his van into the alley got out and said in a confrontational way "is there something I can help you with"?
I did not say anything later I found out his name was William Joe Quinn a registered sex offender drug pusher and pimp
this person has been in and out of prison all his life he also tried to start a fight with my friend when he was in a bar a while ago.
Recently I was riding my bike down his street and he yelled out something I went back to see who had said it and it was him he later ran out of his house to the the street where I was I just stood there he told me that he didnt like me and that
I was wrong for his small town(im from Philadelphia) and he was angry because 3 years ago he was belligerent but made no attempt to take a swing at me but threatened me that if I went down his street again he would do something about it I notified the authorities .Question is ,is this a typical sociopath ? and how do you deal with anti social personality disorders like this?
Stop being a pussy and fight back. He's picking on you because you're acting like a bitch. Defend yourself and stop letting him bully you. You're grown not a child. Fear no man but god!
She has a face that would be a money maker in any kind of field that requires intimidation.
Be nice ho
@@MachineGunBambi thats not really a mean thing to say
The way you say it isn't always right iv done alot and sum I didn't want to bit the erge sometimes takes over but I wouldn't torture no animals that's weird
Same here
If he calls the ambulance...
Good that you said it's no good for you because it is the only reason one wants to change. Then one will care about others, hopefully.
My ASPD kills me I can't speak to anyone im going to run away and don't look at the face of the person I speak with
i literally lack in empathy, i only care about myself, i’m aggressive and all think i’m a sociopath cuz i’ve had trauma in my life and i still bring it up
but i know aspd has way more than those symptoms
and i steal money from my parents but i don’t care like i don’t feel bad
@@brigetteadame8291. omg
Tilden Gold lol ik oh well
everyone i meet says i’m a sociopath so i wanted to see for myself and it’s funny that they think that way of me
the thing is society works on a pattern..and all of it is connected its both good and evil combined but in a pattern ..and once we start to analize or dissociate and see it becomes schizophrenia or dissociative disorders ...
What is the cause?
There both accually caused by abuse or neglect conduct disorder is caused by childhood trauma even more often than it causes ADHD they say that ADHD isn't caused by trauma I don't care what that research says it's bs trauma can sometimes cause any disorder to happen and at least 80percent of all conduct disorder suffers have been victims of some sort of childhood trauma and you may see them as bad people or pychopaths but I see the as suffering and in so much emotional pain that they can no longer feel because they been hurt way to many times I see a life time of hurt and pain
ADHD is actually a lack of dopamine receptors in the brain. It is something your born with. People with ADHD like myself tend to get into trouble simply for the dopamine high. I have done a lot of stupid shit cus I was bored. ADHD is also often paired with other disorders and mental issues like anxiety, depression, and BPD. It’s not something you get from trama but from my personal experiences I have it really takes a tool on your mental health because of people’s lack of understanding. I have been called lazy, slacker, annoying, useless, and a number of other things. Meds have helped but they don’t cure it which is something people get wrong all the time and always expect me to instantly not have any symptoms. The meds are an aid. You have to put in a lot of work and effort into functioning normally. It’s neurological, not something caused by trama. You just tend to get people who don’t understand.
It's much, much more complicated than that. ADHD is caused by genetics. It's inherited. That's why it is so common in families. There's also Increasing evidence of how ADHD, autism, bi polar and schizophrenia are caused by the same genetic roots - if you have one you're much more likely to have one of the others too. There's also some discussion about how trauma can magnify ADHD and make it worse. Antisocial personality disorder is a broad concept, and in many people who have it it's probably a mixture of both genetics and upbringing. But in some people, the symptoms are broadly caused by genetics alone. It's known for example that antisocial personality disorder is much more common in people with Schizophrenia too.
I'm severely ADHD and I impulsively hug puppies... Sometimes I feel bad, like I'm intruding on their space, so I learned to resist the urge, to not overwhelm them with my affection... It is difficult sometimes..
Monster...
What a cruel monster
The real monsters are the these people in the comments showing no empathy to a person in struggle
Oh wow I had 3 people tell me daughter is a shit starter. I truly didn't believe them but yea now I see it. I even said at the time, I said I know your game. She looked at me calmly. Lol like well,she knows my bull! But she also said dont try to be my friend. Screw this i can't do this. I have ptsd,I love her unconditionally but is there a nice elite school that doesn't abuse that would take her for a while? I'm scared for my health. Abd life quite frankly!! I have told her .im on to ya, no more explanation thats it that I love her but refuse to be abused again.
2:34 "you may knife" and "you may cun" ? Is that what you said? I'm just trying to understand I'm don't mean to be rude.
My old psychiatrist put this diagnosis in my history after I fired her for not agreeing with me. I now wear it as a badge of honor.
thats so ironic lol
I’m so sad I am young I had it at 4th grade I started and still have it I can’t learn I can’t I can’t do anything and I’m so sad always and I don’t know why and I’m aggressive I am mean for no reason but I don’t like it i love animals 😢 I don’t bother it but sometimes I lplay tough and it sucks because I love my dog 🐕 I lie too but not meaning in a bad way I want it to go away 😔 i just want friends and family to love me and be smart so I don’t need so much help but I can’t do it 😕 I keep getting bullied and every time I get bullied I just want to hit them and stuff but is that normal 😣 how do I get rid of this adhd 😰
m e you don’t have anti social personality disorder because you are worried that you have it. Don’t worry you probably just have some anger issues and adhd. Psychopaths don’t feel sad
Amplified creations wrong again sociopaths can feel sadness but only when they want to psychopaths do not feel ANYTHING at all except for when there mad
Amplified creations this might be hard to believe because I know for a fact you are not a psychopath but psychopaths feel literally nothing except boredom and anger, psychopaths can not have clinical depression whatever site you got that information from is wrong and the fact that you felt even the littlest bit worried means you are not a psychopath if anything a psychopath would like being a psychopath not be worried.
Amplified creations also, shut the fuck up. I don’t care about your grammar bullshit the only reason your correcting me is because you know I’m right so gtfo
Amplified creations I’m going to start off by saying your a fucking idiot because you provided no “credible sources” all you did was say what you think which was wrong and then once you realized how much of an idiot you were by saying psychopaths can feel emotion (which is fucking stupid maybe you should learn basic psychology) you continue to correct my spelling. It isn’t me having an ego it is me being right, as soon as you can find me a website that says psychopaths can feel things (any website that says that is fucking autistic) then maybe I will consider thinking you might not be mentally retarded but otherwise I have better things to do then argue with a clueless person on the internet.
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I have dyslexia And high functional, autism I wouldn’t hurt fly
I’m getting married to a man that has a son with this exact disorder, however I have 2 babies and another on the way. His son has almost if not all the symptoms listed, he tends to be quite violent with both his peers and the babies, he once kicked the 2 year old and pushed a girl because she didn’t “do what he told her” now he’s the one getting bullied but I also heard he’s getting in trouble because he’s fighting back cursing. I fear for the babies and I fear that he’s quietly veiled a vengeful grudge towards us and I fear in the future if he doesn’t get the right type of help he will do something irrational. His fathers in denial and everyone that’s close to him agrees he’s in denial about his son. When I finally gave my fiancé an ultimatum for him to get his son some professional help the psychiatrist he sees every month prescribed the boy adderall which I feel is just brushing off the true situation. I know they don’t like the word “sociopath” but it’s better than being in denial prescribing a child something that probably won’t even help him. My question is.... is it normal to prescribe a child with this disorder adderall for ADHD? Will it even help? I just think ADHD stems from this disorder as do many things but it’s not right to just grab one of the branches (ADHD) and run with it. This child has been having numerous conduct disorders, he knows waay too much for his age, ONLY getting excited when he talks about death and violence, and now I’m about to marry into that involving my babies to this madness. Please help I don’t know what to do.
ADHD is a developmental disorder. It does not come from ASPD. Additionally, a child may have conduct disorder, but cannot be diagnosed with ASPD. Impulsivity, sensation-seeking, and even aggression are common in ADHD, and stimulant medications like adderall can help with all of them, and enable a patient to make healthier decisions.
its pretty simple lady, you need to get yourself out! If your partner cant prioritise you and your childrens wellbeing over his own child blindness then he isn't someone you should be with.
Sophia Rose Take a step back. Your fiance can't read your distress signals about his son.
It's my 13th birthday today and I'm feeling really antisocial lately. Whenever my parents say happy birthday I don't smile at all. I don't know why. I just stay in my room hoping they would just give me gifts. That's all I want. I want nothing else. I don't know what's wrong with me.
@Sebastian Radlmeier I'm not joking and I'm not trying to grab any attention here pls 🙁😣
I think you're mistaking ASPD with something else. From what I know (I'm no expert, but my psychology professor literally just taught us about this disorder today and I've tried to look into it before) these are the kind of people who love and find joy in hurting others for no reason. They feel no guilt, they're impulsive, they're compulsive liars, etc. I feel like you're just depressed, I would talk to someone, whether that'd be your school counselor, your parents, even friends. I'm not saying you have depression, but you may be feeling depressed, because you're 13. That's very normal.
Cringiest comment ever😂😂😂
My problem is, I do something really bad, like, I throw people out of my life, like my good friends, I just start ignoring them and completely despising them all of a sudden, and that doesn't happen only once, when I'm doing it, I feel no empathy about it and I really don't care, I just started yelling at them, but then when they leave me, that's when empathy starts to kick in, and what I did really bothers me every night. And when I was in elementary school, I was just a mess. I remembered when I simply got mad, I started yelling and hurting the kids from other class (and I don't even know them). It's just so embarrassing now. And when I get mad I hurt other people for it. I remembered when I tripped, I blamed my cousin(for doing absolutely nothing) and pushed her really hard multiple times. And back in elementary again, I did something really bad, I told the girl in my class to "go to hell"(but she was a bad person) so she told the teacher, so what I did was I cried to get myself out of trouble, and when I got out of trouble, I immediately stopped sobbing and I was pretty much satisfied. I did a lot of bad stuff before because when I'm currently doing it, I feel nothing about it, but now I look back to it, it was just embarrassing, but the thing is, sometimes I'm still like that, and I can't control it, but kind of different, before I yell about it, but now I talk normally but with kind of a threatening tone. I talked back to my grandma, and I felt nothing doing it(but the weird thing is, when I was talking, i was really harsh and threatening causing her to shut up, and she would usually still yell at me), but then after I talked I regretted it and I don't feel like I was in control. One time, when I was reporting in front of the whole class, the girl from my class started talking about me (I don't remember) and then I stared at her with a blank face, and it lasted for a while, I was like just glaring at her, and then I snapped back to my senses, and it was so embarrassing, the whole class saw me glare at her like that. I'm sorry for ranting, I just can't get this stuff off my head, I couldn't tell anyone because they might think I'm weird, am I? I really don't know. Actually, just don't mind my comment, forget about it, this comment is just me being weird, yeah bye.
@@aperson2697 sounds like you might have borderline personality disorder. you should go look that up and see if the symptoms fit your personality. if they do then definitely get checked out by a doctor so you can get an official diagnoses.
"What can parents do"
Well If I'm here for the reason that others are here for than I'm pretty sure we got in the situation because of our parents... Maybe that's just my anger though but what I would want my parents to do is step back and shut up. I'm also 19 and not a child. That might be important info.
I'm use to being weak
I’m tired of my life please help me
GNP 7Z117 same.
Don't be tired my friend.
Same
I have ADHD and anti personality disorder alot of what you said is true but then again sum of it is wrong and believe I have It bad
What is wrong?
i think i’m the 20%
Should kids with ADHD be punished in school for fighting?
Well technically yes, fighting is bad, whether the person has a disorder or not.
They shouldn't go to school, it's just plain torture.
yeah just bc they have a disorder doesnt mean they can just not get punished
No.not at all. Punitive punishements and rewards aren't effective at changing long term behaviors. Check out Ross Greene ..I think that's his name and his lives in the balance collaborative approach to high risk kids and teens. He wrote the book the explosive child and raising human beings. The basic premise is that kids do well if they CAN. So it becomes a skills deficits issue. Whereas schools typically believe children do well if they WANT to which is a motivational issue. The problem is that's mostly not true and is ineffective. Then the job is to find out what are the skills deficits are and too meet them. What are the real problems underlying the behaviour and how to solve them. I have worked closely with a trauma informed practice as a preschool teacher for 10 years and I have a teenage son with ADHD and bi. Polar. I have researched this alot and have alot more research to do.
She's using her MK ultra on all of us watching, look at the intensity in the eye contact. She's speaking slowly and using her body language like that of the Sea Witch in The Little Mermaid. It's Ursula! THOSE POOR UNFORTUNATE SOULS!!!
WTF are you tslking about???
this- i- ily bc u posted this comment right here
@@vice2versa talking*
@@lizabellmsp8325 go on google and look up the definition of the word "typo"
No respect for others only respect for me
Parents need to avoid dissmissive and any form of insecure attachment. We blame this on kids but do not look at parental abusive bahavior towards kids and use meaningless and vacuous DSM terminology.
Yah exactly it's nearly always caused by abuse in childhood what highly in egicated people
@@davidtichborne2912 educated* im sorry it got on my nerve's-
Do you take pharma money or have you taken it?
Alan Berkeley considering she is a psychiatrist yeah
I thought she would have done.
Well it shows a clear conflict of interest then.
I find weed helps alot
My son says the same thing and I believe him, but he has a hard time explaining how it helps. How does it help you?
@@taraoc1193 because it gives you happiness in everything you do same with CBD
Makes sense. My son will smoke everything he has in one day... that's his problem. I mean if he can afford it, do it but he won't work lol
I find it quote interesting that you are very expository against the problems that the child exemplifies. However, perhaps you , in term,s of rejection and expertise toward the Childs behavior. including curfew or relaxing limits.. However you must b e firm that th8is is unacceptable behavior or that this behavior needs consequent
My husband has it he’s extremely aggressive
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Antisocial personality disorder is not always a bad or good thing, I think there are world social norms that need to be challenged
I uses to think exactly like you but one day I embarrased myself so bad in front of my only friends I wanted to cry. For years I hated the world for not excepting my personality but I needed to change not everyone else. Every time people said hello I was so awkward that they would laugh, however I do not care for other peoples opinions. My friends laugh at me too but finally after years of laughing I had enough and decided I was wrong and needed to change.
Seems like that problem may be more to do with depression then anti social personality disorder
@@ShockCometComments ah I'm not depressed also depression isnt sadness it's no emotions at all. Society really misdiagnoses depression if you are sad all the time it isnt depression.
I believe every secound spent of your life has an emotion. depression to me means more of an internal struggle
@@ShockCometComments I'm pretty sure the medical diagnoses for depression is feeling so sad for so long that you forget happiness. Then at that point you truly have depression but feeling sad and struggling is part of human life. The media spreads propaganda and horrible toxicity to make us sad. But even the ancient Greeks knew suffering with the myth of pandora box. The media is spreading false information dont buy into suicide because people say its normalized.
I have empathy but I just don't care
You have absolutely no idea what you're talking about. Your folders, behind you, have about 2hrs reading contained within the bindings.
I can see what you're trying to do ; winding people up won't get you anywhere though.
ASPD is a wide spectrum of disorders and I don't find your patronising face very useful for any point on that particular scale.
@@deqa bitch what the fuck are u talking about. How would you know this person is mentally ill in the first place? Making assumptions when lacking the appropriate information is exactly what you blamed this person for doing, yet the first sentence in your statement is you doing the exact same thing. Jesus Christ dude. Get your shit straight
I also want to point out how race should have absolutely nothing to do with your assessment of someone's abilities/knowledge/intelligence. That's racism in its purest form.
I wouldn't trust anything you say.
It does have a spectrum and you can be high functioning or low functional
@@deadpaul6587 I never lacked any information. It's funny that you make comments on race and IQ when there are anthropological studies backing a lot of IQ differentiation among races. It's humorous that you're sperging out and writing a paragraph of non-sense just to make me look incorrect though, as if the original commenter isn't a mentally ill sperg like you.
www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S016028960200137X
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Bell_Curve
@@deqa how can you say that. You say you don't lack any information, but there is literally no way for you to know the original commenters mental state, or mine. I'm not the one talking nonsense here. You're delusional
@@deadpaul6587 Damn you're a child nigga. You're a narcissist, correct?
My daughter said to me today as I was listening and watching music videos with her today of some Kpop and she said "mommy, are you one of those type of people that feels chills with music?" (Which later I found out was fake lol wtaf)
And I said ,"oh my god you feel that too with music?" She said yea and hugged me and I felt so connected because I felt ive taught her good phenomenal 7s 80s n 90s music, pop culture, fashion and music is especially important to me and she knows that but its so weird later she said, "I'm listening to rhis kpop my whole life" and I said yea sure lol and she got major attitude which quite frankly I'm soooo over. And she said I'm serious and I said what! After everything I've taught you about music????? Tf. I said you don't have to like it but at least respect it. And she just stared and mind you 5 minutes before I was in a shower and my hair was coming out in strings. I'm so devastated so I go to her she doesn't look at me but says" Itll be ok." Then after 15 more minutes of stress hair coming out she pulls the fucking bullshit about the music and liie I sajd we are dancers in this family and we love music and art but she sort of maliciously and creepily looks at me and says I was actually joking. Fuck you kid I need a break. Shes doing stupid shit like thus thinking shes good at it and clever lol. I'm a very street-smart person and I know a sicko and this has got to be a nightmare. Its more than that. That was just today. I havr recently gotten fit and really hot trendy fun clothes are my thing and she's jealous? Ovee her mom?idk I want my kid back but I was afraid of this. I had 3 parents say she was problematic.
From what I see you are scared and it is not a good thing if you want to help your child. Maybe, ask for help of a mental health professional (not with your kid, just you and a professional)
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U r crazy my dear.
I don't understand this woman, is she on about socially awkward people or narsisist? I would be alarmed if I stood on an insect. She's upside down. Or probably need more one to one experience 🤔😔
Edit: ADHD I understand now! I'm not but I can't comment on it as I don't know anyone with it. I get the sense I'm autistic! But I don't know, I just know people find me unusual, distant and have emotional outbursts but I try to be alone because I know I'm misunderstood, I've been told.I go too deep, and hate silly talk and like to talk to one person at a time. I remember what people say one and one. I get baffled when I talk deeply with people and they can't remember. Maybe I feel a little bitter and retract from the world. Opening my mouth is like breaking down a wall for others to attack. I am honest in my own feelings, and it's nothing to do with the person but I speak it and they take it as an offence.
But then again is a diagnosis a box?
We all have different layers, maybe we all have our disorders? Maybe the majority who are successful have a disorder and we don't? Who can say what's normal or not?
Interesting question, now I wonder too. Take care!
Is it just me or is this lady creepy 😥😥😶😶😶
LIKE TO START FIGHT CLUB
If sociopath took Ritalin, Provigil or any ADHD drugs they might feel guilt and shame and not know it until the third to fifth time taking ADHD medication
why is that though???? and where did you hear that from.
i take it since 4 years... so what do you mean
I was judged by this kind of garbage thought i have a genius iq i guess im am not intelligent
So basically if someone masks well they won't get a dg 😁 Even if they were exhausted all the time for trying to mimic what neurotypicals do...
U never grow out of ADHD. Lol credibility gone
Cameron Castro I beg to differ
adhd is a genetic disorder, and can be treated with proper understanding of what the disorder is but for many people who actually have it, and weren’t misdiagnosed like most with “adhd” are, the disorder will never go away. i know because i have adhd and bipolar disorder and they both bring on a lot of pain, stress, and depression for me. i’m being treated for adhd at this time, but just like major depressive disorders, my adhd will never go away and i will always struggle a little harder than people without it, if there was a magic cure for adhd and bipolar disorder i would *gladly* take it but there isn’t. adhd is not a “child disorder” it is a seriously over diagnosed disorder that has a major impact on your life and social skills, so much that in some aspects it is indiscernible from autism spectrum disorder. ( sorry if this is long and unnecessary but this topic hits really close to home since i have been bullied and ridiculed by my peers for years for something that is very hard for me to control and change, i also have a control complex, that is getting better without as many toxic people in my life, but it’s made my anxiety worse and my depression as well, and my parents don’t believe that i’m depressed because “there were no depressed kids back in my day!” or “ you just need sunlight!” i’ve tried to explain but it always explodes and my parents just end up walking away thinking i’m just a selfish kid because i always “seem happy” and a lot of times i just want to stay in bed and never get up, that’s why i just want to drop that shield, but it’s frightening because i feel i’ll be attacked by the people i should be able to trust the most, living like this is in no way fun or permanently curable, my social understanding is weak at best and i can go feeling absolutely nothing for months or even up to a year. )
Cinderheart meow I’ll pray for you man I suffer from bipolar and ASPD aswell I have the exact same problems as you my family always thinks I’m fine and they don’t understand but I don’t remember the last time I was happy I just put on a fake smile just to fit in I hate my life but I stay here hoping for a change goodluck to u😓
Cinderheart meow not to mention I’m going prison soon aswell because I commit stupid crimes because of my mental health issues and you might be wondering why I’m telling you this but it’s because I have nobody in my life to talk to
Joker Lost i’ll pray as well for you, hope it gets better for u soon. 🌧 i don’t think our families will ever see past the first layer, or at least they don’t want to. best wishes ❤️
This lady has no idea what she is talking about I’m actually kind of offended
So you got dentition...
She has no clue what she's talking about LOL. Did she get her degree from a cereal box?
"Degree" from RUclips, it's quite helpful though
Bullshit. There are MANY adults that have all the signs of an antisocial personality disorder but who are described by their parents and other adults that interacted with them when they were children as "good kids".
Parents are the cause of this
Yes they are
no its the person being crazy its not like parents can stop u from being a person with aspd
100% wrong lady I have it this 100% and what your saying is the extreme version. Get your facts right, your info is wrong and to the extreme lady
Lol what?
This assessment is extremely outdated... please update and educate yourselves before trying to educate others...
Yes, treat monsters like monsters so normal people can live peacefully