At war with the world: Antisocial personality disorder
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- Опубликовано: 4 июл 2024
- Antisocial personality disorder is a disorder associated with hostility, impulsivity and deceitfulness. Associate professors Birgitte Thylstrup and Morten Hesse, Aarhus University, Center for Alcohol and Drug Research, discuss the clinical features of antisocial personality disorder, as well as how patients with the disorder view themselves, others, and the world.
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Wow, one of the first videos I've seen that doesn't dehumanize me and other antisocials completely. Good work.
I was literally just rediagonsed from BPD to APD, and.. I swear to god this fits me to a TEE.
3 years of therapy, and 6 different diagnosis.. I'm so fucking lost man.
@john burton I feel you man been thru so many drugs and overdoses I’m only 18
@@SplitPersonalityBPD Can you and others change?
@New so edgy
@New omg this is quite cynic :
I wish evryone who speaks like this to be confronted with consequent exploitation and the montrous toolkits of ASD ppl. The older thise are the more skillfull and hidden they act!
It is pure horror!
As someone who was diagnosed with ASPD at 18, I actually really appreciate this video. It’s very analytical and not the typical “sociopath=manipulative abuser”
I’m sorry, I know a guy who also has it and he refuses to talk to anyone about it. Do you know why that might happen, from your perspective? or maybe what to do... sorry if I’m asking too much
@@annaturquoise7114 from my knowledge, it may happen due to a mix of genetics or childhood trauma. depends on the person, but genetics do play a big role. as for what to do, therapy will help a lot. though, I know someone who has it and refuses to seek therapy because they don't find their diagnosis to be an issue, and they don't care if their actions negatively affects others.
@@shibaqwerty shit, you should probably get away from that person. they might be dangerous. thank you
@Ber Cor okay, so that would be regarded as a fear of introspection. because the part about realising your fault is very painful. at least that’s how I interpreted it. thank you
@Ber Cor No it’s okay it was still useful.
I’m ASPD. This video is wonderful and spot on. First thing I’ve seen where professionals explain it in a human way. This is something I can show family members who want to understand more.
Do u think aspd can be created or born. I feel like I am aspd but I don't think I was born with any specialties.
@@annly666 ASPD starts off as conduct disorder as a child. Between the age of 9-12 you would've starting feeling different. It hit me overnight.
Hold up there are some of us that attractive?
Having constant fun battles to mentally overpower eachother, be charismatic together and understanding the hate for everyone else? Sign me up, sounds like a fun relationship.
Shut up, you think you are better then anyone else? Having aspd makes you a disrespectful monster and not having a lack of empathy but rather a huge impulse, you serve no good to humanity. Can you just not?
@@hvehu9078 very funny
Note how the young woman questioned what “anti-social “ meant and the gentleman explained that it does not refer to withdrawn or introverted people. That is misunderstanding is more common than you may think. It represents a generational change in the meaning of words in a “language”.
Actually the word for that is asocial
Anti = against
A= without/not
Example:
[a-]pathy,sexual,moral, gnostic
[anti-] pathy,sexual,moral,gnostic
@@joeldixon3057 Exactly. It's a major pet peeve of mine. I have a lot of those.
Exactly
@@joeldixon3057 well explained
That's why psychopathy are not considered to be aspds. Because psychopaths are more introverted and prefer to be alone they are still antisocial but in a different way is not as obvious as someone with aspd u could say they are the smarter more superior aspds
Thank you SO much for this video. I was trying to learn more about antisocial personality disorder & all I ever see or hear is that they’re basically just heartless people that manipulate & hurt everyone in their path and can never change or improve upon their behavior. I know someone with ASPD & I was pretty scared when they told me & that was all that I could find anyone saying about the disorder. They’ve definitely done some very hurtful & manipulate things but I’ve also seen them do and say some genuinely really nice things & go out of their way to help people when they didn’t have to. They are human. And the way you explain it as seeing the world as out to get them makes sense in a way I never thought about before. It makes sense that when you’ve been through a certain amount of trauma & poor relationships you would see the world that way and not feel as much remorse for hurting others. I wish we had better treatment for the disorder but I’m sure we will with time.
Have a brother who has many traits of ASPD. It has been a joy, let me tell you. He isn't so much manipulative as he is reactive and confrontational. Disagreeing with him is tantamount to declaring war.
I believe in survival of the fittest people are cruel in many ways. I am antisocial and I've been that way all my life, I will be polite to someone who has been introduced to me, however if they show any disrespect toward me on another occasion they are automatically discarded and ghosted for life. I don't need people in my life, I've got me and I love my hobbies and I keep busy with what I love. I am proud to be who I am.
Absolutely 👌
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Do you mean you are diagnosed with Antisocial Personality Disorder? It sounds like you are using antisocial in the sense of introverted, which are very different terms. Being introverted is perfectly healthy
well said
Completely agree, and this is not a disorder but strength. We have to be like the weak people of Hollywood, who do everything for likes and approval from others.
I am a diagnosed ASPD. And these people were accurate. This apply totally. But there is a spectrum. And it is important to remember that even if we share ASPD, we have our own personalities.
You’re homicidal if you have ASPD. Homicidal ideations even if you don’t act in them. It’s more work to act it than to not
@@kariann3198 Why I'm I?
@@reapvkz1 that would be the spectrum, more or less homicidal or more or less introverted
@@kariann3198 Well, I'm not going to commit any homicide anytime soon. But if you say so.
@@kariann3198 🤦🤡
society creates antisocial when rejecting people that look or are different.
Everyone seems to push for fighting against mental health stigma, which is great. But when it comes to ASPD that goes out the window. Why? Nobody chose to have ASPD, and not all people with ASPD are outwardly mean or backstabbing
I have borderline personality disorder and today I was just talking about this. Because we have lessened empathy being borderline as well. I think that it is a form of narcissistic suppression that dominates what is societally acceptable to what people can and can't say or can and can't feel. Just because I want to laugh if somebody talks about a death or I don't care does not mean that I'm heartless. It means I simply don't have enough empathy to go around for more than my inner circle. And I shouldn't be expected to care because I don't and it's not my fault.
What I can control is not outwardly laughing about it or saying that to people that might hurt them.
My idea is that people don't like to hear that impulses don't define us but our decisions do. Because it means that they have to now be responsible for their own decisions instead of hating on those who never decided to be this way. Basically it's a way to scapegoat people who actually have a heart, but it's just not what everyone else is used to.
@@bonezbaaaby insightful comment, that was a nice read. I'm not sure what to say, I think you summed it up well
Yes they are. You don't get this diagnoses being a kind person. The symptoms speak for themselves. Also you are not responsible for the programming you pick up as a child. But as an adult you are 100% responsible for fixing it.
@@valaxius tl;Dr just get over your trauma/change your genetics.
Very insightful, thank you.
@@HonkTheMusic You are welcome! Sociopathy is treatable and some even get over it with enough treatment and age. Psychopathy on the other hand cannot be cured. But they can adapt to it. Hell even my psychopathic brother has mellowed out over the years.
This is really helpful for those who doesn't know what it means to have this disorder and I think this will put many people at ease with this disorder once most people know of this.
I've been looking at symptoms myself and can admit that i could relate to most of them before, and especially i can see myself that way when i was in 2nd and 3rd grade. I was really impulsive, lied and thought most people were my enemy. I am not diagnosed so i can of course not confirm it, but all I'm saying is that i can relate
Although I’m not officially diagnosed with aspd, but seeing many with a diagnosis in the comments section makes me feel like I can relate. Honestly, I can’t tell anyone about my inside thoughts (which I call my dark self). I honestly don’t have a deep sense of what I think is empathy. Sure I understand what it should feel like but I don’t have it in me to start crying, even if someone starts crying over a death of another. I can only fake these feelings just so I don’t seem cold to the person I’m talking to. But on the inside Im thinking “why are you being so emotional” or “I think this is over doing it now”. However i truly love my family, but only in my little circle of trusted people. I value loyalty above all. And that’s how I think about the people I truly love. Are they loyal to me and can I trust them? There’s so many reasons I think I have aspd but the only reason I don’t want to get it tested is because incase it could get me into more trouble. I know how the world would perceive me if they knew. Like it could affect judgment if I got into some kind of trouble in the future. Not that I’m hoping/ looking to commit any crimes or hurt anyone.
Also I don’t want to get therapy for it incase anyone suggests. I actually thrive of the fact that I don’t have these complicated emotions getting in the way of my life. I enjoy the fact that I feel so free a lot of the times. Just a little tiring when I have to pretend to care when I don’t. Other than that I feel pretty normal
@@GH-cn9bv I honestly wish I could be in your shoes. I have empathy, and honestly it prevents me from doing the things I have to actually do to get ahead. It just gets in the way and it useless in the world we live in. That's how I feel sometimes
I think we need to know much more about these people. Why isn't there more information out there on this?
Because the media wants their murder troops and humanizing us gets rid of that.
@@ytuser29834 True. I'm glad it's out in the open now. It's nice to know that someone might be on the spectrum, and not just labled a freak.
@@island661 Do you think having someone around who doesn't respect you or care about your well-being is desirable?
@@MrLogical79 do you think ASPD is worse than NPD? I’ve never met a person with ASPD but I knew a diagnosed narc, and the only strategy was to indeed get away
@@strnglhld I'd say ASPD is generally worse since people with that diagnosis are more likely to be physically/verbally aggressive compared to people with NPD. Both disorders are based on an antagonistic disposition towards others, but ASPD also has a disinhibited component, which means more angry outbursts and other impulsive, potentially dangerous behavior. The two disorders have many similarities though (e.g., lack of empathy, interpersonally exploitative), and it's not far-fetched for someone to be diagnosed with both. My point is, I would not get into any kind of relationship with someone who has traits of either.
This is spot on with my Father and sister. OMG my father has been telling me for years - survival of the fittest. It was a big bomb when I recently was told that my father was aspd
You were told "survival of the fittest" - if you don't mind me asking, was he hard on you, or did he have high expectations for you - did he try to prepare you in his eye for life?
@Dum Bassturd fr
@@Ridinfixinman You speak of her to tell you as if she's some of a test subject. Let her be and share without being asked to for interest.
This is really a spot on explanation I've ever seen on the internet. Thank you all.
Great vid. And thought provoking in that antisocial personality seems similar to a highly competitive person who is in perpetual power struggles with others. Also noteworthy that this feature of perceived conflict is also present in NPD and BPD.
Yes, all of the cluster B PD's entwine to a varying degree. Not only do the disorders themselves share many symptoms, the person with the disorder is very likely to have traits of one or several of the other cluster B personality disorders. NPD commonly with ASPD, HPD commonly with BPD.
hi bpd and aspd co morbid here
@@ROCdevelopments .and you can be diagnosed with more than one cluster B PD
APD has that 'mean edge' that is either rock-bottom empathy or even some sadism, energized when they accomplish goals while harming competitors (nd get away with it...)
That is why many corporate leaders are people with ASPD. Win, win more. No regrets. Sleep well. Most of us don't have the capacity to make decisions that might have negative effects on others without feeling guilt or remorse. Most people with ASPD see that as a weakness, and to an extent they are right - at least within the framework of corporate capitalism.
My next-door neighbor appears to suffer from the disorder. Each morning at 7 AM he starts his muscle car with an aftermarket exhaust system that sounds like a chopper taking off, rattling the windows of the neighborhood and waking people out of a sound sleep. When asked not to do this, he has declared war and has doubled down on the noise and the aggressive use of the vehicle. An impossible situation. There is no negotiating, only his side and the enemies.
@@BENNY-THE-DOG I called the cops with a noise complaint for four times. They came, talked to the guy and did not ticket him. I wrote an email to the mayor of the town and the chief of police that linked to a video of the daily start up and they came and ticketed the guy. He and his wife were out on the street screaming vulgarities for me to come out of the house because the cops told him who did it. Six weeks later, we were in court. Judge took the fine from $250 down to $100. The very next morning, the guy was starting his car louder than ever before. It had no impact whatsoever.
So most people in politics are at war and have control issues by the definition then. A country run by "anti social" people. There are just so many gray areas that are frustrating you know.
i thnk ppl in politics are other cluster Bs like narcsissists
@@1111111111202 yes ... They can be... But ones that debate always want control over the situation
Better reply after seeing the video again... I'm a person who has "given up" on others who have distanced me... But know there are others who love me dearly... It's not that clear cut... I have a good heart but also see things very quickly... "Charisma" is not always bad... I'm a dancer, a romantic, I value "true" connection. And if I'm talented that's hard to come by... So I'll end up isolated like a "James bond" even tho that's not my goal... It's just the authentic end
There seem to be a good amount of people in this comment section that have been ASPD diagnosed. I was just wondering if some of you could give pointers on how to love and reach the people that have this condition.
Unfortunately I don't think there's a set way. Universally it's all about support, but getting the balance right can be extremely difficult. If you give too much you'll get taken advantage of. I'm at the "older" stage described in this video. I'm a self aware sociopath, which is very hard to take, because when I was younger we were just described as arseholes. But getting someone to the self aware state is important, because then the behaviour becomes easier to catch early. Problem is, when I was younger there wasn't a human alive who could have told me. Be there, always, but make sure there are clear boundaries set that you stick to. If they are making you feel bad about yourself then explain this and withdraw with the firm notion of not returning until you're treated with more respect. They WILL come back, trust me, and it may happen again, but each time will be a lesson. I'm sorry to say, it takes time.
@@wilko871 thank you so much for sharing your experience, your input is greatly appreciated!
Do whatever the f** they want and you’ll have no problem. Always agree and always do what they want. If not… run
Get pepper spray when dating an ASPD a licensed gun if marrying one 😜
This is one of the only videos about it that doesnt make me feel a little awful inside
@🍉MelonCannons🍉 afraid? Lol
I have more than one family member who is a little like this. Believe me, you would'nt want to be them, no matter how successful they are, they're constantly angry. Any small gain made by being dishonest does'nt really get them ahead either. Impulsive and reckless spending make financial stability difficult, even with high income!
I'm exploring this concept (and others) as I am actively striving to better understand and resolve my many personal issues.
Concerning this topic, in this video the diagnosis generally seems to be defined as (in accordance with its name) being "anti," and from what I gather, the consensus is that this 'diagnosis' aligns with more of an ACTIVE/CONSCIOUS state or stance of opposition to social/cultural norms/qualifiers/traditions/values/etc. (please correct me if I'm wrong, I honestly prefer that scenario).
I'm interested in these details as (since being introduced to the term/concept) I identify AS anomie and as such, related diagnoses and designations (the good, the bad and esp. the aloof/unclassifiable) intrigue me.
I am one, living in a word of many that seemingly reject or are commonly offput by the mere notion of ANYTHING falling into the ("would/should be,") MAJOR "category" of "other".
For me, the "illusion" of safety was annihilated in utero and harboring a WEALTH of resistances is more the case than any "fixation" with control or some power struggle (again, I'm striving to understand rather than proclaiming anything; I acknowledge that my perspectives are warped, but sadly that fact doesn't make the feelings that accompany them any less real or palpable . . . At least not yet)
Also, I'd love to hear your impressions on assimilation and cultural variations (overall and in relation to this subject). Asking a lot, I know, but any feedback/input would be appreciated.
When I was distant from people it was because I needed immense healing. Humanity drove me up the wall and now that I found my true self I’ve identified myself as an empath 💙
Same!
lol...you're the exact opposite of a psychopath
@NALAYAK NO1 I am lol
@@thenextbigthing1393 yes and you know what I’ve learned too ? If evolved empaths don’t guard their boundaries then we too can turn into psychopaths
@@oya_the_goddess8854 I don't think so... buddy... either you're born psychopath or you never will be.... cause psychopaths have a different brain compared to most people
This was very informative!
So...the anti-social person sees the world and its people as superficial...while themselves as special? Is selfishness, fear, and lack of faith at the heart of it? They don't seem to expect much from themselves.
@EndofMusic really? i don't give a hell about what people think of me. therefore why would i be bothered by their insults. unless it affects my overall lifestyle i couldnt care less
@@fall7711 interesting. cause some aspd are fragile imo. they attack others and prey on their weakness making comments to shit on them or kicking them when theyre down. and when you push back, they dissapear on your as if you hurt them real bad.
@@1111111111202 it really depends on the person. as for me, i wouldnt start something stupid over a trivial thing. yes, there are ones like you said and those people wont end well in the long run. realistically, you cant always get away with starting trouble, talking from experience lol
@@fall7711 so .t question is, how do I get them to seek therapy. At least so that they stop hurting others and burning bridges constantly. Or else I can't have them in my life.
@@1111111111202 it'll be difficult to convince them at that point, since they have no regard for others or even themselves. some seek therapy when things have gotten truly serious. some go voluntarily because they finally recognize their destructive behavior and want enough of its consequences. best to avoid them perhaps. dont let it trick you.
Where can I actually see a video of someone with it that’s what I thought this would be
ruclips.net/video/SFsOnMhVd4U/видео.html
ruclips.net/video/J3TrhByi0MA/видео.html
Here is a good interview with a real person with ASPD: ruclips.net/video/bdPMUX8_8Ms/видео.html
These are the two RUclipsrs that I know of that have been diagnosed with ASPD
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ruclips.net/video/1Jv-gzKD7lQ/видео.html
Wait till I start making RUclips videos you'll see then!
Wow, this is such a special video! Good job done, bravo
Thank you all for an excellent analysis of this topic.👍🏻✌🏻☺️❤️
She asked such interesting questions!!!
Not all people with APD are criminals who take drugs - not helpful to frame the conversation this way
Agree!
They never said they were they said the opposite really they admitted their are varying degrees of ASPD and some people display more or less symptoms then others as well as to varying degrees, it's just happens that drug use and criminal activity are very common in people with ASPD
@@jamessmith-gf2vk Crime and drug abuse is more common than in people not having this disorder, but that doesn't mean most disordered people are criminal junkies.
These idiots, they always take something good and turn it into a disorder
Just got released from the State hospital aka for the criminally insane. I have PTSD and Anti personality disorder. Mine stem from child hood trauma . My father was a murderer, amongst other things and a coke head . My mother was a prostitute. I loved my mother . She just killed herself this year . Seeing murder repeatedly during my childhood amongst being shot at the age of 10 , I agree your either with me or against me . That phrase alone is very descriptive. Amongst other things horrendous. I'm incapable if disloyalty disrespect or half friends. And become very aggressive. People of similar situations become very deep intellectuals , in a hypervigilant state . And if feel attacked immediately, begin to assert their boundaries and feel offended and in danger. We are amongst the most loyal breeds alive . At the same time we tend to offend , without understanding doing so . This is just my experience. One of the better videos I've seen . Not exactly too a T
We are completely misunderstood and all automatically capable of murder. You just are a more logical rational thinker and avoid or block out emotions completely and it’s easy to do at the snap of a finger and remain in this state for hours or even days. You view the world outside of home as a a hostile environment and it doesn’t help when home is, or was, a hostile environment, so all you really know is hostility and there no other way to make it besides being unemotional. Living like this throughout childhood and into adulthood makes it hard to live any other way because this way of being had always worked in our favor and always does. This is also where the control thing comes in.
@@Shtotagdetotryot1 Yes I realized Life is not worth living .
I bet your mother was a lovely kind woman. Working girls are the most empathy driven people . Add some age, they are even more well balanced caring and pillars of strength. Salutes to your beautiful dear strong mother. And to you being brave an talking to us here.
@@gemmanaz20 Thank you ! That she was even if she had her own issues with life's unfortunate circumstances. Very caring woman. And her true untraumitized regular self . Her happiest times were making one's she Loved happy. I'll Always Love Her. Appreciate your kindness
ANKA.
Well said and well explained but unfortunately you do have the first part wrong, which is not unusual for people with initials AJS because it's been scientifically realised that you it hard to relate to people in full, when you state that you are completely misunderstood, you've obviously based that on your own vicinity IE your parents or rest of family or friends, but worldwide that is not the truth at all, there are many billions of people who understand and others who are finding out and trying to realise it day by day.
And using that phrase that we are all automatically capable of murder is totally irrelevant, it's as if you are saying that all people with antisocial personality disorder (as it's called, although by the fact that my psychologist I don't use disorders like that I just use descriptive singular words), are capable of that rather than anybody else and the fact that everybody is capable of murder - as you said - with that phrase you need to ask yourself what percentage of people do actually murder? it shouldn't be used at all.
And very last of all it is actually treatable, it's not a quick fix but it's most definitely with A very good therapist, preferably psychologist, so don't give up hope but you will only be fixed if you want to be....
Thank you for this ❤
I want to so bad to be normal with others but it just feels forced and I get irritable/frustrated. So I just sit on the sidelines and watch/listen how others interact. It's a constant struggle. I am wondering if a form of Schiz disorder is also present as I can not plan organize or get pleasure in any activities. No marriage or real relationship in past or plans for children and I am almost 39yo Male.
How does ASPD conflict with alters or how do I identify one of my alters who have ASPD, as I was diagnosed with multiple personality disorder along with ASPD a few years back...
My mental health team ain't to great where I live.
Wow, always said my mother saw me as the enemy and now I know why. She was good, had me under her thumb for a longgggg time. She tried to tear me down but I was resilient and I got out. Not everyone does and I hope they see the wolf in sheeps clothing like I did...
Yes, war with literally all conflict .Life is a battlefield. I would venture to say child abuse plays more than a little role here. I also speculate more people than less were abused as children..ost parents don't read books on child raising. Thank you for your hard work and Research// SJ Scott Abuse survivor
Yes, I can relate.
My son has it and was not abused. I know many have experienced this, but not all.
@@justthatgirl-ct4jo switched school a couple of times can trigger it too. some kind of traumatic experience.
@@jackcarpenters3759 We moved a lot. I think you are right. That has crossed my mind.
@@justthatgirl-ct4jo yep. they keep losing friends, and start to become resentful. i hope you can talk about it with your son. he has the right for friends. personality disorders aren't necessaraly chronic.
Wait till you see a real abusing psychopath and sociopath. They are abusive, spies, stalkers, hackers, harassers. Violates anyone’s rights and ignores right and wrong. They have no remorse and don’t care if they hurt people
Yeah ok….. I guess you’ve met every single person with this condition and already know how all of their lives will turn out…. Kindly buzz off
I think some people have issues no doubt but I think this is just a way to categorize cultural differences in different perspectives of individuals that have had different experiences throughout life.
@ 7:44 why?
interesting vid.. i did think antisocial as withdrawn passive aggressive critical rather than active aggressive bully controlling
One of the last disorders that it's ok to demonize
Can you please do one of these on Borderline personality disorder?
I'm a new visiting student at Aarhus University. Can I meet a psychologist or therapist for counseling at the campus? Any older students or employees can tell me please! Tak!
My partner has Conduct disorder and ASPD and has hurt my kitten, hes currently in prison and i honestly right now dont ever want to speak to him but part of me that loves him like my family also sees hope in him if he's not ditched to make the same mistakes or hurt someone else without the chance to change. I want him to do a program when he gets out of prison and confidence in myself to not let him manipulate me. But i think for my kittens safety I mightnt be able to support him.
he sounds like a very low-functioning person with ASPD, he's manipulative and dangerous, if he ever comes back to you, *run*.
And this is coming from a high-functioning person with ASPD.
Walk away. You will not win if you go back to him I promise you that
Update: I chose the safety of my kitten Sammy. I am staying in a women's refuge and have went no contact.
I have ASPD and you’re doing the right thing.
Also a cat owner - good for you. Good luck and stay strong.
Thank-you for this ongoing support- my kitten Sammy turned 1 a few weeks ago and is happy, healthy and beautiful. It's been 7 months and life is better.
Sometimes I think I might be sociopathic, but I also could be very wrong here. I am 20, I'm female and live at my parents home, only have online friends and currently no Job. So I have noticed that I can be very cold/distant, I basically put a wall around me and can be direct in disscussion and not care at all about the other Person. Its like my mind goes blank and this side of me comes out and hurts the person without me Intending it at all. But in that moment I dont feel and mostly dont care. I also never really regreted what I did, sometimes yes but I never really felt 'terrible'.
@Charlene why don't you get into therapy? Cognitive empathy can be learned and you don't have to be a recluse. 🌹🌹
YOU JUST DESCRIBED ME LOL
@@AliciaM5555 you know, sometimes I think empathy is a curse.
@@AliciaM5555 I wish I didn't have it.
@@Bixnood69please stay away from kids
is there any connection between antisocial and aspergers? or they can be co-morbidities
Co-morbidities
Co Morbides.
Aspergers and Autism are more iusses about a person' ability to read social cues and over sensitivity towards outside inputs.
ASPD have normal social cue detection, bit they lack alot or all emotions relating to social situations.
This is very good. I like how they explain there is a rang for those with ASPD. I think this is one of the big differences from psychopaths. ASPD is not psychopathy.
Thank you for your kind words.
@D C these people deserve to die for lacking empathy
@D C how am I talking bullshit and how am I doing what I chastise other for when I'm not a sociopath??? you're the one talking bullshit trying to make me look like a hypocrite when I'm not the one that lacks the capacity to empathize with others.
@D C You obviously dont know shit about sociopaths true nature???? its not some simple mental illness like depression or anxiety. Sociopaths do not give a FUCK about the rights of others, also they have major impulse control issues and will gladly do whatever they want because they are prone to boredom and boredom makes them liable to commit offences, maybe not illegal offences but social offences. Stop treating it like it's a mere illness cause it's not. They would just make them view you as weak and easy to manipulate. Stop defending people who could care less about your rights or well-being. People like you are so fucking naive it hurts.
@SageAugust Therapy doesn't work on psychopaths dude. do some research please.
Is it a disably ?
This was very good.
Pain
A burning wound impaled through the heart
Pain
A mindless headache that spirals into madness and oblivion...
In an act of ingenuity
A childish request for mercy is done
Only to be met with laughter, contempt
Suffering
No more will I suffer under the hands of those hands
My gaze has turned fierce
My words burn deep
Is there any way to feel at peace, filled with love?
I don't know, and I won't believe
In anything but fighting
Pain.
very well done, thank you! I feel it's very neutral and informative
-blow up in anger. I have avoiding personality disorder and I believe it is a result of my parents. I am quite certain, due to my own therapy that my mother is full blown narcissistic personality disorder. My father is an aggressive loud, obnoxious, authoritarian. Who demands obedience. My parents were emotionally abusive during my childhood. My mother would often let me know how useless I was and how me and my brother ruined her life. It's so bad that when I try and talk to someone that is ignorant of these diagnosis they believe that I am lying about the situation. That is until they meet my parents and brother.
I have 2 close friends,who i need in my life so i do anything to keep them where i need them.My other friends i call associates.
So, one needs to be affable and amenable to allowing others to have their own way within their lives to be considered "social?" One must conform to everything in order to be "emotionally healthy?" It seems that the ones who define such labels and terms almost invariably tend to not share the same end goals for their own "emotional health." By that I mean, it seems that those who wield power in our society (including medical "authorities") tend to have no regard for anyone but themselves and their own ends, and then label anyone willing to stand up for themselves, i.e. those not amenable to being controlled by those same people, as "antisocial" or abhorrent. Must be nice to attain the level where crime, lies, and manipulation have no consequences aside from a pay raise and an attaboy. But let one of the plebs try and attain self-determination and initiative, and they are immediately labeled an extremist or antisocial.
Is it possible that the world is a battlefield, and that those who embrace that reality and actually achieve at a high level because of their acceptance of that reality also try and convince you to be (and raise) ineffectual dipshits worried about how many friends they have? Could it be?
THIS WAS *FANTASTIC* !
This can be learned too and also personality type 8 in enneagram. Not all signs are just being sociopath but rugged individualist personality type.
Thank you so much to all those who have had kind words for our video. It is our hope to reach out to patients, both directly and through guiding professionals in a range of settings. We believe that many people are put in the category of "hopeless" for no good reason. It is time for the open hand to replace the finger-pointing.
We do have a few others directly related to this on the Aarhus University channel, and one concerning assessment and on entitled "How do you assess antisocial personality disorder?, and one entitled "Impulsive Lifestyle Counselling for antisocial personality disorder".
Follow-up: for those who felt that the description did not match their own experience, feel free to contact me at my university e-mail. I am always eager to learn.
Can you reach out . I am not accepted too even go inpatient. Because they have college nurses taking notes for doctors. I'm 6'3 tatted and they always wrote patient seems / shows symptoms of aggression. 2 hrs later the nurse rolls up with a gang of hospital workers. Snapping gloves talking about I can either take it willingly or the hard way . Wtf ?! 1 wasn't angry until that shit . 2 how did they think I wasn't breaking bones. Somebody comes at me physically. My ptsd I fuxin loke tf out! And I end up hurting people. I grew up in North Philly I got hands . Then at 20 joined Army went too Filuja. There approach the system is fuxed . Not only that . Tf I'm supposed to do when my phsych doc is out for 4 mon . And I can't get admitted. Then they wonder why fuxin crazy shit happens . FTW
I don’t have ASPD, it’s that I don’t like people. People are a pain, they bring trouble, stress and worries that I don’t need. I’m never happier when I’m on my own with no one around. Up on the size of mountain, on a remote island, walking the Pennine way. Isolation is wonderful. I struggle with people because I find them boring, I couldn’t be bothered with them.
I feel like this childish Shyness keeps growing up until you're older then it transforms into being antisocial
I was diagnosed with conduct disorder on my childhood and now I’m antisocial
Me. what should i do
i have aspd and this is a good ass explanation
Insightful!
This video helped me out a ton.
I was diagnosed when I was in college, on partial scholarship to play Football. I wasn’t fully paying attention when I was first diagnosed, since I was sent in against my will, but it lingered in my thoughts sometimes. I always just focused on athletics and school, but I sold drugs and robbed people to pay for rent and food. It was how my parents and older brother got by, so I did the same. Still do, when I run out of cash.
A young guy tried to rob me. I killed him with two shotgun blasts to the head. I was not charged with any crime. It was his own fault.
@@MeatPuppet1962 🤣🤣
@@MeatPuppet1962 lil overkill,I'm sure one sufficed
Took shrinks and drs 30yrs to diagnose me properly with ASPD and PTSD. My PTSD caused my sociopathy so I'm NURTURE unlike a true psychopath that is NATURE.. IT IS a gift as well as a huge curse but once you know and understand your issues then it makes it easier to monitor and control. My last shrink was amazing and gave me tools to help me control . Doesn't always work but it's better than I've EVER been. If you haven't seen one already then I'd advise to go and see one , it could and did save lives, not mine but others lives. Phew,,, finger rant/explanation over,,, for now 😈
@@vice2versa "aspd people are so abusive boo hoo"
Bufty RollsRoyce Pretty much
i use self control.
true crazy people lack self control,either they don't see themselves or are too ego obsorbed to care about people,
haveing a disorder doesn't make you a lunitic.
self control and how you view/if you yourself do.
even sociopaths/phycopaths care for people,it's chooseing yourself that leads to chaos/damnation.
Nice Video And Thanks For Awareness Hii I Am Dr. M.S. Khan Consultant Psychiatrist From Pakistan (Islamabad)
One man's pessimism is another man's reality
Great video. I'm only saying this coz other ppl say this. I'm perhaps overly compliant.
As someone with aspd, adhd, mdd, ptsd, etc who lacks emotional empathy, and remorse, etc. Who is being helped for the sake of my own gain by going to psychotherapy, behavior therapy, medicated, etc . Yes I do break the laws and get away with it for personal gain, but I do not harm the young, the ill, disabled, women, pregnant women, or the elder. I could, if I wanted to without remorse or care, but to me I would despise to make the whole world my enemy instead of an ally for my gain. Do I have a conscious at least enough to hold me back, but when angered to me your nothing more than a liability, and no more than an animal that must be disposed off.
I think most laymen people think anti social is acting shy and not wanting to be around people which i always thought that’s what it meant , my ex was diagnosed with this disorder and Opposional Defiance Disorder , anti social. As well as intermittent explosive anger in his teen age years up to early and mid 20s , I thought he outgrew them mostly hes in his mid 30s and we met 4 years ago when he was 32 , but after my research I believe there is residue and some spectrum on what level i have no idea but he is high functioning for sure But i have witnessed him breaking down a door and hid in fear and the police were called and i was told by him that a year before he met me he pulled out a gun in a road rage incident with his child in the car and one time when we argued he pulled out a gun and cleaned it in front of me . Never once had he touched me but need less to say i was in fear , i grew up with an abusive father so this is why i accepted it and although I’m old enough to know better and feel ashamed for not leaving i accepted it and tried to help . It’s only now that I’m grasping after our breakup and these videos have helped me make sense of his thinking and behaviors as well as his past . When he divulged his past I think I failed to really grasp how serious it was . I thought it was a phase from his past because he was a successful business man and very charming and passionate and obviously dysfunctional myself i didn’t protect myself . God I feel naive and stupid , the scary thing is I still love him . I’m just as sick 😢😢😢
Dear Truth seeker,
I'm really glad that this video helped you make sense of your experience. Remember, there is no sight like hindsight. If your ex was truly antisocial (and it sounds like it), one significant feature of the disorder is that he will hide his true character, gaslight people around him, and that he will be skilled at both, which means that you are not stupid.
In my opinion, it's not sick to love someone. I so hope that you find the love and friendship that you deserve in your life.
Best thoughts,
Morten
Morten Hesse thank you for your response . It is much appreciated and I didnt know this tid bit of hiding the disorder , but it makes complete sense for sure ! I’m just now grasping the understanding of what I got myself into and out of and obviously revelations are hitting me like a ton of bricks . Thank you 🙏 again for the information and reply ! God Bless you too ! All my Best
Truth Seeker run for the hill and dont look back.
@Yhyh5 not sure what the reply means I havent seen nor spoken to him in years and this post was 3 years ago . so ya i’m having fun not dealing with him and i’m happy to report i’m wiser because of this experience.
I think this guy on the right in the video might be a good example of someone who is antisocial and charismatic.
I finally know what I am. Thank you so much im going to try to find help this week
Good luck. Don't let anyone put you on downer meds. I'm a sociopath and therapy is fun, but I've been told by a lot of doctors that there isn't any medication that can help me. One Dr told me I was born without a soul and that can't be fixed.
@@wesleyknight5684 I bet its bitter sweet though knowing you can't be helped but I do wish you the best. Can you tell me how you manage?
How do you view your predicament?
@@Baulx138 I watch a lot of Discovery Plus, because I try to understand people. Everyone from killers to victims. It keeps me thinking, but not in a negative way. I play Xbox when I feel like I'm loosing my shit. I think about more than I forget. As long as I can determined what I'm thinking about, I can keep things under control. Sometimes music helps, that depends on how far gone I am in my thoughts.
@@Baulx138 it's like this the few people that have took the time to teach me things, I have never forget the information. People like me can be very useful, but we are thrown away like trash. Example: I was with a company for 9yrs I left that company for 12yrs, and was asked to come back. I didn't forget a single thing about the paperwork. The problem was that I was treated like a freak when in fact I am just smarter. The problem with people with mental illness is a lot of us is smarter than others when we find our comfort zone. Normal people have been threatened by that. How many so called "witches" were killed just because they were smarter in a different way? You have to be careful when you are on a higher level.
You are not anti social. As my psychologist pointed out 9/10 there's another explanation. Never understood those that want to self diagnose themselves. Especially with a disorder that is very complex.
I feel ASD should be edited out of the gene pool for everyone's sake, it must be miserable feeling so isolated all the time.
Some are made that way and some moulded into it.
It's almost impossible for them to integrate into society in a way that's beneficial for both parties. Sad.
I get why people wanna be alone
Is a redefinition in progress?
These days you have to kiss ass for people to not to dislike you. I'd rather keep making enemies from being quiet like usual.
Yeah, wtf, I’ve been noticing this too. I’ve always been the same level of quiet, but now people take offense to it. It’s funny that it comes from a place of “love everyone” to being rude and stand offish
I'M SHY TOO!!!
please elaborate, just how will you be turning your enemies into sludge?
you do realise you just asked for someone to discribe torture right?
ok, your choice.
Is the world not full of dangerous people and the survival of the fittest? Those seem like true statements.
I agree
It seems like the only ones labelled anti social are the ones who lose.
@@pain5835 exactly, it's only evil when the 'low status' individual does it.
@@sophon238 if it's evil it's evil, doesn't matter who does it.
@@rld8258 that's not how the world works
Can Anti social person be in a healthy relationship marriage? Or he is doomed to be alone?
Requires a lot of work, and you have to be very self-conscious, but it's not impossible.
@@AlfizzlFoShizzl very interesting i see we think the same ways
Better to be alone. Many children end up being abused by these people. Don't marry, don't procreate, just pick an ethical hobby and stick with it.
@@biancap1549 yeah... you dont get to decide that. Bet you even deluded yourself to think you were on some moral high ground. Lol this ain't twitter
@@Baulx138 yeah, you DO get to decide that. I did.
Is antisocial personality disorder the same as sociopath?
7:43, I find it interesting they zoomed into her hands at that time.
I feel a bit like that but I have CPTSD.
Check out Tim Fletcher's RUclips videos on complex PTSD.
Good to see that the entire 1% of the population that has ASPD is all in this comments section
Well, 1% of the population is over 75 million people, so it's not rare that many of them are watching this video.
You forgot about relatives of commenters.
@@stefanobregante5633 you must be fun at parties
That was just brilliant I cannot believe how accurate use both were and painted a picture of who I am Lol
Thanks great upload ! 🌴👄🚬
Are we all just going to ignore the fact that there is 5 mugs but only 3 people?
Good spot tai I didn’t notice that
psychology: the armchair art of uttering platitudes based from some axiomatic benchmark (i.e. assumed or presupposed) of mental health.
They are like this with their own families
im 45 and lately i am coming to realize that this is me to a T
Don't buy into there shit. Your a wolf. There sheep. Just don't screw innocent people and your fine.
well how do you feel about it ? :D
@@kurtistjones6337 You're* they're*. Perhaps you should consider improving your grammar. I wasn't aware that sheep had a better mental capacity for grammar than wolves did.
The explaination of Anti-Social personality disorder describes Andrew Tate so well....
He is a text book sociopath for sure.
Normally these therapist's are mirror imaging themselves . They actually love Labelling others lot of them have mental disorders themselves.This is why they choose this profession they have a lot of things in common also ASPD is only psychopathy when its in the extreme most people with ASPD are not Psychopaths
they are usually narcissistic is my experience
According to? There are high functioning psychopaths without extreme behaviors or personalities. Stop spreading misinformation.
My psychology student ex girlfriend was most certainly either a sociopath or psychopath, maybe a mixture of both! 😳
youre right lol. alot of them start reading about psychology to figure themselves out and end up going to school for it
@@1111111111202 exactly steve they are always going on about empathy, believe me i been in psychiatric hospital and these mental - health workers have NO empathy what's so ever. They are career people its trendy now to say you are a Psychiatrist, or Psychologist, these jobs are normally taken by the middle class system. They have no understanding of poor working class people, what so ever, believe me some of these people are cruel to people with mental illness.ive witnessed many times with my own eyes.these people have never been poor rich mummy and daddy make sure they get the best education and jobs.
I feel like all 3 of them are extremely uncomfortable with eachother.
Awful audio quality I couldn’t get past the first question,
Stopped before the guests could talk
My doctor put this in my history after I fired her for disagreeing with me. Luckily here in the US I’m the patient and customer at the same time.
interesting.
I feel like these people are out of touch with reality.
I find that people with limited vocabulary (not foreigners) also have low empathy. (Foreigners go though a poor logic phase before they acquire local language)
They have limited labels/descriptors to enable adequate comprehension of human interactions. They regard the acquisition of an extended vocabulary as pretentious - 'acting above one's station'
They get along better with inanimate objects, protocols and animals and people who agree with EVERYTHING they say and do.
They are emotional toddlers.
They become frustruted quickly - which then turns to assertion - which in turn becomes aggressive/violent. Other people note this and rather than cause a fuss fall into step with them.
They are loud talkers, because loudness = 'honesty.
I seriously believe that i have PTSD/Hypervigilance from a life of working alongside them.
I hate having ASPD, every time I hear a familiar voice I disengage, or just walk past them without saying anything which makes me feel weirder but I just don’t know what to say. It affects me so much at work, needing to drink just to cope with the nervousness. I feel like a lot of people after awhile notice it, and then therefore judge me for the way I act. It sucks not being able to have deep fun conversations like my other fellow colleagues, but hopefully one of these days it will change.
It's doesn't sound like you have experienced aspd.
lamictal (mood stabilizer) and hydroxoxine (anti anxiety) are a good combo, it makes me happy and not give a 💩 about literally anything. I only get stressed in family situations because im disconnected/hate kids with a passion/cant relate to family oriented people. I dont like large groups either because im not the focus of entertainment and i dont like alot of ppl in my space.
Sounds like social anxiety disorder to me
I had social anxiety, and from personal experience it goes away! Never completely but it went down by 95% over 4 years by exposing myself to social situations even though it was agonising i was heavily suicidal. I exposed myself from a small to a large degree as it got better. There's a real thing called exposure therapy and it has a high success rate, but its gradual improvement like going to the gym you won't see an improvement until one day your like woah that payed off i did it.Try not to run away from it. If you take any steps to face it, little or small whenever necessary, and facing the pain rather than running away it will get better. However, if you only decide to hide away it may only get worse because you are giving full reign to the enemy that wants complete control ( that subconscious fear). The native Americans had a parable about the white wolf and the black wolf, that is: if you feed one wolf (a good side or bad side of self) it will grow and the other wolf will weaken. Whatever part of yourself you feed will grow stronger, good or bad. Whatever you starve will weaken, and if completely starved, to only skin and bone.
ASPD isn’t what you’re thinking it is. You sound like you have some bad anxiety. ASPD was formerly known as sociopathy/psychopathy
I knew i had this around12 or 13
yikes stay away from animals
I have this.
I am at war constantly I trust hardly anyone I have come close to extinguishing or maybe I have I take responsibility for having detrimental effects on other persons I am living in anger I am also medicated for other conditions it does help but I am hoping to die as it hurts
That’s not the core. The core is their desire to hurt people whenever they’re triggered.
Or at least see people in pain
Should have never let my parents take me to the psychiatrist. I would be way happier just not knowing. It's so embarrassing.