Challenges in relationships are a normal part of life, but there’s always a path forward. My marriage encountered major difficulties, but with proper guidance, my wife and I managed to resolve our issues and deepen our connection. If you’re willing to put in the work and collaborate, solutions are always within reach. Keep hope alive; there are answers out there.
I’m facing serious problems in my relationship and can’t stand the thought of losing her. I love and miss my partner greatly and am willing to do whatever it takes to have her back. Any advice or guidance you can provide would be deeply appreciated.
Saying goodbye to someone you cherish is consistently difficult, yet in my case, I received support from a spiritual advisor who kept my marriage intact. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
I'll promptly look her up online. Thank you. I'm optimistic that following this path will bring about positive outcomes for me too; I long for her deeply.
Incredibly thoughtless by the wife to allow this to happen in the first place. When you are married you do not, regardless of how innocent it might be, put yourself in a situation like that. You have to use your damn head and think one step further: "How will this look if my spouse walks in right now? How would I feel if I walked in on him/her doing the same thing?". With that said though I am glad to hear a story where it doesn't turn out to be cheating and other genuinely evil actions. Kind of a nice change of pace to get a fairly wholesome outcome once in a while.
I remember this story, good to hear the kid was his. He has no trouble with the guy being that intimate with his wife while he's not around and announced to her how he could see the time he caught them so she knows how to hide it better. Won't tell the other guy's wife what he saw because that would ruin their marriage, but it's not going to ruin his because reasons. Turns out they work together, so the fact that they're alone together regularly and she just tells him not to worry about it and doesn't stop doing anything that looks bad except stay off the home security camera doesn't bother him. Guess he should install a hidden camera in the bedroom so he can watch them to complete the kink since he seems to want to play the oblivious husband and let this happen without looking into it other than asking her. Maybe he'll be posting again after the other wife confronts him with the evidence she found, or maybe he'll be whining that she's in on it and the other guy is banging both wives and his wife completely cut him off.
What I don’t understand is why men trust their women around any other man when they’re not home. Why is this man coming over and having dinner with your wife without you or his wife there?
One thing that I appreciate is that she admitted how sketchy it looked and when he asked for a peternity test she didn't object. She understood how it looked and didn't take it personally and complain how embarassing it was.
I get that OP is basically happy to be a dad, congrats BTW, but ignoring the fact that it happened or forgiving it is stupid. Either the wife got lax and let a guy get close like that or she's stupid enough to let it happen.. with a married guy makes it worse. So she's either too naive, too dumb, or too evil.. any of those things are an obvious problem. Partners just.. don't do that kind of crap and the wife even admitted it after getting caught. Now that he just let her get away with it with almost 0 consequences because of the baby.. he shouldn't be surprised when he comes home to his kid calling Matt, "daddy" and his wife in ANOTHER inappropriate situation.. heck, maybe Matt's wife will be there too and within her rights to call everyone out, including OP since he apparantly didn't tell her anything about her shady husband. OP is wrong for that, Matt's wife shouldn't be kept in the dark about her husband that is okay with getting so touchy feely with another man's wife whose pregnant.
Its still possible even though hes a friend, Matt should know better... I think he has feelings for her in a way and is subconsciously trying to make steps testing her boundaries without her really knowing it (blind to it). There are boundaries you can't cross when you're married, and she just lets that Matt step on that line long enough for OP to see that maybe he should question their relationship and consider leaving her... if something really happened. OP was smart having cameras in the house and he can have a photo of them and threatened to share with her HR, Matt's wife, friend group, and family if they continued this kind of 'friendship' if it came down to that. Just in case Matt actually tries something, OP could send the video recording to his wife to keep him in check. Also, without letting OP know whats been happening for what she's been doing for the sake of her health while pregnant with their baby, it is a potential red flag.
This whole thing is ridiculous. Why should this situation be a thing at all?? How bout don't hang out alone without your spouses around and why TF are you snuggling under blankets? Anyway, just cuz the paternity gets settled doesn't mean they aren't doing anything
Claps to the OP and his wife. This is how a healthy relationship looks like. It's worth noting that he's at EXTREMELY high risk in his marriage due to all the travel he does but I guess he's aware.
omg guy your women has a male friend who meet in private so thats where you went wrong wook people your not the only male who thinks about sex 20 times a hour your friends have the same brain
As soon as your girl is hanging with other dudes without you, she's up to something. Not necessarily cheating but definitely something. Regardless of what she says her actual intentions were, she can't be trusted if she's cuddling up to other dudes. It's completely and utterly disrespectful to her man and should not be tolerated. Just because the kid is yours doesn't mean she wasn't cheating.
Challenges in relationships are a normal part of life, but there’s always a path forward. My marriage encountered major difficulties, but with proper guidance, my wife and I managed to resolve our issues and deepen our connection. If you’re willing to put in the work and collaborate, solutions are always within reach. Keep hope alive; there are answers out there.
I’m facing serious problems in my relationship and can’t stand the thought of losing her. I love and miss my partner greatly and am willing to do whatever it takes to have her back. Any advice or guidance you can provide would be deeply appreciated.
Saying goodbye to someone you cherish is consistently difficult, yet in my case, I received support from a spiritual advisor who kept my marriage intact. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
I'll promptly look her up online. Thank you. I'm optimistic that following this path will bring about positive outcomes for me too; I long for her deeply.
I promise you will not regret it
I still have a problem with her and her friend under the blanket. A wife just doesn't do that. With them covered she could be doing anything.
Just because you're the father doesn't mean she wasn't messing around anyway
Tired of these simps talking about how perfect their lives are then they realize that they are married to a 304. 🤡
Well, if you're married you would think that.
Doesn't matter how good of friends they are. Him coming over for dinners wothout his wife is inappropriate.....cuddling is beyond inappropriate
How is sitting on a couch feet to feet “cuddling”?
@@vengefulcloud2337 even friends and family members do NOT do feet to feet, LMAO
@@jasonsandoval3823 They do.
Incredibly thoughtless by the wife to allow this to happen in the first place. When you are married you do not, regardless of how innocent it might be, put yourself in a situation like that. You have to use your damn head and think one step further: "How will this look if my spouse walks in right now? How would I feel if I walked in on him/her doing the same thing?". With that said though I am glad to hear a story where it doesn't turn out to be cheating and other genuinely evil actions. Kind of a nice change of pace to get a fairly wholesome outcome once in a while.
I remember this story, good to hear the kid was his. He has no trouble with the guy being that intimate with his wife while he's not around and announced to her how he could see the time he caught them so she knows how to hide it better. Won't tell the other guy's wife what he saw because that would ruin their marriage, but it's not going to ruin his because reasons. Turns out they work together, so the fact that they're alone together regularly and she just tells him not to worry about it and doesn't stop doing anything that looks bad except stay off the home security camera doesn't bother him. Guess he should install a hidden camera in the bedroom so he can watch them to complete the kink since he seems to want to play the oblivious husband and let this happen without looking into it other than asking her.
Maybe he'll be posting again after the other wife confronts him with the evidence she found, or maybe he'll be whining that she's in on it and the other guy is banging both wives and his wife completely cut him off.
It's nice to have a happy ending for a change
All babies do not look the same. Some people are so fing dumb.
What I don’t understand is why men trust their women around any other man when they’re not home. Why is this man coming over and having dinner with your wife without you or his wife there?
"Perfect relationship" . . . Yeah. Forget about that noise.
One thing that I appreciate is that she admitted how sketchy it looked and when he asked for a peternity test she didn't object. She understood how it looked and didn't take it personally and complain how embarassing it was.
They CAN do a DNA test vis a simple arm blood draw.
S1: This man is a fool to trust this woman.
Then you didn’t listen to the whole story.
I get that OP is basically happy to be a dad, congrats BTW, but ignoring the fact that it happened or forgiving it is stupid. Either the wife got lax and let a guy get close like that or she's stupid enough to let it happen.. with a married guy makes it worse. So she's either too naive, too dumb, or too evil.. any of those things are an obvious problem. Partners just.. don't do that kind of crap and the wife even admitted it after getting caught. Now that he just let her get away with it with almost 0 consequences because of the baby.. he shouldn't be surprised when he comes home to his kid calling Matt, "daddy" and his wife in ANOTHER inappropriate situation.. heck, maybe Matt's wife will be there too and within her rights to call everyone out, including OP since he apparantly didn't tell her anything about her shady husband. OP is wrong for that, Matt's wife shouldn't be kept in the dark about her husband that is okay with getting so touchy feely with another man's wife whose pregnant.
Really? 40 WEEKS/YEAR travelling? Pointless being in a relationship if you're never home. Likelyhood of partner cheating is VERY high.
So op is ok with his wife and her male guy in 1 blanket in the pretext of oh he is just helping her healing her pain?
Its still possible even though hes a friend, Matt should know better... I think he has feelings for her in a way and is subconsciously trying to make steps testing her boundaries without her really knowing it (blind to it).
There are boundaries you can't cross when you're married, and she just lets that Matt step on that line long enough for OP to see that maybe he should question their relationship and consider leaving her... if something really happened.
OP was smart having cameras in the house and he can have a photo of them and threatened to share with her HR, Matt's wife, friend group, and family if they continued this kind of 'friendship' if it came down to that.
Just in case Matt actually tries something, OP could send the video recording to his wife to keep him in check.
Also, without letting OP know whats been happening for what she's been doing for the sake of her health while pregnant with their baby, it is a potential red flag.
This whole thing is ridiculous. Why should this situation be a thing at all?? How bout don't hang out alone without your spouses around and why TF are you snuggling under blankets? Anyway, just cuz the paternity gets settled doesn't mean they aren't doing anything
Claps to the OP and his wife. This is how a healthy relationship looks like. It's worth noting that he's at EXTREMELY high risk in his marriage due to all the travel he does but I guess he's aware.
This dude is annoying.
And yet you’re still listening to him………go figure
@ not the narrator the man in the story. I should have clarified that. He got mad because the internet did what the internet does.
Just because the child is yours means nothing. Guaranteed they bumped uglies many times. Simps gotta simp
omg guy your women has a male friend who meet in private so thats where you went wrong
wook people
your not the only male who thinks about sex 20 times a hour your friends have the same brain
Why in all of these fake stories are all the guys spineless?
As soon as your girl is hanging with other dudes without you, she's up to something. Not necessarily cheating but definitely something. Regardless of what she says her actual intentions were, she can't be trusted if she's cuddling up to other dudes. It's completely and utterly disrespectful to her man and should not be tolerated. Just because the kid is yours doesn't mean she wasn't cheating.
Is he crazy or plain stupid