Yes! This. God loves both of his children.. of course God doesn’t want 1 to feel more valuable than the other cause both are equal in the image of God.
Better yet, the KJV says for women to submit to their husbands as they submit to Christ, and for men to love their wives as Christ loves the church. Very beautiful
The best example I had of this was my parents. They made every decision together as partners. Her weaknesses were his strengths, while his weaknesses were her strengths. If we asked Dad permission to do something or go somewhere, his answer would always be "what did your mother say?". We were allowed to be kids, but Dad's main rule was "don't disrespect your mother". He always worked to provide for his family, but she was better at managing their finances, so she did. She would always discuss them with Dad, but he trusted her to do what was best for the family. When the Bible says for wives to submit to their husbands, it means to allow him to be the leader of the family. It doesn't mean for you to be his slave or servant, but to be his helpmate. My mother explained to me one time that she did not love our dad when she married him. So she would ask herself "what would I do for my husband today if I loved him?". After 2 or 3 years she found she was instead asking "what can I do for my husband today because I love him?". They learned how to work together as husband and wife, and learned how to love each other. Their relationship today is one of the strongest marriages I have ever seen, and the love they have for each other can only be surpassed by the love God has for them. They have been married for 60 years.
Just remember, your wife is NOT your equal in any way- she is to be your helper. She is essentially a tall child and must be loved and ruled in a similar manner - for her own sake and that of society writ large.
@@bigbob3772 I totally disagree, my wife isn’t an animal or some child. She is my helper, she’s as much human as I am. Yes I am the head of the family and every last decision stand behind me and I take responsibility. But I have to hear her out. We as husband are to give our lives to our wives the same way Christ gave himself for his church and died for it! Read the Bible bigbob and get your facts straight! I’m sure u wouldn’t want to be treated like trash!
@@albertgerbel8472 I am born again and know the Word. My counsel is biblical, unlike your ignorant grasp of the word. The culture in the church is Godless feminist ideology. You exhibit this perfectly. Read Numbers 30 on vows. It's CRYSTAL CLEAR the Lord shows us the woman is clearly not the man's equal. READ your Bible. CHRIST RULES HIS Body, with ABSOLUTE AUTHORITY does He not? We OBEY Him and are DISCIPLINED by Him. Have you EVER disciplined your wife? You are biblically clueless. Be the Godly man you are supposed to be, not a weak simp
@@albertgerbel8472thats not an equal relationship, if you are thebhead of the house and she stands behind you then it is not equal. Equal would be that you are both a united front. Btw you actually agreed with him because he said "she us to be your helper" and you then confirmed it. Your response to the commwnt was pure denial and copium.
@Isabella Mojica doesnt matter if its centered around god or not lmao thats how people stay miserable by staying with people they aren’t meant to be with
@@Tomago9387 It DOES matter because God will never lead you to be with someone who is not a fit for you. A lot of people don’t have discernment on who is right for them because they don’t seriously ask God. God gave me warnings about a couple of my exes in the form of dreams, the dreams were true and now I’m no longer seeking relationships on my own and is letting God bless me instead. God will reveal things to you but you have to have a relationship with him💯God bless you dear♥️
So true! Women act like submitting to a man who would give his life for them is so horrible! I'd rather submit to my husband who loves me than a business that's mostly concerned about profit.
Don't listen to this guy. He has a few videos wearing a Balenciaga hat that he has not taken down. He is not a Christian. He does not believe in the god that we pray to for Jesus Christ. He prays to the god Baal.
Agreed. Most men unfortunately are not being godly. And rather than focusing on the betterment of bible based childrearing for stronger family units to get married stay within this covenant and flourish spiritually, we are focusing on, and changing our world to show hate towards men, killing our children, and removing women altogether. We need God now more than ever before.
Well to be honest Jesus never loved the church he never praised churches men or israel but Paul the pharisee of all pharisees did. Amazing how many follow Paul instead of jesus ..
It's a two way street, the responsibility is not just on the husband. If you submit to him and respect him, he will not give you any reason to doubt his love. Problem is, people get married to spouses whose hearts are not converted to accept the leadership of Jesus Christ and then they expect a happy marriage. Not happening.
@@Gwaycee first. Respect is the only thing that keeps love alive appreciation thankfulness and working all things out together. One cant do it alone takes both
Because men today are not like Jesus, so I'll readily submit to Jesus but I'd hesitate to submit to a man! as you said ONLY if people read the verse further ahead we'd have godly relationships 💖
I didn't know what loving like Christ loves the Church was until I met my husband. I didn't know a man could love like that. And every day, I strive to be worthy of his devotion.
Amen as a Christian woman married to an unbeliever I still submit . Although it’s very hard and gets tense in my home , the Bible says my right way of living can cause him to repent and be saved . Please keep us in prayer ❤️
my brother, i had just read about this in the bible. Minutes later i found this video in my youtube shorts feed randomly. I dont watch christian videos so often so i believe God led me to this video and made you make this video for this reason. Bless you my brother in Christ
My husband was the reason why i was able to let God enter my heart. We are together for 30 years now. We are happily married for 17 years now. We have two very beautiful respectful, obedient, helpful and kind children. I am a housewife who tends to my husband’s needs while my husband is very loving and caring towards me. He’s a good provider to our family. Our children sees me as their ideal mother who loves them unconditionally. God is the center of our lives. The values I teach my children are all based on Him.
I think many women are repulsed by the word submission these days because of the way how men ask for it and demand it. Some demand it in a demeaning way. Submission doesn't need to be demanded, it will come naturally when a woman feels loved and protected, she will submit in appreciation
Submit doesn't have to mean you lose your power to a person either. It simply means to allow yourself to be under their treatment or conditions. I think the whole stigma around the word "submit" is the whole problem.
Most men don't demand it women have a jezebel spirit in America many men are going for christian foreigen women. Feminists literally say submission is slavery y'all just hate men even you alleged christian women just admit it that hate send ppl to hell
Many people abuse that verse. They say submit to your husband, without even knowing the character of the guy. If he's abusive, she should never submit to an abusive guy.
@@JonathanSaxon So if your partner breaking every law at their, choosing bad decision, you must still obey them even if your happiness/life style is being destroyed?? 🧢🤥 (That's a no-no). God will pefer you to be with someone who follows His will and Jesus, because those are the people who will you cherish you, upbringings you, graceful you. He never puts with you someone who Is worldly unless its transitions, season, (meaning as a lesson), to help strength you for whatever battle or blessing is oncoming up ahead. If you choose date someone who is outside of Jesus christ than......(IDK what say) But you continue with walk of Jesus christ and the faith of are Hevanly Father.*Edit, people outside of Christianity can still be blessing to you or the people around you*
@@sheneimercy6847 If they're not a man of God, let alone a woman of God then they should be avoided; your lifestyle should reflect your relationship with God as his word is the only say at the end of the day.
I like to hug my hubby and not let go, saying "the bible said we must leave our parents and cling to our spouse! And so I cling!" and he always smiles while rolling his eyes and trying to escape from the hug xp
Yes, when done correctly ( as intended by our LOVING God, ) WONDERFUL! 🙏🏼💖best part of my life ! But man, have i been on the terrible end of a religious spirit tyrannical husband unyielding himself to Jesus Whooo that one I am still trying to recover from pure hell . 😢
Don't listen to this guy. He's not a Christian. He's pretending to be his supports Balenciaga. He has a few videos with him when he's wearing the hat. These people pray to the god Baal.
Yes a wife is supposed to submit to her husband but he’s supposed to also treat her with love, care, kindness and respect if she’s a godly woman. It’s just not always that way these days but it would be wonderful to have that relationship with your husband, and in turn you both could have the best relationship with God as well as the partnership God intends for us to have as husband and wife.
Amen!!! "A man shall leave his mother and father and cleave to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh " Gen 2:24 Plus my wife says " you are the head of this family, but I'm the neck!" A Godly marriage is a true blessing that spreads God's grace!!!
Love? Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. 8 Love never fails. -1 Corinthians 13:4-8 This is what a husband is called to do.
Yes, we are all called to do this. A husband however, is called to do this especially in marriage. This is Gods specific command to them. “Husbands, love your wives.” -Ephesians 5:25
I submit because my husband loves me so much. He'll never lead me astray. He wants the best for me. God has truly blessed me. I grew up in a chaotic household. My mom was a force to be a force to be reckoned with. When we first got married I challenged him. When I learned to submit is when my marriage went from a marriage of the earth. Now I know God will favor our marriage once I surrender to my husband. I have and our marriage has. Improved three fold.
It's high time that people should know that it's not the word Submissive that makes women repulsive it's the way how some People use Bible verses in a wrong way, Misleading Many, I just love it how this Man has clearly put the verse
Last detail is very deep, God bless you 🙏 ❤️ Jesus said that God's ways are different than the world's ways. Christianity is all about sacrifice and obedience..it started all when Jesus sacrificed his life and was obedient to God the father. Based on this love relationship, man should be obedient to God. Based on man being obedient to God (loving righteous man) women should be obedient to men. The world's thoughts are selfishness, arrogance, materialism...it has nothing to do with God and his spiritual ways. That's why some people hate what is from God because it opposes their worldly corrupt nature.
This is why it's important to marry by the spirit. Not to say that you must wait for a vision before you pick a spouse, but you must think according to the scriptures if you will choose a life partner. Women, marry a man you can trust to take charge, that will lead you as he follows God. Men, marry a woman that is meek and understanding, stop looking out for independence. God's keys to healthy marriage
It makes me so happy to hear, a young Preacher, tell the WHOLE truth about the ROLE of the HUSBAND, as well as the wife, in the Word of God! May God be glorified! And may the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ be with your spirit. Amen.
Thank you for saying this. You are right. There are many reasons why women ger repulsed by the word submission, but because of the world, many misunderstand God's word.
I think two main problems are many people use that verse as justification to control their wives. Control what kind of work they do, what they wear, who they can be friends with and even when they are intimate. I think people have a problem with that idea. Second problem is people view a wife submit as meaning they aren't equal in the relationship. A relationship should be 50/50 not the man making all the decisions and the woman just dealing with it. Just two issues I see with how some people interpret this passage.
Wow, I guess God should have consulted you before he gave instructions to wives in the Bible. The Bible says what it means and means what it says. It's not a matter of interpretation, but rather denial.
@@mich5131 The opinion that Lusk17 gives above is very popular in today post-feminist, gynocentric society but is exactly the opposite of what the bible teaches. For those who can be honest (and take out their cultural bias), the bible speaks very clearly to this subject. All you have to do is read the verses and take them at face value. For example, the letter to the church as Ephesus, (that was written by Paul to the believers in Christ there), says: "Wives, be subject to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, as Christ also is the head of the church, He Himself being the Savior of the body. But as the church is subject to Christ, so also the wives ought to be to their husbands in everything." (Ephesians 5:22-24) Legacy Standard Bible A more popular translation (The King James) says "Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body. Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing." It has nothing to do with control, but rather God ordained authority. The phrase "be subject to" or in other translations (as the KJV above) it says "submit", is translated from the Greek word "hupotassó" which was a military term. The term (in it's simplest form) means to "rank under". The bigger definition (according to Strong's Concordance) is "to place or rank under, to subject, to obey". What Paul is saying, is that a Christian wife should consider herself to be a lower rank than her husband in the marriage. If she considers herself a Captain, then her husband would at least have to be a Major (Army ranking system). If you consider how this works itself out in in the military, it is required that someone of a lower rank defer to and obey the (lawful) orders of the one that is ranked above them. It really is that simple. Another way to understand it, is to look at Noah Websters 1828 dictionary at the word "submit". According to Webster (who actually used Bible verses in that version of the dictionary to help explain meanings) defines submit as "To yield, resign or surrender to the power, will or authority of another;" and it lists Ephesians 5:22 in that example. Simplified, the wife is instructed to yield her will, to her husbands will, in the same way she would yield to the Lord (Jesus), and she is to do it in everything. 1 Peter Chapter 3 tells us that this submission of a wife to her husband is not dependent on anything and there are no qualifications that the husband has to meet for this command of God to be valid. The reason for this is that God had placed the husband as "head" over his wife. Again according to Webster's 1828 dictionary, head is defined as "A chief; a principal person; a leader; a commander; one who has the first rank or place, and to whom others are subordinate; as the head of an army; the head of a sect or party." and it lists Ephesians 5:23 as the example. Again, this has nothing to do with worth or value. The bible makes it clear that women and men are equal in value, but it also makes it clear (in many places) that they have not been given the same role to play on the earth. God created man to lead, protect and provide, and he made the woman to be a companion to the man and to be his helper (in a marriage). In more than one place, it makes it clear that (in the authority structure that God created for the earth), a husband is in complete authority over his wife and it is up to the wife to treat him with the deference that this God-given position of authority is due. It's no different that a boss/employee relationship at work or a superior/subordinate rank relationship in the military. It's not about worth or value, it's about authority.
it does not mean supporting him in his decision, This is how so many go astray. It is to support him when he is beign led by christ and help him back when he is going astray. Paul said submit, God said helper. Once you understand the meaning of a helper, you know your responsibility. A helper does not equal a stay at home christ or humiliation stop trying to justify sexism with gods word. Deborah was a Judge and she was married, Esther was queen yet married. It with these lazy western women you hear stay at home mum.
@@kimm.8224 for such relationship, the wife should report to the pastor and stay away fro the husband for a little while until the husband has beign guided until the right paths. People think no divorce means no right for women, no it just means the husband has no choice but to change under the supervision of Jesus and the head of the church.
Thank you. Finally a man that understands what Ephesians was telling us. So many men are out here using that verse ( and won’t read anything else in the Bible) to dominate and control women like slaves. The part about husbands submitting to wives needs to read out lout just as much so they understand that wives and husbands submit to each other.
@@041gabriellalrosanga6 Ephesians 5: 21- Submit yourselves to ONE ANOTHER because of your reverence for Christ. Don’t have selective reading because most of you are only power hungry males.
All these comments saying “I’d rather submit to my husband than submit to my boss.” Do y’all not realize that it’s a lot easier to quit a job than it is to leave a marriage if things get toxic or abusive? Y’all need a different analogy. 🤦😆
Exactly. Also many don't submit to their boss but just to 20 or 30 or 40 hours of work a week along guidelines set out to govern the particular job, there is not one direct unchanging person who decided what u cant and can't do. You can work for yourself, have your own business or work in partnership with others, you can change jobs, you can climb thr ladder and become your former managers manager. If u have issues you can quit or address them through HR or the manager of your direct boss if you have one. A Christian marriage has no divorce (though many do divorce) so the woman is under the same master for life. No thanks, not appealing.
@@sarahsophie333 ur thinking of a toxic marriage. The man just basically said submission isn't slavery all the time. Just support ur husband and love him as he would do the same for u. U got the wrong idea.
Don't marry if things get abusive. Simple. U can literally see red flags in dating and it's on you id u ignore it and continue to marry. N that's not a godly marriage either.
@@pokoyoda365 It's not that simple at all! If everyone could read red flags on every date and knew how to properly react to them, there would be almost no abusive marriages in the world. It's not really fair to blame people for their abusive partner's behaviors - even if they saw some red flags beforehand, you don't know if they were pressured to marry by family and friends (which can happen quite a bit in church settings) or if they were putting unfair pressure on themselves to marry as soon as possible or to marry because they felt they could help the person "change". Again, it's not that simple.
Amen! I’ve been saying this for a while! There a specific person in my family who says I’m not ready to marry because I can’t submit to a man (which is not true) but I also emphasize on the other part of the verse. My husband, if he is truly a man of God, won’t need to control me because I am not his child and he will love me and be patient.
Love is patient,not controlling or demanding. When he pour all the love into you by act of goodness and kindness, wanting and doing what's best for you and not being selfish, then and only then he will get it in return...Love
YEP💯Women love to be able to lay back and let the husband take care of many things. Then we can pour more energy into our family. Our home. Our creativity and expression.
It's beyter to be alone at this point. The devil had almost the entire world ensnared, and even someone you find who you may have gotten throigh to and you think one day will come to Jesus, will actually one day admit to you thay they really don't have a moral compass "I don't have the same morals you do", just keeps echoing in yoir head. And that partnered with their neglext, emotional and mental abuse, lies, denials, infidelity, lack of remorse or sympathy, their inability to spend any time with their own children because video games and gambling it top of their list every single 4 days they're off from work.... it all makes sense.
To give a word of encouragement nothing is impossible through God. He is more than capable and all powerful. It says in the bible that sometimes God gives us dreams like marriage and family for a reason. Have faith and seek him first and watch how he blesses your life because he loves you so so much🤍
Jesus gives us a reason to submit to Him. If you are like Jesus you need to give a woman a reason to submit to you. If she can see Jesus in you. I guarantee she will submit to you.
the Bible doesn't say love your wife when she is lovable.. It says love your wife as Jesus loved the church. Same for women, respect your husband, not respect your husband when he does what you want him to do.. Our battle is not against flesh and blood
I respectfully disagree. You should love your wife no matter what, even when she is unlovable. Likewise, a woman should submit to her husband, even when he isn’t being loving (and as long as he isn’t demanding that she goes against God). He doesn’t need to give her a reason. The command to husbands and wives aren’t conditional.
Wow is that ever not true lol! Look at what Judas did to Yeshua, all with as full a revelation as one could get regarding who he was/is. Look at people who claim to love him but don’t obey him (Matt 7:23) or look at Israel as his wife and her behaviour- yikes! I think most women have some Disney movie fairytale version of Jesus in their heads and not a picture of who he really is, marching up the mount of olives olives soaked from head to toe in the blood of those of his enemies he has killed with no mercy. Many women have wicked hearts, have deceived themselves and their friends otherwise, and would hate and detest their husband if he ever acted after the manor of the messiah, I think you give wives as a group a little too much credit lol. The admonition that wives need to submit to their husbands as unto the lord is not commanded with included conditions. Women dream up all kinds of reasons to absolve themselves of their responsibility towards marital obedience- to their peril. Lol have mercy on me as it’s just another perspective…..
Also notice the verse right before it says this in Ephesians, where it says we as the church are to be "submitting to one another out of reverence for Christ." (5:21) If husbands think they don't need to serve their wives, they're not only missing the verses after, they're missing the verses before.
AND be willing to give his life for his wife as Jesus died for His bride, the church. As a wife, I got the better deal. Husband's carry a lot of responsibility to God.
It also says, “Husbands, love your wives as Christ loved the Church.” Which is to say to die for your wife. The man would be having to sacrifice a lot more in this scenario.
Funny, the word translated as "submit" comes from a Greek word "hupotasso" that literally means "rank under". God tells wives that they are to "rank themselves under" their husbands.
I at one time would have felt controlled or manipulated by Jesus. But when I finally spent time reflecting on God and the scriptures, I realized the family I was raised with would use Jesus as a way to make sure I did what they wanted, whether it was wrong or right. I feel like my little brother still feels this way and has completely dropped out of church, so I would appreciate any prayers for him.
@@richie9878 "In all things" Is that exception mentioned? Obviously God is the ultimate authority and we are to submit to the government, but not where the government tells us to do that which is contrary to the will and nature of God (if the government says we cannot meet as the church then we must obey God, not the government), so let's take Paul in context, however if my mother had gone to Africa like she wanted instead of submitting to my father's authority and staying in the states than I would never have been born and their marriage would not have lasted. Was my mother's will to go to Africa God's will for our family, or was my father's will to stay in the states God's will for my family? My mother denied her own passionate desire to serve God overseas in order to submit to her husband's authority and serve God in the states, was the will of God then not done? It was done, God would have blessed my family if my parents had decided to do either thing, but only if my father was the leader God assigned him to be, and if my mother had refused to submit to the authority of my father my family would not have been blessed in the manner that it has been to this day, for the family would have fallen apart before it even began. Who knows what our family would look like today if we had gone to Africa instead of the states, it was not the will of my father and therefore it was not the will of God for it to be so. Edit: This was over thirty years ago. They have been happily married for over thirty years, that only happens when you do marriage God's way.
Mine presented me back with scars, bruises and extreme fear…. All because he lied when I asked if he was a Christian. I was beaten just for refusing to give up on God. Happier alone… I have my Heavenly Father for company ❤
Never heard this preached in 37 years of believing in Jesus. 1 Peter 3:7 - Husbands likewise, dwell with them with understanding, giving honour to the wife, as the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life, that your prayers be not hindered. Something that can stop your prayers being answered should be a top of the list sermon. Never heard, read, putside of the Bible, such a vital topic. God bless you. Greetings from England.
As a woman with a good Christian husband, I can confirm that "submitting" to him is not hard. At all. And he loves to sacrifice for me and serve me. He sees it as his duty. This isn't oppressive to women in the slightest.
@@CassTeaElle I do believe you. But I think that the word “submission” has the connotation that you have to do what your husband says. This is great if it works for you. I am just saying that not everyone wants this in a relationship.
I'm a widow & after my husband's death, I searched for answers reading my Bible. In Isaiah 54:5, it says, "For your husband is your Maker, whose name is the Lord of Hosts".
You are going to be because they are very selfish, it's my way or the highway; he do not know the true meaning of love and he has issue he need to heal from formerly childhood trauma so they become a bully, so you love yourself and learn how Jesus sees you and feel about you , know your worth in Jesus because you can loose yourself in a narcissistic and that's not of God. It's demonic and selfish , study and learn the character of a narc and the treat it accordingly and raise tor children in the word of God because they will get confused the narc will tured your child/ children, if any against you. This is your beginning of your love journey with God. God bless he will help you and give the strength. ❤
The problem is the word submit. He loves her, she submits to him. No they should just love and respect each other, there should be no submitting on either side, just compromises
Western woman hate the word submit, i get it with all the masculine energy going around. In many parts of the world the wife always submit to the husband because that way the relationship works better. But you should never submit to an evil man and an abuser.
"husband, treat your wife like Jesus treated the church"
Yes! This. God loves both of his children.. of course God doesn’t want 1 to feel more valuable than the other cause both are equal in the image of God.
AMEN
Better yet, the KJV says for women to submit to their husbands as they submit to Christ, and for men to love their wives as Christ loves the church. Very beautiful
@@jonginslaceglove3651 thats why KJV is the goat
Women, if your husband is not willing to die for you, he is also not willing to live for you.
My pastor did a sermon on this today. Paraphrasing: "I treat my wife like I would want GOD to treat me".
Building a nice little hierarchy with the wife right at the bottom.
@@oscargr_ you clearly have never studied the book. It's a Great read. I recommend to everyone.
@@trishse4030 I was commenting on your pastor, not on your book.
Should I take the book literally, or which parts?
@@oscargr_God is a provider. A healer. A protector. He died for us.
And you call a man emulating that for his wife opressive?
@@fireemberess where did you read the word oppressive?
The best example I had of this was my parents.
They made every decision together as partners.
Her weaknesses were his strengths, while his weaknesses were her strengths.
If we asked Dad permission to do something or go somewhere, his answer would always be "what did your mother say?".
We were allowed to be kids, but Dad's main rule was "don't disrespect your mother".
He always worked to provide for his family, but she was better at managing their finances, so she did. She would always discuss them with Dad, but he trusted her to do what was best for the family.
When the Bible says for wives to submit to their husbands, it means to allow him to be the leader of the family. It doesn't mean for you to be his slave or servant, but to be his helpmate.
My mother explained to me one time that she did not love our dad when she married him.
So she would ask herself "what would I do for my husband today if I loved him?".
After 2 or 3 years she found she was instead asking "what can I do for my husband today because I love him?".
They learned how to work together as husband and wife, and learned how to love each other.
Their relationship today is one of the strongest marriages I have ever seen, and the love they have for each other can only be surpassed by the love God has for them.
They have been married for 60 years.
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Awesome.
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As a husband and father, this motivates me to do what’s righteous and biblical! 🙌🏼♥️
Just remember, your wife is NOT your equal in any way- she is to be your helper. She is essentially a tall child and must be loved and ruled in a similar manner - for her own sake and that of society writ large.
@@bigbob3772 I totally disagree, my wife isn’t an animal or some child. She is my helper, she’s as much human as I am. Yes I am the head of the family and every last decision stand behind me and I take responsibility. But I have to hear her out. We as husband are to give our lives to our wives the same way Christ gave himself for his church and died for it! Read the Bible bigbob and get your facts straight! I’m sure u wouldn’t want to be treated like trash!
@@albertgerbel8472 I am born again and know the Word. My counsel is biblical, unlike your ignorant grasp of the word. The culture in the church is Godless feminist ideology. You exhibit this perfectly. Read Numbers 30 on vows. It's CRYSTAL CLEAR the Lord shows us the woman is clearly not the man's equal. READ your Bible. CHRIST RULES HIS Body, with ABSOLUTE AUTHORITY does He not? We OBEY Him and are DISCIPLINED by Him. Have you EVER disciplined your wife? You are biblically clueless. Be the Godly man you are supposed to be, not a weak simp
@@albertgerbel8472thats not an equal relationship, if you are thebhead of the house and she stands behind you then it is not equal. Equal would be that you are both a united front. Btw you actually agreed with him because he said "she us to be your helper" and you then confirmed it. Your response to the commwnt was pure denial and copium.
@@bigbob3772your joking right
A marriage centered on God is a marriage that never ends
Divorce rates say otherwise
@Isabella Mojica doesnt matter if its centered around god or not lmao thats how people stay miserable by staying with people they aren’t meant to be with
@@Tomago9387 It DOES matter because God will never lead you to be with someone who is not a fit for you. A lot of people don’t have discernment on who is right for them because they don’t seriously ask God. God gave me warnings about a couple of my exes in the form of dreams, the dreams were true and now I’m no longer seeking relationships on my own and is letting God bless me instead. God will reveal things to you but you have to have a relationship with him💯God bless you dear♥️
@@Tomago9387 Looks like you're having a hard time to comprehend, right?
@@aPeachWhoLovesYeshua Lmao so everyone who follows god “correctly” has 100% marriage success rate? I don’t think so. You’re delusional
So true! Women act like submitting to a man who would give his life for them is so horrible! I'd rather submit to my husband who loves me than a business that's mostly concerned about profit.
Don't listen to this guy. He has a few videos wearing a Balenciaga hat that he has not taken down. He is not a Christian. He does not believe in the god that we pray to for Jesus Christ. He prays to the god Baal.
Agreed. Most men unfortunately are not being godly. And rather than focusing on the betterment of bible based childrearing for stronger family units to get married stay within this covenant and flourish spiritually, we are focusing on, and changing our world to show hate towards men, killing our children, and removing women altogether. We need God now more than ever before.
@@lucillerenaud8114 Amen to that.
Jesus loves you 🙏✝️t
@@Yuki-qs5mt that's true
“If your husband loves you like Christ loves the Church, you will have no problem submitting to him.” -Nancy Cole
Well to be honest Jesus never loved the church he never praised churches men or israel but Paul the pharisee of all pharisees did. Amazing how many follow Paul instead of jesus ..
I would rather not be seen as a church by my husband tho.. weird statement in my opinion.
It's a two way street, the responsibility is not just on the husband. If you submit to him and respect him, he will not give you any reason to doubt his love. Problem is, people get married to spouses whose hearts are not converted to accept the leadership of Jesus Christ and then they expect a happy marriage. Not happening.
@@S0ph1e624 totally ahree each relationship is special. Yours with your husband and yours with God they are different people
@@Gwaycee first. Respect is the only thing that keeps love alive appreciation thankfulness and working all things out together. One cant do it alone takes both
Because men today are not like Jesus, so I'll readily submit to Jesus but I'd hesitate to submit to a man! as you said ONLY if people read the verse further ahead we'd have godly relationships 💖
Then save everyone the trouble and don't get marrried.
I didn't know what loving like Christ loves the Church was until I met my husband. I didn't know a man could love like that. And every day, I strive to be worthy of his devotion.
Man😩♥️. Bless y’all. Thank you for sharing; it was beautiful to read this morning.
Beautiful F.J.J❤
Amen as a Christian woman married to an unbeliever I still submit . Although it’s very hard and gets tense in my home , the Bible says my right way of living can cause him to repent and be saved . Please keep us in prayer ❤️
God bless you❤
Praying ❤
God bless you.
DEAR Lord JESHUA I pray that you save this person husband
@@antidemonic806 ❤️
my brother, i had just read about this in the bible. Minutes later i found this video in my youtube shorts feed randomly. I dont watch christian videos so often so i believe God led me to this video and made you make this video for this reason. Bless you my brother in Christ
My husband was the reason why i was able to let God enter my heart. We are together for 30 years now. We are happily married for 17 years now. We have two very beautiful respectful, obedient, helpful and kind children. I am a housewife who tends to my husband’s needs while my husband is very loving and caring towards me. He’s a good provider to our family. Our children sees me as their ideal mother who loves them unconditionally. God is the center of our lives. The values I teach my children are all based on Him.
I think many women are repulsed by the word submission these days because of the way how men ask for it and demand it. Some demand it in a demeaning way. Submission doesn't need to be demanded, it will come naturally when a woman feels loved and protected, she will submit in appreciation
Amen to this🙏❤
Bingo. Amen
i agree
Submit doesn't have to mean you lose your power to a person either. It simply means to allow yourself to be under their treatment or conditions. I think the whole stigma around the word "submit" is the whole problem.
Most men don't demand it women have a jezebel spirit in America many men are going for christian foreigen women. Feminists literally say submission is slavery y'all just hate men even you alleged christian women just admit it that hate send ppl to hell
Many people abuse that verse. They say submit to your husband, without even knowing the character of the guy. If he's abusive, she should never submit to an abusive guy.
She has to submit to her husband. Even if he doesn't obey the word, she has to submit. Not optional.
@@JonathanSaxon So if your partner breaking every law at their, choosing bad decision, you must still obey them even if your happiness/life style is being destroyed?? 🧢🤥 (That's a no-no). God will pefer you to be with someone who follows His will and Jesus, because those are the people who will you cherish you, upbringings you, graceful you. He never puts with you someone who Is worldly unless its transitions, season, (meaning as a lesson), to help strength you for whatever battle or blessing is oncoming up ahead. If you choose date someone who is outside of Jesus christ than......(IDK what say) But you continue with walk of Jesus christ and the faith of are Hevanly Father.*Edit, people outside of Christianity can still be blessing to you or the people around you*
@@sheneimercy6847 Yes yes, its all about you. Its all about you baby. its all about youuuu
@@sheneimercy6847 If they're not a man of God, let alone a woman of God then they should be avoided; your lifestyle should reflect your relationship with God as his word is the only say at the end of the day.
I would look to Mike Winger on that he says the same about that. I also agree, it is foolish to think it is a ride or die, no matter what like that.
I like to hug my hubby and not let go, saying "the bible said we must leave our parents and cling to our spouse! And so I cling!" and he always smiles while rolling his eyes and trying to escape from the hug xp
That's adorable God bless both of you.
Funny and sweet! You and your husband rock! 😂👍✝️
Aw
❤💕 🙏
I pray that I find a wife as intentional and loving as you are one day
Marriage is one of the many gifts from God to men that perfectly illustrates how a right relationship between us and him is.
Yes, when done correctly ( as intended by our LOVING God, ) WONDERFUL! 🙏🏼💖best part of my life ! But man, have i been on the terrible end of a religious spirit tyrannical husband unyielding himself to Jesus Whooo that one I am still trying to recover from pure hell . 😢
Don't listen to this guy. He's not a Christian. He's pretending to be his supports Balenciaga. He has a few videos with him when he's wearing the hat. These people pray to the god Baal.
Aw sweetheart🥺 itll be okay dont give up🥺remember you are loved
@@fighterspirit5221 Do not follow the kid in this video. He supports Balenciaga. He's not a true Christian. He prays to the god Baal.
@@fighterspirit5221 god bless you both
Don't let anything manipulate your love.
Love keeps no record of evil. Pray for him.
I'm praying for this sort of marriage, a healthy, loving, God filled marriage.
Me too!
Yes a wife is supposed to submit to her husband but he’s supposed to also treat her with love, care, kindness and respect if she’s a godly woman. It’s just not always that way these days but it would be wonderful to have that relationship with your husband, and in turn you both could have the best relationship with God as well as the partnership God intends for us to have as husband and wife.
Amen!!!
"A man shall leave his mother and father and cleave to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh " Gen 2:24
Plus my wife says " you are the head of this family, but I'm the neck!"
A Godly marriage is a true blessing that spreads God's grace!!!
Just before, Paul also writes: “Be filled with the Spirit, … submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God.” (Eph 5,18-21)
Love?
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
8 Love never fails.
-1 Corinthians 13:4-8
This is what a husband is called to do.
It's for everyone.😁
This is what we are all called to do😌
Yes, we are all called to do this. A husband however, is called to do this especially in marriage. This is Gods specific command to them. “Husbands, love your wives.” -Ephesians 5:25
❤
I love these verses
Now that kind of marriage is the definition of 'true love'
I submit because my husband loves me so much. He'll never lead me astray. He wants the best for me. God has truly blessed me. I grew up in a chaotic household. My mom was a force to be a force to be reckoned with. When we first got married I challenged him. When I learned to submit is when my marriage went from a marriage of the earth. Now I know God will favor our marriage once I surrender to my husband. I have and our marriage has. Improved three fold.
I have this verse engraved inside my wedding ring. Ephesians chapter 5: 25-33 is my vision has a husband.
Those words must be *tiny*
@@ashleyluna4497 yeah but they’re still there and you can still see them
@@parakeetbudgie wow cool
Submission is easy when love is present!
Ifbyou love someone you dont want them to submit to you.
It's high time that people should know that it's not the word Submissive that makes women repulsive it's the way how some People use Bible verses in a wrong way, Misleading Many, I just love it how this Man has clearly put the verse
A real 💯 % Godhead Husbands.
Most Definitely amen.
Finally! Someone finished the rest. Most ppl ALWAYS stop at "wives are to submit".
Read the whole chapter not just the parts u like😊
You realize that reading the full thing doesn’t make it much better, right?
@@Entomology314 Why not?
Last detail is very deep, God bless you 🙏 ❤️
Jesus said that God's ways are different than the world's ways. Christianity is all about sacrifice and obedience..it started all when Jesus sacrificed his life and was obedient to God the father. Based on this love relationship, man should be obedient to God. Based on man being obedient to God (loving righteous man) women should be obedient to men. The world's thoughts are selfishness, arrogance, materialism...it has nothing to do with God and his spiritual ways. That's why some people hate what is from God because it opposes their worldly corrupt nature.
Amen! Praise the Lord!
Jesus is the way! AMEN brothers n sisters❤
This is why it's important to marry by the spirit. Not to say that you must wait for a vision before you pick a spouse, but you must think according to the scriptures if you will choose a life partner.
Women, marry a man you can trust to take charge, that will lead you as he follows God.
Men, marry a woman that is meek and understanding, stop looking out for independence.
God's keys to healthy marriage
My daughter did this she married at 30. She waited for God and He came through with a wonderful, godly, man for her.
Meek? Lmaooo 😂 y’all love exposing yourselves
Pray pray pray!!!
If God clearly says no, let em go!
Well said.
@@LexSandy000 Submissive is the proper word
By love a husband is submitting to his wife and her needs. Then the verse submit to one another make sense.
Amen and love you neighbor as you would your self 🙏✝️🕊️❤🛐😇
Yes! The whole Truth. People Take it out of context. Follow the Whole thing. 🙏
It makes me so happy to hear, a young Preacher, tell the WHOLE truth about the ROLE of the HUSBAND, as well as the wife, in the Word of God!
May God be glorified!
And may the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ be with your spirit. Amen.
No…. It says, Love your wives like Christ loved the church and died for her. Word matter, love. Translations matter.
Christian marriage is the most beautiful thing I’ve ever seen ❤❤❤🥺🥺🥺
Thank you for saying this. You are right. There are many reasons why women ger repulsed by the word submission, but because of the world, many misunderstand God's word.
I think two main problems are many people use that verse as justification to control their wives. Control what kind of work they do, what they wear, who they can be friends with and even when they are intimate. I think people have a problem with that idea.
Second problem is people view a wife submit as meaning they aren't equal in the relationship. A relationship should be 50/50 not the man making all the decisions and the woman just dealing with it.
Just two issues I see with how some people interpret this passage.
Wow, I guess God should have consulted you before he gave instructions to wives in the Bible. The Bible says what it means and means what it says. It's not a matter of interpretation, but rather denial.
@@j.p.5716 clarify?
@@mich5131 The opinion that Lusk17 gives above is very popular in today post-feminist, gynocentric society but is exactly the opposite of what the bible teaches. For those who can be honest (and take out their cultural bias), the bible speaks very clearly to this subject. All you have to do is read the verses and take them at face value. For example, the letter to the church as Ephesus, (that was written by Paul to the believers in Christ there), says:
"Wives, be subject to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, as Christ also is the head of the church, He Himself being the Savior of the body. But as the church is subject to Christ, so also the wives ought to be to their husbands in everything." (Ephesians 5:22-24) Legacy Standard Bible
A more popular translation (The King James) says "Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body. Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing."
It has nothing to do with control, but rather God ordained authority. The phrase "be subject to" or in other translations (as the KJV above) it says "submit", is translated from the Greek word "hupotassó" which was a military term. The term (in it's simplest form) means to "rank under". The bigger definition (according to Strong's Concordance) is "to place or rank under, to subject, to obey".
What Paul is saying, is that a Christian wife should consider herself to be a lower rank than her husband in the marriage. If she considers herself a Captain, then her husband would at least have to be a Major (Army ranking system). If you consider how this works itself out in in the military, it is required that someone of a lower rank defer to and obey the (lawful) orders of the one that is ranked above them. It really is that simple.
Another way to understand it, is to look at Noah Websters 1828 dictionary at the word "submit". According to Webster (who actually used Bible verses in that version of the dictionary to help explain meanings) defines submit as "To yield, resign or surrender to the power, will or authority of another;" and it lists Ephesians 5:22 in that example. Simplified, the wife is instructed to yield her will, to her husbands will, in the same way she would yield to the Lord (Jesus), and she is to do it in everything.
1 Peter Chapter 3 tells us that this submission of a wife to her husband is not dependent on anything and there are no qualifications that the husband has to meet for this command of God to be valid.
The reason for this is that God had placed the husband as "head" over his wife. Again according to Webster's 1828 dictionary, head is defined as "A chief; a principal person; a leader; a commander; one who has the first rank or place, and to whom others are subordinate; as the head of an army; the head of a sect or party." and it lists Ephesians 5:23 as the example.
Again, this has nothing to do with worth or value. The bible makes it clear that women and men are equal in value, but it also makes it clear (in many places) that they have not been given the same role to play on the earth. God created man to lead, protect and provide, and he made the woman to be a companion to the man and to be his helper (in a marriage). In more than one place, it makes it clear that (in the authority structure that God created for the earth), a husband is in complete authority over his wife and it is up to the wife to treat him with the deference that this God-given position of authority is due.
It's no different that a boss/employee relationship at work or a superior/subordinate rank relationship in the military. It's not about worth or value, it's about authority.
Thank you! It's so easy to submit when your husband is loving.
In Jesus name I declare that Truth uncovers EVERY of the evil one that every captive is set free in Jesus name amen
It also says " submit to one another out of reverence for Christ." The man also submits...but people forget about that.
Submitting to your husband doesn't mean be your husband's slave, it means do not go against your husband and support him in his decisions
Amen. It really is that simple
It depends on the husband'. Some husband' treat their wives like slaves. For wives in those relationships, submission is slavery.
it does not mean supporting him in his decision, This is how so many go astray. It is to support him when he is beign led by christ and help him back when he is going astray. Paul said submit, God said helper. Once you understand the meaning of a helper, you know your responsibility.
A helper does not equal a stay at home christ or humiliation stop trying to justify sexism with gods word.
Deborah was a Judge and she was married, Esther was queen yet married. It with these lazy western women you hear stay at home mum.
@@kimm.8224 for such relationship, the wife should report to the pastor and stay away fro the husband for a little while until the husband has beign guided until the right paths.
People think no divorce means no right for women, no it just means the husband has no choice but to change under the supervision of Jesus and the head of the church.
Only if he is making a good decision.
Godly marriage is a wonderful thing!
god aint real #atheist
Thank you amen 🙏
AMEN 🙏✝️🙏✝️🙏✝️🙏✝️🙏✝️
Thank you. Finally a man that understands what Ephesians was telling us. So many men are out here using that verse ( and won’t read anything else in the Bible) to dominate and control women like slaves. The part about husbands submitting to wives needs to read out lout just as much so they understand that wives and husbands submit to each other.
Husbands dont submit they love them. Dont twist the scriptures.
@@041gabriellalrosanga6 Ephesians 5: 21- Submit yourselves to ONE ANOTHER because of your reverence for Christ.
Don’t have selective reading because most of you are only power hungry males.
So true… I like how you continued from the term that so many people found oppressive and explained it so simply.
If you are loved as the church it should be wonderful between you. Anything less isn’t sufficient .
Never been happier in my life, found Jesus than he gave me an amazing husband. We got baptized together and on 🔥 for Jesus!
All these comments saying “I’d rather submit to my husband than submit to my boss.” Do y’all not realize that it’s a lot easier to quit a job than it is to leave a marriage if things get toxic or abusive? Y’all need a different analogy. 🤦😆
Exactly. Also many don't submit to their boss but just to 20 or 30 or 40 hours of work a week along guidelines set out to govern the particular job, there is not one direct unchanging person who decided what u cant and can't do. You can work for yourself, have your own business or work in partnership with others, you can change jobs, you can climb thr ladder and become your former managers manager. If u have issues you can quit or address them through HR or the manager of your direct boss if you have one. A Christian marriage has no divorce (though many do divorce) so the woman is under the same master for life. No thanks, not appealing.
@@sarahsophie333 ur thinking of a toxic marriage. The man just basically said submission isn't slavery all the time. Just support ur husband and love him as he would do the same for u. U got the wrong idea.
Don't marry if things get abusive. Simple. U can literally see red flags in dating and it's on you id u ignore it and continue to marry. N that's not a godly marriage either.
@@pokoyoda365 It's not that simple at all! If everyone could read red flags on every date and knew how to properly react to them, there would be almost no abusive marriages in the world.
It's not really fair to blame people for their abusive partner's behaviors - even if they saw some red flags beforehand, you don't know if they were pressured to marry by family and friends (which can happen quite a bit in church settings) or if they were putting unfair pressure on themselves to marry as soon as possible or to marry because they felt they could help the person "change". Again, it's not that simple.
Amen! I’ve been saying this for a while! There a specific person in my family who says I’m not ready to marry because I can’t submit to a man (which is not true) but I also emphasize on the other part of the verse. My husband, if he is truly a man of God, won’t need to control me because I am not his child and he will love me and be patient.
Western woman these days needs to be controlled with all the heresy ongoing.
It also says being a contentious woman is a sin so if you truly believe in god you will keep his commandments
I will agree with your family member. Don't get married, you don't have a clue what God's word says or means.
@@j.p.5716She’ll get married when she wants to. If you don’t want to submit, then don’t.
Love is patient,not controlling or demanding. When he pour all the love into you by act of goodness and kindness, wanting and doing what's best for you and not being selfish, then and only then he will get it in return...Love
Amen i love you Jesus Christ🙏🏾❤️🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
YEP💯Women love to be able to lay back and let the husband take care of many things. Then we can pour more energy into our family. Our home. Our creativity and expression.
Finding the right person is gonna be really difficult😔
It's beyter to be alone at this point. The devil had almost the entire world ensnared, and even someone you find who you may have gotten throigh to and you think one day will come to Jesus, will actually one day admit to you thay they really don't have a moral compass "I don't have the same morals you do", just keeps echoing in yoir head. And that partnered with their neglext, emotional and mental abuse, lies, denials, infidelity, lack of remorse or sympathy, their inability to spend any time with their own children because video games and gambling it top of their list every single 4 days they're off from work.... it all makes sense.
Marriage is a fools game from every level
To give a word of encouragement nothing is impossible through God. He is more than capable and all powerful. It says in the bible that sometimes God gives us dreams like marriage and family for a reason. Have faith and seek him first and watch how he blesses your life because he loves you so so much🤍
Not when you ask God to bring you your spouse, HE WILL BRING YOU THE ONE YOU ARE MEANT TO BE WITH
@@Homesteadhottie101 lol. You participated in deception to god and you don’t even understand it.
I believe that a healthy marriage is where a wife helps out her husband, and her husband helps out his wife.
Facts
Amen. Husbands must live their wives like Christ lives the Church. Imagine that resposibility
Thank God for that
Jesus gives us a reason to submit to Him. If you are like Jesus you need to give a woman a reason to submit to you. If she can see Jesus in you. I guarantee she will submit to you.
You cannot guarantee she will submit. When men love women too much they behave appallingly.
the Bible doesn't say love your wife when she is lovable..
It says love your wife as Jesus loved the church.
Same for women, respect your husband, not respect your husband when he does what you want him to do..
Our battle is not against flesh and blood
I respectfully disagree. You should love your wife no matter what, even when she is unlovable. Likewise, a woman should submit to her husband, even when he isn’t being loving (and as long as he isn’t demanding that she goes against God). He doesn’t need to give her a reason. The command to husbands and wives aren’t conditional.
If I see Jesus in her i love her too 🤷🏾♂️
Wow is that ever not true lol! Look at what Judas did to Yeshua, all with as full a revelation as one could get regarding who he was/is. Look at people who claim to love him but don’t obey him (Matt 7:23) or look at Israel as his wife and her behaviour- yikes!
I think most women have some Disney movie fairytale version of Jesus in their heads and not a picture of who he really is, marching up the mount of olives olives soaked from head to toe in the blood of those of his enemies he has killed with no mercy.
Many women have wicked hearts, have deceived themselves and their friends otherwise, and would hate and detest their husband if he ever acted after the manor of the messiah, I think you give wives as a group a little too much credit lol.
The admonition that wives need to submit to their husbands as unto the lord is not commanded with included conditions. Women dream up all kinds of reasons to absolve themselves of their responsibility towards marital obedience- to their peril.
Lol have mercy on me as it’s just another perspective…..
Also notice the verse right before it says this in Ephesians, where it says we as the church are to be "submitting to one another out of reverence for Christ." (5:21) If husbands think they don't need to serve their wives, they're not only missing the verses after, they're missing the verses before.
AND be willing to give his life for his wife as Jesus died for His bride, the church. As a wife, I got the better deal. Husband's carry a lot of responsibility to God.
I don’t know who needs to hear this but God loves you and all your heart ache and trouble will be eased if you call upon the Lord for help 🫶❤
Amen 🙏🏾 God bless you forever sir ❤
This is wonderful. All the young men and women need to hear this.
It also says, “Husbands, love your wives as Christ loved the Church.” Which is to say to die for your wife. The man would be having to sacrifice a lot more in this scenario.
Amen, Jesus is always right 🙏❤️✝️
This is an amazing message I wish every person could think like this praise the Lord❤❤😊
That’s why I submit to a man that submits to God. I can’t be led by a man that has no guidance himself
And a man shouldn't be with a woman who doesn't honor god or submit when he is godly that's common now
You dont submit to a man you submit to your husband.
Only through Jesus can we get to God welcome him into your heart because he is great he loves everyone here God bless everyone amen 🙏 🥰🥰🥰
Sir, you are speaking facts. God Bless You
Thank God for you bro....
The last detail was VERY important.
To present her back intact......
As a Christian woman, my husband and I are equals. My husband is not above me, and nor I to him. wouldn't have any other way.
Funny, the word translated as "submit" comes from a Greek word "hupotasso" that literally means "rank under". God tells wives that they are to "rank themselves under" their husbands.
@@j.p.5716 thank you, God is a sexist and prejudice towards women. God & man belittles women since the beginning.
@@j.p.5716 the male misogyny I hate it. 🤬
@@IfasiahADo not blaspheme God please, it's the only unforgivable sin.
@@Gwaycee I don't gaf I'm not a fan of God..
I at one time would have felt controlled or manipulated by Jesus. But when I finally spent time reflecting on God and the scriptures, I realized the family I was raised with would use Jesus as a way to make sure I did what they wanted, whether it was wrong or right. I feel like my little brother still feels this way and has completely dropped out of church, so I would appreciate any prayers for him.
God Bless, God Bless, God Bless, God Is Love And Perfect And Heavenly, In Jesus' Loving And Awesome Name Amen Amen Amen 👑🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️❤️❤️✝️✝️✝️!!!
A husband will not always be easy to submit to, and a wife will not always be easy to love. We should do it anyway.
Also for a wife to submit to her husband her husband has to already submit to God
@@richie9878 "In all things"
Is that exception mentioned? Obviously God is the ultimate authority and we are to submit to the government, but not where the government tells us to do that which is contrary to the will and nature of God (if the government says we cannot meet as the church then we must obey God, not the government), so let's take Paul in context, however if my mother had gone to Africa like she wanted instead of submitting to my father's authority and staying in the states than I would never have been born and their marriage would not have lasted. Was my mother's will to go to Africa God's will for our family, or was my father's will to stay in the states God's will for my family? My mother denied her own passionate desire to serve God overseas in order to submit to her husband's authority and serve God in the states, was the will of God then not done? It was done, God would have blessed my family if my parents had decided to do either thing, but only if my father was the leader God assigned him to be, and if my mother had refused to submit to the authority of my father my family would not have been blessed in the manner that it has been to this day, for the family would have fallen apart before it even began. Who knows what our family would look like today if we had gone to Africa instead of the states, it was not the will of my father and therefore it was not the will of God for it to be so.
Edit: This was over thirty years ago. They have been happily married for over thirty years, that only happens when you do marriage God's way.
we need more Christians
I love Jesus!
Mine presented me back with scars, bruises and extreme fear…. All because he lied when I asked if he was a Christian. I was beaten just for refusing to give up on God. Happier alone… I have my Heavenly Father for company ❤
Amen
Amen!
Thanks for explaining it this way.
Never heard this preached in 37 years of believing in Jesus. 1 Peter 3:7 - Husbands likewise, dwell with them with understanding, giving honour to the wife, as the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life, that your prayers be not hindered. Something that can stop your prayers being answered should be a top of the list sermon. Never heard, read, putside of the Bible, such a vital topic. God bless you. Greetings from England.
As a woman with a good Christian husband, I can confirm that "submitting" to him is not hard. At all. And he loves to sacrifice for me and serve me. He sees it as his duty. This isn't oppressive to women in the slightest.
What if you want to have an equal part in the relationship?
@@Entomology314 I do have an equal part in our relationship
@@CassTeaElle I do believe you. But I think that the word “submission” has the connotation that you have to do what your husband says. This is great if it works for you. I am just saying that not everyone wants this in a relationship.
@@Entomology314 that's not what Biblical submission means. I'm not required to do whatever my husband tells me to do.
@@CassTeaElle What does it mean then? The Bible isn’t very clear.
AMEN 🙏❤️😭
Husband & wife should submit to each other.
Yup. Ephesians 5:21
I'm a widow & after my husband's death, I searched for answers reading my Bible. In Isaiah 54:5, it says, "For your husband is your Maker, whose name is the Lord of Hosts".
thing is we have fewer men who'll love a wife and leave her without stain or wrinkle.its a give and take situation
This video needs to go viral.
God is good amen
I'm glad you mentioned this. Simply put the husband should be respected by the wife but the husband must return this and also respect the wife.
"Love".
I feel like I'm on egg shells with a narcissist.
By definition women are narcissists they care so much about their appearance that’s what narcissists do
Linda I so feel for you sweetheart ❤
You are going to be because they are very selfish, it's my way or the highway; he do not know the true meaning of love and he has issue he need to heal from formerly childhood trauma so they become a bully, so you love yourself and learn how Jesus sees you and feel about you , know your worth in Jesus because you can loose yourself in a narcissistic and that's not of God. It's demonic and selfish , study and learn the character of a narc and the treat it accordingly and raise tor children in the word of God because they will get confused the narc will tured your child/ children, if any against you. This is your beginning of your love journey with God. God bless he will help you and give the strength. ❤
Amen. Isn't God good? God bless!
Not. God is a major league c*nt.
There is an excellent explanation of what that means at Ascension Press. Jackie Angel goes through it in a very sensitive way.
Amen jesus is great
Thank God I’m an atheist
The problem is the word submit. He loves her, she submits to him. No they should just love and respect each other, there should be no submitting on either side, just compromises
Western woman hate the word submit, i get it with all the masculine energy going around. In many parts of the world the wife always submit to the husband because that way the relationship works better. But you should never submit to an evil man and an abuser.
the only comment that aligns with my perspective so far
Sir preach!!!❤
Amen!!! It’s easy to love and submit in a healthy way when your are loved and cherished in the proper way! God knows best!!!💘💞💖💗👏🏻👏🏻🙏🙏🙏✨✨✨