Scrolling through the comments, I’m sad that they’re mostly from women. Jesus I pray you will guide more of your men to find this message and give them the courage to pursue excellence in loving their women. Amen.
I think or at least with my friends, men think women are the problem. We change after marriage. We become their maids and mothers. The consideration of being a partner is gone. It is so disappointing.
- Cherishing (patient, kind, respectful, able to slow down for her, love her as christ loves the church, understanding, sacrificial) - Confident (submitted and surrendered to Christ, humility, service, to get her heart will take confidence before the Lord) - Controlled by the Holy Spirit (self-control, slow to anger) - Clear conscience (not entertained by the enemies' entertainment, pursue purity) - Communicate (leaders remove confusion) - Christ-centered
I love that, it’s unique; although remember brother, We can only be Led by faith , we’re never controlled but rather received as we willingly SURRENDER🙏🏽 the Lord with you
"You weren't meant to be best friends with the opposite sex". I concur. Come on yall, there should be boundaries. Look at all those tik tokkers- "I kiss my best friend to see his reaction"- how stupid. the culture/trend is a set up for marriage failures. Thank you for this, sir!
By the grace of God, I've had victory over sexual sin for close to 2 years, I've noticed the key has been to attack those thoughts that try to crawl in immediately with the word of God. Having a ZERO tolerance approach, zero movies or going to places (beach) that have situations where your eyes can stumble. So understated - what you feed, will grow. You feed yourself the word of God your desire to fight sin grows stronger. Thank you Lord, guide us all to honor you with our lives. Praise God! So encouraging to see a praise report encourage other believers, to God be the glory 🙏
And what has God replaced that sexual sin with? Has he given you the love of your life to replace that? If you have to do it yourself, then I don't know why you would need God.
@@badgerden7080 im not sure I understand completely what you mean but I would say he has replaced it with a deeper love for him and his word. Giving me a new perspective and showing me how sin crawls in and it's only purpose is to destroy you.
This is awesome! As a young married man, there is so much truth in all these teachings! Don't bring your problems into the marriage. Marriage doesn't fix problems, it combines them and gets them to light. Be strong fellow man, read your Bibles and get Holy!
I had no idea of how valuable this message is...made me realize how messed up, confused & nieve I was...I am dating my girlfriend with the purpose & plan to marry her...I have been married before & messed up big time...I am trusting God to bless me with His purpose & plan
Even though I am not married now I was for almost thirty years to a man that never grew up. He divorced me and married his mistress. Before his death he asked me to remarry him several times but I refused him. I wish this video could be shown across the world. As I always told my children when they were young Salvation and who you marry will be the two greatest decisions you will ever make in your life. They will make or break you. Thanks for posting this video. God bless everyone that had a part in producing it.
My heart goes out to you. My brother’s sadly following a similar path as your ex-husband. My efforts to reach out to him have failed to the point we’ve gone no contact. Please know you are not alone in your experiences either in marriage, as a parent, or as a Christian. We’re all together in Christ.
@@chamuuemura5314 Thank you so much Chamu. As Christians and fellow human beings we are in this together. Read Proverbs 21&1 and put your brother name where it says "the kings heart," and watch God do a Psalms 46:10 on your brother. Be blessed.
@@Kitiwake thanks four comment,however I know by the grace of God I forgave him one hundred percent. Had I not I would have been only hurting myself. I ever asked him to forgive me if I unknowingly said or did anything to him that hurt him. He said that the only thing I was guilty of was loving him too much. As Edgar Guest said in his poem titled "Myself ," I've got to live with myself and so I wanna be fit for myself to know. Don't want to face myself with the setting sun and hate myself for things I've done. Be blessed.
Thank you for this sermon , I have been blessed with a beautiful, loving woman in my life . This opened my eyes to what a man is called for . I’m 38 . This is things we learn early on as a young man . I better get serious! I better act now . God is calling me . I need to change
AMEN BROTHER! Best thing I’ve heard about truly loving a woman, and how to get there. Made me reflect about a lot of things I didn’t understand in regards to following Christ. I was married to a beautiful God fearing Christian woman, and I was so broken it ended in divorce. By the grace of God, she is still in my life, and we are on the right path now, because I have given my life to Christ. My hope remains in Him, and with His leadership, I can truly love my wife more than I was ever able to before! God bless you sir, and thank you so much for this video!
Thank you so much for this. I feel like someone has finally taught me how to love a real woman right and gave me the keys to better love life. I want to constantly listen to this over and over so every part of it imprints into my mind and heart and changes me from the inside out.
Wow! Becoming a good parent starts long before you are a parent due to the habits you pick up. So true. This cut to the core. I wish to share this with everyone.
As soon as you said “we are going to talk about how to love a woman”, I was instantly moved to tears. Men need to hear this. We need them to hear this. Society is very distorted by false doctrine on this topic and it is breaking the biblical family unit.
I felt the power of God on this word. A profound word for the women as well as men. I wish I would have heard this as a teenager. I pray Holy Spirit continues to blow on this word into the womb of those who have ears to hear 🙏
All fathers need this message to help teach their sons and then to reciprocate and to teach their daughters what to look for in a man. I pray for my family!!
This is not only for men. Had me in tears and deep conversation with the Lord after watching this. Wish we could make this mandatory in our school system!
knew exactly what I wanted in a spiritual man and I totally agree with what this man says about attraction because looks can change but the heart filled with kindness and patience and when I met the right person we both knew it from the very beginning. I think that gratitude and friendship can turn into love and real love should be based on trust and based on understanding of each other's needs. Man should not get married if noy ready to wait and respect her timing like she would do the same for him. I waited a month for the first kiss and it was perfect and the most beautiful moment and he was the best friend and a good man that gave me the best care after I became sick. We were both each other first and I don't see anything bad about the media if there is trust between the two that love each other. I am disgusted by thinking about pornography and everything that does not have serious and deep love in it. Angela Italy
What I think is missing from conversations about porn is the fact that pornstars are not 2D fake women…they are women. Porn means someone has objectified real people, children of God. We are commanded to approach people as children of God, and to selflessly love them. Porn involves looking at someone as an empty piece of garbage really, and a tolerance to see them humiliated and degraded. There’s a lack of love and objectification toward the people who are in porn involved as well. That may be the sickest part about it, and more important than how it affects the watcher. It affects the people involved and that’s not called out. There is in fact a love problem, and valuing people problem when people sleep around and or view porn.
This! There is a perspective of porn stars in the Christian community which depicts them as evil temptresses with a Jezebel spirit. But more than often, these people have been abused and terribly victimised. I wish that the conversation around porn in the Christian world would touch more on the fact that it is essentially filmed torture, that those who consume it are actually gratifying themselves off people who are in deep suffering.
Teary-eyed by the end 👏 🙌 Some men don't grow up and ...sadly they never realize they hadn't. My father and his before him. My example of what a man is... made me naive, blind, over forgiving, to abusive tendencies, "manchild" behavior, adult boy tantrums, selfishness, and disrespect. I am a believer in marriage, and it is for life, so I have yet to marry...
A lot of men struggle with this if they only had a mom or a overbearing, enabling mom. Thank you for working on yourself and realizing it before marrying someone. That woman will love you and end up having to be your mom and keep track of everything until she burns out trying to have an adult relationship with you (but cant (and trying to raise the children y’all made). I live this and I love him enough to stay but its very hard at times for me because I want to honor him and let him lead but unless he feels someone (not me) hold his feet to the fire constantly, he falls right back into childish behavior. I see his potential if he would take hold of his life and grow away from the childlike tendencies he falls into but its not my call to change him. Tried that as a stupid young wife for over a decade. I have since got to see some real, grown up men who aren’t childish… they enjoy having fun but they get things done first and pay attention to others needs. I am so sorry and once you do figure life out, you will have alot to give someone and lessons to teach. Once you learn to make yourself do what is right instead of what feels good… you will be an asset to a woman. Dont give up hope! Give it up to God and let this be a testimony. My life itself before marriage and even after is a testimony to God working in my life. I definitely came in with my own scars and issues. The difference between me and my hubby is I refuse to let that limit me and want to be the best and learn how to be the woman God wants me and my hubby has always just done enough to “get by” and seem like a good, Christian person. I fell into it for too long as well and now I am pulling myself up and praying he wakes up and grows. I really want to see him and all the men like him get this figured out. Most have alot going for them if they could trust God and begin to do the hardest thing of allowing Him to mold and change what was broken by family.
I’ve only watched 12 minutes so far but I am so impressed. Wow! I wish all young men had access to this. God bless you for sharing these teachings. I pray it receives millions of views and saves lots of relationships
Hey Blooms, Apologies for dropping this here I came across your you Tube channel and I would love to know more better if you don't mind, I'm guessing you must be an honest person, because I always found your comments to be a nice and respectful person.if it's okay with you, I'd love to be friend with you, but if it sounds odd or embarrassing in any way please don't embarrass me by replying.hope you're having a wonderful day with your family may God bless you all.. Happy New Year 🎇🎉🙏🙏
My addiction was gambling but I surrendered repented and asked for the BLOOD OF JESUS to cover me forgive me and God said …”I see you cleansed and clean now!” And I wanted to stay that way … it took 3 days for the temptations to leave me. Now I only wish to serve God and release anything not of my God! ❤it’s amazing
Thankyou for this. How to Love a man in a GODLY way, I’m in that process. I’ve watched enough GODLY women with their husbands, learned what to do, what not to do. Respect them where it’s earned. Listen to them, follow what they tell you if it’s practical. Always, always build them up, say only good things about them, never talk negative about them too there’s, we reap what we sow. Be attentive, give little signs that he us in your mind, whether it be a look, a touch. Etc. Give advice if needed, not in a demeaning manor. Help them with their weaknesses, praise them highly. Ask them what they want to do. Outings, etc. Let them be the decision makers, for serious matters. Pray for them most of all. ❤️
Thank you so much for this list of to do’s I have learned one too many to don’t do’s so I wrote up a list. Relationship goals for all the guys in my life. As a Godly woman I benefited from this preaching and this comment. Thanks so much. 🙏 God is so good all the time!!!
I pray every man would listen to this! I have shared it many times. The value of a woman, or your woman...the value. The respect. I read one person said can we have one "How to love a man"! ❤ Thank you for your message!!!
I wish I would have heard the “not being best friends with a woman” part. Have been married to my wife for 10 yrs and my friendship with this woman had been a 20 plus year friendship. All these years, my wife always thought I was going to leave her for this woman. When I found this out. I was devastated. I ended the friendship right away and it’s made my marriage better. I can’t hate the term “work wife” enough. Don’t let another woman get between you and your wife. Don’t!
This was so BEAUTIFUL to hear. I am thankful for everyone who made this video come true, thanking Jonathan and Jesus. It is really LIFE CHANGING. Where is faith, trust and work there is also always hope.
"you want a woman when God has her heart, you have to go to God to get her heart and that takes a lot of confidence" ... "Vanity attracts vanity" God bless you sir 😊
I like this video... here is part of why.... this man is saying things that God has shown me. God opened my eyes to certain things, I SAW them, it was beautiful. God changed the way I was attracted to the opposite sex. I stopped being attracted to them because of what they looked like. I started to be attracted to men for who they are. And it stopped feeling sexual and it just became about loving their soul. That can turn into sexual attraction, but it begins with just loving the goodness inside of them. And I also think maybe God helps you to be attracted to someone good for you when you are on the right path. Anyway.. I would go into more detail but I have to go. I wish I believed I deserve the kind of love that is described in this video. One day I might feel it. Thank you for reminding me that the man for me will cherish me.
God does not bless us because we deserve or earn it. Whether it is salvation, or the kind of love JP is talking about in the video. God sends this kind of man because he LOVES us. If we are willing to be faithfuol to the Lord and wait for His timing and will, it will happen, the waiting will be over, and a new journey will begin. Thank God in advance for the kind of man described in this video. That is an expression of Faith. This is what I believe and what I am doing after watching this man of God on this video. God bless you, Stephanie. Jackie Askea
I think you got it almost exactly right. One thing I should mention though, is that God may not have marriage in mind for everyone. There are a number of people who God gave lives of singleness. Marriage is the norm, but it is not granted to everyone-even when they’re faithful.
@@purelightapologetics4930 I do not see how that contradicts any of what I said. I agree with you. But I'm speaking about me - who wants to be married. So put that spin on what I said. I have seen people from my church as my literal brothers. And I can see how objectifying them in any way could take away from our brotherly and sisterly love. I see the value in both being single and being married.
JP 😭 I thank God for blessing your heart and making you one of his most potent agents of ministry!!! From Harris Creek to The Porch to now Breakaway, the Lord is leading me to each of your teachings and through you, through Him, I’m a born again Christian today living the healthiest version of my 32 years of living. I love you and please continue to do God’s wonderful work, and saving souls 🙏🏾
Those who are born again -spiritually ARE the Church- the Tabernacle- the Temple- the Tent of Meeting It is not a go- to place That’s for the religious Holy Spirit comes to us and dwells within us AS Jesus Christ went to the people and chose the 12 - discipled and disciplined by Him mans Christianity is of Satan Has more heads than the Beast of Revelation the denominational system is of the devil Christ is NOT divided! Man comes in his own name- someone else’s name and puts Gods name on It Jesus came in His Fathers name because it was Him that sent Him!!! It takes years to be prepared for ministry - it was 30 yrs for Jesus and Holy Spirit is the Teacher!!!
@@Vulture402 Hi, I'm trying to understand men's perspective better to honor my husband. Wondering if you'd tell me how this message is perverse. Is it unrealistic? Your thoughts are appreciated.
I have turned my life around and I could see the changes...to be a better man I had to start with me still a work in progress but thank God I'm not that guy anymore. Definitely sharing this
We need this kind of beautiful message to our people. This guy is talking about the center of it all. Love. Nothing else matters. You are a beautiful soul sharing this message.💖
This is exactly what I need to hear. As a young woman who has read lots of books about purity and looked up "Godly " couples. But then they decided to divorce and worst even left the faith, I am extremely confused. Ex Joshua Harris etc. I'm reminded they are NOT THE STANDARD, JESUS IS THE STANDARD. The 5C's will be my guide in looking for a future spouse. Thank you for this refreshing to hear.
Wow that was truly epic! I’ve been in a mission to find my Godly wife, but wasn’t doing it all the way Gods way. Some of the points about purity and temper management struck major chords with me. There’s always things to work on. I thank the Lord for his protection, guidance and carefully handed preparation before I do meet her, so I can be the man of god, husband and father he always meant for me to be and that she deserves. Additionally, the holy spiritual showed me months ago that I was looking for my future wife’s fathers blessing but first I needed the Holy spirits blessing. That was a major epiphany. Shalom Blessings.
I've been asking the Lord for healing. Healing in my relationship. Been praying and asking him to speak to me. He used you. Eventhough, I'm the girl in the relationship, the Lord knows what seed he has planted. His word yesterday came to me through another source and you confirmed it. Thank you.
My goodness this is amazing ❤️❤️❤️ thank you Jesus for these kind of truths! I’ve been devastated by men! Prayers that there is a good man for me! 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Been w Christ for 22 years and this is one of IF NOT the Best/ most Wise sermon I've heard on this subject. Will share with others. Definitely blessed me too.
I've dabbled in man whoring and hated it, I've also dabbled in the red pilled alpha movement, and I hate it too. I find myself continually returning to my Christian roots and im glad I've seen this approach to dating seems to be a lot more effective.
Hi Trey, I hope you and the Lord prepare you to make a beautiful husband leaning not on your own understanding but in every way acknowledging Him for a beautiful wife who knows loves and submits to our Heavenly Father in Jesus's name. ❤️
One of the best messages I have heard. Thank you so much, so powerful. I needed to hear this and shared with my ex asking him to please hear this message when he can give it all of his attention. This message can change lives.
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤so much love from Ghana,I’m blessed not only because the message is powerful but also because there are men who can speak to me about how to love women and God❤ Cos often times we mostly have woman speaking to women on love to love men but who talks to the men?🙌🏽🙌🏽 So many at times we try to love them with our all which surmount to nothing cos no one speaks to them on how to love back😊but i thank God for a message like this🙌🏽🙌🏽👏🏼
Amin. Thank you for your love, presence and abundance. Need your miracle as you are almighty loving Father God. Trust will get me thru in the most precious name of Jesus. Amin🕊🙏🏼✝️✝️✝️
Scrolling through the comments, I’m sad that they’re mostly from women. Jesus I pray you will guide more of your men to find this message and give them the courage to pursue excellence in loving their women. Amen.
Thank you
Amen!
It because men are not men spent time in fantasy land and getting facial just like woman
I think or at least with my friends, men think women are the problem.
We change after marriage. We become their maids and mothers.
The consideration of being a partner is gone. It is so disappointing.
No, this message is horrible...Eph 5:25 instructs a husband to love His wife as Christ loves the church, so He should love her the way Jesus does
- Cherishing (patient, kind, respectful, able to slow down for her, love her as christ loves the church, understanding, sacrificial)
- Confident (submitted and surrendered to Christ, humility, service, to get her heart will take confidence before the Lord)
- Controlled by the Holy Spirit (self-control, slow to anger)
- Clear conscience (not entertained by the enemies' entertainment, pursue purity)
- Communicate (leaders remove confusion)
- Christ-centered
Thank you, just screenshot this x
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The hero we needed. Thank you.
Thank youu !!
Beautiful detailed explanation. Thank you!
5 C’s!
Cherish Her
Confident
Controlled by the Holy Spirit
Clean Conscience
Committed to the right things
Christ Centered Life
Thank you!🙏🏽
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I love that, it’s unique; although remember brother, We can only be Led by faith , we’re never controlled but rather received as we willingly SURRENDER🙏🏽 the Lord with you
"You weren't meant to be best friends with the opposite sex". I concur. Come on yall, there should be boundaries. Look at all those tik tokkers- "I kiss my best friend to see his reaction"- how stupid. the culture/trend is a set up for marriage failures. Thank you for this, sir!
By the grace of God, I've had victory over sexual sin for close to 2 years, I've noticed the key has been to attack those thoughts that try to crawl in immediately with the word of God. Having a ZERO tolerance approach, zero movies or going to places (beach) that have situations where your eyes can stumble.
So understated - what you feed, will grow. You feed yourself the word of God your desire to fight sin grows stronger.
Thank you Lord, guide us all to honor you with our lives.
Praise God! So encouraging to see a praise report encourage other believers, to God be the glory 🙏
Amen! A prayer I do is :"every demonic thoughts that are trying to emprisoned my mind, be vanished in Jesus's name!"
Thank you so much for this
Keep it up!!!
And what has God replaced that sexual sin with? Has he given you the love of your life to replace that? If you have to do it yourself, then I don't know why you would need God.
@@badgerden7080 im not sure I understand completely what you mean but I would say he has replaced it with a deeper love for him and his word. Giving me a new perspective and showing me how sin crawls in and it's only purpose is to destroy you.
I’m a 40 year old woman and got so much out of listening to this. This is great.
This is awesome! As a young married man, there is so much truth in all these teachings! Don't bring your problems into the marriage. Marriage doesn't fix problems, it combines them and gets them to light. Be strong fellow man, read your Bibles and get Holy!
I love this! God richly bless you! 🙏🏾❤️
I had no idea of how valuable this message is...made me realize how messed up, confused & nieve I was...I am dating my girlfriend with the purpose & plan to marry her...I have been married before & messed up big time...I am trusting God to bless me with His purpose & plan
Even though I am not married now I was for almost thirty years to a man that never grew up. He divorced me and married his mistress. Before his death he asked me to remarry him several times but I refused him. I wish this video could be shown across the world. As I always told my children when they were young Salvation and who you marry will be the two greatest decisions you will ever make in your life. They will make or break you. Thanks for posting this video. God bless everyone that had a part in producing it.
Told 3 of my grandkids the same thing just the other day!!
My heart goes out to you. My brother’s sadly following a similar path as your ex-husband.
My efforts to reach out to him have failed to the point we’ve gone no contact.
Please know you are not alone in your experiences either in marriage, as a parent, or as a Christian. We’re all together in Christ.
@@chamuuemura5314 Thank you so much Chamu. As Christians and fellow human beings we are in this together. Read Proverbs 21&1 and put your brother name where it says "the kings heart," and watch God do a Psalms 46:10 on your brother. Be blessed.
Zero forgiveness in you. 100% in him.
@@Kitiwake thanks four comment,however I know by the grace of God I forgave him one hundred percent. Had I not I would have been only hurting myself. I ever asked him to forgive me if I unknowingly said or did anything to him that hurt him. He said that the only thing I was guilty of was loving him too much. As Edgar Guest said in his poem titled "Myself ," I've got to live with myself and so I wanna be fit for myself to know. Don't want to face myself with the setting sun and hate myself for things I've done. Be blessed.
Thank you for this sermon , I have been blessed with a beautiful, loving woman in my life . This opened my eyes to what a man is called for . I’m 38 . This is things we learn early on as a young man . I better get serious! I better act now . God is calling me . I need to change
Can there please be a "How to Love a Man" edition? I'm stuck on this one. Thanks!
Francis Chan and his wife have a couples series I would check that out. It's on RUclips
@@mookieblaylock9414 Thanks!
How you love a woman you love a man; God created man and woman, but all made from Man. Equality grows compassion and compassion brings peace
@@mookieblaylock9414 thanks for that info 🙏
"Love and Respect" Book by Emerson Eggerichs might help with that.
AMEN BROTHER! Best thing I’ve heard about truly loving a woman, and how to get there. Made me reflect about a lot of things I didn’t understand in regards to following Christ. I was married to a beautiful God fearing Christian woman, and I was so broken it ended in divorce. By the grace of God, she is still in my life, and we are on the right path now, because I have given my life to Christ. My hope remains in Him, and with His leadership, I can truly love my wife more than I was ever able to before! God bless you sir, and thank you so much for this video!
“Women don’t like angry men disciplining their babies”.
I think every woman and man should listen to this. This is so powerful and full of so much that needs to be said. The C's ❤️ Thank you.
Thank you so much for this. I feel like someone has finally taught me how to love a real woman right and gave me the keys to better love life. I want to constantly listen to this over and over so every part of it imprints into my mind and heart and changes me from the inside out.
Awesome comment. What you feed your mind is who you become.
Going to show all three of my grandchildren this message . We need more men like this wonderful man here. Thank you Lord for rising up a leader. Amen
Wow! Becoming a good parent starts long before you are a parent due to the habits you pick up. So true. This cut to the core. I wish to share this with everyone.
Thank you, Lord, for leading me to this video. I needed this.
My Lord!! What a message!! God bless this man and all that hear this!
Amen!!!
Loved this
As soon as you said “we are going to talk about how to love a woman”, I was instantly moved to tears. Men need to hear this. We need them to hear this.
Society is very distorted by false doctrine on this topic and it is breaking the biblical family unit.
Was all here amazed at this but it got even sweeter when he gave my country Uganda as an example. I just had to comment!😍🇺🇬😉
I felt the power of God on this word. A profound word for the women as well as men. I wish I would have heard this as a teenager. I pray Holy Spirit continues to blow on this word into the womb of those who have ears to hear 🙏
All fathers need this message to help teach their sons and then to reciprocate and to teach their daughters what to look for in a man. I pray for my family!!
Wow!! Finally someone is talking to men!! I am used to women, women, women all the time!!
One of the most beautiful messages I’ve seen during my walk with Jesus ❤️🙌🏼🌟
Please God show me a man who can do these 5 things for the woman he loves. I desire the miracle of a Godly relationship.
How beautiful to find this this morning!! What a message about waiting and being patient for the right man!🙏🏻🌈💖
This is not only for men. Had me in tears and deep conversation with the Lord after watching this. Wish we could make this mandatory in our school system!
THIS IS HUGE!! THANK YOU GOD FOR THIS FELLOW!!
One trust in GOD and one trust in his Ego. Confidence vs. Conceitedness 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 that was a bar
This was done with so much excellence-it had to be the anointing of God for sure!!! Everyone on this planet needs to hear this!!!
This is a powerful message for men these days! I pray that many men will be set free and set up for a fulfilling relationship! God bless you sir!
I’m a woman and you nailed this! Spot on!
At 15:50 I felt convicted. Lord I need your provision, strength and your righteous encouragement. Thank you in Jesus Name Amen
knew exactly what I wanted in a spiritual man and I totally agree with what this man says about attraction because looks can change but the heart filled with kindness and patience and when I met the right person we both knew it from the very beginning. I think that gratitude and friendship can turn into love and real love should be based on trust and based on understanding of each other's needs. Man should not get married if noy ready to wait and respect her timing like she would do the same for him. I waited a month for the first kiss and it was perfect and the most beautiful moment and he was the best friend and a good man that gave me the best care after I became sick. We were both each other first and I don't see anything bad about the media if there is trust between the two that love each other. I am disgusted by thinking about pornography and everything that does not have serious and deep love in it. Angela Italy
What I think is missing from conversations about porn is the fact that pornstars are not 2D fake women…they are women. Porn means someone has objectified real people, children of God. We are commanded to approach people as children of God, and to selflessly love them. Porn involves looking at someone as an empty piece of garbage really, and a tolerance to see them humiliated and degraded. There’s a lack of love and objectification toward the people who are in porn involved as well. That may be the sickest part about it, and more important than how it affects the watcher. It affects the people involved and that’s not called out. There is in fact a love problem, and valuing people problem when people sleep around and or view porn.
This! There is a perspective of porn stars in the Christian community which depicts them as evil temptresses with a Jezebel spirit. But more than often, these people have been abused and terribly victimised. I wish that the conversation around porn in the Christian world would touch more on the fact that it is essentially filmed torture, that those who consume it are actually gratifying themselves off people who are in deep suffering.
Teary-eyed by the end 👏 🙌
Some men don't grow up and ...sadly they never realize they hadn't. My father and his before him. My example of what a man is... made me naive, blind, over forgiving, to abusive tendencies, "manchild" behavior, adult boy tantrums, selfishness, and disrespect.
I am a believer in marriage, and it is for life, so I have yet to marry...
A lot of men struggle with this if they only had a mom or a overbearing, enabling mom.
Thank you for working on yourself and realizing it before marrying someone. That woman will love you and end up having to be your mom and keep track of everything until she burns out trying to have an adult relationship with you (but cant (and trying to raise the children y’all made).
I live this and I love him enough to stay but its very hard at times for me because I want to honor him and let him lead but unless he feels someone (not me) hold his feet to the fire constantly, he falls right back into childish behavior.
I see his potential if he would take hold of his life and grow away from the childlike tendencies he falls into but its not my call to change him. Tried that as a stupid young wife for over a decade.
I have since got to see some real, grown up men who aren’t childish… they enjoy having fun but they get things done first and pay attention to others needs.
I am so sorry and once you do figure life out, you will have alot to give someone and lessons to teach.
Once you learn to make yourself do what is right instead of what feels good… you will be an asset to a woman.
Dont give up hope! Give it up to God and let this be a testimony. My life itself before marriage and even after is a testimony to God working in my life. I definitely came in with my own scars and issues.
The difference between me and my hubby is I refuse to let that limit me and want to be the best and learn how to be the woman God wants me and my hubby has always just done enough to “get by” and seem like a good, Christian person. I fell into it for too long as well and now I am pulling myself up and praying he wakes up and grows.
I really want to see him and all the men like him get this figured out. Most have alot going for them if they could trust God and begin to do the hardest thing of allowing Him to mold and change what was broken by family.
This should have way more views! So thankful for JP's boldness to preach truth and how God is using him to encourage young adults.
This should have 10mil views..
Powerful. Took way too long to learn this stuff, and he articulates it so well. Trying to teach my boys this early.
I’ve only watched 12 minutes so far but I am so impressed. Wow! I wish all young men had access to this. God bless you for sharing these teachings. I pray it receives millions of views and saves lots of relationships
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That is some great preaching right there. A lot of truth here.
There should be more teachings like this that will create healthy relationships, and healthy families.
My addiction was gambling but I surrendered repented and asked for the BLOOD OF JESUS to cover me forgive me and God said …”I see you cleansed and clean now!” And I wanted to stay that way … it took 3 days for the temptations to leave me. Now I only wish to serve God and release anything not of my God! ❤it’s amazing
Yell this out needed desperately, families urgently need this
Thankyou for this. How to Love a man in a GODLY way, I’m in that process. I’ve watched enough GODLY women with their husbands, learned what to do, what not to do. Respect them where it’s earned. Listen to them, follow what they tell you if it’s practical. Always, always build them up, say only good things about them, never talk negative about them too there’s, we reap what we sow. Be attentive, give little signs that he us in your mind, whether it be a look, a touch. Etc. Give advice if needed, not in a demeaning manor. Help them with their weaknesses, praise them highly. Ask them what they want to do. Outings, etc. Let them be the decision makers, for serious matters. Pray for them most of all. ❤️
Thank you so much for this list of to do’s I have learned one too many to don’t do’s so I wrote up a list. Relationship goals for all the guys in my life. As a Godly woman I benefited from this preaching and this comment. Thanks so much. 🙏 God is so good all the time!!!
Amen
Lord Many married men need to hear that. Beautiful message.
Men should not be getting married. When a man gets married, he signed a contract with the state. The government is not to be trusted.
I pray every man would listen to this! I have shared it many times. The value of a woman, or your woman...the value. The respect.
I read one person said can we have one "How to love a man"! ❤ Thank you for your message!!!
I wish I would have heard the “not being best friends with a woman” part.
Have been married to my wife for 10 yrs and my friendship with this woman had been a 20 plus year friendship. All these years, my wife always thought I was going to leave her for this woman.
When I found this out. I was devastated. I ended the friendship right away and it’s made my marriage better.
I can’t hate the term “work wife” enough.
Don’t let another woman get between you and your wife. Don’t!
This was so BEAUTIFUL to hear. I am thankful for everyone who made this video come true, thanking Jonathan and Jesus. It is really LIFE CHANGING. Where is faith, trust and work there is also always hope.
I think I'm gonna be listening to this multiple times. This is great stuff. Thanks for putting this on youtube!
"you want a woman when God has her heart, you have to go to God to get her heart and that takes a lot of confidence"
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"Vanity attracts vanity"
God bless you sir 😊
Wow finally a voice thundered on men to be men.. This exactly what god wants.. From India Mumbai.. Breathtaking message... God bless you
I like this video... here is part of why.... this man is saying things that God has shown me. God opened my eyes to certain things, I SAW them, it was beautiful. God changed the way I was attracted to the opposite sex. I stopped being attracted to them because of what they looked like. I started to be attracted to men for who they are. And it stopped feeling sexual and it just became about loving their soul. That can turn into sexual attraction, but it begins with just loving the goodness inside of them. And I also think maybe God helps you to be attracted to someone good for you when you are on the right path. Anyway.. I would go into more detail but I have to go. I wish I believed I deserve the kind of love that is described in this video. One day I might feel it. Thank you for reminding me that the man for me will cherish me.
God does not bless us because we deserve or earn it. Whether it is salvation, or the kind of love JP is talking about in the video. God sends this kind of man because he LOVES us. If we are willing to be faithfuol to the Lord and wait for His timing and will, it will happen, the waiting will be over, and a new journey will begin. Thank God in advance for the kind of man described in this video. That is an expression of Faith. This is what I believe and what I am doing after watching this man of God on this video. God bless you, Stephanie. Jackie Askea
I think you got it almost exactly right. One thing I should mention though, is that God may not have marriage in mind for everyone. There are a number of people who God gave lives of singleness. Marriage is the norm, but it is not granted to everyone-even when they’re faithful.
You deserve it even if you don’t feel like it
@@purelightapologetics4930 I do not see how that contradicts any of what I said. I agree with you. But I'm speaking about me - who wants to be married. So put that spin on what I said. I have seen people from my church as my literal brothers. And I can see how objectifying them in any way could take away from our brotherly and sisterly love. I see the value in both being single and being married.
@@stephanietherese Honestly, I don't know why I put that comment on your comment. I think I was trying to respond to someone else. I'm sorry.😅
Powerful!! ALL young men need to hear this!!
Waw..just beautiful! Every young man should see this. God bless 😚
I wish there were a lot more men that had your conviction & strength.
JP 😭 I thank God for blessing your heart and making you one of his most potent agents of ministry!!! From Harris Creek to The Porch to now Breakaway, the Lord is leading me to each of your teachings and through you, through Him, I’m a born again Christian today living the healthiest version of my 32 years of living. I love you and please continue to do God’s wonderful work, and saving souls 🙏🏾
Thank you for this. A lot of videos holding women accountable especially in church. Nice to see one addressing men. Thanks for bringing balance
Those who are born again -spiritually ARE the Church- the Tabernacle- the Temple- the Tent of Meeting
It is not a go- to place
That’s for the religious
Holy Spirit comes to us and dwells within us AS Jesus Christ went to the people and chose the 12 - discipled and disciplined by Him
mans Christianity is of Satan
Has more heads than the Beast of Revelation
the denominational system is of the devil
Christ is NOT divided!
Man comes in his own name- someone else’s name and puts Gods name on
It
Jesus came in His Fathers name because it was Him that sent Him!!!
It takes years to be prepared for ministry - it was 30 yrs for Jesus and Holy Spirit is the Teacher!!!
Where are these videos?
@@Vulture402 Hi, I'm trying to understand men's perspective better to honor my husband. Wondering if you'd tell me how this message is perverse. Is it unrealistic? Your thoughts are appreciated.
I have turned my life around and I could see the changes...to be a better man I had to start with me still a work in progress but thank God I'm not that guy anymore. Definitely sharing this
I haven't been married yet not even once, I learned a lot listening to this message. God bless the man who gave this message
Wonderful wonderful message 🙏🏻 Thank you!
We need this kind of beautiful message to our people. This guy is talking about the center of it all. Love. Nothing else matters. You are a beautiful soul sharing this message.💖
Amazing message! God bless you 🙏🏼
Wow one of the best teachings I have heard. So much wisdom in this message.
This is exactly what I need to hear. As a young woman who has read lots of books about purity and looked up "Godly " couples. But then they decided to divorce and worst even left the faith, I am extremely confused. Ex Joshua Harris etc.
I'm reminded they are NOT THE STANDARD, JESUS IS THE STANDARD. The 5C's will be my guide in looking for a future spouse. Thank you for this refreshing to hear.
Thank you for this teaching. Much appreciated!
Such a good speech thank you for sharing your gift thank you... you brought tears to my eyes. God bless you💙
Thank you for this message. This hits right in my core.
What a GREAT message!! Thank you for advocating on behalf of women…something not often heard from male clergy ❤
Yes, because a man rushes us women all the time and we're always rushing to do things. Glad you spoke on this..loved listening....
There’s so much to unpack here. Thank you for sharing your experience and wisdom. This is eye opening.
That Louis Vito video was really inspiring. Thanks for sharing. 🙏🏾✝️
Wow that was truly epic! I’ve been in a mission to find my Godly wife, but wasn’t doing it all the way Gods way. Some of the points about purity and temper management struck major chords with me. There’s always things to work on. I thank the Lord for his protection, guidance and carefully handed preparation before I do meet her, so I can be the man of god, husband and father he always meant for me to be and that she deserves.
Additionally, the holy spiritual showed me months ago that I was looking for my future wife’s fathers blessing but first I needed the Holy spirits blessing. That was a major epiphany. Shalom
Blessings.
I like this so much ❤ thank you for sharing the message
A very good message based on the scriptures. That produces a good marriage those that love the Lord and put Him first.
This man is so good and what makes him so good is the fact that he has a pass and he uses his wisdom he gained from it into his sermons
What an amazing message.
What an amazing message, learned a lot! Thank you fort posting this video. God bless you and your family
I've been asking the Lord for healing. Healing in my relationship. Been praying and asking him to speak to me. He used you. Eventhough, I'm the girl in the relationship, the Lord knows what seed he has planted. His word yesterday came to me through another source and you confirmed it. Thank you.
So So good. Praise the Lord.
This sermon was amazing! Thank you so much for this because I needed to hear it. Definitely felt convicted.
Scriptural, therefore high quality, discipleship ❗️ God’s wisdom lifted high🙌🏽🙌🏽
This was an absolutely awesome word 🎉 Praise God 🙏🔥
this is incredible. God at work
WOW!!! man of God you said it ALL
My goodness this is amazing ❤️❤️❤️ thank you Jesus for these kind of truths! I’ve been devastated by men! Prayers that there is a good man for me! 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Thank you for reminding it helps a lot
Been w Christ for 22 years and this is one of IF NOT the Best/ most Wise sermon I've heard on this subject. Will share with others. Definitely blessed me too.
I've dabbled in man whoring and hated it, I've also dabbled in the red pilled alpha movement, and I hate it too. I find myself continually returning to my Christian roots and im glad I've seen this approach to dating seems to be a lot more effective.
Hi Trey, I hope you and the Lord prepare you to make a beautiful husband leaning not on your own understanding but in every way acknowledging Him for a beautiful wife who knows loves and submits to our Heavenly Father in Jesus's name. ❤️
One of the best messages I have heard. Thank you so much, so powerful. I needed to hear this and shared with my ex asking him to please hear this message when he can give it all of his attention. This message can change lives.
Love ur interesting video it really helped what u said about how to have a strong marriage I took alot of notes thank u so much
I am a woman and this video moved me. Thank you!
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤so much love from Ghana,I’m blessed not only because the message is powerful but also because there are men who can speak to me about how to love women and God❤
Cos often times we mostly have woman speaking to women on love to love men but who talks to the men?🙌🏽🙌🏽
So many at times we try to love them with our all which surmount to nothing cos no one speaks to them on how to love back😊but i thank God for a message like this🙌🏽🙌🏽👏🏼
Amen!!! AMEN!!! Amen!!!! good 👍😊🤗 job
God please bless me with a husband that loves me with your love ❤ (I already love him even though I don’t know who he is). In the name of Jesus, amen!
Amin. Thank you for your love, presence and abundance. Need your miracle as you are almighty loving Father God. Trust will get me thru in the most precious name of Jesus. Amin🕊🙏🏼✝️✝️✝️
JP Ty you brother for this timely word!
This was so real! I’m saving this to show my teen son. Thank you for allowing the Lord to speak through you in such an impactful way!
Do you have facebook Mavi?
Wow! Though I'm a woman, I'm a wife and a mother of 2 sons. All I can say is Thank You! Thank you!