Media Erases Moms on Mother's Day | Ep 1002
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- Опубликовано: 13 июн 2024
- Today, we discuss the evil practices of surrogacy and egg- and sperm-selling, as highlighted by a recent video of a same-sex male couple who adopted a newborn baby. How has the practice of surrogacy and tearing children away from their mothers become so commonplace in America? What are the impacts of motherless or fatherless homes? And what does this mean for Christians in the culture war?
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Timecodes:
00:00 Intro
04:40 Age delusion
11:11 Surrogacy effects
24:29 Washington Post
38:08 Christians need to care about the culture war
42:54 Stories of children of same-sex parents
51:00 Statistical impacts of same-sex homes
59:15 Positive trend away from divorce
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I've given birth to 3 babies and have seen many many birthing videos. Babies just settle down when they smell mommy, nearly instantly. That baby was scared.
It sure is a blessing to have the embracing arms of a loving mother upon her babies. Such a sad time we live in...can't imagine that God will let it go on too much longer without intervening. God bless you and your family and His embrace be upon you all along the way.
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Yeah that absolutely broke my heart seeing that. It truly disturbed me to my core seeing that baby denied his need to be with mom. I can’t imagine how afraid and confused he was.
I remember when my firstborn was placed on me after crying for everyone else (Grandma, Grandpa, and even Dad). And no one could console him until he was laid on my chest. He instantly stopped! Moms are necessary! Amen!
I love how you logically reason out the truth! “Doesn’t the fact that it requires both a man and a woman to make a human baby, indicate clearly that a human baby needs both a mom and a dad?” Truth is truly defined by what is reality. Keep it up Allie, you are a bold, brave and brilliant voice of truth in an upside down, crazed world!❤
Allie, I just turned 69 and still feel like I’m 30 😂🎉. You are a refreshing and necessary voice in this world of confusion. Thank you.
Lol!! I am your age and feel 40! So I hear ya! ❤
I agree I just turned 60 and truly feel that I am 39 lol! I am glad I am not the only boomer who is a huge fan of Allie! Shout out to my boomer sisters 🎉❤
I immediately like (and usually comment) on your videos because more people need to be aware and informed about topics like these! You’ve changed my mind completely on surrogacy.
Same here!
Same!
That man doesn’t love those babies. Those babies are absolutely terrified desperately crying for the love of their mother that they deserve. The man should be in prison or worse. These people are sick and anyone who takes a baby from its mother in this way is an abomination plain and simple. It makes me physically ill to see that.
I'm inclined to agree with you but the mother was complicit. Women and men are all at fault if they are participating somehow.
It won't go on much longer.
I love that your mentioned Abram and Hagar! A long time ago, before I knew Anything, and before I had heard anyone ever publicly about the immorality of surrogacy or IVF, I remember telling my mom that IVF made me think of Abram and Sarai trying to take God's promise into their own hands.
This made me SO sad 😢 I remember my babies crying like that at first, and then once they were placed on MY chest they calmed down and slept! So heartbreaking
Pregnant and tearing up over the baby stopping crying because he was next to his momma 🥹❤️
Congratulations!
I love how these episodes have helped shape my mindset and morals about these things! Ban surrogacy!
You are so spot on, makes my heart hurt. These poor babies.
24:48
This is so insulting to real mothers
The welfare state has shown deleterious effects of growing up fatherless. Gender ideology is about to show us the heart breaking reality of growing up motherless.
I can hardly watch or listen, my heart is broken for this baby
its absolutely sickening
Thank you for always boldly speaking the truth in love, Allie
I am 37, have 3 kids, have been married 16 years, have owned homes and vehicles, and I’m a doctor. A DOCTOR. Responsible for people and stuff. I feel like a teenager or college aged student most days.
You’re 37 why would you want to feel like a teenager how about a 30 year old .. teenagers can’t grasp emotions and are immature . I didn’t want to be a teenager when I was one ..
I don’t want to be a teenager, and when I’m around them I definitely know I am not one. I wonder when I’ll “feel my age.”
@@chantals166 how do you know and recognize when you are acting "your age" if you've never been the age you are before, ever, and at all times?
That is so disgusting to purposely deprive a girl of her Mom. These gay men couples who demand to have children are so selfish!! It’s all about them, not the children.
Like Dave Ruben
with out god human being will always do what makes them happy even it's a sin there doing
@jascharl yes, sadly. I kinda liked to listen to Dave some before that. After he made that announcement, I've maybe watched a handful if his clips, definitely not going out of my way to listen to his show.
@@jascharlyes, exactly. He’s part of the problem too.
And lesbians who deny kids their father!
Allie thank you so much for your courage in speaking out against this heart breaking movement to create motherless and fatherless children! I can hardly bear to watch the video of the newborn placed on a man’s chest😭.
My husband and I have three sons and a daughter. Our daughter is a total Daddy's girl, she curls up in the crook of his arm like a little kitty and they look like absolute pizzle pieces. That being said, she is also my mini, and the things we do together feel totally different. Mommies feel different, especially for a little girl as she gets older. 💔
Allie, thank you. 🙏🏻💪🏻❤️🔥
Thanks Allie for speaking the truth and speaking out. This is so sad for the children.
Thank you Allie Beth ! For reporting on this. Because it's so gross where our society is, it's so so hard to watch.
I hope you get to the million subscriber mark. You deserve it Allie👍
I’m 28 and every time I meet someone in their early 20’s I’m always so shocked that I too am not in my early 20’s lol
Allie--it is so hard to watch that video and so sad that is legal. My heart broke seeing that baby cry on that man's chest. Just so devastating and absolutely sad. Thanks for speaking up.
Lololol that Cozy Earth sponsor transition! 😭😭😭 true thooooo
I've heard some recent comments from the "Red Pill community " that seemed to be leaning toward the opinion that women aren't necessary for the actual raising of the children because studies show a single father does a better job than a single mother. Somehow we have to get back to a place where people are balanced and realize that BOTH parents are actually essential
Red pill is so toxic! So glad my Christian conservative husband never got sucked into that hell hole. He thought it was odd from the get go.
@@saltandsriracha a lot if the men are running patriarchal marriages, too.
I’m watching this 2 weeks postpartum. I’m in tears and sick to my stomach that people do this to sweet innocent babies. When my little girl hears my voice she instantly stops crying. It’s just the sweetest thing. Babies need their mom! (Also Ishmael stayed with his mom Hagar sooooo really a terrible comparison on his part. 🤷🏻♀️)
My grandma, when she was 80 yrs old, when we would be walking down the street in our very small town, she would look across the street at women who were noticeably younger than her but walking with a cane or walker would say..."when I get old I'm not going to walk like those old ladies with a cane"...lol...and she never did.
This just breaks my heart. A father and mother are both so impactful. But a mom in those first few years is so important. My son is 13 months old and he loves his papa but when hes upset or he know its time to sleep, he doesnt even want him to hold him. He wants me. I cant imagine if something were to ever happen to me and he's just wondering around saying mama, mama, looking for me. I cant even think about it without crying.
I'm a bio and foster mama and it blows my mind that people/the gov are pushing the narrative that all these kids need is "love". We have training thru the State on the importance of children reuniting with their bio parents (mom AND dad) and how it increases positive outcomes. We are parenting kids that will forever carry the trauma of not being raised by their bio mom AND dad..and people are profiting off of creating brokenness. Crazy, frustrating, and sad.
My guess is a Relatable conference tour! 🙏😄
its amazing that these children (even with propaganda constantly in their ear) have way more common sense than these adults that are so deluded
I say that too! Animals and little babies know more about gender birth sex and gender norms that have existed since human creation, than many adults in our country and the westernized world.
@@moonytheblackcatxx very good point
I'm 42 - I feel almost a generation older than Allie Beth. That's only because I was raised immersed in the church, with an intellectually serious father. My family fell far short on most fronts, but my father DID provide the ambiance of clarity & intellect in serious pursuits of righteousness in oneness theology, christian media, the Biblical side of Western Civ history, Young Earth Evidences, logical questioning, culture war & abortion, sci fi TV (a bit too much) & some (hazy) ekklesiology.
My mind says 25 but my body says - “ARE YOU KIDDING ME?” “YOU’RE 62!” I think as you age, if you can still have fun and be playful but also be mature and take care of your responsibilities that’s a good balance. From Shawshank Redemption: “Get busy living, or get busy dying”
Thank you for being a voice of reason and goodness.
I totally relate to the whole “frozen in time” feeling, and as a single gal, I feel like it makes dating so much more challenging mentally! When I meet a guy who’s also in his 30s I have to remind myself that he’s not that much older than me 🤦♀️
I am currently 43 and turn 44 in October 2024. I don't feel that old. But I had a nice comment recently, that some one at my church thought I was in my 20's or 30's.
OMG that baby seeing, smelling and feeling his mama for the first time made me remember my 3 births so well ! OMG 😱 what are they doing to these poor babies
sad story today, we need to pray for this little girl,
I don’t think I’ll be able to listen and watch this one. It’s just heartbreaking. Prayers for that baby.
So appreciate you Allie!
This episode was just really heartbreaking 😢
I'm 37 and DEFINITELY feel that change in life and denial that I'm this old!
God bless you Allie for voicing what children need and surely children need moms and dads to be in the picture as God designed for it to be. It really is sad to see how low humanity has become on so many things, yet childhood being one of the dearest things to God' heart and the world has made such a mockery of His dearest love being His children whom are defenseless. God surely loves His creation and the innocent children whom have no voice...can't imagine the hearthbrokeness that God feels for His creation.
We all fall short of the glory of God in a way or another and am not here to judge samesex couples, that is between them and God, even though in the sight of God it is not the way He created His sons and daughters to be, yet we all fall short and sin is sin in the sight of God, regardless of the sin, small or great, sin is sin.
Samesex is the choice adults can choose, even though it is not good in the sight of God, but when they mess with the way God created for Children to grow up in, that is on a different level of messing with God and soon enough all whom messed up His defenseless children, God have mercy on them, especially on those whom never came to Christ for being forgiven.
When it comes to children being treated in the ways they are, I do believe is the last straw that pricks the greatest at the heart of God and sooner than later God will intervein and put an end to all the upsidedowness that is taking place in the world.
I don't agree with you on all the topics but have to say I do appreciate how you do speak out for the defenseless whom have no voice; the children created in the image of God. May Jesus continually supply His strength and wisdom and being for His glory and may He continually lead all of you whom are behind the scenes, helping to make things come together for the topics being spoken. Overall may Jesus be glorified in all things. Blessings. 🤍
Purposely depriving a baby of their mother should be a jail-able offense. Child abuse
Allie - I have had so many inner arguments with myself since I was 27 about my age, trying to remember and keep up. I GET IT. I turn 32 this coming Oct. and it is just crazy to think that. I don't always feel it mentally, but physically I sure do. ;)
100% right. Children deserve a mom and a dad. Love this show today. 😊
If my child’s school told me they were turning Mother’s Day into parents day?? Oh I would’ve called the school board fuming!!
I often don't feel my age because I am "ahead" of my age group. Married, house, kids.
I have friends 7ish years older than me and we get along great, but other days I feel astonished and in disbelief that I'm not 20 anymore!
This was my thought. I get along with anyone who's in the same life stage as me, moreso than age.
For gay men, more often than not, when they say 'love is love' - what they actually mean is 'lust is lust'. They sold us a romantic version of their lifestyle.
So a gay couple that has 20+ years of marriage are still together bc of lust?
What about the couples that are together till old age?that lust too?
Or how about the gay couples that arent doing any sexual acts together bc of their religious views, that’s lust as well?
For misleading children away from God and into confusion they will get Luke 17:2 KJV Bible
So a few years ago, I had a preschooler who called her mom's GF her "daddy", and added her very feminine name after. I'm not sure where her actual dad's place in her life was, but, yeah. Troubling.
You are bringing the old music back?!! Yes!!
Thank you, Allie for talking so intelligently and in depth about this topic. And really being as kind as you can be in speaking the truth.
All of this is so incredibly heartbreaking!! 💔 Children really do suffer from adults selfish choices! I don’t see how anyone who has love in them can do this to a child. Children are being treated worse than animals!! This literally is breaking my heart. 💔 (Also likely the same people that would call unborn babies fetuses the entire pregnancy but would call puppies in the womb puppies that entire pregnancy.) Sick sick sick on so many levels. This has led me to prioritize praying for all children everyday of my life and do all I can to protect them. So awful. 😞💔💔💔
I love relatable, its changed my life ❤❤ when i can afford merch im coming for it!
Agreed! Graduated in 2010 as well
Allie, I just turned 61. My sister and I were talking about how weird it is that we are 61 and 63. I'm my heart I still feel 30ish. But my bladder especially reminds me I am 61. 😂
Breaks my heart.
I am 36 and I often times forget that I’m 36. I sometimes feel like 25, until I do those surveys and they ask you age range…. It’s a weird feeling when reality hits. I’m like, “Oh yeah… I’m 36, now”
Amen! Children deserve a father and a mother ❤️ Two irreplaceable roles.
Im 46 but I feel like I am in my thirties...cannot believe I have two teenagers...the time flies!! Oh my it never feels like i ever catch up and have had many old moments. I just have to accept I am older then I feel.
I'm so confused why the child couldn't celebrate mother's Day like everyone else. They acknowledge to the child that she was born because of a woman/mother. Or if there isn't a connection there she could celebrate other mothering figures in her life like grandmother's or aunties or close family friends.
I’m 38 and late-diagnosed autistic. I still feel like I’m younger than I am, and to be fair, multiple Gen Zers have mistaken me for someone in my twenties. (Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome may play a role.)
I’m also back in college for a master’s degree, but amongst many my age or even older.
It was healthy for me to work a second job for a year before retuning to school, with people in high school and early college. I was able to have fun, but also mentor a few. It helped me realize that although I’m still silly and fun in many ways, I have perspective. Honestly wouldn’t trade it for being 17 again.
At 48 minutes....that was perfect!!
Great episode! Thank you, Allie!
About age, time for me to accept my own (& my mortality)! Best wishes on your announcement tmo!
Oh my gosh Allie - I‘ll turn 44 this year 😅
But we have eternity life at our Heavenly Father 🙏🏻
Praise the LORD for his grace 🙏🏻
Thank you Allie. You are a beacon of God’s light in our dark world.
Oh my gosh, I had thought of Brad Wilcox’s new book, which I’m reading now, earlier in this episode! When you mentioned him, my jaw dropped! I missed his book signing recently at First Free Coffee in Charlottesville, Steve Harvey’s pro-life shop where he sells Seven Weeks Coffee. I had first learned of Brad from brilliant Nancy Pearcey.
Thank you for the info ! We need mother’s and is not fair for baby’s
We need a clip that shows the contrast between the two baby videos
Hey i thought you should know that there is some weird stuff going on when i watch this show on RUclips certain parts get fast forwarded and sometimes i altogether get rerouted to some other random thing. It truly is frustrating . I do subscribe to the blaze because of this. However i like to share off RUclips to my family and friends who can’t afford to subscribe to the Blaze so ill watch it on RUclips every once in a while that way i can see what I’m sending to others. Although i can just go around the overlord of the tube not all of my friends and family can. Perhaps someone from the blaze can rewatch episodes so you can see what I’m talking about, because if its happening to me than surly its happening to other s as well. God bless you Allie keep up the good work
44 and I still feel like I’m in my 20s! Time flies!
Nice Ad transition with cozy earth. Sounded like Michael Knowles 👍
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 Truth wins. Every time!
Wow, I’m not a mom (yet, hopefully 😉) and I’ve never been in a delivery room. That second clip of the baby with his mom brought tears to my eyes. ❤
6:23 yesssssss! I'm about to be 38 and I struggle with determining how old ppl are! I think I'm the same age as younger ppl! And I can't tell how old ppl are unless they are super young or super old!
Girl as much as I love your channel for the most part you have gone way off-topic can you finish this episode now? I’ll look forward to watching
It’s selfish! All they care about is what they want! They do NOT THINK OR CARE ABOUT THE CHILDS NEEDS!!!!
That right there should exclude them from having and caring for children!
I used to know a couple who had a son. They tried to say he was better off because he had 2 fathers AND 2 moms. However, they don’t post about how one of the parents was arrested for Munchausen’s by Proxy when the child was a toddler. I have no idea how they got him back (he was really sick and there were videos of him being abused). You can’t believe all of the stories people post online.
Kids always seem to blame themselves for missing parents!
I’m 28 with two kids and a husband. Being with my husband makes me feel so young and silly. I feel like we are both in our early twenties
It absolutely is wrong, but when so many don’t respect life and the unborn are we surprised? No. The millstone analogy applies here. The biblical example of concubines is just ridiculous as well, you go Alliebeth!
Not to be totally off topic, but where is your shirt from?? Constantly trying to find cuter nursing-friendly outfits!
When I was in my early thirties, I *thought* I felt like I was in my 20’s…until I spent time with someone in their early twenties and realized we were not the same!😆 It’s the same as you go along. You just lose perspective.
I’m nearly 26 and my husband nearly 32 and I cannot get it out of my head since we have left these ages that I am 22 and he is 27 😂 It is a serious blip. This year my baby sister turned 22 and I’m seemingly convinced I still am too LOL.
2004 graduate here - thanks for making me feel so OLD today Allie!! 😂
Poor thing, 😢
Women cannot let men take everything away from what women worked so hard for being a Mom, women sports and now Mother’s Day. They can’t have a baby without a real woman!!
😂 Haaaay! I graduated in 2004! We are very much the same 😅🙌🏼🙏🏼
Im 32 as well ( my kids tell me that im old sometimes lol) will be 33 in July and definitely sometimes think I’m in my 20s but I must say my thirties so far have been my favorite:)
Current events are generational connectors to all generations anchors here
The age thing just keeps going on. I finally hit 50 this year, and I realized I am the elder mom in our homeschool group.😮
Haha I am 68 and continually hurt myself physically. Why? Because my constant thoughts are: “No sweat, I can do that. Piece of cake.” Ah no! Not a piece of cake. Lol
I teach with people 10+ years younger than me. I feel like I am still in my 30’s and I am 51. ❤️
16:53 that moment was meant for the baby to be put on their GESTATIONAL MOTHER. Anyone who has given birth or witnessed birth knows this objective trust. I want to cry for that little baby girl being put on that man. :/
Yeah, the whole age thing is weird. I look way younger than I am so people generally think I’m younger than I am. And I tend to put that sort of youth feeling I guess but when I am around, someone who is say 20, I realize I am not 20. There is a lot of life and learning every decade.
These “2 moms” and “2 dads” kept bringing up the fact that they inundated their kids with gay children’s books, discussing same-sex parent households. I don’t care how many of these [propaganda] books are written, it will NEVER change the reality of the importance of children needing a mother and a father. Nothing will ever change that.
Good show Allie - thank you for standing up for the children!
Seeing that poor baby in so much distressed lying on the chest of a transvestite man struck horror in my heart.
“Was it okay to let her bend reality this way?” … coming from a man whose bending reality in oh so many ways.
Forgive me, Allie, but a “great dad” would not do this to his children. What they are doing constitutes child abuse, so, I strongly disagree, they are not great dads.
I realize in our society people use the term “gay” so as not to offend. But it’s important that we defend God in this manner as well and stop using a false and misleading term to identify men who have same-sex attraction disorder. Let us identify them appropriately as “homosexual.” Why is it perfectly acceptable to identify women in that community as “lesbian,” but they shrink from using the proper term for their men?
Keep fighting for the children Allie!❤
Wow, it’s been nearly 10 years since I graduated university (2015). I remember feeling really grown back then. Now I see current university students and shake my head at how young those whipper snappers are 😂
Time sure does zip by, as if it was only yesterday that the Y2K nonsense that took place in 2000...feels like only yesterday it was 2000 and here we are twenty four years later that zipped by.
It sure is good to know that there is more to life than meets the eyes and while having the assurance for there being eternal life with God when this one on earth comes to a close. 🤗
People completely diminish the NECESSITY of breastfeeding. That newborn baby instinctually needs and wants the breast to eat and comfort nurse. Men do not have that. That is another primal need and process we are severing. Our society is also making it so casual to bottle feed with “fed is best” because most moms are working. That’s is a HUGE problem affecting all new generations and hurting babies.