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Life’s strange right now. I feel like I have too much information coming in, but I also can’t stop. The whole “keep trying keep failing it’s better than doing nothing” mentality has become too much, I’m almost worn out. But I still keep going and processing all this stuff. Sometimes I wanna build a raft and float away lol
information won´t give you de answer my man, action will, i am ,as you lost in this planet, look for it in your hometown, in the forests , in the sea, but find the thing that its the next issue to you, it doesnt have to be that complex , just, the next, step, and we will find out how to continue , stay strong slazza
Hey Everyone 🤠 Find the parts that interest you: 0:00 - Embrace adversity for growth 1:17 - Stress should not lead to avoidance 3:05 - Who do you want to become? 4:25 - How goals change who you are 5:54 - Pursue meaning, not just happiness 7:48 - Understanding stress and numbness 9:12 - Bad days create meaningful stories 10:20 - Choosing to feel empowers you Recap by Bumpups ✏️
An older man told me one night he woke up and couldn’t pee. At two in the morning he walked around the block to see if that would get the flow going. Finaly he had to use a home catheter. His words of wisdom to me was “ you don’t know stress , till you can’t pee” I believe him
Haven't listened yet. Probably really good. But still...that title and two guys in their 30's talking about the hardest times of their lives. I'm 48 and life keeps throwing handgrenade curve balls all the time. And I live a pretty good and relatively simple life and I am privileged enough to have the opportunity to choose what adversities I'd like to subject myself to. There are people whose lives are truly hard from birth to death. I don't think you understand what "hard" is until you carry the burden of a family and have catastrophic events happen to you repeatedly. Although of course, for some people the worst things in life happen to them in their childhood.🤷🏼♂️ I'd guess that for many people adversity isn't something they are in a position to choose voluntarily
54 year old here. Raised in a broken home, thrown out as a teen. Homeless; lived in a car, on friend's couches. Now, nearly all my childhood friends are dead. All my immediate family is dead. Cancer. Layoffs. Destitution. But I've met people who have had it far, far worse than I have; people who just dust themselves off and keep going. I was blessed to backpack across Uganda some 20 years ago, and there I met 16 year old 'men' wearing factory second Simpsons shirts and no shoes, carrying homemade ladders to build mud hut homes with roofs made of USAID cooking oil cans smashed flat and sheets for front doors - in lion country. The women did the laundry in the Nile, downstream from crocodiles. Far be it from me to deny someone their lived experience, but I'd be lying if I didn't admit I watch conversations like this one with a bit of amusement. For a whole lot of people on this planet, having any "long term goals" at all beyond mere survival is itself a privilege.
My Grandma who lives on Bashkiria in Russia gave me and advice when I've had tough days or someone or my dad tried to blame me cause I'm not perfect or that I'm not doing things perfect as I supposed to and my Grandma told me one thing, if anyone wants You to be or do things perfect tell them to kiss your ass and go to hell and laugh at their faces and that no one is perfect and who cares about being perfect? And it's about making Yourself feel good and to remember about your values and worth, and focus on Yourself and working on Yourself and not on being perfect, cause for my Grandma being happy = being unhappy, so She always tells me take care of Yourself and do what You need and try to do your best and if not it's okey, You are already good enough and You don't need perfect.
Hang in there buddy. I’m late 50s. Will spare you the details but life has been hard at times. My children’s’ lives were way easier than mine, but still had challenges. What I believe is that our experiences make us resilient. We will adapt to what we have to face. Have met people that literally can’t cope with a plane delay. And others that that work every day in extreme pain. To them both it seems to feel the same. You just have to keep moving forward. Things improve.
I take a slow deep breath... acknowledge it, feel it, and use my wisdom life's taught me to slowly but surely move forward navigating through with the best outcome I am able to. Then, when asked, I share my experience with others 💜🙌💜 all, with gratitude 💙🙏💙
Life is full of challenges that create disappointments, and joyous moments...Learning from these and knowing which way to turn is the magic that creates a cranky, grumpy old bastard or a joyful, loving elder man who has few regrets and is at peace with his end... As long as you've tried and kept trying and never give in to the darkness that you fear so...
I've always ignored my bad times or even when i didn't and opend the door for those negative things, I couldn't turn those into my motives. His cool attitude gives me a lot of lessons. appreciate mr.bumstead.
I don't think he numbs it, he and we, suppresses it with a hit of dopamine after a long scroll down social media. Each time it becomes weaker and more time needs to be spent on it, finding new videos and posts.
Hey Chris, appreciate the podcast. You mentioned in a recent episode that most of the important things that give you the best results are things that you’ve known for years and forgotten. Could you perhaps make a short episode going over the best advice you’ve been given (in terms of productivity, relationships, meaning, etc.)?
Chris, WADR, get a reality check. The hardest time of your life is when you are old and you are losing your health, your mind, your ability to take care of yourself, your continence, your confidence, your independence and your dignity, I've seen it. Friends and family members, no longer with us, have told me this - and several of those people have lived through the Great Depression and wars. If your subscribers can't handle life now, they are in for a rude awakening. They should take care of themselves by eating well and living honestly with good values. They should cherish their friends and family and have a family if they don't have one now. They should live a wholesome life to the fullest, with no fear and no regrets, so by the time they get to the end, it will give them some comfort knowing they've had a good life. Cheers.
They arent at that point in life yet. “Hardest time of your life” can only be up to the point you are at now of course. But you are correct in saying that that will be a sad and brutal time in ones life to come :(
Ok but what if you are already losing your mind and health in your twenties? I had a chronic illness for 4 years straight, everyday was an absolute grind, and I still had to look out for myself and pay my mom's bills as well as my own. When people say that being young was easy, I never understand that. My health has literally had an inverted trajectory, where my energy levels and feeling of health started out very low in my teens and twenties and only improved linearily as I became aware of the things that provide health. To be honest, what I learned from those times, was that happiness/joy/contentment is truly something completely internal and your external circumstances have nothing to do with it. Having a heart attack, losing a loved one, going bankrupt, losing a limb in war, might all be shocking events but your response to those stimuli is totally internal, and the human mind can actually get used to almost anything if given time and space. There is a nice section in Thomas Mann's The Magic Mountain where the main character explains how the human mind seems to adapt to any state of health, and when you even close to death there is a kind of joy and ecstasy achievable in that moment, too.
@@tomatom9666 I was speaking more generally and not to specifics. I understand that everyone's situation is different. I hope you are in good health now. It is very difficult to be mentally healthy without being nutritionally healthy. Poor nutrition and prescription drug dependence are the root causes for much of the world's problems. My father always said, "healthy mind AND healthy body" aka GIGO (Garbage In, Garbage Out). As far as happiness being internal, you are what you CHOOSE to consume and that includes your friends and family. We live in a society, so it's all about healthy choices. Regarding adaptation, how you choose to ACTIVELY MAKE your life, and it shouldn't be easy if it's worth living, is another story. Thank you for your service.
@@LostPilgrim Depends on one's outlook on it I suppose. I'd say that most live a long time, definitely longer than before. Sure, 100 years is nothing in the grand scheme of things but a pessimistic or nihilistic outlook doesn't seem like it'd help to deal with the time we have.
Hello you savages. Watch the full episode with Chris here - ruclips.net/video/DHWEqlG7DI0/видео.html Get a 20% discount on the best supplements from Momentous at livemomentous.com/modernwisdom
Life’s strange right now. I feel like I have too much information coming in, but I also can’t stop. The whole “keep trying keep failing it’s better than doing nothing” mentality has become too much, I’m almost worn out. But I still keep going and processing all this stuff. Sometimes I wanna build a raft and float away lol
Too much RUclips /:
@@max.8063 barely come on here man I’m too busy working
@@max.8063 if you said too many internet searches over stupid questions that tickle my brain I’d have to agree.
search the silence, it heals
information won´t give you de answer my man, action will, i am ,as you lost in this planet, look for it in your hometown, in the forests , in the sea, but find the thing that its the next issue to you, it doesnt have to be that complex , just, the next, step, and we will find out how to continue , stay strong slazza
Hey Everyone 🤠
Find the parts that interest you:
0:00 - Embrace adversity for growth
1:17 - Stress should not lead to avoidance
3:05 - Who do you want to become?
4:25 - How goals change who you are
5:54 - Pursue meaning, not just happiness
7:48 - Understanding stress and numbness
9:12 - Bad days create meaningful stories
10:20 - Choosing to feel empowers you
Recap by Bumpups ✏️
An older man told me one night he woke up and couldn’t pee. At two in the morning he walked around the block to see if that would get the flow going. Finaly he had to use a home catheter. His words of wisdom to me was “ you don’t know stress , till you can’t pee”
I believe him
This is true...take it from a guy who has struggled with the same issue!
Is it just me? Or does anybody else remember that it used to be hard to pee when being hard?????😂
Haven't listened yet. Probably really good.
But still...that title and two guys in their 30's talking about the hardest times of their lives.
I'm 48 and life keeps throwing handgrenade curve balls all the time. And I live a pretty good and relatively simple life and I am privileged enough to have the opportunity to choose what adversities I'd like to subject myself to.
There are people whose lives are truly hard from birth to death.
I don't think you understand what "hard" is until you carry the burden of a family and have catastrophic events happen to you repeatedly.
Although of course, for some people the worst things in life happen to them in their childhood.🤷🏼♂️
I'd guess that for many people adversity isn't something they are in a position to choose voluntarily
54 year old here. Raised in a broken home, thrown out as a teen. Homeless; lived in a car, on friend's couches. Now, nearly all my childhood friends are dead. All my immediate family is dead. Cancer. Layoffs. Destitution. But I've met people who have had it far, far worse than I have; people who just dust themselves off and keep going. I was blessed to backpack across Uganda some 20 years ago, and there I met 16 year old 'men' wearing factory second Simpsons shirts and no shoes, carrying homemade ladders to build mud hut homes with roofs made of USAID cooking oil cans smashed flat and sheets for front doors - in lion country. The women did the laundry in the Nile, downstream from crocodiles.
Far be it from me to deny someone their lived experience, but I'd be lying if I didn't admit I watch conversations like this one with a bit of amusement. For a whole lot of people on this planet, having any "long term goals" at all beyond mere survival is itself a privilege.
i needed to hear this right now, thank u
I needed to hear this, thanks lads!
My Grandma who lives on Bashkiria in Russia gave me and advice when I've had tough days or someone or my dad tried to blame me cause I'm not perfect or that I'm not doing things perfect as I supposed to and my Grandma told me one thing, if anyone wants You to be or do things perfect tell them to kiss your ass and go to hell and laugh at their faces and that no one is perfect and who cares about being perfect? And it's about making Yourself feel good and to remember about your values and worth, and focus on Yourself and working on Yourself and not on being perfect, cause for my Grandma being happy = being unhappy, so She always tells me take care of Yourself and do what You need and try to do your best and if not it's okey, You are already good enough and You don't need perfect.
Worst time of my life right now, all we can do is try our best to succeed.
Hang in there buddy. I’m late 50s. Will spare you the details but life has been hard at times. My children’s’ lives were way easier than mine, but still had challenges. What I believe is that our experiences make us resilient. We will adapt to what we have to face. Have met people that literally can’t cope with a plane delay. And others that that work every day in extreme pain. To them both it seems to feel the same. You just have to keep moving forward. Things improve.
Brilliant cut 😍 You've perfectly captured one of the best moments of the interview and it gives a great sense of what the whole video is like 😊
I take a slow deep breath... acknowledge it, feel it, and use my wisdom life's taught me to slowly but surely move forward navigating through with the best outcome I am able to. Then, when asked, I share my experience with others 💜🙌💜 all, with gratitude 💙🙏💙
Life is full of challenges that create disappointments, and joyous moments...Learning from these and knowing which way to turn is the magic that creates a cranky, grumpy old bastard or a joyful, loving elder man who has few regrets and is at peace with his end... As long as you've tried and kept trying and never give in to the darkness that you fear so...
Chris is the inspiration 🎉
Use the difficulty
Absolutely ❤ it.
I've always ignored my bad times or even when i didn't and opend the door for those negative things, I couldn't turn those into my motives. His cool attitude gives me a lot of lessons. appreciate mr.bumstead.
Great conversation
favourite podcast
this video’s take really clicks with some of the things I've been reading in the book Magnetic Aura from Talesio
I don't think he numbs it, he and we, suppresses it with a hit of dopamine after a long scroll down social media. Each time it becomes weaker and more time needs to be spent on it, finding new videos and posts.
Champion chris bumstead🎉🎉
Hey Chris, appreciate the podcast. You mentioned in a recent episode that most of the important things that give you the best results are things that you’ve known for years and forgotten. Could you perhaps make a short episode going over the best advice you’ve been given (in terms of productivity, relationships, meaning, etc.)?
Thanks for sharing this video, I'm grateful.
Chris, WADR, get a reality check. The hardest time of your life is when you are old and you are losing your health, your mind, your ability to take care of yourself, your continence, your confidence, your independence and your dignity, I've seen it. Friends and family members, no longer with us, have told me this - and several of those people have lived through the Great Depression and wars. If your subscribers can't handle life now, they are in for a rude awakening. They should take care of themselves by eating well and living honestly with good values. They should cherish their friends and family and have a family if they don't have one now. They should live a wholesome life to the fullest, with no fear and no regrets, so by the time they get to the end, it will give them some comfort knowing they've had a good life. Cheers.
They arent at that point in life yet. “Hardest time of your life” can only be up to the point you are at now of course. But you are correct in saying that that will be a sad and brutal time in ones life to come :(
Ok but what if you are already losing your mind and health in your twenties? I had a chronic illness for 4 years straight, everyday was an absolute grind, and I still had to look out for myself and pay my mom's bills as well as my own.
When people say that being young was easy, I never understand that. My health has literally had an inverted trajectory, where my energy levels and feeling of health started out very low in my teens and twenties and only improved linearily as I became aware of the things that provide health.
To be honest, what I learned from those times, was that happiness/joy/contentment is truly something completely internal and your external circumstances have nothing to do with it. Having a heart attack, losing a loved one, going bankrupt, losing a limb in war, might all be shocking events but your response to those stimuli is totally internal, and the human mind can actually get used to almost anything if given time and space. There is a nice section in Thomas Mann's The Magic Mountain where the main character explains how the human mind seems to adapt to any state of health, and when you even close to death there is a kind of joy and ecstasy achievable in that moment, too.
@@tomatom9666 I was speaking more generally and not to specifics. I understand that everyone's situation is different. I hope you are in good health now. It is very difficult to be mentally healthy without being nutritionally healthy. Poor nutrition and prescription drug dependence are the root causes for much of the world's problems. My father always said, "healthy mind AND healthy body" aka GIGO (Garbage In, Garbage Out). As far as happiness being internal, you are what you CHOOSE to consume and that includes your friends and family. We live in a society, so it's all about healthy choices. Regarding adaptation, how you choose to ACTIVELY MAKE your life, and it shouldn't be easy if it's worth living, is another story. Thank you for your service.
Smart man.
you got a new sub!
really liked this video
awesome video
The hardest part of your life is knowing you have a short time to live.
That's seems like a depressing way to look at it honestly.
Nah
Don't we all have a short time to live?
@@LostPilgrim Depends on one's outlook on it I suppose. I'd say that most live a long time, definitely longer than before. Sure, 100 years is nothing in the grand scheme of things but a pessimistic or nihilistic outlook doesn't seem like it'd help to deal with the time we have.
Whose quotes is he reading?
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How many lenguages do you speak chris
this format really suits me
best!!!
Atbthis point only statimg facz insgead of making them
Deadswitch q hour
In other words, Embrace The Suck.
Why grow?
Life sucks. No matter how much I've grown. It's just sucks in some other way.
Chris, you should consider trying to get Hormozi and Bumstead together on the same episode
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That’s cool you’re jacked, but who are you and how do you show up in my life everyday?
My man has his priorities straight. Inspiring.
💯
The only purpose in life is for you to serve as a warning to others.
Time stamps?
its hard to put into words, but the book Magnetic Aura from Talesio completely changed my life. i recommend everyone reading this to read it
i can't believe no one on youtube is talking about magnetic aura from Talesio
Hanna mochte das lied lass mich in ruhe, das ist ihre entscheidung
I hope Bumstead writes a book in retirement
if you're seeing this comment, it might be a sign to read 'Magnetic Aura' from Talesio ❤️
Well said brother 🫡 winning in life is the most important always
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