Andrew you are a complete legend I understand everything you have been speaking about and I continue to learn from you I love you brother thank you so much peace to you from the u.k
Andy, I m now listening to you alittle over a year. I came to your channel a broken man. One year later, still no contact, no hover yet either. Today 26/11/2024 No antidepression meds No High blood pressure No debt A better job and in anyother time in my life before Reunited with my son Free and at peace You brother, have played a monumental role in my healing and growth. Ty !!
if what god say about narcissts and what they sow or reap? then how come this same narc don't learn new from making the same mistakes narc loses god's warning by pushing us always by prenting to care about and persons like us get in trouble/karma for the narc's mistakes and learn new ways of think and making new friends when a narc losses his head and can't controll their own behaviour
@@annamariapiotrowicz511???? Have you not learned a thing from these videos????? Narcs know EXACTLY what they are doing when they do it. They are demons in meat sacks! Wake up before you get destroyed by a narc because you make excuses for them. 🤦🙄
@@ladypainter496 my cousin thought she was a narcissist, turns out she has trouble processing emotions due to trauma, a narcissist would not seek therapy
The Narcissist wakes up every day and makes a choice to be a horrible human being. The fact that they act like nice people to some means they know what they are doing.
EXACTLY! its a choice, they know what they are doing at all times. when i hear some whiny, blow hard, puking off about how we should feel sorry for them, pray for them, i could vomit.
@ yes so true. Here you can share because we all get it. It’s late on the east coast and I pray my dog gets through the night. I come here for encouragement because we all have narcissists who tormented us.
@@ERnarcfree yes, I have been surprised by the validation and it has had a positive impact on my healing path. I am out West in the US, I’m lighting a candle for your dog ❤️
@@ERnarcfree I just might do that. Andrew presents us with the facts. I respect that. He never fails to make me laugh though with that same hilarious face he makes in every one of his videos. Y’all know I’m talking about I think… 🤔 He does it in every video immediately following the little intro he does right before he gets into the meat of it all. I can’t even watch one of his video’s until I see that funny expression he pulls before each video. I think it’s his way of expressing the seriousness of what he’s about to share. Yup that’s what it is. He means business and he wants us to understand so we too can share and help bring more awareness to what NPD is and what it can look like. That face of his though… It gets me every time. Lol. 😏🫤 These two emojis above don’t even come close to what I’m trying to describe. When Andrew does it he forces the corner of his mouth downward into a tight frown, head tilt slightly to the side keeping his big beautiful eyes focused directly ahead into the camera at us. Funny stuff lol. 🤣 😂 😝 Ps. I’m very grateful for all the good people who have taken the time to help those who needed it most by providing them with factual information about this horrible disorder. There’s so much out there on various platforms/network’s like Facebook Instagram etc… It’s important to clarify that if you’re with a partner or married to someone who display’s only a couple of the traits related to narcissistic personality disorder don’t assume that they have NPD. Get all the facts and watch for inconsistencies as well as manipulative behaviors like gaslighting. If you’re truly with a narcissist you would have likely felt something was off from day one or soon thereafter. Read read read and pay attention to people’s behaviors ask questions about their life especially about their childhood. The more you read on the websites like The American Journal Of Psychology and Google Scholar Psychology Today etc… Use your common sense and trust your instincts. Good luck to you and prayers to your healing journey. 🙏❤️ To all the psychologists and RUclipsrs who have done the research themselves and put great effort into creating educational content for others to learn about narcissism and also how to heal from it… Thank you. You made a huge difference in my life and I am grateful for your service and support. I truly appreciate you all. God bless every one of you. 🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️ To everyone who has shared information and or personal experiences about narcissism and other personality disorders… I appreciate you too. It takes a lot of courage to speak so openly about something so traumatic and emotionally painful. Your words and encouragement mean everything to me and to many others who are in the same situation. God bless you 🙏❤️ I pray the New Year brings all of you the happiness and peace you deserve. Never give up but do stand up for yourself. Many Blessing’s to you all. 🙏☮️❤️
For the narcissist, losses aren’t just setbacks-they are reminders of their own crumbling empire, built on lies and stolen affections. At first, they might seem impervious, feigning indifference, projecting blame outward to escape accountability. But each loss is a chisel to the fragile mask they wear, splintering the façade piece by piece. They lose the ones they once used as mirrors, the admiration that sustained them, the power they wielded so effortlessly. And in the silence that follows, the emptiness they’ve denied for so long becomes impossible to ignore. While the world sees a fall from grace, the narcissist feels the echo of a deeper truth: they’ve built their life on a foundation that could never hold. In the end, their greatest loss is themselves-an unfillable void, haunted by the very emptiness they tried to outrun.
You are a brilliant writer. My narcissist believes he is a victim even though I gave him a charmed life. I really think some of these people can’t even do what you suggest.
The higher you fly, the wider the view. The wider the view, the clearer it gets. Thats when you realize you're no longer looking up from below You are looking down from above... And that's my skydiving story. Lol Your comments make everyone look up, and that's where the light is. Joe's right.... ❤😎👍
Am just that. My own family of origin has been SO toxic, it has left my adult years just learning to heal..so though there may be lovely people out there, i don't have any energy to be with another person
@ thank you. I was very sick and I had to call him to take the dog to the emergency. I picked my dogs life to save knowing he would try to manipulate me. But I didn’t fall for it. I asked him to leave once the dog was safely at the emergency room.
So true.....we gave everything to a fault and they played us and took advantage of our kindness. When they could take no more, they walked away, leaving us to pick up our shattered lives. Yes, the cons always outweigh the pros. It's only when we can stand back, that we can clearly see things.
@@ERnarcfree I fully accept that these people exist and recently spotted the red flags of narcissism in an old acquaintance to which I went no contact. What I'm saying is you can't help but wish these narcs would open their eyes and correct their behavior. They won't and I'm not wasting my time on them even though the empathic side of me (and us) feels for their loss.
And.....at the end.....the narc only leaves as a legacy pain, destruction, desolation and a horrific impact on everyone they encountered. It is up to you and I as to the length of time we participate in their mission to destroy. Education, Honesty, Detachment, Action. Move on to your best life! Blessings!❤❤
Divorced was finalized and blocked her and everyone associated, yet she is stalking me even though she cheated. We could never know how mentally ill they are during love bombing.
good for you! Stay strong and move along in your life! Take time for yourself ...learn who you are again. Have good friends around you who support you and encourage you and are uplifting you always. You will attract all good things now. You will laugh and enjoy life again. no more walking on eggshells and being baited into fights....diminishing you .....embarrassing you....criticizing everything about you. You are now who you were born to be. A kind, loving, giving person ...and you will find that someone to share the rest of your life with who will have your back.....and be BY your side....and listening to YOU about your day and how you feel. You deserve it and you will find it. I am proud of you to remove that person and not stay stuck in that Hellhole of a life. (Some people cannot leave their situation) I hope you stay connected here with the rest of this community....and come back for support. we are all here for each other. GOOD LUCK ....Sending you LOVE...LIGHT and MANY BLESSINGS.!!
Finally broke free from a narc 2 months ago. Incredible how my health has changed. No more anxiety or depression. They always play the victim and the love bombing can easily make you think that things are changing until 2-3 days later and they are back to the same person. They will suck all your energy and try and keep you isolated from your friends and family. You can’t put a price tag on peace. Let them go and never look back they will never change
Same here I was with my husband for 10 years he was the awfulest person I've ever met in my life we separated September 9th and he's already living with somebody acting like his kids doesn't even exist however I've lost 20 lb in my face is glowing more than ever and I'm able actually to sleep now
@@ladyredd6857 Stay strong and start having fun. Remember just your alive doesn’t mean your living. Make the most of the time you got left on this planet. God takes people out of your lives for a reason it’s cause he knows you deserve better.
A friend told me a story about her stay on Guam. After the 1st day, she noticed something was odd. There were no bird sounds. The proliferation of Brown Tree snakes had those snakes eating all the bird eggs. Ever since that story, I appreciate every bird song I hear.👂🐦🎶
You are loved so much by this community. You have been a lighthouse in the storm, guiding each of us all safely back to the harbor and then onto solid ground. I truly want to thank you for everything that you’ve given to me by helping me heal completely and fully through your positivity and videos. My life is so beautiful now. I am the happiest and most peaceful I’ve ever been in my life. I’m completely narc free, strong, full of life, and also ecstatic about my life and where I’m at. Sending you all my love, Andrew with a heart full of gratitude. ♥️
I paid off her car. She left me with $5,000 left on mine. The clubs were enjoying her extra money, but God covered me for taking care of that narc before myself👏🏽
Amen, my ex went from loving to nature (during lovebombing) to loving nightclubs. It was a horrendous time but God surrounded me with people who truly loved me and cared for me and I am able to be of service to them also. She finally reached out after 8 months, most backhanded apology if I have ever seen one. Blocked and ignored, never felt better. God allows us to endure these trials so that we can learn and become stronger, I wouldn't be here if I wasn't allowed to see the lunacy for what it was. God is good.
@@lilfairycupcake they have normalized it because it makes money. Narcissistic personality disorder should only be discussed by someone who has been a victim and became educated.
In a way, you are right, but as i heal from trauma, I am able to overlook the same as long as I am able to reclaim my peace and space after limited time exposure 😅
Andrew you are a beautiful shining light, thank you 🙏 so much, I love hearing your videos they give comfort and peace and happiness!!!!!!!!!! I know Almighty God is using you for the healing of those who have been hurt and abused!!!!!!
They are black holes without a real person in it - all a facade as if they are playing a role. But once the mask falls, you can see behind and you will realize nothing but emptiness , anger, fear, insecurity, jealousy, resentments - but no self-worth. And when you confeont them with it of their mistakes then of course they play the victim and it is all someone elses fault. Don’t take it believe their apologies, just leave - and go back to your life Witz Food peile and joy. Thx from Munich, Germany 💚
I love hearing the birds! I'm sorry that you were interrupted, but what a treasure to hear their vocalizations. Thank you for all the insight you help us with.
No matter how much you do for them, or love them, nothing is ever enough. They seek new supply and they too will not fill the narcs cup. They continue the cycle in trying to destroy peoples hearts and lives. Thank you for the encouragement Andrew
Ty Andrew! This is affected my health so much. I have high blood pressure now. I might have to take an anti-anxiety medication. My cholesterol is high one before I actually had low blood pressure. I believe in a power higher than us which I called God and through God, I will heal through this knowledge! Ty sooo much! the test eventually becomes the testimony of the grace of God and his healing
Yeah they are professional and they know it, proceed with caution.... They have ruined my entire life, I have experienced a hell like no other. Whatch ok out for the fakes, they shape shift with skill like nothing you have ever known
Brother I have to thank you 🙏 binging your videos have helped me understand the demonic energy involved when dealing with these people. Not to get into too much detail but, my gf who I met at work, and we have been with each other for almost a year, put some type of rumor out there that my d is small, that I’m quick, and who knows what else from what I gather from peoples innuendoes. I went through a depression and almost lost my mind. Imagine the person you “love” and see every day at work plus 4 out of 7 days out of the week outside of work, plus talk for like 2 to 3 hours a day when we don’t see each other, do this to you…it’s insane. It’s character assassination and actually bought her BS story that it wasn’t her who spread those rumors. It goes beyond deceit. But anyway, I actually yanked the band aid off this last week. Thank you very much and keep the videos coming ✅
Rumors like that tell a lot more about her than about you. Why should someone sane in their mind tell those things? Even without experiences with narcissists people should ask this themselves. People who enable this are toxic too. My many years long experience with smear campaigns has proven this again and again. Don't allow them to define you or to manipulate your emotions with this. Define yourself. Their opinions don't matter.
Great video Andrew and thanks for all the encouragement. 2.8 years on, post relationship.....healing and in a better place thanks to you and this community. Have a great day.
I’m at the mountain top of indifference. No contact is not possible right now but the grey rocking worked so well I scored a reverse discard today. These videos help so much. Please keep posting Andrew!
I was suspicious before my marriage,(without an acrual) I transferred everything except belongings I previously earned. She destroyed everything and was so greedy, she used my good name to gather her material possessions, even defrauding my name..after three years of marriage, she locked me out, she now faces criminal justice, and debt,her wheeling and dealing like the Ewing, has destroyed her and her relationships.. the flying monkeys ran away... poetic justice
Hey Andrew so today at the bowling alley my ex Rebecca who is the narcissist she said to me Steve guess what I have a new boyfriend and with one word I only said congratulations and walked away while everyone was celebrating her New boyfriend I was just talking to our people and not losing my anger in front of people which I'm glad I didn't
Steve - I know it’s so painful . But think of this. The new boyfriend has this Narcissist who will torture and torment them. I know it’s really hard but think of this - narcissists are like psychopaths- they don’t ever love. In the end , when you are healed , you will be happy that you are no longer their target. The Devil left you and now they are on to their next victim. You are so very lucky - it just really sucks at the early days.
That spoke volumes. She is clueless. I've met people who would wave their "victory" in your face and hoping for some kind of emotional reaction ( the slightest biting of your lip, etc.). They don't know of your own victory of finding this education and what they're all about.👍
Yes this is true my ex narc just recently hoovered me a week after he left his new supply. I did not respond I'm sure his realized he lost good woman. Thanx Andrew great video your words mean alot you are incredible also. ❤
Love the birds! Did I hear a crow? One of my favorites! People don’t always realize how intelligent they are. I am relocating and nature is the goal. It is grounding. Nothing is better than time with nature. Seeing the background in your videos is wonderful and peaceful. As for the narcissist, Everything they say is a lie. They do nothing. They are nothing. Hollow shell. They are a weak and blurred reflection of life. Eventually they have and are nothing to anyone and everyone so hoping others will feel all the enthusiasm and positive vibes you just shared. We all need positive vibes no matter what the situation. 😊 Thanks and blessings sent. Stay safe everyone!
@crystals6352 a month later oof I'm doing ok but my university finals are killing me 😭😭 I'm so scared about my university finals and i have to get my paperwork signed by professors 😭😭, not thinking about my ex at all lol I checked he has a new girlfriend now so oh well no time to think about him.
Spot on Andrew. The crow 🐦⬛ is singing Amen Amen! Preach it! heal heal heal 🐦⬛🐦⬛🐦⬛ I’ve been giving my local crows peanuts. They’ve been protecting me in California so they told their Carolina cousins! Thank you for your support and good guidance on this journey. When I reflect on the losses and stupid choices and tragedies many of my narcissist elders were trapped in, this message resonates . We’re so lucky to be free.
Love you too Very good timing. I’ve been listening to you for a couple years. Not on a constant… However today This was absolute. Described everything I’m blessed with the strong sunlight, beautiful weather, and Jesus. Amen Andrew I pray for you, and we are blessed. The words hurt, but they are real loving you my friend.
A narc cant feel love , they will only miss you if you had someting to offer, supply or money. They will never miss one cause they were so loving for the narc
I feel more alone now than ever before. I left the area I had lot of friends. So before you move away because of the narc , think strongly about it because it might not be the best move . Because like Andrew says they will move on to new supply.
birds are brilliant & remarkable thx for all your help Andrew your videos helped me get away from narcissistic my parents, friends, & girlfriend(s) ... and they validated all the things I always felt but couldn't quite elaborate on in a concise way you're saving lives, and freeing many people its incredible
Scary shit !!! He knew himself b4 he lured me in for 4 years . Who does that ? 🇮🇪☘️ Oh yes I’m an empath , But from now on , my eyes are wide wide wide open . Won’t fall for that again
I thought I was a very lucrative person until me ex-narc disappeared with £2000 of my money that I will never see again. I feel like a fool, but looking back it is well spend to have bought me to learning of the narc and to Andrew. It could have been SO much more - both financially AND emotionally. Again.. thank you Andrew for all you do to help us and keep us on the straight and narrow path.
Yes it happened to me, emotional abuse, psychological abuse, spiritual abuse and financial abuse.. Over £8000 tbru bank and about £3000 or more in cash over 5 years
@@bd3726 I am so sorry to hear that... stay in the now and move forward knowing that you are in the right frame of mind to defeat the narc! We are all here with you!
@learnElvish they waited to few months after my mu. Died then tbey just left country with no explanation, they just discarded me after few months of silent treatment, I was devastated
You are a wonderful being, Andrew, and your authenticity shines through to us all, every day, every video, even when bombarded by beautiful birds! Thank you so much. Love to you and everyone here in this community xx 😊😊🌼🌼
thank you andrew its been nearly 12 months since i started watching your videos after the most apauling abuse for 5 years i can now say am over the trauma bond and moving on i go on holiday in 2 weeks with friends bank account growing confidence back i like myself again and i have a smile on my face all thanks to you
It's funny that we think, or are led to believe by the narc or by ourselves that they really 'fucked us up'- the truth is WE really fucked them up- because unintentionally we showed them what they'll never be- and now can never have again in their lives. We don't walk away to teach anyone a lesson- we walk away cause we finally learned ours.
They can only be happy(for a while) with stupid. But if stupid one has good property and endless money it can be solid. And yes, they know they are not normal persons.
Andrew you are a complete legend I understand everything you have been speaking about and I continue to learn from you I love you brother thank you so much peace to you from the u.k
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With a narcissist never believe none of what they say and none of what you see most of the time it’s a lie💯
Andy, I m now listening to you alittle over a year. I came to your channel a broken man. One year later, still no contact, no hover yet either.
Today 26/11/2024
No antidepression meds
No High blood pressure
No debt
A better job and in anyother time in my life before
Reunited with my son
Free and at peace
You brother, have played a monumental role in my healing and growth.
Ty !!
GOD said "everyone will reap what he/she has sowed.' Narcissists sow evils, they will reap evils. It is that simple.
Amen❤God bless you.
Amen!! And God Bless U!!❤
if what god say about narcissts and what they sow or reap?
then how come this same narc don't learn new from making the same mistakes narc loses god's warning by pushing us always by prenting to care about
and persons like us get in trouble/karma for the narc's mistakes and learn new ways of think and making new friends when
a narc losses his head and can't controll their own behaviour
@@annamariapiotrowicz511???? Have you not learned a thing from these videos?????
Narcs know EXACTLY what they are doing when they do it. They are demons in meat sacks!
Wake up before you get destroyed by a narc because you make excuses for them. 🤦🙄
So true!!!
You will never enjoy life as long as your with them.
being with one, pays nothing but bad dividends.
The worst part is how they use the dormant for victim hood especially the covert narcissist . The biggest Victim or the ultimate hero.
I’m convinced you’re right.
And they DO NOT change🎉
Why would they? They think they’re perfect!
They CAN not change 🤪
@@ladypainter496 my cousin thought she was a narcissist, turns out she has trouble processing emotions due to trauma, a narcissist would not seek therapy
The Narcissist wakes up every day and makes a choice to be a horrible human being. The fact that they act like nice people to some means they know what they are doing.
Yes, couldn't agree more! We get to experience their true selves, while others see the fakeness.
Hmm…I believe when they are being nice they are going against their own true nature. Being nice is difficult and unsustainable for them.
EXACTLY! its a choice, they know what they are doing at all times. when i hear some whiny, blow hard, puking off about how we should feel sorry for them, pray for them, i could vomit.
@ anyone speaking in their defense has either never experienced the manipulation of the narcissist or is a narcissist themselves
@@ERnarcfree exactly! have not lived it.
During the holidays when you are so sad - binge watch Andrew’s videos. This is how I get through the most difficult times.
I do too. Having this community and videos to watch when a hard moment hits helps not to feel alone and not to overshare with people.
@ yes so true. Here you can share because we all get it. It’s late on the east coast and I pray my dog gets through the night. I come here for encouragement because we all have narcissists who tormented us.
@@ERnarcfree yes, I have been surprised by the validation and it has had a positive impact on my healing path. I am out West in the US, I’m lighting a candle for your dog ❤️
@@ERnarcfree I just might do that. Andrew presents us with the facts. I respect that. He never fails to make me laugh though with that same hilarious face he makes in every one of his videos. Y’all know I’m talking about I think… 🤔
He does it in every video immediately following the little intro he does right before he gets into the meat of it all. I can’t even watch one of his video’s until I see that funny expression he pulls before each video.
I think it’s his way of expressing the seriousness of what he’s about to share. Yup that’s what it is. He means business and he wants us to understand so we too can share and help bring more awareness to what NPD is and what it can look like.
That face of his though… It gets me every time. Lol. 😏🫤
These two emojis above don’t even come close to what I’m trying to describe.
When Andrew does it he forces the corner of his mouth downward into a tight frown, head tilt slightly to the side keeping his big beautiful eyes focused directly ahead into the camera at us.
Funny stuff lol.
🤣 😂 😝
Ps. I’m very grateful for all the good people who have taken the time to help those who needed it most by providing them with factual information about this horrible disorder. There’s so much out there on various platforms/network’s like Facebook Instagram etc… It’s important to clarify that if you’re with a partner or married to someone who display’s only a couple of the traits related to narcissistic personality disorder don’t assume that they have NPD. Get all the facts and watch for inconsistencies as well as manipulative behaviors like gaslighting. If you’re truly with a narcissist you would have likely felt something was off from day one or soon thereafter. Read read read and pay attention to people’s behaviors ask questions about their life especially about their childhood. The more you read on the websites like The American Journal Of Psychology and Google Scholar Psychology Today etc… Use your common sense and trust your instincts. Good luck to you and prayers to your healing journey. 🙏❤️
To all the psychologists and RUclipsrs who have done the research themselves and put great effort into creating educational content for others to learn about narcissism and also how to heal from it… Thank you. You made a huge difference in my life and I am grateful for your service and support. I truly appreciate you all. God bless every one of you. 🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️
To everyone who has shared information and or personal experiences about narcissism and other personality disorders… I appreciate you too. It takes a lot of courage to speak so openly about something so traumatic and emotionally painful. Your words and encouragement mean everything to me and to many others who are in the same situation. God bless you 🙏❤️
I pray the New Year brings all of you the happiness and peace you deserve.
Never give up but do stand up for yourself.
Many Blessing’s to you all. 🙏☮️❤️
Exactly!!!!
I love the sounds of nature and the sounds of forest dwellers. The birds' voices are beautiful.
Same here...I try to live as close to Nature as i possibly can...
For the narcissist, losses aren’t just setbacks-they are reminders of their own crumbling empire, built on lies and stolen affections. At first, they might seem impervious, feigning indifference, projecting blame outward to escape accountability. But each loss is a chisel to the fragile mask they wear, splintering the façade piece by piece. They lose the ones they once used as mirrors, the admiration that sustained them, the power they wielded so effortlessly. And in the silence that follows, the emptiness they’ve denied for so long becomes impossible to ignore. While the world sees a fall from grace, the narcissist feels the echo of a deeper truth: they’ve built their life on a foundation that could never hold. In the end, their greatest loss is themselves-an unfillable void, haunted by the very emptiness they tried to outrun.
💯👌🏻🧳Thank you 💼🕊️🙏🏻
You are a brilliant writer. My narcissist believes he is a victim even though I gave him a charmed life.
I really think some of these people can’t even do what you suggest.
Excellent
Touche!!!! 👍❤💥🙏
🌈🎀😘
Very nice!
Just what I needed to hear, as of today I am moving out of my home just to get away. I will now go No Contact! 🙏
good for you 🎉
That's the best thing you can do!
you got this! stay strong and look for safe people to surround you with
Ive learned a lot.
Covert narcissist caused me the most pain and she hopefully will never darken my door again.
Same here
Amen!
Covert narcissists are absolutely horrific
Andrew, YOU are a bright shining light!
Yes, he is!✨✨✨ I agree!!! 🔥🔥🔥💯💯💯🥇🥇🥇©️
They can't ever replace US! 🥇🔥🥇🔥🥇🔥There are only 1 "Original" of us!!! ❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥💜💜💜🤟🏻🤟🏻🤟🏻©️
Birds fly high & so can we. Keep healing....you'll see!
Be Well, Be Wise 🌈 🎀😘
A few words, but soooo encouraging! You're a light on this channel!👍🙌✨
The higher you fly, the wider the view.
The wider the view, the clearer it gets.
Thats when you realize you're no longer looking up from below
You are looking down from above...
And that's my skydiving story. Lol
Your comments make everyone look up, and that's where the light is. Joe's right....
❤😎👍
@@JHavaJoe2-m1z flying high Joe. 😎✌
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@@marieeakin8534 BELIEVE IT!!! ❤️
I'm still putting out fires that the narcissist started 🤷♂️🤦♂️
😌😌💜
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Keep fighting the fire. It will be over. Nothing , even when you are putting out fires will last forever.
@@Sevenfold7777I’m so sorry. Prayers 🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️
Stay single and forever free
Am just that. My own family of origin has been SO toxic, it has left my adult years just learning to heal..so though there may be lovely people out there, i don't have any energy to be with another person
Yep. Especially in this day and age when these creatures are running rampant out there!
My dog is dying and he picked this time when I was crying to ask for money. They pick your most vulnerable moments to take take.
@ thank you. I was very sick and I had to call him to take the dog to the emergency. I picked my dogs life to save knowing he would try to manipulate me. But I didn’t fall for it. I asked him to leave once the dog was safely at the emergency room.
😌😌💯💯💜
The cons always outweigh the pros when you are in the narcissists fog.
So true.....we gave everything to a fault and they played us and took advantage of our kindness. When they could take no more, they walked away, leaving us to pick up our shattered lives. Yes, the cons always outweigh the pros. It's only when we can stand back, that we can clearly see things.
@@Glyn-r everything is a means to an end for the narcissist. I’m surviving but not thriving. It’s living Hell.
@lillianm.dougherty7647 🙏
They disgust me to my core.
Me too.. looking back I see I was too good for them
#disgustedoflondon here too!
For anyone that has even the smallest snippet of empathy its very difficult to understand someone who has no feelings for anyone but themselves.
@@mark351 can you accept the existence of serial killers??? Then you need to accept that some people are not like you are.
@@ERnarcfree I fully accept that these people exist and recently spotted the red flags of narcissism in an old acquaintance to which I went no contact. What I'm saying is you can't help but wish these narcs would open their eyes and correct their behavior.
They won't and I'm not wasting my time on them even though the empathic side of me (and us) feels for their loss.
And.....at the end.....the narc only leaves as a legacy pain, destruction, desolation and a horrific impact on everyone they encountered. It is up to you and I as to the length of time we participate in their mission to destroy. Education, Honesty, Detachment, Action. Move on to your best life! Blessings!❤❤
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These Narcissist are the biggest LIARS on earth 🌎
@@GoldFeather123 yes and they really believe their lies.
@@ERnarcfreeYeah sure seems like total delusion. Sometimes they don’t even believe their own words tho, you can see it in their eyes.
Yes. Liars 100%
@@GoldFeather123 yes they are
True
I love your big smile at the end!! 🤩
Divorced was finalized and blocked her and everyone associated, yet she is stalking me even though she cheated. We could never know how mentally ill they are during love bombing.
I did 30 years with my nar and 6years after the big D I had to get rid of my Facebook because he was coming in the back door blocking is the only way
good for you! Stay strong and move along in your life! Take time for yourself ...learn who you are again. Have good friends around you who support you and encourage you and are uplifting you always. You will attract all good things now. You will laugh and enjoy life again. no more walking on eggshells and being baited into fights....diminishing you .....embarrassing you....criticizing everything about you. You are now who you were born to be. A kind, loving, giving person ...and you will find that someone to share the rest of your life with who will have your back.....and be BY your side....and listening to YOU about your day and how you feel. You deserve it and you will find it. I am proud of you to remove that person and not stay stuck in that Hellhole of a life. (Some people cannot leave their situation) I hope you stay connected here with the rest of this community....and come back for support. we are all here for each other. GOOD LUCK ....Sending you LOVE...LIGHT and MANY BLESSINGS.!!
Hope you heal quickly! Be well
@@paulclinton6414 can you stop the stalking??? I understand
@@shellysawchuk1190 getting rid of facebook is a small price to pay for peace. They are horrible people.
Finally broke free from a narc 2 months ago. Incredible how my health has changed. No more anxiety or depression. They always play the victim and the love bombing can easily make you think that things are changing until 2-3 days later and they are back to the same person. They will suck all your energy and try and keep you isolated from your friends and family. You can’t put a price tag on peace. Let them go and never look back they will never change
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Same here I was with my husband for 10 years he was the awfulest person I've ever met in my life we separated September 9th and he's already living with somebody acting like his kids doesn't even exist however I've lost 20 lb in my face is glowing more than ever and I'm able actually to sleep now
@@ladyredd6857 Stay strong and start having fun. Remember just your alive doesn’t mean your living. Make the most of the time you got left on this planet. God takes people out of your lives for a reason it’s cause he knows you deserve better.
@MadeTheTeam thank you so much I appreciate those kind words 🙏🏽☝🏽
Thank you Andrew for your videos you have helped me go no contact in a period of a year. I will never go back .
stay gone xxx
I’ve cut my losses, thanks 👋🏼🃏⚔️
That is freaking awesome!!!
A friend told me a story about her stay on Guam. After the 1st day, she noticed something was odd.
There were no bird sounds. The proliferation of Brown Tree snakes had those snakes eating all the bird eggs. Ever since that story, I appreciate every bird song I hear.👂🐦🎶
You are loved so much by this community. You have been a lighthouse in the storm, guiding each of us all safely back to the harbor and then onto solid ground.
I truly want to thank you for everything that you’ve given to me by helping me heal completely and fully through your positivity and videos.
My life is so beautiful now. I am the happiest and most peaceful I’ve ever been in my life.
I’m completely narc free, strong, full of life, and also ecstatic about my life and where I’m at.
Sending you all my love, Andrew with a heart full of gratitude. ♥️
I'm a driver, I'm a winner.
Things are gonna change, I can feel it.
I paid off her car. She left me with $5,000 left on mine. The clubs were enjoying her extra money, but God covered me for taking care of that narc before myself👏🏽
I am sooo happy for you. God also covered you by allowing you to see the truth!!
Amen, my ex went from loving to nature (during lovebombing) to loving nightclubs. It was a horrendous time but God surrounded me with people who truly loved me and cared for me and I am able to be of service to them also.
She finally reached out after 8 months, most backhanded apology if I have ever seen one. Blocked and ignored, never felt better.
God allows us to endure these trials so that we can learn and become stronger, I wouldn't be here if I wasn't allowed to see the lunacy for what it was. God is good.
Your nature settings are beautiful and restorative.
Andrew,, You are a winner😊❤💜
i have a very hard time finding anyone without some degree of narcissism. this is how prevalent ''normalized'' it has become in society.
I agree 100%
@@lilfairycupcake they have normalized it because it makes money. Narcissistic personality disorder should only be discussed by someone who has been a victim and became educated.
In a way, you are right, but as i heal from trauma, I am able to overlook the same as long as I am able to reclaim my peace and space after limited time exposure 😅
@@earthrooster1969 my remedy is distance.
@@ERnarcfree and what better way to divide the masses.
Andrew you are a beautiful shining light, thank you 🙏 so much, I love hearing your videos they give comfort and peace and happiness!!!!!!!!!! I know Almighty God is using you for the healing of those who have been hurt and abused!!!!!!
Amen!! So agreed!!!❤
They are black holes without a real person in it - all a facade as if they are playing a role. But once the mask falls, you can see behind and you will realize nothing but emptiness , anger, fear, insecurity, jealousy, resentments - but no self-worth. And when you confeont them with it of their mistakes then of course they play the victim and it is all someone elses fault. Don’t take it believe their apologies, just leave - and go back to your life Witz Food peile and joy. Thx from Munich, Germany 💚
I love hearing the birds! I'm sorry that you were interrupted, but what a treasure to hear their vocalizations. Thank you for all the insight you help us with.
Gorilla glue closed 😂 love it!!
No matter how much you do for them, or love them, nothing is ever enough. They seek new supply and they too will not fill the narcs cup. They continue the cycle in trying to destroy peoples hearts and lives. Thank you for the encouragement Andrew
Bottomless pits!!!!
Ty Andrew! This is affected my health so much. I have high blood pressure now. I might have to take an anti-anxiety medication. My cholesterol is high one before I actually had low blood pressure. I believe in a power higher than us which I called God and through God, I will heal through this knowledge! Ty sooo much! the test eventually becomes the testimony of the grace of God and his healing
Welcome..🙏💜😌
Such great videos! On my healing journey! Greetings from the UK❤
Yeah they are professional and they know it, proceed with caution....
They have ruined my entire life, I have experienced a hell like no other.
Whatch ok out for the fakes, they shape shift with skill like nothing you have ever known
LOL, that crow in the background is saying "Hell yeah, brother, preach!".
Brother I have to thank you 🙏 binging your videos have helped me understand the demonic energy involved when dealing with these people. Not to get into too much detail but, my gf who I met at work, and we have been with each other for almost a year, put some type of rumor out there that my d is small, that I’m quick, and who knows what else from what I gather from peoples innuendoes. I went through a depression and almost lost my mind. Imagine the person you “love” and see every day at work plus 4 out of 7 days out of the week outside of work, plus talk for like 2 to 3 hours a day when we don’t see each other, do this to you…it’s insane. It’s character assassination and actually bought her BS story that it wasn’t her who spread those rumors. It goes beyond deceit. But anyway, I actually yanked the band aid off this last week. Thank you very much and keep the videos coming ✅
You didn’t deserve this. She’s sick and twisted. Do not buy into her propaganda. I hope you find peace. 🕊️
Rumors like that tell a lot more about her than about you. Why should someone sane in their mind tell those things? Even without experiences with narcissists people should ask this themselves. People who enable this are toxic too. My many years long experience with smear campaigns has proven this again and again. Don't allow them to define you or to manipulate your emotions with this. Define yourself. Their opinions don't matter.
Great video Andrew and thanks for all the encouragement. 2.8 years on, post relationship.....healing and in a better place thanks to you and this community. Have a great day.
The birds can feel your beautiful energy ✨🌻🙏
Thank you for your encouragement Andrew
I’m at the mountain top of indifference. No contact is not possible right now but the grey rocking worked so well I scored a reverse discard today. These videos help so much. Please keep posting Andrew!
literally LMAO " holiday hoover" you said it with a straight face! it sooo true! your explainations are awesome! love this!
Of course we understand perfectly what you are talking about.
“I was just heat checking you” -the narc when the mask slips
Weird asf!!! Ugh
You help me so much,Thank you so much uk❤
Thank you Andrew and the birds☀️🌳
Lovin the Bird Jungle Andrew..! 😂
Thank you Andrew for all the love and inspiration we all love you ❤
Thank you for this video Andrew 💜🙏🐶
Great video,encouraging and comforting. THANK YOU 😊
Healing from being kept from my grands, it almost killed me.
Thank God you survived. This is so common.
I can’t imagine! My grand babies are my life. I’m praying for you. Put it all in Gods hands 🙏
I was suspicious before my marriage,(without an acrual) I transferred everything except belongings I previously earned. She destroyed everything and was so greedy, she used my good name to gather her material possessions, even defrauding my name..after three years of marriage, she locked me out, she now faces criminal justice, and debt,her wheeling and dealing like the Ewing, has destroyed her and her relationships.. the flying monkeys ran away... poetic justice
She dumped me on Chistmas. Never again she heard back from me
Hey Andrew so today at the bowling alley my ex Rebecca who is the narcissist she said to me Steve guess what I have a new boyfriend and with one word I only said congratulations and walked away while everyone was celebrating her New boyfriend I was just talking to our people and not losing my anger in front of people which I'm glad I didn't
Thank you for sharing this..😌😌💜🙏⛰️
Steve - I know it’s so painful . But think of this. The new boyfriend has this Narcissist who will torture and torment them.
I know it’s really hard but think of this - narcissists are like psychopaths- they don’t ever love.
In the end , when you are healed , you will be happy that you are no longer their target.
The Devil left you and now they are on to their next victim.
You are so very lucky - it just really sucks at the early days.
How tasteless of the stupid cow 🐄
Good job Steve! 👍❤💥
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That spoke volumes. She is clueless. I've met people who would wave their "victory" in your face
and hoping for some kind of emotional reaction ( the slightest biting of your lip, etc.). They don't
know of your own victory of finding this education and what they're all about.👍
Yes this is true my ex narc just recently hoovered me a week after he left his new supply.
I did not respond I'm sure his realized he lost good woman.
Thanx Andrew great video your words mean alot you are incredible also. ❤
Thank you Andrew. I enjoy your videos everyday. The birds are a happy addition.❤
Welcome..😊🙏🙌
They always overplay their hand. True! They win a battle, but they lose the war (wrecking their relationship with you!)
Love the birds! Did I hear a crow? One of my favorites! People don’t always realize how intelligent they are. I am relocating and nature is the goal. It is grounding. Nothing is better than time with nature. Seeing the background in your videos is wonderful and peaceful.
As for the narcissist, Everything they say is a lie.
They do nothing. They are nothing. Hollow shell. They are a weak and blurred reflection of life. Eventually they have and are nothing to anyone and everyone so hoping others will feel all the enthusiasm and positive vibes you just shared. We all need positive vibes no matter what the situation. 😊 Thanks and blessings sent. Stay safe everyone!
Love the crows talking in the background ❤great video! I’ve kicked the narc to the curb and now I’m on my way to better things!
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The birds were a nice unexpected touch 😂
Thank you Andrew 🥰🥰 I ❤ hearing the birds 🐦🐦⬛🐦⬛🐦🥰
loving the background had chinese tonight for dinner it was delicious 😊❤ love the birds hahaha
Great message and information .. will rewatch. Loved the crows..🐦⬛ 🐦⬛signs all around 😁
love to you my friend. 💫✌
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I honestly feel weak at this point. Spiritually mentally physically. 😢
You will regain your strength once you break free.
@crystals6352 a month later oof I'm doing ok but my university finals are killing me 😭😭 I'm so scared about my university finals and i have to get my paperwork signed by professors 😭😭, not thinking about my ex at all lol I checked he has a new girlfriend now so oh well no time to think about him.
Thank you Andrew - let's keep it up 💫🍁🎸✨️
Welcome..🙏💯😌
Spot on Andrew.
The crow 🐦⬛ is singing Amen Amen!
Preach it!
heal heal heal 🐦⬛🐦⬛🐦⬛
I’ve been giving my local crows peanuts. They’ve been protecting me in California so they told their Carolina cousins!
Thank you for your support and good guidance on this journey.
When I reflect on the losses and stupid choices and tragedies many of my narcissist elders were trapped in, this message resonates .
We’re so lucky to be free.
It's unbelievable how spot-on you are! Every video, you nail it! Thanks, Andrew. Hope you are well 💕
Thank you for the kind words and encouragement.. greetings from Malaysia..
Thank you for your encouragement . God bless you, Andrew. You have helped me so much🙏❤.
Love you too
Very good timing. I’ve been listening to you for a couple years. Not on a constant…
However today
This was absolute.
Described everything
I’m blessed with the strong sunlight, beautiful weather, and Jesus.
Amen Andrew I pray for you, and we are blessed. The words hurt, but they are real loving you my friend.
Your awesome, thank you for your hard work bringing us to truth 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉❤😊
We love you Andrew !!!! Much love to you from germany! ❤❤❤ Thank you very very very much for your work !!!🔥😎
A narc cant feel love , they will only miss you if you had someting to offer, supply or money.
They will never miss one cause they were so loving for the narc
Thank you so much for these videos you have helped me for two years. Thanks to you Iv learnt all the tricks. I’m out and never going back. ❤
I feel more alone now than ever before.
I left the area I had lot of friends.
So before you move away because of the narc , think strongly about it because it might not be the best move .
Because like Andrew says they will move on to new supply.
birds are brilliant & remarkable
thx for all your help Andrew
your videos helped me get away from narcissistic my parents, friends, & girlfriend(s) ... and they validated all the things I always felt but couldn't quite elaborate on in a concise way
you're saving lives, and freeing many people
its incredible
A big Hello from Canada . You're doing a fantastic job.! God bless you 🙏❤🐦🔥
Thanks for building my confidence and encouraging me Andrew ❤ love you
Welcome..🙏😌💜
Scary shit !!!
He knew himself b4 he lured me in for 4 years .
Who does that ?
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Oh yes I’m an empath ,
But from now on , my eyes are wide wide wide open .
Won’t fall for that again
You got me as a follower.i must be a drained Empath.😊
So true Andrew great video thank you from uk 😊🇬🇧
I thought I was a very lucrative person until me ex-narc disappeared with £2000 of my money that I will never see again. I feel like a fool, but looking back it is well spend to have bought me to learning of the narc and to Andrew. It could have been SO much more - both financially AND emotionally. Again.. thank you Andrew for all you do to help us and keep us on the straight and narrow path.
Yes it happened to me, emotional abuse, psychological abuse, spiritual abuse and financial abuse.. Over £8000 tbru bank and about £3000 or more in cash over 5 years
@@bd3726 I am so sorry to hear that... stay in the now and move forward knowing that you are in the right frame of mind to defeat the narc! We are all here with you!
@learnElvish they waited to few months after my mu. Died then tbey just left country with no explanation, they just discarded me after few months of silent treatment, I was devastated
@learnElvish Thank you
My dad died this year- the Narc overdrew the account while my dad took his last breath.
😮😮😮 I just can't believe people are this messed up. But yup. They are.
Amen thank you Andrew,,,,,God bless you brother!!
You are a wonderful being, Andrew, and your authenticity shines through to us all, every day, every video, even when bombarded by beautiful birds! Thank you so much. Love to you and everyone here in this community xx 😊😊🌼🌼
Yes they Failed Miserably,,,🥴t y Andrew 💜💎🌲
Thank you, Andrew! God bless you
Welcome..🙏💜😌
❤️I love: "...Gorilla Glue closed."💯 and the Classic: "...pea brain."💯 Excellent video (6X!!!)💯 Everyone remember : No matter HOW GOOD U R TO A NARCISSIST, they won't EVER APPRECIATE it. 💯💯💯©️
thank you andrew its been nearly 12 months since i started watching your videos after the most apauling abuse for 5 years i can now say am over the trauma bond and moving on i go on holiday in 2 weeks with friends bank account growing confidence back i like myself again and i have a smile on my face all thanks to you
Appreciate you so much Andrew. Whenever I feel weak, I let you uplift me. Empath from West Aus ❤
Thanks Andrew!!!!
Welcome..😌💜🙏
It's funny that we think, or are led to believe by the narc or by ourselves that they really 'fucked us up'- the truth is WE really fucked them up- because unintentionally we showed them what they'll never be- and now can never have again in their lives. We don't walk away to teach anyone a lesson- we walk away cause we finally learned ours.
They can only be happy(for a while) with stupid. But if stupid one has good property and endless money it can be solid.
And yes, they know they are not normal persons.