@S k. Wow, really? But yet they spent so much money on this dress and everything else. It feels like the more expensive a wedding is the faster they divorce.
But who cares what she thinks? The bride is a grown woman who should have the last word without any pressure to please anyone but herself. This is so stupid.
@@cindyj5522 She was brought along because her opinion was valued. She was reasonable and kind. If it's "your day" then use "your money" and go by "YOURSELF"........
I did, and it was the best experience. My appointment was just myself and the bridal consultant from the store. She knew exactly what I was looking for! It was the second dress! She insisted that I try on another style of gown just to be sure. I went home, to sleep on it, my consultant told me about the bridal show and that there was a surprise! The next day, I went to the bridal show, and the gown that I had chosen was featured in the fashion show! The store even offered a 20% discount for the trunk show since I attend the bridal show! I went back to the store the next business day, tried on the dress again, and me and my consultant were so emotional! I had alterations and added sleeves from the extra layers of tulle and ordered appliques from the designer for the sleeves. My dress was just the more beautiful with the custom features . The cap sleeves looked like they were supposed to be part of the original gown!!
I went by myself. When I found a dress I wanted, I took my mother only. She wasn't crazy about it. But she understood this was my choice. No one else saw it til the day of the wedding
true, but she definitely picked the right dress. i don't think the severe mermaid silhouette was for her, the blingy embroidery on a fit & flare was just perfection.
Titel: “mother in law hates her dresses!!” Actual mother in law: give critiques but is never mean, and says the bride is the perfect woman for her son.
@@SM-ji1qe I have a slight feeling some good old classic “reality show editing” was done to make it seem that way. Either that or she said it, not because of the dress, but because her being in the final dress with the vail on, made the MIL emotional, and she just needed to say that. But if you wanna go with the “MIL only cares about dress” interpretation. Go for it.
@@deargodwhatamidoing1122 yeah, I’ll believe what I see and hear, and I’d appreciate it if you would not make up a quote I allegedly said. Perhaps before all that though, you’d do best to get over yourself. 😂
@@SM-ji1qe I’m sorry if there was a misunderstanding, but I have always learned that these “” are used both for quotes and when naming specific things. I didn’t claim you said it, I just took your point and gave it a name. I will admit my way of doing so was quit childish. I am sorry. What I meant to say was that you could view the MIL any way you want. I just disagree, because again, editing in reality shows isn’t always to be trusted.
I'm learning that now I've had to compromise every need in my pregnancy & to fight for my every want god I'm tired of this but hey if you've got advise lmk
@@kastynm.9004 DON’T EVER comprise for anyone !!! especially your mother in law! when she had her husband and had her kids she raised them her way and managed her marriage way! my mother in law doesn’t dare to control me! I have put her in her place! now we have a respectable relationship
@@kastynm.9004 put in boundaries and let your husband know these boundaries as well. If his mother over steps them then it’s his job to put her back in her place. If your husband refuses to stand up for you over his mother then rethink your relationship because once your kid is born it will only get worse.
At first I thought Tina was just going to be spiteful, but she clearly was just as excited but wanted something special for her. Tina rocks! So does the rest of the entourage! There’s a lot of love there!
Okay, hear me out. Usually, mils can be annoying but Tina was actually a great critique and she even explained what she didn't like in any of the dresses. i definitely got the "These dresses don't speak her, she can do far better." vibes when she didn't initially like any of the dresses. And I AGREE WITH HER! It didn't do the bride anything at all. But the last dress she chose was perfect and I knew the mil will say the same, when she finally sees De dress on her, she gave her approval.
I agree. Although I feel that she did not communicate exactly WHAT she didn't like as well as she could have, I think she and the test of the entourage gave good feedback so the bride got the dress that looked best on her and what she wanted.
@@Impossibly_gorgeous only the whole reason she was invited was so that she would be able to have her opinion. If she wasn’t going to be allowed to have an opinion in the dresses, she wouldn’t have been invited. Strange you missed that important clue.
There's literally nothing wrong with anything the mother in law did lol. Her mom even kept the same energy with her when she didn't like something. She found her dress and that's all that matters.
she said a dress absolutely covered in rhinestones was "too plain." even the MOB was fed up with her, this obviously wasn't the first time she shat her opinion all over the bridal appointment.
I didn't realize that at the tender age of 20, I had enough wisdom to go wedding dress shopping by myself. I did it, I just didn't know how much better it was. I'm so glad I did.
They did not ignore it, they stayed right in her range. For people who are used to purchasing high priced items, it is understood that "$7000" means up to "$7,999". She is a beauty contestant and would have the experience to expect this, as well as knowing that alterations will likely be hundreds of dollars. Any extras, such as added lace, beading, or accessories such as a veil will not be included in the first quote. They even left enough room in the budget to ensure she would not go over the $8000 mark with alterations. While I agree it is disrespectful to only show dresses above the bride's budget, that was not the case in this episode. If the bride's budget was $1500 and they showed $2000 dresses, it would be rude, because that $500 more is 1/3 of her original budget. However, going a few hundred over on a $7000 budget is just a small fraction of the budget higher. Either way, they should never pressure the customer to try on or purchase what they can't afford. Brides need to be ready to stand their ground on budget and not try on anything shown to them above budget. Better yet, state a budget lower than what they can actually afford, so they can view a range of prices. However, don't fault a salesperson for showing them something over budget if it is exactly what they are asking for. It's not always about their commission. Sometimes what the customer wants is simply not in their price range, and they deserve the chance to turn down their perfect dress or increase their budget so they can have it.
@@wildflower1397 It's super manipulative and wrong to go over someone's budget. The consultants know the dresses and prices; why they always go right at the top of the budget or above is beyond me, instead of choosing similar dresses ~$500 below the bride's max budget. Like so annoying.
@@wildflower1397Not only that it she would know that the type of dress she wanted aka something with lots of lace and beading from a high end boutique with expensive brands, would cost more than 7000
WOW! To hear a mother say her soon to be daughter in-law is the perfect woman for her son is a true honor. THATS something you hear and many women don’t care. WOW! Congratulations! God Bless
When the shows are this old, I always have to go look to see if the marriage ever took place or if they are still married. This bride married her fiance in 2014. They divorced, and she has since remarried. Ah, true love!
@@karenacton3854 All you have to do is look up her name (it's displayed around 0:16 in the clip) and "miss universe". Shortcut: Look for her wiki entry. It's in there.
I think as a gesture of good will and as a bonding experience. It wouldn't necessarily be a good idea for all MILs, but if you've got a sweetheart as a MIL, go for it.
@@stacymagnusson5683 Surprise, surprise. Mama's boy. Horrible MIL. It happened to me, and nothing can be more hurtful than having your husband choose his mother over you.
Well I thought it was wrong to give the MIL so much power. It's not her day, it's not her dress, so why is her opinion, the make or break approval given so much importance? She was brought dresses over $7,000 , when she had said her limit was $7,000. She's beautiful and the dress looked perfect. I wasn't thrilled with this episode tho. It just didn't sit right regarding the power given to the MIL.
After watching the show, I think the bride’s entourage is awesome. I will admit that I am the type of mom/mom-in-law that will pretty much love everything, but I think the opinions were nicely given.
That mother-in-law knows her stuff! I was happy with the dresses until I saw that last one. That dress was a show stopper! The mother-in-law’s critical eye is better than most. She could be an amazing stylist.
@@laceyfox3384 ok Lacey with your chunky turquoise necklace from 2014 and your Shirley temple curls. Let’s take fashion advice from the home school lookin’ grandma. 🙄
@@politesmile7812 wow you really zoomed in to check me out! FYI it's a genuine Royston lariat from the same company that drew Barrymore buys her turquoise from. It's not costume jewelry sweetheart
@@laceyfox3384 all one has to do is click on your face in comments and it opens your profile, where I see your tacky 2014 photo and your HBHG playlist. No zooming needed boomer. BTW I loved Drew Barrymore in the Wedding Singer and I’m sure her stylist at Hippie Cowgirl could help you put a modern spin on that necklace. You could use some updating sweetheart. It’s time to put the velour Juicy bag away.
@@laceyfox3384 To be fair, Polite Smile didn't say your necklace looked fake, they said it was chunky and old school. It being "genuine" doesn't make something more or less tacky to others. Wear what you want and makes you feel good though. I wear corsets and look like a pirate/elf half the time because I like it. Others find it gaudy. That's the fun thing about style, it's subjective.
It's because of what she wanted. The type of dress she wanted was always going to be over her range, it's a miracle they had dresses that were still within the 7-8 thousand range. She's at a high end run way designer bridal boutique in New York. Of course it's going to be a bit over her range. The dress type she wanted was always going to be expensive no matter where she went though. I'm sure she understood she might need extra.
I love what she got! $600 over? It's totally impossible for me to relate. When I started looking at David's Bridal I did not choose right away. In the meantime a cousin called me and asked if I had a dress yet. She had a friend that called off her wedding. She had a dress altered and wondered if I wanted to just take a look. I figured why not. I'm 5'2", 120. The dress fit perfectly and I loved it more than any I had seen so far. Total $35. Yes I got blessed. This business of spending thousands is crazy. At least be within reason.
I also think the outrageous prices for a dress worn ONCE is beyond comprehension. But I’m nothing if not practical. My wedding dress was a God-given blessing. It fit me perfectly without alterations, had all the features I wanted and made me feel fabulous, and cost $400.
A blessing for my mom was a lost opportunity for me. Her dress was borrowed and fit perfectly without alterations. I absolutely loved it (long story here, but I never saw photos until >45 years after my wedding) - and WAY more than the dress that I chose/wore. And we were exactly the same height/frame, so it would've fit me perfectly.
The mother in law wasn’t even that bad. The mom even gave the same amount of criticism as her. They even agreed they both didn’t like the second and third dresses. This looks like a nice and normal appointment to me with normal amount of notes on the dresses and not at all discouraging the bride or anything.
what? the mom LOVED the second dress. FMIL just hated everything. a gazillion rhinestones = it's too plain. mermaid style = too broken up. fit & flare = not broken up enough. i don't know how anybody could "see the mother in law's vision" because she isn't articulating what that vision is and it doesn't even matter because IT'S. NOT. HER. WEDDING. (edit) okay they cut this together REALLY weird because at 3:36 she's trying on the daniella caprese dress that FMIL says "isn't broken up enough" but then at 6:37 they're putting her in the same dress and calling it dress #3 instead of #2.
I've seen this a lot on this show and it really bothers me that push dresses higher than the given budget and are always trying to upsell dresses and drama. I've heard from bridal consultants that they generally don't show dresses higher than the client's budget because nobody wants to fall in love with a dress you can't afford! The relationship dynamics were refreshing to watch and not over the top hateful and toxic at all!
It's funny watching this show because at my wedding i wore the dress i wanted, no body liked it but me and my husband. I don't don't regret wearing it. I loved it.
@@merricat3025 Me either!!! I spent $40 on my Dress. Cause i had a Justice of the Peace ceremony. Cause my Hubby has NO FAMILY except his WITCH of a Mom. I have my Mom, friends, and my Aunt and Uncle came to Ceremony. My Uncle gave me away in place of my Dad
This is why I picked out, and got my wedding dress by myself, with no one helping me, because I was going to be wearing the dress, it was my wedding, and the only one whose opinion mattered about my dress was mine.
STOP asking the entourage what they like. It's not their wedding, it's the bride's. Her wishes are all that matter. All the dresses were lovely on her.
She brought them, yes? She wants their opinions, yes? And...if she had gotten the first dress she loved (that her entourage didn't) she would not have tried on the last one. So maybe they actually helped her to find the perfect dress. So maybe they were an asset. They all didn't just mimic her opinions on the dresses. So what? What are they there for? Why did she bring them? And you forget that this is a reality show. The application supposedly has a list of people you can bring, and then the producers tell you who you have to bring. The episodes all have a story, and the entourage is often part of it. Since all the brides apply to be on this show, they all agree to all the terms. If not, they would have a regular appointment that no one would see on their TV.
I agree with you 100%; is the bride it is getting married not them!!!! Tina needs to have her opinion if she’s married for her second vows!!!!! Her daughter-in-law is gorgeous and can wear anything; she needs to be quiet; she is rude!!!!! She was supposed to be a support system and not chaos!!!!
@@catladyfromky4142 Entourages are they to be an entourage! That’s it! Moral support. They don’t get a say on the dress. If someone wants options that fine, but it’s unnecessary for the consultants to keep asking and even let them pick out dresses
First dress: the one in the picture that she showed them as the perfect dress. That they actually have in the store. That is only a few hundred over her budget. That she would have been upset had she NOT put it on. All the other dresses: in the same price range as the first dress. You: angrier than the bride for trying on the dresses. You did not see the video of her looking at the price tag, saying "too much," then sending them out for dresses all under her budget, did you? Perhaps the price (being a little over budget) was not as important to you as it was to her.
@@catladyfromky4142 Don't know why you are so mad fool, but when someone clearly states that they do not want a dress over a special price and that's exactly what you do, it's normal to feel decieved and angry. Even if she did look at the price and was upset they would ovbiously not keep that clip. The only dress that can be concidered reasonble to keep in this is the first one. "Only a couple of hundred dollars"? You're clearly quite ignorant and don't know the worth hundreds of dollars have. 100 dollars is 1/10 of 1000. Do you get that? The last dress was 7600? That number is closer to 8000 than 7000. And that is a little over the budget to you? Do you know what a budget is for? And how do you know she saw the price before she put it on ? I have watched there other episodes and they often tell them later. Making someone put on a dress, fall in love, than later tell them it's over budget is cunning and decieving. Of course they'll be okay with it and try to buy it anyway since they are already inlove with it and they probably can barely aford it. Look at all the dresses they have. You really believe that they dont have a single dress under 7000 that she would fall inlove with? You think that they coincidently have 4+ dresses that are perfectly above 7000 for their own benefit that can please her? You really believe that?
I don’t understand why all these brides will choose something else just because the crew doesn’t like it. It’s their dress. Not the friends/fam. I’d want opinions of course but damned if I’d have to please everyone. My MIL tried to dictate everything about my very small private wedding and I was very comfortable saying no. I’m not doing that.
@@terrib627 Lmao! True!! But it gets old fast. Surely they can generate drama some other way. I like watching the feuding exes (bride’s parents). That’s always fun! 🤣🤣🤣
I think it’s hard to top a dress when you’ve seen your daughter/daughter-in-law in so many amazing and gorgeous pageant dresses already. Coming from someone that had a sister in the pageant world!
I understand that what they think is important to her. At the end of the day, she's needs to love the dress and she needs to fight for the dress that she loves!
Bride: Not more than 7000 *brings out all dresses more than 7000* So frustrating honestly. ALSO, the MIL was great! She gave constructive criticism and wasn't mean in any way, and even the bride's own mom was mostly on the same page with her. The video title was just clickbait and unnecessary! Bride looks beautiful in the dress she picked!
A sweet bride, her mother is elegant, kind, and supportive along with her beautiful BFF's. I hope when it comes to style and fashion the bride will always please herself and not take advice from her mother-in-law, whose own sense of style was leftover from the 80s and whose grammar could use correcting.
LOL. Although I agree with you, some commenters here just saw what they wanted to see (because of the title perhaps). Some wrote that she may have divorced her husband because of this woman. Others wrote that the bride allowed her to dominate the appointment. It is weird how people can be easily led...
This is precisely why my daughter decided to pay for her own dress, because she wanted to make her own mind up and not have to get a dress that she didn’t like because someone else was buying it…
I don’t think the MIL was anything but supportive. She was never mean just thought she could look better. And at the end she was soo sweet to say “she’s the perfect women for my son,” how sweet that is. I would love to have a MIL that felt soo highly of me and wasn’t dishonest about how I looked and gave honest feedback without being hurtful. It’s a given its Erin’s choice in the final say in the end. Do you have another son Tina? Lol … I remembered trying on clothes with my mom and a sales lady was soo nosey and told my mom that everything she tried on looked great and one shirt my mom was questioning and once I saw it, I saw the same thing my mom was seeing. It wasn’t horrible but it also wasn’t very flattering and told her honestly and the sales lady scolded me for saying the truth. And my mom told her that’s why I’m asking my daughter because I know that she will tell her me the truth good or bad.
This is from 2014 so here’s a little update: Erin and Tony got married on December 13, 2014 but unfortunately divorced two years later. They’ve both since remarried other people and Tony and his current wife recently welcomed their second child.
@@karissakline6765 well, they were together for years leading up to the engagement and no one gets married with the intention of getting divorced. Some things just don’t work out.
@@Q1cool8790 they’re both prominent on social media. Look up their names and you’ll see their IG pages with pictures of their current respective spouses. The date of Erin and Tony’s wedding is on Erin’s Wikipedia page.
As a mother-in-law I never would’ve imposed my views on my sons wife about her dress. The only comment I made about their wedding was that my son‘s younger brother needed to be a groomsman. (They were not planning on including him in the wedding party). I just stay out of their business and out of her way. She is never going to be able to say that her mother-in-law interfered in her marriage.
Exactly! But this bride seemed to be a very nice and naive woman. Her mother seemed very kind as well. They appear to be people-pleasers or peace setters. In the other hand, the mother in law is more incisive and controlling. It's a "perfect match" of someone who likes power and someone who wants to please.
When brides are too nice and are more concerned about making everyone else happier than themselves. I was that bride - I hated my dress (my bossy sister picked it) and almost everything about my wedding, even though we were paying for it. I am divorced now, and if I ever get married again, I'll elope.
As much as the editing tried to make the mother-in-law out to be a nasty woman, I really think they failed lol. She just came off to me as a loving mom who didn't want to hurt anyone's feelings, that knows she's an opinionated person, but has it pretty well in check. I liked her :)
"This is the perfect girl for my son." I can't belive this MIL had the nerve to say that. She's so lucky that this young woman loves her son. She could do much worse. She could actually have a DIL who doesn't care what she thinks.
Some entourages confuse being helpful with trying to choose the dress entirely. If the bride loves something and it generally looks good on her, just be supportive, even if it's not exactly the dress you'd pick!
The MIL was actually kind and she was completely right. She wasn't being a drama queen, she was gently offering her honest opinion. I saw nothing wrong with it.
According to another commenter, bride and husband married in 2014, but are now divorced, with her now being married to someone else, so that particular MIL is no longer in the picture.
I'll never understand why some of these brides cede so much control to the mother-in-law. Let the mother-in-law obsess over what the GROOM is wearing. His tux. What the bride wears is none of her business. And none of the groom's business either. These brides are so immature, they're barely adult. Stand up for yourself and get what you want to wear.
Totally beautiful; I believe some people know exceptional products. And this group was expressing like and dislike with love and respect. Happy for all of you. Love you God bless your marriage!
The title is very clickbait-y. The MIL was reasonable and not rude whatsoever. The bride was probably mildly irritated but definitely not what the video title tries to insinuate.
Stunning gown on her!💜 But didn't she say "up to $7000, no more"? Not counting alterations, tax, the veil and head piece, the gown alone is $7600. Mmmm🤔. I'm glad she picked this one too.
MIL was right though. She was honest and said outloud what the others would only admit they were thinking when she did first. I think she only got the dress she really loved because MIL didn't let her settle right away. And even through all her criticism you can tell she just wanted her to have a dress she absolutely shined in, and now she does 🥰
This happens there too?? I'm from India and purchasing wedding ornaments is a major thing in here. Same happened to me during jewelry selection. My mother in law disliked everything I choose and we were forced picked her own choices in my Father's budget. My father payed, I wore, my MiL selected..
Could you talk about the experience, pls? Did you felt doubtful at any time? Did you decide to shop the gown without show to anyone? When my time comes I'm thinking about going alone but I have these questions
Actually, I never even considered having family or friends come with me. However, I did bring my fiance. AFTER I picked the gown that I wanted, I had him brought into the room to see various options - and, WITHOUT my identifying my choice, he chose the same one!
Dresses 1 and 2: the bride wasn't in love, and it shows. I think Tina picked up on it. Dress 4: Perfection. Tina wasn't that bad. She just pointed out things that I saw that made the dresses look off on her.
Agreed, but, sometimes it helps to have someone there who can let you know if a dress honestly is not flattering on you. Sometimes we are so obsessed with wanting a gorgeous dress that we saw in a magazine or in the store on the rack, that we subconsciously overlook reality if it’s not flattering on our individual figures. Unfortunately, most high end dresses seem to be designed for super thin and super tall women, because they want the dresses to look great on the runway. Anyways, that was my personal experience at Kleinfelds. I came in thinking mermaid would look amazing on me, and turned out a ballgown actually was the most flattering. It gets toxic though when the people with you give unproductive feedback, especially feedback that has nothing to do with how it looks on you, and more of just their own personal taste in dresses, which is about 50% of the people on this show.
Why? This bride wants their opinions. This isn't your wedding dress, it is hers. And she wants other people's perspectives about what she will look nice in. It is not a crime for people - whom the bride purposefully brought - to share their opinions. Some brides want everyone to like their dress. And, since the brides usually marry in a setting with lots of people, they bring people who will be in the "audience" to share what they see. And brides often want people they care about to share in picking a dress. Just because YOU don't want to do it doesn't mean all the other brides have to do it your way.
@@catladyfromky4142 I’m going to be nice. Whose wedding is it the bride or the people she brings with her? Sure it’s nice to have opinions but it’s the brides choice or do you not get that?
I was trying to figure out why the MIL was even there, and why she had such strong opinions, and why anybody cared what she thought. But when she said, “la sposa bella,” It all made perfect sense! Ohhhhh, she’s Itaaaaalian! I get it now! 😂 (I have an Italian MIL, lol)
The bride clearly states at the beginning that her price point is No Higher than $7,000.00, yet all the gowns shown were over her budget.
Exactly this... where is the acknowledgement of her budget. They have must have dresses under her budget.
Exactly
And then there is the veil. Ive heard quotes of $3,000 for a veil with lace trim 🤦♀️
Ridiculous
The moral of the story is: Whatever your budget actually is, tell them that it is $1000-$1500 less than that.
'She is the perfect woman for my son' how many women wish they could hear such remarkable words come from their in laws mouths? So precious.
Her opinion doesnt count. She's not the one getting married. As long as you have a strong man in your corner, you're good
@S k. she’s marry to someone else now 🤣
@@delmar9972 This must be a really old clip then.
@S k. Wow, really? But yet they spent so much money on this dress and everything else. It feels like the more expensive a wedding is the faster they divorce.
@@Impossibly_gorgeous True to some extent but in some cases, couples divorce due to the mother in law sadly.
I agree, The MIL was NOT that bad. She offered her opinion and was not mean or hateful.
She is a guest and should mind her business. She is a bully. Her comments are very condescending. Her sense of entitlement is off the charts.
@@richardmayora1289 OK..........
But who cares what she thinks? The bride is a grown woman who should have the last word without any pressure to please anyone but herself. This is so stupid.
@@cindyj5522 She was brought along because her opinion was valued.
She was reasonable and kind. If it's "your day" then use "your money" and go by "YOURSELF"........
I think MIL got her 15 minutes of fame.
Honestly. Brides need to go shopping for their dress by themselves.
I would!
Agreed
I agree with you 100!!!
I did, and it was the best experience. My appointment was just myself and the bridal consultant from the store. She knew exactly what I was looking for! It was the second dress! She insisted that I try on another style of gown just to be sure. I went home, to sleep on it, my consultant told me about the bridal show and that there was a surprise! The next day, I went to the bridal show, and the gown that I had chosen was featured in the fashion show! The store even offered a 20% discount for the trunk show since I attend the bridal show! I went back to the store the next business day, tried on the dress again, and me and my consultant were so emotional! I had alterations and added sleeves from the extra layers of tulle and ordered appliques from the designer for the sleeves. My dress was just the more beautiful with the custom features . The cap sleeves looked like they were supposed to be part of the original gown!!
I went by myself. When I found a dress I wanted, I took my mother only. She wasn't crazy about it. But she understood this was my choice. No one else saw it til the day of the wedding
Let’s face it - she’d look gorgeous in anything! Really doesn’t matter what she picks! 😁
true, but she definitely picked the right dress. i don't think the severe mermaid silhouette was for her, the blingy embroidery on a fit & flare was just perfection.
I came to write that but you already did 😊
😂
Agree.
Exactly 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Randy: "if anybody says anything we'll tackle them,- we'll tackle them". LOOL gotta Love Randyyy❤❤
Titel: “mother in law hates her dresses!!”
Actual mother in law: give critiques but is never mean, and says the bride is the perfect woman for her son.
Did you miss the part where she based it on what dress the bride chose? 🤔
@@SM-ji1qe I have a slight feeling some good old classic “reality show editing” was done to make it seem that way. Either that or she said it, not because of the dress, but because her being in the final dress with the vail on, made the MIL emotional, and she just needed to say that. But if you wanna go with the “MIL only cares about dress” interpretation. Go for it.
yes...iam 666...lol.
@@deargodwhatamidoing1122 yeah, I’ll believe what I see and hear, and I’d appreciate it if you would not make up a quote I allegedly said. Perhaps before all that though, you’d do best to get over yourself. 😂
@@SM-ji1qe I’m sorry if there was a misunderstanding, but I have always learned that these “” are used both for quotes and when naming specific things. I didn’t claim you said it, I just took your point and gave it a name. I will admit my way of doing so was quit childish. I am sorry. What I meant to say was that you could view the MIL any way you want. I just disagree, because again, editing in reality shows isn’t always to be trusted.
The second dress was very unique. It looked stunning on her. And, fit her perfectly.
Agree
I thought it was the most flattering of all the dresses.
I agree totallu - the second drexx is absolitely gorgeous and purrfect for her. Its a pity she didnt try it on again.
I agree!!
Absolutely. The best cut, classy, tasteful and suited her skin tone.
Trying to please the mother in law is the most dangerous thing! It will never end!! Speaking from 17 years of experience!!
I'm learning that now I've had to compromise every need in my pregnancy & to fight for my every want god I'm tired of this but hey if you've got advise lmk
Italian Moms and their sons...🤷♀️
Take a look at Carolyn Hax, advice columnist for the Washington Post. Much of the time she writes about setting and enforcing boundaries.
@@kastynm.9004 DON’T EVER comprise for anyone !!! especially your mother in law! when she had her husband and had her kids she raised them her way and managed her marriage way! my mother in law doesn’t dare to control me! I have put her in her place! now we have a respectable relationship
@@kastynm.9004 put in boundaries and let your husband know these boundaries as well. If his mother over steps them then it’s his job to put her back in her place. If your husband refuses to stand up for you over his mother then rethink your relationship because once your kid is born it will only get worse.
At first I thought Tina was just going to be spiteful, but she clearly was just as excited but wanted something special for her. Tina rocks! So does the rest of the entourage! There’s a lot of love there!
Okay, hear me out. Usually, mils can be annoying but Tina was actually a great critique and she even explained what she didn't like in any of the dresses. i definitely got the "These dresses don't speak her, she can do far better." vibes when she didn't initially like any of the dresses. And I AGREE WITH HER! It didn't do the bride anything at all.
But the last dress she chose was perfect and I knew the mil will say the same, when she finally sees De dress on her, she gave her approval.
I agree. Although I feel that she did not communicate exactly WHAT she didn't like as well as she could have, I think she and the test of the entourage gave good feedback so the bride got the dress that looked best on her and what she wanted.
They heard Randy and the Bride talking.
You missed the point. She doesn't get to have an opinion about the dress. Other things, maybe. Dress? Nope.
Yeah but the bride was clearly a little frustrated. She could have toned it down just a little for her bridal appointment.
@@Impossibly_gorgeous only the whole reason she was invited was so that she would be able to have her opinion. If she wasn’t going to be allowed to have an opinion in the dresses, she wouldn’t have been invited. Strange you missed that important clue.
Who's going to wear this dress anyway? I certainly wouldn't care what my mother-in-law thought at this point. She won't be wearing it.
There's literally nothing wrong with anything the mother in law did lol. Her mom even kept the same energy with her when she didn't like something. She found her dress and that's all that matters.
you're her
she said a dress absolutely covered in rhinestones was "too plain." even the MOB was fed up with her, this obviously wasn't the first time she shat her opinion all over the bridal appointment.
@@dietotaku what's your deal? You're so angry
It's just clickbait for the title. You could see she was hesitant to be honest at first until they coaxed her
@@celeste2751 😆😆😆😆😆😆😆 I like you
I didn't realize that at the tender age of 20, I had enough wisdom to go wedding dress shopping by myself. I did it, I just didn't know how much better it was. I'm so glad I did.
You did the right thing.
I would only invite 2 other people to go with me if I shopped for a bridal dress.
I was 29 when I picked out my gown. The only person I brought with me was an extremely close friend.
Bought mine off the rack at age 28, all by myself. I l loved my mother, but I did not like shopping for my clothes with her.
Me too! 20 and chose my dress last month by myself! Best decision ever
They sure didn't listen to or respect her budget. She clearly said no MORE than $7,000.
The second dress was for it. She smiled all the way and it hugged her so good.
Truly
I was annoyed by the fact that they disrespected the bride when they ignored her budget. So rude of the bridal company.
Rude of Randy!
They did not ignore it, they stayed right in her range. For people who are used to purchasing high priced items, it is understood that "$7000" means up to "$7,999". She is a beauty contestant and would have the experience to expect this, as well as knowing that alterations will likely be hundreds of dollars. Any extras, such as added lace, beading, or accessories such as a veil will not be included in the first quote. They even left enough room in the budget to ensure she would not go over the $8000 mark with alterations.
While I agree it is disrespectful to only show dresses above the bride's budget, that was not the case in this episode. If the bride's budget was $1500 and they showed $2000 dresses, it would be rude, because that $500 more is 1/3 of her original budget. However, going a few hundred over on a $7000 budget is just a small fraction of the budget higher. Either way, they should never pressure the customer to try on or purchase what they can't afford.
Brides need to be ready to stand their ground on budget and not try on anything shown to them above budget. Better yet, state a budget lower than what they can actually afford, so they can view a range of prices. However, don't fault a salesperson for showing them something over budget if it is exactly what they are asking for. It's not always about their commission. Sometimes what the customer wants is simply not in their price range, and they deserve the chance to turn down their perfect dress or increase their budget so they can have it.
@@wildflower1397 she did say "no higher than $7000" ...
@@wildflower1397 It's super manipulative and wrong to go over someone's budget. The consultants know the dresses and prices; why they always go right at the top of the budget or above is beyond me, instead of choosing similar dresses ~$500 below the bride's max budget. Like so annoying.
@@wildflower1397Not only that it she would know that the type of dress she wanted aka something with lots of lace and beading from a high end boutique with expensive brands, would cost more than 7000
WOW! To hear a mother say her soon to be daughter in-law is the perfect woman for her son is a true honor. THATS something you hear and many women don’t care.
WOW! Congratulations! God Bless
I wonder if she said that to her sons new wife. They are divorced and both have remarried
When the shows are this old, I always have to go look to see if the marriage ever took place or if they are still married. This bride married her fiance in 2014. They divorced, and she has since remarried. Ah, true love!
Thank you for letting us know. I always wonder how many couples make it.m
That's really sad.
How do you find this info? How sad but I found the different generations look at marriage differently.
Wow. Thank you for the update.
@@karenacton3854 All you have to do is look up her name (it's displayed around 0:16 in the clip) and "miss universe". Shortcut: Look for her wiki entry. It's in there.
Why on earth would any bride invite their future MIL to select their wedding dress??!!
Exactly!! The mother-in-law has no need to be there. The bride gets to pick the dress SHE likes. Plus, the MIL isn’t paying for it. Simple as that.
I think as a gesture of good will and as a bonding experience. It wouldn't necessarily be a good idea for all MILs, but if you've got a sweetheart as a MIL, go for it.
i love when the mother in law said "that is the perfect woman for my son" so sweet
According to wikipedia, the marriage lasted less than 2 years.
@@stacymagnusson5683 😲
@@KD-fh8fc I just wish more people would focus on the marriage instead of the frills leading up to it. There would be less heartache and less debt.
@@stacymagnusson5683 Surprise, surprise. Mama's boy. Horrible MIL. It happened to me, and nothing can be more hurtful than having your husband choose his mother over you.
Well I thought it was wrong to give the MIL so much power. It's not her day, it's not her dress, so why is her opinion, the make or break approval given so much importance? She was brought dresses over $7,000 , when she had said her limit was $7,000. She's beautiful and the dress looked perfect. I wasn't thrilled with this episode tho. It just didn't sit right regarding the power given to the MIL.
After watching the show, I think the bride’s entourage is awesome. I will admit that I am the type of mom/mom-in-law that will pretty much love everything, but I think the opinions were nicely given.
Ah. I see why she won Miss USA. She's so beautiful in every dress.
You don't have to win Miss USA to be beautiful.. All those girls that didn't win Miss USA still beautiful in every dress
That mother-in-law knows her stuff! I was happy with the dresses until I saw that last one. That dress was a show stopper! The mother-in-law’s critical eye is better than most. She could be an amazing stylist.
Yeah....ok
@@laceyfox3384 ok Lacey with your chunky turquoise necklace from 2014 and your Shirley temple curls. Let’s take fashion advice from the home school lookin’ grandma. 🙄
@@politesmile7812 wow you really zoomed in to check me out! FYI it's a genuine Royston lariat from the same company that drew Barrymore buys her turquoise from. It's not costume jewelry sweetheart
@@laceyfox3384 all one has to do is click on your face in comments and it opens your profile, where I see your tacky 2014 photo and your HBHG playlist. No zooming needed boomer. BTW I loved Drew Barrymore in the Wedding Singer and I’m sure her stylist at Hippie Cowgirl could help you put a modern spin on that necklace. You could use some updating sweetheart. It’s time to put the velour Juicy bag away.
@@laceyfox3384 To be fair, Polite Smile didn't say your necklace looked fake, they said it was chunky and old school. It being "genuine" doesn't make something more or less tacky to others.
Wear what you want and makes you feel good though. I wear corsets and look like a pirate/elf half the time because I like it. Others find it gaudy. That's the fun thing about style, it's subjective.
She had a higher budget than most on the show. And yet they exceeded it.
It’s only money
I guess if your top budget is 7 you should tell them it 5 or 6..they almost always push the amout
@@valerieblack6445 What do we know, maybe most of them already do that.-D
She did say, "like" $7k, not a *firm* 7k. If she balked at the extra $200, they would have reduced it.
It's because of what she wanted. The type of dress she wanted was always going to be over her range, it's a miracle they had dresses that were still within the 7-8 thousand range. She's at a high end run way designer bridal boutique in New York. Of course it's going to be a bit over her range. The dress type she wanted was always going to be expensive no matter where she went though. I'm sure she understood she might need extra.
I love what she got! $600 over? It's totally impossible for me to relate. When I started looking at David's Bridal I did not choose right away. In the meantime a cousin called me and asked if I had a dress yet. She had a friend that called off her wedding. She had a dress altered and wondered if I wanted to just take a look. I figured why not. I'm 5'2", 120. The dress fit perfectly and I loved it more than any I had seen so far. Total $35. Yes I got blessed. This business of spending thousands is crazy. At least be within reason.
I also think the outrageous prices for a dress worn ONCE is beyond comprehension. But I’m nothing if not practical. My wedding dress was a God-given blessing. It fit me perfectly without alterations, had all the features I wanted and made me feel fabulous, and cost $400.
A blessing for my mom was a lost opportunity for me. Her dress was borrowed and fit perfectly without alterations. I absolutely loved it (long story here, but I never saw photos until >45 years after my wedding) - and WAY more than the dress that I chose/wore. And we were exactly the same height/frame, so it would've fit me perfectly.
The mother in law wasn’t even that bad. The mom even gave the same amount of criticism as her. They even agreed they both didn’t like the second and third dresses. This looks like a nice and normal appointment to me with normal amount of notes on the dresses and not at all discouraging the bride or anything.
you're her
I see the mother in law's vision. I don't see how the staff don't
what? the mom LOVED the second dress. FMIL just hated everything. a gazillion rhinestones = it's too plain. mermaid style = too broken up. fit & flare = not broken up enough. i don't know how anybody could "see the mother in law's vision" because she isn't articulating what that vision is and it doesn't even matter because IT'S. NOT. HER. WEDDING. (edit) okay they cut this together REALLY weird because at 3:36 she's trying on the daniella caprese dress that FMIL says "isn't broken up enough" but then at 6:37 they're putting her in the same dress and calling it dress #3 instead of #2.
The difference is that her mother is Her Mother. The MIL is just her mil. Her opinion does Not count when it comes to the brides wedding dress.
@@dawniebug784, really? You mean the manipulative, demanding, meddling, "I know what's best for my son" garbage she's displaying?
I've seen this a lot on this show and it really bothers me that push dresses higher than the given budget and are always trying to upsell dresses and drama. I've heard from bridal consultants that they generally don't show dresses higher than the client's budget because nobody wants to fall in love with a dress you can't afford! The relationship dynamics were refreshing to watch and not over the top hateful and toxic at all!
What a clickbait of a title! 🙄
The mother in law was actually really nice and gave positive constructive feedback!
It's funny watching this show because at my wedding i wore the dress i wanted, no body liked it but me and my husband. I don't don't regret wearing it. I loved it.
If your budget it $7000,- tell them it's $6000,-.
Right! Also, I doubt that the $7600 included sales tax and alterations.
Can't imagine spending that much money on a dress
@@merricat3025 Me either!!! I spent $40 on my Dress. Cause i had a Justice of the Peace ceremony. Cause my Hubby has NO FAMILY except his WITCH of a Mom. I have my Mom, friends, and my Aunt and Uncle came to Ceremony. My Uncle gave me away in place of my Dad
Did you ever stop to think that that's what she did?? Perhaps her budget was actually $8000, and that's why she said $7000.
@@Ms_Sharpie probably didn't include the veil either
I can see whom she inherited her beauty from! Her mom is stunning!!
The mother in law was really helpful, actually. That last dress was absolutely perfecto.
I MUCH preferred the second dress - but it's the bride's choice.
Randy: "Tina! Tell us what you really think!" / Tina: *is honest* / everyone else: "no way tina 😐"
Tina done good job actually she said yes to the perfect gown for her... She looks stunning in that
This is why I picked out, and got my wedding dress by myself, with no one helping me, because I was going to be wearing the dress, it was my wedding, and the only one whose opinion mattered about my dress was mine.
That second dress is absolutely stunning,it looks like something from Titanic.
@Shannon Matlock: agreed! I loved that one so much!
That second dress she tried on was GORGEOUS
STOP asking the entourage what they like. It's not their wedding, it's the bride's. Her wishes are all that matter. All the dresses were lovely on her.
But if they didn't cause drama, would the show get as many views?
She brought them, yes? She wants their opinions, yes? And...if she had gotten the first dress she loved (that her entourage didn't) she would not have tried on the last one. So maybe they actually helped her to find the perfect dress. So maybe they were an asset.
They all didn't just mimic her opinions on the dresses. So what? What are they there for? Why did she bring them?
And you forget that this is a reality show. The application supposedly has a list of people you can bring, and then the producers tell you who you have to bring. The episodes all have a story, and the entourage is often part of it. Since all the brides apply to be on this show, they all agree to all the terms. If not, they would have a regular appointment that no one would see on their TV.
@@stephanieanderson3626 exactly
I agree with you 100%; is the bride it is getting married not them!!!! Tina needs to have her opinion if she’s married for her second vows!!!!! Her daughter-in-law is gorgeous and can wear anything; she needs to be quiet; she is rude!!!!! She was supposed to be a support system and not chaos!!!!
@@catladyfromky4142 Entourages are they to be an entourage! That’s it! Moral support. They don’t get a say on the dress. If someone wants options that fine, but it’s unnecessary for the consultants to keep asking and even let them pick out dresses
My daughter is getting married in October...there was none of what others thought! She chose and that was that no matter what the rest of us thought!
To be fair, I also thought that 5:00 - 6:00 dress looked like it had mold growing on it. The beading placement was just odd... in my opinion.
I agree with the Mamas. She looks absolutely stunning in that dress. A true Queen, who will look gorgeous on her wedding day.
I really liked the genuine love the mother's had for each other :)
The prices keep going up and up, WTFFFF! Wasn’t her budget supposed to be $7,000!?
Ikr
The bride can wear anything, and look smashing. She should wear the dress she loves.
Randy is the best part of this show. What a gem!
Bride: no more than 7000 dollars
First dress: worth 7200 dollars
Second dress: 7400
Last dress: 7600
Me: 🤦♀️
First dress: the one in the picture that she showed them as the perfect dress. That they actually have in the store. That is only a few hundred over her budget. That she would have been upset had she NOT put it on.
All the other dresses: in the same price range as the first dress.
You: angrier than the bride for trying on the dresses. You did not see the video of her looking at the price tag, saying "too much," then sending them out for dresses all under her budget, did you? Perhaps the price (being a little over budget) was not as important to you as it was to her.
@@catladyfromky4142 Don't know why you are so mad fool, but when someone clearly states that they do not want a dress over a special price and that's exactly what you do, it's normal to feel decieved and angry. Even if she did look at the price and was upset they would ovbiously not keep that clip. The only dress that can be concidered reasonble to keep in this is the first one. "Only a couple of hundred dollars"? You're clearly quite ignorant and don't know the worth hundreds of dollars have. 100 dollars is 1/10 of 1000. Do you get that? The last dress was 7600? That number is closer to 8000 than 7000. And that is a little over the budget to you? Do you know what a budget is for? And how do you know she saw the price before she put it on ? I have watched there other episodes and they often tell them later. Making someone put on a dress, fall in love, than later tell them it's over budget is cunning and decieving. Of course they'll be okay with it and try to buy it anyway since they are already inlove with it and they probably can barely aford it. Look at all the dresses they have. You really believe that they dont have a single dress under 7000 that she would fall inlove with? You think that they coincidently have 4+ dresses that are perfectly above 7000 for their own benefit that can please her? You really believe that?
@@KD-fh8fc All retail store do the same it is called upselling .
Antonella does this ALL THE TIME!
I wonder why none of them ever say "sorry but that's over my budget, can you put it back?". It's not as if 7 grand is peanuts.
I appreciate Erin as Miss USA, her beauty isn't just surface beauty💖
I don’t understand why all these brides will choose something else just because the crew doesn’t like it. It’s their dress. Not the friends/fam. I’d want opinions of course but damned if I’d have to please everyone. My MIL tried to dictate everything about my very small private wedding and I was very comfortable saying no. I’m not doing that.
There wouldn't be a show if they didn't pick spineless brides (or those pretending to be doormats just to get on the show to generate drama).
@@terrib627 Lmao! True!! But it gets old fast. Surely they can generate drama some other way. I like watching the feuding exes (bride’s parents). That’s always fun! 🤣🤣🤣
I think it’s hard to top a dress when you’ve seen your daughter/daughter-in-law in so many amazing and gorgeous pageant dresses already. Coming from someone that had a sister in the pageant world!
Loved all the dresses and let's face it - she would look fabulous in anything
I understand that what they think is important to her. At the end of the day, she's needs to love the dress and she needs to fight for the dress that she loves!
Bride: Not more than 7000
*brings out all dresses more than 7000*
So frustrating honestly.
ALSO, the MIL was great! She gave constructive criticism and wasn't mean in any way, and even the bride's own mom was mostly on the same page with her. The video title was just clickbait and unnecessary! Bride looks beautiful in the dress she picked!
The dress she chose is just drop dead gorgeous... Loved it
A sweet bride, her mother is elegant, kind, and supportive along with her beautiful BFF's. I hope when it comes to style and fashion the bride will always please herself and not take advice from her mother-in-law, whose own sense of style was leftover from the 80s and whose grammar could use correcting.
Although I love the dress and love how happy she is in it, I don't love how they clearly disregarded her budget.
Another headline to get people watching for the "DRAMA" when there was none, well done.
LOL. Although I agree with you, some commenters here just saw what they wanted to see (because of the title perhaps). Some wrote that she may have divorced her husband because of this woman. Others wrote that the bride allowed her to dominate the appointment. It is weird how people can be easily led...
This is precisely why my daughter decided to pay for her own dress, because she wanted to make her own mind up and not have to get a dress that she didn’t like because someone else was buying it…
I did the same paid for my own and went shopping alone.
@@gwens5093 Ditto.
Always baffle me, my wedding, my dress..I don't care about your opinion.I went shopping on my own.. turn out just Fab!
Confident woman. 💅 cheers to you🥂
I don’t think the MIL was anything but supportive. She was never mean just thought she could look better. And at the end she was soo sweet to say “she’s the perfect women for my son,” how sweet that is. I would love to have a MIL that felt soo highly of me and wasn’t dishonest about how I looked and gave honest feedback without being hurtful. It’s a given its Erin’s choice in the final say in the end. Do you have another son Tina? Lol … I remembered trying on clothes with my mom and a sales lady was soo nosey and told my mom that everything she tried on looked great and one shirt my mom was questioning and once I saw it, I saw the same thing my mom was seeing. It wasn’t horrible but it also wasn’t very flattering and told her honestly and the sales lady scolded me for saying the truth. And my mom told her that’s why I’m asking my daughter because I know that she will tell her me the truth good or bad.
This is from 2014 so here’s a little update: Erin and Tony got married on December 13, 2014 but unfortunately divorced two years later. They’ve both since remarried other people and Tony and his current wife recently welcomed their second child.
What a huge waste of time and money on that big wedding for two years together 😂
How you know this?
@@karissakline6765 well, they were together for years leading up to the engagement and no one gets married with the intention of getting divorced. Some things just don’t work out.
@@Q1cool8790 they’re both prominent on social media. Look up their names and you’ll see their IG pages with pictures of their current respective spouses. The date of Erin and Tony’s wedding is on Erin’s Wikipedia page.
All that money wasted for nothing. She might as well have worn a paper bag and not had a mil for a critique.
As a mother-in-law I never would’ve imposed my views on my sons wife about her dress. The only comment I made about their wedding was that my son‘s younger brother needed to be a groomsman. (They were not planning on including him in the wedding party). I just stay out of their business and out of her way. She is never going to be able to say that her mother-in-law interfered in her marriage.
Exactly! But this bride seemed to be a very nice and naive woman. Her mother seemed very kind as well. They appear to be people-pleasers or peace setters. In the other hand, the mother in law is more incisive and controlling. It's a "perfect match" of someone who likes power and someone who wants to please.
That dress is absolutely gorgeous she looks so good in it
When brides are too nice and are more concerned about making everyone else happier than themselves. I was that bride - I hated my dress (my bossy sister picked it) and almost everything about my wedding, even though we were paying for it. I am divorced now, and if I ever get married again, I'll elope.
How did they STILL go over a 7k budget?!
Gagging every time Randy says hello beautiful to EVERY BRIDE!
She is absolutely STUNNING.....and what a smile !!!
As much as the editing tried to make the mother-in-law out to be a nasty woman, I really think they failed lol. She just came off to me as a loving mom who didn't want to hurt anyone's feelings, that knows she's an opinionated person, but has it pretty well in check. I liked her :)
the mother in law was right, she could have done wayyyy better, especially with the budget she had
"This is the perfect girl for my son." I can't belive this MIL had the nerve to say that. She's so lucky that this young woman loves her son. She could do much worse. She could actually have a DIL who doesn't care what she thinks.
Why bring MIL with you if she not supportive in the dress you want?
I personally liked the second dress with the lace. But it’s her day and she loved the one she picked
To me, that looks more like an evening dress than a dress I would wear to a wedding.
The woman who is the bride, is still looking for an audience to cheer her on. This is a wedding not the "pageant world".
Ball gowns say Bridal, but women hear so much criticism they can't discern.
Randy's "hey beautiful" makes me smile every time
Some entourages confuse being helpful with trying to choose the dress entirely. If the bride loves something and it generally looks good on her, just be supportive, even if it's not exactly the dress you'd pick!
I know right? Why can't people understand that!
The MIL was actually kind and she was completely right. She wasn't being a drama queen, she was gently offering her honest opinion. I saw nothing wrong with it.
She could wear anything and still look gorgeous! As for the future mother in law, watch out. Trying to please her over HER dress is a major red flag!
According to another commenter, bride and husband married in 2014, but are now divorced, with her now being married to someone else, so that particular MIL is no longer in the picture.
MIL wasn't even bad
It's amazing how different mermaid dresses look on the same person. Some were way more flattering than others.
The satin dress that was behind Erin when she was commenting would have looked great on her.
Exactly my thought
I think that that's actually a green screen image
I'll never understand why some of these brides cede so much control to the mother-in-law. Let the mother-in-law obsess over what the GROOM is wearing. His tux. What the bride wears is none of her business. And none of the groom's business either. These brides are so immature, they're barely adult. Stand up for yourself and get what you want to wear.
The tension between the Mum and Mum-in-Law😬
The bride should have brought just her Mum.
Hello 👋how are you doing?
Same applies to giving birth.keep your vulnerable moments to your blood relatives
@@Impossibly_gorgeous exactly💯
Totally beautiful; I believe some people know exceptional products.
And this group was expressing like and dislike with love and respect.
Happy for all of you. Love you
God bless your marriage!
The title is very clickbait-y. The MIL was reasonable and not rude whatsoever. The bride was probably mildly irritated but definitely not what the video title tries to insinuate.
She was all over the place. She didn't know what she liked. I'd be annoyed too.
Thank goodness Ive got the best in-laws! Good natured and so supportive.
Stunning gown on her!💜 But didn't she say "up to $7000, no more"? Not counting alterations, tax, the veil and head piece, the gown alone is $7600. Mmmm🤔. I'm glad she picked this one too.
MIL was right though. She was honest and said outloud what the others would only admit they were thinking when she did first. I think she only got the dress she really loved because MIL didn't let her settle right away. And even through all her criticism you can tell she just wanted her to have a dress she absolutely shined in, and now she does 🥰
Love the second dress that she tried on more! ❤
This happens there too?? I'm from India and purchasing wedding ornaments is a major thing in here. Same happened to me during jewelry selection. My mother in law disliked everything I choose and we were forced picked her own choices in my Father's budget. My father payed, I wore, my MiL selected..
This why I went by myself to pick out my wedding gown.
Could you talk about the experience, pls? Did you felt doubtful at any time?
Did you decide to shop the gown without show to anyone?
When my time comes I'm thinking about going alone but I have these questions
Actually, I never even considered having family or friends come with me. However, I did bring my fiance. AFTER I picked the gown that I wanted, I had him brought into the room to see various options - and, WITHOUT my identifying my choice, he chose the same one!
I wouldn't give a fuck what my mother in law thought about my dress.
Dresses 1 and 2: the bride wasn't in love, and it shows. I think Tina picked up on it.
Dress 4: Perfection.
Tina wasn't that bad. She just pointed out things that I saw that made the dresses look off on her.
I never understand this... the BRIDE is wearing the dress, and whether she loves it or not should be the only thing that matters.
Agreed, but, sometimes it helps to have someone there who can let you know if a dress honestly is not flattering on you. Sometimes we are so obsessed with wanting a gorgeous dress that we saw in a magazine or in the store on the rack, that we subconsciously overlook reality if it’s not flattering on our individual figures. Unfortunately, most high end dresses seem to be designed for super thin and super tall women, because they want the dresses to look great on the runway. Anyways, that was my personal experience at Kleinfelds. I came in thinking mermaid would look amazing on me, and turned out a ballgown actually was the most flattering. It gets toxic though when the people with you give unproductive feedback, especially feedback that has nothing to do with how it looks on you, and more of just their own personal taste in dresses, which is about 50% of the people on this show.
Those brides need to go alone or with their bridesmaids and let them know from jump street that it’s HER WEDDING and HER DRESS.
Why? This bride wants their opinions. This isn't your wedding dress, it is hers. And she wants other people's perspectives about what she will look nice in. It is not a crime for people - whom the bride purposefully brought - to share their opinions. Some brides want everyone to like their dress. And, since the brides usually marry in a setting with lots of people, they bring people who will be in the "audience" to share what they see. And brides often want people they care about to share in picking a dress. Just because YOU don't want to do it doesn't mean all the other brides have to do it your way.
@@catladyfromky4142 I’m going to be nice. Whose wedding is it the bride or the people she brings with her? Sure it’s nice to have opinions but it’s the brides choice or do you not get that?
@@catladyfromky4142 would you let someone pick out a dress for you if you did not like it? Of course you wouldn’t. Not your wedding either missy
The bride had put a bad taste in my mouth at 0:11 seconds in when she introduced her best friends as “bffsss” 🙄 Her mom is a sweetheart tho.
Things will look different on the hanger vs being on the bride…I mean sheesh! Let the bride put them on first!
I was trying to figure out why the MIL was even there, and why she had such strong opinions, and why anybody cared what she thought. But when she said, “la sposa bella,” It all made perfect sense! Ohhhhh, she’s Itaaaaalian! I get it now! 😂 (I have an Italian MIL, lol)
Mother in law is gonna rule that household if she keeps deferring to her for decisions
I'd say she's potentially part of the reason this marriage didn't last.
omigosh, she looked so beautiful in that second dress... that dress is gorgeous!
They found the most beautiful dress for her because of the particular MIL. She looks radiant on that last dress. 😍
Stand up to Mother-in-law now … if you don’t do it now you’ll never be able to do it.