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As a born Muslim, I can also relate to this. A sense of community and belonging makes all the difference in our journey of becoming stronger Muslims. How can we expect our Muslim communities to be good to reverts, when they are not even supportive to the born Muslims? To them, they only support financially, people in other corners of the globe, or compete to fundraise for bigger and better masjids, rather than provide moral support to their own who need moral and social support. I have been experiencing this throughout my life, and if my iman was any weaker, I would have left it years ago.
@@hafsahahmed879 yeah I had a hard time not celebrating christmas with the family anymore. and after eid prayer seeing all the families be together would depress me. alhamdulillah I have my own muslim family now.
I agree, the first 5 years of a revert/convert are critical. I learned very early on that, I’m on my own when it comes to Islam. Sadly, the Ummah is very racist, and if you are not included in a Muslim Community, it’s very hard. Taqwa is very important, and your one, on one, relationship with God is pertinent. Alhamdulillah.
@@lalucimot5946 Shukran. Your Sister is not going anywhere, unless, Allah azawajal has it be so, Allahu Akbar! Barak Allahu feek my Brother. SubhanAllah.
*Timestamps:* 0:00 - Coming Up 1:12 - Introduction 1:50 - Background & Revert Story of Gabriel 6:22 - The Need for Belongingness 8:39 - Reverts establishing their muslim identity 9:55 - The Trials of New Muslims 11:14 - Accepting Islam for superficial reasons 12:30 - The Ups & Downs of Emaan 14:52 - Dealing with Doubts 16:43 - Islam in a muslim vs non-muslim context 18:32 - Allah ﷻ guides whom he wills 19:37 - Gabriel's journey as a new muslim 21:35 - Struggling with Doubts 26:05 - Overcoming Doubts by certainty of faith 29:48 - Lessons from the test of Ibraheem AS 33:09 - The Untold Struggles of Born Muslims 34:17 - Proper Mentoring of Reverts 39:06 - Need of Social Support for Reverts 42:46 - Anghel's experiences as a New Muslim 45:04 - Counseling & Facilitating Reverts 48:19 - Ummah's Responsibility to aid Reverts 50:54 - Gabriel's journey of conquering doubts 55:22 - Knowing Islam but not accepting it 57:02 - Learning to submit & accept the Truth 59:54 - The Deceptions of Islamophobes 1:00:40 - Why was the Quran revealed in Arabic? 1:03:33 - Advice for New Muslims 1:05:08 - The importance of having a community 1:07:17 - Establishing One's Islamic Foundations 1:08:49 - The Unreliablity of the Bible 1:12:43 - Closing Remarks & Wrapping Up SubhanAllah ❤️🤍💖 Fantastic Discussion 👍🏻👌🏻 _May Allah ﷻ bless you all and reward you for your efforts._
Iben Qayyim said: "It is inevitable that worshippers become dispassionate. Yet, even during such a phase, if a man adheres to what is right and remains steadfast without neglecting obligations or committing unlawful acts, he is expected to eventually return to a state that is perhaps even better than his former one."
I really appreciated this. I'm a revert from Canada and I come from a Catholic family (I was always disturbed by the teachings/practices) It's definitely better to have a community or supportive group who constantly remind you of Allah (SWT), especially if people in your own family or friends have rejected you. When you're lonely, I think contemplating on a surah we can relate to is helpful - for me, it's the story of Prophet Ibrahim (AS). And I found fulfilling tahajjud/night prayer always hits different
Isolation as a revert is a very real and sad thing but for me it’s the remembrance that Allah the king of all creation choose to open my heart to the truth and when I remember that it’s hard to be sad to long, of course it hurts sometimes and is lonely for me but 8 years a Muslim and I knew signing up heaven will not be achieved easily all glory to the king Allah SWT
My husband leaves Islam. I’ve tried to convince him, provide him evidences and tried to make him understand. I married him for the sake of Allah, and now I’m trying to leave him for the sake of Allah too. I love him, I still pray for him, may Allah guides him back. And I hope this video passes through his timeline and he watches this, because this video answers my husband’s doubts.
Leave him. Its not your job to fix broken people, you can only pray for his guidance but he is not lawful for you now. People who leave Islam even after evidence is showed, are people who don't care about truth but only about their desires.... Such men, who follow their desires, can neither be a good husband nor a good father.
There is a big lack in emotional intelligence when people try to give dawah to others. People need to remember everyone's journey to Islam is very personal and different to someone else's. What is guiding one person may not suit someone else. I had a lot of people tell me to stop listening to certain sheikhs or stop reading about Imam Ghazali and his teachings because of sufi influence. And yes, doubts are really hard to shift when people start with the unsolicited advice. If something is helping you to stay on deen or get closer to your deen, hold onto it and stay away from people that will be the cause of pulling you away from it.
This advice seems to be genuine and harmless but it's really dangerous, if people started following their emotions, desires, miss understandings and calling that as their own personal journey, then they may end up surely getting out of the path, following scholars who uses quran and sunna is never a wrong thing to do, and if they told you not to follow a certain sheikh and told you the reasons why, then instead of using your emotions and getting lost, do the right thing and make research, if you think that would be too hard for you and it doesn't help you to stay on deen because of the doubts, sadly that is a no excuse, once you acknowledge islam is the truth, as a fact not a belief, anything that you would face that wouldn't put your heart into ease, it would be a matter of jihad, matter of you finding out why is that the truth, and why your initial thoughts are wrong, the good part is you will be getting rewarded for it, and this works for everyone.
@@dexydex514 @Dexy Dex Yes, absolutely. Following the quran, sunnah and authentic hadith is literally what we should be doing because they are facts. You can still be following sheikhs that follow this and people can still find faults somewhere, so yes your jihad is always to seek the correct knowledge and seek the truth for your Imaan. Everyones journey is still different from one person to the other 🤷🏽♀️
i agree with you Saaleha i always go against what people tell me to do ie dont listen to this and that etc and find out for myself. Be confidfent enough in your self trust yourself and talk to folks and have a open mind as a student Normally in my experience the holier than thou British empire when ruling Arabia created cult of Wahabi/Salafis talk this nonsense about dont listen to this and that. They are famous for creating divisions and judging others
Gabriel described what a huge wave of doubts feels like perfectly - it hits you more in the stomach than the mind. You literally feel sick in a weird phycological way when you realize "oh wait maybe this isn't the truth" and that cognitive dissonance can linger for so long, especially after that initial "high" of very strong iman that one can experience in their first few months or years of finding islam. As someone still going through that conative dissonance everyday, I can say it's one of the hardest positions to be in because it's like the only position to be in where if you are wrong, there can be detrimental aspects in this life and the hereafter, and there's no way of knowing for sure if you're right or wrong because everyone has their own biases when giving their perspectives (believer vs nonbeliever). I recommend to ask and seek answers for the doubts but also above all else, turn to God and just confess how lost you feel and to guide you to the truth sincerely and genuinely everyday. Other than that, I think it's a huge help having conversations like these about doubts and dealing with doubts as people in faith because we really all experience the same feelings and thoughts, we just guilt ourselves in thinking we're the only one's experiencing this so we keep quiet and the issues become unsolved.
Remember that according to *Quran* *3:7* 'Shubuhat' or doubts are put there deliberately by god as a test. So having questions isn't a problem it's just working as intended. And don't let your mind trick you into overthinking, this is just a general advise.
I have been a muslim for the past 2 years. I remember in my first year I had major doubts but that wqs because I didnt have the knowledge yet. 2 years later I answered every single question I had and there is no more doubt. I know for fact Islam is the truth.
@@Nox-02 Oh Please, Dr. Yasir Qhadi already admitted the standard narrative has holes in it. Search it on youtube and search about the perfect preservation. You think you know better than Qhadi? Research a bit deeper and you will see why the Quran was not preserved and the existence of multiple Qurans
@@vinodmahes8243 lool I’ve already seen the video and asks the shaykh what he meant that day. He said that he was misunderstood and to suggest that there others quran show that you know nothing about the ahruf and qiraat🤣🤣🤣
My very first Ramadan has to date been my favorite one, nobody even knew I was Muslim but I prayed every single prayer I could, fasted all days I could, I broke fast on my own every night and it came all so easy, the only sadness I felt was from my family not experiencing this wonderful time with me because they’re not Muslim. Alhamdullilah for that time but I found that being around born Muslims who don’t take that time very seriously (like they are used to ramadan only being about food- not eating, later preparing food for hours then eating with whole family) will really bring you down spiritually, you almost feel ashamed to do extra acts of worship and being labeled „too much“ or another extremist convert. Similar thing with hijab.
Allahumma Barik, our brother's honesty masha'Allah. I believe sometimes it's to do with a deep rooted issue that hasn't been dealt with. For example, trauma. You'll find this effects your character, relationships, mindset and in turn one's spirituality. We as human beings need to work on our WHOLE selfs. So not just learning facts about the deen but work on our mental and physical well-being too. Everything comes hand-in-hand. May Allah The Most Merciful grant us all with continuous guidance and fill our hearts with imaan.
Salam brothers. I would say you guys are spot on on the initial phases of belief but I feel it also applies to born Muslims. I had a period of doubt and I would question my beliefs in a very wrong way but slowly I got the answers. Now when I hear the Islamophobes or devils I don't question because every single doubt I had has been answered.
Telling something about prophet Muhammad is an Insult, but Islam telling about kìlling, ræping, keeping them as sæx slæves, torturing non-believers of Islam, (Christians, Jews, Hindus, Siks, buddist, yazadi, etc) in their Islamic books (9:29,4:76,4:65,4:151,Sahih Muslim 41:6985 killing of jews,Sunan Abi Dawud 2155, ræping wômēn and gìrls of non-believers, ) is not an insult or problem to muslims. It's dam time not to be silent about this anymore, 1400 years of ISLAMIST Cruelty? Islamaphobic that's common sense
And a Muhammad who you follow cause he said he is a perfect men, who had slæves even sæx slæves, 14 wife's 4 of them were sæx slæves, he has tõrtured many and even given brutal punishments. His scriptures created Isis Al Qaeda boko haram and Talibans. And all your taqiyyah or lyings saying Islam is peaceful is over, sadly Islam can't reform, that's why Sunni and Shia fights to this day, cause the Muhammad said to kìll anyone who doesn't practice Islam right way. Btw most muslims have no idea about Islam. Muhammad fooled you once, now imans and mufti's will fool you again. Or you're just Cruel I'm heart and like to Keep sæx slæves
The reason Muslims are leaving is the same reason Christians, Jews and Hindus (unofficially) are also leaving - post modernism. And also in a world of reason, if religion doesn't contain reason and becomes ideological, people tend to leave.
1 - Whoever says SubhanAllahi wa biHamdihi (Glory be to Allah and Praise Him) a hundred times during the day, his sins are wiped away, even if they are like the foam of the sea [Sahih al-Bukhari; #7:168] 2 - whoever says SubhanAllahi wa biHamdihi, Subhan-Allahi 'l-`adheem (Glory be to Allah, and Praise, Glory be to Allah, the Supreme) Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Two words are light on the tongue, weigh heavily in the balance, they are loved by the Most Merciful One " [Sahih al-Bukhari; #7:67] 3. La Hawla wa la Quwatta illa Billah (There is no Might or Power except with Allah) [the above is] a treasure from the treasures of Paradise.[Sahih al-Bukhari; al-Fath al-Bari #11:213] R
Subhanallah bro I am a Muslima that has always found it so hard to start praying regularly and the prophet peace be upon him told us that the difference between a believer a disbeliever is their prayer and I am not kidding it’s like I was a disbeliever and I came back to Islam the moment I started praying regularly waswas from shayateen where none stop day and night to the point where I cry to Allah begging him to stop it and all day I watch debates between atheists and Muslims to strengthen your iman because at the time I realized that knowledge is what is going to combat this waswas that’s killing me from the inside اعوذ بالله I was saying things like god doesn’t exist and the prophet Mohamed peace be upon him is a lier and he didn’t exist and I was not the one saying it it’s like these thoughts just pop up all day long and it was basically torturing me because I knew it was not true and I kept fighting it buy explaining to myself over and over why Islam is the truth and that calmed it down but subhanallah I never stopped praying I was saying my athkar I did nafl and as much sunna as possible and alhamdoulilah it is gone but it pops up once in a while tho it’s not completely gone and I was like bro I have to be on the right path because from all the 17 years of my life these thoughts never came to me until I started being consistent with prayer subhanallah if you are dealing with this keep going never let shaytan and your nafs win keep learning because that is the cure for this trust me
Subhanallah I really am sorry this happened to you but I’m glad I found this comment. I have so many intrusive thoughts and when I wasn’t praying and doing haram I didn’t. The moment I started I find it hard to concentrate and the intrusive thoughts take over. I make dua, keep praying no matter what & put my faith in Allah. Thank you for sharing! Shaytan is our enemy and he wants us to doubt !
I'm a revert,from my own experience I was bombarded with a lots of restrictions and knowledge by Muslims colleague. In short, I was overwhelmed that time and distance myself with them because I loss focus . I knew I am in the correct direction but pushing me hard to the Deen to learn all at the same time is next to impossible. Subhanallah, by time, I learned and still learning.Test after test came to my life, Alhamdulillah I survived with the help of Allah subhanahu wa taala Please, if you encounter new reverts, don't be harsh in teaching them. Guide them slow until they felt comfortable and don't judge them when they commit mistakes. Just continuously explain clearly the teachings of Islaam and remind them of Allahs mercy,
Halfway in the conversation, what an amazing video brothers. I have personally went trough a lot of difficulty after my reversion. People come with a lot of theories and arguments and you just don’t know what’s real anymore. It felt soo scary. But alhamdulilah I kept on doing research and my iman is steady now.
Mashallah. This video right here is deep, informative and also enlightening. I enjoyed the fact that he went the psychology route to explain, and it sure was spot on. May Allah help us all: including our offspring and generations to come after them till the end of time, to be steadfast on the path of deen al Islam... Ameen.
afew permanent deeds are much better than alot intermittent deeds, as Prophetﷺ said: “The most beloved of actions to Allaah are those which are done persistently, even if they are little.”
I love you guys for the sake of Allah. Been a subscriber for a long time and it's awesome to see how you guys have grown in terms of knowledge. May Allah increase you all.
OCD is more prevelant than you think. It's a monster, don't feed it and it will starve. Just accept. Or watch RUclips tutorials how to do exposure and response prevention (ERP). The OCD can also change themes from religion to sexual etc. It's tricky.
I experienced exactly what he described about doubt in the chest I felt so sick but Alhamdulillah I kept reading the Quran and Salah and whenever i did my doubts went away then when i would rest or do anything else they would come back but it ultimately ended when i listened to a video of someone saying answering the question of a lady who was feeling the same way he said if you keep praying keep doing everything Allah wants you to do and feels sick because they are terrified to leave Islam then these are just wishers of shaytan and don’t let them do that to you just ignore those doubts and when i did that it worked Alhamdulillah. Because all my doubts were answered intellectually as he said May Allah keep us firm on His straight path.😊❤
AND SEEK HELP IN PATIENCE AND AS-SALAAT (THE PRAYER) AND TRULY IT IS EXTREMELY HEAVY AND HARD EXCEPT UPON AL-KHAASHI'UUN. AL-BAQARAH 2:45 never...give...up...!!!
I need prayers from all of you Muslims and Christians that God guides me to him and let me accept the truth and believe and have strong faith in it.. Thank you, I need it
On the identity point, look at this organization called Islam 4 Europeans. Basically their idea is to create sub communities for converts of European descent in the West to establish a Western Muslim identity in respective cultures. Similar to how Blacks and Hispanics have made some of their own sub communities in the US with large amounts of success.
Gabriel Romania did a wonderful job answering all the questions and giving great stories from his past which people should learn from, he is very confident and knows human psychology so well, may Allah bless him dearly, I love him for the sake of Allah, he must have been through a lot
Al Humdulillah we have The 3 Muslims podcast! It’s really the best Islamic/Lifestyle podcast in the Dunya 💯. Y’all & Gabriel Al Romani, really add a lot of good advice to my life & so many others. May Allah let all of you into Paradise & give you the best of this Dunya.
Honestly dont think many of them are leaving islam, but that they are just starting seeing islam as christians view christianity, from a more cultural and historic lense rather than spiritual/religious, which is ofc borderlien apostasy but that's due to the rampant materialism thats not stopping any time soon.
Peace be upon you.... May Allah swt grant you guidance & beneficial knowledge... Allah swt says in the Qur'an Az-Zumar 39:53 قُلْ يَٰعِبَادِىَ ٱلَّذِينَ أَسْرَفُوا۟ عَلَىٰٓ أَنفُسِهِمْ لَا تَقْنَطُوا۟ مِن رَّحْمَةِ ٱللَّهِۚ إِنَّ ٱللَّهَ يَغْفِرُ ٱلذُّنُوبَ جَمِيعًاۚ إِنَّهُۥ هُوَ ٱلْغَفُورُ ٱلرَّحِيمُ Say, "O My servants who have transgressed against themselves [by sinning], do not despair of the mercy of Allah. Indeed, Allah forgives all sins. Indeed, it is He who is the Forgiving, the Merciful." I don't know how long you're doing your duas & how you're approaching .... And if you have issues with hadiths then you need to study Hadith Science & Jurisprudence (Fiqh) as well... And these doesn't work on social media by the way .... You need to study with knowledgeable scholars ...... Just ask yourself do you have a traditional Islamic studies on these fields... Nothing great comes out of nothing..... We need to work on it ..... past scholars spent all their lives into study & research... & what we have done ...... most of the muslims haven't read the Qur'an fully yet ... Far from reading the scholarly works ... May Allah swt grant us guidance & beneficial knowledge....aameen
It’s different in the Salafi community we are all very close even though there’s clashes at times with different masajid it’s still very close and better than a regular masjid because of the high concentration of Qur’aan and Sunnah and they know the rights of people and remain United. We get called Wahhabi but we don’t care
Allah says that if a group of muslims leave islam (it can also mean to neglect islam), then He will make another people to go into islam. What i'm seeing is that the number of Europeans/Americans coming into islam will replace the 'muslims' who leave/neglect islam. To what extent Europeans/Americans will come to islam and born-'muslims' will leave, that's a guess
Asalamualakum. Again I want to strongly emphasise raised Muslims need as much support reverts aren’t the only ones suffering. Please stop making divisions we all struggle and some raised Muslims don’t ever get any support and some leave Islam because of it so let’s not place one above the other
Aghi habib focus go forwards do not shave that beauty away what Allah have giving to you. Wullahi you will feel the sweetness of it with the will of Allah.
Thought piece regarding Salman Rushdie.... This is what my fellow Muslims should do when someone insults our great Nabi (SAW)? I believe that when someone insults our Nabi (SAW) it is nothing but a test from Allah'tala. Allah is testing us to ensure we maintain our composure, our restraint, our patience, our tolerance against those who degrade the image of our beloved Prophet (SAW). Whenever we detect an insult, we should approach those who have no respect for our Nabi (SAW) and embrace them with compassion and humility. We must do this to show how amazing Islam is - in that we persevere in the face of hate and criticism. We must love and respect those who hate our Prophet. These are the teachings. When these evil people see what Muslims are, and what Islam teaches they will immediately abandon their own belief and accept Islam. Our beautiful deen will grow faster than ever before. Alhmadulliah. Allah will be pleased as we've passed the test and we will all enter Jannah inshAllah. What is happening now is a failed test. After every insult our Muslim brothers and sisters go on a witch hunt against those who insult, with assaults, killings, bombings, stabbings, death threats, violence, anarchy and general mayhem. Even those who silently support these radical Muslims are failing the test. Those who were thinking of embracing Islam will now turn their backs on the greatest religion of Peace because of these extremists. This makes Allah'tala very angry and you will bring his curse upon you. Once you fail the test there is no coming back. Jahanam is your final resting place.
For every apostate there 100s reverting to Islam Allah promised in the Quran They want to extinguish the light of Allah with their mouths, but Allah will perfect His light, although the disbelievers dislike it.
yes its true.....having to believe yajooj and majooj hidhing behind a wall till end times sure is an eeman issue and not an intellectual problem....i see no reason why anyone with intellect wud have issues with such a belief
I am not English native. Your title seems not right. Why Muslims are Leaving... instead I think it would be, The reason behind someone leave Islam... See, your title is giving an impression, it's a rapid action and majority is taking interest in this. Very negative. As the way we say, "More people are accepting Islam" and then the thought comes to us that, it's a trend a popular thing. Thanks
The problem is that new Muslims are being advised to read books of deviants. Abu Hamed Alghazali was one of those who understood Tauheed as „Nobody is in existence except for Allah“. And this is completely nonsense. I would advise you to read books like „The book of Sunna“ from Imam Harb Alkermany. He was one of the disciples of Imam Ahmed Bin Hanbal.
“The mere physical man is like the ant crawling on the paper, who observes black lettering and attributes its production to the pen and nothing more.” -- Al-Ghazali
Alhamdulillah, my brother mashallah may Allah guide us and bless you and your family, Ameen. Yeah, Romanians are not anglo saxon white people they are Latino people for sure. Italians are the original Latino, Latin people the language and culture has spread all over the world thanks to Spain and Italy/Portiguel etc. as we see south America and USA with the largest Latinini people and fastest growing as well. However, Allah dnt care lol we are all human and family so Islam as you all know dnt care about your ethnic group we are ALL MUSLIMS so those are not important its our love and worship for Allaah shukran to all ✌🏽
Why did God reveal the Quran in Arabic? English 175,000 words Arabic 14,000,000 Arabic has 100 words for love. Deeper meaning. Also David Ewing Jr says Torah and Bible were in Arabic. Jesus spoke Arabic.
I do think that the religion idea to keep is stupid but it doesn't make it not true. Ethics in my reasoning doesn't come from God. But between connecting between based on free and understanding individuals
Many people who convert to Islam or revert back to Christianity is because religious organizations provide a sense of community, comradely, fellowship and a sense of belonging. These powerful emotional needs are fulfilled, even if religions are not historically and scientifically accurate or just myths. "ignorance is a bliss" Matrix-quote., ,
I have no doubts in Islam. Because I know the meaning of Islam (Submit and Kneel to the Creator's Orders). Who am I to discuss and argue with His commands! I'm nothing, I'm just grateful to Almighty Allah that He decreed to create me a human being not a pig or an ant. Even if Almighty Allah created me as a pig. Then I will submit to His commands. Who am I? I'm a nothin without His wish to create me. By the way, everything in the heavens and earth are submitting to Allah Almighty and they do what they're commanded to do by God. Except human beings and jinn, they have the ability to not submit and argue about Allah's judgements in His authority and power.
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@Stephanie Asiya revert from the US as well. There is a struggle for reverts who are from non traditionally Muslim backgrounds
As a born Muslim, I can also relate to this. A sense of community and belonging makes all the difference in our journey of becoming stronger Muslims. How can we expect our Muslim communities to be good to reverts, when they are not even supportive to the born Muslims? To them, they only support financially, people in other corners of the globe, or compete to fundraise for bigger and better masjids, rather than provide moral support to their own who need moral and social support. I have been experiencing this throughout my life, and if my iman was any weaker, I would have left it years ago.
hey brother asalam aleikum I am Latino and I feel you. christianity was my identity.
@@hafsahahmed879 yeah I had a hard time not celebrating christmas with the family anymore. and after eid prayer seeing all the families be together would depress me. alhamdulillah I have my own muslim family now.
@@SerrvantX MashaAllah.
I agree, the first 5 years of a revert/convert are critical. I learned very early on that, I’m on my own when it comes to Islam. Sadly, the Ummah is very racist, and if you are not included in a Muslim Community, it’s very hard. Taqwa is very important, and your one, on one, relationship with God is pertinent. Alhamdulillah.
May Allah guide us all
What ethnicity are u
May Allah bless u brother
@@lalucimot5946 Shukran. Your Sister is not going anywhere, unless, Allah azawajal has it be so, Allahu Akbar! Barak Allahu feek my Brother. SubhanAllah.
Where do you live brother ? I'm beginning to practice Islam
*Timestamps:*
0:00 - Coming Up
1:12 - Introduction
1:50 - Background & Revert Story of Gabriel
6:22 - The Need for Belongingness
8:39 - Reverts establishing their muslim identity
9:55 - The Trials of New Muslims
11:14 - Accepting Islam for superficial reasons
12:30 - The Ups & Downs of Emaan
14:52 - Dealing with Doubts
16:43 - Islam in a muslim vs non-muslim context
18:32 - Allah ﷻ guides whom he wills
19:37 - Gabriel's journey as a new muslim
21:35 - Struggling with Doubts
26:05 - Overcoming Doubts by certainty of faith
29:48 - Lessons from the test of Ibraheem AS
33:09 - The Untold Struggles of Born Muslims
34:17 - Proper Mentoring of Reverts
39:06 - Need of Social Support for Reverts
42:46 - Anghel's experiences as a New Muslim
45:04 - Counseling & Facilitating Reverts
48:19 - Ummah's Responsibility to aid Reverts
50:54 - Gabriel's journey of conquering doubts
55:22 - Knowing Islam but not accepting it
57:02 - Learning to submit & accept the Truth
59:54 - The Deceptions of Islamophobes
1:00:40 - Why was the Quran revealed in Arabic?
1:03:33 - Advice for New Muslims
1:05:08 - The importance of having a community
1:07:17 - Establishing One's Islamic Foundations
1:08:49 - The Unreliablity of the Bible
1:12:43 - Closing Remarks & Wrapping Up
SubhanAllah ❤️🤍💖
Fantastic Discussion 👍🏻👌🏻
_May Allah ﷻ bless you all and reward you for your efforts._
How did you see it before premiere and then put timestamps
Subhanallah he has seen it before it was premiered!!!!!!!
I'm part of the team (the Timestamps Creator) 😊☺️
@@asadullahsaaid3794 Barak Allahu feek.
Iben Qayyim said: "It is inevitable that worshippers become dispassionate. Yet, even during such a phase, if a man adheres to what is right and remains steadfast without neglecting obligations or committing unlawful acts, he is expected to eventually return to a state that is perhaps even better than his former one."
Subhanallah, i needed to read this
Its true, thats why those who avoid major sins will have their minor sins forgiven.
jazakAllahu kheiran, i really needed that
I really appreciated this. I'm a revert from Canada and I come from a Catholic family (I was always disturbed by the teachings/practices)
It's definitely better to have a community or supportive group who constantly remind you of Allah (SWT), especially if people in your own family or friends have rejected you. When you're lonely, I think contemplating on a surah we can relate to is helpful - for me, it's the story of Prophet Ibrahim (AS). And I found fulfilling tahajjud/night prayer always hits different
beautiful story. night prayer Tahajjud is superb.
brother Gabriel is a solid man mashaAllah, may Allah accept his efforts
Always learn so much from ustadh Gabriel, may Allah bless him a lot of happiness...amen...
Isolation as a revert is a very real and sad thing but for me it’s the remembrance that Allah the king of all creation choose to open my heart to the truth and when I remember that it’s hard to be sad to long, of course it hurts sometimes and is lonely for me but 8 years a Muslim and I knew signing up heaven will not be achieved easily all glory to the king Allah SWT
My husband leaves Islam. I’ve tried to convince him, provide him evidences and tried to make him understand. I married him for the sake of Allah, and now I’m trying to leave him for the sake of Allah too. I love him, I still pray for him, may Allah guides him back. And I hope this video passes through his timeline and he watches this, because this video answers my husband’s doubts.
Leave him. Its not your job to fix broken people, you can only pray for his guidance but he is not lawful for you now. People who leave Islam even after evidence is showed, are people who don't care about truth but only about their desires.... Such men, who follow their desires, can neither be a good husband nor a good father.
leave him
did you leave him? or did he come back to islam?
Sister what happened to him now
lol you are wearing a short in your dp zizterr
There is a big lack in emotional intelligence when people try to give dawah to others. People need to remember everyone's journey to Islam is very personal and different to someone else's. What is guiding one person may not suit someone else. I had a lot of people tell me to stop listening to certain sheikhs or stop reading about Imam Ghazali and his teachings because of sufi influence. And yes, doubts are really hard to shift when people start with the unsolicited advice. If something is helping you to stay on deen or get closer to your deen, hold onto it and stay away from people that will be the cause of pulling you away from it.
This advice seems to be genuine and harmless but it's really dangerous, if people started following their emotions, desires, miss understandings and calling that as their own personal journey, then they may end up surely getting out of the path, following scholars who uses quran and sunna is never a wrong thing to do, and if they told you not to follow a certain sheikh and told you the reasons why, then instead of using your emotions and getting lost, do the right thing and make research, if you think that would be too hard for you and it doesn't help you to stay on deen because of the doubts, sadly that is a no excuse, once you acknowledge islam is the truth, as a fact not a belief, anything that you would face that wouldn't put your heart into ease, it would be a matter of jihad, matter of you finding out why is that the truth, and why your initial thoughts are wrong, the good part is you will be getting rewarded for it, and this works for everyone.
@@dexydex514 @Dexy Dex Yes, absolutely. Following the quran, sunnah and authentic hadith is literally what we should be doing because they are facts. You can still be following sheikhs that follow this and people can still find faults somewhere, so yes your jihad is always to seek the correct knowledge and seek the truth for your Imaan. Everyones journey is still different from one person to the other 🤷🏽♀️
i agree with you Saaleha i always go against what people tell me to do ie dont listen to this and that etc and find out for myself. Be confidfent enough in your self trust yourself and talk to folks and have a open mind as a student
Normally in my experience the holier than thou British empire when ruling Arabia created cult of Wahabi/Salafis talk this nonsense about dont listen to this and that. They are famous for creating divisions and judging others
Gabriel described what a huge wave of doubts feels like perfectly - it hits you more in the stomach than the mind. You literally feel sick in a weird phycological way when you realize "oh wait maybe this isn't the truth" and that cognitive dissonance can linger for so long, especially after that initial "high" of very strong iman that one can experience in their first few months or years of finding islam.
As someone still going through that conative dissonance everyday, I can say it's one of the hardest positions to be in because it's like the only position to be in where if you are wrong, there can be detrimental aspects in this life and the hereafter, and there's no way of knowing for sure if you're right or wrong because everyone has their own biases when giving their perspectives (believer vs nonbeliever). I recommend to ask and seek answers for the doubts but also above all else, turn to God and just confess how lost you feel and to guide you to the truth sincerely and genuinely everyday.
Other than that, I think it's a huge help having conversations like these about doubts and dealing with doubts as people in faith because we really all experience the same feelings and thoughts, we just guilt ourselves in thinking we're the only one's experiencing this so we keep quiet and the issues become unsolved.
Remember that according to *Quran* *3:7* 'Shubuhat' or doubts are put there deliberately by god as a test.
So having questions isn't a problem it's just working as intended.
And don't let your mind trick you into overthinking, this is just a general advise.
Unreal to see y'all together your own studio mashaAllah allahumma barik! You guys came a long way, may Allah keep blessing it
I have been a muslim for the past 2 years. I remember in my first year I had major doubts but that wqs because I didnt have the knowledge yet. 2 years later I answered every single question I had and there is no more doubt. I know for fact Islam is the truth.
Why it is the truth?
@@Moweezy by reading the quran which is preserved we see no contradiction inconsistencies and its eloquence is not imitable
@@Nox-02
Oh Please,
Dr. Yasir Qhadi already admitted the standard narrative has holes in it.
Search it on youtube and search about the perfect preservation.
You think you know better than Qhadi?
Research a bit deeper and you will see why the Quran was not preserved and the existence of multiple Qurans
@@vinodmahes8243 lool I’ve already seen the video and asks the shaykh what he meant that day. He said that he was misunderstood and to suggest that there others quran show that you know nothing about the ahruf and qiraat🤣🤣🤣
@@Nox-02
News Flash ya idiot 🤭😄😄😄
ruclips.net/video/pfoSEu3kLZk/видео.html
My very first Ramadan has to date been my favorite one, nobody even knew I was Muslim but I prayed every single prayer I could, fasted all days I could, I broke fast on my own every night and it came all so easy, the only sadness I felt was from my family not experiencing this wonderful time with me because they’re not Muslim.
Alhamdullilah for that time but I found that being around born Muslims who don’t take that time very seriously (like they are used to ramadan only being about food- not eating, later preparing food for hours then eating with whole family) will really bring you down spiritually, you almost feel ashamed to do extra acts of worship and being labeled „too much“ or another extremist convert. Similar thing with hijab.
What is your revert story?
How’s it going? 🥹
Allahumma baarik, great topic, great approach. Very beneficial, re-affirming, calming and motivating. Barak Allahu feekum!
Allahumma Barik, our brother's honesty masha'Allah. I believe sometimes it's to do with a deep rooted issue that hasn't been dealt with. For example, trauma. You'll find this effects your character, relationships, mindset and in turn one's spirituality. We as human beings need to work on our WHOLE selfs. So not just learning facts about the deen but work on our mental and physical well-being too. Everything comes hand-in-hand.
May Allah The Most Merciful grant us all with continuous guidance and fill our hearts with imaan.
Salam brothers. I would say you guys are spot on on the initial phases of belief but I feel it also applies to born Muslims. I had a period of doubt and I would question my beliefs in a very wrong way but slowly I got the answers. Now when I hear the Islamophobes or devils I don't question because every single doubt I had has been answered.
Telling something about prophet Muhammad is an Insult, but Islam telling about kìlling, ræping, keeping them as sæx slæves, torturing non-believers of Islam, (Christians, Jews, Hindus, Siks, buddist, yazadi, etc) in their Islamic books (9:29,4:76,4:65,4:151,Sahih Muslim 41:6985 killing of jews,Sunan Abi Dawud 2155, ræping wômēn and gìrls of non-believers, ) is not an insult or problem to muslims. It's dam time not to be silent about this anymore, 1400 years of ISLAMIST Cruelty? Islamaphobic that's common sense
And a Muhammad who you follow cause he said he is a perfect men, who had slæves even sæx slæves, 14 wife's 4 of them were sæx slæves, he has tõrtured many and even given brutal punishments. His scriptures created Isis Al Qaeda boko haram and Talibans. And all your taqiyyah or lyings saying Islam is peaceful is over, sadly Islam can't reform, that's why Sunni and Shia fights to this day, cause the Muhammad said to kìll anyone who doesn't practice Islam right way. Btw most muslims have no idea about Islam. Muhammad fooled you once, now imans and mufti's will fool you again. Or you're just Cruel I'm heart and like to Keep sæx slæves
What was one doubt you face?
The reason Muslims are leaving is the same reason Christians, Jews and Hindus (unofficially) are also leaving - post modernism. And also in a world of reason, if religion doesn't contain reason and becomes ideological, people tend to leave.
1 - Whoever says SubhanAllahi wa biHamdihi (Glory be to Allah and Praise Him) a hundred times during the day, his sins are wiped away, even if they are like the foam of the sea [Sahih al-Bukhari; #7:168]
2 - whoever says SubhanAllahi wa biHamdihi, Subhan-Allahi 'l-`adheem (Glory be to Allah, and Praise, Glory be to Allah, the Supreme)
Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Two words are light on the tongue, weigh heavily in the balance, they are loved by the Most Merciful One " [Sahih al-Bukhari; #7:67]
3. La Hawla wa la Quwatta illa Billah (There is no Might or Power except with Allah)
[the above is] a treasure from the treasures of Paradise.[Sahih al-Bukhari; al-Fath al-Bari #11:213]
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Subhanallah bro I am a Muslima that has always found it so hard to start praying regularly and the prophet peace be upon him told us that the difference between a believer a disbeliever is their prayer and I am not kidding it’s like I was a disbeliever and I came back to Islam the moment I started praying regularly waswas from shayateen where none stop day and night to the point where I cry to Allah begging him to stop it and all day I watch debates between atheists and Muslims to strengthen your iman because at the time I realized that knowledge is what is going to combat this waswas that’s killing me from the inside اعوذ بالله I was saying things like god doesn’t exist and the prophet Mohamed peace be upon him is a lier and he didn’t exist and I was not the one saying it it’s like these thoughts just pop up all day long and it was basically torturing me because I knew it was not true and I kept fighting it buy explaining to myself over and over why Islam is the truth and that calmed it down but subhanallah I never stopped praying I was saying my athkar I did nafl and as much sunna as possible and alhamdoulilah it is gone but it pops up once in a while tho it’s not completely gone and I was like bro I have to be on the right path because from all the 17 years of my life these thoughts never came to me until I started being consistent with prayer subhanallah if you are dealing with this keep going never let shaytan and your nafs win keep learning because that is the cure for this trust me
The same thing is happening to me now. Pls make dua for me 😭
Subhanallah I really am sorry this happened to you but I’m glad I found this comment. I have so many intrusive thoughts and when I wasn’t praying and doing haram I didn’t. The moment I started I find it hard to concentrate and the intrusive thoughts take over. I make dua, keep praying no matter what & put my faith in Allah. Thank you for sharing! Shaytan is our enemy and he wants us to doubt !
Mash'aAllah! Jazakum Allahu Khiran for this beneficial episode! May Allah (SWT) reward all of you immensely for your work!
I'm a revert,from my own experience I was bombarded with a lots of restrictions and knowledge by Muslims colleague. In short, I was overwhelmed that time and distance myself with them because I loss focus . I knew I am in the correct direction but pushing me hard to the Deen to learn all at the same time is next to impossible. Subhanallah, by time, I learned and still learning.Test after test came to my life, Alhamdulillah I survived with the help of Allah subhanahu wa taala
Please, if you encounter new reverts, don't be harsh in teaching them. Guide them slow until they felt comfortable and don't judge them when they commit mistakes. Just continuously explain clearly the teachings of Islaam and remind them of Allahs mercy,
Why your name is Muslim
Who are these people who act this way with the reverts, let them face me someday. I’ll teach them what the other person feels
BEEN WAITING FOR THISSSSS
Halfway in the conversation, what an amazing video brothers. I have personally went trough a lot of difficulty after my reversion. People come with a lot of theories and arguments and you just don’t know what’s real anymore. It felt soo scary.
But alhamdulilah I kept on doing research and my iman is steady now.
( And those who strive for Us - We will surely guide them to Our ways ). [Quran 29:69]
Mashallah. This video right here is deep, informative and also enlightening. I enjoyed the fact that he went the psychology route to explain, and it sure was spot on. May Allah help us all: including our offspring and generations to come after them till the end of time, to be steadfast on the path of deen al Islam... Ameen.
Convert zeal is the mental state when you want to convert the whole world and have infinite confidence in doing it
afew permanent deeds are much better than alot intermittent deeds, as Prophetﷺ said: “The most beloved of actions to Allaah are those which are done persistently, even if they are little.”
Some people just don't like to be slaves. Shame on them!
I love you guys for the sake of Allah. Been a subscriber for a long time and it's awesome to see how you guys have grown in terms of knowledge. May Allah increase you all.
Beautiful collaboration. Ma sha Allah
OCD is more prevelant than you think. It's a monster, don't feed it and it will starve. Just accept. Or watch RUclips tutorials how to do exposure and response prevention (ERP). The OCD can also change themes from religion to sexual etc. It's tricky.
I experienced exactly what he described about doubt in the chest I felt so sick but Alhamdulillah I kept reading the Quran and Salah and whenever i did my doubts went away then when i would rest or do anything else they would come back but it ultimately ended when i listened to a video of someone saying answering the question of a lady who was feeling the same way he said if you keep praying keep doing everything Allah wants you to do and feels sick because they are terrified to leave Islam then these are just wishers of shaytan and don’t let them do that to you just ignore those doubts and when i did that it worked Alhamdulillah. Because all my doubts were answered intellectually as he said May Allah keep us firm on His straight path.😊❤
AND SEEK HELP IN PATIENCE AND AS-SALAAT (THE PRAYER) AND TRULY IT IS EXTREMELY HEAVY AND HARD EXCEPT UPON AL-KHAASHI'UUN.
AL-BAQARAH 2:45
never...give...up...!!!
I need prayers from all of you Muslims and Christians that God guides me to him and let me accept the truth and believe and have strong faith in it..
Thank you, I need it
Are you converted muslim or born Muslim
On the identity point, look at this organization called Islam 4 Europeans. Basically their idea is to create sub communities for converts of European descent in the West to establish a Western Muslim identity in respective cultures. Similar to how Blacks and Hispanics have made some of their own sub communities in the US with large amounts of success.
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The realest and best podcast on the dunya!!
Got the awesome foursome back together and live in the studio! Alhamdulillah. Great episode 💪
audio is good MASHALLAH very interesting podcast... learned a lot...stay blessed my brothers
Profound discussion. Barakallahu feekum.
Alhamdulillah
Alhamdulilah, good content as usual!!!
You're absolutely right.
Gabriel Romania did a wonderful job answering all the questions and giving great stories from his past which people should learn from, he is very confident and knows human psychology so well, may Allah bless him dearly, I love him for the sake of Allah, he must have been through a lot
Al Humdulillah we have The 3 Muslims podcast! It’s really the best Islamic/Lifestyle podcast in the Dunya 💯. Y’all & Gabriel Al Romani, really add a lot of good advice to my life & so many others. May Allah let all of you into Paradise & give you the best of this Dunya.
Honestly dont think many of them are leaving islam, but that they are just starting seeing islam as christians view christianity, from a more cultural and historic lense rather than spiritual/religious, which is ofc borderlien apostasy but that's due to the rampant materialism thats not stopping any time soon.
Wa'alaikum assalam wa rahmatu'LLAHI wa barakatuh
"Allah didnt answer my Dua" THIS what creates doubts and some contusing hadiths. As far As I have seen among the youths.
Peace be upon you....
May Allah swt grant you guidance & beneficial knowledge...
Allah swt says in the Qur'an
Az-Zumar 39:53
قُلْ يَٰعِبَادِىَ ٱلَّذِينَ أَسْرَفُوا۟ عَلَىٰٓ أَنفُسِهِمْ لَا تَقْنَطُوا۟ مِن رَّحْمَةِ ٱللَّهِۚ إِنَّ ٱللَّهَ يَغْفِرُ ٱلذُّنُوبَ جَمِيعًاۚ إِنَّهُۥ هُوَ ٱلْغَفُورُ ٱلرَّحِيمُ
Say, "O My servants who have transgressed against themselves [by sinning], do not despair of the mercy of Allah. Indeed, Allah forgives all sins. Indeed, it is He who is the Forgiving, the Merciful."
I don't know how long you're doing your duas & how you're approaching ....
And if you have issues with hadiths then you need to study Hadith Science & Jurisprudence (Fiqh) as well...
And these doesn't work on social media by the way .... You need to study with knowledgeable scholars ...... Just ask yourself do you have a traditional Islamic studies on these fields... Nothing great comes out of nothing..... We need to work on it ..... past scholars spent all their lives into study & research... & what we have done ...... most of the muslims haven't read the Qur'an fully yet ... Far from reading the scholarly works ...
May Allah swt grant us guidance & beneficial knowledge....aameen
It’s different in the Salafi community we are all very close even though there’s clashes at times with different masajid it’s still very close and better than a regular masjid because of the high concentration of Qur’aan and Sunnah and they know the rights of people and remain United. We get called Wahhabi but we don’t care
wa'alaikum assalam wa rahmatu'LLAHI wa baraktuk
Finally, the4muslims in the house
Ma sha Allah, Nice to see Ustad Gabriel ❤️🌻
Waiting for it 🏆
Can’t wait
Allah says that if a group of muslims leave islam (it can also mean to neglect islam), then He will make another people to go into islam. What i'm seeing is that the number of Europeans/Americans coming into islam will replace the 'muslims' who leave/neglect islam. To what extent Europeans/Americans will come to islam and born-'muslims' will leave, that's a guess
People should believe what they want. We should be free, but its good to talk and share thoughts.
MashaAllah it's nice to see you all together in person
The sound effects 😂😂
Beautiful discussion. Brother Gabriel is very vulnerable here.
The4Muslims!!! 👍🏽
Asalamualakum. Again I want to strongly emphasise raised Muslims need as much support reverts aren’t the only ones suffering. Please stop making divisions we all struggle and some raised Muslims don’t ever get any support and some leave Islam because of it so let’s not place one above the other
Put these new episodes on apple podcasts
i heard brother gabriel is tall, anyone know his height?
Whoever made this title should really sit down and rethink it. My humble input جزاكم الله خير
loved the podcast
I would suggest brother to get some space from the wall behind that could improve a lot the visual quality
MashaAllah
How do we find u on google podcast
salam aleikum
Aghi habib focus go forwards do not shave that beauty away what Allah have giving to you. Wullahi you will feel the sweetness of it with the will of Allah.
Thought piece regarding Salman Rushdie....
This is what my fellow Muslims should do when someone insults our great Nabi (SAW)?
I believe that when someone insults our Nabi (SAW) it is nothing but a test from Allah'tala.
Allah is testing us to ensure we maintain our composure, our restraint, our patience, our tolerance against those who degrade the image of our beloved Prophet (SAW).
Whenever we detect an insult, we should approach those who have no respect for our Nabi (SAW) and embrace them with compassion and humility.
We must do this to show how amazing Islam is - in that we persevere in the face of hate and criticism. We must love and respect those who hate our Prophet. These are the teachings.
When these evil people see what Muslims are, and what Islam teaches they will immediately abandon their own belief and accept Islam.
Our beautiful deen will grow faster than ever before. Alhmadulliah.
Allah will be pleased as we've passed the test and we will all enter Jannah inshAllah.
What is happening now is a failed test. After every insult our Muslim brothers and sisters go on a witch hunt against those who insult, with assaults, killings, bombings, stabbings, death threats, violence, anarchy and general mayhem. Even those who silently support these radical Muslims are failing the test. Those who were thinking of embracing Islam will now turn their backs on the greatest religion of Peace because of these extremists. This makes Allah'tala very angry and you will bring his curse upon you.
Once you fail the test there is no coming back. Jahanam is your final resting place.
For every apostate there 100s reverting to Islam
Allah promised in the Quran
They want to extinguish the light of Allah with their mouths, but Allah will perfect His light, although the disbelievers dislike it.
Bro the soundboard😭😭😭
cant wait.
Yes it's not really an intellectual problem, it's an eeman issue.
yes its true.....having to believe yajooj and majooj hidhing behind a wall till end times sure is an eeman issue and not an intellectual problem....i see no reason why anyone with intellect wud have issues with such a belief
@@gwt6675 I mean why would you have issues if Allah wills it no one will ever find it. Allah is Allmighty there is nothing he cant do
Barak Allahu feekum
holy shit. i know exactly what gabriel talkin about. I could answer all my douts but had a weird dout for no reason in my heart but i recovered lol
31:45 Iman actually means acceptance of facts. Interesting.
How is it with music in Islam? Is it really banned?
Yes. Stop listening to music (especially rock).... You will understand why it's banned in Islam.
As-Salaam Alaikum
We should say….Why Islam is leaving so called Muslims not the other way around.
can someone explain to me whats up with the algorithm ???
I am not English native. Your title seems not right. Why Muslims are Leaving... instead I think it would be, The reason behind someone leave Islam...
See, your title is giving an impression, it's a rapid action and majority is taking interest in this. Very negative.
As the way we say, "More people are accepting Islam" and then the thought comes to us that, it's a trend a popular thing.
Thanks
i am a german MUSLiM from Bavaria
WE need a leader! khalifa!!
The problem is that new Muslims are being advised to read books of deviants. Abu Hamed Alghazali was one of those who understood Tauheed as „Nobody is in existence except for Allah“. And this is completely nonsense. I would advise you to read books like „The book of Sunna“ from Imam Harb Alkermany. He was one of the disciples of Imam Ahmed Bin Hanbal.
“The mere physical man is like the ant crawling on the paper, who observes black lettering and attributes its production to the pen and nothing more.”
-- Al-Ghazali
Gabriel should work with islam4euroupeans.
Alhamdulillah, my brother mashallah may Allah guide us and bless you and your family, Ameen. Yeah, Romanians are not anglo saxon white people they are Latino people for sure. Italians are the original Latino, Latin people the language and culture has spread all over the world thanks to Spain and Italy/Portiguel etc. as we see south America and USA with the largest Latinini people and fastest growing as well. However, Allah dnt care lol we are all human and family so Islam as you all know dnt care about your ethnic group we are ALL MUSLIMS so those are not important its our love and worship for Allaah shukran to all ✌🏽
But they are white
Why did God reveal the Quran in Arabic?
English 175,000 words
Arabic 14,000,000
Arabic has 100 words for love.
Deeper meaning. Also David Ewing Jr says Torah and Bible were in Arabic. Jesus spoke Arabic.
more than 100
I found these words in Arabic to french (french is richer than English):
Alâqa : liaison
'araq : insomnie
Balâbil : tourments
Cha'af : souffrances
Chaghaf : désir
Chajan : chagrins
Chajw : souci et tristesse
Chawq : nostalgie-désir
Da'mukhâmir : affection sans répit
Danaf : mal chronique
Futûn : désorientation sous l'effet de la séduction
Ghamarât : débordement
Gharâm : passion
Hanîn : nostalgie
Hawâ : tomber en amour
Hurqa : brûlure
Huyâm : transport d'amour
Huzn : tristesse
Ichq : amour passionné
Ikti'âb : mélancolie
Istikâna : apaisement
Jawâ : consomption
Junûn : folie
Kalaf : épreuve
Kamad : amour étouffé
Khabal : confusion mentale
Khilâba : envoûtement
Khilla : amitié profonde
Khulm : ien affectueux
Lâ'ij : affection douloureuse
Ladh' : morsure du feu
Lahaf : avidité
Law'a : amour lancinant
Lumam : transgressions minimes
Mahabba : amitié constante
Miqah : attachement prévenant
Rasiss : fièvre
Sabâba : finesse et ardeur du sentiment amoureux
Sabwa, sabâ : penchant pour les jeunes femmes
Sadam : affection suivie d'abbatement
Suhd : insomnie
Talabbud : adoration(mais on n'adore qu'Allah,swt)
Tabâla : anéantissement de langueur
Tabârîh : rigueurs
Tadlîh : stupeur et déraison
Tatayyum : sujétion par extase
Wahl : frayeurs
Wajd : véhemence d'amour
Walah : stupeur
Wasb : mal chronique
Widd : pureté et délicatesse
The first 1 to 2 years is basically you fighting the lifestyle you've been living before reverting.
Watched all of it
Let's just mention the elephant in the room, White New Muslims have no support network.
وَإِن تَتَوَلَّوْا يَسْتَبْدِلْ قَوْمًا غَيْرَكُمْ ثُمَّ لَا يَكُونُوا أَمْثَالَكُم (38)
Algorithm bump
Why don't you think that catholic version of Christianity is not true? Shroud of Turin is pretty solid evidence
I do think that the religion idea to keep is stupid but it doesn't make it not true. Ethics in my reasoning doesn't come from God. But between connecting between based on free and understanding individuals
Many people who convert to Islam or revert back to Christianity is because religious organizations provide a sense of community, comradely, fellowship and a sense of belonging. These powerful emotional needs are fulfilled, even if religions are not historically and scientifically accurate or just myths. "ignorance is a bliss" Matrix-quote., ,
Where christian revert back to Christianity
For the algorithm
Allah aza wa jal bless you bros
I have no doubts in Islam. Because I know the meaning of Islam (Submit and Kneel to the Creator's Orders). Who am I to discuss and argue with His commands! I'm nothing, I'm just grateful to Almighty Allah that He decreed to create me a human being not a pig or an ant. Even if Almighty Allah created me as a pig. Then I will submit to His commands. Who am I? I'm a nothin without His wish to create me. By the way, everything in the heavens and earth are submitting to Allah Almighty and they do what they're commanded to do by God. Except human beings and jinn, they have the ability to not submit and argue about Allah's judgements in His authority and power.
Funny thing I use to watch Gebreil because I had doubts and he saved me
❤️❤️❤️
Why not? Islam is man-made. Peace!
Source: trust me dude