Opening Up About Abuse | SAS: Who Dares Wins

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  • Опубликовано: 21 ноя 2024

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  • @eoghancasserly3626
    @eoghancasserly3626 3 года назад +270

    It's so brutal that somebody can feel shame for something horrible that was done to them that was completely out of their control. Keep your chin up good sir, you're bravery is inspiring

    • @TheOneTakeLiveCast
      @TheOneTakeLiveCast 3 года назад +13

      I was once felt this shame and was that age when it happen to me, but now the shame is not mine nor the fault.

    • @borisisanutjob4482
      @borisisanutjob4482 2 года назад +1

      Couldn't be me lol I would laugh

  • @wetworks8
    @wetworks8 3 года назад +138

    No shame.
    Stand tall.
    True hero..

  • @markwatters6875
    @markwatters6875 3 года назад +135

    Well done 14. You are brave, you stood up, gave evidence and helped others. Well done mate.

  • @havennewbowtow8835
    @havennewbowtow8835 3 года назад +37

    There are thousands of people carrying the shame of these monsters actions and behaviour. Well done sir for showing how it stays with us all our lives. Thank you.

  • @marcos7855
    @marcos7855 3 года назад +52

    I can relate to his story.. I just wanna hug him and say we’ve survived..

  • @pravinshingadia7337
    @pravinshingadia7337 3 года назад +61

    This guy was awesome. First one ever who told his story and you felt for him. Truly inspiring and very brave.

  • @joshtemple-cox9962
    @joshtemple-cox9962 2 года назад +16

    "Being honest with yourself frees you as an individual"

  • @Charlie-bh3yk
    @Charlie-bh3yk 8 месяцев назад +4

    Speaking as a female survivor, I’m so proud of him.
    It’s difficult enough to open up about abuse as a woman, but, due to societal stereotypes, it is often even tougher for men.
    I hope he continues healing.

  • @georgelucas9790
    @georgelucas9790 Год назад +2

    This fine human is amazing for coming forward and great words of encouragement from the DS.

  • @stevetaylor3273
    @stevetaylor3273 3 года назад +20

    Absolute Legend! Giving inspiration and courage to all those who have been through similar experiences

  • @charliedaniell3079
    @charliedaniell3079 3 года назад +47

    I love it how Ant has 2 sides 1 of them is when he gets easily pissed off during the mission and the other Is when in the interrogation room he is very kind and focused on the other person

    • @chrismo3142
      @chrismo3142 3 года назад +1

      Bath tub effect

    • @warrentrueman8892
      @warrentrueman8892 2 года назад +2

      He understands that even though he and the rest of the staff have been through some serious shit in the line of duty, it's a different level altogether what that brave man has been through. He didnt choose it. They did.

  • @aquietgirlcalledsoph739
    @aquietgirlcalledsoph739 3 года назад +45

    That “coach” should rot in prison forever for the trauma and unbelievable amounts of emotional pain he put on those boys.
    It’s so disgusting what that guy and those other lads had to go through, especially at the young age they were.
    God bless that man and those other guys, I hope they find their inner peace ❤️❤️❤️

    • @tomd2103
      @tomd2103 3 года назад +3

      The coach had already served a lengthy prison term and is now currently serving a much longer one after more victims came forward.

    • @nifralo2752
      @nifralo2752 2 года назад

      @@tomd2103 who are they

  • @Scatman1776
    @Scatman1776 3 года назад +12

    Genuinely heartbreaking, it’s unbelievable what some people have been through! 😔

  • @iaingreig9685
    @iaingreig9685 3 года назад +21

    You know a man is hard as nails when SAS soldiers call him fucking brave

  • @terryoconnor5262
    @terryoconnor5262 3 года назад +24

    Well done mate, well done!! 👏🙌

  • @energymaven7537
    @energymaven7537 3 года назад +123

    Very proud of how this was expressed and received. If I were one of the "staff" guys sitting across from him, I'd forego the silly theatrics of the hood and walk him out myself.

    • @lukes7479
      @lukes7479 3 года назад +23

      That wouldn't set a very good example. "We're proud of you for coming this far all by yourself, but now we'll give you some special treatment."

    • @anakinskywalker6501
      @anakinskywalker6501 3 года назад +1

      @@lukes7479 true

    • @SugarRayValentine
      @SugarRayValentine 3 года назад +2

      You realise these guys have seen friends die in front of them and have had many near death experiences they are not the sensitive type of civilian

    • @anakinskywalker6501
      @anakinskywalker6501 3 года назад

      @@SugarRayValentine lol true

    • @riverdeep399
      @riverdeep399 3 года назад +1

      @@SugarRayValentine You'd be surprised. I think circumstances play a part.

  • @bananaphysics1746
    @bananaphysics1746 3 года назад +6

    This is a Strong Man.

  • @ianwood8744
    @ianwood8744 3 года назад +3

    Thank you for this video. This man, this warrior, I know what he is going through. Thank you.

  • @brucesguitardemos8197
    @brucesguitardemos8197 3 года назад +8

    Number 14 is amazing , such a brave person .

  • @holyfieldism
    @holyfieldism 3 года назад +10

    Amazing Guy be proud mate be very proud of yourself.❤️👍

  • @michaelalcock3178
    @michaelalcock3178 3 года назад +9

    Same happened to me with the same man I was just never string enough to say anything. I endured 25 years of drug abuse through the abuse from that so called man. Rot in jail barry Burnell. But bean clean 2 years now and working in recovery so I have my happy ending

  • @ARCHSTANTON61
    @ARCHSTANTON61 3 года назад +3

    a good brave man, i respect him..

  • @bigbear2550
    @bigbear2550 3 года назад +5

    FairPlay to this man to overcome his demons at point blank range

  • @sambaker1212
    @sambaker1212 3 года назад +2

    Some of the best people you will ever meet....god please The potteries....both the warmest and kindest people xxxxxxxx

  • @NoBody-ht1oh
    @NoBody-ht1oh 3 года назад +2

    Big hug to you mate from Australia 🇦🇺

  • @materialgworrrl3451
    @materialgworrrl3451 3 года назад +14

    Love this so much

  • @kaipayne8265
    @kaipayne8265 Год назад +4

    This clip hits me really hard due to my biological father being found out as a paedophile all the abuse and beatings made sense for the first time in 12 years it made sense but the outcome was not what I wanted and it broke me for years after and I'm still building myself back up from that and that was revealed in a courtroom in 2015 kudos to no' 14 I just want to give him a hug and say "your not alone" him speaking about his story has made massively reflect on my own story and made me feel better about talking about my own story and not feeling ashamed of it which I still do It will take a long time to unlearn that that it's not my fault and I am not to blame for the beatings and the harsh treatment I endured well done Jamie as one abuse victim to another good on ya lad keep pushing forward and keep going

  • @dida079
    @dida079 3 года назад +1

    Super brave and courageous...no doubt

  • @martinduggan4077
    @martinduggan4077 3 года назад +2

    number 14 u r a true man
    god bless you

  • @Youngbullscott
    @Youngbullscott 3 года назад +2

    Way to be brave mate!

  • @EnhancedFocus
    @EnhancedFocus 3 года назад +1

    Wow - amazing , good on ya mate :)

  • @chesurechesure
    @chesurechesure 3 года назад +36

    Shame Channel 4 messed Ant Middleton around and he walked away from the show he'll be massively missed.

    • @b2themc
      @b2themc 3 года назад +7

      this season was pretty bad as a whole anyway. Seems to be going downhill

    • @terryoconnor5262
      @terryoconnor5262 3 года назад +1

      Why what happened with Ant?

    • @nickclaassen5371
      @nickclaassen5371 3 года назад +11

      @@terryoconnor5262 show became too woke and he didn't like the direction it was going in, less about the content of the show and more about the diversity of the cast and participants.

    • @antwango
      @antwango 3 года назад +3

      @@nickclaassen5371 well thats fucked it... i can tell just watching this clip... that theyre manipulating viewers and the emotions bullshit.... wonder if foxy and co leave as well? ant and foxy and the regulars are the stars...... its like getting rid of gordon ramsey from your show

    • @nifralo2752
      @nifralo2752 2 года назад +2

      @@nickclaassen5371 well its a TV show. What did he Expect? To have the recruits bite the head of kittens and lick its blood off the floor?

  • @johntheknight3062
    @johntheknight3062 3 года назад +7

    The true hero is the camera guy.

  • @sajahelmir1066
    @sajahelmir1066 3 года назад +10

    Cancel the show if ants gone, number 14 is a bloody legend

  • @samwebb585
    @samwebb585 3 года назад +2

    Brave lad that.

  • @kevinadamson5768
    @kevinadamson5768 3 года назад +13

    Ant will be a big miss on this, he his the driving force behind it and although the others are good they haven't got his presence.

  • @kss987
    @kss987 3 года назад +1

    Was it Barry bennell I take it? Jamie played for stone dominoes I think

  • @stainlessstove4629
    @stainlessstove4629 3 года назад +1

    I'm confused because I don't remember him leaving. Just between episodes he was gone.

  • @Tony-sk9uo
    @Tony-sk9uo 3 года назад +2

    Respect to him but Anthony has the least threatening shout voice

  • @peterchapman3740
    @peterchapman3740 3 года назад +1

    he did not save you . the damge was done

  • @nicholasbufton1074
    @nicholasbufton1074 3 года назад +1

    And they wonder why the army is struggling to recruit.

    • @wickedwitchoftheeast88
      @wickedwitchoftheeast88 Год назад

      Because in the military they need the best they work in harsh and hostile environments its no good sending a weak person in because they'll crumble like a cookie. Its harsh for a reason so the soldiers can mentally cope with the horrors they see and do.

  • @maymao6693
    @maymao6693 3 года назад +2

    Stokies are everywhere

  • @nifralo2752
    @nifralo2752 2 года назад

    Why would you tell them that on national TV of all things?

    • @lolwhat823
      @lolwhat823 2 года назад +1

      called being brave mate, takes a real man to speak about being abused

    • @Tootroot
      @Tootroot Год назад

      Because he was silent about it for so long, he wanted to express it

    • @nifralo2752
      @nifralo2752 Год назад

      @@Tootroot but why on national TV? Why not at the police station or to a therapist or to a clergymen

    • @nifralo2752
      @nifralo2752 Год назад

      @@lolwhat823 yes but why on tv why not at the police station or a therapist

    • @Tootroot
      @Tootroot Год назад

      @@nifralo2752 Like he said, he wishes he was the one to expose his gross teacher, he wanted to to it nationally, and he did, here.

  • @Yassine_129
    @Yassine_129 3 года назад +3

    Im from tunisia and i live in Finland.. can i join SAS ?

    • @lukasnilsson5716
      @lukasnilsson5716 3 года назад +3

      Well yes and no. To join SAS you need to be officially part of any uniformed services of the British Armed Forces like Naval service the British army or RAF (Royal Air Force).
      So if you apply to join any of the British Armed Forces branches you will be able to join SAS. But you need to be between 18 and 32 years of age to apply and need physically fit and mentally fit to join.
      If you do this you will be able to join! Hope this helps!

    • @MegaPedro1975
      @MegaPedro1975 3 года назад

      I’m gonna say no. You should have said “I’m in the forces, can I come to England and join your military?” Sorry dude but maybe go on the show first.

  • @christopherjames375
    @christopherjames375 2 года назад

    ex parachute regiment . from 1974 to 1980 . number 673001 pllaces deployed . germany cyprus . panama . belize . canada . 2 tours . also norway . . genuine . not lioke this muppet . who tried to bullshit them . in the series .

    • @nifralo2752
      @nifralo2752 2 года назад

      Yes the giant wars in Canada. Canada in the 70s made Ukraine look like My Little Pony land. I remmber every lamppost had a corpse hanging from it. Parents ate their own children then stabbed each other through the eyes with the uneaten bones.

  • @twenty2093
    @twenty2093 3 года назад

    A lot of swearing

  • @thevanguardsofmanhood8463
    @thevanguardsofmanhood8463 3 года назад +1

    The moment the tears start to flow in talks with the staff you’re finished. Sad to see so many of these men bawl their eyes out.

    • @allornothingproductions6690
      @allornothingproductions6690 3 года назад +2

      You're implying that crying is a weakness?

    • @allornothingproductions6690
      @allornothingproductions6690 3 года назад

      @Jen I wouldn't say that. A lot of men have had it drilled in to them over their life, generation from generation that crying or emotions show weakness. They're not in the wrong for believing it if it's all they've ever known. Labelling them as cowards for not learning otherwise helps no one.

    • @thevanguardsofmanhood8463
      @thevanguardsofmanhood8463 3 года назад

      @Jen No wrong. If you show weakness it's like disease when other are depending upon you to save the day. Cry alone and let it out if need be.

    • @shirleybannister2038
      @shirleybannister2038 3 года назад

      Iam. Feeling. Very. Upset. That. Ant. Is. Leaving. The. Series. Of. SAS. As. He. Does. The. Part of. Chief. Instructor. So. Very. Well. But. The n. Again. So. Do. The. Other. Instructors. Jason. Mark.. and. Olive. They. Are. Very. Brave. Men. Of. What. They. W ent. Through. To. Get to. The. Position. They. Are. In. Today. Congratulations. But. Please. I. Do. Ask. To. Please. Continue. On. Making. Other. Series. I. Really. Love. The. Shows........thank. You. All

  • @christopherjames375
    @christopherjames375 2 года назад

    the instuctors dont miss a trick . . the weak ones . they finish an exercise . then go to the back of the pack . this an old trick .. it is called coasting . not giving 100 percent effort here is an example 4 men pushing a car . 3 are making a genuine effort. the 4 th is making all sorts of grunting noises . with his hands on the car leaning forward . when in actual fact is doing . fuck all . the D i are trained6 to look out for theses sort of people . they dont miss a trick .

  • @normanstewart1402
    @normanstewart1402 3 года назад +3

    I've enjoyed all of the other series. But this one was way too staged. It's become just another "reality" show, where very little is real. Why change a winning formula?