How To Build Sexual Tension

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  • Опубликовано: 11 сен 2024
  • Coach Corey Wayne discusses how to properly build sexual tension & anticipation that leads to sex so women fall in love with you, or fall back in love with you after a breakup.
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Комментарии • 132

  • @TheRealDrAgony
    @TheRealDrAgony 8 лет назад +274

    He says the things that we all know somewhere inside our psyches, but need to hear from an outside source to be reassured.

    • @mambac7
      @mambac7 6 лет назад +5

      TheRealDrAgony only women need to be reassured. C’mon man!! It’s a bad way to go dude..

    • @prodbycapri3081
      @prodbycapri3081 4 года назад +1

      big facts man

    • @amari1368
      @amari1368 3 года назад +1

      @@mambac7 no bro last time I tried build sexual tension I got metoo so I’m scared to even physically escalate with women now

    • @satvindersihra9038
      @satvindersihra9038 Год назад +1

      @@mambac7 calm down bro. At a certain point in your life, you were not confident. To go from not confidence to confidence requires reassurance.

  • @hugojj101
    @hugojj101 8 лет назад +36

    Even if you gave shit advice which u don't, the way u explain stuff is fucking great and makes watching these videos more entertaining

  • @christopherarmstrong2710
    @christopherarmstrong2710 2 года назад +15

    5:22 “You thought last night was amazing, just wait ‘till what I got planned tomorrow night. It’s a secret, you’ll just have to wait to find out. I gotta run, I love ya, I’ll see you at home tonight.” This is what causes attraction, trying to figure it out and get some certainty about it. It builds sexual tension.
    5:50 When you talk constantly, you don’t build any sexual tension. It’s F’ing boring doing that. Talking when you don’t feel like talking is because you feel obligated to - and that’s submissive, feminine behavior instead of masculine (destroys the polarity).

    • @michaelhall1125
      @michaelhall1125 2 года назад +1

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    • @dnzwill
      @dnzwill Год назад +1

      @@michaelhall1125you think? Interesting…..

  • @imperfectillustration6261
    @imperfectillustration6261 3 года назад +28

    This guy is good! Opened my eyes on my shortcomings dealing with women. Just bought his audio book.

    • @blueaeagle11
      @blueaeagle11 3 года назад +5

      He really does all these little things i was missing makes a world of difference

  • @andysmith5997
    @andysmith5997 5 лет назад +24

    My life improved hugely when I didn’t phone my wife during the day, I always thought that’s what she wanted but I was wrong

    • @VoiceOfThe
      @VoiceOfThe Год назад +1

      She thinks she wants that.
      Women don’t understand what they emotionally respond to, that’s the crux.

  • @kenyalove822
    @kenyalove822 8 лет назад +75

    I have been married for 19 years. And now my wife wants to leave me for the same reason. I am a good man. I have always been there for her and my children. Why does everything have to be about them.I thought all women wanted was a good man. This love forever shit is one big lie! I just want to know your thoughts on this.

    • @kenyalove822
      @kenyalove822 7 лет назад +1

      Thanks dog!

    • @amiralamosadeghi8131
      @amiralamosadeghi8131 7 лет назад +11

      oh man, that sucks. How did it turn out? I hope you're okay!

    • @theohiograssmen
      @theohiograssmen 7 лет назад +8

      i had the same thing happen several years back. no kids were involved, we were engaged and buying a house together. it ended up pretty nasty and i learned many lessons from it. over the 3 1/2 years we were together i slowly tuned out and quit paying attention to her bc of several reasons. she wasnt bad gf material, possibly wife material, and she was gorgeous. if i really wanted to get her back i had several chances, but i was pretty disinterested and i think thats half of the reason she kept pursuing me. youre right about everything having to be about them. women expect men to provide 75-85% of the finances and the romance. mainly they want to see you take the lead in these areas and more. women want to feel loved everyday by their man, they want to feel like they are more loved than their gfs that they gossip with all day. and when you get settled into a routine, sometimes you act more like roommates. i cant speak about the children though, i have none. i hope you find you way, go get her back if thats what you are wanting.

    • @kenyalove822
      @kenyalove822 7 лет назад +1

      I haven't lost her i just want her to see and realize that i am the man that's

    • @kenyalove822
      @kenyalove822 7 лет назад +19

      Been there for her all these years. She leave me ain't no coming back. I Will find someone who wants me for me. Iife is to short for bullshit.

  • @colwilpro
    @colwilpro 5 лет назад +13

    It's good to keep things exciting and new, but the real reason people "grow apart" or "get bored" is because they've done bad things to each other, whether overt or covert (done openly or done and withheld). When people are walking around with these hidden (or not hidden) acts, it can cause problems with communication and eventual break ups. The answer is to come clean in a safe way. It takes a lot of guts for both people to do that.

    • @onemoretime734
      @onemoretime734 2 года назад

      good for you, wow wait to go you cracked the code you're such a genius bro. You're like a guru

    • @colwilpro
      @colwilpro 2 года назад +2

      @@onemoretime734 very patronising. But it's simply the truth, as unpopular as it may be.

    • @onemoretime734
      @onemoretime734 2 года назад

      @@colwilpro Nah you're just another boy so focused on your one chick that it's all you care about. I have dropped so many male friends like you who are only obsessed about one thing... women. It's repulsive and gross.

    • @VoiceOfThe
      @VoiceOfThe Год назад +1

      Facts

  • @GGwithkamatis
    @GGwithkamatis 5 лет назад +9

    7:15 the fatherly advise I never had. Thanks, Dad.

  • @r4ym1n13
    @r4ym1n13 8 лет назад +30

    hahah at 5:38. thats how women talk to each other

  • @superAweber
    @superAweber 5 лет назад +4

    I love this guy. He's so similar to what I think as an introvert.

  • @shaneborg3717
    @shaneborg3717 6 лет назад +4

    There are so many good points here that I saved it in my favourites to study!

  • @andrewj7424
    @andrewj7424 4 года назад +4

    Your information has been life changing coach. Thank you and thank you for making so much available to us on RUclips. Wish I could afford to book a phone coaching session right now. Might have to wait until tax time

  • @jackscalpel8447
    @jackscalpel8447 7 лет назад +28

    Shouldn't his ex been doing 100% calling. After she dumped him?

  • @JC-qb2sz
    @JC-qb2sz 8 лет назад +3

    Coach Corey may I asked how did you survive the decline of the dating gurus? It seemed at one point ever since male groups such as PUA, MRA and even MGTOW came about everyone just went on each opposite ends of the extreme. I think you reinvented the while dating guru thing but also have a solid self help book that encompasses life and relationships in general as I find it useful in all respects.

    • @seinfan9
      @seinfan9 5 лет назад +3

      He teaches essentially what MGTOW originally was. A man needs to have purpose and confidence, which will translate into his dating life.

  • @yonathandavid11
    @yonathandavid11 7 лет назад +1

    watching your vids to spend my time playing the waiting game, also i just ordered your book. i like to read before going to bed and thought why not try it, your vids are great!

  • @christopherarmstrong2710
    @christopherarmstrong2710 2 года назад

    6:55 If she’s cautious, the problem is you’re not opening her up and just going for it. Being a little apologetic and a little fearful, being a little too timid = no sexy time. Be cognizant of her attraction level. 2 steps forward, 1 step back.

  • @patrickguitar8676
    @patrickguitar8676 3 года назад +1

    5:39..nice facial expressions got me adding that one yo my favorites...😄

  • @MyRennae
    @MyRennae 7 лет назад +1

    ''Grab her fucking hair''...I cracked up lol

  • @breannetetzlaff9147
    @breannetetzlaff9147 10 лет назад +26

    There is a difference between domination abd assault

    • @Dexion845
      @Dexion845 10 лет назад +21

      What he described is something normally found in romance novels (porn for women, lol)

    • @RachelSemeson
      @RachelSemeson 10 лет назад

      Dexion845 that's how I was raped exactly

    • @immanuelkh
      @immanuelkh 9 лет назад

      +bhaer Ally Then don't listen to him anymore

    • @erikhammer153
      @erikhammer153 8 лет назад +11

      8 inches

    • @tanukimikan5162
      @tanukimikan5162 6 лет назад +2

      Michael 534, romance novels feature an absolutely perfect, stunning, handsome, charming, rich male character, in short a dream man, whom female readers already fell in love with. While you are...well, not him. In any case fantasy is one thing and reality is another. Using romance novels as a guide, without understanding that, is a sure way to commit assault.

  • @celiaescalante
    @celiaescalante Год назад

    Well, the guy not only had a girlfriend, he let me get a boyfriend. We even had conversations about him wanting many and then it got to the point that I said, we'll you want me to have many men? Then, kind of got that in his head.

  • @annamiller4114
    @annamiller4114 9 лет назад +1

    LMFAOO I just had to see what this video was about after reading the title.

  • @silentspec99
    @silentspec99 9 лет назад +12

    Well just commenting the guy's question nothing about "HOW" to build sexual tension but never mind.

    • @RebelSyntax
      @RebelSyntax 3 года назад +1

      The book is free, be totally gave like line by line advise that all about sexual attraction. Did you not hear about being dominant vs timid? Jeezz...

  • @celiaescalante
    @celiaescalante Год назад

    What about when there's so much sexual tension that you can't go steady?

  • @rashidlenez6139
    @rashidlenez6139 5 лет назад +3

    this dude is an icon

  • @sakariaskoivisto1471
    @sakariaskoivisto1471 2 года назад

    You make it sounds like so much work. I think I rather study than invest all this time in women. Although, a woman would be nice.

  • @johnjoe858
    @johnjoe858 8 лет назад

    This really opened my eyes

  • @timmychang4290
    @timmychang4290 3 года назад

    I was gloomy af, sad and I read your book man I did my 30 days no contact she reached out I blew it by ignoring her then the next day we talk and I’m getting laid tonight lol!!

  • @cloudnizzy
    @cloudnizzy 9 лет назад +8

    Wassup with all these ex-girl stories?? I want new bitches lol

  • @PsykeMAJ0R
    @PsykeMAJ0R 8 лет назад +7

    What if she's a narcissist?

  • @Kalmworld1
    @Kalmworld1 9 лет назад +1

    Great work sir.

  • @RebelSyntax
    @RebelSyntax 3 года назад

    Lol the girlfriend imitation is exactly what I hear 5:34

  • @saitamakoyoshimura3733
    @saitamakoyoshimura3733 7 лет назад +4

    I always wonder if the whole texting thing only applies to Western Countries. I don't know if all the advice in these videos applies too well in Japan based on my experience... Idk

    • @breed4659
      @breed4659 5 лет назад +1

      Sexual attraction is universal my man. You shouldn't be spending a bunch of time on the phone with women. I dont care where youre from. Set up dates and go hang out with these broads instead of talking to them on the phone

  • @nathantoth1527
    @nathantoth1527 6 лет назад +1

    Thank you for sharing video.

  • @albertomontano1225
    @albertomontano1225 3 года назад +1

    This dude is so fucking gangster

  • @dontpanic9549
    @dontpanic9549 8 лет назад +4

    you rock when you say that thing about pussy and i was drinking cofee and i laughed i actually didn't expected that :D great work keep it going

  • @jefferycoleman4371
    @jefferycoleman4371 Год назад

    I agree with you on the talk/ text. What about long distance girls? Can't do much but talk/ text. Open for suggestions. Thanks.

  • @SmartDumbNerdyCool
    @SmartDumbNerdyCool 8 лет назад +3

    You remind me of a surfer. Are you into surfing?

  • @leooz8071
    @leooz8071 4 года назад

    I am afraid to approach women cause I got accused once by a female coworker for completing her and asking her out for a Starbucks

  • @patrickguitar8676
    @patrickguitar8676 3 года назад +1

    Who does the opening track....im hooked...I play it in my bathroom when I'm concentrating a deuce...nice track

  • @pisceanrat
    @pisceanrat 6 лет назад +1

    Any version for girls to apply on men

  • @yehonatanfranco
    @yehonatanfranco 7 лет назад

    thank you corey! youre great and very helpful!

  • @jesterraj
    @jesterraj 9 лет назад +6

    does this apply to Caribbean women?

  • @Georgesspierre
    @Georgesspierre 2 года назад

    You can either love women or you can understand them, but not both.

  • @honey1harmony
    @honey1harmony 7 лет назад +1

    Lmao "you're the one with the penis" haha

  • @raulmejia2066
    @raulmejia2066 2 года назад

    thank u.

  • @osamamalik3290
    @osamamalik3290 5 лет назад

    I am in love with you mannnn😅😅u r fucking awesome..... U know everything about women♥️♥️
    Now m gonna try everything on my girlfriends

  • @XieYali
    @XieYali 11 лет назад +9

    Show me that you're human.

    • @itsbilly1792
      @itsbilly1792 6 лет назад

      XieYali it’s almost as if you think “being human” means being a pussy? Hope not

  • @chrislake552
    @chrislake552 7 лет назад +3

    That sounds like a lot of work....

  • @Doctorpopets
    @Doctorpopets 4 года назад

    1:00 What we’re taught all the time is not to give women validation. The opposite of what he says here.

  • @eddievasquez2883
    @eddievasquez2883 7 лет назад +1

    Got a question about grabbing her hair scenario.What if she texts like say the next day and text "You shouldn't of kissed me and handled me like that.What should the answer to that be?

    • @TheNuncFluens
      @TheNuncFluens 7 лет назад +1

      Just tell her you just got carried away and you won't do it again if she's not into that. Simple.

    • @donrice2609
      @donrice2609 5 лет назад

      Few women want to think if she is with you that u could possibly get out of control

    • @RebelSyntax
      @RebelSyntax 3 года назад +1

      He's not teaching you to "do this thing exactly like this". Understand that he is describing how a man being timid about initiating sex is a turn off for women. Sex is ultimately putting a woman into a sexually submissive position in order for the man to penetrate her vagina with his penis. Showing sexual dominance in foreplay arouses women. You need to know yourself, your women and the situation enough to apply the appropriate demonstration of dominance during foreplay.

    • @reneavendano4576
      @reneavendano4576 3 года назад +1

      Dont apologized, say something playful about how you just couldn't resist how breathtaking she was looking and your hands got a little naughty on you lol

  • @weezyf4668
    @weezyf4668 3 года назад

    There are two many confident alpha females on the streets, and not that many alpha dudes, may be guys are out there working their ass off and bitches are taking the dough.

  • @sophieneedsaladder
    @sophieneedsaladder 10 лет назад +2

    How do I, a girl, create sexual tension from nothing in a 2yr relationship enviroment where no opening is happening from him on that area. He's tired form a crazy routine, and depressed, and I don't want to demand sex, but I miss it and would like to inspire a little without actually sitting down and having a CONVERSATION about it. It would be dramatic and turn out into a fight. Any tips?

    • @Charitza
      @Charitza 10 лет назад +7

      Try to think back to earlier in your relationship, when you two were, undoubtedly, at it like rabbits - What turned him on? What things did he like? What outfit did you wear that really got him going? Stuff like that.
      I think it sounds more like an emotional issue though. I'd say before trying to actually turn him on, be his joy. When he comes home or you see him, ask him what's up. Get him to talk about what's going on, or how his day has been. Through talking and sharing, you will create rapport, making him more comfortable, relaxed, and connected to you.
      Get him relaxed and shower him with your affection and presence - it will melt his stress away. I can speak personally in saying with my ex, when I was stressed, or just had a shitty day, or was depressed, I would never be in the mood and she'd never take it well. Worst of all, when I was in these moods, she would never ask what was up, she'd just be mad at me or she'd sulk for being in a bad mood until I came out of it. She wasn't a great communicator, and by sulking instead of trying to put me in a better mood, it made me feel bad, feel like it was all my fault, and made me feel like she didn't really care. This coupled with her overly stubborn personality meant I'd always have to apologise for it and everything to, even if it was her fault!
      One time she bought new lingerie and showed me, and I said to her I really liked it but just wasn't in the mood. She took this horribly, since she wasn't a good communicator. She just sat down in a huff until I had to fix it.
      It made me feel fucking terrible, as if it was all my fault, and it really just worsened my mood and the situation. The message from this I'd say is if he's not up for it, don't take it personally and don't call him out or question him about it, or get mad at him. I know it's frustrating, but it will not help the situation in any regard. Talk to him, show him you care through your presence and inquisition. It will make him feel better knowing you are there for him.
      Most importantly, don't take it personally! It sounds like you've identified the reasoning for him being like this, so for the love of god do not think it's because of you. Take the positive from the situation - His current circumstances will not last forever. It will pass. Until then, be his joy.
      Hope this helps - It's all I can share through my own experiences!

    • @sophieneedsaladder
      @sophieneedsaladder 10 лет назад +2

      Thank you so much for sharing your experience and advice, Charlie. It sure helps. While reading your comment I was able to look at the situation from a different point of view - which was just what I needed. I'll focus more on companionship for now until he feels safe sharing and opening up, and I hope I'm able to help him feel better. Thanks again :)

    • @chimkinNuggz
      @chimkinNuggz 9 лет назад +11

      Eat a banana in front of him

    • @Recakillu
      @Recakillu 9 лет назад

      RuggedALAN Dude. yea. You should do videos explaining that sht

    • @andreashort310
      @andreashort310 9 лет назад

      +Angelique Kellogg If guy isn´t in the mood the worst thing you can do is trying to force him to have sex. It just makes his mood worse.

  • @patrickguitar8676
    @patrickguitar8676 3 года назад

    Pick up artist routines...

  • @IEatSkrubsMyGrub
    @IEatSkrubsMyGrub 9 лет назад +3

    How the fuck did I get here? Never mind, thanks coach I suppose.

  • @TheZakev
    @TheZakev 7 лет назад

    If we are colleagues hiw should I proceed?

    • @ronniemartillo
      @ronniemartillo 6 лет назад +1

      Gage her level of interest before playing your cards. Make sure you’re not in fact projecting your interest on her and clouding reality. Be indifferent, if everyone is hitting her up let her come to you. If you’re dating and constantly seeing each other there are other ways to build mystery. Such as spontaneous or surprise dates, keep her guessing, or stories of your past that are entertaining. Make sure to have a purpose other than dating her, no girl wants to be put on a pedestal. If she’s interested be bold about it, don’t be sheepish or shy when asking her out. Corey has so many videos on this particular topic.

  • @gazriley624
    @gazriley624 8 лет назад

    you mean he broke up with his girlfriend not his ex girlfriend!

  • @freecollins1685
    @freecollins1685 5 лет назад

    Only if black woman can stay off our phone! I am trying to master that

  • @florian1523
    @florian1523 4 года назад

    I thought he was gonna say grab her by the 🐱

  • @blainefiasco8225
    @blainefiasco8225 3 года назад

    70-80? I thought men were supposed to do all the chasing.

  • @AllisonB-k3g
    @AllisonB-k3g Месяц назад

    Hey, great job this sounds like it’s all based on Celestine Dessike's Words of Desire. And yes, that’s the material you need to have him resonating with erotic electricity at your will. Sounds like too much IK, but just for the basics it's worth go'ogling her ;)

  • @irenegallegosperez
    @irenegallegosperez 9 лет назад +1

    WTF@1:13 and 9:35."Like a woman?"

  • @RuthW-b8s
    @RuthW-b8s 2 месяца назад

    Hey, great job this sounds like it’s all based on Celestine Dessike's Words of Desire. And yes, that’s the material you need to have him resonating with erotic electricity at your will. Sounds like too much IK, but just for the basics it's worth go'ogling her ;)