Paige isn't well either because she can't see the BS. She admires and respects a man who has nothing but inconsistent words to temporarily appease her ego.
@@user-nq6lj8fx7r being young has nothing to do with it. We are the same age and this is ridiculous. Her self esteem is in the toilet and that is not because of age.
@@OkA-007 check out how she was acting! She chose divorce bc the world was watching but she's definitely dealing with him! Wait until next week's reunion! She "saw so many good qualities" in him....🤷🏾♀️
Dr. V spoke up 8 weeks later. Would have been useful to intervene on day 2. Omg, I get so much 2nd hand embarrassment from watching these two. Urgh the cringe.
The show was filmed in one day. Notice the experts wearing the same outfits in each setting. Paige and Chris were the last ones to film that day because theirs was at night. MAD @ Paige not lil chris
@@whatfor2002 Sad to say but you are right she barely walked away from Ignoramous! And the Word on the street or at least the previews is that they went to therapy together to try to continue this monstrosity. Who does this?
The smile and glow Paige had at the beginning of this season versus the dimmed version on desicion day shows how quickly a toxic person can isolate and then slowly drain you
She lost herself trying to find love with him! He kept taking pieces from her and she didn’t even notice until then. That’s why she had to pick herself at the end
This man has been calling her ugly since the WEDDING DAY and is only crying tattoo tears to Paige because of this alleged miscarriage and she’s his backup plan. Why is Paige so eager to be his 2nd, 3rd choice??? Why was she out here smiling to a man that called her the only unattractive woman in Atlanta??? The same man who slept w her 3x before telling her he doesn’t like her🤦🏾♀️ Paige needs serious therapy and maybe even an intervention. This whole season was alarming
@@TheOriginalRasheedat no Chris’ ex, Mercedes. Though many aren’t convinced that she was ever pregnant to begin with. Maybe the pregnancy was a lie so he could get out of the marriage 🤷🏾♀️
@@esthera4710 It clearly does, the entire season she keeps making excuses for his atrocious behavior because “god put them together” she mentioned this at least once per episode and that’s absolutely alarming to think because someone’s religious views are so intense, they are unable to see what is really happening. I’m glad she chose out of this but saying religion played no part in this is ignorant. It’s scary how religion can be brainwashing at times.
Paige doesn't value herself and she has extremely low self-esteem..Chris was playing Paige from day one and she sat back and allowed him to disrespect her, humiliate her, and degrade her on national T.V..Her decision to divorce him should've been easy, breezy, beautiful...No back, and forth nor second-guessing anything..smh
Im sorry but Paige needs to work on herself bf going into any relationship . Any person who would allow a stranger to put them thru as much as he did her , needs a reality ✔ . I was starting to wonder if I was crazy this was so bad .Lord I ask that u help that young lady bc she needs u not a relationship .😚
She REALLY thought that this was what God had for her and bc of that, she allowed him to "play" her like that and then there were times when he would use the word of God to rope her in and she fell for it. Since this aired, Chris has lost his businesses and was evicted from Subway (look it up) so at this point, he NEEDS Paige bc she has business sense and he doesn't. He's going to continue to fail until he makes some serious changes in life.
That's what is sad. So many sistas have settled for crumbs and then have been content like this. Thankfully she does not have kids to be in an emotionally abusive environment.
I believe that Paige took her vows literally. I applaud her for hanging in as long as she did. The problem today is married couples don't take their vows serious. It is the only EVER promise we make to God. The fact that her situation was aired on TV for the world to see and judge also didn't make it much easier. Paige is a serious God fearing woman. She is not insecure. She is a beautiful person with good morals. Did Chris deserve her, no. In the end, Paige made the best decision. She's not dumb, but she stood by her husband no matter what kind of jerk he was.
@@jmj9170 I agree...however, sometimes we think that God has a certain something/someone for us and instead of listening to what He's REALLY saying, we hold fast to what WE think He's saying...God isn't going to put any of in a situation like that 1 for good... there was definitely a reason, but it wasn't for better/worse. I still believe she dealt with him after the decision day bc in the 8 weeks he has known her, he knew how to get her on his side by using God. He's manipulative and selfish and vain AND unattractive!! Remember his father? Thr fruit don't fall far from the tree!
@@jmj9170 I commend you on your perspective on vows. This show should be engaged at first sight and not allow people to marry without dating. That would have resolved a lot of these divorces of couples not being attracted or relatable to each other.
This should have been an easy decision to make , but when you have not practiced self love deciding on staying with someone like Chris can be hard . I pray for Paige to love herself more .
You could see the shock and confusion in his face when she said no. It's like he literally felt the power he had over her completely vanish in the blink of an eye.
I know my comment is late, but I think it's just what he wanted...he just didn't want to be the one to end it and look like the bad guy. He was banking on the ex being pregnant excuse to take care of it, but it didn't.
Dr Viviana was amazing. She decided she has had just about enough of Chris' bullsh*t and spoke out. You can see it in her face. She cannot stand him at all. Props to her.
Ummm...she's a grown woman. I agree with both the Dr. and pastor. They won't be there next time to save her. She needs to grow up mentally as well. She's gonna go back to him, because her self discipline is weak. She has all the knowledge it seems but know WISDOM. knowing the path and walking it is 2 different things. Untried knowledge makes a person proud(prideful).
But calling out narcissists like that, especially with an audience, can also really backfire and make things worse. Maybe that’s what he was trying to say or remind her of
If this doesn't show women what narcissism looks like, then nothing will. She went from a smart, beautiful, successful woman the first episode to a shell of herself and desperate for love. He made her feel like she deserves less.
Finally one of the doctors stood up for Paige. In my opinion, the final day should not have been an option for Chris and Paige because it was a lie from the beginning. Chris only showed up for the cameras. He probably only did that so he could be paid because he needs the money. The fact that he turned against his best friend the Pastor because he stood up for Paige also shows you what kind of person he really is. When people show you who they are believe them. Chris showed who he is from day one, the wedding day. Believe him.
Yes, how or why the 2 experts sat there and going to allow Paige someone who disrespected her so much … baffles me. What do they think of her as a woman… or did & were they just wanting a success story at the expense of her heart… that whole thing was sad to me. Thank you to Dr Viviana for being bold and speaking up & speaking up for what is right and what is wrong
His face when he realized she wasn't going to lose herself for him like most women prolly have was amazing. He enjoys being loved not giving it though.
And nothing is wrong with that if you think it can be reality. He have told her, shown her, & publicly humiliated her that she is not what he wants. ✝️♥️✝️
He said he didn't like your face on camera. After the first night he wasn't attracted. Baby had nothing to do with it Sis. Let him feel how he treated you.
He told her he wasn’t attracted to her after boning her?!?!? That would have been it for me!!! I don’t even care about the baby and ex. She had a miscarriage...so there is no baby. She needs therapy.
It’s easier for us to see the bs in this relationship than it is her bc she desperately wants a marriage and partner. She’s blind by what COULD be, and isn’t seeing what it IS. MAFS needs to go head and pay for her therapy and I really hate that she went through this and that they did this to her. She also needs to take accountability and learn to love herself and leave that dusty that isn’t worth all this turmoil and angst. All these men out here, there’s definitely one that will treat her what she’s worth and give her the love she so desperately wants. I just have this sinking feeling she’s going to end up taking him back.
Nikita you are so right, they said that the couples cant get a divorce untill a year but with this couple there needs to put a rush on it like now before that crazy so call ex husband come up with something crazy
@@countessofmontecristo3849 I blame them for her not having any self worth, for her desperate, needy, allowing him to repeatedly disrespect her type of behavior. I have a daughter & she's been mistreated by the wrong man before but she knew well enough not to stick around & allow him to continue, & no it wasn't easy, she was hurt & she had to be alone for a while to heal so that she would be able to recognize the signs when this type of man came around again. That's the kind of support that she had.
It was sad that Paige was considering staying with Chris. However, she eventually made the right choice which was a major step for her. I'm proud of her for making this decision to choose herself first. This is the beginning of her personal journey of self love and acceptance.
At this point I’d pay for Paige counseling cause sistah it’s much more to you than you know baby girl some man would love you the right way not this wrong way.
Cassey remember when he was trying on his tuxedo he said that he what to be the first best dress man on MAFS it seam like he's trying to be the first at everything decision day he came to the after gathering late and it look like next week he's going to do something else crazy
It's very concerning that they chose these two to be participants. What in the heck did they use for acceptable qualifications. Neither one should have been on the show.
Finally girl!! And please don't go back to him behind the camera. He is a train reck. Your love will find you. You are beautiful. Let no man tell you otherwise. Care for your mental health first. Bless you❤️
Why is Paige really crying? All they ask was for a decision. Chris goes off on Dr V and Paige tries to calm Chris and she breaks down🤔🤔🤔🤔? Something if odd about her reaction.
He was going to play this game until the very end. He even said he didn't have an answer to give but was utterly shocked when Paige said she wanted a divorce. He wanted the perks of being wanted but didn't really want who the attention was coming from. The whole season he played and showed the up most disrespect. Hopefully Paige will work on herself and her own healing.
Me and you was thinking the same thing. When he told her he was not attracted to her after being intimate with her and she wanted to stay. I said lord where is her parents
People have seen this show and nobody will want to date Chris so that’s why he considered staying married....no one in the world is as foolish as Paige.
There are woman waiting in the wings thinking THEY will be the ones to change this man, thinking they are special and they won't be treated like Paige because they are better than her. And he will give those ladies the business as well. He leaves nothing but destruction in his wake.
I'm sorry, but it's possible there was never a pregnancy. Mercedes got a Mercedes for the fib. Chris just needed a lie to make himself not look like a big jerk!
I was thinking the same thing! It just seemed too convenient that she had a miscarriage. If she actually did then my bad and my apologies. But remember there was never any evidence/proof of a pregnancy test or a sonogram.
C est la vie ? No they re both confused. I can not belive it took 6 hours to take that decision. Ils sont malades Chris est malade et s amuse avec Paige. Paige is a toy to her. Un gros jouet
@@meganelib8500Oh my God yes her self esteem is so low, under her feet that she is walkingn on it. C est terrible de voir cette femme brisée à ce point and Despreate. Chris est fake jusqu au os. When he cried about the miscarrage. It was all about Chris. I wonder what his parents think. Si ces parents le soutienne c est que eux aussi ont des problèmes. Please people this is a great example to what no do. Thanks to Paige unfortunalty
Doctor wont having it 😂😂😂 she forgot bout the 📷 for a second thats what u call "calling a man out" that need to hold some accountability for his decisions( 2day right now hurry up😂😂) instead he draging how long he thought he could smh
Smh!! How hard is It To say you want A Divorce from Chris?? He Been Playing you Since Day 1.. Paige was Smiling so big About everything Chris was telling her.. Chris only Trying to keep Her around because His Ex had A miscarriage..
Achundris you are so right she was smiling like a jester cat to every word he said, if he got on his knee and said come back to me she would have told the MAFS people that's all she needs to hear and iam staying marry.
@Be Awriter please stop insulting women who are in abusive relationships by comparing them to these strangers who have options choices and were in no way close to having the issues abused women and men are faced with.
This is why it is SOOOO important to love yourself BEFORE getting married! This man has shown that he is NOT fully invested and that SHOULD be the dealbreaker for Paige. I really hope that she heals from this.
1. Think everyone was thinking what Dr. Vivian was saying 2. Chris deserved that and much more 3. After all he put her through I can’t believe he expected her to stay married to him 4. Paige looks amazing 😻
She may have a healthy self-esteem, but she doesn't understand how boundaries work in a relationship and she doesn't have solid assertiveness skills. Match those two things with a strong belief that an invisible sky daddy set her and Chris up to be married ("everything happens for a reason" fallacy) and she ended up in a dangerous and sad emotional trap.
Paige is a very sad soul. How in the world are you so desperate to be with this man that you are lowering yourself ? This disrespectful, lair, a person who thinks he is all that . No young lady please respect yourself. You have cheapened yourself for too long wake up from your sleep because god never ever put u2 together.
Because of her belief in a supernatural being, she tolerated his monstrous behavior. She kept thinking that 'god' put her with him for a 'reason.' Just shows how beliefs in false things can hurt you.
Paige didnt have to balls to say no...she might be in love with the idea of just being married than being married to the right person. This man's straight up messing with her and she's letting him. It's like she thinks she won't ever get married again so she keeps holding on, hoping it'll work out. It's okay to let go if it's not for u.
My care level is down concerning this Sista well being, she has been “Grown long enough to Realize, “Your New Found Hubby is a Clown” My Question is Why is she Allowing this BS !!! O.o
She may have a healthy self-esteem, but she doesn't understand how boundaries work in a relationship and she doesn't have solid assertiveness skills. Match those two things with a strong belief that an invisible sky daddy set her and Chris up to be married ("everything happens for a reason" fallacy) and she ended up in a dangerous and sad emotional trap.
Little does she know she had so much power in the moment when she said no to that awful marriage. Chris is the type of person that can't stand the idea of someone leaving him. Look at his face. 🤢He is the type of person that would get back with someone just to dump them or cheat on them 🙄
Watch her go back and still be with this guy. I believe we women have to go through so much hardship to the point of breaking before we can leave a bad situation for good. This is Paige’s journey
FINALLY! I know that wasn't proper protocol for the therapist to interject and object like that, but he WAS playing w/her heart and mind, and that's not right. I hope Paige finds herself and a worthy man for her.
The therapist did a good job calling him out on his bs, you could tell the other two wanted to say something too, and they should have. All of America need to see this guy for who & what he really is.
Chris wanted her to end it, that’s how much of a manipulative he is. He’s been playing these mind games since day 1. He’s actually happy that she ended it.
How could she sit on that couch crying about it's too much for her and the word NO not be a part of anything coming out of her mouth? Edit: Okay she said no but now we have to wait for the reunion show to see if she stood by what she said.
I was so upset with Paige. She is the whole package and that she let Chris talk and hold her hostage. I pray she doesn't give him a second chance. He has shown who he is and she needs to move on. This guy is a narcissist. He doesn't care about her and has been playing everybody from the beginning.
I hate how any time Chris says sorry she starts cheesing like a Cheshire Cat as if to say “see he has changed!” He actively treated her like trash from the start, called her unattractive to her face, continued conversation with an ex (baby or not, that’s disrespectful), left her, been aggressively angry when called out even to women which is a HUGE red flag and basically told her only redeeming quality was her butt and a spiritual attraction! I really hope the experts got her some help because I guarantee she’s still messing with him. It’s so sad and seems like she had little to no outside support from friends or family this entire time. Makes me wonder if she’s been in similar situations and either didn’t want to hear what anyone said or pushed everyone away. There’s no reason she should have allowed a stranger to treat her this way and on national tv.
She does not truly love herself sounds cliche but she doesn’t. She is settling for being second option..now that his first choice isn’t going according to plan he wants her back..
Paige explained it. She's not a push over. She just doesn't want to give up on something she put her all to. She doesn't run from the bad. She would be such a great wife to a very lucky man some day.
this is not fair thats emotional manipulation on his part he is a weak man and she is not self aware at all and cant read people i dont think she has dated lyk a healthy way
He is a narcissist. In the midst of being abused by a narcissist, you don’t realize it . She is addicted to the return everytime he leaves, the compliments after the insults, and worse , he is a religious narc, which means he uses God as a weapon to kwwp her near, and bc she is big on faith, she THINKS God would want her to stay and put up with his BS
I like how Dr V called Chris out on his bs. Chris is so evil and mean. This fool really called Paige ugly to her face. Paige needs some counseling. She is not ready to be in a marriage right. I pray that she finds her self esteem and self worth. This so sad to see my beautiful black sista crying over spoil milk. Its time for her to wake up and get her glow back on chile. Drop that zero sista.
I've been with someone like Chris,it's was many years ago,,people like Chris make my stomach hurt he's not attracted to her face,but she attractive supply for him .
Paige, wake up. That man doesn’t respect or honor you. He has no self-control. He’s emotionally abusive to you. A man that is quick to anger is dangerous!
He told her to her face he wasn’t attracted to her. If a man was to say that to me ever that’s a goodbye automatically. Why would you stay? And he talked how she was not a price to her friends. That’s humiliating and so belittling.
The biggest blessing is that Paige did not have children with this guy. I hope she's reading all the comments on this video and realising she needs to take her time and go into another relationship only when she's ready knowing her value and what her deal breakers are. She literally has ZERO boundaries
I've watched nonsense in my life, but nothing as bad as MAFS season 12, SPECIFICALLY Chris and Paige. I'll watch Pooty Tang on repeat before I watch a minute more of this.
Im so glad the lady the yellow spoke up...shes a marriage and family counselor and im sure she saw this marriage as a developing domestic violence case...good on her for speaking up to save Paige. Some victims don't realize they are victims and thats usually stock home syndrome settling in. Paige im happy you left and your future kids will be better off wothout him as theor father.
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I had enough of this watching this poor girl get tortured and humiliated STOP IT LIFETIME
Please give her a show to have another chance at love and helping her get more confidence in relationships
Yo
Right!!! She’s sad for a woman. Like your marriage is not Godly. WTH she crying for. Must be the bedroom that’s got her invested
props to the woman in the yellow. she stood up for Paige and read Chris’ bs when the wife couldn’t at the time
Riiiigggghttttt! If She didn't say anything, Paige would of went right along with it!!!
Paige isn't well either because she can't see the BS. She admires and respects a man who has nothing but inconsistent words to temporarily appease her ego.
They did not show this on tv last night🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
There are women out there like this wether it’s scripted or not
They should've just told Paige to divorce him, they handled that whole situation wrong. She clearly needs help.
The fact that Paige even thought about staying is mind blowing to me. Paige please get your self esteem up & know your worth.
@@user-nq6lj8fx7r i hope she cringes hard because im cringing for her right now and i am wayy younger than she is.
It’s all staged
It’s psychological...it’s that emotional abuse I feel😔
I'm not blown away although I should. She is in love with this dude!!
@@user-nq6lj8fx7r being young has nothing to do with it. We are the same age and this is ridiculous. Her self esteem is in the toilet and that is not because of age.
This man treated her like trash the entire show and she’s acting like decision will be hard it’s like girl wake up!!
Exactly, wake up mon, wat a piece of craziness
Im not mad at him. Im mad at her
@@jesulenejournal7482 Right! because a man will treat you how you allow them to treat you
Exactly
@@jesulenejournal7482 Me too! I hope she goes back and watches this entire season and take note of all the BS she did to herself.
Good for Viviana to not tolerate Chris BS which allowed Paige to make the decision for herself!
They got back together again
@@jesulenejournal7482 -- You are joking, me. They did what?!
@@OkA-007 check out how she was acting! She chose divorce bc the world was watching but she's definitely dealing with him! Wait until next week's reunion! She "saw so many good qualities" in him....🤷🏾♀️
@@msdaryllgirl I wouldn’t be surprised if they really got back together
@@staceyshere I'm sure they did! Wait until the reunion!
Praying for Paige’s mental health. Props to Dr. Viviana for speaking up. 🙌🏽
Dr Viviana, yeah
About time! IMO too little too late
Dr. V spoke up 8 weeks later. Would have been useful to intervene on day 2. Omg, I get so much 2nd hand embarrassment from watching these two. Urgh the cringe.
She's gonna need all the prayers and Bible studies in this world. SMH.
The show was filmed in one day. Notice the experts wearing the same outfits in each setting. Paige and Chris were the last ones to film that day because theirs was at night. MAD @ Paige not lil chris
Paige is not ready to be in a relationship with anyone. She’s not able to protect herself and read people at all.
That part.
She's too stupid
If you look up the definitions for stupid,pathetic,sad,ignorant&useless,you'll see pictures of Pathetic Paige.
@@whatfor2002 Sad to say but you are right she barely walked away from Ignoramous! And the Word on the street or at least the previews is that they went to therapy together to try to continue this monstrosity. Who does this?
@@whatfor2002 😂🤣😂
I am confused about these admirable qualities she sees in Chris. He has been a total jerk to her and continues to try to play with her feelings.
maybe Chris is better than all the previous guys she's dated? Paige seems like she has a bad dating history.
It’s probably the “D”
And don't forget disrespectful
@@TheGreenlove87 your probably, I bet she is still sleeping with him.
@@TheGreenlove87 his "D" is all he probably has going for him...he looks like his breath is consistently tart!
The smile and glow Paige had at the beginning of this season versus the dimmed version on desicion day shows how quickly a toxic person can isolate and then slowly drain you
He drained her. So sad
😜🤩
Amen
She lost herself trying to find love with him! He kept taking pieces from her and she didn’t even notice until then. That’s why she had to pick herself at the end
Her glow was gone on day 2 and it just continued to get worse.
Paige should never speak to Chris again. She just caused him major narcissistic injury and he will go for blood if she allows him in her life again
Lol, this isn't funny but I was thinking the same exact thing. I hope she meant what she said.
Bae---be you took the words right out of my head!
You can see it in his eyes when he looks at her as they all get up to leave. I hope she eliminates any and all contact.
You can see it in his eyes when he looks at her as they all get up to leave. I hope she eliminates any and all contact.
💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
She really does need some counseling. She doesn't value herself enough to be with anyone. I pray she gets the help she needs.
More like a lobotomy, counseling can't do anything for this level of stupidity
Same
@@ansiejeanty8814 counseling and Therapy can do wonders. Nobody is perfect. We can't throw stones whilst living in glass houses.
This man has been calling her ugly since the WEDDING DAY and is only crying tattoo tears to Paige because of this alleged miscarriage and she’s his backup plan. Why is Paige so eager to be his 2nd, 3rd choice??? Why was she out here smiling to a man that called her the only unattractive woman in Atlanta??? The same man who slept w her 3x before telling her he doesn’t like her🤦🏾♀️ Paige needs serious therapy and maybe even an intervention. This whole season was alarming
@Warren Tusker religion has nothing to do with this. This is a different level of delusion
Wait. Paige had a miscarriage?!
@@TheOriginalRasheedat no Chris’ ex, Mercedes. Though many aren’t convinced that she was ever pregnant to begin with. Maybe the pregnancy was a lie so he could get out of the marriage 🤷🏾♀️
@@esthera4710 It clearly does, the entire season she keeps making excuses for his atrocious behavior because “god put them together” she mentioned this at least once per episode and that’s absolutely alarming to think because someone’s religious views are so intense, they are unable to see what is really happening. I’m glad she chose out of this but saying religion played no part in this is ignorant. It’s scary how religion can be brainwashing at times.
@@fifthgeneration3371 I agree. Religion played a big part. She used God’s “plan” to justify the abuse she endured. It’s sad.
I’m single and it’s going to stay that way until I fully embrace the love I have for myself. I’m not settling for this mess
Good for you, it will be the best decision you will ever make for yourself.
Me 2 I can wait for my right soulmate !!
Amen
You said it. 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
Me too!!
How can Paige be undecided, like really how ?
HOW!!!
She is very broken she needs to be alone so sad
Yeah if what we saw on TV was a ounce of their reality how could one 2nd think leaving.
Everyone wants to be wanted and she wants to be married. That's how.
🤷♀️
Paige doesn't value herself and she has extremely low self-esteem..Chris was playing Paige from day one and she sat back and allowed him to disrespect her, humiliate her, and degrade her on national T.V..Her decision to divorce him should've been easy, breezy, beautiful...No back, and forth nor second-guessing anything..smh
Lower than low.
Im sorry but Paige needs to work on herself bf going into any relationship .
Any person who would allow a stranger to put them thru as much as he did her , needs a reality ✔ . I was starting to wonder if I was crazy this was so bad .Lord I ask that u help that young lady bc she needs u not a relationship .😚
She REALLY thought that this was what God had for her and bc of that, she allowed him to "play" her like that and then there were times when he would use the word of God to rope her in and she fell for it. Since this aired, Chris has lost his businesses and was evicted from Subway (look it up) so at this point, he NEEDS Paige bc she has business sense and he doesn't. He's going to continue to fail until he makes some serious changes in life.
That's what is sad. So many sistas have settled for crumbs and then have been content like this. Thankfully she does not have kids to be in an emotionally abusive environment.
I believe that Paige took her vows literally. I applaud her for hanging in as long as she did. The problem today is married couples don't take their vows serious. It is the only EVER promise we make to God. The fact that her situation was aired on TV for the world to see and judge also didn't make it much easier. Paige is a serious God fearing woman. She is not insecure. She is a beautiful person with good morals. Did Chris deserve her, no. In the end, Paige made the best decision. She's not dumb, but she stood by her husband no matter what kind of jerk he was.
@@jmj9170 I agree...however, sometimes we think that God has a certain something/someone for us and instead of listening to what He's REALLY saying, we hold fast to what WE think He's saying...God isn't going to put any of in a situation like that 1 for good... there was definitely a reason, but it wasn't for better/worse. I still believe she dealt with him after the decision day bc in the 8 weeks he has known her, he knew how to get her on his side by using God. He's manipulative and selfish and vain AND unattractive!! Remember his father? Thr fruit don't fall far from the tree!
@@jmj9170 I commend you on your perspective on vows. This show should be engaged at first sight and not allow people to marry without dating. That would have resolved a lot of these divorces of couples not being attracted or relatable to each other.
This should have been an easy decision to make , but when you have not practiced self love deciding on staying with someone like Chris can be hard . I pray for Paige to love herself more .
Easy decision 123 divorce me yesterday from Chris
absolutely. ❤️
You could see the shock and confusion in his face when she said no. It's like he literally felt the power he had over her completely vanish in the blink of an eye.
👍🏾👌🏽
I know my comment is late, but I think it's just what he wanted...he just didn't want to be the one to end it and look like the bad guy. He was banking on the ex being pregnant excuse to take care of it, but it didn't.
@@icinsights8650🎯🎯🎯my thoughts exactly
At this point I’m sick of them both😒
Extremely sick of them...especially Paige
Yes..
@@anncovington8616 Girrrrrrrl me too!! Both of them had juvenile behavior!!!!!
@@anncovington8616 I've been sick of both of them
Yessss
Dr Viviana was amazing. She decided she has had just about enough of Chris' bullsh*t and spoke out. You can see it in her face. She cannot stand him at all. Props to her.
Agreed!
Pastor Cal, stop trying to say something to Dr. Vivianna! She’s holding him accountable unlike you. Address that boy in the room having a tantrum.
Ummm...she's a grown woman. I agree with both the Dr. and pastor. They won't be there next time to save her. She needs to grow up mentally as well. She's gonna go back to him, because her self discipline is weak.
She has all the knowledge it seems but know WISDOM. knowing the path and walking it is 2 different things. Untried knowledge makes a person proud(prideful).
cahokia33 you’re right
But calling out narcissists like that, especially with an audience, can also really backfire and make things worse. Maybe that’s what he was trying to say or remind her of
Typical man trying to tell a woman she's doing something wrong when she's doing something right.
Careful who you sleep with.... soul ties are real. A guy who treats you this poorly should not be getting any second thoughts.
I actually think that why she can’t walk away. She’s already soul tied to him.
I think the D was really good. You know sometimes good D clouds our judgments 🤣🤣
@@princessmoore9026 🤣🤣sad!
@@princessmoore9026 Must have been that "good qualities" thing she was talking about because we have not seen ONE.
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Honey ain’t no D that good.
If this doesn't show women what narcissism looks like, then nothing will. She went from a smart, beautiful, successful woman the first episode to a shell of herself and desperate for love. He made her feel like she deserves less.
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Finally one of the doctors stood up for Paige. In my opinion, the final day should not have been an option for Chris and Paige because it was a lie from the beginning. Chris only showed up for the cameras. He probably only did that so he could be paid because he needs the money. The fact that he turned against his best friend the Pastor because he stood up for Paige also shows you what kind of person he really is. When people show you who they are believe them. Chris showed who he is from day one, the wedding day. Believe him.
I agree. I think he wants an acting career.
Hallelujah and Amen!!
Yes, how or why the 2 experts sat there and going to allow Paige someone who disrespected her so much … baffles me. What do they think of her as a woman… or did & were they just wanting a success story at the expense of her heart… that whole thing was sad to me. Thank you to Dr Viviana for being bold and speaking up & speaking up for what is right and what is wrong
His face when he realized she wasn't going to lose herself for him like most women prolly have was amazing. He enjoys being loved not giving it though.
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The hooked on hope syndrome is real.
And nothing is wrong with that if you think it can be reality. He have told her, shown her, & publicly humiliated her that she is not what he wants. ✝️♥️✝️
Girl it sure is
Facts
Yep I used to have that syndrome thank for delivering me
Never heard this saying before... but I love it!
He said he didn't like your face on camera. After the first night he wasn't attracted. Baby had nothing to do with it Sis. Let him feel how he treated you.
ON CAMERA!!!!!!!!! hlllooooo
I love how you said that “ let him feel how he treats you”
Gurrrrrllll if she don't tell him to kick rocks I thought he had been gone
Lol right!?
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He told her he wasn’t attracted to her after boning her?!?!? That would have been it for me!!! I don’t even care about the baby and ex. She had a miscarriage...so there is no baby. She needs therapy.
@@deirdra6990 I bet she either was not pregnant or...
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It’s easier for us to see the bs in this relationship than it is her bc she desperately wants a marriage and partner. She’s blind by what COULD be, and isn’t seeing what it IS. MAFS needs to go head and pay for her therapy and I really hate that she went through this and that they did this to her. She also needs to take accountability and learn to love herself and leave that dusty that isn’t worth all this turmoil and angst. All these men out here, there’s definitely one that will treat her what she’s worth and give her the love she so desperately wants. I just have this sinking feeling she’s going to end up taking him back.
I blame her parents for this nonsense
Nikita you are so right, they said that the couples cant get a divorce untill a year but with this couple there needs to put a rush on it like now before that crazy so call ex husband come up with something crazy
Really...smh
@@countessofmontecristo3849 I blame them for her not having any self worth, for her desperate, needy, allowing him to repeatedly disrespect her type of behavior. I have a daughter & she's been mistreated by the wrong man before but she knew well enough not to stick around & allow him to continue, & no it wasn't easy, she was hurt & she had to be alone for a while to heal so that she would be able to recognize the signs when this type of man came around again. That's the kind of support that she had.
Clearly , you have an open mind. Your response was one the most rational ones. I just don't understand how one could blame her parents?
It was sad that Paige was considering staying with Chris. However, she eventually made the right choice which was a major step for her. I'm proud of her for making this decision to choose herself first. This is the beginning of her personal journey of self love and acceptance.
Girl walk AWAY!!! He is only choosing you because the girl he wants doesn’t Want him!!
Dann this comment hit me!😞 I'm Paige too.
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Hopefully she looks back on this and realize how foolish he made her look. And she work on herself, cause this decision should have been easy.
A no brainer✝️♥️✝️
At this point I’d pay for Paige counseling cause sistah it’s much more to you than you know baby girl some man would love you the right way not this wrong way.
We can go half sis 😏
facts, my lord
Girl say divorce an move on
I'm so glad she made the right decision
Nope. He's gonna talk some more lol. Alone with her.
Seems like he wanted to be the first in MAFS history to be undecided. Glad Paige put her foot down and left him.
Sadly, Paige is not going anywhere.
Cassey remember when he was trying on his tuxedo he said that he what to be the first best dress man on MAFS it seam like he's trying to be the first at everything decision day he came to the after gathering late and it look like next week he's going to do something else crazy
@@shirleyeasterling9902 agree
Paige didnt put her foot down 😂😂
Paige is putting on for camera but she went back to him . As USUAL!
exactly my point
It's very concerning that they chose these two to be participants. What in the heck did they use for acceptable qualifications. Neither one should have been on the show.
Yes lets pair a selfish narcissist with an emotionally naive and insecure woman. Great match!!
THANK YOU Dr.Viv! You're keeping it real
Finally girl!! And please don't go back to him behind the camera. He is a train reck. Your love will find you. You are beautiful. Let no man tell you otherwise. Care for your mental health first. Bless you❤️
Why is Paige really crying? All they ask was for a decision. Chris goes off on Dr V and Paige tries to calm Chris and she breaks down🤔🤔🤔🤔? Something if odd about her reaction.
Agreed
She probably went back to him...she needs serious help!!!
She feels like she has to protect him and she knows that he has a bad temper. She's not going to stop seeing him...so sad.
@@erinlewis8150 Very sad
@@erinlewis8150 She really isn't. 😔
He was going to play this game until the very end. He even said he didn't have an answer to give but was utterly shocked when Paige said she wanted a divorce. He wanted the perks of being wanted but didn't really want who the attention was coming from. The whole season he played and showed the up most disrespect. Hopefully Paige will work on herself and her own healing.
Bless her heart she's so confused
Where is her parents?
That's my question
They are all eaten up by their religion whence her behavior
Me and you was thinking the same thing. When he told her he was not attracted to her after being intimate with her and she wanted to stay. I said lord where is her parents
@@Blessed1336 And i believe they're still knocking boots.
She act like Chris the only man on earth. It's unbelievable
@@softcaramel53jab58 definitely
People have seen this show and nobody will want to date Chris so that’s why he considered staying married....no one in the world is as foolish as Paige.
you will be surprised . women writing men in prison and in love with murders like Chris Watts ( angry face )
Paige dumb as they come.
She went back to him
There are woman waiting in the wings thinking THEY will be the ones to change this man, thinking they are special and they won't be treated like Paige because they are better than her. And he will give those ladies the business as well. He leaves nothing but destruction in his wake.
@@dominiquepenn8781 agreed...she's a lost caused like Chris! smh
I'm sorry, but it's possible there was never a pregnancy. Mercedes got a Mercedes for the fib. Chris just needed a lie to make himself not look like a big jerk!
I was thinking the same thing! It just seemed too convenient that she had a miscarriage. If she actually did then my bad and my apologies. But remember there was never any evidence/proof of a pregnancy test or a sonogram.
💯 agree.. I had that feeling from day one when he was "on the phone call" didnt believe it🤷♀️
exactamondo!!! I dn beline ex gf was preggo.. just a easy way out for cars..so he thought....
I can’t believe this was a hard decision for her tbh but c’est la vie I guess 🤷🏾♀️
C est la vie ? No they re both confused. I can not belive it took 6 hours to take that decision. Ils sont malades Chris est malade et s amuse avec Paige. Paige is a toy to her. Un gros jouet
@@Milyme83 her self esteem is so loooow voilà pourquoi elle est plus facile à manipuler. Glad she get out of this mess tho 🤷🏾♀️ Aimez vous les gens 🗣
@@meganelib8500Oh my God yes her self esteem is so low, under her feet that she is walkingn on it. C est terrible de voir cette femme brisée à ce point and Despreate. Chris est fake jusqu au os. When he cried about the miscarrage. It was all about Chris. I wonder what his parents think. Si ces parents le soutienne c est que eux aussi ont des problèmes. Please people this is a great example to what no do. Thanks to Paige unfortunalty
DON'T IGNORE THE RED FLAGS!
LOVE IS A DAILY DECISION THAT CAN'T BE TAKEN FOR GRANITE
They are well past red flags!! There are giant stop signs in her face. There are Run don't walk signs surrounding her.
CAN'T BE TAKEN FOR MARBLE EITHER. (Sorry, I had to)
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@@christina2311 🤣🤣🤣 Autocorrect is trifling like Chris.
@@BreatheLifeNaturalHair 😂😂😂😂😂😂
I cry for Paige I just can’t. She needs to choose herself & leave him please!
I’m glad we’ll never have to see Chris again. He got way too much screen time.
Yep you are so right he made me nauseous
Doctor wont having it 😂😂😂 she forgot bout the 📷 for a second thats what u call "calling a man out" that need to hold some accountability for his decisions( 2day right now hurry up😂😂) instead he draging how long he thought he could smh
Smh!! How hard is It To say you want A Divorce from Chris?? He Been Playing you Since Day 1.. Paige was Smiling so big About everything Chris was telling her.. Chris only Trying to keep Her around because His Ex had A miscarriage..
I would have left right after the ceremony
agreed! paige is beyond stupid af! smdh
Achundris you are so right she was smiling like a jester cat to every word he said, if he got on his knee and said come back to me she would have told the MAFS people that's all she needs to hear and iam staying marry.
+ the EX doesn’t want Chris back!!
I was so nervous she was going to stay. He was still controlling saying they can't make a decision. She made the right decision
At this point I don't care what happens to paige..because she knows‼️
paige is beyond pathetic! smh
@Be Awriter please stop insulting women who are in abusive relationships by comparing them to these strangers who have options choices and were in no way close to having the issues abused women and men are faced with.
This is why it is SOOOO important to love yourself BEFORE getting married! This man has shown that he is NOT fully invested and that SHOULD be the dealbreaker for Paige. I really hope that she heals from this.
That smile that she had on her face at the end is PRICELESS !!!! I’m happy for you Paige❤️
1. Think everyone was thinking what Dr. Vivian was saying
2. Chris deserved that and much more
3. After all he put her through I can’t believe he expected her to stay married to him
4. Paige looks amazing 😻
This man is quick to anger, at any reaction that opposes his own. She should exit the marriage. Both playing games at the reunion as well. Smh
I think she likes being a victim at this point.
She may have a healthy self-esteem, but she doesn't understand how boundaries work in a relationship and she doesn't have solid assertiveness skills. Match those two things with a strong belief that an invisible sky daddy set her and Chris up to be married ("everything happens for a reason" fallacy) and she ended up in a dangerous and sad emotional trap.
Paige is a very sad soul. How in the world are you so desperate to be with this man that you are lowering yourself ? This disrespectful, lair, a person who thinks he is all that . No young lady please respect yourself. You have cheapened yourself for too long wake up from your sleep because god never ever put u2 together.
These are the ladies who are in domestic violence relationships with kids involved. It hurts me to see women choose this lifestyle.
Your right, the experts put them together ✝️♥️✝️
Because of her belief in a supernatural being, she tolerated his monstrous behavior. She kept thinking that 'god' put her with him for a 'reason.' Just shows how beliefs in false things can hurt you.
The way she flipped that hair when she said get a divorce...YESSSSSS LOL
I just can’t feel bad for her anymore. She knows he’s using her and she’s seems content with being used to stay in his life. So it’s on her now
Paige didnt have to balls to say no...she might be in love with the idea of just being married than being married to the right person. This man's straight up messing with her and she's letting him. It's like she thinks she won't ever get married again so she keeps holding on, hoping it'll work out. It's okay to let go if it's not for u.
Everyone watching when Dr. Viviana spoke up-
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When she was like I feel like you're trying to play with us...👏👏👏👏👏👏 I'm like somebody had to say it!
So proud of her for choosing herself 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Chris did not want to look bad on tv. He is a narcissist. He don't want her. But he don't want to look bad on final show!!!
She finally spoke up for herself, and made a GREAT decision.
My care level is down concerning this Sista well being, she has been “Grown long enough to Realize, “Your New Found Hubby is a Clown” My Question is Why is she Allowing this BS !!! O.o
paige is a total moron! lol smh
She may have a healthy self-esteem, but she doesn't understand how boundaries work in a relationship and she doesn't have solid assertiveness skills. Match those two things with a strong belief that an invisible sky daddy set her and Chris up to be married ("everything happens for a reason" fallacy) and she ended up in a dangerous and sad emotional trap.
Little does she know she had so much power in the moment when she said no to that awful marriage. Chris is the type of person that can't stand the idea of someone leaving him. Look at his face. 🤢He is the type of person that would get back with someone just to dump them or cheat on them 🙄
Watch her go back and still be with this guy. I believe we women have to go through so much hardship to the point of breaking before we can leave a bad situation for good. This is Paige’s journey
& she didn’t 🥰
FINALLY! I know that wasn't proper protocol for the therapist to interject and object like that, but he WAS playing w/her heart and mind, and that's not right. I hope Paige finds herself and a worthy man for her.
The therapist did a good job calling him out on his bs, you could tell the other two wanted to say something too, and they should have. All of America need to see this guy for who & what he really is.
I'm so glad Viviana stood up for her and to him. She recognized his mess and called him out on it.
Chris wanted her to end it, that’s how much of a manipulative he is. He’s been playing these mind games since day 1. He’s actually happy that she ended it.
How could she sit on that couch crying about it's too much for her and the word NO not be a part of anything coming out of her mouth? Edit: Okay she said no but now we have to wait for the reunion show to see if she stood by what she said.
Undecided??? What??? This made me sick to my stomach. I hope she never let someone treat her like that again. Know you worth beautiful black queen!
Chris seems so unhappy with himself, I am glad Paige said no.
The way he said we are undecided and just automatically silencing her by speaking for her is beyond me
I was so upset with Paige. She is the whole package and that she let Chris talk and hold her hostage. I pray she doesn't give him a second chance. He has shown who he is and she needs to move on. This guy is a narcissist. He doesn't care about her and has been playing everybody from the beginning.
I hate how any time Chris says sorry she starts cheesing like a Cheshire Cat as if to say “see he has changed!” He actively treated her like trash from the start, called her unattractive to her face, continued conversation with an ex (baby or not, that’s disrespectful), left her, been aggressively angry when called out even to women which is a HUGE red flag and basically told her only redeeming quality was her butt and a spiritual attraction! I really hope the experts got her some help because I guarantee she’s still messing with him. It’s so sad and seems like she had little to no outside support from friends or family this entire time. Makes me wonder if she’s been in similar situations and either didn’t want to hear what anyone said or pushed everyone away. There’s no reason she should have allowed a stranger to treat her this way and on national tv.
Excuse me while I throw up. He wanted to be able to say it first, then she pulled the plug. She wins no award for adding to the drama of all of this.
IM SO HAPPY SHE CALLED IT QUITS ❤️🥰
She does not truly love herself sounds cliche but she doesn’t. She is settling for being second option..now that his first choice isn’t going according to plan he wants her back..
Paige explained it. She's not a push over. She just doesn't want to give up on something she put her all to. She doesn't run from the bad. She would be such a great wife to a very lucky man some day.
She likes getting played by Chris but they're going to end up being together but off cameras
Wat?
Yes for sure
Yup
this is not fair thats emotional manipulation on his part he is a weak man and she is not self aware at all and cant read people i dont think she has dated lyk a healthy way
He is a narcissist. In the midst of being abused by a narcissist, you don’t realize it . She is addicted to the return everytime he leaves, the compliments after the insults, and worse , he is a religious narc, which means he uses God as a weapon to kwwp her near, and bc she is big on faith, she THINKS God would want her to stay and put up with his BS
He sat there an said he don’t like her face previously...girl you a fool
More than once even!!! Boy bye!
I like how Dr V called Chris out on his bs. Chris is so evil and mean. This fool really called Paige ugly to her face. Paige needs some counseling. She is not ready to be in a marriage right. I pray that she finds her self esteem and self worth. This so sad to see my beautiful black sista crying over spoil milk. Its time for her to wake up and get her glow back on chile. Drop that zero sista.
🤦🏾♀️why he still on here
Right!?!? And me...🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️
I've been with someone like Chris,it's was many years ago,,people like Chris make my stomach hurt he's not attracted to her face,but she attractive supply for him .
Paige, wake up. That man doesn’t respect or honor you. He has no self-control. He’s emotionally abusive to you. A man that is quick to anger is dangerous!
Vuviana is the hero of this. Thank you for standing up. Alllllll Love sis!
I’m not buying it yet. I think Paige is still in some type of relationship with Chris.
🤣🤣🤣🤣 sameee
That klingon forehead and cro magnon seperated eyes make me laugh 🤣🤣🤣🤣
What factors contribute to the undecidedness.....there was absolutely nothing the viewers saw that even almost made this match a MAF
manipulation. He wanted to use her as a security blanket and she wanted him to like her so she’s gonna do whatever he says
He told her to her face he wasn’t attracted to her. If a man was to say that to me ever that’s a goodbye automatically. Why would you stay? And he talked how she was not a price to her friends. That’s humiliating and so belittling.
The biggest blessing is that Paige did not have children with this guy. I hope she's reading all the comments on this video and realising she needs to take her time and go into another relationship only when she's ready knowing her value and what her deal breakers are. She literally has ZERO boundaries
Girrrlll! Wake up and smell the coffee the house is burning 😂🤣😂
I no longer feel for Paige. The minute a man tells you he doesn't want you is the minute you leave.
What’s confusing me is if Chris thinks she’s so “unattractive” then why not leave her? why drag her along ???
How on earth did they match this sweet girl with this monster? Worst match ever, she deserves so much more!
Agree completely with you! He definitely came off as a man who NO WOMAN should be with. He is toxic.
I thought "the experts" did a horrible job with all the matches this season.
Those Counselors should feel bad. I would be like i require financial compensation. and mental compensation
I've watched nonsense in my life, but nothing as bad as MAFS season 12, SPECIFICALLY Chris and Paige. I'll watch Pooty Tang on repeat before I watch a minute more of this.
Thats going too far!
@@alb5801 😂 at least you know it's fiction though
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Im so glad the lady the yellow spoke up...shes a marriage and family counselor and im sure she saw this marriage as a developing domestic violence case...good on her for speaking up to save Paige. Some victims don't realize they are victims and thats usually stock home syndrome settling in. Paige im happy you left and your future kids will be better off wothout him as theor father.