Everyone attacking this young lady about being with 2 men at the same time. But we all just going to ignore he's 20 with 5 kids. What's wrong with this picture? 🤔
I’m 36 and still thinking should I have baby or not and he is only 20 and have five kids. I just wonder why they know that condoms does exist. Let alone leave the pregnancy on side what about STDs.
I feel like he do got too many potential kids but if he still step up n said he the father then it ain't nothing wrong long as u handling business but the girl she put herself in the situation bout who could b the daddy
THANK YOU, HE NOT ONLY HAS 5 CHILDREN AT THE AGE OF 20. IT LOOKS LIKE HIS NO. 1 GIFT IS WHISPERING SWEET LITTLE I LOVE YOU 🐂💩💩💩💩 LIES IN THE EARS OF ALL THESE YOUNG WOMENS...I DON'T RECALL HIM SAYING THAT HE HAS BEEN WORKING DAY AND NIGHT IN AN EFFORT TO SUPPORT ALL OF HIS CHILDREN, THATS WHAT REAL DADDYS DO. MAYBE HIS FUTURE GOAL IS TO BE A ROLLING STONE JUST LIKE; PAPA WAS A ROLLING STONE WHERE EVER HE LEAVES HIS HAT IS HIS HOME. IF HE DOESN'T STOP, HE MAY END UP IN JAIL DUE TO ALL THE CHILD SUPPORT THAT HE IS GOING TO BE RESPONSIBLE FOR...
How "charming". Did your spirit "move" when you understood this 20 year-old, abysmally ignorant, undereducated, unemployed, no home training, uninvolved financially w his children, and will have zero possibility of adequately supporting the 5 babies he's created, in the future? Please refer back to this reply in the future: This young man will NEVER amount to anything that REMOTELY resembles a "responsible adult". His children will be fed and housed by the government. This young man and his mother are simply another example that proves the existense of individuals that believe "everyone ELSE" should pay for this kid to "pollenate" the state. Sickening.
@@videoconcierge Yes, unfortunately this happens. I wonder how a lot of these young people would have turned out if there ancestors would have been left in Africa. We will never know will we and that too is what is sad.
RELJ, we aren't going to claim that about women. Our young men need to strap it up too. The road run both ways!! Mothers need to educate their children--- Male and female.
Where’s HIS father telling him to wrap it up and stop sleeping around?? Hmmm telling him there’s nothing MANLY about having 5 👶🏾👧🏿🧒🏽👦🏽👱🏿♀️potential children all over his town?!?!
God I hate those mothers up there defending their sons like this. He's out here 20 years old with five kids and mom acting like he's an angel. She's his problem.
For her mom NOT to be with her daughter when she gave birth explains what caused the girl's low self esteem. She was trying desperately (as many young women do) to feel special, loved, and cared about. Really sad commentary😭
Her mom said she did not go because she didn't support her actions. Clearly she is there now, and she has a father around. A parent can do everything text book right and these situations can happen. Everything is not a parent's fault.
If I'm preaching to my daughter every day that its best to wait to be doing adult actions when she's an adult or she gonna be dealing with adult situations and problems at a young age. If she dont listen then I might do the same cuz if I go into a delivery room with her imma say to her every cm she go up and every cramp she feels, YOU CAN'T HEAR, YOU WILL SURELY FEEL. if that makes me a bad mother then so be it. Call me what you want. I know that I've preached to both my 17 year old son and 15 year old daughter, day in and day out. They have seen me struggle with and without their father and that's something they should not want for themselves.
Right or wrong my daughter knows I'm going to always be there. They are not perfect and as parents we're not perfect,but you can bet your last dollar when it comes to my children I will be there for them until I take my last breath.
She was holding it in until she couldn't take it anymore!!! That boy got FIVE babies by most likely 5 girls, and was working on number 6 before he got sent to prison. My God, what's wrong???!!!!
when she was talking about how he doesn’t care about her and he was her first love, and his mom is standing next to him while he laughs at her. he needed to be smacked in front of everyone.
dallas tx children learn through positive and negative reinforcement. It’s cold, but it’s best for her daughter in the long run to live in the consequences of her teenaged pregnancy.
Actually, went and looked her up and she’s not had any other children! Also saw a picture of a graduation package, so she’s furthered her education! She meant it when she said “lesson learnt”.
It's very interesting how so many women are attacking this young girl and turning a blind eye to the 20 year old man with 5 kids. Shameful how woman tear each other down so often. I hope she'll learn to be a good mother to her son and teach him and guide him on the right path.
It's always the same thing. They vilify the woman and empower these good for nothing men. It's really sad to witness this kind of thing in this day and age. All that freedom many women black or white have fought to bring us and we ignorantly spit in their faces. Ella Baker, Joséphine Baker, Maya Angelou, Beverly Bond, Shirley Chisholm, Emily Pankhurst to name a few.
There's some grown folks that need to be given this advice, as well. And the nerve of the mama to claim that the other 4 children are not his, when they don't know for sure. Smh
Am still baffled at why the Producer failed to acknowledge Lauren Lake at the Emmy awards. She keeps it real and that captivates the audience. Well done Judge!
Judge Lake has out done herself with this episode! By far the realist episode I’ve seen thus far. She’s definitely a boss in her courtroom. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👩🏾⚖️ 💪🏾
You are so right she totally dropped the truth on this episode. What she said about what occurred during slavery time was right on point. If you do not believe her please run to your nearest library and check out a few books.
I was almost 30 when I had my one and only child and my mother did not show up either. My mother had never been in my life but I did have expectations of her changing that, needless to say I was disappointed. These types of mothers really do exist
@@thejourney4445I am so sorry. I stayed in the hospital room with my daughter (I didn’t trust her husband) until she was discharged. Even though she had her baby, she was and is, still my baby and I made sure she was alright.
And please stress the point of staying in school this young man sounds like he may have about a 3rd grade education I will never forget the entire time I was growing up my mother stressed that more than anything even to the point of threatening to come to my school for entire day and sit through every one of my classes if need be what happen to that type of tough love it should still exist and would solve so many of these problems we see in today's society!!!!!!
Honestly it really is. I started watching these clips when I was about 19 during the beginning of the pendulum and I saw that this and whatever is going down on divorce court isn’t what I want to and to try to listen to their advice. I am 20 now btw and me and my boyfriend seem to be doing well and I use their advice especially when it comes to communication
@@ddnquestion1 I'm late but yes. My son is a junior in high school and he's on honor roll. He plays sports and he has a job. He wants to go to trade school after he graduates, which I applaud. College isn't for everyone but knowledge is universal. We are an educated family and that will continue. We've been building his credit also. He will not be a statistic. 💪🏾💯
@@shailaadia974 That's good to hear.! These shows are entertaining but they're really eye openers.. we can talk and talk until our lips are blue but I've noticed that teenagers need to see, witness and experience things before they totally understand. One mishap can change your entire life.
You not!! 😂 Both of them need to stay in school and learn the definition of a word before coming on TV and embarrassing themselves in front of millions of people! I had to double-take like...whattt...did he just misuse that word and nobody bothered to correct him?!! SMH
MsTna, MsTna, according to Jnel Comedy, "Jerome is dah boss." Never mind the trail of broken lives behind him. I wish that there was a biological mechanism that provents men with that mindset to be automatically sterile.
And the mother who says "they not his" Thats why he continues to do it! Mama don't even know how to act, take responsibility that you didn't teach your son proper precautions, nor tech him to man up and realize he had a part in it too!
Not just smiling, he started out laughing and that is what (I think) got Judge Lake started. She didn't say anything at first, but she let him have it at the end.
@@TheSouthernbellebeau Exactly, they're probably ALL his. He's not trying to prevent them, so why is momma being so defensive? He knows what he did with those girls, momma needs to let him OWN his responsibility.
I look up to this woman so much, I’m happy she tells people to stop messing around and make something of themselves. It may not be what some want to hear but it sure is something they need to hear
They needed it. It is so sad to see such beautiful kids who are smart and can do anything, spend their time making babies they cannot afford instead of making something out of themselves. Hopefully they both took it to heart.
Clearly the parents didn't know how to delivery the message of tough love so it was appropriately relayed by the judge. This is why alot of kids are so lost today bc they don't listen to adults. If their parents don't say, they don't hear it and it still takes a village.
He was "away" ...jail ...and he got 5 kids at 20!? His mother seems to condone his behavior too. He's not gonna be there. She needs to start accepting the fact that she will continue to be a single mom.
Why are you assuming he was in jail? He could've been out of town handling business, on vacation, working, etc. The possibilities are endless, but people always have to jump to negative conclusions. I bet if he wasn't black, you wouldn't have said that.
No she doesn't have to accept that because it's not a fact, that's your opinion. She's still young and have time to learn! People are always trying to condemn somebody. Are you a prophet? You can see into the future? You have no idea what this child's future holds just as well you don't know what your fate or the fate of your children hold. You may be up today but that can all change in the blink of an eye!
@@taylorduvernay9789 Yes a lot of it. You can tell them better and they are stuck on that guy just like her. Its like they have a hold on them. It's like a soul tie they can't shake. If the parents don't teach them better then they won't break that soul tie. They will spend the rest of their life mistreating that child and others because he doesn't want her and with someone else.
His Momma better get the other ones checked.. Cause Omg.. He gonna keep going Regardless but at least for min he may strap up or learn few lessons.. I pray they ain't his for the sake of him and the children.. My cousin got 8 with 6 baby mothers and Lawd 🤦🏾.. he just learning to be real dad close to 40 with the two new ones.
@@kfoster3616 But I will not be surprise when tax time comes he'll be there wanting to collect, OR the minute they turn 18 he'll say he was searching for them etc. I really wish these young woman will wisen up!
Keep your legs closed until you have a union with a man by god and the government! I’m 25 next month, never once had a pregnancy scare or had to be worried I would catch an STD because no man is getting between my legs until we both say “I do”! They say abstinence does work, yet it has worked for me and millions of others! This show makes me feel even better about my decision.
But sadly enough we can't be too sure .... he prob laughing because in his head he's saying Girl i was just passing time with you now you taking it serious. These men. I hate being gender biased but it just hurt to see how vulnerable and naive this girl was and is
@@princeashtongreen5086 I doubt he does. Buying diapers and wipes is only a tiny fraction of what they need, but yet they want to brag about that. Yep, the girls' parents are the ones supporting those babies. It is NOT their responsibility. Anything they do for their grandbabies is a kindness in their hearts.
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If you makes you feel better Judge Lake I am 20 years old and a junior in college , I am a biology pre med major with a minor in public health and soon to be chemistry. Deans list , honors society , and 3 eBoard club positions. No babies , no boyfriend , none of that focused on being someone first. Amen 🙏🏽
Everytime that Mom in yellow says anything it pisses me off. Got the nerve to have an attitude in court but refused to support her daughter during the birth of her grandchild because she was having a hissy fit when the consequences of her own bad parenting showed up.
I had my daughter after I got my bachelors and went to get my masters when she was 1 year old. I’m now in the peak of my career and we are both doing very well. Her dad ended up bailing out and turning into a completely different person since then. She’s 5 now and he hasn’t seen her in nearly a year. We have been broken up for the last 3 years. But, I have a fiancé now who takes good care of her and has risen to the occasion of being her father and my soon to be husband. Life is not perfect and sometimes things don’t go according to plan. I never expected I’d be a single mother and marrying someone else who is not the father of my child. But honestly, even with that, my life is really really great. I travel the world with my daughter and take her to see so much. I also travel with friends and my fiancé and I are headed to Rome next Summer. The support from my family is amazing too. No, I wasn’t married when my daughter was born, but I was stable and had a good head on my shoulders. Seeing these cases with some of these people makes me sad. They’re so young and have not lived life before popping out multiple kids left and right with just anybody. It’s sad.
I commend you on that so many young mothers dont try to push themselves to achieve when they start having children at young ages but its so nice to hear this may God continue to bless you and your child with happiness
And to the grandmother in the yellow ruffle neck blouse, I think it’s real foul that you wasn’t by your daughter’s side when she was in the hospital delivering her baby - regardless if you weren’t happy about the situation, what’s done is done and you should’ve at least been there for her at that moment. Smmfh 🤦🏻♀️
Shes there for here now and im sure always has been there regardless of the little information we have into these people's lives in 17:17 minutes/seconds. Obviously her daughter has forgiven her so that's all that matters.
They got JLL all frustrated and upset. Got her talking to Jerome any old kinda way. Jerome gimme the envelope! LOL Jerome has thick skin, and I love her passion. ❤
I can't support mom on not being at the hospital. This was your child's first baby. You need to be there mom. Period! Idgad what's going on that you don't like!
Right, her not being there was inexcusable. I wasn't even talking to my mother for months, but when my first was born, the entire fam was there, including her!
Shanticcs Gargoyel That’s right! That’s how it should be! This poor young mother cried the entire time and I’m sure it’s because she had felt rejected by everyone the whole pregnant and birthing experience. I feel so bad for her.
@Honest Citizen every president is biased. Our whole political institutions are biased lol that's how you become president. Can't be impartial to everything. Pick a side and make it make sense for everyone
@@ly3998 Because women are the ones that CONTROL their bodies or should anyway. These boys will be boys well into their 40s and unless these girls get schooled early, this cycle will NOT change. It may seem biased but women hold the key.
I rather respect Miss Short for being honest enough to call the paternity "a possibility" rather than ranting and raving about how this guy HAS to be the father. Women do that kind of thing all the time on these shows. This refreshing.
I agree, I'm so glad she didn't do that! "I'm ten thousand percent, I ain't been with no one else, he the daddy, look at his feet! They got the same ones!!(had to say that 😁) seriously, glad she was honest.
Yes. I'm wondering where these people come from. I don't understand how the parents AND the young kids can't formulate a proper sentence. Did you catch when he said he was there when the baby was conceived when he meant gave birth...😢 sad.
Yessss!!! That girl’s mother was on my nerve! Her daughter slept with two boys days apart & she had the nerve to say “it shouldn’t have taken this.” THIS, was definitely necessary! We know who the mom is... it’s the dad that’s in question. Then she was complaining about the 2 packages of diapers. Girl please!🙄 THEY (him & his mom) had NO legal/financial responsibility to that child UNTIL it was PROVEN that he is the biological parent. The boy’s mom was cool & collected. That lady in the yellow made me want to come through the phone on her.
I rebuke that comment in Jesus name. That young man will succeed in life and rise up to the calling that God has place in his life. He will spend the rest of his days fulfilling his destiny in Jesus name amen.
Judge Lake spit some knowledge on those kids, and moms!!! I mean she said perfectly- "...can't even string a sentence together." I will not call them ignorant because they are young; however, if they don't make some serious changes, that's exactly what they're going to be...
Yulp they sure was but wen you blind you really wouldnt give asf cuzz i didnt they told me to take them off but i said no my son broke them i got some more tho u can look at them on my facebook jamila deseray they straight
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"Mr Johnson doesn't care about me, why not", baby girl, care about yourself. Do not look for your value in a man.
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Facts 👏🏽
Say it LOUD. Brandy! Say it LOUD!! 📢📢
Truth!
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The judge gave them the speech their mothers should have given
She always does!
Your name is just like our naga name "aye"
Yes she did!!!
She said just what needed to be said. 💯
Amen
Everyone attacking this young lady about being with 2 men at the same time. But we all just going to ignore he's 20 with 5 kids. What's wrong with this picture? 🤔
I’m 36 and still thinking should I have baby or not and he is only 20 and have five kids. I just wonder why they know that condoms does exist. Let alone leave the pregnancy on side what about STDs.
Raquel Rod ...& he’s been “away”...we all know what that means...pfffff!
@@sandybrar2778 You better hurry up. The window is closing.
I feel like he do got too many potential kids but if he still step up n said he the father then it ain't nothing wrong long as u handling business but the girl she put herself in the situation bout who could b the daddy
THANK YOU, HE NOT ONLY HAS
5 CHILDREN AT THE AGE OF 20.
IT LOOKS LIKE HIS NO. 1 GIFT IS WHISPERING SWEET LITTLE
I LOVE YOU 🐂💩💩💩💩 LIES IN THE EARS OF ALL THESE YOUNG WOMENS...I DON'T RECALL HIM SAYING THAT HE HAS BEEN WORKING DAY AND NIGHT IN AN EFFORT TO SUPPORT ALL OF HIS CHILDREN, THATS WHAT REAL DADDYS DO. MAYBE HIS FUTURE GOAL IS TO BE A ROLLING STONE JUST LIKE; PAPA WAS A ROLLING STONE WHERE EVER HE LEAVES HIS HAT IS HIS HOME. IF HE DOESN'T STOP, HE MAY END UP IN JAIL DUE TO ALL THE CHILD SUPPORT THAT HE IS GOING TO BE RESPONSIBLE FOR...
My spirit moved when she told him that he does not have to be a baby factory and he has a future.
How "charming". Did your spirit "move" when you understood this 20 year-old, abysmally ignorant, undereducated, unemployed, no home training, uninvolved financially w his children, and will have zero possibility of adequately supporting the 5 babies he's created, in the future? Please refer back to this reply in the future: This young man will NEVER amount to anything that REMOTELY resembles a "responsible adult". His children will be fed and housed by the government. This young man and his mother are simply another example that proves the existense of individuals that believe "everyone ELSE" should pay for this kid to "pollenate" the state. Sickening.
@@videoconcierge
ok boomer
Exactly!
Historically ignorant statement by the judge
@@videoconcierge Yes, unfortunately this happens. I wonder how a lot of these young people would have turned out if there ancestors would have been left in Africa. We will never know will we and that too is what is sad.
Mother is 36, son 20 with 5 potential children... Lord send help and break this disgusting cycle
RELJ, we aren't going to claim that about women. Our young men need to strap it up too. The road run both ways!! Mothers need to educate their children--- Male and female.
jackie young . PERIOD , sis !
Amen from Germany
Where’s HIS father telling him to wrap it up and stop sleeping around?? Hmmm telling him there’s nothing MANLY about having 5 👶🏾👧🏿🧒🏽👦🏽👱🏿♀️potential children all over his town?!?!
I was a young mum and now have 2 Mokopuna (Grandys) It was hard I got divorced but I stoped breeding after the Divorce lol..
This Judge is the BOMB.. she is so real.
Yh true
its a cool character. but it aint real.
Yeah she put it down today almost thought she was running for President!!!!!
Correct sister Pepe
No she's not. She is a contradiction in just about every episode
God I hate those mothers up there defending their sons like this. He's out here 20 years old with five kids and mom acting like he's an angel. She's his problem.
don't forget JAIL...smh
She wasn't acting like he was an angel...what episode were you watching?
Strongest Current in the Hebrew Seas the same episode you watched!
Right don't forget he was in jail too
@@neesieb6772 yes she was she said she doesn't believe the other kids are his either. He can't even make a complete sentence and she was defending him
For her mom NOT to be with her daughter when she gave birth explains what caused the girl's low self esteem. She was trying desperately (as many young women do) to feel special, loved, and cared about. Really sad commentary😭
Her mom said she did not go because she didn't support her actions. Clearly she is there now, and she has a father around. A parent can do everything text book right and these situations can happen. Everything is not a parent's fault.
If I'm preaching to my daughter every day that its best to wait to be doing adult actions when she's an adult or she gonna be dealing with adult situations and problems at a young age. If she dont listen then I might do the same cuz if I go into a delivery room with her imma say to her every cm she go up and every cramp she feels, YOU CAN'T HEAR, YOU WILL SURELY FEEL. if that makes me a bad mother then so be it. Call me what you want. I know that I've preached to both my 17 year old son and 15 year old daughter, day in and day out. They have seen me struggle with and without their father and that's something they should not want for themselves.
So feeling special is to pass yourself around?
I was 22 when I had my son, and my mother was in the delivery room. No one was going to keep her out.
Right or wrong my daughter knows I'm going to always be there. They are not perfect and as parents we're not perfect,but you can bet your last dollar when it comes to my children I will be there for them until I take my last breath.
She was so mad she didn't even tell Jerome thanks for the envelope.
And snatched it too..... LOL!
@@SSWBJC1 yes!! Lollol
Yeah they ran her HOT 🔥 🔥 🔥!!
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She was holding it in until she couldn't take it anymore!!! That boy got FIVE babies by most likely 5 girls, and was working on number 6 before he got sent to prison. My God, what's wrong???!!!!
Jugde: "We are no longer on the plantation"...But some are living and behaving as if they are. I want to shout that statement from the rooftops.
Yes !!
Understand where the judge coming from
Blessed Woman 👏
Blessed Woman I wasn’t ready when she went there 🙌
Slavery behavior was never rooted out...
Judge went off today, I'm here for it! They needed to hear that
Amen!
when she was talking about how he doesn’t care about her and he was her first love, and his mom is standing next to him while he laughs at her. he needed to be smacked in front of everyone.
She smacked him when he got smart with girl's mother
This comment right here is he winner though🏆🏆🏆💯
Why should his mom care?
Agreed. He is horrible
He was smiling because he didn’t hear the whole story yet. He was ready to tell his side.
That little boy has the most BEAUTIFUL SKIN. Dark Chocolate
Thank youu
Riiiight he’s a handsome kid🖤
Yes he does 😍 handsome self 🍫
Yessssss....he does❤️So handsome
FYYNE!!! 😍
the mother should had been there for her daughter in that hospital room, regardless of the situation: period.
dallas tx children learn through positive and negative reinforcement. It’s cold, but it’s best for her daughter in the long run to live in the consequences of her teenaged pregnancy.
Actually, went and looked her up and she’s not had any other children! Also saw a picture of a graduation package, so she’s furthered her education! She meant it when she said “lesson learnt”.
Stop crying 😁
Krystal Cameron Praise God! 🙌🏾🙌🏾❤️praying she succeeds and becomes the best she can be in this world
Thank you
When she said you two can't even string two sentences together hahahahaha! I straight DIED!
Its just a truly sad situation😢
Precious Pringle I was also thinking the same thing broken 🤔
She told the truth.
Sad actually
Man I swear I skipped through it because of that. Embarrassing
Imagine being a grandmother 5 times over at 36, the ghetto. SMH. My mom is nearly 60 and begging us for grandchildren.
Facts
He needs to make sure all those children are his. There are DNA tests you can buy.
Hahahahhaahahaj
My mom is 70 with no grandchildren
Me too
Pause he definitely thought conceived meant to see the baby born. bless him lord
@@HappyH4ppyHappy 😂😂😂
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I sigh
😜🤪 I forgot about that 😅😀😆😅
I heard that. I was like 🤔
It's very interesting how so many women are attacking this young girl and turning a blind eye to the 20 year old man with 5 kids. Shameful how woman tear each other down so often. I hope she'll learn to be a good mother to her son and teach him and guide him on the right path.
Almost every comments I saw was about the guy and his 5 children, so I don't know what you're talking about
Both of these kids have big problems, which hopefully can be remedied with therapy and co-parenting.
It's always the same thing. They vilify the woman and empower these good for nothing men. It's really sad to witness this kind of thing in this day and age. All that freedom many women black or white have fought to bring us and we ignorantly spit in their faces. Ella Baker, Joséphine Baker, Maya Angelou, Beverly Bond, Shirley Chisholm, Emily Pankhurst to name a few.
Because thats what most black people do......
Mary White I don’t completely agreed,children do a lot behind parents back too
I love how she encourages young people to quit sleeping around and go make something of yourself.
Exactly
There's some grown folks that need to be given this advice, as well. And the nerve of the mama to claim that the other 4 children are not his, when they don't know for sure. Smh
Mama acting like she was the bed so she knows for sure!! Go sit ur a** in that corner and be quiet!!
He needs to buy four DNA kits and find out if they're his.
Am still baffled at why the Producer failed to acknowledge Lauren Lake at the Emmy awards. She keeps it real and that captivates the audience. Well done Judge!
It was the definition of a "snub". He even thanked the make up artist 😳😳😳
He's another CLOWN-MAN that's why.😒
WE ARE ALL STILL MAD!
Me too
I'm still mad months later. Sucka ish
Judge Lake is preaching on this episode!!! *grabs MLK church fan* YOU BETTA TELL’EM GIRL!!!!
😂😂😂 not the MLK fan!! 😂😂😂
FitNaturalQueen MO Is that fan sponsored by the local funeral home? If it ain’t, it ain’t real! :-)
FitNaturalQueen MO
PREACH!!
Go off Judge Lake!!!
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Judge Lake has out done herself with this episode! By far the realist episode I’ve seen thus far. She’s definitely a boss in her courtroom. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👩🏾⚖️ 💪🏾
Chrissy 101 ok they needed to hear the truth she couldn't hold her compusure 💯💯💯💯
You are so right she totally dropped the truth on this episode. What she said about what occurred during slavery time was right on point. If you do not believe her please run to your nearest library and check out a few books.
You said it all ❤
I CANNOT believe the mother did not go to the hospital when she had the baby. That’s disgusting
I was almost 30 when I had my one and only child and my mother did not show up either. My mother had never been in my life but I did have expectations of her changing that, needless to say I was disappointed. These types of mothers really do exist
@@thejourney4445I am so sorry. I stayed in the hospital room with my daughter (I didn’t trust her husband) until she was discharged. Even though she had her baby, she was and is, still my baby and I made sure she was alright.
@@donnaevans5131us kids never stop being our mama’s babies 😊 . Ever lol
Whew child.. I can't wait to show my teenage son this episode.. this is surely a wake up call for this generation.
Yes that of you our young people need to know the important of making babies while their children themselve.
And please stress the point of staying in school this young man sounds like he may have about a 3rd grade education I will never forget the entire time I was growing up my mother stressed that more than anything even to the point of threatening to come to my school for entire day and sit through every one of my classes if need be what happen to that type of tough love it should still exist and would solve so many of these problems we see in today's society!!!!!!
Honestly it really is. I started watching these clips when I was about 19 during the beginning of the pendulum and I saw that this and whatever is going down on divorce court isn’t what I want to and to try to listen to their advice. I am 20 now btw and me and my boyfriend seem to be doing well and I use their advice especially when it comes to communication
@@ddnquestion1 I'm late but yes. My son is a junior in high school and he's on honor roll. He plays sports and he has a job. He wants to go to trade school after he graduates, which I applaud. College isn't for everyone but knowledge is universal. We are an educated family and that will continue. We've been building his credit also. He will not be a statistic. 💪🏾💯
@@shailaadia974 That's good to hear.! These shows are entertaining but they're really eye openers.. we can talk and talk until our lips are blue but I've noticed that teenagers need to see, witness and experience things before they totally understand. One mishap can change your entire life.
"Imma drop a dime, matter of fact a dollar now pick this up" BARS!!!!!!!!!
Kenneth Robinson yes!!
Yasss😂
Don Demarco
Paternity court need to be part of high schools and college curriculum to graduated😎😎
Preach!
so right!
I agree. Bc some parents dont talk to their kids abt things like this.
Yes!!!!!!! ✊✊
Your comment needs to be pinned and high lighted!!!! 🙏
This show need to keep going. It was so educational unlike the other shows.
This Judge is great! She would make a wonderful Motivational speaker for teens and young adults.
I believe she does motivational speaking.
Yes
I agree
Her motivation is "Living A Limitless Life". She's smart, classy, beautiful and self assured.
Definitely
Am I the only one who heard him say he was there to see the baby conceived🤔
Heehee! I heard it too. It was like he was admitting to being the father without realizing it. He meant he was at the birth.
Yep!😂💀💀💀
😩😩😩😩😩
You not!! 😂 Both of them need to stay in school and learn the definition of a word before coming on TV and embarrassing themselves in front of millions of people! I had to double-take like...whattt...did he just misuse that word and nobody bothered to correct him?!! SMH
Girl yes 😂😂😂🤣🤣
That young man should be ashamed of himself nothing cool about having 5 babies with different woman , he’s there smiling about it.
And he's 20.. can you believe it???SMH
MsTna, MsTna, according to Jnel Comedy, "Jerome is dah boss." Never mind the trail of broken lives behind him. I wish that there was a biological mechanism that provents men with that mindset to be automatically sterile.
And the mother who says "they not his" Thats why he continues to do it! Mama don't even know how to act, take responsibility that you didn't teach your son proper precautions, nor tech him to man up and realize he had a part in it too!
Not just smiling, he started out laughing and that is what (I think) got Judge Lake started. She didn't say anything at first, but she let him have it at the end.
@@TheSouthernbellebeau Exactly, they're probably ALL his. He's not trying to prevent them, so why is momma being so defensive? He knows what he did with those girls, momma needs to let him OWN his responsibility.
I look up to this woman so much, I’m happy she tells people to stop messing around and make something of themselves. It may not be what some want to hear but it sure is something they need to hear
The judge dropped all that knowledge. So much wisdom
This was my best episode because of the knowledge she put out there
She always does
That was the best way to put it. This episode was just Perfect, they needed that dose.
I love her
They got a pretty good tongue lashing from the judge it should’ve came from the parents maybe that would’ve kept them out of this mess.
Generational. Boy's mother is 36, and he's 20. 20 with possibly 5 kids...smdh
@@amymenjivar3489 Yes...it's terrible! That's crazy SMH
They needed it. It is so sad to see such beautiful kids who are smart and can do anything, spend their time making babies they cannot afford instead of making something out of themselves. Hopefully they both took it to heart.
Yup
Clearly the parents didn't know how to delivery the message of tough love so it was appropriately relayed by the judge. This is why alot of kids are so lost today bc they don't listen to adults. If their parents don't say, they don't hear it and it still takes a village.
He was "away" ...jail ...and he got 5 kids at 20!? His mother seems to condone his behavior too. He's not gonna be there. She needs to start accepting the fact that she will continue to be a single mom.
Why are you assuming he was in jail? He could've been out of town handling business, on vacation, working, etc. The possibilities are endless, but people always have to jump to negative conclusions. I bet if he wasn't black, you wouldn't have said that.
They are part of the permanent black underclass.
Mom looks like she's saying I'm only here so I don't get fined!!! She done Checked out long time ago!!!
No she doesn't have to accept that because it's not a fact, that's your opinion. She's still young and have time to learn! People are always trying to condemn somebody. Are you a prophet? You can see into the future? You have no idea what this child's future holds just as well you don't know what your fate or the fate of your children hold. You may be up today but that can all change in the blink of an eye!
Kay, she will be a single mom of that boy. No negative condemnation....that's just the facts.
"I don't know whether I should put you on punishment or hug you" - I love thi judge
I felt the same way😢😢😢
I work with girls like her, it's sad😪😪
@@e_shawilliams599 that can't be an easy job. I am sure that needs patience and wisdom. Strength to you🤗
@@taylorduvernay9789 Yes a lot of it. You can tell them better and they are stuck on that guy just like her. Its like they have a hold on them. It's like a soul tie they can't shake. If the parents don't teach them better then they won't break that soul tie. They will spend the rest of their life mistreating that child and others because he doesn't want her and with someone else.
"Can't put two sentences together " So sad 2018.
imaslowlerner Would be sad even for 1018.
That's same thing I was thinking! Ridiculous!
😂 She was throwing shade @that letter he wrote
That’s the part that shocked me the most
Judge dropped not just a dime, not just a dollar, but a freaking $100 bill.
Niamh-Creates baby she went there.. they needed that.. plus whomever read this...
Yep, I totally agree.
Yes, Lord! Amen!
Yes ma'am! I was in the amen corner!!!!
THAT made me subscribe!!
5 kids and you can't even buy alcohol 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
His Momma better get the other ones checked.. Cause Omg.. He gonna keep going Regardless but at least for min he may strap up or learn few lessons.. I pray they ain't his for the sake of him and the children.. My cousin got 8 with 6 baby mothers and Lawd 🤦🏾.. he just learning to be real dad close to 40 with the two new ones.
He didn't need alcohol he needs Rubbers Rubbers and more Rubbers 😄😃😁😆😉😀😃😄😉😆😁😂😅😂
He don't need alcohol. He needs condoms!!!
@@PS1652 I bet he'll never pay child support for any of them....
@@kfoster3616 But I will not be surprise when tax time comes he'll
be there wanting to collect, OR the minute they turn 18 he'll say
he was searching for them etc. I really wish these young woman
will wisen up!
Young ladies: this is what misogynists do. They laugh at your feelings. Keep your legs closed until you are sure about a man's intentions.
💯
Keep your legs closed until you have a union with a man by god and the government! I’m 25 next month, never once had a pregnancy scare or had to be worried I would catch an STD because no man is getting between my legs until we both say “I do”! They say abstinence does work, yet it has worked for me and millions of others! This show makes me feel even better about my decision.
But sadly enough we can't be too sure .... he prob laughing because in his head he's saying Girl i was just passing time with you now you taking it serious. These men. I hate being gender biased but it just hurt to see how vulnerable and naive this girl was and is
@@CHloE748 You are so right......
I agree and that boy is also very immature. Hopefully, the judge's speech will help him to change his outlook on life.
🤣🤣🤣 “The fact that you’re in the runninnnnng” 🤦🏽♀️
🤣🤣🤣
Right! And he thinks having 5 kids is something to smile about 🤦🏽♀️
@@neicielove Well, if he takes care of them, that's a totally diffrent story.
@@princeashtongreen5086 I doubt he does. Buying diapers and wipes is only a tiny fraction of what they need, but yet they want to brag about that. Yep, the girls' parents are the ones supporting those babies. It is NOT their responsibility. Anything they do for their grandbabies is a kindness in their hearts.
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If you makes you feel better Judge Lake I am 20 years old and a junior in college , I am a biology pre med major with a minor in public health and soon to be chemistry. Deans list , honors society , and 3 eBoard club positions. No babies , no boyfriend , none of that focused on being someone first. Amen 🙏🏽
U going places ......Maybe she loved the one eyed worm so she let them bore her all over. ..
Thank you! and Lol right !
Keep Going, Doll!!! Proud of you!!!
Amen baby girl. I am VERY proud of you.
Bravooo
One of the best speeches by the judge. These kids needed to hear what she told them.
I felt everything she said in my spirit.i think this so much these moms got their heads outta their butts.
Everytime that Mom in yellow says anything it pisses me off. Got the nerve to have an attitude in court but refused to support her daughter during the birth of her grandchild because she was having a hissy fit when the consequences of her own bad parenting showed up.
Exactly then admitted she stopped letting him coming around because she didn’t want him to get attached if it wasn’t
I swear she got on my nerves so bad…
I just wrote a comment about this, that ladies whole essence seems not right to me for doing that.
Correct!!!! She seems very cynical
I had my daughter after I got my bachelors and went to get my masters when she was 1 year old. I’m now in the peak of my career and we are both doing very well. Her dad ended up bailing out and turning into a completely different person since then. She’s 5 now and he hasn’t seen her in nearly a year. We have been broken up for the last 3 years. But, I have a fiancé now who takes good care of her and has risen to the occasion of being her father and my soon to be husband. Life is not perfect and sometimes things don’t go according to plan. I never expected I’d be a single mother and marrying someone else who is not the father of my child. But honestly, even with that, my life is really really great. I travel the world with my daughter and take her to see so much. I also travel with friends and my fiancé and I are headed to Rome next Summer.
The support from my family is amazing too. No, I wasn’t married when my daughter was born, but I was stable and had a good head on my shoulders. Seeing these cases with some of these people makes me sad. They’re so young and have not lived life before popping out multiple kids left and right with just anybody. It’s sad.
You give me power thx
That's why we have to get to know a good man and get married first ijs
I commend you on that so many young mothers dont try to push themselves to achieve when they start having children at young ages but its so nice to hear this may God continue to bless you and your child with happiness
Who asked for your life story??....
Congratulations to you.
And to the grandmother in the yellow ruffle neck blouse, I think it’s real foul that you wasn’t by your daughter’s side when she was in the hospital delivering her baby - regardless if you weren’t happy about the situation, what’s done is done and you should’ve at least been there for her at that moment. Smmfh 🤦🏻♀️
I was thinking the same thing. That was really sad.
True - too much interference from her. She needs to MHOB and let them sort it out.
Shes there for here now and im sure always has been there regardless of the little information we have into these people's lives in 17:17 minutes/seconds. Obviously her daughter has forgiven her so that's all that matters.
@@saltysoul73 👍👍👍👍
The mother should have been raising her daughter more and stop trying to over compensate being a mother now.
“When I was away” smfh just say when you were locked up 😒 and with five babies
Was searching the comments to see if anyone else picked that up.... Bout away like he was somewhere working r vacation 😂😂😂
@Mary White really!! is that wat that means (im from the UK)
Now that I think about it that's exactly right! I was wondering why he was writing letters instead of texting.
@@sammymcc4249 me too lol. Like we know you're serving time.
😳😂Right!
Every child deserved a mother just like judge lake. She is a great mum. 😄
“BUT the fact that he is in the running!...”
Speak on it Judge Lake.
When he said I was there to see the baby “ conceived” I had to come straight to the comments!
Prophetess Jennetta Gilliam-Campbell well technically he was lol 😂
🤣🤣🤣
Same here I died 🤣
"cuh-cee'd"
Y'all ain't right 🤣🤣🤣 y'all ain't right !!!! Why his momma didn't correct him 🤣🤣🤣💀💀💀. These people vocabulary is awful!!
Lauren Lake literally drops knowledge to these children. I love her.
You are a blessing to these people. You are speaking truth and protecting youth. Thank you!
Being away...we know what that means!
Vacation at Club Med? Tour of duty in Afghanistan? Away at university?
Smash Marxism locked up I’m guessing lol
😂😂😂
Yes if you are a true family member of paternity court we know.😏
Smash Marxism
oh you funny
Daaaayyyyuuummmm! Judge said: "Matter of fact, I'mma drop a dollar. Now pick this up!" Lmboooooooo!
Sister Lauren preached!!!!!
They got JLL all frustrated and upset. Got her talking to Jerome any old kinda way. Jerome gimme the envelope! LOL Jerome has thick skin, and I love her passion. ❤
Judge was vexed. They deserved that telling off. Poor Jerome just caught the aftermath. 😂
It's his job if a man can't handle that he's 2018 soft
I watched it 3 times. I had chills! I loved that dollar she dropped. ❤️❤️
Hilarious!
Same thing i say... Poor Jerome getting buff for them ish
This speech was epic. Please bring this show back.
What kind of social worker is her mother? IF SHE IS THIS COLD WITH HER DAUGHTER HOW IS SHE WITH CLIENTS?
Right? Makes you wonder.
Fr tho
Ernestine Elzey Right! 🤔
Discipline first so this does happen again!
How are you?
I can't support mom on not being at the hospital. This was your child's first baby. You need to be there mom. Period! Idgad what's going on that you don't like!
I do agree with that.
Kayshaneil this whole situation screams dysfunction. The moms need to be better role mothers for their children.
Right, her not being there was inexcusable. I wasn't even talking to my mother for months, but when my first was born, the entire fam was there, including her!
Shanticcs Gargoyel That’s right! That’s how it should be! This poor young mother cried the entire time and I’m sure it’s because she had felt rejected by everyone the whole pregnant and birthing experience. I feel so bad for her.
Right...just throw the whole mom away
Judge said “you all cant even string together two complete sentences” 😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩
Am sorry, but I didn't get it.
Pls explain.
Thank you.
That part
Naaaaa fr and that should hurt because some younger kids sound even more better and smart.
Lauren Lake is simply the best judge I've ever watched on RUclips
The baby is so beautiful just love him and please take care of him.
Care about yourself more than any man, young Queen.
Yup better make sure that man knows your worth before you let him have ALL of you
They can't do what was never tough to them
It's sad that baby had to seek love & attention from those boys instead of getting it at home.
The judge was preaching in this one!! She’s amazing!
Amen. Preach it judge.
Judge Lake is everything!!! I love her honest advice for our young people! ❤❤❤
When she was reading that note, the secondhand embarrassment was real smh...Judge Lake preached today tho👏
I was embarrassed myself. That's ridiculous.
Girlllllllllllll 😂
That's why I ain't having no baby until I get my bachelor's and be financially stable.
And married?
Cici La'Shae excellent plan!!! I pray God tarries with you and sees that plan to fruition.
You go girl 🙌
Amen sister & married I need all 3
Ancient Hippy Rebel You don’t have to be married to have a child.
"I wAs dEa to see Da BaBy CoNceIveD" lol lord just stop talking ..
I'm glad I wasn't the only one who caught that 🤣
😳😳😳😂😂😂
Sad...
As the judge said, those two cannot string two words together to generate a sentence. Sad.
I believe it was more like “con-ceed”. I agree. Stop talking.
That speech by the Judge was EVERYTHING!! It should be played in all high schools!!
It should be played at the house first.
Your honor, you would make a great president 🇺🇸
@Honest Citizen every president is biased. Our whole political institutions are biased lol that's how you become president. Can't be impartial to everything. Pick a side and make it make sense for everyone
Amen
I'd happily vote for the judge!
I agree she is always attacking the young women and let the knuckle dude slide. I’ve noticed that a few times
@@ly3998 Because women are the ones that CONTROL their bodies or should anyway. These boys will be boys well into their 40s and unless these girls get schooled early, this cycle will NOT change. It may seem biased but women hold the key.
Not “Jerome give me that” 😂😂 my judge upset 👩⚖️
Ready the comments already
I was supposed to start cleaning an hour ago but I’m like I’ll start after one more 😂😂😂😂
Did you start cleaning yet .... 😂😂😄
I'm moving and I need to start packing....
Girl I have to a chapter to study too. We’ll be okay
Currently me avoiding the dishes 😂
lol...... that's me........let me go to work 😆😆🤣🤣🤣
RESPECT for The Judge keeping it 💯 in this episode 👏🏼 👏🏼 Mad Respect ✊🏼 💕 👑 💪🏼
Judge Lake, you should be an inspirational speaker. ... 😊
Yes she is the real deal. Love her❤
Teenagers/young adults this is NOT the life you want. Protect yourselves.
Nadia Louis where is home training with these teenager women I waited too have my kids these kids need too get their education go too college
I’ll keep this in mind heading into my 2nd year of high school
I rather respect Miss Short for being honest enough to call the paternity "a possibility" rather than ranting and raving about how this guy HAS to be the father. Women do that kind of thing all the time on these shows. This refreshing.
Right
No im not in college im in the 12th grade this is my last year
Agree! honest and straightforward- - I wish her the best.
I agree, I'm so glad she didn't do that! "I'm ten thousand percent, I ain't been with no one else, he the daddy, look at his feet! They got the same ones!!(had to say that 😁) seriously, glad she was honest.
When she talked about the slavery times I started tearing up! It’s so true!
A judge with a calling, am speechless, God Bless you madam Judge
WOW JUDGE HAS HAD IT!!
Because she loves these people she wants them to thrive. Her passion is making me tear up
Your dreadlocs slammin how long u been grown
THIS IS EMBARRASSING, THEY SIMPLY CAN'T FORMULATE A SENTENCE. PLEASE GO BACK TO SCHOOL.
Yes. I'm wondering where these people come from. I don't understand how the parents AND the young kids can't formulate a proper sentence. Did you catch when he said he was there when the baby was conceived when he meant gave birth...😢 sad.
Silk Will Niner I was thinking the same thing.... this is how they think we ALL speak. Wow
@@keyarraperry1039 it's jus unbelievable.
I love this judge so much she’s such a mentor to every individual
I like jerome ✌ hit like for him 😂
I like him too. but noo. Too many women like him. Men too, Mr. Zee.
He’s so polite
He has good energy but he is severely misguided
Bigra Murga Jerome is so handsome 😍
Jerome ,gimme the envelope! they pushing Judge Lake buttons on here she fed up!
Lakysha Williams SNAPPED on poor Jerome
He said so himself! He was there at the conception! 😂
Lol very smart
💀💀😂😂😂
She usually catches that
That young man is a freaking genius
🤣🤣😭
Chilee ,when he said I was there when the baby was conceived😭 .Education is important 🗣
Having a child is a precious event. Not a joke or a game .
Amen!
Jabari is such a beautiful name, it has two meanings: my strong one, and my healing one♡ Both at the same time
I agree that's beautiful
In what language ?
@@jeanp1323 Swahili I believe. Don’t quote me though lol
Omg that's a cute baby.
"Being away" = In Jail.
He been away on vacation in another state lol
Aint nothing cute about that baby
oh my word, what a fantastic speech from the judge, she IS a HERO!
"Our People, Historically, Were
Used As Baby Factories." That's A
Hard Hitting Truth... Preach On,
Judge Lauren Lake...
Preach Preach Preach
Man!!!
Very deep
Yeah,
Wow
It's a lot of emotional healing and maturing needed and I'm referring to.the mothers. They can't teach what they themselves don't know🤦🏾
Yessss!!! That girl’s mother was on my nerve! Her daughter slept with two boys days apart & she had the nerve to say “it shouldn’t have taken this.” THIS, was definitely necessary! We know who the mom is... it’s the dad that’s in question. Then she was complaining about the 2 packages of diapers. Girl please!🙄 THEY (him & his mom) had NO legal/financial responsibility to that child UNTIL it was PROVEN that he is the biological parent. The boy’s mom was cool & collected. That lady in the yellow made me want to come through the phone on her.
Amen
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He's going to be on Iyanla fix my Life by the age of 30 with 25 kids
No exaggeration either
I rebuke that comment in Jesus name. That young man will succeed in life and rise up to the calling that God has place in his life. He will spend the rest of his days fulfilling his destiny in Jesus name amen.
So sad, the parents look special. They need to educate their children. Five children and he's only twenty, something is wrong with that picture.
I love this judge she is plain and practical right to the point.
20 year old with 5 kids...good grief
He's been VERY busy...😂🤣
Shantia Jones He gonna have to have 4 full time jobs to pay for them
He busy swinging his d**k around. I'm 35 and have 2 . To many 😂
He is heading for a life of poverty and financial ruin!
Wow. Something is wrong somewhere honestly. That's really sad.
The baby looks like him. I didn’t even need to wait for the results 🙄
Me too
I agree with you Binta
😀😀☝☝
I mean like nose, smile and all just don't let the little fella have their vocabulary...geesh😕😟
Them ears gave it away
"Jerome gimme the envelope..." Sheeeeesh 😭😭😭... She was over this whole situation
That’s unusual, unlike Judge. I’ll be too through with this mess too
This is so beautiful Judge, I pray young people could receive this type of counseling before they get in front of you.
Judge Lake spit some knowledge on those kids, and moms!!! I mean she said perfectly- "...can't even string a sentence together." I will not call them ignorant because they are young; however, if they don't make some serious changes, that's exactly what they're going to be...
@GonnaMakeItAfterAll Absolutely! You can listen to their mother's and understand where they got it from- generational curses.
The education system has failed them as well!
So true let's hear if he's father ❤❤
Her lopsided glasses are bothering me... 😫😫😫. Omg how her mom suppose to be a social worker but she ain't social working her own daughter.
Yulp they sure was but wen you blind you really wouldnt give asf cuzz i didnt they told me to take them off but i said no my son broke them i got some more tho u can look at them on my facebook jamila deseray they straight
Preach
Since they bother you so much, why don't you buy her some. Yeah, because you don't need them. So why is it bothering you more than it bothers her.
😑🙄😒
AsToldByKala 😂😂😂😂 lord I just spit juice
I’m so happy that the Judge admonished them the way she did...they all needed it!!
That's a speech EVERY young person needs to hear!