Rejected By Her First Love (Full Episode) | Paternity Court

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  • @becaye7380
    @becaye7380 5 лет назад +4035

    The judge gave them the speech their mothers should have given

  • @brandyb2931
    @brandyb2931 5 лет назад +3541

    "Mr Johnson doesn't care about me, why not", baby girl, care about yourself. Do not look for your value in a man.

  • @pepieverage6788
    @pepieverage6788 6 лет назад +1593

    This Judge is the BOMB.. she is so real.

    • @lifewithneila
      @lifewithneila 6 лет назад +2

      Yh true

    • @themplar
      @themplar 5 лет назад +3

      its a cool character. but it aint real.

    • @ddnquestion1
      @ddnquestion1 5 лет назад +7

      Yeah she put it down today almost thought she was running for President!!!!!

    • @reginaldjones2056
      @reginaldjones2056 5 лет назад +1

      Correct sister Pepe

    • @wkhristafer
      @wkhristafer 5 лет назад +5

      No she's not. She is a contradiction in just about every episode

  • @poetrycraft777
    @poetrycraft777 3 года назад +1264

    My spirit moved when she told him that he does not have to be a baby factory and he has a future.

    • @videoconcierge
      @videoconcierge 3 года назад +7

      How "charming". Did your spirit "move" when you understood this 20 year-old, abysmally ignorant, undereducated, unemployed, no home training, uninvolved financially w his children, and will have zero possibility of adequately supporting the 5 babies he's created, in the future? Please refer back to this reply in the future: This young man will NEVER amount to anything that REMOTELY resembles a "responsible adult". His children will be fed and housed by the government. This young man and his mother are simply another example that proves the existense of individuals that believe "everyone ELSE" should pay for this kid to "pollenate" the state. Sickening.

    • @sr2971
      @sr2971 3 года назад +6

      @@videoconcierge
      ok boomer

    • @MissJB1
      @MissJB1 3 года назад +6

      Exactly!

    • @aslanlovett4059
      @aslanlovett4059 3 года назад +6

      Historically ignorant statement by the judge

    • @Kscomelli
      @Kscomelli 2 года назад +4

      @@videoconcierge Yes, unfortunately this happens. I wonder how a lot of these young people would have turned out if there ancestors would have been left in Africa. We will never know will we and that too is what is sad.

  • @iamfeyisayo4967
    @iamfeyisayo4967 6 лет назад +6572

    Mother is 36, son 20 with 5 potential children... Lord send help and break this disgusting cycle

    • @jackieyoung8651
      @jackieyoung8651 6 лет назад +466

      RELJ, we aren't going to claim that about women. Our young men need to strap it up too. The road run both ways!! Mothers need to educate their children--- Male and female.

    • @mirrbaby9854
      @mirrbaby9854 6 лет назад +96

      jackie young . PERIOD , sis !

    • @julianafred
      @julianafred 6 лет назад +46

      Amen from Germany

    • @maddcattnwonderland836
      @maddcattnwonderland836 6 лет назад +212

      Where’s HIS father telling him to wrap it up and stop sleeping around?? Hmmm telling him there’s nothing MANLY about having 5 👶🏾👧🏿🧒🏽👦🏽👱🏿‍♀️potential children all over his town?!?!

    • @clanmacbeth7057
      @clanmacbeth7057 6 лет назад +35

      I was a young mum and now have 2 Mokopuna (Grandys) It was hard I got divorced but I stoped breeding after the Divorce lol..

  • @neelahlouison707
    @neelahlouison707 6 лет назад +3157

    She was so mad she didn't even tell Jerome thanks for the envelope.

    • @SSWBJC1
      @SSWBJC1 6 лет назад +284

      And snatched it too..... LOL!

    • @neelahlouison707
      @neelahlouison707 6 лет назад +25

      @@SSWBJC1 yes!! Lollol

    • @dshel3200
      @dshel3200 6 лет назад +125

      Yeah they ran her HOT 🔥 🔥 🔥!!

    • @silentstorm2932
      @silentstorm2932 6 лет назад +17

      😂😂😂

    • @YT4Me57
      @YT4Me57 6 лет назад +152

      She was holding it in until she couldn't take it anymore!!! That boy got FIVE babies by most likely 5 girls, and was working on number 6 before he got sent to prison. My God, what's wrong???!!!!

  • @blessedwoman9274
    @blessedwoman9274 6 лет назад +1239

    Jugde: "We are no longer on the plantation"...But some are living and behaving as if they are. I want to shout that statement from the rooftops.

  • @ashlynfreeman5625
    @ashlynfreeman5625 3 года назад +552

    when she was talking about how he doesn’t care about her and he was her first love, and his mom is standing next to him while he laughs at her. he needed to be smacked in front of everyone.

    • @craigjones1669
      @craigjones1669 3 года назад +23

      She smacked him when he got smart with girl's mother

    • @warriorqueen8285
      @warriorqueen8285 2 года назад +7

      This comment right here is he winner though🏆🏆🏆💯

    • @urbannaturalistt
      @urbannaturalistt Год назад +1

      Why should his mom care?

    • @taramay8174
      @taramay8174 Год назад +6

      Agreed. He is horrible

    • @skillz9549
      @skillz9549 Год назад +3

      He was smiling because he didn’t hear the whole story yet. He was ready to tell his side.

  • @raquelrod987
    @raquelrod987 6 лет назад +5301

    Everyone attacking this young lady about being with 2 men at the same time. But we all just going to ignore he's 20 with 5 kids. What's wrong with this picture? 🤔

    • @sandybrar2778
      @sandybrar2778 5 лет назад +301

      I’m 36 and still thinking should I have baby or not and he is only 20 and have five kids. I just wonder why they know that condoms does exist. Let alone leave the pregnancy on side what about STDs.

    • @pearlkgakole
      @pearlkgakole 5 лет назад +201

      Raquel Rod ...& he’s been “away”...we all know what that means...pfffff!

    • @jpat989
      @jpat989 5 лет назад +45

      @@sandybrar2778 You better hurry up. The window is closing.

    • @ricardoparrott4570
      @ricardoparrott4570 5 лет назад +46

      I feel like he do got too many potential kids but if he still step up n said he the father then it ain't nothing wrong long as u handling business but the girl she put herself in the situation bout who could b the daddy

    • @caroljohnson9230
      @caroljohnson9230 5 лет назад +87

      THANK YOU, HE NOT ONLY HAS
      5 CHILDREN AT THE AGE OF 20.
      IT LOOKS LIKE HIS NO. 1 GIFT IS WHISPERING SWEET LITTLE
      I LOVE YOU 🐂💩💩💩💩 LIES IN THE EARS OF ALL THESE YOUNG WOMENS...I DON'T RECALL HIM SAYING THAT HE HAS BEEN WORKING DAY AND NIGHT IN AN EFFORT TO SUPPORT ALL OF HIS CHILDREN, THATS WHAT REAL DADDYS DO. MAYBE HIS FUTURE GOAL IS TO BE A ROLLING STONE JUST LIKE; PAPA WAS A ROLLING STONE WHERE EVER HE LEAVES HIS HAT IS HIS HOME. IF HE DOESN'T STOP, HE MAY END UP IN JAIL DUE TO ALL THE CHILD SUPPORT THAT HE IS GOING TO BE RESPONSIBLE FOR...

  • @petrinastewart
    @petrinastewart 6 лет назад +830

    Judge went off today, I'm here for it! They needed to hear that

  • @forrestja
    @forrestja 4 года назад +2708

    God I hate those mothers up there defending their sons like this. He's out here 20 years old with five kids and mom acting like he's an angel. She's his problem.

    • @ChocolateSunshine1
      @ChocolateSunshine1 4 года назад +73

      don't forget JAIL...smh

    • @neesieb6772
      @neesieb6772 4 года назад +78

      She wasn't acting like he was an angel...what episode were you watching?

    • @forrestja
      @forrestja 4 года назад +25

      Strongest Current in the Hebrew Seas the same episode you watched!

    • @kendrajohnson7499
      @kendrajohnson7499 4 года назад +45

      Right don't forget he was in jail too

    • @kendrajohnson7499
      @kendrajohnson7499 4 года назад +81

      @@neesieb6772 yes she was she said she doesn't believe the other kids are his either. He can't even make a complete sentence and she was defending him

  • @Rafi88
    @Rafi88 3 года назад +273

    Imagine being a grandmother 5 times over at 36, the ghetto. SMH. My mom is nearly 60 and begging us for grandchildren.

    • @justdatguy29
      @justdatguy29 Год назад +5

      Facts

    • @hopewilliams7081
      @hopewilliams7081 Год назад +6

      He needs to make sure all those children are his. There are DNA tests you can buy.

    • @Nganya96
      @Nganya96 7 месяцев назад

      Hahahahhaahahaj

    • @chantayb86
      @chantayb86 6 месяцев назад +3

      My mom is 70 with no grandchildren

    • @donnaevans5131
      @donnaevans5131 6 месяцев назад

      Me too

  • @preciousjenkins10
    @preciousjenkins10 5 лет назад +2559

    When she said you two can't even string two sentences together hahahahaha! I straight DIED!

  • @sharrigarvin3348
    @sharrigarvin3348 5 лет назад +1906

    That little boy has the most BEAUTIFUL SKIN. Dark Chocolate

  • @mayedancing
    @mayedancing 5 лет назад +1887

    Pause he definitely thought conceived meant to see the baby born. bless him lord

  • @rochellelofton3934
    @rochellelofton3934 3 года назад +132

    There's some grown folks that need to be given this advice, as well. And the nerve of the mama to claim that the other 4 children are not his, when they don't know for sure. Smh

    • @sharislatz9600
      @sharislatz9600 3 года назад +7

      Mama acting like she was the bed so she knows for sure!! Go sit ur a** in that corner and be quiet!!

    • @hopewilliams7081
      @hopewilliams7081 Год назад +4

      He needs to buy four DNA kits and find out if they're his.

  • @DesireSapphire
    @DesireSapphire 4 года назад +2003

    the mother should had been there for her daughter in that hospital room, regardless of the situation: period.

    • @krystalccameron7689
      @krystalccameron7689 4 года назад +48

      dallas tx children learn through positive and negative reinforcement. It’s cold, but it’s best for her daughter in the long run to live in the consequences of her teenaged pregnancy.

    • @krystalccameron7689
      @krystalccameron7689 4 года назад +167

      Actually, went and looked her up and she’s not had any other children! Also saw a picture of a graduation package, so she’s furthered her education! She meant it when she said “lesson learnt”.

    • @erfroot3829
      @erfroot3829 4 года назад +7

      Stop crying 😁

    • @beautifulllb9493
      @beautifulllb9493 4 года назад +35

      Krystal Cameron Praise God! 🙌🏾🙌🏾❤️praying she succeeds and becomes the best she can be in this world

    • @laurieyounger2432
      @laurieyounger2432 4 года назад +4

      Thank you

  • @brittsheree85
    @brittsheree85 5 лет назад +465

    I love how she encourages young people to quit sleeping around and go make something of yourself.

  • @ntokozonkiwane4171
    @ntokozonkiwane4171 5 лет назад +919

    Am still baffled at why the Producer failed to acknowledge Lauren Lake at the Emmy awards. She keeps it real and that captivates the audience. Well done Judge!

    • @lavidaloca2344
      @lavidaloca2344 5 лет назад +58

      It was the definition of a "snub". He even thanked the make up artist 😳😳😳

    • @ninagezellie4206
      @ninagezellie4206 5 лет назад +43

      He's another CLOWN-MAN that's why.😒

    • @VampQueen18
      @VampQueen18 5 лет назад +53

      WE ARE ALL STILL MAD!

    • @cindymcdonald3620
      @cindymcdonald3620 5 лет назад +6

      Me too

    • @deenice688
      @deenice688 5 лет назад +11

      I'm still mad months later. Sucka ish

  • @taylorduvernay9789
    @taylorduvernay9789 3 года назад +45

    "I don't know whether I should put you on punishment or hug you" - I love thi judge

    • @e_shawilliams599
      @e_shawilliams599 3 года назад

      I felt the same way😢😢😢

    • @e_shawilliams599
      @e_shawilliams599 3 года назад +1

      I work with girls like her, it's sad😪😪

    • @taylorduvernay9789
      @taylorduvernay9789 3 года назад +3

      @@e_shawilliams599 that can't be an easy job. I am sure that needs patience and wisdom. Strength to you🤗

    • @e_shawilliams599
      @e_shawilliams599 3 года назад +1

      @@taylorduvernay9789 Yes a lot of it. You can tell them better and they are stuck on that guy just like her. Its like they have a hold on them. It's like a soul tie they can't shake. If the parents don't teach them better then they won't break that soul tie. They will spend the rest of their life mistreating that child and others because he doesn't want her and with someone else.

  • @kennethrobinson3193
    @kennethrobinson3193 4 года назад +748

    "Imma drop a dime, matter of fact a dollar now pick this up" BARS!!!!!!!!!

  • @Geraahhhh
    @Geraahhhh 6 лет назад +1445

    It's very interesting how so many women are attacking this young girl and turning a blind eye to the 20 year old man with 5 kids. Shameful how woman tear each other down so often. I hope she'll learn to be a good mother to her son and teach him and guide him on the right path.

    • @trappnest4490
      @trappnest4490 6 лет назад +89

      Almost every comments I saw was about the guy and his 5 children, so I don't know what you're talking about

    • @megalopolis2015
      @megalopolis2015 5 лет назад +26

      Both of these kids have big problems, which hopefully can be remedied with therapy and co-parenting.

    • @australopithecus6015
      @australopithecus6015 5 лет назад +17

      It's always the same thing. They vilify the woman and empower these good for nothing men. It's really sad to witness this kind of thing in this day and age. All that freedom many women black or white have fought to bring us and we ignorantly spit in their faces. Ella Baker, Joséphine Baker, Maya Angelou, Beverly Bond, Shirley Chisholm, Emily Pankhurst to name a few.

    • @evitatruth8755
      @evitatruth8755 5 лет назад +3

      Because thats what most black people do......

    • @empogirl
      @empogirl 5 лет назад +15

      Mary White I don’t completely agreed,children do a lot behind parents back too

  • @moluckett
    @moluckett 6 лет назад +626

    Judge Lake is preaching on this episode!!! *grabs MLK church fan* YOU BETTA TELL’EM GIRL!!!!

    • @sweetcarahmel
      @sweetcarahmel 6 лет назад +15

      😂😂😂 not the MLK fan!! 😂😂😂

    • @BruinPhD2009
      @BruinPhD2009 6 лет назад +8

      FitNaturalQueen MO Is that fan sponsored by the local funeral home? If it ain’t, it ain’t real! :-)

    • @andrewnehemiah3467
      @andrewnehemiah3467 6 лет назад +2

      FitNaturalQueen MO
      PREACH!!

    • @mimi126112
      @mimi126112 6 лет назад +2

      Go off Judge Lake!!!

    • @jacquettediggs4633
      @jacquettediggs4633 6 лет назад +1

      🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @GigiDrummond
    @GigiDrummond 3 года назад +379

    For her mom NOT to be with her daughter when she gave birth explains what caused the girl's low self esteem. She was trying desperately (as many young women do) to feel special, loved, and cared about. Really sad commentary😭

    • @mythiac696
      @mythiac696 Год назад +50

      Her mom said she did not go because she didn't support her actions. Clearly she is there now, and she has a father around. A parent can do everything text book right and these situations can happen. Everything is not a parent's fault.

    • @kimriley69
      @kimriley69 Год назад +22

      If I'm preaching to my daughter every day that its best to wait to be doing adult actions when she's an adult or she gonna be dealing with adult situations and problems at a young age. If she dont listen then I might do the same cuz if I go into a delivery room with her imma say to her every cm she go up and every cramp she feels, YOU CAN'T HEAR, YOU WILL SURELY FEEL. if that makes me a bad mother then so be it. Call me what you want. I know that I've preached to both my 17 year old son and 15 year old daughter, day in and day out. They have seen me struggle with and without their father and that's something they should not want for themselves.

    • @praxym9293
      @praxym9293 Год назад +6

      So feeling special is to pass yourself around?

    • @kimkelly5512
      @kimkelly5512 Год назад +9

      I was 22 when I had my son, and my mother was in the delivery room. No one was going to keep her out.

    • @lashayparker5602
      @lashayparker5602 Год назад +14

      Right or wrong my daughter knows I'm going to always be there. They are not perfect and as parents we're not perfect,but you can bet your last dollar when it comes to my children I will be there for them until I take my last breath.

  • @millsmami
    @millsmami 5 лет назад +393

    Whew child.. I can't wait to show my teenage son this episode.. this is surely a wake up call for this generation.

    • @idamaebennett9965
      @idamaebennett9965 5 лет назад +9

      Yes that of you our young people need to know the important of making babies while their children themselve.

    • @ddnquestion1
      @ddnquestion1 4 года назад +12

      And please stress the point of staying in school this young man sounds like he may have about a 3rd grade education I will never forget the entire time I was growing up my mother stressed that more than anything even to the point of threatening to come to my school for entire day and sit through every one of my classes if need be what happen to that type of tough love it should still exist and would solve so many of these problems we see in today's society!!!!!!

    • @shailaadia974
      @shailaadia974 3 года назад +2

      Honestly it really is. I started watching these clips when I was about 19 during the beginning of the pendulum and I saw that this and whatever is going down on divorce court isn’t what I want to and to try to listen to their advice. I am 20 now btw and me and my boyfriend seem to be doing well and I use their advice especially when it comes to communication

    • @millsmami
      @millsmami 3 года назад +8

      @@ddnquestion1 I'm late but yes. My son is a junior in high school and he's on honor roll. He plays sports and he has a job. He wants to go to trade school after he graduates, which I applaud. College isn't for everyone but knowledge is universal. We are an educated family and that will continue. We've been building his credit also. He will not be a statistic. 💪🏾💯

    • @millsmami
      @millsmami 3 года назад +2

      @@shailaadia974 That's good to hear.! These shows are entertaining but they're really eye openers.. we can talk and talk until our lips are blue but I've noticed that teenagers need to see, witness and experience things before they totally understand. One mishap can change your entire life.

  • @statingtheobvious7646
    @statingtheobvious7646 6 лет назад +439

    This Judge is great! She would make a wonderful Motivational speaker for teens and young adults.

  • @MsSong2U
    @MsSong2U 6 лет назад +161

    “BUT the fact that he is in the running!...”
    Speak on it Judge Lake.

  • @mariej6962
    @mariej6962 2 года назад +85

    This show need to keep going. It was so educational unlike the other shows.

  • @ChosenVessel82
    @ChosenVessel82 6 лет назад +415

    The judge dropped all that knowledge. So much wisdom

    • @zerenitee
      @zerenitee 6 лет назад +4

      This was my best episode because of the knowledge she put out there

    • @Veeluvstocook
      @Veeluvstocook 6 лет назад

      She always does

    • @ndungumonic
      @ndungumonic 6 лет назад +2

      That was the best way to put it. This episode was just Perfect, they needed that dose.

    • @evilcrime5724
      @evilcrime5724 6 лет назад

      I love her

  • @Chrissy-yi5em
    @Chrissy-yi5em 5 лет назад +785

    Judge Lake has out done herself with this episode! By far the realist episode I’ve seen thus far. She’s definitely a boss in her courtroom. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👩🏾‍⚖️ 💪🏾

    • @caroleafletcher9028
      @caroleafletcher9028 5 лет назад +14

      Chrissy 101 ok they needed to hear the truth she couldn't hold her compusure 💯💯💯💯

    • @carolphillips8382
      @carolphillips8382 3 года назад +12

      You are so right she totally dropped the truth on this episode. What she said about what occurred during slavery time was right on point. If you do not believe her please run to your nearest library and check out a few books.

    • @martinaobeten6257
      @martinaobeten6257 Год назад

      You said it all ❤

  • @MsTshaa
    @MsTshaa 6 лет назад +473

    That young man should be ashamed of himself nothing cool about having 5 babies with different woman , he’s there smiling about it.

    • @Nina-lo8wg
      @Nina-lo8wg 6 лет назад +43

      And he's 20.. can you believe it???SMH

    • @alexzander1839
      @alexzander1839 6 лет назад +6

      MsTna, MsTna, according to Jnel Comedy, "Jerome is dah boss." Never mind the trail of broken lives behind him. I wish that there was a biological mechanism that provents men with that mindset to be automatically sterile.

    • @TheSouthernbellebeau
      @TheSouthernbellebeau 6 лет назад +57

      And the mother who says "they not his" Thats why he continues to do it! Mama don't even know how to act, take responsibility that you didn't teach your son proper precautions, nor tech him to man up and realize he had a part in it too!

    • @YT4Me57
      @YT4Me57 6 лет назад +23

      Not just smiling, he started out laughing and that is what (I think) got Judge Lake started. She didn't say anything at first, but she let him have it at the end.

    • @janeth3008
      @janeth3008 6 лет назад +15

      @@TheSouthernbellebeau Exactly, they're probably ALL his. He's not trying to prevent them, so why is momma being so defensive? He knows what he did with those girls, momma needs to let him OWN his responsibility.

  • @littelttiiggeerr6059
    @littelttiiggeerr6059 2 года назад +32

    I look up to this woman so much, I’m happy she tells people to stop messing around and make something of themselves. It may not be what some want to hear but it sure is something they need to hear

  • @juleenforbes
    @juleenforbes 6 лет назад +891

    They got a pretty good tongue lashing from the judge it should’ve came from the parents maybe that would’ve kept them out of this mess.

    • @amymenjivar3489
      @amymenjivar3489 6 лет назад +26

      Generational. Boy's mother is 36, and he's 20. 20 with possibly 5 kids...smdh

    • @Ummkelechi
      @Ummkelechi 6 лет назад +8

      @@amymenjivar3489 Yes...it's terrible! That's crazy SMH

    • @chaoticyank5772
      @chaoticyank5772 6 лет назад +18

      They needed it. It is so sad to see such beautiful kids who are smart and can do anything, spend their time making babies they cannot afford instead of making something out of themselves. Hopefully they both took it to heart.

    • @ne9835
      @ne9835 6 лет назад +1

      Yup

    • @statingtheobvious7646
      @statingtheobvious7646 6 лет назад +8

      Clearly the parents didn't know how to delivery the message of tough love so it was appropriately relayed by the judge. This is why alot of kids are so lost today bc they don't listen to adults. If their parents don't say, they don't hear it and it still takes a village.

  • @imaslowlerner
    @imaslowlerner 6 лет назад +466

    "Can't put two sentences together " So sad 2018.

    • @leetakamiya2162
      @leetakamiya2162 6 лет назад +7

      imaslowlerner Would be sad even for 1018.

    • @sonyawright2302
      @sonyawright2302 6 лет назад +5

      That's same thing I was thinking! Ridiculous!

    • @NitaNita1964
      @NitaNita1964 6 лет назад +10

      😂 She was throwing shade @that letter he wrote

    • @odmeli4183
      @odmeli4183 6 лет назад +1

      That’s the part that shocked me the most

  • @danajohnson9266
    @danajohnson9266 4 года назад +83

    Lauren Lake literally drops knowledge to these children. I love her.

  • @aishaanwar7833
    @aishaanwar7833 3 года назад +19

    Every child deserved a mother just like judge lake. She is a great mum. 😄

  • @CheritaExplainsItAll
    @CheritaExplainsItAll 6 лет назад +411

    Being away...we know what that means!

    • @crashstitches79
      @crashstitches79 5 лет назад +25

      Vacation at Club Med? Tour of duty in Afghanistan? Away at university?

    • @alondralopez9769
      @alondralopez9769 5 лет назад +15

      Smash Marxism locked up I’m guessing lol

    • @noweluv
      @noweluv 5 лет назад

      😂😂😂

    • @patr9117
      @patr9117 5 лет назад +29

      Yes if you are a true family member of paternity court we know.😏

    • @janellmeads1399
      @janellmeads1399 5 лет назад +2

      Smash Marxism
      oh you funny

  • @luckysmiles
    @luckysmiles 6 лет назад +366

    He was "away" ...jail ...and he got 5 kids at 20!? His mother seems to condone his behavior too. He's not gonna be there. She needs to start accepting the fact that she will continue to be a single mom.

    • @freebandzjin
      @freebandzjin 6 лет назад +11

      Why are you assuming he was in jail? He could've been out of town handling business, on vacation, working, etc. The possibilities are endless, but people always have to jump to negative conclusions. I bet if he wasn't black, you wouldn't have said that.

    • @qarinero6407
      @qarinero6407 6 лет назад +12

      They are part of the permanent black underclass.

    • @reesebarnes2793
      @reesebarnes2793 6 лет назад +9

      Mom looks like she's saying I'm only here so I don't get fined!!! She done Checked out long time ago!!!

    • @kayford1601
      @kayford1601 6 лет назад +5

      No she doesn't have to accept that because it's not a fact, that's your opinion. She's still young and have time to learn! People are always trying to condemn somebody. Are you a prophet? You can see into the future? You have no idea what this child's future holds just as well you don't know what your fate or the fate of your children hold. You may be up today but that can all change in the blink of an eye!

    • @luckysmiles
      @luckysmiles 6 лет назад +6

      Kay, she will be a single mom of that boy. No negative condemnation....that's just the facts.

  • @3311genesis
    @3311genesis 5 лет назад +185

    One of the best speeches by the judge. These kids needed to hear what she told them.

    • @sweet3800
      @sweet3800 2 года назад +2

      I felt everything she said in my spirit.i think this so much these moms got their heads outta their butts.

  • @williamflynn9739
    @williamflynn9739 3 года назад +6

    Lauren Lake is simply the best judge I've ever watched on RUclips

  • @kynamkh
    @kynamkh 5 лет назад +146

    The baby is so beautiful just love him and please take care of him.

  • @NiamhCreates
    @NiamhCreates 6 лет назад +669

    Judge dropped not just a dime, not just a dollar, but a freaking $100 bill.

    • @MzDatB2
      @MzDatB2 6 лет назад +22

      Niamh-Creates baby she went there.. they needed that.. plus whomever read this...

    • @NiamhCreates
      @NiamhCreates 6 лет назад +10

      Yep, I totally agree.

    • @sonyawright2302
      @sonyawright2302 6 лет назад +6

      Yes, Lord! Amen!

    • @SunshineandFlowers456
      @SunshineandFlowers456 6 лет назад +6

      Yes ma'am! I was in the amen corner!!!!

    • @greyson2480
      @greyson2480 6 лет назад

      THAT made me subscribe!!

  • @PinkPatmos
    @PinkPatmos 5 лет назад +786

    When he said I was there to see the baby “ conceived” I had to come straight to the comments!

    • @jaycage07
      @jaycage07 4 года назад +46

      Prophetess Jennetta Gilliam-Campbell well technically he was lol 😂

    • @samentawells5542
      @samentawells5542 4 года назад +8

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @angelaw4186
      @angelaw4186 4 года назад +8

      Same here I died 🤣

    • @vh1117
      @vh1117 4 года назад +22

      "cuh-cee'd"

    • @dynieshag3498
      @dynieshag3498 4 года назад +37

      Y'all ain't right 🤣🤣🤣 y'all ain't right !!!! Why his momma didn't correct him 🤣🤣🤣💀💀💀. These people vocabulary is awful!!

  • @kyratrimble8146
    @kyratrimble8146 2 года назад +62

    When she talked about the slavery times I started tearing up! It’s so true!

  • @kimb3871
    @kimb3871 6 лет назад +426

    I had my daughter after I got my bachelors and went to get my masters when she was 1 year old. I’m now in the peak of my career and we are both doing very well. Her dad ended up bailing out and turning into a completely different person since then. She’s 5 now and he hasn’t seen her in nearly a year. We have been broken up for the last 3 years. But, I have a fiancé now who takes good care of her and has risen to the occasion of being her father and my soon to be husband. Life is not perfect and sometimes things don’t go according to plan. I never expected I’d be a single mother and marrying someone else who is not the father of my child. But honestly, even with that, my life is really really great. I travel the world with my daughter and take her to see so much. I also travel with friends and my fiancé and I are headed to Rome next Summer.
    The support from my family is amazing too. No, I wasn’t married when my daughter was born, but I was stable and had a good head on my shoulders. Seeing these cases with some of these people makes me sad. They’re so young and have not lived life before popping out multiple kids left and right with just anybody. It’s sad.

    • @kerlinsaintfart3101
      @kerlinsaintfart3101 5 лет назад +7

      You give me power thx

    • @LeaJackson90
      @LeaJackson90 5 лет назад +18

      That's why we have to get to know a good man and get married first ijs

    • @marcellafair3712
      @marcellafair3712 5 лет назад +13

      I commend you on that so many young mothers dont try to push themselves to achieve when they start having children at young ages but its so nice to hear this may God continue to bless you and your child with happiness

    • @annabanna1873
      @annabanna1873 5 лет назад +29

      Who asked for your life story??....

    • @eunicejaggernauth8002
      @eunicejaggernauth8002 5 лет назад +4

      Congratulations to you.

  • @janikiawoods8486
    @janikiawoods8486 6 лет назад +454

    5 kids and you can't even buy alcohol 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

    • @trinnasultrabeautybraids9157
      @trinnasultrabeautybraids9157 5 лет назад +10

      His Momma better get the other ones checked.. Cause Omg.. He gonna keep going Regardless but at least for min he may strap up or learn few lessons.. I pray they ain't his for the sake of him and the children.. My cousin got 8 with 6 baby mothers and Lawd 🤦🏾.. he just learning to be real dad close to 40 with the two new ones.

    • @lucydiaz9379
      @lucydiaz9379 5 лет назад +22

      He didn't need alcohol he needs Rubbers Rubbers and more Rubbers 😄😃😁😆😉😀😃😄😉😆😁😂😅😂

    • @patriciamckee5177
      @patriciamckee5177 5 лет назад +14

      He don't need alcohol. He needs condoms!!!

    • @kfoster3616
      @kfoster3616 2 года назад +3

      @@PS1652 I bet he'll never pay child support for any of them....

    • @PS1652
      @PS1652 2 года назад +1

      @@kfoster3616 But I will not be surprise when tax time comes he'll
      be there wanting to collect, OR the minute they turn 18 he'll say
      he was searching for them etc. I really wish these young woman
      will wisen up!

  • @locdinrelaxation844
    @locdinrelaxation844 6 лет назад +181

    When she was reading that note, the secondhand embarrassment was real smh...Judge Lake preached today tho👏

  • @bobcalvin3687
    @bobcalvin3687 7 месяцев назад +6

    This speech was epic. Please bring this show back.

  • @sibria
    @sibria 6 лет назад +112

    The judge was preaching in this one!! She’s amazing!

  • @priceymiss9280
    @priceymiss9280 4 года назад +282

    He said so himself! He was there at the conception! 😂

  • @mbradley5543
    @mbradley5543 6 лет назад +132

    Care about yourself more than any man, young Queen.

    • @milla8826
      @milla8826 6 лет назад +5

      Yup better make sure that man knows your worth before you let him have ALL of you

    • @queenivylopez8932
      @queenivylopez8932 5 лет назад +1

      They can't do what was never tough to them

    • @mznayduzallinthelifeofnanc8935
      @mznayduzallinthelifeofnanc8935 5 лет назад +1

      It's sad that baby had to seek love & attention from those boys instead of getting it at home.

  • @TychoKingdom
    @TychoKingdom 2 года назад +89

    Everytime that Mom in yellow says anything it pisses me off. Got the nerve to have an attitude in court but refused to support her daughter during the birth of her grandchild because she was having a hissy fit when the consequences of her own bad parenting showed up.

    • @superwookie2321
      @superwookie2321 Год назад +10

      Exactly then admitted she stopped letting him coming around because she didn’t want him to get attached if it wasn’t

    • @lovelyaikea1
      @lovelyaikea1 Год назад +5

      I swear she got on my nerves so bad…

    • @jazzyjennshighway
      @jazzyjennshighway Год назад +5

      I just wrote a comment about this, that ladies whole essence seems not right to me for doing that.

    • @KiaTellyce
      @KiaTellyce 5 месяцев назад +1

      Correct!!!! She seems very cynical

  • @nadiabenjamin-linton9774
    @nadiabenjamin-linton9774 6 лет назад +2323

    Am I the only one who heard him say he was there to see the baby conceived🤔

    • @SunflowerOfTheEast
      @SunflowerOfTheEast 6 лет назад +225

      Heehee! I heard it too. It was like he was admitting to being the father without realizing it. He meant he was at the birth.

    • @sweetcarahmel
      @sweetcarahmel 6 лет назад +37

      Yep!😂💀💀💀

    • @Lovely_1One
      @Lovely_1One 6 лет назад +11

      😩😩😩😩😩

    • @queenushiriyah5924
      @queenushiriyah5924 6 лет назад +106

      You not!! 😂 Both of them need to stay in school and learn the definition of a word before coming on TV and embarrassing themselves in front of millions of people! I had to double-take like...whattt...did he just misuse that word and nobody bothered to correct him?!! SMH

    • @moomoo0670
      @moomoo0670 6 лет назад +16

      Girl yes 😂😂😂🤣🤣

  • @Tiaxxxxxooooo
    @Tiaxxxxxooooo 6 лет назад +852

    If you makes you feel better Judge Lake I am 20 years old and a junior in college , I am a biology pre med major with a minor in public health and soon to be chemistry. Deans list , honors society , and 3 eBoard club positions. No babies , no boyfriend , none of that focused on being someone first. Amen 🙏🏽

    • @beurny299
      @beurny299 6 лет назад +8

      U going places ......Maybe she loved the one eyed worm so she let them bore her all over. ..

    • @Tiaxxxxxooooo
      @Tiaxxxxxooooo 6 лет назад +5

      Thank you! and Lol right !

    • @brittaniejones6807
      @brittaniejones6807 6 лет назад +14

      Keep Going, Doll!!! Proud of you!!!

    • @michellejohnson6248
      @michellejohnson6248 6 лет назад +10

      Amen baby girl. I am VERY proud of you.

    • @wubayengda8515
      @wubayengda8515 6 лет назад +7

      Bravooo

  • @yellowphoenix9702
    @yellowphoenix9702 6 лет назад +424

    “When I was away” smfh just say when you were locked up 😒 and with five babies

    • @sammymcc4249
      @sammymcc4249 6 лет назад +24

      Was searching the comments to see if anyone else picked that up.... Bout away like he was somewhere working r vacation 😂😂😂

    • @carsade
      @carsade 6 лет назад +3

      @Mary White really!! is that wat that means (im from the UK)

    • @IamDottieDandridge
      @IamDottieDandridge 6 лет назад +8

      Now that I think about it that's exactly right! I was wondering why he was writing letters instead of texting.

    • @lexc4965
      @lexc4965 6 лет назад +3

      @@sammymcc4249 me too lol. Like we know you're serving time.

    • @tamikaamira1807
      @tamikaamira1807 5 лет назад +1

      😳😂Right!

  • @Ridesharereflections
    @Ridesharereflections 2 года назад +128

    I CANNOT believe the mother did not go to the hospital when she had the baby. That’s disgusting

    • @thejourney4445
      @thejourney4445 Год назад +6

      I was almost 30 when I had my one and only child and my mother did not show up either. My mother had never been in my life but I did have expectations of her changing that, needless to say I was disappointed. These types of mothers really do exist

    • @donnaevans5131
      @donnaevans5131 6 месяцев назад +5

      @@thejourney4445I am so sorry. I stayed in the hospital room with my daughter (I didn’t trust her husband) until she was discharged. Even though she had her baby, she was and is, still my baby and I made sure she was alright.

    • @jennzifur
      @jennzifur 5 месяцев назад +1

      @@donnaevans5131us kids never stop being our mama’s babies 😊 . Ever lol

  • @soulstrength
    @soulstrength 6 лет назад +209

    They got JLL all frustrated and upset. Got her talking to Jerome any old kinda way. Jerome gimme the envelope! LOL Jerome has thick skin, and I love her passion. ❤

    • @Wendy-rq2lb
      @Wendy-rq2lb 6 лет назад +23

      Judge was vexed. They deserved that telling off. Poor Jerome just caught the aftermath. 😂

    • @candy5760
      @candy5760 6 лет назад +2

      It's his job if a man can't handle that he's 2018 soft

    • @angie675
      @angie675 6 лет назад +4

      I watched it 3 times. I had chills! I loved that dollar she dropped. ❤️❤️

    • @0411ACE01
      @0411ACE01 6 лет назад +1

      Hilarious!

    • @daleadardaine6631
      @daleadardaine6631 5 лет назад +3

      Same thing i say... Poor Jerome getting buff for them ish

  • @MrLaStoney
    @MrLaStoney 5 лет назад +296

    Daaaayyyyuuummmm! Judge said: "Matter of fact, I'mma drop a dollar. Now pick this up!" Lmboooooooo!

  • @TheeMademoiselle
    @TheeMademoiselle 5 лет назад +944

    🤣🤣🤣 “The fact that you’re in the runninnnnng” 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @gorgeoueseyes8468
      @gorgeoueseyes8468 5 лет назад +8

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @neicielove
      @neicielove 4 года назад +36

      Right! And he thinks having 5 kids is something to smile about 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @princeashtongreen5086
      @princeashtongreen5086 4 года назад +11

      @@neicielove Well, if he takes care of them, that's a totally diffrent story.

    • @melvawages7143
      @melvawages7143 3 года назад +14

      @@princeashtongreen5086 I doubt he does. Buying diapers and wipes is only a tiny fraction of what they need, but yet they want to brag about that. Yep, the girls' parents are the ones supporting those babies. It is NOT their responsibility. Anything they do for their grandbabies is a kindness in their hearts.

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      @reeshemahcoleman3954 3 года назад +1

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  • @mrscashmorrisey1702
    @mrscashmorrisey1702 3 года назад +10

    That speech by the Judge was EVERYTHING!! It should be played in all high schools!!

    • @russellh6677
      @russellh6677 3 года назад +1

      It should be played at the house first.

  • @sheronsandratashaya1075
    @sheronsandratashaya1075 6 лет назад +26

    A judge with a calling, am speechless, God Bless you madam Judge

  • @macymurray12
    @macymurray12 6 лет назад +174

    Not “Jerome give me that” 😂😂 my judge upset 👩‍⚖️

  • @swafaasaid8300
    @swafaasaid8300 5 лет назад +154

    Judge Lake, you should be an inspirational speaker. ... 😊

  • @brownin329
    @brownin329 3 года назад +230

    Young ladies: this is what misogynists do. They laugh at your feelings. Keep your legs closed until you are sure about a man's intentions.

    • @layjojoe4682
      @layjojoe4682 3 года назад +1

      💯

    • @CHloE748
      @CHloE748 3 года назад +21

      Keep your legs closed until you have a union with a man by god and the government! I’m 25 next month, never once had a pregnancy scare or had to be worried I would catch an STD because no man is getting between my legs until we both say “I do”! They say abstinence does work, yet it has worked for me and millions of others! This show makes me feel even better about my decision.

    • @agnesngoh1810
      @agnesngoh1810 2 года назад +4

      But sadly enough we can't be too sure .... he prob laughing because in his head he's saying Girl i was just passing time with you now you taking it serious. These men. I hate being gender biased but it just hurt to see how vulnerable and naive this girl was and is

    • @kfoster3616
      @kfoster3616 2 года назад +1

      @@CHloE748 You are so right......

    • @simpkins18
      @simpkins18 2 года назад +1

      I agree and that boy is also very immature. Hopefully, the judge's speech will help him to change his outlook on life.

  • @emlynerichemond8233
    @emlynerichemond8233 6 лет назад +1534

    Paternity court need to be part of high schools and college curriculum to graduated😎😎

  • @gitimgirl
    @gitimgirl 4 года назад +291

    Judge said “you all cant even string together two complete sentences” 😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩

    • @Melody-go1le
      @Melody-go1le 4 года назад +2

      Am sorry, but I didn't get it.
      Pls explain.
      Thank you.

    • @shalimarjackson1222
      @shalimarjackson1222 3 года назад +1

      That part

    • @agnesngoh1810
      @agnesngoh1810 2 года назад

      Naaaaa fr and that should hurt because some younger kids sound even more better and smart.

  • @turquoiseheart6320
    @turquoiseheart6320 5 лет назад +122

    Jabari is such a beautiful name, it has two meanings: my strong one, and my healing one♡ Both at the same time

    • @mariakrissy3657
      @mariakrissy3657 4 года назад +1

      I agree that's beautiful

    • @jeanp1323
      @jeanp1323 3 года назад +1

      In what language ?

    • @saucyyslim6978
      @saucyyslim6978 3 года назад +7

      @@jeanp1323 Swahili I believe. Don’t quote me though lol

  • @ConnieDunnangels2789
    @ConnieDunnangels2789 3 года назад +3

    You are a blessing to these people. You are speaking truth and protecting youth. Thank you!

  • @bcampbell999
    @bcampbell999 4 года назад +200

    Having a child is a precious event. Not a joke or a game .

  • @Eepolitic1970
    @Eepolitic1970 5 лет назад +237

    What kind of social worker is her mother? IF SHE IS THIS COLD WITH HER DAUGHTER HOW IS SHE WITH CLIENTS?

  • @jgw5491
    @jgw5491 6 лет назад +156

    I rather respect Miss Short for being honest enough to call the paternity "a possibility" rather than ranting and raving about how this guy HAS to be the father. Women do that kind of thing all the time on these shows. This refreshing.

    • @jamilashort2791
      @jamilashort2791 6 лет назад +1

      Right

    • @jamilashort2791
      @jamilashort2791 6 лет назад +3

      No im not in college im in the 12th grade this is my last year

    • @jabrayjay6679
      @jabrayjay6679 6 лет назад +2

      Agree! honest and straightforward- - I wish her the best.

    • @arlenesimmons4422
      @arlenesimmons4422 5 лет назад +1

      I agree, I'm so glad she didn't do that! "I'm ten thousand percent, I ain't been with no one else, he the daddy, look at his feet! They got the same ones!!(had to say that 😁) seriously, glad she was honest.

  • @lashaundadiaz7453
    @lashaundadiaz7453 3 года назад +8

    Judge Lake is everything!!! I love her honest advice for our young people! ❤❤❤

  • @N.dial2007
    @N.dial2007 6 лет назад +169

    Teenagers/young adults this is NOT the life you want. Protect yourselves.

    • @veronica35ism
      @veronica35ism 5 лет назад +1

      Nadia Louis where is home training with these teenager women I waited too have my kids these kids need too get their education go too college

    • @sceneiorcitzien
      @sceneiorcitzien 3 года назад +1

      I’ll keep this in mind heading into my 2nd year of high school

  • @Kimi_Adventures
    @Kimi_Adventures 5 лет назад +114

    WOW JUDGE HAS HAD IT!!
    Because she loves these people she wants them to thrive. Her passion is making me tear up

    • @ingodwetrust7648
      @ingodwetrust7648 4 года назад

      Your dreadlocs slammin how long u been grown

  • @daniellecaruso7057
    @daniellecaruso7057 4 года назад +628

    I was supposed to start cleaning an hour ago but I’m like I’ll start after one more 😂😂😂😂

    • @jacquibailey7460
      @jacquibailey7460 4 года назад +18

      Did you start cleaning yet .... 😂😂😄

    • @HopeGrant423
      @HopeGrant423 3 года назад +8

      I'm moving and I need to start packing....

    • @lizadickson1499
      @lizadickson1499 3 года назад +10

      Girl I have to a chapter to study too. We’ll be okay

    • @mjcoco
      @mjcoco 3 года назад +3

      Currently me avoiding the dishes 😂

    • @eveja9783
      @eveja9783 3 года назад +3

      lol...... that's me........let me go to work 😆😆🤣🤣🤣

  • @sheliagmosby8951
    @sheliagmosby8951 Год назад +7

    RESPECT for The Judge keeping it 💯 in this episode 👏🏼 👏🏼 Mad Respect ✊🏼 💕 👑 💪🏼

  • @silkwillniner3873
    @silkwillniner3873 6 лет назад +118

    THIS IS EMBARRASSING, THEY SIMPLY CAN'T FORMULATE A SENTENCE. PLEASE GO BACK TO SCHOOL.

    • @heartshooz3912
      @heartshooz3912 6 лет назад +3

      Yes. I'm wondering where these people come from. I don't understand how the parents AND the young kids can't formulate a proper sentence. Did you catch when he said he was there when the baby was conceived when he meant gave birth...😢 sad.

    • @keyarraperry1039
      @keyarraperry1039 6 лет назад +3

      Silk Will Niner I was thinking the same thing.... this is how they think we ALL speak. Wow

    • @silkwillniner3873
      @silkwillniner3873 6 лет назад +2

      @@keyarraperry1039 it's jus unbelievable.

  • @misslashaexo
    @misslashaexo 6 лет назад +755

    That's why I ain't having no baby until I get my bachelor's and be financially stable.

    • @ancienthippyrebel7202
      @ancienthippyrebel7202 6 лет назад +92

      And married?

    • @kellyannr4171
      @kellyannr4171 6 лет назад +20

      Cici La'Shae excellent plan!!! I pray God tarries with you and sees that plan to fruition.

    • @teresaevans4840
      @teresaevans4840 6 лет назад +10

      You go girl 🙌

    • @TLibra
      @TLibra 6 лет назад +27

      Amen sister & married I need all 3

    • @jadendarae969
      @jadendarae969 6 лет назад +11

      Ancient Hippy Rebel You don’t have to be married to have a child.

  • @keniomole5791
    @keniomole5791 6 лет назад +190

    20 year old with 5 kids...good grief

    • @shantiajones8042
      @shantiajones8042 6 лет назад +8

      He's been VERY busy...😂🤣

    • @nertz4579
      @nertz4579 6 лет назад +8

      Shantia Jones He gonna have to have 4 full time jobs to pay for them

    • @chickaboom2406
      @chickaboom2406 6 лет назад +6

      He busy swinging his d**k around. I'm 35 and have 2 . To many 😂

    • @qarinero6407
      @qarinero6407 6 лет назад +12

      He is heading for a life of poverty and financial ruin!

    • @intuitiveself-love9513
      @intuitiveself-love9513 6 лет назад +4

      Wow. Something is wrong somewhere honestly. That's really sad.

  • @latoyatulloch382
    @latoyatulloch382 3 года назад +9

    I love this judge so much she’s such a mentor to every individual

  • @lakyshawilliams08
    @lakyshawilliams08 6 лет назад +233

    Jerome ,gimme the envelope! they pushing Judge Lake buttons on here she fed up!

  • @pablop5145
    @pablop5145 6 лет назад +28

    I love me some Judge Lauren Lake. She was perfectly cut out for this. WORDS!!!!!!

  • @lisagarrison7910
    @lisagarrison7910 5 лет назад +336

    Your honor, you would make a great president 🇺🇸

    • @basedmek
      @basedmek 4 года назад +22

      @Honest Citizen every president is biased. Our whole political institutions are biased lol that's how you become president. Can't be impartial to everything. Pick a side and make it make sense for everyone

    • @beautyincorporate868
      @beautyincorporate868 4 года назад +2

      Amen

    • @pinkpeonies3236
      @pinkpeonies3236 3 года назад

      I'd happily vote for the judge!

    • @ly3998
      @ly3998 3 года назад

      I agree she is always attacking the young women and let the knuckle dude slide. I’ve noticed that a few times

    • @mrscashmorrisey1702
      @mrscashmorrisey1702 3 года назад

      @@ly3998 Because women are the ones that CONTROL their bodies or should anyway. These boys will be boys well into their 40s and unless these girls get schooled early, this cycle will NOT change. It may seem biased but women hold the key.

  • @donaldanderson8747
    @donaldanderson8747 4 года назад +2

    I love this judge she is plain and practical right to the point.

  • @shelbysilverstein
    @shelbysilverstein 6 лет назад +1661

    And to the grandmother in the yellow ruffle neck blouse, I think it’s real foul that you wasn’t by your daughter’s side when she was in the hospital delivering her baby - regardless if you weren’t happy about the situation, what’s done is done and you should’ve at least been there for her at that moment. Smmfh 🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @tenessaclement9466
      @tenessaclement9466 6 лет назад +81

      I was thinking the same thing. That was really sad.

    • @saltysoul73
      @saltysoul73 6 лет назад +46

      True - too much interference from her. She needs to MHOB and let them sort it out.

    • @Be-MelaninStarRising
      @Be-MelaninStarRising 6 лет назад +55

      Shes there for here now and im sure always has been there regardless of the little information we have into these people's lives in 17:17 minutes/seconds. Obviously her daughter has forgiven her so that's all that matters.

    • @Be-MelaninStarRising
      @Be-MelaninStarRising 6 лет назад +1

      @@saltysoul73 👍👍👍👍

    • @TYREEKPOOLE-ju5mx
      @TYREEKPOOLE-ju5mx 6 лет назад +34

      The mother should have been raising her daughter more and stop trying to over compensate being a mother now.

  • @brotherfugue
    @brotherfugue 5 лет назад +150

    In my first REAL relationship as a young man, I heard the following: "so I can have a part of you forever." I realized then that I didn't feel the same way and I was in trouble. Thank God we never made the mistake of having children.

    • @dotsanders5811
      @dotsanders5811 5 лет назад +4

      Go too any school and watch the young lady's . Be honest , You will SEE it is not the Young Men !!!!

    • @blacktinabelcher2265
      @blacktinabelcher2265 5 лет назад

      @@dotsanders5811 😂

    • @chattingwithjojo
      @chattingwithjojo 5 лет назад +3

      @@blacktinabelcher2265 I laughed as well

    • @abdulqoyumoreoluwabello6891
      @abdulqoyumoreoluwabello6891 4 года назад

      Men...I'm touched

    • @Account-rz5nq
      @Account-rz5nq 2 года назад +3

      Black men are beautiful & know how to trick a woman into wanting a baby with him… It’s sick

  • @queennotarytx758
    @queennotarytx758 5 лет назад +38

    I’m so happy that the Judge admonished them the way she did...they all needed it!!

  • @elisabethjansen-buter7317
    @elisabethjansen-buter7317 3 года назад +2

    oh my word, what a fantastic speech from the judge, she IS a HERO!

  • @shannalynch4794
    @shannalynch4794 5 лет назад +32

    Lawd Judge Lake was dropping sooooo much wisdom today. I pray they really listen and process this moment!

  • @DHmczsgnjx-23
    @DHmczsgnjx-23 5 лет назад +530

    "I wAs dEa to see Da BaBy CoNceIveD" lol lord just stop talking ..

    • @TheJmitch86
      @TheJmitch86 5 лет назад +18

      I'm glad I wasn't the only one who caught that 🤣

    • @lavidaloca2344
      @lavidaloca2344 5 лет назад +3

      😳😳😳😂😂😂

    • @vernaereed1810
      @vernaereed1810 5 лет назад +2

      Sad...

    • @YT4Me57
      @YT4Me57 5 лет назад +7

      As the judge said, those two cannot string two words together to generate a sentence. Sad.

    • @lisadonavan6133
      @lisadonavan6133 5 лет назад +14

      I believe it was more like “con-ceed”. I agree. Stop talking.

  • @daaimahgreene558
    @daaimahgreene558 5 лет назад +157

    Her mama rocking that yellow top!!!

  • @donnathomas9111
    @donnathomas9111 2 года назад +3

    This is so beautiful Judge, I pray young people could receive this type of counseling before they get in front of you.

  • @michellefields2108
    @michellefields2108 4 года назад +181

    It's a lot of emotional healing and maturing needed and I'm referring to.the mothers. They can't teach what they themselves don't know🤦🏾

    • @jasmineavery4870
      @jasmineavery4870 3 года назад +5

      Yessss!!! That girl’s mother was on my nerve! Her daughter slept with two boys days apart & she had the nerve to say “it shouldn’t have taken this.” THIS, was definitely necessary! We know who the mom is... it’s the dad that’s in question. Then she was complaining about the 2 packages of diapers. Girl please!🙄 THEY (him & his mom) had NO legal/financial responsibility to that child UNTIL it was PROVEN that he is the biological parent. The boy’s mom was cool & collected. That lady in the yellow made me want to come through the phone on her.

    • @hillaryp6113
      @hillaryp6113 3 года назад

      Amen

    • @lynestarrodgers1745
      @lynestarrodgers1745 3 года назад

      T

  • @km2530
    @km2530 5 лет назад +230

    Omg that's a cute baby.
    "Being away" = In Jail.

  • @BS-dq1kz
    @BS-dq1kz 5 лет назад +46

    This episode breaks my heart. I was them at one point. I got pregnant at 18 and I now have a 17 1/2 year old son whom is my world! However, it took me until he was 8 to straighten my own life up and be a good mom to him. His biological father never did straighten up. I have been married for over 10 years now and I have 2 daughters also. They had structure and stability and a daddy at home. The difference in personalities in my girls and my son is daylight and dark.
    It has been a struggle and I have faith my son will be fine but I pray a whole lot for him. My girls excel in everything they do. He struggles in everything. He’s SO intelligent but he has a wild streak in him and it all has come from me and his dad not being the parents he needed at a very young age! It does make a difference in the types of people kids become when they don’t have a solid foundation! I have guilt over my son but I also know I have encouraged and done my best the last several years. So there’s nothing more I can do now.
    I just wish these young teens could see how things turned out for my son solely because I was always bickering with him and his family and I wasn’t focused on my baby! My mom got involved in my relationship with his dad. His mom got involved in our relationship. Everyone was pushing us away from one another and instead, they should’ve let us figure things out instead of making things worse. I know they were trying to help but it didn’t. So the girl in the video needs to tell her momma to back up some and stop pushing this young dad away and give him a chance now to show what he can be. If the dad chooses not to step up then that’s on him and they just need to do the best they can to love this baby without him!
    I know what I’m talking about! I lived it! I see the product of a broken home and bickering family members in my son today. And I regret my choices back then when my son was a baby and toddler more than any other time in my life! This family needs to stop fighting and get it together!
    My girls have had peaceful lives and it shows! All kids deserve to have peace in their homes.

    • @annawhyte5890
      @annawhyte5890 4 года назад +2

      Hope he's okay

    • @Soulflowersun
      @Soulflowersun 4 года назад +1

      Praying for him, I can’t imagine how you feel. Sending peace and love your way

    • @heidibonjour
      @heidibonjour Год назад

      Sounds like you were doing your best and really changed later! How is he doing now? All the best!

  • @tamiasebopetja
    @tamiasebopetja 3 года назад +26

    Chilee ,when he said I was there when the baby was conceived😭 .Education is important 🗣

  • @jhamp7191
    @jhamp7191 6 лет назад +142

    "Jerome gimme the envelope..." Sheeeeesh 😭😭😭... She was over this whole situation

    • @msgee50
      @msgee50 4 года назад

      That’s unusual, unlike Judge. I’ll be too through with this mess too

  • @Kayshaneil
    @Kayshaneil 6 лет назад +472

    I can't support mom on not being at the hospital. This was your child's first baby. You need to be there mom. Period! Idgad what's going on that you don't like!

    • @traceygarner7764
      @traceygarner7764 6 лет назад +13

      I do agree with that.

    • @6048-d5t
      @6048-d5t 6 лет назад +17

      Kayshaneil this whole situation screams dysfunction. The moms need to be better role mothers for their children.

    • @shanticcsgargoyel104
      @shanticcsgargoyel104 6 лет назад +11

      Right, her not being there was inexcusable. I wasn't even talking to my mother for months, but when my first was born, the entire fam was there, including her!

    • @BS-dq1kz
      @BS-dq1kz 5 лет назад +9

      Shanticcs Gargoyel That’s right! That’s how it should be! This poor young mother cried the entire time and I’m sure it’s because she had felt rejected by everyone the whole pregnant and birthing experience. I feel so bad for her.

    • @birdbuc9542
      @birdbuc9542 5 лет назад +2

      Right...just throw the whole mom away

  • @mauricegaskin5694
    @mauricegaskin5694 6 лет назад +29

    Thanks, Tawana. I had always believe that the greatest gift any man could have is a child, and i was blessed with 3, and when me and their mother split i became a single parent as a man and they have lived with me from 1999 until present, and they have enjoyed trips overseas, good food and clothes, and a good education . I live for them always

  • @shermacumberbatch2050
    @shermacumberbatch2050 3 года назад +3

    A TRUE AND POWERFUL MESSAGE AMEN...love it well said.