5 Mindset Habits to Change Your Life

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  • Опубликовано: 6 июл 2024
  • happy 2020!!!!!!!!!! here's a few nuggets of wisdom that have helped to transform my life over the years :) "Don’t think about what you want, think about what you can contribute - to everyone, regardless of their title - and invest in others every day. Make time for lunch or coffee even when you’re busy. You never know where those relationships will lead - be it in partnerships, negotiations or your personal life. One huge reason I’m here today is because I was lucky enough to meet a woman who needed an analyst on her corporate development team at Virgin. A mutual friend connected us, and when we met, I focused on her story and her needs instead of searching for ways she could help me. After our first conversation, I eventually explained to her how I could help her role and team. Just remember, good stuff comes from reaching out and making time without an agenda." - Melanie Whelan, CEO of SoulCycle
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  • @lilyf7654
    @lilyf7654 4 года назад +487

    One of my favorite qotes is
    "If you dont heal you bleed on the people that didn't cut you"

    • @amy_lee
      @amy_lee  4 года назад +3

      Lily F ♥️

    • @alionroare7777
      @alionroare7777 4 года назад +1

      Wow, that's a wonderful quote. Do you remember where or who the quote is from by any chance?

  • @tacosays
    @tacosays 4 года назад +992

    1. Success is not a zero sum game.
    2. You can't make your parents happy. They can't even make themselves happy.
    3. Happiness is an inside job.
    i. Suffering from displacement fantasy or destination anxiety.
    ii. Only if you are true about how you feel can you truly heal.
    4. The lesson keeps presenting itself until it has been learned.
    i. Doesn't happen to you but for you.
    5. You don't have to do things perfectly. You have to try to do better as a collective.

    • @amy_lee
      @amy_lee  4 года назад +35

      Mithi Akanksha A+ note taking 😉

  • @cypheryerim5938
    @cypheryerim5938 4 года назад +743

    please start a podcast i love you so much and love hearing your wise words !

    • @amy_lee
      @amy_lee  4 года назад +128

      this YEAR!

    • @heejujang5948
      @heejujang5948 4 года назад +16

      @@amy_lee OMG, 2020 just got whole lot better.

    • @nicolegoose567
      @nicolegoose567 4 года назад +1

      cypheryerim please do I’m for it

    • @nicolegoose567
      @nicolegoose567 4 года назад

      AMY LEE do ittt

    • @chronnakhan3363
      @chronnakhan3363 4 года назад +1

      I literally was about to comment the exact same thing wow

  • @jaz.herself
    @jaz.herself 4 года назад +22

    “The same lesson keeps repeating itself until the lesson is learned.” WHEWWWW !!!!

  • @millierouge
    @millierouge 4 года назад +212

    I love the one about your parents. I think we often forget like you said that our parents are just trying to figure everything out as well. Life is complicated enough as is.

    • @amy_lee
      @amy_lee  4 года назад +11

      Millie Rouge yes and their parents were and their parents’ parents were too! just life ✊🏽

  • @Mira-pc6fv
    @Mira-pc6fv 4 года назад +94

    “what’s travel and what good is it? any sunset is the sunset; one doesn’t have to go to constantinople to see it. the sensation of freedom that travel brings? i can have it by going from lisbon to benfica, and have it more intensely than one who goes from lisbon to china, because if the freedom isn’t in me, then i won’t have it no matter where i go.
    (...) no matter how high we climb or how low we descend, we never escape our sensations. we never disembark from ourselves. we never attain another existence unless we other ourselves by actively, vividly imagining who we are.”
    -Fernando Pessoa

    • @willywonka6384
      @willywonka6384 4 года назад +5

      I'm so happy that you quoted Pessoa, I'm Portuguese and he's one of our most loved poets. Everything he ever wrote was beautiful, I wish everyone could read his works in Portuguese.

    • @Mira-pc6fv
      @Mira-pc6fv 4 года назад +3

      willy wonka The book of disquiet is a masterpiece, I also hope that everyone will read this book someday!

  • @annija8802
    @annija8802 4 года назад +47

    Mostly in videos like this people say the same thing you hear everywhere...and you don't get anything worthy from them, but this is amazing! You're giving us some real advice!!! THANK YOU AMY!!! I hope this year we all get more healthy - both physically and mentally!

    • @amy_lee
      @amy_lee  4 года назад +5

      thank you for giving me a safe space to share!!

    • @jessieknight737
      @jessieknight737 4 года назад +1

      100000% agree

  • @daianadiaz9947
    @daianadiaz9947 4 года назад +70

    I was having a very bad existential new year crisis and this video make me feel so much better, motivated and less lonely. Thank you 💕

    • @amy_lee
      @amy_lee  4 года назад +4

      Daiana Diaz thank YOU for writing to me, sending strength n positivity your way Daiana

  • @yiyiihshah6784
    @yiyiihshah6784 4 года назад +167

    your content is life changing 🥺♥️

  • @laurencronin6694
    @laurencronin6694 4 года назад +27

    I love her style: her clothes, hair, and makeup. Also, this video is so necessary! Such important thoughts said beautifully and articulately.

  • @maricapagliuca962
    @maricapagliuca962 4 года назад +32

    When u said that life keeps giving u people w some treats in common until u learn the lession and are able to level up ,,,,,,,, this shh hit HARD and is so true in my opinion !! Now that I unlocked level 2 I can clearly see it ♡

    • @amy_lee
      @amy_lee  4 года назад +3

      Mars here’s to unlocking many more levels ;-)

    • @maricapagliuca962
      @maricapagliuca962 4 года назад

      Traits* treats ?????

  • @virginievillemaire8930
    @virginievillemaire8930 4 года назад +99

    you’ve helped me in so many ways, thank you, truly.

    • @amy_lee
      @amy_lee  4 года назад +7

      virginie villemaire thank you for giving me a safe space to share!!

  • @bettinabedicksdeconto3060
    @bettinabedicksdeconto3060 4 года назад +55

    do you read often? if so what are your favorite books? you’re really wise

    • @gisellecuahutle5574
      @gisellecuahutle5574 4 года назад +3

      bettina bedicks my favo would always be house on mango street

  • @precieuxx_9143
    @precieuxx_9143 4 года назад +11

    the lesson keeps presenting itself until it has been learned I felt that. I also need to change my mindset about success as well.

  • @Effortlessenjoy
    @Effortlessenjoy 4 года назад +6

    I’m a 21 year old, about to move to a new city and the whole displacement fantasy was something that was on my mind for weeks now. It’s made me want to seek therapy more and be even more open to trying out new things and actively seeking new experiences, knowing my fears of being stuck in my room feeling anxious and lonely in a foreign city. It’s made me more aware that yes, the same anxiety and depression will stick with me and so too will there be problems no matter where I go. But at least I know now I won’t be oblivious to it and rather learn to adapt and conquer it myself. That’s what comes with independence I suppose and you’ve made me more and more excited for this new experience so thank you :)

  • @jacquelinenguyen8471
    @jacquelinenguyen8471 4 года назад +2

    Recently the first mindset has really hit me. My mom always criticized everyone and doesn't trust anyone but that can be a lonely mindset. Even with success, it's better to learn how to collaborate with others. So I'm learning it doesn't have to be a dog eat dog world.

  • @kruemelmonsterlii
    @kruemelmonsterlii 4 года назад +7

    "problems are forever" - re-listened to this and everything you said in relation to it five times now. Just yesterday I questioned everything, my job, what I'm doing etc. But it's stupid to think everything will be better once I do have a new job. That's simply not the root of the problem. So simple and yet so eye opening! Thank you Amy xxx

  • @stoianrobert
    @stoianrobert 4 года назад +10

    I really liked the first one: "Success is not a zero sum game". Thank you so so so much

    • @amy_lee
      @amy_lee  4 года назад +1

      thank YOU for stopping by and tuning in 💕💕💕

  • @1dland98
    @1dland98 4 года назад +31

    You are full of wisdom and kindness and I hope someday I can grow in to someone similar to you. Thanks for giving us such good food for thought ❤️ happy new year

    • @amy_lee
      @amy_lee  4 года назад

      Dasuni thank you! i’m always learning how to be more patient and kinder. sending you much love your way 💕😀

  • @laura_ann1583
    @laura_ann1583 4 года назад +14

    I'm definitely watching this a few times. Excellent video. The bit about just learning the lesson rather than repeating the behaviour, really hit home. Writing it out makes it seem like it should be basic common sense, but it wasn't lol. Not
    for me anyway. Really need to be more self-aware. I loved this whole video. Thank you for making it.

  • @Jubbliesss
    @Jubbliesss 4 года назад +12

    I looove watching your self-help videos in the morning with my cup of tea. Makes my day 10x better haha THANK YOU AMY.

  • @HtetYuya
    @HtetYuya 4 года назад +3

    Thank you for this Amy!

  • @YoItsJordanSky
    @YoItsJordanSky 4 года назад +3

    Happy New Year's Amy. I love when you sit down with us.

  • @vivianeatsramen
    @vivianeatsramen 4 года назад

    happy 2020 amy!! thanks for sharing your thoughts 💛✨

  • @chimmychoinga7696
    @chimmychoinga7696 4 года назад

    Thank you for this. Truly.

  • @cecillesaldavia3646
    @cecillesaldavia3646 4 года назад +3

    i love u! hope you'll have a good year amy! ⭐️🍾

  • @filippajorgensen4389
    @filippajorgensen4389 4 года назад +3

    Thank you for sharing all of your insightful thoughts! Keep it coming 😍

  • @Alesanascreamokid
    @Alesanascreamokid 4 года назад +3

    I always think "shes underrated" then i see the amount of subscribers and im like "oh ok" youre so down to earth and chill like a small ass youtuber but sis is a whole successful channel. I just love your personality sis

  • @sosinlethyug1051
    @sosinlethyug1051 4 года назад

    Thank you so much, I really needed this.

  • @LilyBeth096
    @LilyBeth096 4 года назад

    love love love your hair!

  • @user-xk6jp7vp7d
    @user-xk6jp7vp7d 4 года назад

    i love this girl so much you truly impacted my 2019 in such a positive way im so grateful i found you on my suggested last year!

  • @kavix9312
    @kavix9312 4 года назад +1

    so wise. I love hearing you speak❤️

  • @setarehshadabi340
    @setarehshadabi340 4 года назад +17

    This is amazing, you talk about a lot of things that are similar to my religion which is the baha’i faith it’s great and it restates and suggests unity between all humans ❤️

    • @amy_lee
      @amy_lee  4 года назад +3

      fran i love that. most certainly, unity is what i stand for 💫💕

  • @jpocket7330
    @jpocket7330 4 года назад +1

    Love this, love you, love your content. Thank you for being you.

  • @rachaelbates1446
    @rachaelbates1446 4 года назад +3

    You speak so well and get your message across so well. Love these videos ❤️

  • @darkacademia9667
    @darkacademia9667 2 года назад

    Thanks for this amazing video Amy!

  • @jupitired777
    @jupitired777 3 года назад

    happy new year to u too amy

  • @stfuitschristal1
    @stfuitschristal1 4 года назад

    loved this so much

  • @MicahRion
    @MicahRion 4 года назад +1

    Happy 2020 Amy! I always love hearing from you ❤️

  • @yunaverse6841
    @yunaverse6841 4 года назад

    I’m so happy I found your channel. Thank you for creating

  • @happyhappy685
    @happyhappy685 4 года назад

    Thank you for this video, its a great help!!!

  • @AbscisicAciid
    @AbscisicAciid 4 года назад +1

    !!! I love her content,,,,I cannot express !!

  • @hortymyty6089
    @hortymyty6089 4 года назад +3

    I was so down , spend the whole 1rst crying. Thanks for the video + you are so gorgeous

  • @maddy4180
    @maddy4180 4 года назад

    I love your channel and videos like these 💓

  • @gianviatka
    @gianviatka 4 года назад

    Same same same. Needed to hear this even if I already knew it. Thanks, Amy!!! ☺️

  • @yoongismuse992
    @yoongismuse992 4 года назад

    ILYSM Thankyou for being so genuine

  • @16dancechik
    @16dancechik 4 года назад +2

    Would love to see book recommendations! Love you Amy and Happy New Year

  • @geewucha
    @geewucha 4 года назад

    Thank you for this Amy.

  • @AlexandraBoadu
    @AlexandraBoadu 4 года назад

    Thank you. This will definitely be all noted down for 2020.

  • @melanim9943
    @melanim9943 4 года назад

    It’s also worth mentioning that leaving an abusive environment for a new one is NOT destination fantasy. I moved out of my dad’s recently and I truly believe that my new apartment is my own, my sacred space, my refuge that I sought to get away from abuse. Just wanted to get this point out there so others in a similar situation don’t feel invalidated.

  • @jordanneriley9597
    @jordanneriley9597 4 года назад +1

    Happy 2020 Amy, I hope this year brings you success and all the things you want. Thank you so much for your uploads they have really helped me. 💜

  • @jakirwin
    @jakirwin 4 года назад +1

    Best 2020 self help video I've seen so far!! Wow, thank you so much

  • @hongsuuwan
    @hongsuuwan 3 года назад

    You hit the nail on the all-or-nothing aspect of change!! Loving the content.

  • @sangyay
    @sangyay 4 года назад

    "GET REAL ABOUT HOW YOU FEEL SO THAT YOU CAN HEAL."
    wow. this hit me hard.

  • @Aswhatitis
    @Aswhatitis 4 года назад

    Love this episode ❤️

  • @guudijaan
    @guudijaan 4 года назад

    i needed this so bad ! I really think its crazy how your content always come at the right time when i need it and actually has an effect over my mindset your tips literally always have an impact on me wherther it validates what i thought or suggests & helps me to spot mecanisms i can work on about myself thank you so much

  • @trulycharitee5505
    @trulycharitee5505 4 года назад

    I definitely needed to hear this at this time in my life, now I can focus on making a better version of myself

  • @lilyfarsi4661
    @lilyfarsi4661 4 года назад +3

    Love it! I love the Peggy Gou vibe with your outfit!

  • @gindokki
    @gindokki 4 года назад +1

    Thank you so much for this video, for reminding us that nothing is ever truly lost 💙 Happy 2020 to you Amy, keep on being amazing!

  • @wiktoriaweintritt
    @wiktoriaweintritt 4 года назад +1

    watching your videos has changed my perspective on life into a much more positive one and i'm starting to notice the common mistakes i used to make, so thank you!

  • @edharris5881
    @edharris5881 3 года назад

    This is so helpful for me right now. Thank you

  • @tuhbingaling
    @tuhbingaling 4 года назад

    killed it as usual.
    Very helpful tips !

  • @anad1411
    @anad1411 4 года назад +1

    Thanks so much for this amazing thoughts for new 2020 year. I really like your words about out parents, because it is the main problem of my stress and depression. I really will try to use your habit in my real life. Thanks, Amy)💞

  • @daniellem.9165
    @daniellem.9165 4 года назад +1

    your videos are always the best!!!! can’t wait to start this new year with a different mindset,, also quick comment, we are not entering a new decade, we’re entering the end of the decade lol the decade doesn’t end till 2021.

  • @andrea.6_
    @andrea.6_ 4 года назад +1

    Thank you Amy! Thanks for sharing all of your insightful amazing thoughts.
    love you so much and love hearing your wise words!
    Big heart from Taiwan ❤️

  • @tanaesc
    @tanaesc 4 года назад

    I really feel I connect with you and your way of life. I admire the way you use your platform to spread such wisdom and positivity. I appreciate your being and your channel!

  • @estherparrk3964
    @estherparrk3964 3 года назад

    Thank you for being you Amy and for sharing your experiences and advice, your content is very eye opening and healing💜

  • @lanatesan1356
    @lanatesan1356 4 года назад +2

    Please make a podcast,, I'd listen to you 24/7 omg

  • @bbina03
    @bbina03 4 года назад

    you are probably one of the few creators on this platform that i feel like i can truly connect to and feel spiritually in tune with. thank you for helping me figure things out

  • @ijklmn8318
    @ijklmn8318 3 года назад

    So wise ❤️💕 thankyouu

  • @dimphothupaemang3171
    @dimphothupaemang3171 4 года назад

    I like these kinds of videos. Thank you Amy ❤️

  • @juanitaangel
    @juanitaangel 4 года назад

    I admire you soo much!! You are my role model and watching you always inspires me to do better, you are always gonna be my fave youtuber♡

  • @satsuma836
    @satsuma836 4 года назад +1

    Omg i LOVED this 💚

  • @lycheekiwi
    @lycheekiwi 4 года назад

    Thank you, Amy 😌

  • @queenlay9095
    @queenlay9095 4 года назад

    I have just recently been watching your videos and your content is really life changing

  • @elsie4802
    @elsie4802 4 года назад

    I love love LOVE your hair!!🤩 Gives me tropical ocean vibes🌊

  • @buhle1217
    @buhle1217 4 года назад

    Thank you🌼

  • @itslillyclare6128
    @itslillyclare6128 4 года назад

    Number 5 speaks the most to me. I need to remind myself all the time that it’s important to try your hardest, but don’t knock yourself down if you don’t get it 100% right!!

  • @vanessaandkate
    @vanessaandkate 4 года назад

    Wow. I'm very glad you popped up in my recommendations tonight. I was just coming to terms with the fact my dad is a high functioning alcoholic. And he's been like that forever, was just too young and blind to see. And I cannot have it hold me back. Especially after trying to do or say what I could. Thanks

  • @pompom4458
    @pompom4458 4 года назад +8

    Thank you Amy, i'm trying to figure out myself in this world and I really enjoy your chatty videos 💕
    Happy new year sis! 😙

    • @amy_lee
      @amy_lee  4 года назад +1

      Graz Graz happy new year gorl :)

  • @dreamy_skull
    @dreamy_skull 4 года назад +1

    I love your videos since I was on highschool like 4 years ago and even if I don't have enough free time to watch all of them I always try to listen to u while doing the chores or things like that and sometimes I even repeat some parts to focus on what u just said!
    i have two personal mindsets relatively new in my daily life and those are: 1st don't be too hard on myself and adopt more a 'slowly but surely' way of working to fight against anxiety of doing everything perfectly and learn that most of the times things don't go as we thought and that's ok I just have to be more adaptive, and 2nd is to don't let others consume my happiness and grow up from every relationship/friendship I have.
    anyways, happy 2♡2♡

  • @elizabethrodriguez6909
    @elizabethrodriguez6909 4 года назад +1

    Literally it’s 4:31am I’m awake due to my mind just overthinking about problems but hey your channel helped a lot especially this video, thank you so much. 💗

  • @rebeccadomken1735
    @rebeccadomken1735 4 года назад

    I really enjoyed this video, I think you are very stray forward and I love that. You are helping me at this moment in my life, thank you. You are beautiful

  • @olivepatricia183
    @olivepatricia183 4 года назад

    Thanks for making this video Amy, I really like about what you said about point 2 and I feel it so related to myself :)

  • @mickeyclaire3102
    @mickeyclaire3102 4 года назад

    This is a lovely insight into mindful mantras to adopt. I agree with all of these and something I've lived by is that every day is a new beginning and the possibilities for today are endless.

  • @jennaaustin2846
    @jennaaustin2846 4 года назад

    Such an amazing video. So true about how people pick up their lives and move somewhere to 'start new' but in reality they're just going to a new place but taking themselves and their problems with them.

  • @katherinegreen1117
    @katherinegreen1117 4 года назад

    Man I just wanna cry. This video was fantastic. I'm in love with your knowledge and passion for improvement. Your advice on pleasing parents hit the hardest. I'm 20 and I feel like I cant be who/what they need me to be all the time and that I'm stifling my own growth but dont want to admit it. I bet you have the best late night conversations with people - you're so inspiring. Thank you for your channel.

  • @nicole-phvn
    @nicole-phvn 4 года назад

    I can't help but say that these habits are sooo! good!! and I can't thank you enough for sharing them and elaborating on them :0 I'll def be reflecting on these

  • @solianaubuy8377
    @solianaubuy8377 4 года назад

    amy you are so amazing!! I would love to see you do a book of the month or an updated book list!

  • @mashalakiana9358
    @mashalakiana9358 4 года назад

    Such a great video. I love that this video was put out for the world on the first of the year (although I am watching it today 02/26). I need to change my mindset because I have been in this place of "unknown" for years now and I feel lost. This video helped me a bit better with a sense of direction.

  • @tangosunshine7299
    @tangosunshine7299 4 года назад +4

    NEVER BEEN THIS EARLY! HAPPY NEW YEAR EVERYONE 🎉

  • @EdmarMBorja
    @EdmarMBorja 4 года назад +4

    That 13secs hahah, loving you always AMY

  • @Sunshine17seventeen
    @Sunshine17seventeen 4 года назад

    Thank you.

  • @dongholicxL
    @dongholicxL 4 года назад

    your videos are so helpful amy ❤️

  • @ladybirdangie7796
    @ladybirdangie7796 4 года назад

    Always inspiring! Keep going sis!💙🎉

  • @cloerelene
    @cloerelene 4 года назад

    thank you so much for making videos. you are one of the only people that can make me feel like a badass! again, thanks babe :)

  • @msbren
    @msbren 4 года назад +1

    Thank you so much for being so willing to share your insight on life. Your helpful words encourage me to continue with building awareness for mental illness and to build my brand based on personal experience. I suffer from Borderline personality disorder, bipolar disorder and PCOS. Life is not easy, but you help me to remember how to find the good in my self and in my life. I love you and your channel. Thank you for existing.

    • @amy_lee
      @amy_lee  4 года назад

      thank YOU for writing to me ☺️

  • @irfaadtha5183
    @irfaadtha5183 4 года назад +1

    you def should start a podcast!!! ❤️❤️❤️ thank u for this x

  • @UptownGirl_
    @UptownGirl_ 4 года назад

    I love you amy 😭 I'm not joking. I just finished college and got my license and now I'm looking for a job and it's really hard for me right now and I always watch your videos again and again so I could be reminded of your advices. So thankful at how you talk about these things 💗

  • @asawirali6345
    @asawirali6345 4 года назад

    U r glowing mentally as physically in these video i notice how far u 💞💞