How Breaking Up Will Save Your Relationship (6 Ways!)

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  • Опубликовано: 25 окт 2024

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  • @superbobmuffin
    @superbobmuffin 4 года назад +1049

    2013 she broke up with me, 2019 I asked for her hand in marriage. It's not the end all be all with a break up.

    • @superbobmuffin
      @superbobmuffin 4 года назад +28

      @Berry Aleq we're getting married in October

    • @superbobmuffin
      @superbobmuffin 4 года назад +24

      @Berry Aleq nah I'm good

    • @MR247COKE
      @MR247COKE 4 года назад +2

      When did you guys reconnect?

    • @superbobmuffin
      @superbobmuffin 4 года назад +12

      @@MR247COKE summer 2017

    • @victoriao1599
      @victoriao1599 4 года назад +16

      If you don't mind me asking, why did she break up with you initially and who made the first move in getting back together

  • @jenniferjohnson8629
    @jenniferjohnson8629 Год назад +74

    Saddest thing is when your partner was also your best friend.

  • @introvertedlass6355
    @introvertedlass6355 5 лет назад +747

    one of my friends broke up with his boyfriend for a year and half and later they got back together and are married now

    • @GabrielRodriguez-um8fi
      @GabrielRodriguez-um8fi 4 года назад +49

      Same deal with me, but the break up lasted for a few weeks but now i'm about to get married in a couple of months.

    • @Pichara9
      @Pichara9 4 года назад +32

      My colleague broke up with his boyfriend for a year and then they got back together and now they're married too

    • @unreleasedmusic1410
      @unreleasedmusic1410 4 года назад +2

      Introverted lass gay marriage??

    • @mightyobserver12
      @mightyobserver12 4 года назад +20

      Its really hard to forget people who you have intimacy and relatiobship.

    • @olipahpaul8023
      @olipahpaul8023 4 года назад +4

      I hope was me

  • @Elena-Studio
    @Elena-Studio 5 лет назад +809

    When she started talking really fast.......I started panicking. Trying to figure out what button I accidentally pressed

  • @andrewcruz7595
    @andrewcruz7595 5 лет назад +583

    THIS WILL WORK ONLY FOR COUPLES WHO REALLY ARE RESPONSIBLE AND YOU TRUST EACH OTHER

    • @funyawise4489
      @funyawise4489 4 года назад +4

      True

    • @snehabarua9353
      @snehabarua9353 4 года назад +2

      Damn very true

    • @mizzcrazygal
      @mizzcrazygal 4 года назад +4

      Andrew Cruz lol true, me and my ex didn’t trust each other cus he kept on cheating on me he thought i would seek revenge and do the same 🙄 it’s been almost a month now and still heard nothing from him lol. i think he’s found someone else

    • @tonysnyder4017
      @tonysnyder4017 4 года назад +3

      That's the whole point...

    • @sluggo562
      @sluggo562 3 года назад

      If you have kids and you're risking their family dynamic over this it's a bit weird. Also, who has three spare months to go through a pile of heartache? Just see a marriage councillor.

  • @anewloveofficial9137
    @anewloveofficial9137 5 лет назад +731

    Sometimes being single and alone makes us realized how great life is.
    We can slowly appreciate every little thing that you didn't notice before when you are still with him.

    • @walterestrada9523
      @walterestrada9523 5 лет назад +15

      A New Love Official well said . Being single is amazing . Take care of urself no women is worth suffering for .

    • @anewloveofficial9137
      @anewloveofficial9137 5 лет назад +1

      @@walterestrada9523 It's absolutely true. Thanks=)

    • @Hopekayeny
      @Hopekayeny 5 лет назад +4

      That's true. I'm having a great self discovery journey

    • @pabi889
      @pabi889 5 лет назад +3

      @@walterestrada9523 being single is the best 😊

    • @davidbathkedb
      @davidbathkedb 5 лет назад

      *🤗Her

  • @lis853
    @lis853 5 лет назад +326

    Cant stop eating? I haven't eaten more than a couple of small meals in a week.... I. Even struggle to eat that.

    • @northtown3816
      @northtown3816 4 года назад +3

      Me 2 bros I'm in the same boat never again going to protect my 💙

    • @tarass8737
      @tarass8737 4 года назад +14

      Same. I lost all the weight i was struggling to lose for a year or two now. Its both a good and bad things. 😂

    • @d_s00
      @d_s00 4 года назад +10

      Same here man😂 after my breakup I didnt eat for 4 days and hardly eat. Small meals and losing a lot of weight hahaha just wishing for her to come back one day

    • @cecilesuperfree1042
      @cecilesuperfree1042 4 года назад

      Brutally Honest Lis Lis metoo

    • @kelly-tg9mq
      @kelly-tg9mq 4 года назад

      ss omg u made me laugh thank you for that lol

  • @Mauitaoist
    @Mauitaoist 4 года назад +256

    Sometimes you need to rebuild the relationship by ending the one you had and then rebuilding with the remaining parts

    • @cipryan96
      @cipryan96 3 года назад +2

      There no rebuild when she leaves for fucking Tyrone. 🤡

    • @bloomingchelle7215
      @bloomingchelle7215 3 года назад

      Rebuilding with the remaining parts

    • @cipryan96
      @cipryan96 3 года назад +3

      @@bloomingchelle7215 rebuilding on ruins, great ideea 😂😂

  • @thehollyannrose
    @thehollyannrose 5 лет назад +485

    Doing this over and over sounds like a recipe for a forever bf. I want a husband. I want someone that is confident in promising a future to me, and I feel the same.

    • @tipoftheiceberg7034
      @tipoftheiceberg7034 5 лет назад +19

      Hollyann Rose All you want is someone to load their wallet on you

    • @apollonian_lux2473
      @apollonian_lux2473 5 лет назад +16

      @@tipoftheiceberg7034 They say they want a husband, but what are they doing to be worthy for & to keep one? Marriage is a commitment not just another check on your to-do list.

    • @kevonattahdehillarious5434
      @kevonattahdehillarious5434 5 лет назад

      Hollyann Rose letz connect i also need a wife. kevinloki@gmail.com

    • @IndianRedBaron
      @IndianRedBaron 4 года назад +5

      Only u can promise a solid future for yourself
      .

    • @GabrielRodriguez-um8fi
      @GabrielRodriguez-um8fi 4 года назад +7

      As long he is committed, I support you! I'm about to get married myself, been through so much tribulations in our relationship, we became stronger.

  • @Iraqveteran-ke6qu
    @Iraqveteran-ke6qu 4 года назад +259

    If someone is willing to walk away from you, the best thing you can do is let them walk.

    • @Whateverittakes2101
      @Whateverittakes2101 3 года назад +1

      AMEN GIRL! This is true. Whoever don't want me, i don't want you either and it happens so naturally without even trying. Because i KNOW myself. And YOU KNOW yourself too. You are worth far more 😊💖

    • @wrxrob2589
      @wrxrob2589 3 года назад +2

      @@Whateverittakes2101 right! Closure is them walking away from you

    • @nshklf4l
      @nshklf4l 11 месяцев назад

      If you don't chase, there's no reason for them to run.

    • @jd6331
      @jd6331 8 месяцев назад

      Thank you for this reminder 🙏🩷
      If he comes back it will have been after the second break up.. both times he pulled the trigger. I don't feel like he's going to come back this time like he came back the first time.... But if he ever does try, he'll have to really show me that he put in the work because last time he really didn't and I took him back anyway. He needs therapy and to learn to stop running away when s*** in life gets difficult... Relationships are not easy, but he doesn't have a lot of experience with them. He's 33 almost 34. I'm 37, 38 later this year. I can't be wasting my time anymore. I want a family and I want to move forward in my life. 😥 I don't have time to waste anymore on people who could leave that easily. I'm looking for the real deal and tired of the disappointment.

    • @BlackPanther-tt1vu
      @BlackPanther-tt1vu 6 месяцев назад

      What work have you put in yourself because I'm sure there's things you also did that your ex didn't like ​@@jd6331

  • @foreversurfergirl
    @foreversurfergirl 6 лет назад +505

    Well while all of this is great news I think it's hard when everyone knows you two ended things. Back peddling after you let your friends and family give you the "he doesn't deserve you" pep talk is extremely hard

    • @sarawilkenson686
      @sarawilkenson686 6 лет назад +51

      foreversurfergirl it really is I absolutely hate that part. My fiance and I broke up just about a month ago and it's like the heartache washes all over again when people ask "how Are you doing?" "There's plenty of fish in the sea" blah blah blah. It just sucks

    • @JessicaBoss
      @JessicaBoss  6 лет назад +86

      That's true but your friends just want what's best for you. If you two decide to give it another shot, they will understand.

    • @ponderdarlingmybustedheart
      @ponderdarlingmybustedheart 6 лет назад +34

      I agree. If I did get back with him nobody would respect me anymore because they know how much he hurt me

    • @nurarich4945
      @nurarich4945 5 лет назад +2

      Ponder Darling My Busted Heart i am the same I can’t take him even if i wanted to ,everyone will hate me especially my mom ,he disrespected her

    • @jrdnLC
      @jrdnLC 5 лет назад +1

      @@sarawilkenson686 did u guys get back together??

  • @tabatatee
    @tabatatee 4 года назад +147

    A breakup makes you appreciate the person just like how a car accident can get you to appreciate life. If you don’t get back together then it wasn’t meant to be. I walk ✌🏼 boyfriend or husband I don’t stay for nonsense

    • @homeofsolution3922
      @homeofsolution3922 3 года назад

      I recommend you to Dr Joe his manifestations and spells are the best💞💞💞💞💕💕💕❤❤❤

    • @homeofsolution3922
      @homeofsolution3922 3 года назад

      He helped me get my ex back a few days ago under 24 hours without any delay ❤❤❤❤❤💕💕💞💞💞

    • @homeofsolution3922
      @homeofsolution3922 3 года назад

      Whtzpp him*****

    • @homeofsolution3922
      @homeofsolution3922 3 года назад

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    • @homeofsolution3922
      @homeofsolution3922 3 года назад

      + 2 3 4 9 0 5 0 8 0 4 9 2 7

  • @poojashetty7450
    @poojashetty7450 3 года назад +67

    1.Face Your problems all alone
    2.Time to heal
    3. New perspective
    4.Shake things up
    5.Realize your priorities
    6.Shows how being single sucks

    • @beatricemelinne9220
      @beatricemelinne9220 3 года назад

      Hello to whom it may concern I know of someone who helped me restore back my broken relationship and he can also help you too as he did mine too

    • @beatricemelinne9220
      @beatricemelinne9220 3 года назад

      Consult him directly for help via WhatsApp

    • @beatricemelinne9220
      @beatricemelinne9220 3 года назад

      +1,816,3,4,38307

    • @GoddessOfLife-fp2cy
      @GoddessOfLife-fp2cy 3 года назад +1

      Believe me I'm not bragging or trying to make unnecessary comment here, this was what really happened to me. I have a broken relationship for 3years, but now I we are back together through his help. He can really help you as he helped me.

    • @GoddessOfLife-fp2cy
      @GoddessOfLife-fp2cy 3 года назад

      Text him on whtz ap💗❣️

  • @Entyse
    @Entyse 5 лет назад +371

    This doesn't work on narcissistic abusers

    • @Salomea369
      @Salomea369 5 лет назад +5

      EntyseOnline true

    • @jluck1399
      @jluck1399 5 лет назад +9

      It can but it’s not as likely

    • @anonymouslee2083
      @anonymouslee2083 5 лет назад +54

      Well why the fuck would you want an abusive partner back anyways? If they don't come back, that's a GOOD thing!

    • @claritywithteekay
      @claritywithteekay 5 лет назад +19

      narcissistic abusers dont deserve to be in relationships in the first place so anything actually positive doesn't work on them

    • @anonymouslee2083
      @anonymouslee2083 5 лет назад +3

      Teekay true. 10 out of 10 psychologists who actually deserve their licenses recommend no contact or as close to it as any arrangements involving any minor children with him or her will allow if your partner has narcissistic personality disorder

  • @flyingtiger4714
    @flyingtiger4714 5 лет назад +322

    I dont see how breaking up is good for a relationship. It makes people really emotionally upset. Makes people say hurtful things they will regret. Alot of trust is lost. Fear of rejection a second time. Etc, etc.

    • @kathylopez3608
      @kathylopez3608 5 лет назад +8

      Flying Tiger you are so right

    • @MurderTwoOne
      @MurderTwoOne 5 лет назад +62

      Depends on the breakup. Some are mutual.

    • @jxuann89
      @jxuann89 5 лет назад +29

      Don't break up deliberately just to make things better. Break up only you mean it

    • @jenny01317
      @jenny01317 5 лет назад +58

      Go no contact until the dumper reaches out, otherwise they have no value in your life

    • @NguyenPhan-sc4hm
      @NguyenPhan-sc4hm 5 лет назад +19

      I would probably say the person is not emotionally mature enough to be in a relationship.

  • @candywillard6452
    @candywillard6452 5 лет назад +370

    They can’t work on themselves when they just simply jump out of ur relationship and into another right away

    • @TnD_BigJax
      @TnD_BigJax 5 лет назад +10

      EXACTLY!!

    • @patrickclarke3645
      @patrickclarke3645 5 лет назад +29

      My ex gf did this. Very disappointed in her. I am going to work on self.

    • @masterchief1998w
      @masterchief1998w 5 лет назад +6

      T Mac that’s me right now but I’m focusing on myself while she went with another guy within a month while we we’re still dating. She threw away 6yrs for a honey moon with this guy smh

    • @masterchief1998w
      @masterchief1998w 4 года назад +1

      T Mac I didn’t see this comment but thank you I really appreciate it

    • @masterchief1998w
      @masterchief1998w 4 года назад +1

      T Mac and that sucks for what you went through ): I’m sorry

  • @wyghtonblue
    @wyghtonblue 5 лет назад +80

    I wonder how many of these 'relationship guru's' could actually follow their own advice after a break up; when they're feeling that gut wrenching sorrow and loss, and just wishing they could turn the clock back and change what happened, or what led up to the break up. Maybe they'd end up watching RUclips videos about 'getting your ex back' etcetera, then hearing them talk about 17-24 year olds, when you're actually in your late forties and starting again seems an absolute impossibility.

  • @sherbsville
    @sherbsville 5 лет назад +25

    being single shouldnt suck. i want to learn to be happy alone again, and not need someone else.

  • @lifeofc7170
    @lifeofc7170 5 лет назад +60

    My situation is the following:
    " When a girl is used to being hurt, they won't know how it feels when a man starts appreciating her so she ends up pushing him away "
    I trust the Universe will bring us back together ❤
    I know is a moment of Breakthrough ❤
    I let go and trust God ❤
    Is day 65 with no contact and received 2 messages at day 60 and i will continue to wait until God / Universe brings her back naturally ❤

    • @jenoayatnol6387
      @jenoayatnol6387 5 лет назад +1

      Cristian Velazquez agree

    • @Longbyname
      @Longbyname 5 лет назад

      At least you’ve had some contact from her. Very very lucky.

    • @lifeofc7170
      @lifeofc7170 5 лет назад +8

      @@Longbyname 🙏
      I trust deeply in this process.
      I have confidence in her and know that the bond will be stronger than ever before.
      Trust the process,
      Speak it. Believe it. Receive it.

    • @nettastrawberry2709
      @nettastrawberry2709 5 лет назад +2

      Cristian Velazquez , this is so true. Me an ex just broke up officially but I know I’m due season we will reunite. When you have a knowing about anything, no one can tell you different , especially when you trust God’s process

    • @lifeofc7170
      @lifeofc7170 5 лет назад +3

      @@nettastrawberry2709 I respect you + Keep on going with the process 🙏 You & yout heart will unite again and for the rest of your life ! Don't give up, keep on going. Don't give up on the love of your life ! A True Love doesn't give up ! Be different, Be rare, Be the Light.
      I still will keep on going on my journey, as of today is day 96 and i am blessed 🙏
      I trust soly in the Universe that God will unite us together again and for the rest of my life ❤🙏
      A love meant to be, A true love story ❤
      Love is patient, Love is kind
      One Love, One Heart, One Life 🙏❤

  • @NANDOEDITZ2023
    @NANDOEDITZ2023 5 лет назад +77

    ok.... you lost me when you said "being single sucks"

  • @bettyselenator
    @bettyselenator 2 года назад +8

    I broke up with my ex 4 days ago and currently I feel so lonely... but i did it for both of us because we both were damaged and we couldn't heal each other. but I hope for getting back with him cause he treated me so good and we had a polite and warm relationship.

    • @v.br.7398
      @v.br.7398 3 месяца назад

      Hello,
      Did you succeed to get back together since then?
      I have the same issue.

    • @legacyclan8861
      @legacyclan8861 4 дня назад

      any update?

  • @niasyed7002
    @niasyed7002 5 лет назад +29

    Why would you want to make your ex super jealous? It hurts them! Jealousy can take away your sleep. It's the worst emotion I've ever felt!

    • @homeofsolution3922
      @homeofsolution3922 3 года назад

      I recommend you to Dr Joe his manifestations and spells are the best💞💞💞💞💕💕💕❤❤❤

    • @homeofsolution3922
      @homeofsolution3922 3 года назад

      He helped me get my ex back a few days ago under 24 hours without any delay ❤❤❤❤❤💕💕💞💞💞

    • @homeofsolution3922
      @homeofsolution3922 3 года назад

      Whtzpp him*****

    • @homeofsolution3922
      @homeofsolution3922 3 года назад

      +2=3=4=9=0=5=0=8=0=4=9=2=7

    • @homeofsolution3922
      @homeofsolution3922 3 года назад

      + 2 3 4 9 0 5 0 8 0 4 9 2 7

  • @aly5246
    @aly5246 4 года назад +34

    Dated my ex for 5 years and bunch of ups and down, mainly maturity was the issue. Two and half years later we are back together and never been better. 🖤 I’m thankful for the breakup, it definitely wasn’t an easy thing to do but it was worth it.

    • @janewilson3260
      @janewilson3260 4 года назад

      Alexandra I know someone very powerful who can help you get your ex back

    • @janewilson3260
      @janewilson3260 4 года назад

      Alexandra just text him on WhatsApp okay

    • @janewilson3260
      @janewilson3260 4 года назад

      Alexandra +2348140610301

    • @givemelovegivemepeaceonearth00
      @givemelovegivemepeaceonearth00 Год назад

      I’m so happy for you both!!

    • @Speedofresemblance
      @Speedofresemblance 9 месяцев назад

      Sorry for this question but did you guys see other people in the time being and how did u handle that?

  • @craigh8832
    @craigh8832 5 лет назад +15

    Just like a novel, without suffering and character growth....there wouldn't be any story to tell! But this isn't a novel! This is your Life! Be a better You!

  • @WolfQueenLydia
    @WolfQueenLydia Год назад +4

    My bf had all depression signs, and he broke up with me yesterday coz he was so down and feeling awful. It hurt but, I love him so much and still feel his love in his eyes, despite the cloud over his head. Out of respect I said I'll allow him to find himself, and that self love, but I so want our realtionship back one day... he's so much more than just love for me...

    • @IbraimRizk
      @IbraimRizk Месяц назад +1

      had the same issue .... its not about depression thats lie ...

  • @leahc8347
    @leahc8347 5 лет назад +23

    "Do it for them"... I dont want to have false hope. I feel awful enough already about myself..
    And as time goes on I think time just make them forget you not miss you...

  • @karateLEMON
    @karateLEMON 4 года назад +25

    This really helped me rethink my break up. 7 years gone just lile that. So im gonna use this time to focus on me. Fix my problems. Find out how i can truly be the best version of myself. And who knows. Maybe when its settled. We can be together again. Thank you for this vid. ❤️ Really helped me rethink things over.

    • @ashleykoester8090
      @ashleykoester8090 4 года назад

      +2348155485119 text him on Whatzapp he can help you get your ex back...📞📞📞

    • @gungangtv7177
      @gungangtv7177 2 года назад

      Not alone bro my 7 years coming to a end.

    • @trishthistrishthat
      @trishthistrishthat Год назад +1

      Hello, i wonder how you went? My partner of 8 years has ended things because i had caused a lot of hurt with my unresolved issues and trauma. He deserves better so I will be better. For myself first, but I believe I want to keep choosing him

    • @Startpixie12
      @Startpixie12 Год назад

      Did you get back together

    • @karateLEMON
      @karateLEMON Год назад +1

      @@Startpixie12 thankfully no. They had an affair for several months which their family were in on and they got me into alot of debt by forging my signature on all the utility bills without me knowing before ditching me. But I've grown so much stronger because of it. I don't get pushed around anymore and my confidence is a little too much at times but the break up is what was needed I think. I'm now in a much happier relationship with someone else who has made me feel wanted the way they never did before ☺️ And thank you for sharing interest ❤️ I really appreciate that.

  • @XIStEw13IX
    @XIStEw13IX 5 лет назад +43

    This is really terrible advice. My ex broke up with me after we lived together for nearly 4 years. I had to move and had nothing. I lost my job at around the same time so moving really didn't help my situation either.
    She realized I wasn't coming back and tried several times to reconnect.
    I found out later she initiated the breakup thinking I would come back.
    She tried to manipulate me. And she wasn't treating me well before the break-up.
    I gave her every chance to work things out and she chose to hurt me instead. So, I walked away and shut the door on my way out.
    She's engaged now and has tried to rub it in my face. I can see she's not really happy, but honestly I don't think she ever will be.
    Communicate and work on yourself while in a relationship if you can't do that then your not ready to have a serious long term relationship with anyone.

    • @rajeshpatel6593
      @rajeshpatel6593 5 лет назад +1

      Cistew U r right..if she behaved badly then move on is only option.she will realise in future that u were right

    • @hughesstanley2329
      @hughesstanley2329 4 года назад

      People must also act with integrity when they are trying to impress a former partner. When a person is acting with integrity they will be willing to accept blame for the things that they have previously done that caused emotional pain. Most individuals will be able to clearly understand the benefits of this level of honesty. Visit *MyExLove. info* If you want to get back your ex back

    • @isaacsanders9203
      @isaacsanders9203 4 года назад +2

      XIStEw13IX I totally agree... was with my girl for years and she wouldn’t communicate when there was issues. It was small stuff but she’s freak out. Issues just ended up getting bigger and bigger and more and more. I watched it get worst while knowing the only way was to work it out, but that’s what she wouldn’t do. Plus, I can’t beg to make it work so I allowed her time to try... didn’t work. Cheers brother

  • @matildamendezmatildasmuses
    @matildamendezmatildasmuses 5 лет назад +45

    Me and my boyfriend broke up a while ago but we had a really good breakup and we respected each other we got back together a few day later when we talked threw everything and understood each other now we are better then ever

    • @66xtopher
      @66xtopher 4 года назад +14

      matilda mendez a few days? It’s not even a break up just a spat.

    • @noneyabusiness9931
      @noneyabusiness9931 4 года назад +2

      So a fake break lol

    • @matildamendezmatildasmuses
      @matildamendezmatildasmuses 4 года назад +3

      Chris Longley lol well we’re still together so whatever ig

    • @lieke9807
      @lieke9807 3 года назад +4

      How did it happen? Me and my boyfriend broke up last wensday. A good break up with an open door to give each other space. I miss him so much and love him dearly i want him back so bad

    • @lM-yb8mf
      @lM-yb8mf 3 года назад

      @@lieke9807 I’m in the same situation

  • @GokuTheHusky
    @GokuTheHusky 5 лет назад +113

    It's called narcissistic behaviors...they leave you to sleep with others and when they see that you have e someone else they hate seeing you (their toy) being played with.

    • @GokuTheHusky
      @GokuTheHusky 5 лет назад +11

      @Deon Soto As long as you keep playing their game.

    • @hockeymom49721
      @hockeymom49721 5 лет назад +15

      @Deon Soto they will use you, emotionally abuse you, try to tear your family apart, get you to the point of feeling like you're crazy, turn their family against you, cause your friends to disappear, act like a small child when they don't get their own way, run away when they don't get their way, throw tantrums about going on a day trip that you planned days or weeks ahead, say that they did everything in the relationship and you did nothing and so much more but I've worked super hard to not recall that particular relationship so remembering a lot of what happened is a mere memory that was also a huge learning experience.

    • @greenthunder1000
      @greenthunder1000 5 лет назад +4

      Zero_RR that’s how men are wired. They don’t like to think of a girl that used to be theirs being fucked by another dude. It’s not narcissism, it’s biology

  • @JayN9ne1
    @JayN9ne1 5 лет назад +137

    It’s alright breaking up but getting back together, and rebuilding trust is horrible, we broke up got back together and we had a conversation of what we was up too and she admitted she was messaging other people when we broke up and now everytime she’s on the phone I think it’s them

    • @ryziqz
      @ryziqz 5 лет назад +1

      Jay M. Did you ever find out if it was or not and how is it going now?

    • @JayN9ne1
      @JayN9ne1 5 лет назад +23

      @@ryziqz honestly mate, it seems to be going great (i feel a lot better i did when when we was apart) but i try and look at things different, like at the end of the day if she didn't want to be with me she wouldn't be sat with me... if that makes sense

    • @ryziqz
      @ryziqz 5 лет назад +1

      I’m glad things are going great for you and I hope more to come 🙏🏼

    • @100percentgradeA
      @100percentgradeA 5 лет назад +9

      Your mind, thoughts and energy will create your world. Be careful. Choose the best. KNOW you're the best and everything is going great.

    • @trebalero9091
      @trebalero9091 5 лет назад

      At least you know forgive and try to forget wish the best for you

  • @celestemariscal4360
    @celestemariscal4360 4 года назад +7

    You don’t know what you have until it’s gone ...

  • @SchibbiSchibbi
    @SchibbiSchibbi 4 года назад +8

    We were too close. broke up for 1.5 years. Got into a rebound relationship, partner as well. That's the point we realised we wanted to get back together.

  • @laprofe9345
    @laprofe9345 5 лет назад +92

    some relationships are just ment to end and people should just move on. Instead of wasting time thinking they will come back. If they dumped you just move on. Stop gaining of peoples pain, stop encouraging these people. Meet new people open your circle, live!

    • @sheriffbadjie2148
      @sheriffbadjie2148 5 лет назад +1

      Good comment

    • @shanesteffey1139
      @shanesteffey1139 5 лет назад +6

      Yeah except when your going stuff in a marriage. Are you just supposed to give up? I think not.

    • @sarahpoulson4497
      @sarahpoulson4497 5 лет назад

      absolutely right

    • @thecanadianwill
      @thecanadianwill 5 лет назад +40

      im sorry but that's a losers mentality. you never loved them if its that easy to move on, if you don't have some fight left in you. relationships aren't cakewalks and iff you think they are then you are very immature and have no idea how to be in one. NO they are shit storms of passionate and logic and bonds! its isn't easy. its work. LOTS of work! if you don't want to put the time in or fight for something you hard then it was never that good or real to you and you honestly need to re-evaluate yourself before dating any more beucase you will just hurt them and never change or grow yourself like all relationships NEED to do to survive.
      bottom line,, if you always give up on love so easy as you state, you where never in love to begin with.

    • @sacrealen
      @sacrealen 5 лет назад +10

      I hate comments like this

  • @fredystheawesomeshow8301
    @fredystheawesomeshow8301 5 лет назад +10

    Honestly I want her back but I don't wsnt her to jump in my arms yet. I want us to rebuild again. I love her so much. I mean she wanted to have a life with me and we were up for it. Building a steong relationship. A love strong relationship. We communicate, we trust each other, and we love each other. I want her back so bad and it sad that I really miss her.

  • @OpenYourEyes95
    @OpenYourEyes95 5 лет назад +8

    I fucking hate being single, it's so bloody boring, and the points you raised here are accurate. I just felt so content and carefree knowing I had someone, so whenever I was out with my friends on say a night out and some of them were concerned about chatting people up (which is perfectly fine) it was so nice just knowing I was in a happy relationship and didn't have to care about trying to make an impression. I don't feel that if I'm single I have to try and get with people, but sometimes it's just subconscious to feel like you have to/want to get with someone.

  • @christinemusana1342
    @christinemusana1342 5 лет назад +92

    I m happy with my God

    • @DTradesFX2
      @DTradesFX2 5 лет назад

      Christine Musana LIAR!!!

    • @thewillows2733
      @thewillows2733 5 лет назад +1

      @@DTradesFX2 oof your username contradicts that comment. you okay there buddy?

  • @whatsup7535
    @whatsup7535 5 лет назад +30

    I thank this girl for this video. Listen, but don't set the expectation. Work on your self. This way, the girl may not be wrong, but you certainly will not be.

    • @hughesstanley2329
      @hughesstanley2329 4 года назад

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  • @jkapp374
    @jkapp374 5 лет назад +62

    Hi Jessica, you're one of the more nice and likable RUclipsrs that talk about relationships...Many of the "relationship advice" channels, trying to act "tough", often make people feel worse...to me, though, kindness is really something people in painful relationships are looking for...therefore, just want to say thanks for the channel

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      @homeofsolution3922 3 года назад

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  • @rockymphahlele
    @rockymphahlele 6 лет назад +10

    I broke up with my boyfriend just hours ago, on the 17th of November would have been our sixth year anniversary. We decided to break up to save our relationship, together we constantly fight and hurt each other and we keep holding on to what we sacrificed as a reason to be together. I hope we made the right choice even though i know its possible that i will lose them.

    • @goforgucci
      @goforgucci 5 лет назад +1

      It's unfortunate these things happen. Hope you're doing ok. Have you both talked since?

    • @emilyem96
      @emilyem96 5 лет назад +3

      I’m on the same boat. My boyfriend and I broke up for the best of our future. My fear is that we will lose each other, but I’m confident it will be beneficial for the both of us.

    • @elitephantom9690
      @elitephantom9690 2 года назад

      I always see a breakup is no return especially if it's been over a month or two. By then someone will be sleeping with other people. Do you want to be next to your ex who shared his body with others?

    • @Startpixie12
      @Startpixie12 Год назад

      Did you get back together

  • @cristinasimona7532
    @cristinasimona7532 5 лет назад +47

    I lost 3 years of my life for nothing....:(

  • @kirtisoma3211
    @kirtisoma3211 3 года назад +7

    I completely agree with what you have said , my marriage was heading for a divorce but after being seperated for five months , it made us face everything that was swept under the carpet .so that we may begin with a fresh new start

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      @shirleycampbell4450 3 года назад

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      @shirleycampbell4450 3 года назад

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  • @Littlenovatv
    @Littlenovatv 5 лет назад +15

    Me and my wife are having a tuff time. I've recently went to counseling and watched about 100 videos on the relationships. This is by far the best video I've seen . Tks so much for the info.

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  • @LifeIs2Kewl2013
    @LifeIs2Kewl2013 5 лет назад +18

    I’m always afraid of breaking up and going through the effort of taking advice like this and just my ex ending up not coming back. :(

    • @Mina-rb5ut
      @Mina-rb5ut 4 года назад

      Same. It finally happened for me and it’s sucks

    • @nicolyn51
      @nicolyn51 4 года назад

      @@Mina-rb5ut I'm afraid of that.

    • @jamestaylor9520
      @jamestaylor9520 4 года назад +1

      Just move on. Really no point waiting for someone that doesn't want a life with you. Reflect, take responsibility for your role, work on learning from your mistakes and grow into a better, more self loving person. If you do this you will be better off regardless of if your ex comes back (you probably won't want them back at this point) or you will meet someone better and you will be healthier/happier regardless. Talk about a win-win.

  • @brandonoats3493
    @brandonoats3493 5 лет назад +35

    Breaking up doesn't save relationships. It ends relationships.

  • @colevincent8563
    @colevincent8563 5 лет назад +8

    I am in quite a pickle at the moment. I broke up with my ex girlfriend who was more committed than me in the relationship. When I met her I was still resolving some trauma from a previous toxic relationship I had come out of 2 months before we started dating. I think I broke her heart so bad that she just can't see herself trying again. She wants space and is hanging with a new guy now. I realise that the emotional attraction was lost for about 2 months and that she no longer trusts me either. I have been struggling with no contact because I have been trying to get her to re-attracted to me via text. She is obviously non responsive. Suppose I will just have to give time. Even though I have assured her that I am all in when/if we try again. Not sure what's the best strategy here...

  • @thorodinloki
    @thorodinloki 3 года назад +5

    We broke up yesterday because I said I was done with her. This was out of anger from her questioning if we are truly soulmates or not. This comes after an entire year of pandemic stress and both being out of work, constantly around one another. I gave it a couple of days, thinking that she would understand if I made her feel what I felt. But it backfired and now she doesn’t want to hear from me. She’s making me seem like I’m a terrible person, even though we got her into therapy and she was able to find some clarity. But not me. I was stuck in the same place, while she started to see how shitty I have been because of stress. I was upset because she wasn’t helping me emotionally. Because she was busy trying to help herself.. but I was always there to try and support her. In the end, she had to do it for her self. I now am realizing a lot of different things that I didn’t before. Like how badly I also needed to seek therapy to make sense of what is going on. But I grew confused and helpless so I gave in. But not for real. Except she actually thought it was for real. Now she seems to hate me. She literally said she hates me. This is coming from a place of anger, because we shared the most magical 2 years of our lives together. We were growing tired of one another because of how unhealthy life became. This break up is showing me why I love her so much and that it was on me all along, to make myself feel better. Just because she acted like it was my job to do for her, it wasn’t her job to do for me. I expected that, and it turned her against me because she couldn’t satisfy me. She also has insecurities, no matter how many times I remind her of her natural beauty. I’ve brought her closer to herself than ever, and now I’m afraid she outgrew me. If I was able to do more right now, we could be healthier. But it’s all messed up now, so I’ll post again in the future if we end up coming back together (which I’m really hoping for). Maybe this will help someone relate. There is hope if we take action. I just hope it doesn’t take too long because this really sucks.

    • @firekracker6520
      @firekracker6520 3 года назад

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    • @GoddessOfLife-fp2cy
      @GoddessOfLife-fp2cy 3 года назад

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  • @AmB39
    @AmB39 5 лет назад +16

    “This shitty thing we call life”. This one line gave you a lot of credit in my eyes.
    Wise woman. The anguish and torment can be overwhelming. It’s almost as if you can’t handle the feelings sometimes. Literally. It’s hard to describe the feeling. It’s just plain torment that feels as if you are trapped and submerged in it and that it will there forever. It transcends pain in my experience. Like a blend of pain and what I imagine psychosis might feel like. It’s like disturbing bizarro land. It’s hell.
    Hope that helps folks lol. Just know you have me and others right there with you in this hell, except I and the rest of us are actually super far away and we’ll never meet each other and literally you are actually just alone.
    So. That’s that.

  • @NahlahontheMoon
    @NahlahontheMoon 4 года назад +5

    Idk if I found your video at the right time or what it is Bc I’ve heard a lot of this stuff before but I appreciate this video so much. Going through a fresh break up with the man I want to be with forever and I’m trying to see the brighter side to MY life and hope we can reconnect after some time apart

    • @sarahvasquez6494
      @sarahvasquez6494 4 года назад

      You're breaking through babe :) xoxo
      -Sarah @thebreakupcure

    • @linpolar6118
      @linpolar6118 4 года назад

      nahlah same thou his in a relationship with the gal he looks to be so interested in yet she was the cause of our break up. Sis do u think we hv any chances of getting back together in the future?

  • @detrif8701
    @detrif8701 6 лет назад +2

    GREAT FUCKING WORK, JESSICA BOSS! You're the shit! Ex back GODDESS whoaaaaaaa!

  • @halojimmy7
    @halojimmy7 6 лет назад +10

    my heart broken because me & her stay friends nothing more
    im in difficult situation
    single Mom can very challenging to win their hearts

  • @PatrickSmith-gp5hw
    @PatrickSmith-gp5hw 2 года назад +2

    Thank you, great advice, I feel better about bettering myself already. Hitting the gym and finishing my online course. Really. I’m smiling, and I haven’t genuinely smiled in the passed few days.

  • @zoidscefelo
    @zoidscefelo 5 лет назад +6

    When my gf of 2.7 years broke up with me, I begged and cried in front of her, gave her stuff/gifts to make her change her mind, but then i realized what I'm doing pushed her away more. She even said to me that she met someone and they have been talking for a week, i don't really care, because I trust her decisions, she's smart and beautiful and idk man, she's someone who knows what she is doing, and I'm confident that she's not serious about this "guy", rebounds does not last, also, she's busy right now with her career, she would not have a time for that guy. That guy can't help her with her situation right now, I know, I'm the only one who could literally help her in what she's doing. but yeah, I'm doing no contact right now, cause i want her to reach out for me when she needs me, I'm hoping that maybe she'll realize that she still loves me and need me. so I wrote her a letter, saying thank you for everything, apologizing for not giving her space since the break up, telling her that i trust her in everything that she'll do, tell her that I love her and will always will, telling her that at this point, I accept the breakup, and try to focus on my self, and telling her that I'll always be there for her. after sending her the letter I started no contact right away.
    but yeah we broke up for a reason, maybe we both needed to mature, I focused too much on her, and forget to go out with my friends and family. this breakup teaches me a lesson to become better. I want to get her back, but right now, I'm on my lowest point, she's the one who broke up with me, if I want her back, I should improve my self first, love my self first, yes you guys might say "Why would you still like your ex if she left you, she does not love you anymore, she's not even there on your lowest, she talked to someone else, she left, she gave up" well, im a fool LOL just kidding. I love her. that's it. I almost sacrificed my career for her, now, I think I should thank her because, this breakup made me chose a better career, made me get out of my comfort zone. none of this will happen if we didnt broke up. that's the lesson of our breakup we both needed to be more mature about our relationship. I love her so much, I'm still waiting for her, won't give up, improving my self for her. and yeah, she maybe talked to someone else but, I trust her. I love her so much.
    Will keep on updating on our journey of getting back together.

    • @brendshannagivens2081
      @brendshannagivens2081 5 лет назад +1

      This is a great love letter. This girl is very lucky to have crossed paths with a guy like you.

    • @zoidscefelo
      @zoidscefelo 5 лет назад +2

      @@brendshannagivens2081 got some news from a friend of mine, she's not talking to the rebound anymore, that's great, 'cause she's focusing on her career right now.

    • @sallyboateng5295
      @sallyboateng5295 3 года назад

      @@zoidscefelo how’s it going now if you don’t mind me asking? :)

  • @RDERS-ob1oq
    @RDERS-ob1oq 2 года назад +1

    I agree with all this I learned alot about myself and how I was in a relationship but when I reached out she ended up dating so I missed out on her. She was awesome and if he's smart he won't let her go

  • @JohnWick-ry7xt
    @JohnWick-ry7xt 4 года назад +4

    I really need to talk to somebody with her knowledge...
    my lovesickness is killing me.
    She broke up with me because she said that we got into the relationship too fast. She thinks I’m perfect so she rushed into it with me. But she doesn’t know if she’s ready for a relationship. How can’t she be ready if I’m “perfect” for her and if we are always happy together?
    I just wanna understand it.

  • @dawnpotter7848
    @dawnpotter7848 3 года назад +2

    This quiz is bunk. My last lover and I are having important reparative conversations.. honest and a lot of healing. The results of the quiz frame the situation like you have to act fast. Some things need space and calm and peace to heal before moving forward.

    • @christabelmichael6854
      @christabelmichael6854 3 года назад

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      @christabelmichael6854 3 года назад

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      @affokpolambert3924 3 года назад

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  • @aizamarasigan490
    @aizamarasigan490 5 лет назад +3

    I kept watching this over and over again. It has been a hard time for me. This video is more than motivating me to get better. Thank you!

    • @eggiepacher3773
      @eggiepacher3773 5 лет назад +1

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    • @aizamarasigan490
      @aizamarasigan490 5 лет назад

      @@eggiepacher3773 Thanks for the concern. 😇 Im depressed because of a heartbreak.

  • @kiddkuru
    @kiddkuru 2 года назад +1

    Me ex hit me up 5 days ago. Yesterday I gave in and we said we could be friends. When I saw her again we were as close as the day we started dating. I blocked her on everything except text, then had no contact for 5 weeks and it felt like way longer but it was worth it. I did pretty much everything in the video on accident and now I’m tryna see if it can really work I’m tellin yall, drop them, date new people and FOCUS ON YOURSELF !!

    • @kiddkuru
      @kiddkuru 2 года назад

      They will desire having to chase you again, and seeing you thrive after they left will drive them crazy

    • @standground7956
      @standground7956 2 года назад

      Why not just cut ties instead of playing all those games? You’re better than that and it’s not a crime to seek a relationship with someone other than your ex.

  • @GN999MT
    @GN999MT 5 лет назад +40

    This is exactly what I needed to hear.

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      @homeofsolution3922 3 года назад

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      @homeofsolution3922 3 года назад

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  • @chuckyb3211
    @chuckyb3211 Год назад

    She ended 5 years..and just today I broke ground..she said “if I give you another chance don’t fuck it up” soo that seems like we might be getting back together..the breakup is making me a better partner..when you lose something then you realize how important it really is..

  • @anachristopher2973
    @anachristopher2973 5 лет назад +17

    I really liked the idea to make the best of every situation even as hard as break up. Thank you for your contageous positivity.
    What is meant to be will be. It s hard to categorise people and their behaviour because of the different patterns they develop through their life trial. I'm one of those who take everything by heart and suffer a loss tremendously and have emotional breakdown which is very draining and depressing. I wish I could bounce that. You need your drug to take you high. For all people commenting is better out for a reason are already been through the stages of relationship when they lived and reached the lowest point of no point in staying. Bug when you are madly in reciprocated love,hitting the ground sucks. You got really good point here. There no place you can hide or friends to take it for you. You just have to leave it bleed. It changes the tune of your song.You are right about all good memories prevailing the bad after the time grows.. Takes darkness to see light. Just have faith the things will come to right places at the right time and let go. It s so similar to a grief over a loss but you know they are alive. Breaks up prepare us for the inevitable loss in the future. I have loved and in love but nothing lasts forever.

  • @frankovera7553
    @frankovera7553 4 года назад +1

    If you love someone that doesn't love you, their is nothing to fight for. It's like quicksand. To fight for a love is a romantic phrase but unless is referring to mutual love it's all it is, sweet words without meaning. Don't throw your pearls at pigs. Don't fight for a lost cause.

  • @diamondlovecoach6930
    @diamondlovecoach6930 6 лет назад +16

    This takes years and years and they may move on.

  • @dremillz3241
    @dremillz3241 Месяц назад

    Finally!!! I’ve been saying this and most ppl tell me I’m having a pipe dream

  • @O11-s9n
    @O11-s9n 6 лет назад +3

    I don’t know what to do. We were together for 1 year and he broke up with me two months ago. Last month we both couldn’t spilt apart
    We slept with each other and told each other we love each other. Now he told me to move on and he is taking some girl.

  • @davidperry4972
    @davidperry4972 2 года назад

    get your mind body and heart right then you're ready this is how you become great

  • @markpeake4345
    @markpeake4345 5 лет назад +7

    Ok it’s been 14 months apart from the person I thought I would end up marrying, she got so close but I wasn’t a nice person, I deeply regret everything, there was so much love though between us, I took this year to get myself sorted, I had problems with issues from my time in the army 24 years, I’m now a performance and emotional coach and half way through doing NLP, I still feel empty without her 😔

    • @w_girl
      @w_girl 5 лет назад +2

      Why dont you contact her ?

  • @colleenshaw1607
    @colleenshaw1607 4 года назад +2

    geez... being single was one of the happiest things i ever did for myself. its best to have a good base line in who you are before throwing someone else into the mix, nowdays, pants are completely optional lol. as long as your zoom call is on your face, its all good

  • @arminxvs3372
    @arminxvs3372 5 лет назад +6

    People got superficial and not patient enough. They mostly never really think and analyze. They just move on (especially girls) and jist find a new *ick. They never come back. "It was awesome and ment for life but meh, life goes on. That's life."
    And that is just weak and not commitet. A real shame...

  • @troyharper6967
    @troyharper6967 5 лет назад +2

    I'm 31 & my child's mother is 32 so it's a done deal especially since she is in a rebound relationship but I do miss her 😔

  • @ryanadams85ra
    @ryanadams85ra 6 лет назад +3

    OMG SHES RIGHT!

  • @bobbyjeanleblanc3620
    @bobbyjeanleblanc3620 2 года назад

    We just ended 3 weeks ago, he left me, and now I can't stop crying over him. After 10 years it hurts.

  • @morebacon1780
    @morebacon1780 5 лет назад +27

    Yeah, dating will difinitely save a reltionship. 😂😂

  • @kymmiebrat
    @kymmiebrat 3 года назад +1

    My boyfriend and I have been together 3 years. In April he told me that he felt like we’ve become friends and roommates instead of lovers. I eventually found he was hiding things. Long story short I finally got the truth out of him 2 months ago and my worst fears were true. He cheated on me with a girl he claimed was his best friend and they also work together. He said it happened some time before April. But He had been hiding that they’d been talking for months, and even lied to me about meeting up with her up until I found out. He still claims til this day it only happened once but something tells me it was more than once.
    In the past I was very codependent and was going through a dark time. I was always negative, upset, depressed, angry and I also never did anything to make him feel appreciated or lift him up. I sucked the life out of the relationship. I want to save this relationship but I don’t know how or if it’s even possible. Just today he mentioned me moving out again, when I asked him if he wanted to be free or stay together he said "maybe free but not to explore other women". But when we talked further he said we can stay together but me still move out to see if that will rebuild. Please help

    • @cliffordanslem5272
      @cliffordanslem5272 3 года назад

      (+2348135258636)Send a message to WhatsApp, it helped me get my ex back Now I'm a happy man ❤💕💕

  • @trebalero9091
    @trebalero9091 5 лет назад +5

    So if you are to needy and clingy how can you balance this out by showing you care? Not used to this I’ll admit it being a player was 10times easier. But I’m ready for a change.

  • @allieparent4001
    @allieparent4001 2 года назад +1

    My boyfriend and I recently broke up because of his mother passing. We both honestly have to work on ourselves especially me. We both wanna stay close friends and hang out. We work together and are in good terms. We had a super strong connection and he was going through a lot. This is a good time to find me. I still don’t know if my feelings will ever go away I still love him so much. But I feel deep in my heart god will reunite us when we are ready

    • @katesmith3189
      @katesmith3189 2 года назад

      My ex came back to me few days ago ❤️ I got help from a Relationship Restorer Dr Steve Who was able to mend back my broken relationship and make my ex to come back and beg for a second chance. He can bring your ex back

    • @katesmith3189
      @katesmith3189 2 года назад

      W-hatsap him⏬

    • @standground7956
      @standground7956 2 года назад

      What if God is putting you through this to avoid getting back with your ex? Are you not allowed to pursue anyone else in life?

  • @Martha-vk4ep
    @Martha-vk4ep 6 лет назад +8

    But I don't want more time with my family! 😂
    I really need to hear this advice daily right now, thank you ..it's beginning to sink in.

    • @JessicaBoss
      @JessicaBoss  6 лет назад

      Thanks for watching Trinity :) Glad it helped

    • @saharagorme5526
      @saharagorme5526 3 года назад

      @@JessicaBoss I broke up with my ex I don't need him back but this video is good 😂

  • @jonnys5889
    @jonnys5889 3 года назад +1

    Man.. Watching this whole video made me realize how bad I want to be single.
    Even number 6. Meeting new people keeps you on your toes and motivates you to be your best.

  • @schaolinkungfu
    @schaolinkungfu 5 лет назад +4

    if you love someone love in the first place you never get the chance to make a second impression!

  • @Eagle-lm7gp
    @Eagle-lm7gp 4 года назад +1

    Oh wow , so true, especially when you said about wanting to get a motorcycle and ride and my husband was against it. He said that causes divorces. Well he left me and will not say why and I haven't got a bike yet. Your right about breaking up and acting like it. He wants to keep in touch, go out and act like we're together but has his freedom and lives by himself partying with his friends. My heart is in pieces.

  • @marysieglindcapellan3598
    @marysieglindcapellan3598 5 лет назад +3

    This time is a gift ❤️

  • @kidasdaher3833
    @kidasdaher3833 3 года назад

    Forwago program helped me not just to build a better-looking body, but to feel healthier and to have more energy. I wanted to share this because I think more people should find out about this amazing program. Thank you, Forwago!

  • @donnyhopper9300
    @donnyhopper9300 6 лет назад +6

    What if she already has a new man? And there already engaged after only a month of them being together. But we aren't even divorced yet.

    • @shanesteffey1139
      @shanesteffey1139 5 лет назад +6

      Than it's probably a rebound and w ont end the way she is thinking

    • @shanesteffey1139
      @shanesteffey1139 5 лет назад +4

      Just be you. Work on yourself shoe her what SHE lost but don't do it for her. Do it for you. I'm kinda in the same situation except no one else is involved. My wife left because she loves me but isn't in love with me anymore, and I can't blame her. We both got in a rut and I didn't show her how much she meant to me or thst I even cared if she was here... And she didn't ever tell me how she was feeling because we lacked communication. It's a slippery slope but we are hoping in time her spark might come back or we can try again.. all I can do is be there for her and work on myself...fucking sucks and really the kids suffer the most but if your unhappy and stuck in a rut. Sometimes it takes a painful experience to wake you up and realize you need to make changes in your life

    • @TheRealSkeletor
      @TheRealSkeletor 5 лет назад

      @@shanesteffey1139 Same here, buddy.

    • @adamlemaster4844
      @adamlemaster4844 5 лет назад

      MGTOW

  • @chearygbangs261
    @chearygbangs261 9 месяцев назад

    Breaking up have really save my relationship

  • @kaileyqucsai9533
    @kaileyqucsai9533 5 лет назад +4

    this was seriously my relationship to a T! Thank you for this. I needed it

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      @artispabriks2951 2 года назад

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    • @artispabriks2951
      @artispabriks2951 2 года назад

      whtsaap him"**

  • @ayanoyoshida3148
    @ayanoyoshida3148 5 лет назад +2

    I'm going through a hard time right now, and I really need help.
    A week ago on March 7th, 2019, my boyfriend (now ex) and I broke up. We dated for 7months. He is truly a nice guy, he doesn't drink, smoke, do drugs, or hook up. He's not like an average guy. I'm actually technically his first girlfriend. He's in the Marines, and we have been in long distance relationship since December 27, 2018.
    The reason why we broke up is because I've been stressing out looking for jobs as a student, since October 2017, before I even met him. And towards the end of the relationship, we got in a lot of huge fights, and I got mad at him for no reason. He said I lose temper easily, and I am impatient, and I need to work on myself before sharing my life with anyone else. It's hard to look for a permanent job as a student, and it's been taking a long time for me. I explained about what I have been going through to him, but I feel that this stress is not something you can understand, unless you experience it yourself.
    His last text, he basically told me that he will give me time to express how I feel when we will both have time, and that I need to work on my flaws for now.
    Right after the break up, he changed the Netflix account password that we were sharing, and he also changed his FaceBook status to Single. Last month, when we got in a huge fight, we took a week break. After the break, I told him that I will work harder and will get better. But I realized that it's not going to happen, unless I take some time away from him. Because I was too comfortable with him.
    Right now, I've been talking to my friends and family, and getting support from them. His mom has actually been helping me out a lot.
    My plan is, to not contact him for at least 30 days after the break up. But since I have a package I still need to send him, and he didn't let me express my feelings, I'm going to include a letter in the package and send them at around a month later the break up. Before sending him the package, I will text him and let him know, after the 30 days are over.
    He gave me a promise ring, and we were also planning to get married. His family was accepting me as well.
    I really want him back in my life, because I have been through toxic relationships, and I know for sure that this isn't.
    What should I do to get back with him? Please give some advice.

    • @Bella-yt8wk
      @Bella-yt8wk 5 лет назад +2

      AYANO YOSHIDA hi I totally understand and I hope u see my message I’m going through this has well. I think taking time for yrself is good. However if he doesn’t coming back just take it has a life experience cause sometime we think that’s the person for us but for God is not. I hope u doing well

    • @ayanoyoshida3148
      @ayanoyoshida3148 5 лет назад

      @@Bella-yt8wk Thank you for your message:) I'm still very close with his family and friends. His brother told me that since my ex has a huge heart, there is a huge chance that he might accept me again after some time has passed. It's been 10 days since we broke up. He and I haven't been talking at all. But I have already been growing as a person. I learned that keeping myself busy and always talking to my friends helps me to be positive all the time and be a nice person. I'm starting to be positive! There still is a moment I get sad when I see him online on FaceBook messenger, but for now, I'm just hoping he will give me a second chance.

    • @st.aliaoftheknife8171
      @st.aliaoftheknife8171 4 года назад

      @@Bella-yt8wk yes

    • @st.aliaoftheknife8171
      @st.aliaoftheknife8171 4 года назад

      did you guys get back together?

    • @ayanoyoshida3148
      @ayanoyoshida3148 4 года назад +1

      @@st.aliaoftheknife8171 No, honestly, I don't believe in second chance anymore. If it didn't work, it wasn't meant to be. And even if it's gonna work out permanently the second time, that's when you are not even thinking about getting back together at all. Check this girl's video for reference. She tried being with her now ex the second time, but it didn't end up working, and she doesn't believe in second chance anymore. The true one will come when you are working hard on yourself without even wanting to be in a relationship or looking for one. This is her link: ruclips.net/video/DAliBlJeNMM/видео.html

  • @MrMorsbach
    @MrMorsbach 6 лет назад +18

    Why go on dates when the goal is to get the ex back?

    • @JessicaBoss
      @JessicaBoss  6 лет назад +12

      Dating other people during the break up can improve your confidence and take some pressure off the relationship. Plus, it will make your ex jealous.

    • @roser7441
      @roser7441 5 лет назад +20

      Jessica Boss this is stupid and makes complicated and never trust you... its good to go out with friends or new friends not dating and sleeping around!

    • @gvigilgem
      @gvigilgem 5 лет назад +14

      If I new my ex was dating and possibly had sex with someone else it would be GAME OVER for her forever!!! How could dating possibly help the cause? For people that loved someone the thought of them being in bed with someone else would be devastating to the point of no return. That’s how I feel at least. Plus, if they left you and don’t care to leave you out there for someone to take it means they don’t mind sleeping with someone else. So basically still GAME OVER. Just my opinion but I agree with everything else you said. Just not the dating.

    • @shanesteffey1139
      @shanesteffey1139 5 лет назад +3

      Well it is try dating somone else will make the ex realize that person isn't you and will never be you but st the same time it brings pain to the relationship if you do get back together.. And yes you have to forgive but it's not easy and it will always hurt.. I knoe I've been with my wife now for 12 years and have children together broke up a couple times before we was married and lost the spark.. getting In ruts and depression is a bitch.. But sometimes it does take someone seeing you eith someone else to realize what there missing and bring thst spark back. But trust me it sucks. That's the last thing u want to picture is the love of your life with someone else and bring intimate with someone else. It kills u a little bit inside.. But if you truly love them then I guess you love them thru everything and thst wont change how much you love them

    • @gvigilgem
      @gvigilgem 5 лет назад +1

      Shane Steffey That doesn’t make any sense at all if you have self respect and worth. I would never get back with someone that actually did that. Not a chance in hell.

  • @evanglasson5035
    @evanglasson5035 2 года назад +1

    breaking up usually causes a ton of damage, I'm learning asking a girl to marry me, putting ALL my time into our relationship still doesn't make success. If one partner builds the entire foundation on lies, the house falls down. I've noticed this thing of lying to not "hurt" the other person but in the end it causes so much damage

  • @skemunto7649
    @skemunto7649 5 лет назад +3

    This won't work if your narcissist partner is out to make you feel miserable,,

    • @sarahvasquez6494
      @sarahvasquez6494 4 года назад +1

      true- Narcs are really a special breed and do so much damaged. Most of my clients have PTSD and trauma from it but there's a way to move past the pain. xoxo I hope you're doing better love.

  • @maija6099
    @maija6099 4 года назад +2

    I strongly agree on breaking things up to see what was lot working.

    • @maija6099
      @maija6099 4 года назад +1

      Who liked this?

  • @jonathanavila8214
    @jonathanavila8214 5 лет назад +5

    Thank you for this video I really needed to hear this to move forward

  • @esupkeepridin1587
    @esupkeepridin1587 4 года назад +1

    I ve been wit her for almost 7yrs now and also we were togther when we were 15 yrs old an broke up and had our lives happen we met back again later in life an got togther again and had two kids . but then slowly she started living in the past and it started affecting us really bad , she couldnt let go of the things that happend in my like having kids with some one else , so she alwayz thinks that i still love that person when i dont at all , i dont say nothing about her having a kid with some also . so things have just gotten real bad and she said she couldnt deal with it any more that i wouldnt help her get through those thoughts when that had became the reason for fighting and thinking that i still had feelings for ,well will jus stop their all in all i.love this women with all of me and she left me a week ago and i saw that u said.it would be good because it can.help us see how much we real love each other ,but i wouldnt be able to take her back if she has sex with another person during this so call time apart . ive been faithful the whole time that we made it official once again. And im not looking to use this time to go meet another girl and have sex . But i dont know where she stands an if she has met some one it feels like her descion just happend to quick an something jus feels strange . This is really affecting my lil girl

  • @kerizmarolle9710
    @kerizmarolle9710 3 года назад +6

    Got dumped .. although we love each other like a lot.we are each other’s best friend and soul mate..but we fought a lot..I’m no contact.will we get back toghther??😔😔😔
    Edit: he messaged me from this morning and we were taking for most of the day.I man idk if were getting back toghther but I’ll give another update soon
    Update:after me going no contact he message me out the blue asking how I was doing..I ignored it of course..& then he called a few mins later..I ignored the first ring.. the decided to pick up the second time he called. And the rest was history..he even offered to come over so we can talk and work things out..on his own free will and we did. Spent hours talking about what needs to be done to make a healthy rs.. and the rest is history..my message from one dumpee to another I know it’s sad and it hurts but pleaseeee go no contact ..it may be days..weeks...or months..if he loves u like he says he does he will be back..mine came back within a week

    • @christabelmichael6854
      @christabelmichael6854 3 года назад

      I pray the Universe grant your heart desires with more love and commitment from your ||Ex|| through the help of the same Great and Powerful man •Dr Steve• who helped me restored my Broken Home. He can make your |ex| beg you for a second chance. I will advise you seek out his help thanks...)

    • @christabelmichael6854
      @christabelmichael6854 3 года назад

      Send him a text message on Whatsapp 💓

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      @christabelmichael6854 3 года назад

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      @christabelmichael6854 3 года назад

      +2347030894892.

    • @affokpolambert3924
      @affokpolambert3924 3 года назад

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  • @milleighlopez3497
    @milleighlopez3497 5 лет назад +1

    I thought I'm over it and I'm over him but then something made me remember about him and i went back to zero and now i fell sad and lonely and feeling like dying

  • @Madhra2k24
    @Madhra2k24 5 лет назад +5

    Breaking up always works out for me 😉

  • @waningcrescent4777
    @waningcrescent4777 4 года назад

    Bro, why is this so true, just had a breakup and this showed up in my recommended. First of all, RUclips creepy as f**k. Second of all, SO TRUE!

  • @lunavn3863
    @lunavn3863 6 лет назад +5

    Me and my boyfriend were together for 1 year. He broke up with me..and after two days...he said that he can't live without me and that he is sorry...
    I do love him...should we get back?

    • @JessicaBoss
      @JessicaBoss  6 лет назад +3

      Hi Yael, I think you should have a conversation with him about why he broke up with you and what changed his mind before you decide one way or another.

    • @lunavn3863
      @lunavn3863 5 лет назад

      @@JessicaBoss we actually ...got back together ...and we broke up again just two days ago🙄

    • @Titoroski187
      @Titoroski187 5 лет назад

      @@lunavn3863 Oh my goodness!!!! What the heck?! I'm sorry :(

    • @flyingtiger4714
      @flyingtiger4714 5 лет назад +2

      Luna VN If someone is willing to dump you then I would honestly just erase them from your life and find someone else. No point in wanting to get back with someone that went through with the breaking up. It will get better with time though.

    • @lunavn3863
      @lunavn3863 5 лет назад

      @@flyingtiger4714 i feel broke!

  • @ericbrown105
    @ericbrown105 4 года назад

    I am currently so depressed about our break up 4 days ago with the love of my life!!! I’m just full of sadness and regret for everything I have put her through and refusing to talk to her when I’m upset...She’s been gone for 4 days and I’m on the verge of being so done with life! But we do have a 10 month old daughter and I’m fighting my demons so I can be there for her and on high hopes she forgives me and come home. Pray for my family

    • @renebleu8711
      @renebleu8711 4 года назад

      Eric Brown Bro. You have a child. Another person cannot be that serious for you to be this desperate.

  • @timothyjo
    @timothyjo 5 лет назад +5

    does this work on a long distance relationship? i broke up yesterday , i just move to another city 2 months ago to build a future for us, but things go south

    • @solomonlyons10
      @solomonlyons10 5 лет назад +2

      Brooo same with me. It has to do with distance and a few other small things with my situation. She broke things off because she would feel bad if I made so many sacrifices for her and a new life.. distance was between us But if I had moved to her then I would be too far from my own family and she didn't like that for many reasons. But I was happily working on those sacrifices anyway to be with her. She loves me a lot but doesn't want to see me disappointed or stressed... tbh, just keep working. Keep building that future and make those sacrifices.. I know I will.. even though it's a chance that I will never see her again, I'll still make those sacrifices for growth and to maybe see and experience new things that I haven't seen before :)

  • @失恋した男
    @失恋した男 4 года назад +1

    "People live their lives bound by what they accept as correct and true. That's how they define "reality". But what does it mean to be "correct" or "true"? Merely vague concepts... Their "reality" may all be a mirage. Can we consider them to simply be living in their own world, shaped by their beliefs?"