I think the issue is that the mother gets tired after a while, It happens a lot. Being a parent requires mountains of mental fortitude. Also they might worry about inconveniencing the other clients of the bakery with the kid's tantrum
I don't know what I would prefer. The mother that hit on me or a mother like you encountered... I think... Okay, no, looking at how violated I felt I'd take a screamy customer any day
I worked at a Garden Center and once we had to stop a bride who was mutilating our hydrangea bushes for her wedding decor. In her words "well they'll just grow back won't they? Plus, I can't afford to go to a florist and here it's free." She ran off with several armloads with her mother in law before we could stop her...
Hmmm, with the iPad kid, I see several possibilities. 1. Kid's going through their terrible twos. Toddlers who have just learned to say "NO!" love to use that ability and cry at the most bizarre things. Distract the kid and they'll easily forget. 2. The kid is on the autistic spectrum. Get the child earphones. If gingerbread men are their safe food, learn to make them yourself or buy them around Christmas time and freeze them for the whole year. Choose less busy times of the day to avoid over stimulation and involve the child in the process of ordering and paying for food. 3. If neither, the parent needs to step up.
There's a couple other options. Oppositional defiant disorder comes to mind. But no matter which of these options it is, when a parent is at a point when they are scared of any level of frustration in their child, some kind of psychological or educational support is required!
@@randomname24680Be very careful with throwing ODD around... a lot of the time, it's an autism misdiagnosis that leads to the medical system removing an individual's agency. It's also more common for PoC autistic folks to get the ODD diagnosis than ASD.
Even ig the kid is on the spectrum and yes that makes it harder, but folding like a wet paper towl, forgetting that headphones are a thing and not attempting to stire the behaviour into outlets that work for the kids and the world makes you look bad. Yes, it is a child, spectrum or not you can't fully control them and we all are humans with limits, but seriously you can plan your day around how your kid behaves. My son is on the spectrum, he hates supermarkets because they are to loud for him. If I take him there with no plan to support him and the only way he can cope is with loud distractions I failed, not the world for having to take up my slack.
Are these skits from real interactions? Dealing with the public steals the fire that lights ones soul and converts it into an exhausted rage of despair. Keep your light
My sister in law and her husband have babied and catered to their little girl to a ridiculous degree as long as I’ve known them. And now that she’s almost a teenager it’s amusing to see how flabbergasted her parents are when she does odd (for her age) things like fake crying and kicking whenever she doesn’t get her way. They legit don’t understand why she acts the way she does.
Speaking as a teacher, the devices are out of control. I get most these parents had no idea how addictive these things were designed to be when they handed them to their vulnerable child as a quick fix for the times they were busy. By the time the problem showed itself, it was a mess they didn't have time to undo. So quite a few got into a self feeding cycle. They don't have the time to deal with the withdrawal symptoms, they kick the can, the addiction gets worse, they have even less time to deal with the worse withdrawal symptoms, they kick the can, the addiction gets worse, etc until the kid tries it on a cop, which is where it ALWAYS ends up. For some reason, so many parents are under the delusion that it's the schools job to parent their kid and teach them to behave. Bitch, no! I am trying to teach MATH and READING! I don't have time to do your job and mine!
Moat parents are overwhelmed with taking care of the children and for the parents of today, the Ipad is the thing that will get the kids to behave. Its not a matter of not wanting to do their job, its a matter of just being too exhausted to deal with their kids acting up
@@callnight1441 Very good points, but it's not that they don't want to do their job, it's that their job isn't getting done. I get that most parents are too busy to parent (Thanks late stage capitalism! /s) But a phrase I always say: "It doesn't matter if you fell or if you were pushed, we still have to treat the broken arm." It's a problem and teachers are not the solution. Things like "Respect other people's belongings" need to be taught at home, not Algebra class.
@@lucannor6202 My first instinct is totally agree with you, but honestly I've seen some kids that just NOT right. No mater who the parent is, how well they parent, or how many other kids they've raised successfully there are just some kids... that are just WOW!
@@mirisoji8406- but it doesn't take 2 to raise one; children of single-parent households are just as developed as those in 2 or multiple-parent households
i love your videos the last one XD aw poor mother. once at my job there was a kid less of 1 years old crying and it was bothering me i go look i see the mother giving the child to my coworker for few secondes: the mother was just emotion overwhelm and needed a break and then i felt so sad and compation for her. i was not bothered anymore and only want to try helping her felling better. Alice is such a sweet and lovely person. xoxo
The first one is my grandfather, he always gets sent to buy things when he has no idea how it works! He goes to the wrong stores, because my grandmother would rather watch soap operas than go shopping. He went to the wrong store TWICE yesterday, one time she asked him to get slices bread, he brought home a baguette
didn't know about the different bread making methods, but I've done/do both, so thats aneat new thing i learned. (though, i also don't think I'd make a great professional baker)
I don't understand the difference between traditional and chorleywood. All I can see is that it doesn't proof as long, uses low protein flour and uses more fat and yeast. I can achieve similar proofing with very minor changes for very aggressive yeast. I just don't get why that's seen as a major different method, while there are more drastic changes like autolyse, or sourdough starter. Am I misunderstanding the chorleywood method?
One of our stores had gingerbread cookies year round, by seaons. Valentine hearts, Easter eggs, ladybugs (upside down hearts), stars, Marygolds, Day of the Dead, turkeys, and gingerbread men. Then Albertsons bought the grocery store and it ended.
I've said it before and will say it again. Everyone should work food service once in their lives to understand what the staff go through and how weird customers can be.
I'm sorry if I offended anyone reading my comment. I didn't intend to say children who are obsessed with their tablet devices who flip out when disturbed are all autistic, nor that all autistic children act that way. The child in question might be one of many different things. They could be a toddler going through their terrible-twos, a rebellious teenager, a spoiled kid who isn't used to firm boundaries, an often neglected and overlooked child desperately seeking any attention even if negative attention, etc. In most of these cases, the parent needs to step up and talk to the child about how to behave in public and not always getting gingerbread men whenever they want. Toddlers and autistic children are the exception. A firm talking-to will probably not help in those cases, so I listed them separately as cases that deserve a different type of parenting approach. Many people on the autistic spectrum are usually actually very good at following clearly stated and maintained rules like being quiet in public. Many people on the autistic spectrum and parents of autistic children are working hard on social skill training and removing that stigma surrounding autism. My intention was not to insult their efforts, and I apologize for any misconceptions I may have spread.
A parent who is afraid of his/her own child should not be a parent. I’m young and quite liberal in my opinions and yet I still don’t get it how my generation people just let their kids do whatever they want. You need some limits or you’ll keep trying to find them your whole life by doing terrible things. Their kids will be nothing but spoiled useless human beings. I can’t imagine how this garbage will continue the progress of our society. 😅 Anyways…nice video. ❤
Try having kids around you 24/7. Its easy to say when your a spectator but being a parent is exhausting and tiring. There are only so many tantrums you can listen to before you get overwhelmed yourself and just resort to ye olde reliable ipad. P.S. I am not a parent myself and also dont agree with that parenting method, but I still feel like we should have more sympathy for these parents. I have seen these types of parents. They are not lazy, they are just overworked
@@daDinoCat Are you like, okay?? Why do you have constant fantasies of threatening to abuse unruly children to "discipline them"? For context, this person puts similar replies into multiple comments
A limit on how many things people can buy?😮 Last time I heard that was back in USSR times when we had deficit of everything) nowadays if some bakery refused to sell me "6 baguettes and 4 croissants" I would not be coming back ever. There's like dozens of them in my neighborhood alone
Please don’t mock children with autism. You’ve said you don’t have an actual shop front so this hasn’t happened to you. This is just a slight at parents with autism because of your own social niceties see them as rude. You don’t have to live with children with autism 😊
I love how it starts as annoyance with the kid then progresses into mutual fear and sympathy.
I don't have any fears and neither would anyone else if they actually parented their brats!
You can tell your child, "No!" The child will not spontaneously combust!!!
I think the issue is that the mother gets tired after a while, It happens a lot. Being a parent requires mountains of mental fortitude.
Also they might worry about inconveniencing the other clients of the bakery with the kid's tantrum
Try having a kid first… some definitely do. At a certain point you get tired of the screams. It’s why I don’t want kids
Autistic kids will have a meltdown. Educate yourself
No but the parent can
@@NeonCoffeeCatyeah what I thought it's possible the kid have autism and sensory issues ,and the sound may be the things keeping him calm
I had to ask a mother to lower the volumn on her childs tablet too and she got so mad. Being in customer facing roles is crazy sometimes.
I don't know what I would prefer. The mother that hit on me or a mother like you encountered... I think... Okay, no, looking at how violated I felt I'd take a screamy customer any day
I worked at a Garden Center and once we had to stop a bride who was mutilating our hydrangea bushes for her wedding decor. In her words "well they'll just grow back won't they? Plus, I can't afford to go to a florist and here it's free." She ran off with several armloads with her mother in law before we could stop her...
Like I understand grabbing parts (usually petals maybe a whole dying flower) that have fallen off but DAMN some people
Hmmm, with the iPad kid, I see several possibilities.
1. Kid's going through their terrible twos. Toddlers who have just learned to say "NO!" love to use that ability and cry at the most bizarre things. Distract the kid and they'll easily forget.
2. The kid is on the autistic spectrum. Get the child earphones. If gingerbread men are their safe food, learn to make them yourself or buy them around Christmas time and freeze them for the whole year. Choose less busy times of the day to avoid over stimulation and involve the child in the process of ordering and paying for food.
3. If neither, the parent needs to step up.
There's a couple other options. Oppositional defiant disorder comes to mind.
But no matter which of these options it is, when a parent is at a point when they are scared of any level of frustration in their child, some kind of psychological or educational support is required!
@@randomname24680 Yes! The parent can definitely use some help. They're clearly overwhelmed!
@@randomname24680Be very careful with throwing ODD around... a lot of the time, it's an autism misdiagnosis that leads to the medical system removing an individual's agency. It's also more common for PoC autistic folks to get the ODD diagnosis than ASD.
Even ig the kid is on the spectrum and yes that makes it harder, but folding like a wet paper towl, forgetting that headphones are a thing and not attempting to stire the behaviour into outlets that work for the kids and the world makes you look bad. Yes, it is a child, spectrum or not you can't fully control them and we all are humans with limits, but seriously you can plan your day around how your kid behaves. My son is on the spectrum, he hates supermarkets because they are to loud for him. If I take him there with no plan to support him and the only way he can cope is with loud distractions I failed, not the world for having to take up my slack.
No, the answer to all three is the parent needs to step up and lay down the law.
Are these skits from real interactions? Dealing with the public steals the fire that lights ones soul and converts it into an exhausted rage of despair. Keep your light
Tell us how to do so and then maybe we will.
Read the title of this video😅
If it was a Brazilian bakery, you could probably find milk, tuna and rotisserie chicken, and more 😂
Todos os tipos de frios, café, suco, sanduíches, cerveja e cigarro kkkkk
Specially if it's a small town bakery!😂😂
My sister in law and her husband have babied and catered to their little girl to a ridiculous degree as long as I’ve known them. And now that she’s almost a teenager it’s amusing to see how flabbergasted her parents are when she does odd (for her age) things like fake crying and kicking whenever she doesn’t get her way. They legit don’t understand why she acts the way she does.
Speaking as a teacher, the devices are out of control. I get most these parents had no idea how addictive these things were designed to be when they handed them to their vulnerable child as a quick fix for the times they were busy. By the time the problem showed itself, it was a mess they didn't have time to undo. So quite a few got into a self feeding cycle. They don't have the time to deal with the withdrawal symptoms, they kick the can, the addiction gets worse, they have even less time to deal with the worse withdrawal symptoms, they kick the can, the addiction gets worse, etc until the kid tries it on a cop, which is where it ALWAYS ends up.
For some reason, so many parents are under the delusion that it's the schools job to parent their kid and teach them to behave. Bitch, no! I am trying to teach MATH and READING! I don't have time to do your job and mine!
Best teacher in the world award goes to : @grungekitty77
haha
Moat parents are overwhelmed with taking care of the children and for the parents of today, the Ipad is the thing that will get the kids to behave. Its not a matter of not wanting to do their job, its a matter of just being too exhausted to deal with their kids acting up
@@callnight1441 Very good points, but it's not that they don't want to do their job, it's that their job isn't getting done. I get that most parents are too busy to parent (Thanks late stage capitalism! /s) But a phrase I always say: "It doesn't matter if you fell or if you were pushed, we still have to treat the broken arm." It's a problem and teachers are not the solution. Things like "Respect other people's belongings" need to be taught at home, not Algebra class.
Ok, I felt for the mother at the end....
That's entirely on the mom if she cannot keep her kid under control 💀
@@lucannor6202 well, it's on both the parents, it takes 2 to make a life
@@lucannor6202 My first instinct is totally agree with you, but honestly I've seen some kids that just NOT right. No mater who the parent is, how well they parent, or how many other kids they've raised successfully there are just some kids... that are just WOW!
@@mirisoji8406- but it doesn't take 2 to raise one; children of single-parent households are just as developed as those in 2 or multiple-parent households
@@danielcrafter9349 Amen, couldn’t agree more.
Thank you. ❤
that last one was one heck of a desperate mother lol!
I really hope that iPad kid didn’t notice the difference 🙏
i love your videos
the last one XD aw poor mother.
once at my job there was a kid less of 1 years old crying and it was bothering me i go look i see the mother giving the child to my coworker for few secondes: the mother was just emotion overwhelm and needed a break and then i felt so sad and compation for her. i was not bothered anymore and only want to try helping her felling better.
Alice is such a sweet and lovely person. xoxo
I cannot stand a parent letting a child run over them…that’s going to be a grown up one day who’ll have no respect for the parent or anyone else!
Exactly!!!!
Unless it's a child with a diagnonsis...
The parents are probably just too tired and overwhelmed. You can tell bu the mother voice shes probably exhausted and overworked.
Not the Lego man 😂
Alice - Yeah. - Just the thing to cheer me up !
"Do you want to order anything? / No." - epic
But darn, if someone comes back with the effort of getting a wig to disguise itself, I'd serve them too!
The first one is my grandfather, he always gets sent to buy things when he has no idea how it works! He goes to the wrong stores, because my grandmother would rather watch soap operas than go shopping. He went to the wrong store TWICE yesterday, one time she asked him to get slices bread, he brought home a baguette
Is this an age thing or a learned helplessness thing?
@@crow-jane he's only in his late 60s, definitely not an age thing
@@leffemonettelol. This would happen to me if I didn’t have a shopper help me. I’m legally blind haha.
You're supposed to use edible Legos which unfortunately they don't have in Lego man form.
I love this channel. I'm afraid to admit I am also incredibly heartbroken that gingerbreadmen are only sold at christmas lol !
As a retail employee, I've seen the adults kids like the iPad kid at the end turn into when their parents don't tell them no growing up
didn't know about the different bread making methods, but I've done/do both, so thats aneat new thing i learned. (though, i also don't think I'd make a great professional baker)
Everybody needs earphones, no listening to your music and shows out loud in public!
The iPad child needs boundaries, and I can help him with that. I'm a retired nanny and I have no fear of any child. 😊
I can come too! With a broom !
Its so cool how nanny watches youtube❤
@@daDinoCat 😊 A broom...is that a tool of torture or your preferred travel mode? 😅
@@angelbulldog4934 thats neither, its a tool of discipline :)
@@angelbulldog4934 im not gonna hit him, im gonna tell him to lay off his ipad and clean his room
U definitely deserve more subs
I don't understand the difference between traditional and chorleywood.
All I can see is that it doesn't proof as long, uses low protein flour and uses more fat and yeast.
I can achieve similar proofing with very minor changes for very aggressive yeast.
I just don't get why that's seen as a major different method, while there are more drastic changes like autolyse, or sourdough starter.
Am I misunderstanding the chorleywood method?
One of our stores had gingerbread cookies year round, by seaons. Valentine hearts, Easter eggs, ladybugs (upside down hearts), stars, Marygolds, Day of the Dead, turkeys, and gingerbread men. Then Albertsons bought the grocery store and it ended.
This actually gave me a thing to learn
The last one :)) lady felt like her life was in danger
I hope your channel becomes very successful
I've said it before and will say it again. Everyone should work food service once in their lives to understand what the staff go through and how weird customers can be.
1:53 pesticides fowers... now that is deadly voo
I'm sorry if I offended anyone reading my comment. I didn't intend to say children who are obsessed with their tablet devices who flip out when disturbed are all autistic, nor that all autistic children act that way.
The child in question might be one of many different things. They could be a toddler going through their terrible-twos, a rebellious teenager, a spoiled kid who isn't used to firm boundaries, an often neglected and overlooked child desperately seeking any attention even if negative attention, etc. In most of these cases, the parent needs to step up and talk to the child about how to behave in public and not always getting gingerbread men whenever they want.
Toddlers and autistic children are the exception. A firm talking-to will probably not help in those cases, so I listed them separately as cases that deserve a different type of parenting approach.
Many people on the autistic spectrum are usually actually very good at following clearly stated and maintained rules like being quiet in public. Many people on the autistic spectrum and parents of autistic children are working hard on social skill training and removing that stigma surrounding autism. My intention was not to insult their efforts, and I apologize for any misconceptions I may have spread.
A parent who is afraid of his/her own child should not be a parent. I’m young and quite liberal in my opinions and yet I still don’t get it how my generation people just let their kids do whatever they want. You need some limits or you’ll keep trying to find them your whole life by doing terrible things. Their kids will be nothing but spoiled useless human beings. I can’t imagine how this garbage will continue the progress of our society. 😅 Anyways…nice video. ❤
Try having kids around you 24/7. Its easy to say when your a spectator but being a parent is exhausting and tiring. There are only so many tantrums you can listen to before you get overwhelmed yourself and just resort to ye olde reliable ipad.
P.S. I am not a parent myself and also dont agree with that parenting method, but I still feel like we should have more sympathy for these parents. I have seen these types of parents. They are not lazy, they are just overworked
That last mother *clearly* does not discipline her child. That kid will grow up having to learn their lessons from life's kicks in the teeth.
yes, even i can deal with him better. if he is gonna scream or cry, im gonna say „your going to jesus, if u dont stop crying“
@@daDinoCat Are you like, okay?? Why do you have constant fantasies of threatening to abuse unruly children to "discipline them"?
For context, this person puts similar replies into multiple comments
Even if the kid has autism they still need to be disciplined.
DAM bro.. I could never work in retail.. at least not without a gun and flamethrower.
If bread-dough fails proving, it still makes wonderful naan.
A limit on how many things people can buy?😮 Last time I heard that was back in USSR times when we had deficit of everything) nowadays if some bakery refused to sell me "6 baguettes and 4 croissants" I would not be coming back ever. There's like dozens of them in my neighborhood alone
0:55 never heard CBP before. always thought the traditional process was the only way. And reading about it... CBP totally sucks
❤❤❤❤❤❤love the way
where do you get your sweatshirts they are so cute! the green one with the skull and the gray one you wore with the hood up in paticular! ☺️❤️
Yooo that BMTH shirts 🤟
I’m starting to get somewhat disturbed by the number of people who apparently think humans can eat flowers.
But…you can. Marigolds, borage, nasturtiums, violets, roses, lavender, squash blossoms, dandelions, magnolia blossoms, milkweed blossoms (to name a few) are, with varying levels of necessary preparation, edible.
Something tells me you could be a great ASMRist.
I didn’t know you had to be quiet at bakeries like your putting on the 18th hole at The Old Course
What band is on the hoodie for the thumbnail?
That parent needs to parent
Oh my....l actually have the same iPad cover
Gingerbread men at Christmas only? Is that a thing?
Yeah, most places don't have anything gingerbread, eggnog or peppermint outside of the Christmas season. At least not in America
@@terrafletcher1930 That's why I stock up on eggnog liqueur at Christmas time so I can then enjoy it all year. 😁
Mmmm...
People are horrible, I'm just find it.
You don't sell bread rolls?!
I feel bad about the woman with the ipad brat
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Beauty baiker
What? A limit for how many items a client can buy on weekends? I've never heard such a thing in my life
The fact that these parents can’t even handle their children
Each time anyone asks why I do not want kids:
This. This is why.
Are you Irish or English?
Prob both right
Irish better eireann
@@daDinoCat Lots of ppl have both in their DNA
@@joecobb7153 not really. She's Irish. Why do you need her to be English?
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I’m the 1.1 k like
Please don’t mock children with autism. You’ve said you don’t have an actual shop front so this hasn’t happened to you. This is just a slight at parents with autism because of your own social niceties see them as rude. You don’t have to live with children with autism 😊