HOW TO COPE WITH PRE-DEPARTURE TRAVEL NERVES!

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  • Опубликовано: 23 окт 2024

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  • @LivingFree207
    @LivingFree207 8 лет назад

    I agree about learning a bit of the language. My husband did not speak Spanish AT ALL when I took him to Spain to visit our family (& honeymoon we finally took after 5 years of being married). In 3 weeks he picked up so much interating with my family & just seein menus & signs. Younger people pick up languages a bit easier I think. He was already in his 30s so I was really proud of him :) Something I learned was that I didn't need to bring all the extra food. The time before I went in 1987 they did not have so many places to stop and eat off the highway like they did the last time we were there. I ALWAYS carry tissue or paper towels in my pockets..no matter where I am...even here in the USA. So many places run of out of TP or you sneeze or need to wipe a table off, etc. :) Little individual handi-wipes are nice to have in your pockets (just in case) and they don't take up much space. Melody LOVE your videos by the way :)

  • @Travellight21
    @Travellight21 8 лет назад +6

    Very good video! I am leaving on a 4 month trip across the U.S., Europe and beyond - in just over a week! It will be the first big trip that I have taken, and I still can't picture myself actually walking around in Morocco and Spain and Istanbul and such places! The language barrier is definitely a big concern for me. I wouldn't go so far as to say that I have anxiety, but I am a little nervous.
    I always love your videos, Ally! I have been watching your videos for years. You were one of my first inspirations for solo backpacking!

    • @eamonandbec
      @eamonandbec 8 лет назад +1

      +Travellight Have the best time! Hope you share your adventures with us!

    • @Travellight21
      @Travellight21 8 лет назад

      +Travel Bugs Thank you! And yes, I do plan to share my adventures. I've just started up my RUclips channel. Another source of deliciously nervous excitement! :D

  • @nicolar5678
    @nicolar5678 8 лет назад +1

    You're looking so pretty in this video. You really look relaxed and happy and healthy!

  • @pancakes427
    @pancakes427 8 лет назад

    My life sort of hit the fan recently and I have committed myself to traveling before the year is done to clear my head. I have to say I've learned so much from you. Thanks for posting these videos. So much of my anxiety is soaked up by these insight you have. You're doing great work, and you are appreciated.

  • @linnstromqvist6215
    @linnstromqvist6215 8 лет назад +1

    I've been watching your videos for some years now, and finally, I've saved up enough, got the courage and info to leave for Australia! I'm leaving in two months and I'm feeling really nervous, but your videos really help, thank you!!

  • @dany4922
    @dany4922 7 лет назад

    This was really helpful! Today I leave to Paris for the first time, and it is also my first time flying overseas and alone. So the combination of all this is very nerve wracking for me and knowing that to feel this way is normal, comforts me. ❤️❤️

  • @anni-3820
    @anni-3820 8 лет назад +2

    I'm leaving to Spain in 3 weeks all alone for 2 months and i'm already freacking out

  • @user-yp3yj4ig7g
    @user-yp3yj4ig7g 4 года назад +1

    I’m stressed that I’m going to miss my loved ones like crazy. It’s going to be so tough not seeing them.

  • @Emma_JGB_
    @Emma_JGB_ 7 лет назад

    I'm going to Australia in two months and I have traveled but only in a group so this will be my first solo traveling and I'm SOOO freaked out and these videos have helped so much THANK YOU million times thank you!!

  • @kaeperez18
    @kaeperez18 8 лет назад

    You made me feel so much better with this video .. I was freaking out since I leave to Australia in two weeks!! Ugh the nerves!!

  • @pinguchick
    @pinguchick 8 лет назад +2

    You are a gem! You're channel is quite addictive to watch. And ya, great video!!!

    • @PsychoTraveller
      @PsychoTraveller  8 лет назад +1

      +pinguchick haha! You should let your doctor know that my videos are now your drug of choice :D

    • @pinguchick
      @pinguchick 8 лет назад

      Oh believe me they already know! XD

  • @iMelSchwolow
    @iMelSchwolow 8 лет назад

    I so wish you would have done this video last month. :p I went on my first solo international adventure and I was freaking out over EVERYTHING. I couldn't sleep because I was having nightmares that I would somehow forget to go to LA to catch the plane, or that I would oversleep and miss the plane or maybe the flight would cancel... there was like no end. Then I was scared as hell about the actual flight, building it up in my mind because I only ever hear bad things about it from people who don't like flying... only to find out I am the weirdo that loves everything everyone hates about flying. Taking off/landing? My favorite part! Turbulence? Ha! Feels like a carnival ride and it's the second best part!

  • @0pima0
    @0pima0 8 лет назад +4

    I actually found your channel for the exact reason your mentioning: Researching to calm my nerves. I quit my job and am leaving everything to go to Australia(I'm from Denmark) in 13 days, so for me the countdown is getting solo close! Haha..

    • @PsychoTraveller
      @PsychoTraveller  8 лет назад

      +0pima0 How exciting!!!!!

    • @mnb19
      @mnb19 5 лет назад

      exactly in the same situation as you, waiting for visa to be approved so I can buy a ticket to australia!

  • @Lionhearted626
    @Lionhearted626 5 лет назад

    I’m leaving in two hours for a month, first time. This helped, thank you.

  • @stephenprice3357
    @stephenprice3357 4 года назад

    She’s very animated, I love it!

  • @leedavies1239
    @leedavies1239 8 лет назад

    Flying to Australia in July but going to stop off in Thailand for 5 days! So excited, feel like it's ages away though 😩, and yes like someone said your videos are addictive haha!

    • @PsychoTraveller
      @PsychoTraveller  8 лет назад

      +Lee Davies It will fly by!! Have a great time!

  • @stephaniealvarez6807
    @stephaniealvarez6807 7 лет назад

    you have no freakinf idea howideo helped me right now!!!!im headint to thailand tomorrow all by my self and was a bit like freaking out bu now i now is norm and everything would be alriteeeeeeeethanks girl!!!!!!!

  • @nannaborregaard3187
    @nannaborregaard3187 8 лет назад +2

    Flying to South Africa in a month, it will be my first time travelling solo, and my biggest worry is to navigate the airports(and trains to get to the airport), and I know that it is an irrational fear because then I was in Kenya last year with my family I was the one who navigated the airports, but in case something had gone wrong there would have been an adult to handle the problems, and now it is just me...

  • @NatalieElizabeth95
    @NatalieElizabeth95 8 лет назад

    I wish I had have seen this video or known that these types of videos were out when I went on a 6 month exchange to the U.S. in 2012. I would have been so helpful!!

  • @raulbaquero1196
    @raulbaquero1196 6 лет назад

    I love how insane you are! I enjoy your videos, they are fun and have good information, thank you!

  • @sweetapplepie
    @sweetapplepie 8 лет назад

    I've watched pretty much all of your videos (except for a couple daily vlogs) so I'm prepared for everything 😉😝

  • @krystalmillar767
    @krystalmillar767 8 лет назад

    I may have watched every one of your videos..... I binge-watched when I discovered you!

  • @tobiaskofod5435
    @tobiaskofod5435 5 лет назад

    It really helped watching this video, i'm going to England in a week, from Denmark and not Knowing what's gonna happen over there freaks med out, but now i can see it's just have to Jump put in to it

  • @chrissy5518
    @chrissy5518 6 лет назад

    Thanks for the help! Im going to Vegas TOMMOROW very early in the morning so... Im nervous.

  • @Jacobchuck
    @Jacobchuck 8 лет назад

    Thank you..... I'm off to Europe for 75 days... So helpful!

  • @abdul14091989
    @abdul14091989 8 лет назад

    I'm doing a project about that and I LOVE your style.. Will put u as a reference for sure.. Salam!!

  • @khalid10684
    @khalid10684 8 лет назад +2

    leaving to istanbul next munday for 8 days and after that , thailand , laos , Malaysia and hopefully Indonesia all because off you
    thanks

    • @eamonandbec
      @eamonandbec 8 лет назад +1

      +Khalid Alauqaili Have an incredible time!!

  • @jillybeanbohac3904
    @jillybeanbohac3904 8 лет назад

    Costa Rica in 10 days for 6 months !!
    good tips !

  • @ThailandRob
    @ThailandRob 8 лет назад +4

    Should we watch you videos?

  • @itsscourtneyTV
    @itsscourtneyTV 8 лет назад

    Headed to London next june for the first time overseas by myself and I'm freaking out

  • @MollyInMotions
    @MollyInMotions 8 лет назад +2

    I'm going to Australia in 5 weeks and although I'm slightly freaking out about it I'm more anxious about another upcoming trip to Germany just because of the language barrier and trying to navigate public transport!

    • @eamonandbec
      @eamonandbec 8 лет назад

      +Molly In Motion Australia and Germany are both super easy to travel! Many Germans will speak English and help you get around. Not to worry -- go get em!

    • @0pima0
      @0pima0 8 лет назад

      +Molly In Motion Most Germans speak English - not that well necessarily, but understandable, haha…Also the transportation options are in general pretty good, and information about such is translated to English almost everywhere :-)

    • @MollyInMotions
      @MollyInMotions 8 лет назад

      +Travel Bugs Thanks for the encouragement! :)

    • @MollyInMotions
      @MollyInMotions 8 лет назад

      +0pima0 Thanks for the reassurance! I've been trying to do as much research in advance about all the public transport options so I dont feel as unprepared

  • @josipereira4904
    @josipereira4904 6 лет назад

    My trip to South East Asia is still kind of far away (in September) and I'm more excited than I am nervous right now. Your videos have helped me get over so many of the fears I originally had, and they also helped me calm my parent's nerves about the whole traveling solo thing haha. I know there's tons of videos about how to keep your valuables safe, but I guess some of my concerns now are more like: when I want to go to the beach or waterfall or something like that and I want to bring my camera (I have a go pro and a mirrorless camera) to take pictures/videos, where do I put my gear and my stuff when I'm not capturing photos in that very moment? How careful should I be when I bring gear to those types of places? would I need to keep it on me at all times?

  • @LieseLotte12312
    @LieseLotte12312 8 лет назад

    Did you read my mind?! I will leave Monday to India and still don't have my visa.. And a lot of other things to do :D the first time traveling I started freaking out at the plane so usually I am not like this..

  • @dashpash
    @dashpash 7 лет назад

    It would be cool to see a guided meditation video from you!

  • @bananajam2208
    @bananajam2208 7 лет назад

    OK thank you I'm going to Alaska tomorrow by my self! 😲

  • @jadedavidson6923
    @jadedavidson6923 8 лет назад

    ive watched practically all of your videos ali 😀😀😀😀😀 your sooo helpful and funny 😄😄 xxx

  • @isabelbush
    @isabelbush 8 лет назад +1

    Literally just got a phone call from a mate offering to fly me to Tenerife AND pay for my accommodation but its going to be my first overseas trip without a parent/responsible adult and Im not the kind of person to go clubbing and drinking but he is, PLUS I think he likes me. There will be two others with us but im worried he'll want to get with me while out there and I'll feel inclined since he paid for everything and I do really like him (but I really dont want a relationship and am saving myself for marriage) It should be totally fine but I'm also really scared about it.

    • @sssamialitaiff
      @sssamialitaiff 8 лет назад +3

      +Isabel Adora Please, don't feel like you owe him anything. You do not have to do anything you don't want to or is not comfortable with, keep that in mind. Please take care! Have a great holiday.

    • @eamonandbec
      @eamonandbec 8 лет назад +1

      +Isabel Adora Agreed with other replies. But I will let you know that Eamon and I fell in love while traveling. When you are out of your comfort zone I think you are actually your truest self. It can be pretty incredible! Best of luck whatever you decide.

    • @0pima0
      @0pima0 8 лет назад +1

      +Isabel Adora I would be up front about it and let him know that I'd feel like I owed him something, but that it wouldn't be in "that way" on my part. If you're honest with him it takes away the pressure :-)

    • @isabelbush
      @isabelbush 8 лет назад

      Thank you all :) that's really helpful!

  • @helenfeeney9764
    @helenfeeney9764 8 лет назад +1

    Heading to New Zealand next week on a working holiday visa. Going solo! Absolutely terrified. Any tips

    • @PsychoTraveller
      @PsychoTraveller  8 лет назад

      +helen feeney Just have fun!! Check out my video on solo travel (A reassurance vlog) which might help :)

  • @markberry6117
    @markberry6117 8 лет назад +1

    Thanks for the tips! I just booked tickets to Australia which will be my first time travelling alone.
    In preparation for my travels I have watched ALL of your videos, in which you have answered many of my questions..
    Yet! there is one question still to be answered, that i'm sure you will be be able help with. That is what type of precautions should I take against all the different animals that will be trying to kill me while in Australia?
    Would greatly appreciate any advice you can give for this.
    Big Thanks,
    Mark x

    • @PsychoTraveller
      @PsychoTraveller  8 лет назад +1

      +Mark Berry Seriously, you have nothing to worry about. I lived in the outback for most of my time and only saw a few dangerous spiders which weren't even near me. It is too hyped up in the media about Australia. You will be fine. You won't even come across anything like that unless you go into the outback! :)

    • @markberry6117
      @markberry6117 8 лет назад +1

      +PsychoTraveller Thank you for the replay, my mind is a little bit more at ease :)

  • @mingmong486
    @mingmong486 8 лет назад

    Where is the best place to go for a first time traveller???

  • @wlmoorer87
    @wlmoorer87 8 лет назад

    Amazing video. Love the energy. Couldn't have come at a better time as I am off to SE Asia in less than 36 hours! You've been an inspiration and have enjoyed your videos thoroughly.
    I'm casually trying my hand at whole the travel blogging- thing. And you've been a big motivator at sharing my travel story. Thanks for all you do.
    Instagram: whereintheworldiswill
    Blog: whereintheworldiswill.wordpress.com

  • @maiawatson8071
    @maiawatson8071 8 лет назад

    Hey! I just watched this video and thank you sooooooo much it definetly calmed me down a little bit. So around this time next year I'm going on my first trip all on my own, and I'm an 18 year old Canadian girl. I'm planning on Indonesia Thailand Amsterdam Vietnam the whole shabang and I'm really excited but I'm so nervous, my anxiety is screaming at me not to do this. Do you think I may be to young? did you travel at my age? should I be scared I'm going to get kidnapped and sold as a sex slave? 😳

  • @podgemac6435
    @podgemac6435 8 лет назад

    if you could make some RUclips videos on getting to sponsor you pls

  • @Boonoman
    @Boonoman 8 лет назад

    Italki link doesnt work, just sayin :)

    • @PsychoTraveller
      @PsychoTraveller  8 лет назад

      +Boonoman THANK YOU SO MUCH! Fixed now :D

    • @Boonoman
      @Boonoman 8 лет назад +1

      +PsychoTraveller You're welcome, like your video's :) coming to australia in march :)

    • @alexanderharaldh4831
      @alexanderharaldh4831 8 лет назад

      +Boonoman me too

  • @ShakamuraGames
    @ShakamuraGames 8 лет назад

    U r so fucking beautiful. Your eyes, accent, face... Hugs from Brazil s2

  • @podgemac6435
    @podgemac6435 8 лет назад

    if you could make some RUclips videos on getting to sponsor you pls