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  • Опубликовано: 18 окт 2024
  • Gender fluidity is complex and I apologize if I wasn't able to touch on all the nuances in this very short video. I tried my best to shed light on the main points. I hope you enjoyed it, regardless. 💜
    #shorts #youtubeshorts #comedy #comedyvideo #comedyshorts #skit #asian #mom #genderfluid #lgbtq #lgbt

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  • @Emily-ck9ji
    @Emily-ck9ji 2 года назад +19088

    "You sound like the lawyer at a divorce settlement." Lmao. So true.

  • @tannedvampyre
    @tannedvampyre 2 года назад +9352

    "always, always sexy"
    As a genderfluid i can confirm
    edit: no longer genderfluid, but still sexy

    • @dizzy_dino9052
      @dizzy_dino9052 2 года назад +50

      Same lol

    • @amayazingamaya9622
      @amayazingamaya9622 2 года назад +43

      I second this.

    • @EmmaJohnsonShenanigans
      @EmmaJohnsonShenanigans 2 года назад +48

      i think i may be genderfluid but what’s a good way to tell?

    • @Plethorality
      @Plethorality 2 года назад +16

      @@dizzy_dino9052 what is it like to be gender fluid?

    • @dizzy_dino9052
      @dizzy_dino9052 2 года назад +80

      @@Plethorality It can be quite confusing. But when you do something about it, it feels great. Like, a bit over a year ago, I chopped my hair off, and it feels great. Also, sometimes you feel like a dude, sometimes a girl, but sometimes neither or all. Its very weird but it's nice to have a word for it!

  • @iamyou9085
    @iamyou9085 2 года назад +15256

    “But always, always sexy”
    I need this confidence in my life

  • @Char1ieTheChi1dOfApo11o
    @Char1ieTheChi1dOfApo11o 2 года назад +358

    As a genderfluid person I can confirm I feel often both like a sexy bish and a sexy bastard at the same time

  • @TheEmanep
    @TheEmanep 2 года назад +7332

    That age old adage ‘Confucius say… I am gender fluid’

    • @bhagavad-gitakarma1604
      @bhagavad-gitakarma1604 2 года назад +180

      Always start everything with "Confucius say,...." so that they'll listen.

    • @memeinc7635
      @memeinc7635 Год назад +2

      I live by that motto everyday

  • @skyla5895
    @skyla5895 2 года назад +1975

    “As fluid as the seasons in Melbourne” omg I died right there and then. Its too true 😂😂
    - edit - thanks for making me feel like a certified weather person everyone.

    • @janedoe4471
      @janedoe4471 2 года назад +10

      On that note… sunny this morning then it seemed like the sun set and midday…. Nah just severely overcast!

    • @skyla5895
      @skyla5895 2 года назад +9

      @@janedoe4471 I live south of Melbourne but it was bucketing rain around midday, clear and sunny and warm by 4 and freezing and drizzling at 8 . Victorian. weather.

    • @janedoe4471
      @janedoe4471 2 года назад +5

      @@skyla5895 south east over here, and we’ve got your rain now!

    • @astoroidea6502
      @astoroidea6502 2 года назад +2

      Northeast suburbs here, was raining all day yesterday, warm as, tiny bit of rain this morning, and nothing for the rest of the day despite being overcast as hel, then it’s gonna be bright and sunny tomorrow. Melbourne weather.

    • @skyla5895
      @skyla5895 2 года назад +4

      @@astoroidea6502 At this point, collectively, we are the three people who do the weather on channel seven/ the ABC 😂.

  • @justchillininmehbox28
    @justchillininmehbox28 2 года назад +3912

    "That's a YOU problem"
    "Not a ME problem,
    Go fix it yourself bish"

  • @unlikelygamer
    @unlikelygamer 2 года назад +1782

    Can you do asexual letter? I feel like there's definitely some potential to crack a few good jokes with that one...

    • @Andreaa_-_
      @Andreaa_-_ 2 года назад +231

      " dear parents...
      No.
      Yours, child"

    • @Velvet-Of-Erion
      @Velvet-Of-Erion 2 года назад +33

      @@Andreaa_-_ that's agender lol. This is a sexuality

    • @Andreaa_-_
      @Andreaa_-_ 2 года назад +40

      @@Velvet-Of-Erion why can't it be asexual?

    • @azuralights
      @azuralights 2 года назад +37

      @@Velvet-Of-Erion It can be used for both but it fits more with asexuality/aromantic.

    • @werewolfrosenberg
      @werewolfrosenberg 2 года назад +4

      @@azuralights “jokeable” lol

  • @officeralbright
    @officeralbright 2 года назад +4710

    "Some days I may feel like a sexy bisshhh, other days I may feel like a sexy bastard. And sometimes I feel like both" Took my tea and summed me up perfectly. + The wording and witty comeback, looking at the Father when she mentioned "you sound like a lawyer at a divorce settlement."

  • @VrushtiRohit24
    @VrushtiRohit24 2 года назад +125

    *_ThAtS a YOUUUU pRoBlEm NoT a MEEE pRoBlEm_*
    - Lyanna, 2022

  • @winterbeartaehyung
    @winterbeartaehyung 2 года назад +11922

    Her: ThAtS a YOU pRoBlEm NoT a ME pRoBlEm
    Her family: *…*

  • @Echo_RysPcho
    @Echo_RysPcho 2 года назад +194

    Me: /does not know what gender fluid is and searched it up to know/
    Google: /gives me answer/
    Me: /still don’t get it/
    Lyanna: “some days I feel like a sexy bisshhh, other times I feel like a sexy bastard, and sometimes I feel like both, but always, always sexy”
    Me: /finally understand it/

  • @iarchmybacula1
    @iarchmybacula1 2 года назад +738

    "sit back down"
    *"That would be the last straw for me."*

  • @squiddyowlbairn1028
    @squiddyowlbairn1028 2 года назад +55

    This has almost inspired me to come out genderfluid to my own Asian family. Almost.

    • @TattsnGuns
      @TattsnGuns 11 месяцев назад +1

      Did you yet? Lol mine will NEVER fuckn know.

    • @bonnieifail5678
      @bonnieifail5678 9 месяцев назад +1

      Same lol

  • @kemikoz
    @kemikoz 2 года назад +521

    "But always. ALWAYS, SEXY."
    I love that

  • @valenciageode25
    @valenciageode25 2 года назад +14

    “That’s a YOU problem”
    Perfect.

  • @AUBREY-ml4ex
    @AUBREY-ml4ex 2 года назад +426

    "You are genderfluid"
    -Confucius

  • @TheDragonMaster-TDM
    @TheDragonMaster-TDM 2 года назад +44

    “As fluid as da seasons in Melbourne” caught me so off-guard as an Australian (;´༎ຶٹ༎ຶ`)

  • @idk3284
    @idk3284 2 года назад +470

    "You sound like a lawyer at a divorce settlement"
    I LAUGHED WAY HARDER THAN I THOUGHT I WOULD DJDBDNDM

  • @seia2427
    @seia2427 2 года назад +41

    No one gonna talk about her literally ordering her father to sit back down? 😂😂

    • @BloomingRose438
      @BloomingRose438 Год назад +2

      Did u make the image on ur pfp? If so is it based on ddlc
      The hair and the whole style is similar

    • @seia2427
      @seia2427 Год назад +2

      @@BloomingRose438 ? What’s ddlc? And no, I found it on Google, it’s fanart of Keqing from Genshin Impact.

  • @olivia_c
    @olivia_c 2 года назад +239

    “But always..always sexy”
    *lip smack*

  • @PloverTechOfficial
    @PloverTechOfficial 2 года назад +8

    “Fluid as the seasons in Melbourne.” Never heard a more accurate quote

  • @lili.luvs.
    @lili.luvs. 2 года назад +443

    as a gendefluid person, i fucking LOVE THIS ❤️❤️❤️

  • @Stan_The_M4n2
    @Stan_The_M4n2 2 года назад +7

    Bro this is actually so pure and made me smile sm and I'm not even gender fluid

  • @kqrst
    @kqrst 2 года назад +174

    As someone that lives in Melbourne, I can confirm that the weather is in fact most fluid 💀

    • @joce_2012
      @joce_2012 2 года назад +1

      Idk where Malbourne is... Sorry. But I feel like that same can said for Ohio. Like tomorrow the high is 87 and the after tomorrow is a high of 68. So yeah it drastically here lol

    • @Maria-mu4ol
      @Maria-mu4ol 2 года назад

      @@joce_2012 Melbourne is the capital city of Victoria, Australia

    • @joce_2012
      @joce_2012 2 года назад +1

      @@Maria-mu4ol oh good to know. Thank you.

  • @Doofus_
    @Doofus_ 2 года назад +3

    "Love you’re genderfluid baby' Is one of the top ten things I would say if I could

  • @winterbeartaehyung
    @winterbeartaehyung 2 года назад +115

    She NEVER fails to make us laugh HAHA

  • @human.-.5856
    @human.-.5856 2 года назад +3

    "Always, always sexy" yes they are

  • @piebeans2126
    @piebeans2126 2 года назад +92

    Imagine the lawyer at court accidentally reading this letter instead of what their supposed to read 💀

  • @elenamorscher241
    @elenamorscher241 2 года назад +4

    „You sound like the lawyer at a divorce settlement“ pls what😂😭💀

  • @ace0f.his.h3art
    @ace0f.his.h3art 2 года назад +871

    I was actually questioning wether or not I was genderfluid today 😳

  • @UncookedSpaghetti
    @UncookedSpaghetti 10 месяцев назад +2

    "but always, always sexy"
    Period.

  • @kodzuken4160
    @kodzuken4160 2 года назад +155

    Definitely coming out as genderfluid like this💪

    • @_aceofyourheart
      @_aceofyourheart 2 года назад +3

      YUH same here ✌🏼

    • @Gamingguykhi
      @Gamingguykhi 2 года назад +3

      Same

    • @Mmmkaramel
      @Mmmkaramel 2 года назад +2

      I’m deciding whether or not I should send it to my parents, I am little nervous

    • @kodzuken4160
      @kodzuken4160 2 года назад +2

      @Karamel Its gonna be ok :) don’t force yourself to do it unless you rlly want to

    • @Mmmkaramel
      @Mmmkaramel 2 года назад +7

      @@kodzuken4160 I did it :D
      My dad was chill, I didn’t tell my mom because I know she’d just get mad. But my dad was chill

  • @CATSUMI-_-...
    @CATSUMI-_-... 2 года назад +2

    "Its a YOU problem
    Not a ME problem"so true antie... so true

  • @is4bella._.21
    @is4bella._.21 2 года назад +14

    “like a sexy bish”
    “like a sexy bastard”
    “sexy gender fluid”

  • @YuniiiLee
    @YuniiiLee 2 года назад +10

    Lmao- shout out to all the sexy gender fluid, including me 😭✨

  • @fabulousroy
    @fabulousroy 2 года назад +26

    "Confucius say I'm Gender fluid"

  • @TheUltimateRandomizer
    @TheUltimateRandomizer 2 года назад +6

    "My gender is as fluid as the seasons in Melbourne" 🤣😂
    As a melbournian, I agree

  • @McChickennuggetNerd
    @McChickennuggetNerd 2 года назад +8

    Ok I love this, I’ve been trying to find a way to come out gender fluid so I’m happy I found this on one of my favorite channels

  • @dusundavarfreohr3491
    @dusundavarfreohr3491 2 года назад +17

    I feel honored to witness such a hilariously great representation. Thank you sm 🌈🥰

  • @aestheticarts7720
    @aestheticarts7720 2 года назад +7

    OMG, I cannot begin to tell u how much I needed this, I wondered how I’d tell people and this is how I would

  • @aitroca06
    @aitroca06 2 месяца назад +2

    PFFT OMG
    i'm definitely sending this one to my parents 😂 what a way to come out

  • @Kikie__Fox
    @Kikie__Fox Год назад +3

    I FINALLY FOUND SOMETHING ABOUT GENDER FLUID FINALLYYYYYYY

  • @starieonAA
    @starieonAA Год назад +3

    i know its late but this made me feel so good as a genderfluid

  • @gamerfoxx8119
    @gamerfoxx8119 2 года назад +3

    This gave me the little bit of courage I needed to tell my partner about my gender fluidity. Thank you!

  • @Snakeplisskin440
    @Snakeplisskin440 2 года назад +2

    As someone that's gender fluid, I love this. I think the perfect example I've seen was, "Sometimes I wanna be a pretty girl in a dress, sometimes I wanna be a pretty boy in a dress." haha

  • @Fantasy_Nerd
    @Fantasy_Nerd Год назад +5

    Yeah, imma send this to my parents when i come out

  • @Toast_Drawz
    @Toast_Drawz 2 года назад +4

    They don't care about straightening your gender, they care about straightening your grades.

    • @saturnzkkY
      @saturnzkkY 2 года назад +2

      U have a point tho

  • @xry1729
    @xry1729 Год назад +5

    Actually used this video to come out to my friends 💀

  • @ItsNotMe-fc3iq
    @ItsNotMe-fc3iq Год назад +5

    Just sent this to my mum
    Their reply was
    “Ok, i love you, can i borrow your charger, your dads using mine”
    Thats what i like to call, parenting 😂

  • @mymelody8590
    @mymelody8590 2 года назад +3

    "That is as fluid as the seasons in Melbourne"
    *I'M DYING*

  • @nymphe8665
    @nymphe8665 Год назад +1

    "Father, sit back down!" XD

  • @CaffeineAddict3d
    @CaffeineAddict3d Год назад +3

    As a gender fluid I can confirm this is true.

  • @Random_Weirdo1991
    @Random_Weirdo1991 Год назад +2

    "sometimes I feel like a sexy bishh, sometimes i feel like a sexy bastard, somrtimes i feel both, but always sexy" 💀💀💀💀

  • @taytayyxx
    @taytayyxx 2 года назад +3

    “i am as fluid as the seasons in melbourne”
    PLS 💀

  • @ari_the_tricksterlokai9404
    @ari_the_tricksterlokai9404 2 года назад +1

    I come back to this video for a boost of confidence when I’m feeling down

  • @pøtatœs_luv
    @pøtatœs_luv 2 года назад +41

    Why auntie keep making me question my sexuality with these letters 😭

  • @Hi_Brien
    @Hi_Brien Год назад +1

    I'm glad Confucius said such affirming words for my kind. I will now continue being where my feelings flow.

  • @cxddlydreamer7006
    @cxddlydreamer7006 2 года назад +5

    The urge to send this to my whole entire family 😩

  • @yiotamorfoniou9923
    @yiotamorfoniou9923 2 года назад +1

    Confucius said...im gender fluid...yes gender fluid!!! 😂😂😂

  • @antonemberbroque4452
    @antonemberbroque4452 2 года назад +13

    how to come out to asian parents: "Confucius say ..."

  • @Robloxia1445
    @Robloxia1445 2 года назад +2

    I love that line:-
    ThAts a YOU pRoBlEm NoT a ME
    pRoBlEm

  • @Silvertongue123
    @Silvertongue123 Год назад +3

    Im gender fluid it all makes sense now I thought I was a trans guy but nope I'm genderfluid. Literally just had the appithany

  • @tanusharawal4828
    @tanusharawal4828 2 года назад +2

    Thank you!!! for making this. i was very surprised to see genderfluid content and feel very represented and joyful. Thank you again, you have no idea how much this means to me as a genderfluid person.

  • @flowereater7132
    @flowereater7132 2 года назад +23

    I got the bi one a few days ago and now this one? RUclips is stalking me

    • @amayazingamaya9622
      @amayazingamaya9622 2 года назад +6

      FINALLY A GENDERFLUID BISEXUAL TO MAKE THIS JOKE TO!! I think us bisexual genderfluid people should be the representatives of the LGBTQ+ because we can relate to all of them

  • @IASniteshthakur
    @IASniteshthakur Год назад +1

    What a note and way of saying.... 😂😂😂😢😢❤❤❤❤

  • @Xeniakas
    @Xeniakas 2 года назад +6

    BuT aLwAyS, ALWAYS SmExYy

  • @itzskye7074
    @itzskye7074 2 года назад +1

    I need this confidence wtf

  • @eidolicpearl
    @eidolicpearl 2 года назад +6

    i emailed this to my parents with the title “I drank the gender fluid 🥲”

  • @DallasBolin
    @DallasBolin 2 года назад +1

    Thank you so much for making so many of these coming out letters to family. I love that you're giving such broad spectrum (hehe) coverage. Seriously, it means a lot to a lot of us. c:

  • @Morana-mori
    @Morana-mori 2 года назад +4

    Sending this to my friend who needs to tell their parents. Update: they accepted it but my friend has to tell the family.

  • @Kand1b3ar
    @Kand1b3ar 10 месяцев назад +1

    "Always sexy"
    As a genderflvid prsn *chefs kiss*

  • @bluecow7171
    @bluecow7171 2 года назад +7

    My favourite one of these is when she says
    ‘Dear birth givers’

  • @vivbarber9288
    @vivbarber9288 Год назад +1

    'as fluid as the seasons in Melbourne' yup felt that

  • @Courtney09726
    @Courtney09726 Год назад +3

    Pls do a lesbian letter :)

  • @greybey4385
    @greybey4385 2 года назад +2

    this makes me love all genderfluid people out there even more.

  • @sun_kn33
    @sun_kn33 2 года назад +79

    POV: You're early, the video is funny but you don't know what to say.
    So you write a POV about that.

    • @whyarewe_evenhere
      @whyarewe_evenhere 2 года назад +6

      POV: you aren’t early, so you look through the comments and find this comment and dont know what to say.
      So you write a POV about that.

    • @vinsfactory
      @vinsfactory 2 года назад +4

      POV: you definitely aren’t early, and you find these comments and want to make one too for fun.
      so you write a POV about that.

    • @iflykaya
      @iflykaya 2 года назад +4

      POV: you’re sitting in a gross pool that probably hasn’t been cleaned in like a decade and you’re bored af so you look the the comments and find the delightful point of view chain.
      And so you write a POV about it

    • @somerandompersonfromtheint6902
      @somerandompersonfromtheint6902 2 года назад +2

      POV: Your very late to the party, but still wanting to join the chain out of boredom for no reason.
      So you write a POV about that.

  • @Eirm_sigma_magrrr1320
    @Eirm_sigma_magrrr1320 2 месяца назад +1

    Wish I had that much confidence to tell my parents I'm a Genderfluid Lesbian

  • @ThatOneAvain
    @ThatOneAvain Год назад +3

    the urge to send this to my transphobic parents lmao

  • @Ivypool-draws
    @Ivypool-draws 2 месяца назад

    Ok why did this actually boost my confidence tenfold 😂
    KEEP IT UP!!!!! ❤❤❤

  • @y.9262
    @y.9262 2 года назад +9

    "That is as fluid as the seasons in Melbourne" 💀

  • @jellyagogo7515
    @jellyagogo7515 2 года назад +1

    I LOVE THIS SO MUCH OMG-

  • @TheTwil1
    @TheTwil1 2 года назад +5

    Sometimes I feel like a millionaire. Doesn’t make me one. My bank reminds me every quarter.

  • @zararobnett8284
    @zararobnett8284 2 года назад +1

    Why is your mom so AWESOME

  • @silly1billy
    @silly1billy Год назад +3

    Saving this till i am financially independent bc homophobic parent check ❤

  • @bethmaggie4114
    @bethmaggie4114 2 года назад

    I love the way she reads the letter I FREAKING LOVE IT!!!!

  • @kxtsuki.ღ
    @kxtsuki.ღ 2 года назад +9

    "Pick a side"
    That's what my parents said when they were getting a divorce

  • @EnriquePerezBarahona
    @EnriquePerezBarahona 2 года назад +2

    I met someone in college who was gender fluid. I was the editor of the LGBT magazine at the time and wrote an anonymous Q&A about it. Pretty ahead of the time, too, like 2008-9

  • @cry7343
    @cry7343 2 года назад +10

    Auntieeeee how do I tell them I'm ace :((((

    • @shadowhearts2blanca
      @shadowhearts2blanca 2 года назад +12

      “The bloodline ends here” was how my sister said it when i came out as gay and she was ace 😂

    • @nellaWonderland
      @nellaWonderland 2 года назад

      what means ace, what does it stands for?

    • @shadowhearts2blanca
      @shadowhearts2blanca 2 года назад +1

      @@nellaWonderland asexual! No feelings of sexual attraction to others

    • @nellaWonderland
      @nellaWonderland 2 года назад +1

      @@shadowhearts2blanca oh ok, thank you♥ actually it's funny ,because I do know what asexuality is, I am asexual,that's why 😄 but forgive me my missing knowledge about that term, I'm not really into social media, and english is not my first language. maybe that's why I didn't know that?😉 and I have nobody to talk to about things like that🤷🏻 but thank you for telling me🌺♥

    • @BroYoutubeRuinedMyUsername
      @BroYoutubeRuinedMyUsername 2 года назад +1

      @@shadowhearts2blanca
      No, its no feelings of s*xual attraction towards others. Aromantic is not feeling romantic attraction towards others.

  • @Mkaykay.09
    @Mkaykay.09 2 года назад

    “🪄✨seXy✨🪄” was on point 💞

  • @nghsrae14
    @nghsrae14 2 года назад +3

    As long as my future kids are a productive members of society, and they make/adopt me some amazing grandchildren (furry or human) IDGAF what their gender is or isn't.

    • @The_Creative.
      @The_Creative. 9 месяцев назад

      YES 👏👏👏 you're a good human

  • @PoiisonWiings
    @PoiisonWiings Месяц назад +1

    I’m planning on sending this on a family group chat when I wana tell people 😂

  • @AJs_yarn_obsession
    @AJs_yarn_obsession 2 года назад +4

    If you see this could you please do a polyamory coming out letter, I don’t know how to tell my parents and I fell like one of your videos might make it easier??🥺🥺 thnx

  • @mementomortalis9592
    @mementomortalis9592 2 года назад +2

    This is the best way to come out 100% lol

  • @kwynnhp
    @kwynnhp 2 года назад +11

    Can aunty comfort me when someone changed and turned their back on me

  • @Otakugatothequeen
    @Otakugatothequeen 2 года назад

    "Sometimes I feel like _both._ "
    That's the one line I didn't expect, but I will still respect.

  • @talialawee5997
    @talialawee5997 2 года назад

    This series is sooo goodddd

  • @benhasmuddypaws
    @benhasmuddypaws 10 месяцев назад +1

    ‘I am as fluid as the seasons in Melbourne’ only ppl in Melbourne will understand lmao

  • @ethandafailure97
    @ethandafailure97 2 года назад +1

    I’m using these videos to come out to my parents it’s too good 😂❤️

  • @nrhodes2026
    @nrhodes2026 2 года назад +1

    The pause after Confuscius say 😂😂