Is SINGLENESS a Blessing or Curse?

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  • Опубликовано: 7 ноя 2024

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  • @Apocal3ypse
    @Apocal3ypse 5 месяцев назад +2

    Now your married amen❤

  • @hamilton9651
    @hamilton9651 Год назад +3

    I have very severe emotional problems, and I know that remaining single is God's best for me. He has removed the desire to be married, so I am at peace. Even as a teenager before being saved I knew deep down in my heart that I was not destined for marriage.

  • @oscarmachado3791
    @oscarmachado3791 2 года назад +6

    I think as young single Christians we have to really understand the responsabilities and the true meaning of marridged. So we gotta chill out a little bit, and prepare ourselves. Many young people in our churches are obssed with the idea of being marry but they don't really know all the aspects that are included. We have to study scripture, develop a true and deep relationship with God, create at least the economic independence that allows the couple to live by ther own and be really awere of the work we have to do to glorify Jesus in our marridge(being clear of our role accodording to the Bible). I loved the vídeo. God bless you Ally May!🙏🏼🤗

  •  2 года назад +7

    I love this Ally ❤️‍🔥 Thank You 🙏🏼 I’ve been single for over 6 years now and the time and freedom are definitely gifts!! Lots of time I can spend with God at home by myself , just doing whatever singing, reading Gods word out loud , speaking and sometimes shouting in tongues etc 😎 so it’s truly been a blessing 😇

    • @pammiesingkho1786
      @pammiesingkho1786 2 года назад

      As for me, I've been single for like 27years doing my call of duty, to complete all my assignments to HIM; I always feel that I'm alredy nailed to ths kind of work...so yah, ths whole singleness is truly a blessing.

  • @luxshampoo8520
    @luxshampoo8520 2 года назад +1

    marriage is not the only important thing!

  • @pammiesingkho1786
    @pammiesingkho1786 2 года назад

    U ABSOLUTELY RT-- God Got Me!! I knew frm the start that we've got so much in common one is being single; we pretty much know our God.

  • @Anthony-yy3kc
    @Anthony-yy3kc 2 года назад

    Sometimes you do have to give up! The pain is deep, and has been with me for years! I know that I will never be in a relationship again. I struggle to surrender my desires to God!

  • @Josueabrahamluna
    @Josueabrahamluna 2 года назад +2

    I agree with all of them. If anyone one is single no matter what age begin to pray thank you for everything that God has provided. Have a thankful heart, even if you don’t receive what you desire. I know for a fact that we ask for so much! But the Word of God says blessed is the MAN WHO FINDS a godly woman. So, work hard for God she will be in the same road that you are walking.

  • @lindseyrae8598
    @lindseyrae8598 2 года назад +3

    Feels like a curse after never having been in a relationship. I am trying to have a new perspective, but I want to find my person. Anyone else feel this way?

    • @Abigail_Kidimbu
      @Abigail_Kidimbu 2 года назад +1

      Yes girl !
      22 and single I have been talking to a lot of wrong guys who were not Christians.
      But now I’m talking to the one ! It Will come :)

  • @Inefprag
    @Inefprag 2 года назад +10

    That tip about finding your community has been my struggle. I've been a christian for 8 years, I've done my part to be rooted in a church but most of the christians that I've met in those 4 churches that I went to are selfish. They only care about themselves and their cliques. They give me the impression that they only accept the ones that are cool enough to them. I only have 1 loyal friend but he's rarely available. I do know some great people but they live miles away or are also busy. The ones I trusted at some point pushed me away. I keep on praying for a community but at this moment I don't know what else to do... going to new a new church feels useless...

    • @omardelmar
      @omardelmar 2 года назад +2

      Being a Christian and being anointed are two different things. It has been difficult to find anointed people like me. Plenty of “Christians” around, few have been chosen. But if you look hard enough for them, you’ll find them in the most unusual places.

  • @Able1212music
    @Able1212music 2 года назад

    Im 43... Ive been single for over a decade purposely... I am with God always... I am always learning... I am always studyng the BIble or some way shape or form of this world to glorify God... God knows Im alone... He literally gave me my old dead cat back (a different cat but same exact cat I prayed for 2 weeks later which means God already had him in the belly 4 weeks before I prayed to have him back... that was 8 years ago already... it's my testimony that solidified my belief in God cause I started calling God "the universe" and new age stuff started creeping in) everything I keep trying to build is stifled by the enemy... I am one of the most censored people youve never heard of because I have stood up in many ways... in real life and online... Im censored so much in fact now I am going to city hall to call them out for going against God and Im calling out this nations/worlds blatant lies against God and the people... Im so sick of being alone and having no one to talk to for YEARS... Im talking the REASON I prayed to God to have my old cat back or to have a GF was BECAUSE I was so alone 8 YEARS AGO... and I am still alone where now NOBODY wants to talk to me cause of the things I understand about this world (AND CAN PROVE)... which is WHY Im going to city hall cause I dont know what else to do... Ive prayed and prayed... and I'm still alone with no one to talk to and still feel anxious when im not scared at all (besides of not finding love which I know God loves me but human love I still crave) anyway... I almost just erased this all and said WHATS THE POINT nobody cares anyway lol but well there it is #SoldierOfGods being optimistic is SO MUCH EASIER being young than when youre older (at least for me anyway)... ALL my faith and trust is in God... but I dont understand why Im still ALONE after YEARSSSSSSSSSSSSS

  • @colesanders7824
    @colesanders7824 2 года назад +2

    A word to the men that might see this. Don’t get stuck on chasing women, chase excellence. Don’t make women or a woman the center of your world, be on a mission. Use the gifts God has given you to work hard and bless those around you by being responsible, strong, honest, and wise. Be disciplined and be a man of the Word. Also, never let someone discourage masculine desires to lead, protect, serve, and take dominion. Ultimately, rest in Christ and His finished work. Have Christ at the forefront of your mind, knowing why you do what you do. You don’t do these things to be saved, but because by grace alone through faith alone in Christ alone you have been saved.
    Really solid practical advice Ally. Between, pursuing your passion, being consistent with a routine, learning new skills. All of that’s so overlooked. Bringing it back to growing in the Grace and knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ, really well done.

  • @christian9mty
    @christian9mty 2 года назад +7

    God bless you you’re awesome!🙏🏼🙌🏼🤍

    • @allypoirot
      @allypoirot  2 года назад +2

      Aww thank you! God bless you brother!🙏

  • @jenniferteneck4231
    @jenniferteneck4231 Год назад

    Thanks so much 🙏 💓 I really appreciate u letting God use u to bless us 🙏 💖

  • @scottyaksic7548
    @scottyaksic7548 2 года назад

    Thank you Ally May for this beautiful message. I'm currently in a season of singleness and it has helped to strengthen my relationship with God. It is truly a blessing to have come across this video to reassure me that I'm doing the right thing. God bless you and have a wonderful day 😇

  • @rogermendez553
    @rogermendez553 2 года назад +1

    Praise God this is very edifying and helpful for all us that are single. Continue to share what God puts in your heart❤️. I'll continue to pray for God's will in my life to fulfill itself. I suggest bible study with themes like this and others that are important in our walk with Christ. God bless you 🙏🏽

  • @christianbiker7
    @christianbiker7 2 года назад +2

    Nothing but truth and I admire it! In Jesus name God bless you🙌☝️💜

  • @typarker7039
    @typarker7039 2 года назад

    What I hate to see is when people can’t stand to be single after a breakup so they try to immediately find somebody else to replace what they had before instead of taking a break, thinking about their own mistakes and what they could’ve done better. I can relate to a time when I was with somebody that I truly loved and cared about and she was not only my gf but also my best friend and so when it ended for good it left a void in my heart and I felt like I needed someone else to fill that empty space but in reality what I really needed was to take a long time and think about everything I could’ve done better and that’s what I did and what I’ve still been doing for the past nearly 4 years and it changed me into a completely different person. So I’m so glad that God used what I thought was going to be the death of me in order to change me into the best version of myself in order to help others and bring them to him.

  • @cablelichte7533
    @cablelichte7533 2 года назад +3

    Thank you so much for this video God bless you 🙏🙌✝️💯 thank you for the advice and for everything that you said. The last few weeks and days I've been praying for an answer to all of my questions regarding this topic and now they have been delivered, Trusting and having patience in the lords plan for you is key for sure. 😊 I hope you have a very blessed day thx so much once again ❤️💙💜🖤

  • @abeljustinsaucedo361
    @abeljustinsaucedo361 2 года назад +1

    This video is such a great blessing! there’s a whole lot of great info here. Thank you very much sister Ally. God is too good! By the way, love the style of the video, it’s very interesting and exciting. Keep up the great work. Stay blessed.

  • @klrider250
    @klrider250 2 года назад +1

    Ally May
    This is exactly what I needed to hear!!
    You are so encouraging and I'm so thankful for you and your videos!!
    God Bless you!

  • @thegreatestrealrapper
    @thegreatestrealrapper 2 года назад +1

    Thank you Ally, I will follow your advices as they are so real and great, actually I think I've already been doing some of them, and the faith, God, discipline, hard work, exercise and understanding doing the hard thing when nobody completely undertads, but we still believe in God contributing with church I think everything you've said is amazing 🙌😇🙏 it's good to know there is more people who has been single waiting for God's time, person and time, thank you for being honest, this is a great youtube channel 🙌😇🙏 and I will never lose the hope the other person I will meet in the future in person will be part of God's plan, and maybe one day I will meet you as far as I understand what you say and I think is great

  • @gatorfencingofmanateellcbo8927
    @gatorfencingofmanateellcbo8927 2 года назад

    Thank You For Everything You’re Doing! Keep Spreading The Truth. Are Country Needs More People Like You. God Bless You #AllyMay💜 Sending Air Love From Bradenton, Florida ☀️🌴 #YouCantBeatGod

  • @julianat1408
    @julianat1408 2 года назад +4

    Amen! God bless you for the encouragement!! 😊❤️

  • @laurelthompson6091
    @laurelthompson6091 2 года назад +4

    Thank You For This video ☺️

  • @tn-no7nt
    @tn-no7nt 2 года назад

    God told me and you are going be a relationship 🙏

  • @shivaramnair3288
    @shivaramnair3288 2 года назад

    YES AMEN

  • @jacobhudgens7892
    @jacobhudgens7892 2 года назад +4

    I pray and ask God that my wife and I (whoever she may be) that God places in my life that the love we share is like the rings on each of our fingers never ending and constantly running back into itself and that love is felt by everyone and shared with everyone that is blessed to come into our lives and with those that we are blessed to meet along our life's journey to our destination together and I ask God that we feed each other that we grow stronger together in a trifold yoke in Christ Jesus our Lord. I ask this in the name of Jesus Christ amen

  • @dustinmoscrip
    @dustinmoscrip 2 года назад +1

    You said “learn how to change a tire..” that’s awesome 🤣👍 I love it, you’re great lol.
    On a side note, would you be willing to share a few words on current relationships? Say, marriages that could be enduring hardship? (Ex: infidelity, separation, divorce, etc.)
    What does God say about this?
    Why would someone be blessed with a marriage that leads to divorce?
    What’s Gods word about the husband and wife?

    • @pammiesingkho1786
      @pammiesingkho1786 2 года назад

      U know, if I were u I would also find interest in watching ths great program on EWTN 'Living Right w/ Dr.Ray Guarendi' -- u might find the answers to yer questions...

  • @luxshampoo8520
    @luxshampoo8520 2 года назад

    a girl that's single in 2022 that's is like so impossible!

  • @jonimarkkanen3188
    @jonimarkkanen3188 2 года назад

    I needed this.

  • @oltronbenz
    @oltronbenz Год назад

    Wow it's Great Great Great.

  • @francoisrousseau4658
    @francoisrousseau4658 2 года назад

    Thank you that helped a lot

    • @allypoirot
      @allypoirot  2 года назад

      Aww I am so happy it helped! God bless you ✝️🙌💟

  • @randymortensen9938
    @randymortensen9938 2 года назад

    Thank you for the encouragement. Great video!

  • @esline5040
    @esline5040 2 года назад

    🌈💛

  • @jessiezuniga875
    @jessiezuniga875 2 года назад

    I like your hair

  • @johnsheehan858
    @johnsheehan858 2 года назад

    I think another factor we should ask ourselves is what is the motive of why we want a significant other.... I know it sounds like duh statement but think about it, have you ever experienced somethin where you realized oh I'm still upset at this and didn't realize it? The Word says our life is hidden with Christ in God(Col 3:3) Maybe I'm misinterpreting that scripture idk but God spoke to me yesterday about this thought so I've been reading this book called Questions for Jesus by Tony Stoltzfus and it talks about our desires and how sometimes we attach things to them expecting something for instance what I discovered yesterday was that some of my deep emotion of yearnings I was having I would be praying for a spouse. Nothing wrong with that but there was somethin deeper, like why did I want a spouse? So I wouldn't feel tormented anymore, so that I wouldn't feel alone. So what my ACTUAL desire was not really a spouse even though I really would like to one at some point but was actually PEACE. And maybe for you its love or affection but these are desires we can ask from Jesus I hope what I'm saying makes sense definitely recommend the book. Thx for the video.

    • @allypoirot
      @allypoirot  2 года назад +2

      This is such a good point! Thank you for your comment! I totally agree with you! It is crucial that we examine our motives behind anything that we desire. This is especially important when it comes to the desire to have a spouse because sometimes our motives for having a spouse might hinder our ability to wait for the right one. And like you said, it is so true that Jesus satisfies the deep and most important desires of our hearts. We must understand that He is all we need and desire over everything else. Once we understand this, we can have peace and assurance that we are loved, even when no one else is telling us. And a future spouse is not going to be Jesus. They will mess up because they are human. But if Jesus is our firm foundation, we are better protected and have peace even if a friend, significant other, spouse, etc. lets us down.
      I pray that others will see your beautiful comment full of truth! God bless you!

  • @Andy-mi1hu
    @Andy-mi1hu 2 года назад

    God Bless you Ally!

  • @chrisfurbert5315
    @chrisfurbert5315 2 года назад +1

    This is a blessing

    • @allypoirot
      @allypoirot  2 года назад +2

      Aww I’m so glad to hear that!

    • @chrisfurbert5315
      @chrisfurbert5315 2 года назад

      Praying for you and your ministry

    • @allypoirot
      @allypoirot  2 года назад

      @@chrisfurbert5315 thank you so much! God bless you!

  • @ryannorthwest7255
    @ryannorthwest7255 2 года назад

    Amen! Bless You!

  • @amitkurian1693
    @amitkurian1693 2 года назад

    💯 facts

  • @zanexavier475
    @zanexavier475 2 года назад +1

    To me it's a blessing yall girls got problems lol (some of yall not all just wanna make that clear)

  • @cheridanangel7998
    @cheridanangel7998 2 года назад +1

    💜

  • @austriitis
    @austriitis 2 года назад

    If u can translate this. Paldies par padomiem. Bet šī ir loti populāra tēma, par kuru arī es šobrīd domāju un lūdzu Dievu. Lai gan iet diezgan grūti, bet bez cīnām nav uzvaras. Dievs katram ir paredzējis sievu vai vīru, bet mums ir jāgaida un mēs nedrīkstam apstāties lūgt, labs piemērs ir Ābrahām, vinš lūdz sev pēcnācēju, un tikai pêc vairākiem gadiem to dabūja, mēs nedrīkstam krist uz Hagarēm, mums ir jābūt pacietīgiem gaidīt. Turpini iesãktu, lai Dievs Tevi Svētī. Hello from Latvia 😊🙏

    • @allypoirot
      @allypoirot  2 года назад +1

      Hello friend! Hopefully you are able to translate this as well! I am so glad the tips were helpful to you!
      And you are so right. It is definitely a popular topic that isn’t discussed too often. I totally agree with you that it is so important to be in prayer to God about it all. I love what you said there: there is no victory without fighting! Well said! The fervent prayer of the righteous availeth much! And patiently trusting and waiting is so crucial. That is such a good example! Yes, we must have patience like Abraham and not fall for Hagar when the enemy tries to use impatience to get in the way of God’s perfect plan. Thank you so much for your comment my friend! God bless you! And Latvia! That is so cool! I’m overjoyed that my video could reach you!💛

  • @mavhunter8753
    @mavhunter8753 2 года назад

    Would you consider being 29 years old, young? I’m afraid I’m getting to old to start a family.

    • @allypoirot
      @allypoirot  2 года назад +2

      This is such a great question! I definitely consider 29 as young😊 you are not too old to start a family at all. My parents didn’t start having kids until their thirties. And I had this precious teacher in high school, and she was such a woman of God and a light for Jesus to her students (at a Public highschool). She was single for many years got married at 32 and is welcoming a baby boy into the world soon at age 34. She led so many students to Christ in her single years, and I know she still will while she is married. But her impact was much larger since she was able to focus on God’s will wholeheartedly in her single years.
      All that to say, don’t lose hope my friend. God loves you so much. And God gives good gifts to His children. If you want to start a family, God will make a way. Continue to be in prayer about it and ask God to direct your steps through this entire process. He will make a way. Nothing is too big for Him💛

    • @mavhunter8753
      @mavhunter8753 2 года назад

      @@allypoirot Thank you!

  • @tn-no7nt
    @tn-no7nt 2 года назад

    😆 😂 😆 😂 😆

  • @cliffli5060
    @cliffli5060 Месяц назад

    Definitely a curse, give this so called gift to someone else. I don't want it

  • @rjmacready8830
    @rjmacready8830 7 месяцев назад

    It is a curse. Maybe you missed Genesis where God said man should not be alone. No women, maybe, but men DO NOT do well alone. You are only hurting yourself.

  • @lifeoftannehdobbor8374
    @lifeoftannehdobbor8374 Год назад

    This is really abt me ❤😊

  • @candidoMukuni
    @candidoMukuni 2 года назад

    Everyone longs to give themselves completely to someone, to have a deep soul relationship with another, To be loved thoroughly and exclusively.
    But to a Christian, God says, “No, not until you are satisfied, Full and content with being loved by me alone, with giving yourself totally and unreservedly to me. With having an intensely personal and unique relationship with me alone.
    Discovering that only in me is your satisfaction to be found, Will you be capable of the perfect human relationship, That I have planned for you. You will never be united with another until you are united with me. Exclusive of anyone or anything else. Exclusive of any other desires or longings. I want you to stop planning, to stop wishing, and allow me to give you The most thrilling plan existing… one you cannot imagine. I want you to have the best. Please allow me to bring it to you.
    You just keep watching me, expecting the greatest things. Keep experiencing the satisfaction that I am. Keep listening and learning the things that I tell you. Just wait, that’s all. Don’t be anxious, don’t worry. Don’t look around at things others have gotten or that I have given them. Don’t look around at the things you think you want, Just keep looking off and away up to me, Or you’ll miss what I want to show you, And then, when you’re ready, I’ll surprise you with a love Far more wonderful than you could dream of.
    You see, until you are ready, and until the one I have for you is ready, I am working even at this moment. To have both of you ready at the same time. Until you are both satisfied exclusively with me.”
    -St. Anthony de Padua

    • @rogermendez553
      @rogermendez553 2 года назад +1

      Praise God this was edifying and very helpful. I'll continue to pray for God's purpose to fullfill in my life. Also keep sharing what God puts in your heart❤️I suggest some bible study with themes like this and others so we can grow together. God bless you and everyone here 🙏🏽

    • @candidoMukuni
      @candidoMukuni 2 года назад

      @@rogermendez553 God bless

    • @allypoirot
      @allypoirot  2 года назад +1

      This is absolutely beautiful. I totally agree with you! Thank you so much for taking the time to write your comment. I know it is going to bless others as they read it. It really blessed me. The Lord has shown me these ideas time and time again. To be fully satisfied in Him is the best way yo live. And what a blessing it is to love and be loved by our perfect God💛🙌
      Thank you again for these precious words of truth my friend! God bless you!