Reality Check: Moving in - a good or bad Idea?

[@Anastasia12123]

Every unmarried young lady should listen to this. Thank you Dr. Evas

[@ahabwamukamabenjamin220]

Thank you. I can't forget that illustration of sticky tap in broken heart syndrome

[@douglasmartinssemaganda]

This is a truth revealing topic. Thank you, Racheal & Eva. A scenario came to mind to bring the matter home for me: You walk in at Spear Motors and ask to test drive a 300M Mercedes Benz before you make up your mind whether to buy or not. You get excited with its road performance & you crash it. The company legally compels you to pay close to 100M in repairs. You walk away with an experience of how a Mercedes feels, but without owning it! Yet with some wounds to show!

[@evasatwinekansiime5106]

This is very helpful illustration! Thank you so much Douglas.

[@lateefahnuwagaba-ce8mi]

The people that haven't come across this channel are missing a lot

[@rachaelmwine611]

Please share with them :-) Thank you for watching

[@musiimentasharrotte2241]

Surely!!

[@flaviabumba6476]

1.commitment# when u commit, u direct material and emotional resources.
2.Security, if banks ask for security how about securing your relationship?
Wow what a wealth of knowledge, thank you ladies# God bless you both

[@n.sophie2001]

I'm indeed blessed for having gotten this information. Sometimes only love aint just enough, she said "Love needs security inorder for it to be fulfilling" and it's really 100% true. I learnt it today, processed it and I totally agree.

[@user-en1zc5vd6y]

You ladies are phenomenal… I can’t say how much I love you and you inspire me to be better everyday. Much love from Qatar ❤

[@Lifewithme19]

This is so wonderful.
Thank you, Dr. Evas
The difference in mental spaces makes alot of sense.

[@sheillaha8740]

Someone teach me the difference between courtship and cohabiting. So that when I’m giving my points I know how to explain them

[@bernicerogo9190]

I would love to meet Dr Evas someday.
I'm from Kenya

[@katek4724]

Liked this episode a lot because it put into perspective this, "come we stay" phenomenon. I once had a friend that I was trying explain the danger of "come we stay" to but she wouldn't listen to me. She went ahead and stayed. It has been a rollercoaster for her. I now see that I didn't have the right words to explain what could go wrong. Thanks Evas for helping us explain things that we struggle to explain.

[@evasatwinekansiime5106]

I deeply appreciate your feedback! Great to know that the content was helpful! God bless you!

[@marvinjamesodongo3575]

This is one of those times the algorithm just blesses your feed. I hope you guys do one on how kids should navigate their parents divorce

[@evasatwinekansiime5106]

Yes James, we surely will! Thanks for this amazing feedback!

[@rachaelmwine611]

@@marvinjamesodongo3575 absolutely!

[@violetabia5141]

Thank you for this Episode
Words make impossible possible for sure, it's just how to communicate and a deeper understanding of reality.
I would also love for you to discuss the realities of faith (religion) esp in the recent years, I feel pastors are breaking marriages (women tend to follow their pastors and now do the wrong things when it comes to managing their home affairs)

[@realitycheckicfc]

Thank you for following the show @violet .... Your feedback keeps us going knowing that our words are creating positive change. Your request will be put into consideration. Keep sharing, keep liking and commenting.

[@PhionaNabude]

Thank you Rachel and Dr.Evas for voicing the demerits of this arrangement.
God is indeed helping us.

[@dianeseromba5743]

Such an eye opening session especially for those who were contemplating this sort of arrangement/approach. A Very informative show ladies. . Always a blessing to us❤❤❤

[@sarahosilo3621]

Really loved listening to this Segment. Racheal I am a big fan!. Keep up the awesome work. Dr Evas thank you for your wonderful words of wisdom.xx

[@rachaelmwine611]

Thank you Sarah😊

[@Natasha.959]

Thank you dear Eva's for the counseling always 😊. Rachel your doing amazing sweetie.

[@gumaallan6]

i really enjoyed listening to this show most especially the part of make the relationship you it to be thank Dr evas will keep working on my character

[@patriciaatim4043]

This was so helpful to me

[@realitycheckicfc]

Thank you

[@Flourish_today]

It's interesting how the law recognizes common law relationships in North America. When a man and woman live together, they are considered common law, and after a year, if they want to separate, they divide whatever they acquire living together 50/50. Some even buy a house and have to sell. It's treated like a marriage.

[@rachaelmwine611]

Sadly it is different here, which is why seeking security and commitment first before you live together might be the protection you need in case of future challenges.

[@kamii_kazi]

Depends because again some countries like Canada common law doesn’t affect such things but if maybe there is a chance of a baby of course the parents will have to discuss over child support so I believe marriage should be respected and valued at all costs.

[@ABrenda]

Thought Rachel had a channel after watching this but now I know,wow this is good content here.

[@annelutara1192]

Thank you Dr.Evas and Rachel ,may God continue to bless you and this show.This is a very important topic ,you are saving many young people's lives.❤❤❤

[@allentasha1531]

This is really an intresting talk
Can you talk about the choices parents make to their children interms of getting them spouses without their consents or permission.

[@rachaelmwine611]

This is worth discussing...thank you for the suggestion

[@agabagillen1911]

Wisdom 101... Thanks alot Doctor

[@estherlita7849]

Well dome Rachael... am from bump love

[@kemirembesandra7613]

This is very insightful

[@jacquelinekyomukama3500]

Wisdom

[@Lifewithme19]

❤

[@hopenamanya6141]

I love this show, I watch it religiously. You are doing the lord's work. Something doesn't sit right with using particular examples, maybe if you could state like a scenario, other than saying there is lady that came to me etc, If I have been to you and I watch the show I will know you're referring to me and I think trust is then broken. My Unsolicited two cents.

[@evasatwinekansiime5106]

Thanks a lot for your kind feedback! I deeply appreciate it!

[@nyakanzidellah256]

I think her examples are OK if she doesn't mention the names which she does. Therefore no trust is broken.
Am glad she shares from her experience

[@Mr.Articulate146]

Yeah...she doesn't mention names &that's wht matters....she is too professional.

[@bernicerogo9190]

Wow❤

[@fortunatetusiime5550]

Hello Recheal❤

[@judithlenah5704]

Management of love 😂

[@deborahmwikirize9468]

Thank you for da program Rachael and Dr.Evas..@Racehael kindly share your contact.thx