There is something wise about the approach she took to talk to the girl. She is trying to make her understand these facts and not force her to understand. More grace upon you sir and ma.
The counsellor is pained by her actions but she is allowing God to guide her on how to talk to her. The key is knowing when God is directing you to be soft and when He is directing you to be stern whenever people come to you to handle issues
Exactly if all mothers can talk calmly when this situation of dating stuff arise. Tho there are sometimes the shouts is needed oo but at least first of all with calmness. That's why it's also good to have mentors too. I also like the mentor role Mama played here😊
Exactly, let your child feel comfortable enough to talk to you about these sort of things. Otherwise they will get advice from negative influences like this aunty in the skit.
@@estherogechukwu9853 that was because she had that aunty who was a close confidant who kept giving her wrong counsel and asking her to stay away from the counselor. Also, you can't downplay the place of interceding for your children. That the Lord will give them wisdom to make the wise choices in life. And that the Lord will sorround the hem with the right company and keep negative influences away from them.
He is 30 years older than you, old enough to be your grandad...he is a predator, preying on naive and innocent girls. Choices that we make today will take us farrrr. Living by God's Principles saves us from unnecessary heartaches and setbacks. God's ways are always right even though they might not be popular.
A little girl sat beside me in church and i noticed she was engrossed with some writings.. i spy and saw things like "john is the only one i trust, he loves co-operation,he is handsome, he keeps secret and doesn't like me gossip about him" she literally sketch the spelling of john in major places in her note. I had to snap it when she stepped out. I even asked if john was her brother she said no that john is in her school. I asked why she's putting his name everywhere she smiled and said nothing. I have tried to collect to the mom because i asked her her age and she's just 10. I fear something isn't right. I pray holy spirit help me to connect with her mom and the little girl should be ready to talk.
I've been waiting for skit and this arrived🥳🥳🥳Thank God ooo🥳🥳. Woww obedience is the key hmmn and i like the mentor role Mama acted here🙏Thanks you Papa and Mama for this🙏
For now we are not suppose to talk about being in a relationship, the only relationship we should focus on now is the relationship we have with God 😊😊😊😊 as a girl of 16,17,18,19,20 I think the best for us is to focus on Jesus and all things shall be added unto you❤🎉
I also make this same mistake. But I thank God for giving me the wisdom to break the relationship. Thank you the Winlos for sharing this video. I love you guys 💞
Ma the way you spoke to the girl was the best approach. You were so calm and making here see reasons why she should not engage in such acts. That's wisdom for me. I recieve that Grace too. More Grace, much love ❤️ 😍 💖 ❣️ 💕 ❤❤❤
last night during a night vigil the pastor said the gate of birth the gate of youth and the gate of marriage are the gates which the enemy fight against a lot Many destinies were lost at these gates😢
I see a mom that could do better when communicating her concerns. I suppose the girl will understand better if mum was vulnerable to explain why. How can she be surprised her mum was a teenage mum. That knowledge would have been valuable in stirring her the right way.
She didn't date just any ordinary man; she dated someone who was old enough to be her daddy! I wouldn't let her date him if he was 22! She's still a baby herself barely out of high school!
Apart from the the Christian implications of having sex and premarital affairs with a teenager which makes it to amount to the sin of fornication, the legal implications of this is that, by virtue of Section 31 of the Child Rights Act 2004 having sex with a teenage girl (below the age of 18) amounts to statutory rape and it is immaterial whether or not you were in a relationship or she gave you consent before the sexual intercourse.
We should learn early in life to seek God first daily and ask Him to please order our steps in his word. Parents raising chyshoulk ash Him to teach them the way to raise their children. I did and it worked. God bless all of you.
@@joystar39both men and women are doing it, as a pastor I just handle a 45yrs old supposed Christian luring 20yrs old youth into a relationship for a year and actually introducing the young man into many dangerous things until the mother saw messages on his phone Parents must pay serious attention to wolves in sheep clothing taking advantage of the naivety of young girls and boys
After the breakup and pregnancy, her eyes were clear. Satan's proper name is "The Thief" John 10:10. May parents receive the Grace to train children in the way they should go, lest they take a strange path🥲.
When she said she was 17 i said "HEY JESUS"😂🤣🤣🤣 The mentor is amazing but also needed to address the age gap issues.. the end message as well. Stir up love?? Ha! And what with the ao called auntie?? Hey!! Destiny killer smh.
Hmmmm! This is exactly what is happening in the world today,God will help us to through to guide our children in the way of the Lord and God in His mercies give them a listening ear.
in 2004, i went to our brother's wedding in Fickburg, and an older guy starts to propose to me, and my sister to the family i went to the wedding to, noticed that, and she advised me "if anyone old, very old to have a family of his own shows interest in you, the first thing to ask yourself is ? why isnt he married? and where is the wife and children?" and she said be wise! and i couldnt run away fast enough from that old man😂
Also young people, I will add it that love is NOT sex, and sex is NOT love. Love is a sacrifice, like something you give up expecting NOTHING back. And like giving yourself to someone in marriage for the rest of your life, not because you want them to love you back, but because you love that person. This is why it is a sacrifice, a once and for all covenant, in which there no looking back. If you kill a living goat and burn it in a fire do you get the living goat back? No! There is no love in sex and fornication, but there is sex in marital love as it is permitted by God and there is love in marital sex. Note the difference!!
There is something wise about the approach she took to talk to the girl. She is trying to make her understand these facts and not force her to understand. More grace upon you sir and ma.
The counsellor is pained by her actions but she is allowing God to guide her on how to talk to her. The key is knowing when God is directing you to be soft and when He is directing you to be stern whenever people come to you to handle issues
Sir/ma do you have a guide on picking mentors?
It is always better to make people understand than force your beliefs on them.
That's true
The way the "eh!" came out of me when she said the age!!😂
The Winlos create videos for all, teenagers, adults, people in ministry and all. Good work🥰
Parents should distance their children from such evil aunties and family members who badly advice our children
It's really not easy dealing with teenagers, thank God for His wisdom...Thank you Winlos for this skit..
If all mother's would be calm like the mentor when we talk about these things to them it'd have been sweet ❤
Exactly if all mothers can talk calmly when this situation of dating stuff arise. Tho there are sometimes the shouts is needed oo but at least first of all with calmness. That's why it's also good to have mentors too. I also like the mentor role Mama played here😊
Exactly, let your child feel comfortable enough to talk to you about these sort of things. Otherwise they will get advice from negative influences like this aunty in the skit.
I think I understand this poin
But she didn’t still heed the counsel 😢
@@estherogechukwu9853 that was because she had that aunty who was a close confidant who kept giving her wrong counsel and asking her to stay away from the counselor. Also, you can't downplay the place of interceding for your children. That the Lord will give them wisdom to make the wise choices in life. And that the Lord will sorround the hem with the right company and keep negative influences away from them.
He is 30 years older than you, old enough to be your grandad...he is a predator, preying on naive and innocent girls. Choices that we make today will take us farrrr. Living by God's Principles saves us from unnecessary heartaches and setbacks. God's ways are always right even though they might not be popular.
Ikr
Well said 👏
Perfectly said
Well said!!! 👏❤️
Honestly that grandad part is true nowdays!
A little girl sat beside me in church and i noticed she was engrossed with some writings.. i spy and saw things like "john is the only one i trust, he loves co-operation,he is handsome, he keeps secret and doesn't like me gossip about him" she literally sketch the spelling of john in major places in her note. I had to snap it when she stepped out.
I even asked if john was her brother she said no that john is in her school. I asked why she's putting his name everywhere she smiled and said nothing.
I have tried to collect to the mom because i asked her her age and she's just 10. I fear something isn't right. I pray holy spirit help me to connect with her mom and the little girl should be ready to talk.
Amen. Thanks for looking out for her best interests.
A life that is not guided by principles will bring in negative patterns. May God guide our footsteps to the right pattern
Listen and pay attention to those who have gone ahead of you always and be vulnerable to them
Follow them who through faith and patience have obtained the promise.
Which kind aunty b this?? 😢😢God abeg o
A life that is not guided by principles will follow negative pattern
"Life is governed by principles" powerful!
The girl acted well... Nice video
May God expose the evil agents called aunty in our lives- 😂😂😂😂
Honestly
Amen
Yes 😂😂
This piece💯
My girl Ella on this!
God bless the Winlos❤️❤️❤️
Life is governed by principles hence we must live by principles. Thank you 🙏
I've been waiting for skit and this arrived🥳🥳🥳Thank God ooo🥳🥳. Woww obedience is the key hmmn and i like the mentor role Mama acted here🙏Thanks you Papa and Mama for this🙏
For now we are not suppose to talk about being in a relationship, the only relationship we should focus on now is the relationship we have with God 😊😊😊😊 as a girl of 16,17,18,19,20 I think the best for us is to focus on Jesus and all things shall be added unto you❤🎉
If 19 and 20 can be married, then they can be in a relationship.
The "you no get style" cracked me up
😂😂😂
The Mumu too ask "what is style" 😂😂😂
Your last comment is funny😂😂
Your last comment is funny😂😂
I don’t know what he expected from her, she just started the thing 😂
I also make this same mistake.
But I thank God for giving me the wisdom to break the relationship.
Thank you the Winlos for sharing this video.
I love you guys 💞
Ma the way you spoke to the girl was the best approach. You were so calm and making here see reasons why she should not engage in such acts.
That's wisdom for me. I recieve that Grace too.
More Grace, much love ❤️ 😍 💖 ❣️ 💕 ❤❤❤
Very ineffective approach
God bless you all for this ministration❤
So true!
We should not follow the pattern of this world, but principle and self discipline.... Thanks🙏👍....
17 and 42??? 😂😂😂 and inlove? 😅 dey play
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God bless you.. winlos... This is the truth everyone would cover... Thanks for painting this to the world... The Lord increase you greatly..
I love the the counselor adviced her. Not hu force but through understanding and love. God bless you ma ❤
last night during a night vigil the pastor said the gate of birth the gate of youth and the gate of marriage are the gates which the enemy fight against a lot
Many destinies were lost at these gates😢
I also heard that teaching by Ap.James Kawalya.We need to cry unto GOD to cut our umbilical cord(Ezek 16:4-10
@@resty3681woow
I see a mom that could do better when communicating her concerns. I suppose the girl will understand better if mum was vulnerable to explain why. How can she be surprised her mum was a teenage mum. That knowledge would have been valuable in stirring her the right way.
Thank you for educating young girls. God bless you.
God bless you the Winlows. You're a great blessing to our generation.
A great lesson to learn❤🥂
She didn't date just any ordinary man; she dated someone who was old enough to be her daddy! I wouldn't let her date him if he was 22! She's still a baby herself barely out of high school!
Life is guided by principles Thank you 🙏🙏
More grace to this ministry in Jesus name amen
Yes they always sweet in the beginning but most them is death trap. I always say the morning will come meaning wrong decision will bring you pain
When i saw mama ascend as aunty i knew its about to go down 😅😅😅
Major thing is just the dialougue between the mentor and the teen. I've learnt something today!
weldone guys this is wonderful mesage to younger ones (Teenagers especially)
Apart from the the Christian implications of having sex and premarital affairs with a teenager which makes it to amount to the sin of fornication, the legal implications of this is that, by virtue of Section 31 of the Child Rights Act 2004 having sex with a teenage girl (below the age of 18) amounts to statutory rape and it is immaterial whether or not you were in a relationship or she gave you consent before the sexual intercourse.
Great message, may God bless you 👏👏
This is so important to note. Thanks for sharing.
“Anyone who fails to learn by principles will surely wear the garment of reproach”
I tell you
This is wisdom here. Thank you ❤
Demonic family pattern at work ... na deliverance sth
We should learn early in life to seek God first daily and ask Him to please order our steps in his word. Parents raising chyshoulk ash Him to teach them the way to raise their children. I did and it worked. God bless all of you.
Great lesson to our youth and God bless
Love Doesn't dishonor Value's.❤❤❤❤.
Songs of Solomon 8:4
My other favorite scripture ❤
Keep on doing good, The Winlos❤
WOW ! This is wisdom here . Taking notes . God bless you ma and pa🙏
Ths aunt is wickedooo!
Style indeed ooo😢God save our teens🙏
God bless you Winlos
God bless you sir and ma
Why so sir 😂? You don't have style 😂😂😂 Be blessed
Do 42 years old men go after teenagers? How did the world turn like this 😢😢
E don tay🚶🏿
Even older than 42 go after teenagers. Did you not hear of Governor, Senator marrying 13 years?
@@joystar39both men and women are doing it, as a pastor I just handle a 45yrs old supposed Christian luring 20yrs old youth into a relationship for a year and actually introducing the young man into many dangerous things until the mother saw messages on his phone
Parents must pay serious attention to wolves in sheep clothing taking advantage of the naivety of young girls and boys
@@joystar39 wow this is so sad. We are suppose to protect the young ones, not take advantage of them😤
@@i.blazeeweka7461 it’s really sad. All parents should protect their kids.
After the breakup and pregnancy, her eyes were clear. Satan's proper name is "The Thief" John 10:10. May parents receive the Grace to train children in the way they should go, lest they take a strange path🥲.
the enemy is a thief
@@patriciaamongin6662 Sure. May God give us understanding.
Lesson learnt :emotions without wisdom leads to frustration
When she said she was 17 i said "HEY JESUS"😂🤣🤣🤣 The mentor is amazing but also needed to address the age gap issues.. the end message as well. Stir up love?? Ha! And what with the ao called auntie?? Hey!! Destiny killer smh.
Am learning ooh,,, More grace sir and Ma
thank God for this great message
...👍🏾🙏👍🏾✨✨✨ Always wait for da right moment at da right times cuz when u rush u might rush for more and Amen To That ✨✨✨👍🏾🙏👍🏾...
Some aunties'eee God will see you...kudos to the tongueing lady
Ohh Lord open our eyes to see clearly 🙏
God bless you
Amazing! Thank you❤
Is not her fault she was young and naive she was too immature to reliase that he was playing with her emotions or we live and learn!
Life is guided by principles ❤
Her aunty supporting her immature actions.
Hmmmm! This is exactly what is happening in the world today,God will help us to through to guide our children in the way of the Lord and God in His mercies give them a listening ear.
You don't have style😂😂😂😂😂😂
Ohis is so funny
Teach us LORD to live by Divine values.
Teach our children to heed to advice and live Godly lives in the name of Jesus.
Wisdom shared!
So many lessons in this❤
in 2004, i went to our brother's wedding in Fickburg, and an older guy starts to propose to me, and my sister to the family i went to the wedding to, noticed that, and she advised me "if anyone old, very old to have a family of his own shows interest in you, the first thing to ask yourself is ? why isnt he married? and where is the wife and children?" and she said be wise! and i couldnt run away fast enough from that old man😂
I pray that teenagers may learn from this
Harsh lesson to learn early in life 😔
This is very abusive child abuse. 😢😢😢
But are there Aunties as terrible as this? This is so absurd!!!😢
Yes.
GOD BLESS YOU❤
I'm surprised the councilor didn't call the police as she's not even an adult yet (legally,)
“But I love him” chale, you will love another, please leave
Sorry becames after danger indeed
Patterns 😢😢😢😢😢😢
😂 Ascension oooh ...
This kind of unty... Ehh that's my girl being mature fast fast... Generation fast food. God have mercy...
Girl want to marry her father😅. Anyone more than 20 years age gap has done it for me. That is a father figure, not a husband
😂😂
Good video ❤❤❤
I love you the winlos
Patterns and cycles.
Also young people, I will add it that love is NOT sex, and sex is NOT love.
Love is a sacrifice, like something you give up expecting NOTHING back. And like giving yourself to someone in marriage for the rest of your life, not because you want them to love you back, but because you love that person. This is why it is a sacrifice, a once and for all covenant, in which there no looking back.
If you kill a living goat and burn it in a fire do you get the living goat back? No!
There is no love in sex and fornication, but there is sex in marital love as it is permitted by God and there is love in marital sex.
Note the difference!!
Who liked the video before it even started? 😂
This is the issue ! We should always follow instructions
sex is not maturity 😢
This lady no accend to realms here oo
😂😂😂😂😂style 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Aunties
It isn't easy
That aunt didnt mean her any good
The way she kept saying "I LOVE HIM" is even annoying me......As if I should wipe her Oraimo cord!
Wisdom🎉🎉