Cheating is one of the most painful thing someone could do to their spouse. My wife and I constantly pray for God to watch over us so the flesh will not fail us. I pray that as you read this comment, God will continuously watch over your marriage in Jesus name. As a Christian you will not fail and in your marriage you shall not fail in Jesus name. Amen❤️🙏
Remove the log in your eye, before the speck in your brothers eye. Having the readiness to avenge all disobedience when your obedience is complete. You're not permitted to judge what you're guilty of. Thank you so much for this @TheWinlos ❤
John 8:7 When they kept on questioning him, he straightened up and said to them, "Let any one of you who is without sin be the first to throw a stone at her."
The mother is the problem here. She has determined that the marriage will not work. I do not understand mothers like this. Instead of them being happy that their child is settled, they want to scatter. It is very sad. No doubt she knew of his cheating and even encourged it. Instead of her asking the son to forgive as the wife has done numerous times, she sides with wickedness. Great job Winlos!!!
1. Forgive 2. Go for infidelity recovery counselling 3. Close the back door, find out what you both didn't do right and retrace your steps 4. Rebuild a marriage made in heaven on earth. It is possible. Christianity no be for mouth, it's practical. If you want to do right, the Holy Ghost will (and has already) empowered you to do so. But better still, Let cheating not even happen in the first place. God's protection usually begins with prevention😊.
If I am the man, I'll forgive since I am also involved in the same act 'INFIDELITY'. If I am the woman, since I've pleaded and he refuses.. I'll gather courage (though not easy b/c of shame and the rest) and move on with life😔 being hopeful that some day my family will get back together.
Thank you guys for highlighting the hypocrisy of the cheating standard!! Both parties should be held accountable and both should be able to forgive one another; however this is something that I rebuke in the name of Jesus’s for anyone’s marriage; it’s too heartbreaking
Pot calling kettle black. He who will not forgive should not be forgiven. This just reminds me of the story of the King's servant in the Bible who was forgiven his debt but could not forgive someone else owing him. "Because she's a woman" indeed. What kind of sick mentality is that? Thank God for the Winlos ministry always shedding light on these grey areas
If he doesn't want to forgive me as a woman I would peacefully leave it's evident he is not even ready to change his cheating ways,he is not a husband the Bible says husbands love your wives as Christ loves the church and he is not doing any of that so I go oh... This is a beautiful one thank you for bringing it to us.God bless you the Winlos♥️🙌
It's bullshit really. What we can say is Father lead us not into temptation and deliver us from evil because the Lord knows I can't beg anybody like this after all he too has done. May God never allow us marry reprobates
From what has been said about what the husband has done. She is lucky. Let him go he will regret it. In the meantime pray for him to realise that we don't pick and choose. It is Jesus all the waly. Don't worry he will come back one day.
Man's mother was not a good mother or mother-in-law. Mother wasn't truthful in telling what really happened and what was said by wife. The greater sin was mother and son.
WOW!, this is not God, forgiveness is Jesus looked beyond our faults what makes us so perfect. We all makes mistakes, we all do things in weakness. But Scripture tell us to be STRONG in the Lord and the POWER of HIS MIGHT. Praise God, Pastors continue listening to God, continue helping and giving encouragement to His children! Be Blessed
It’s always a slow fade cheating never happens in a day. It starts slowly when love begins to wean, with negligence and gradual lack of accountability. So it’s wise to be deliberate
Well, the husband (the traditional man) should be reminded of his cheating with women, which could be married women. If this is true, he broke the laws of his tradition by bedding the wives of his fellow countrymen. Therefore he is guilty on a double count (traditionally and religiously). 😅
That won't work in a society that believes it's normal for a MAN/MALE to cheat... It's common belief that a woman emotionally bonds with whom she sleep with but a man doesn't plus the man is the head and should not be questioned or held with the same standards as the woman... Hence the permission for men to cheat...
It's the hypocrisy of the husband and his mom for me! 😂😂😂 I think the church has very high tolerance for adultery. Forgiveness is necessary but it's also OK for some people to end the marriage for the sake of their mental and spiritual welfare. The only time when a reconciliation is worth it is if the offending party is serious about changing his/her ways.
“The church” does NOT have high tolerance for adultery!!! That’s a lie from the pit of h3ll. The church preaches all the time on adultery and infidelity (there are countless seminars that preaches/teaches on relationships/marriages that reflects the principles of God), we have to stop placing burdens on the body of Christ as if we don’t individually know what The Bible “already” says about honoring the covenant of marriage. Usually, counselors and therapist (wether Christian or not) aim to help the struggling couple to save their marriage first. In their case, their counselor tried to help the husband to see past cultural tradition and forgive each other, that’s normal. And yes I agree with what you said about the husband and his mother being hypocritical, they were ruthless towards the lady.
@@sunnyhunn9315 I only speak from the numerous examples I've seen. Of course there are Christians who abhor adultery but take a simple of online teachings of pastors (African in particular) and see what they say about adultery. I won't be surprised if an empirical study proves my point. Far too many teach on marriage through a cultural rather than biblical lens. The code is often, women (especially), just tolerate it. Even those who preach that adultery is wrong, how do they handle these cases? That's where the proof of principle is. The immediate instinct to 'save a marriage' may be well intentioned but can be problematic when the focus is on keeping people together even to their detriment. The objective should be to bring healing through truthful examination of the issues in the marriage and an encouragement of repentance. In some cases, that process will show that a separation or divorce is better for the wronged party.
Yes REPENTANCE(not mere regret, but intent to change one's mind\ways) is what Jesus works in us... ...and No, God's or the Church's "Tolerance" for our sin is not "COMPLACENCY" , it's PATIENCE as we're transformed into the perfect man Jesus Christ
This is something that's common and in a Christian home it can just be so weakening, shameful & devastating. But we have a loving, merciful and gracious God who can show us the way out
James 2:13 There will be no mercy for those who have not shown mercy to others. But if you have been merciful, God will be merciful when he judges you. James 2:13 For he shall have judgment without mercy, that hath shewed no mercy; and mercy rejoiceth against judgment.
Lovely! Most reaction to issues like this will be illogical. Divorce her and then what? What’s the assurance that her replacement won’t do the same. 2cents- attempt to forgive, heal and rebuild…
1 Corinthians 7:10-11 [10]Now to the married I command, yet not I but the Lord: A wife is not to depart from her husband. [11]But even if she does depart, let her remain unmarried or be reconciled to her husband. And a husband is not to divorce his wife.
Forgiveness does not destroy our memory. Forgiveness does not rebuild trust, so it is better for both partners not to indulge in adultery because when it happened, the marriage is as good as over except by God’s divine intervention.
Exactly. And a woman that decides to cheat because her husband did same is not only unwise, she is a ticking time bomb. Christ permits men to divorce in the case of infidelity. I advise men not to take back cheating partners. You can forgive her and let her move on with her life, but don't take her back else... You can complete the sentence yourself 😶
@@codepanthaso you mean men can cheat and be forgiven? And a woman shouldn’t divorce her husband based on cheating 🤣🤣? We are not ready for this conversation Abeg.
This here, is what scares the joy of wanting to even want to do relationship. The two relationships had me dealing with two cheaters. And sincerely, its difficult to see the gender differently. God save us pls
I would advise the husband on the importance of forgiveness as a Christian. first, showing mercy and forgiveness tends to be the last frontier for a Christian to cross to get to Heaven. the Bible is very clear in Matthew 6:14-15 NKJV, For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses. CHRISTIANS FAIL TO ENTER HEAVEN DUE TO A LACK OF FORGIVENESS, ESPECIALLY WHEN THEY DIE IN BITTERNESS...
They both has some healing to do, the husband also needs deliverance from his flesh, as result of his infidelity he impacted the wife negatively with his pattern of infidelity. Now, the wife emotionally depended on her husband for security, that’s why her emotions were disappointed and it made it easier for her to cheat on him as well. It was obviously a mistake, but either way accountability is necessary on both end. The correction I’d provide to the wife is that her marriage to her husband is a covenant unto God, and He’s the only one who can help her honor it no matter what goes on in the marriage. The husband is immature and reckless, and he certainly doesn’t love her the way Christ loves the church. He did everything to lose his marriage, and doesn’t take any responsibility in being and doing better. He’s a sad excuse of a husband. If they both turn to God, and walk according to scriptural wisdom, then God can restore their marriage and by listening to the wise counsel around them instead of tradition, they can overcome because God’s wisdom is greater than the cultural traditions.
According to scripture, traditions of man makes the word of Elohiym of none effect. Mark 7:13. If I was the woman, I would have to move on and go in peace. They both broke their vows anyway and since the husband don't want to do what the scriptures say, he has to take it up with the Father! Madam go your way!
The funny thing is how it seems easier for women to forgive their cheating spouses than it is for men. A man would cheat on his wife multiple times yet the woman would continue to forbear yet if for any reason the woman falls into the sin of adultery it immediately becomes an unpardonable sin. I'm not sure what to make of this. Something doesn't seem right in this equation. Does this mean that women love more genuinely than men do?
Probably. It's either that or we're better Christians. Although it could be the fear of staying single and the prejudice attached to divorce women. Most times, because the women always forgive, people do not realise nor understand the emotional breakdown and hurt women experience when a spouse cheats.
Even if he forgave her and brought her back into his house, will he trust and respect her again? It's great being forgiven but it's a hard thing to live where you're not trusted or respected.
If he went on to cheat on her with single and married women countless times where is the respect for her in the first place to of him not respecting her when he forgives her? What am saying is: he did not respect his wife in the first place so whether she cheated or not/ he forgives her or not it doesn't change it.... and for a fact that he justifies his wrong doing against her is a sign he's got no love for her nor respect and he's a selfish being.
She ought to have ended the marriage the first time he cheated on her. That action would have restored and retained her dignity, and self-esteem, by holding him accountable. Forgive him, but do not continue to tolerate his infidelity. But since there was no consequence for his infidelity, he rode on tradition to continue to be in sin, and disrespect her. Her sucking-up to his adultery, enabled him to perpetrate more, and disabled her in the time of her temptation. Women need to realize that they deserve respect in marriage as well.
The statement that, "men suppose dey cheat, not women", got me annoyed. My question is, if a man is expected to cheat, who will he cheats with? No be woman of another man's? Lol
This is a great video, however jt takes three to.make a marriage work. God and the couple. Regardless of how faithful one partner is if the other one is not they will have problems. Some couples shouldn't have been married in the first place. I was marrito an adulterer for over thirty years. He divorced me for his las mistress. He married her and died after fiftey years of their being married. He's the only man that i've ever been with. We were 18 and 21 when we married. I am now 71. I know from living and trusting in God that if you want to be kept snd ask God to keep you He will. As i always say about this and every situation " but for the grace of God go i," God bless the Winslos and keep them.
Omooo! Pastor Ohis o🤣🤣🤣🤣 But then, to think that some young men still have this mindset (men can cheat while women cannot cheat in marriage) is very worrisome. Recently, I heard a guy make similar comment. Sad. In Marriage, no one ought to cheat on the other Simple
Not supporting the act of cheating but forgiveness is very important as Christians. It might take sometime to earn the trust back but at least forgive.
When a man understands that living in this world is temporary and nothing in this world is going to be beyond this world, including marriage and parenthood, then that man will easily forgive,because eternity with Jesus is too precious to miss because of any emotional pain in this world. It's not worth it at all. He should just forgive and see it that this is far less than the pain and sacrifice Jesus ent through for him to be saved. Jesus was the perfect sacrifice for him and the rest of the world. Nothing else should hurt him in this world.
I will forgive since she is remorseful. After all, I have been offering her a lot before now. Though, it will require great strength to let go of the disappointment.
Matthew 19:9 9 And I say to you, whoever divorces his wife, except for [a]sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery; and whoever marries her who is divorced commits adultery.” But try to work it out if possible... Especially if you have children.
1 Corinthians 7:10-11 [10]Now to the married I command, yet not I but the Lord: A wife is not to depart from her husband. [11]But even if she does depart, let her remain unmarried or be reconciled to her husband. And a husband is not to divorce his wife.
Cast your cares until Yahusha, he cares for you. He mends our broken hearts. If you give Him everything watch Him deliver you. Nothing is impossible, and besides unforgiveness causes sickness in your body especially if the person has repented and asked that you forgive them! ❤
My dear forgiving is not easy but remember when ur forgiving ur not helping that person who hurt you but your helping urself. So I know it's painful and hurting but forgive and let give ur heart to Christ is the only who mends the broken hearted. I know forgetting is not easy but It comes time to time and you will be healed in Jesus name. Read Isaiah 61.
What I would want to do, I wouldn't do. But with much crying out to the Lord, weeping and wailing, I must do what the Bible says " FORGIVE" Easier said than done. But it can be done... Almighty God help your people 😔
Cheating is one of the most painful thing someone could do to their spouse. My wife and I constantly pray for God to watch over us so the flesh will not fail us. I pray that as you read this comment, God will continuously watch over your marriage in Jesus name. As a Christian you will not fail and in your marriage you shall not fail in Jesus name. Amen❤️🙏
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Amen and Amen
Amen and Amen 🙏
A tradition that is partial, unjust and one-sided. If a man can cheat and be forgiven, then a woman should also receive forgiveness if she cheats.
As a guy... cheating shouldn't even be in the picture, but... if it happens, each side should be forgiven equally.
That's crap. Women shouldn't cheat if they do so they should go back to where they came from
That's crap. Women shouldn't cheat if they do so they should go back to where they came from
@@David34976 exactly
you all agree with me that God is faithful and his mercies endures forever 🙏🙏.
Remove the log in your eye, before the speck in your brothers eye. Having the readiness to avenge all disobedience when your obedience is complete. You're not permitted to judge what you're guilty of.
Thank you so much for this @TheWinlos ❤
John 8:7 When they kept on questioning him, he straightened up and said to them, "Let any one of you who is without sin be the first to throw a stone at her."
Yo!! 😂😂😂 that lady playing mama is REALLY GOOD 😂😂😂
Really really really really good😂
The mother is the problem here. She has determined that the marriage will not work. I do not understand mothers like this. Instead of them being happy that their child is settled, they want to scatter. It is very sad. No doubt she knew of his cheating and even encourged it. Instead of her asking the son to forgive as the wife has done numerous times, she sides with wickedness. Great job Winlos!!!
And if the same was happening to her daughter, she would be taking antidepressants pills 😂😂😂
The said Mama even used to beg the wife to forgive her son when he cheated 😂
The fact that this actually happens in our communities and we call it our tradition and culture is a shame to us.
As an Edo(Esan) man, that custom is very true.
As a Believer, that custom is disgusting.
1. Forgive
2. Go for infidelity recovery counselling
3. Close the back door, find out what you both didn't do right and retrace your steps
4. Rebuild a marriage made in heaven on earth. It is possible. Christianity no be for mouth, it's practical.
If you want to do right, the Holy Ghost will (and has already) empowered you to do so.
But better still,
Let cheating not even happen in the first place.
God's protection usually begins with prevention😊.
Very Well Said👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾.
Forgiveness is key in every relationship. Talk it thru and forget!
This needs to be echoed to the high heavens... If a person has forgiveness issues then such a person would find it hard to do so in marriage...
@@Folakanbi very true as you have said
" Na Africa we bee " 😂😂😂😂😂 God bless Pastor Ohis for always bringing us laughter.
If I am the man, I'll forgive since I am also involved in the same act 'INFIDELITY'.
If I am the woman, since I've pleaded and he refuses.. I'll gather courage (though not easy b/c of shame and the rest) and move on with life😔 being hopeful that some day my family will get back together.
God bless the winlos... I really recommend that a part two should be released.
We need to know the way forward.
Thank you and God bless you immensely.
I support this.
Agreed
I agree
Very true, we need to see the part 2 of this. What happened next, so the husband never forgave his wife?
We agree oooo , please part 2
Thank you guys for highlighting the hypocrisy of the cheating standard!! Both parties should be held accountable and both should be able to forgive one another; however this is something that I rebuke in the name of Jesus’s for anyone’s marriage; it’s too heartbreaking
This scenario is so true even in other parts of the world. I pray that we will show the same forgiveness that we would want others to extend.
True, but not so much from others, but our Father also. We can't expect Him to forgive us of our sins and we can't forgive others! That will not work!
Forgiveness is Golden, its not easy but its still best to forgive and let go
Pls remember to do part 2 of this skit. It's not complete yet. Well done
Really this one really needs a part 2
The book on the table..."start with why" is my today's assignment 🏃♀️
Love you winlos family. ❤
Pot calling kettle black. He who will not forgive should not be forgiven. This just reminds me of the story of the King's servant in the Bible who was forgiven his debt but could not forgive someone else owing him. "Because she's a woman" indeed. What kind of sick mentality is that? Thank God for the Winlos ministry always shedding light on these grey areas
If he doesn't want to forgive me as a woman I would peacefully leave it's evident he is not even ready to change his cheating ways,he is not a husband the Bible says husbands love your wives as Christ loves the church and he is not doing any of that so I go oh...
This is a beautiful one thank you for bringing it to us.God bless you the Winlos♥️🙌
Lord have Mercy
It's bullshit really. What we can say is Father lead us not into temptation and deliver us from evil because the Lord knows I can't beg anybody like this after all he too has done. May God never allow us marry reprobates
From what has been said about what the husband has done. She is lucky. Let him go he will regret it. In the meantime pray for him to realise that we don't pick and choose. It is Jesus all the waly. Don't worry he will come back one day.
Man's mother was not a good mother or mother-in-law. Mother wasn't truthful in telling what really happened and what was said by wife. The greater sin was mother and son.
Thank you The Winlos for another beautiful message. God bless you Sir and Ma.
I LOVE HOW PASTOR OHIS ACTED IN THIS MOVIE HE'S VERY TRADITIONAL, HOW HE WAS SHAKING HIS HEAD DURING THE COUNSELING
My pastors on it again.
Thanks the Winlos.
WOW!, this is not God, forgiveness is Jesus looked beyond our faults what makes us so perfect. We all makes mistakes, we all do things in weakness. But Scripture tell us to be STRONG in the Lord and the POWER of HIS MIGHT. Praise God, Pastors continue listening to God, continue helping and giving encouragement to His children! Be Blessed
It’s always a slow fade cheating never happens in a day. It starts slowly when love begins to wean, with negligence and gradual lack of accountability. So it’s wise to be deliberate
...👍🏾🙏👍🏾✨✨✨WHAT A WONDERFUL UNBELIEVABLE FILM✨✨✨👍🏾🙏👍🏾...
We need a part 2
Nice one.... One of the best videos. Most of the christain men are very tradition
Well, the husband (the traditional man) should be reminded of his cheating with women, which could be married women. If this is true, he broke the laws of his tradition by bedding the wives of his fellow countrymen. Therefore he is guilty on a double count (traditionally and religiously). 😅
That won't work in a society that believes it's normal for a MAN/MALE to cheat... It's common belief that a woman emotionally bonds with whom she sleep with but a man doesn't plus the man is the head and should not be questioned or held with the same standards as the woman... Hence the permission for men to cheat...
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You must be a lawyer
Analysis on point 😂😂
Wonderful message
It's the hypocrisy of the husband and his mom for me! 😂😂😂
I think the church has very high tolerance for adultery. Forgiveness is necessary but it's also OK for some people to end the marriage for the sake of their mental and spiritual welfare. The only time when a reconciliation is worth it is if the offending party is serious about changing his/her ways.
You are absolutely correct.
Perfectly said❤❤❤
“The church” does NOT have high tolerance for adultery!!! That’s a lie from the pit of h3ll. The church preaches all the time on adultery and infidelity (there are countless seminars that preaches/teaches on relationships/marriages that reflects the principles of God), we have to stop placing burdens on the body of Christ as if we don’t individually know what The Bible “already” says about honoring the covenant of marriage.
Usually, counselors and therapist (wether Christian or not) aim to help the struggling couple to save their marriage first. In their case, their counselor tried to help the husband to see past cultural tradition and forgive each other, that’s normal. And yes I agree with what you said about the husband and his mother being hypocritical, they were ruthless towards the lady.
@@sunnyhunn9315 I only speak from the numerous examples I've seen. Of course there are Christians who abhor adultery but take a simple of online teachings of pastors (African in particular) and see what they say about adultery. I won't be surprised if an empirical study proves my point. Far too many teach on marriage through a cultural rather than biblical lens. The code is often, women (especially), just tolerate it.
Even those who preach that adultery is wrong, how do they handle these cases? That's where the proof of principle is.
The immediate instinct to 'save a marriage' may be well intentioned but can be problematic when the focus is on keeping people together even to their detriment. The objective should be to bring healing through truthful examination of the issues in the marriage and an encouragement of repentance. In some cases, that process will show that a separation or divorce is better for the wronged party.
Yes REPENTANCE(not mere regret, but intent to change one's mind\ways) is what Jesus works in us...
...and No, God's or the Church's "Tolerance" for our sin is not "COMPLACENCY" , it's PATIENCE as we're transformed into the perfect man Jesus Christ
A great message. So sad😢
When he said "na eye for an eye" 😂😂😂😂😂
This is something that's common and in a Christian home it can just be so weakening, shameful & devastating. But we have a loving, merciful and gracious God who can show us the way out
God bless you Sir and ma'...i hope God will bless me with an impactful marriage🙇🙇. Thanks for the message. More grace
FORGIVENESS IT'S VERY IMPORTANT...
😂 Real..painfull.. but still funny. " Tradition is tradition. Na Africa we de.." " I know we're christians ooh.." Lord have mercy.
James 2:13 There will be no mercy for those who have not shown mercy to others. But if you have been merciful, God will be merciful when he judges you.
James 2:13 For he shall have judgment without mercy, that hath shewed no mercy; and mercy rejoiceth against judgment.
Yes, a part 2 should be forthcoming.
Matthew 7:12
[12]Therefore, whatever you want men to do to you, do also to them, for this is the Law and the Prophets.
😂😂😂 so now eye for an eye 😂 hold your self your a wife 😂oh my goodness these guys are so funny
How are we sure that the boys mother did not cheat on his own father several times??😂😂😂
True, she must have cheated several times on her husband,the apple does not fall far from apple tree!
Lovely! Most reaction to issues like this will be illogical. Divorce her and then what? What’s the assurance that her replacement won’t do the same. 2cents- attempt to forgive, heal and rebuild…
1 Corinthians 7:10-11
[10]Now to the married I command, yet not I but the Lord: A wife is not to depart from her husband.
[11]But even if she does depart, let her remain unmarried or be reconciled to her husband. And a husband is not to divorce his wife.
Forgiveness does not destroy our memory. Forgiveness does not rebuild trust, so it is better for both partners not to indulge in adultery because when it happened, the marriage is as good as over except by God’s divine intervention.
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Exactly. And a woman that decides to cheat because her husband did same is not only unwise, she is a ticking time bomb.
Christ permits men to divorce in the case of infidelity. I advise men not to take back cheating partners. You can forgive her and let her move on with her life, but don't take her back else... You can complete the sentence yourself 😶
@@codepanthaChrist did not just permit men. He also permitted women.
My sister, we're not here for gender interhouse sports competition. What you just said isn't scriptural and you know it.
@@codepanthaso you mean men can cheat and be forgiven? And a woman shouldn’t divorce her husband based on cheating 🤣🤣? We are not ready for this conversation Abeg.
WITH GOD YOU CAN OWN EVERYTHING IN LIFE, MAY GOD GRANT YOU YOUR HEART DESIRES IN THIS NEW SEASON IN JESUS MIGHTY NAME
This here, is what scares the joy of wanting to even want to do relationship. The two relationships had me dealing with two cheaters.
And sincerely, its difficult to see the gender differently. God save us pls
Please make part 2 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Ahhh😂
Auntie ascension will listen to counseling today oo😅😅
I would advise the husband on the importance of forgiveness as a Christian.
first, showing mercy and forgiveness tends to be the last frontier for a Christian to cross to get to Heaven. the Bible is very clear in Matthew 6:14-15 NKJV, For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.
CHRISTIANS FAIL TO ENTER HEAVEN DUE TO A LACK OF FORGIVENESS, ESPECIALLY WHEN THEY DIE IN BITTERNESS...
They both has some healing to do, the husband also needs deliverance from his flesh, as result of his infidelity he impacted the wife negatively with his pattern of infidelity.
Now, the wife emotionally depended on her husband for security, that’s why her emotions were disappointed and it made it easier for her to cheat on him as well. It was obviously a mistake, but either way accountability is necessary on both end. The correction I’d provide to the wife is that her marriage to her husband is a covenant unto God, and He’s the only one who can help her honor it no matter what goes on in the marriage.
The husband is immature and reckless, and he certainly doesn’t love her the way Christ loves the church. He did everything to lose his marriage, and doesn’t take any responsibility in being and doing better. He’s a sad excuse of a husband.
If they both turn to God, and walk according to scriptural wisdom, then God can restore their marriage and by listening to the wise counsel around them instead of tradition, they can overcome because God’s wisdom is greater than the cultural traditions.
Content with message and power. God bless you, wilows
Beautiful 👏🏽 great job
He said, I know we're christian o but tradition is tradition 😂
I wept when I heard a Christian use the phrase 'Godly traditionalist'.
May God help us🙏
According to scripture, traditions of man makes the word of Elohiym of none effect. Mark 7:13. If I was the woman, I would have to move on and go in peace. They both broke their vows anyway and since the husband don't want to do what the scriptures say, he has to take it up with the Father! Madam go your way!
The funny thing is how it seems easier for women to forgive their cheating spouses than it is for men. A man would cheat on his wife multiple times yet the woman would continue to forbear yet if for any reason the woman falls into the sin of adultery it immediately becomes an unpardonable sin. I'm not sure what to make of this. Something doesn't seem right in this equation. Does this mean that women love more genuinely than men do?
Probably. It's either that or we're better Christians. Although it could be the fear of staying single and the prejudice attached to divorce women.
Most times, because the women always forgive, people do not realise nor understand the emotional breakdown and hurt women experience when a spouse cheats.
"Eye for Eye"🤔🤔U both cheated Forgive each other coz u promised both in good & bad times u will stick together 🤔🇺🇬🇺🇬
There is saying that is true He who prays together stays together so pray with one another and the Lord will keep the marriage going.
This MIL shaaaaaa...... She intentionally ignored the fact that she told the guy off. God forbid wicked in-laws
Even if he forgave her and brought her back into his house, will he trust and respect her again? It's great being forgiven but it's a hard thing to live where you're not trusted or respected.
If he went on to cheat on her with single and married women countless times where is the respect for her in the first place to of him not respecting her when he forgives her?
What am saying is: he did not respect his wife in the first place so whether she cheated or not/ he forgives her or not it doesn't change it.... and for a fact that he justifies his wrong doing against her is a sign he's got no love for her nor respect and he's a selfish being.
Again, do not be unequally yoked is not for Christians and non-Christians.
You have to forgive or else the bitterness will destory the offended person
She ought to have ended the marriage the first time he cheated on her. That action would have restored and retained her dignity, and self-esteem, by holding him accountable.
Forgive him, but do not continue to tolerate his infidelity. But since there was no consequence for his infidelity, he rode on tradition to continue to be in sin, and disrespect her.
Her sucking-up to his adultery, enabled him to perpetrate more, and disabled her in the time of her temptation.
Women need to realize that they deserve respect in marriage as well.
The statement that, "men suppose dey cheat, not women", got me annoyed. My question is, if a man is expected to cheat, who will he cheats with? No be woman of another man's? Lol
Thank you. ❤❤❤
😂😂😂😂My goodness eeeiii this husband's face and mood Chai 😅😅😅😅
Sometimes Pastor acts those very annoying parts 😂😂.
Part 2
This is a great video, however jt takes three to.make a marriage work. God and the couple. Regardless of how faithful one partner is if the other one is not they will have problems. Some couples shouldn't have been married in the first place. I was marrito an adulterer for over thirty years. He divorced me for his las mistress. He married her and died after fiftey years of their being married. He's the only man that i've ever been with. We were 18 and 21 when we married. I am now 71. I know from living and trusting in God that if you want to be kept snd ask God to keep you He will. As i always say about this and every situation " but for the grace of God go i," God bless the Winslos and keep them.
Omooo!
Pastor Ohis o🤣🤣🤣🤣
But then, to think that some young men still have this mindset (men can cheat while women cannot cheat in marriage) is very worrisome.
Recently, I heard a guy make similar comment. Sad.
In Marriage, no one ought to cheat on the other
Simple
Africa: tradition is tradition...😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅
Not supporting the act of cheating but forgiveness is very important as Christians. It might take sometime to earn the trust back but at least forgive.
This time she didn't speak in tongues 😂😂😂
“Tradition is tradition”
Jesus! SMH 😮💨
Please tell them oooo some people think men can cheat and woman can not which is so crazy God deliver us
When a man understands that living in this world is temporary and nothing in this world is going to be beyond this world, including marriage and parenthood, then that man will easily forgive,because eternity with Jesus is too precious to miss because of any emotional pain in this world. It's not worth it at all.
He should just forgive and see it that this is far less than the pain and sacrifice Jesus ent through for him to be saved. Jesus was the perfect sacrifice for him and the rest of the world. Nothing else should hurt him in this world.
This world is not our home indeed. Thank you for this comment.
This is strange
why would they talk about all that knowing someone is home and even bring him home
I will forgive since she is remorseful. After all, I have been offering her a lot before now. Though, it will require great strength to let go of the disappointment.
Matthew 19:9
9 And I say to you, whoever divorces his wife, except for [a]sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery; and whoever marries her who is divorced commits adultery.”
But try to work it out if possible... Especially if you have children.
1 Corinthians 7:10-11
[10]Now to the married I command, yet not I but the Lord: A wife is not to depart from her husband.
[11]But even if she does depart, let her remain unmarried or be reconciled to her husband. And a husband is not to divorce his wife.
Wow. Part 2 please.
The first fundamental ingredient to marriage after God with love is forgiveness.
CHRISTIANITY IS NOT ABOUT THE TRADITIONS OF MEN!!!! JESUS SAID, Thus you have made the commandment of God of no effect by your tradition.
As an urhobo, we get our tradition. Hmmmm. B4 Christianity, there was tradition.
Great content 🎉🎉
If the person is willing to stop then forgive, i agree but if the person isn't repentant please what are you to do?
I don't think you should have to stay with a cheater 😢 ❤woman man both sexes need to be treated the same. 😢😢God helps us.
African men
This one you just move on and allow him face the consequences of his actions…
Tradition is evil..
Im in same situation right now with my partner
And it's really hard , I try to forgive but I can't forget
I keep getting reminded and hurt
If you sowed infidelity, you will reap infidelity. Do unto others as you want them to do to you
Cast your cares until Yahusha, he cares for you. He mends our broken hearts. If you give Him everything watch Him deliver you. Nothing is impossible, and besides unforgiveness causes sickness in your body especially if the person has repented and asked that you forgive them! ❤
My dear forgiving is not easy but remember when ur forgiving ur not helping that person who hurt you but your helping urself. So I know it's painful and hurting but forgive and let give ur heart to Christ is the only who mends the broken hearted. I know forgetting is not easy but It comes time to time and you will be healed in Jesus name. Read Isaiah 61.
It is well
I love WINLO'S 🎉
That family doesn't love the woman. She should just separate
The wife is a very good actress
😅Mama said ooo! So I know suppose know?
What I would want to do, I wouldn't do.
But with much crying out to the Lord, weeping and wailing, I must do what the Bible says " FORGIVE"
Easier said than done. But it can be done...
Almighty God help your people 😔
Lord please forgive us for our sins😢 in Jesus name
Sadly this what they think..
Look the Shirt of the woman of God❤❤
Yeah it's a double standard, sir why did you step outside the marriage in the first place and be a bad husband.
Forgive her now