On the other way woman cheated and she didn't reserve one. Good. Love gender roles but feminist destroy them and want us to still be gentle lol, they keep the roles they like destroy those the don't
Nyasha Mativenga It’s they’re. Their would be used in a context like, “Oh! Someone dropped THEIR phone.” While they’re would be used to replace they are. “They’re greedy.”
I'm in an abusive relationship where my life has been almost taken twice. The law still supports her. I fear for my life when I happen to fall asleep at night. She told me if I ever call the police I'd be leaving in handcuffs ... I've never felt so helpless in my life.
There is a societal double-standard held between how men and women should express their anger. Men and women victims of domestic violence are treated differently. We all remember when Beyonce's sister, Solange physically attacked Jay-Z on May 5, 2014 at the Met Gala after-party. Had Jay-Z initiated the attack things would have been reported very differently (that would have been the end of Jay-Z). #DoubleStandard #ViolenceIsViolence
+lombe Ng'andu Solange would have been in prison if I had it my way and will never release an album for the next say ten years. Of course, if Jay-Z perpetrated the attack, he would have gone to prison and will never release an album for the next ten years. Violence is violence, nothing to do with the gender or the background of the person.
I also think that society (including myself) have shot themselves in the foot. It is not about the perpetrator, we as a society have let ourselves down by enabling it.
The Rhianna /Chris Brown thing is another example of a woman attacking first from the accounts I have heard. Grabbing his nuts whilst he was driving and hitting him in the face.
Female perpetrated violence is not taken seriously in most parts of the world. There are even legal excuses like the " battered wife syndrome ", that actually does not exist as an actual mental disorder any more than any reactive violence to abuse does. Indeed here in Finland there has lately been discussion about female perpetrated violence being a social taboo and that we do severely neglect this behavior and even allow it as justified.Then you wonder that why the abused men becomes abusive. But at the very least we rightfully do hold men accountable when they perpetrate abuse, I just wish we would stop the Circle of Abuse by also recognizing the other half of the equation, and yet this is not true in any part of the western world as of date.
I completely agree with you.... I have never been an abusive male, up until the point of me getting beaten by my ex with a police Billy club all because I wanted to break up with her. She continued to beat me for the remaining year. Afterwards I found myself resentful and abusing her right back. Been arrested 3 times for domestic violence in which only one incident actually happened. I have called the police on her for assaulted me with deadly weapons and they have NEVER NOT ONCE ARRESTED HER. In the end of the day my abuse was resulted from the year if emotional and physical abuse I endured that caused PTSD and severe trauma. Police as well as law makers need to be better educated on the issues stemming from domestic violence. It's not always a typical story of the husband coming home from work and dinner isn't cooked he's drunk and violent. It's evident that feminism has aided the inequity of violence between genders. Remember folks, if takes two to tango. Much love
My last ex tried to break my fingers whilst I explained I was ending the relationship. Not a wink of remorse the next time I saw her. She then went on to spread lies to illicit sympathy and attention. Lucky I'd moved to the other side of the planet before her bs could damage me. NAWALT, but enough are that the juice just isn't worth the squeeze anymore.
@@adamraccoony ex slamed the coffee I got her into my head, then punched and stabbed me with a plastic table knife, cuz “She didn’t like singer in her coffee, no sugar ever” it was at breakfast in the morning tho, all the police lady at the counter, who is getting tackled her so fast in handcuffs right away. Now she’s in prison for seven years, extended sentence cause she tried to escape like five times and failed. I’m just so happy she got arrested that day and I was lucky enough to get helped out of that after 4 years with her since high school
I once knocked a girl's drink over in a bar by accident. Before I could apologise or offer to buy her another drink she attacked me. I left the bar to remove from the situation, she followed me outside and slapped me across the the face right in front of a police officer. She walked away. and the police man told me if that had been the other way around he would of arrested me.
The simple fact that women can do a lot more hitting beating and smacking before anyone says anything but if a man so much as raises his hand in self-defense even just blocking or deflecting one of the woman's assault he could be cursed at yelled at insulted and even just hit from behind Jump by a swarm of other both men and women . This is the exact reason why I feel like just to even interact with women I need to carry a weapon of self-defense because I may end up in a 1 verses 3 and counter because I don't want to be someone else's punching bag whenever they're having a bad day.
@Lon Hixson dude, do you have brain damage? All you've been saying so far were stupid insults, if you disagree with these people and want to speak on it you might as well make some valid points while you're at it or at least clearly state your point. I refuse to believe that you're older than 12. And if you are, I'm genuinely concerned. Cringe AF. And btw, you wouldn't say half of what you're saying here to them face to face
I'm a feminist and I absolutely believe that there is a double standard when it comes to domestic violence against men that needs to be addressed. It's not okay for women or men to do this to any partner. It needs to be taken more seriously as do abusive, controlling behaviours, demanding the guy pay for everything and expecting every man to be some stereotype of masculinity rather than a human being.
Masculinity isn't a stereotype. It's the single biggest reason why this society has been created, thrived and survived. Feminism came along, men tolerated it and like the Trojan horse it always was meant to be, is quickly being identified as this cultures downfall. When this society is crumbling and the barbarians are r aping, pillaging and plundering. The same feminists who claim to be so independent, will be amongst the first to spread their legs in exchange for their lives. And they will weep because they destroyed the very thing that would've protected them. Masculinity.
You're right (and I wish more feminists were like you) except that it's not just about expectations of masculinity, it's also about abuse survivor advocates shooting down concerns for male abuse survivors and promoting the toxic ideas that it doesn't matter because of strength differences, that it takes scarce and urgent resources from female victims, not as many men are killed by DV, that female abusers are just "defending themselves", that every man deserves it because of "patriarchy", the list is endless.
So tired, people have to fight against violence and it doesn't matter who it is committed against, against a woman, children, animals, men, old people, etc. I wish you never get abused,stay safe.
In my opinion, neither man nor woman have the right to abuse their partner, because the first thing that you should always value in a relationship is respect.
LostTumbs come one bro you know you are master of your fate right? You can be anything you wanna be. It doesn’t matter what society thinks of you, what is truly important is if you believe in yourself and never hesitate to leap and courage to live true to yourself😉
LostTumbs don’t think like that, back in the day, if a man cries it meant they were weak but that is not true, if you cry it means you have emotions, you have heart and soul and blood running though your veins. don’t worry about it too much, remember the world is changing. There was a movement, the one where all men were created equal, during the industrial revolution. You are an amazing person and I know you know it too. 😁 just be yourself and don’t worry about what others think of you.
LostTumbs I’m sorry, heart to heart, I was betrayed by people I loved and it wounds the heart. Which is why we have to keep fighting, and cling to hope no matter what, the only way you can go is forward and never look back. the world will bring challenges, if you get knocked down, you get right back up and hold your head High. Trust your heart and let fate decide, you will always have people to guide you. never lose sight of who you are.
Years ago, I picked up my wife from her work dinner where she had a few too many drinks. 11.00pm, lmost home, and she needed to throw up so I got off the freeway and pulled into a side street so she could vomit. She was convulsing and really intoxicated, but she had her wits about her. Anyways, I was just doing what I could with a bottle of water and giving her some space. About 10 mins later another motorist pulled into the street and saw us. My wife was pacing up and down (i guess to induce vomitting? not sure, I don't drink). The lady stopped on the road, pulled down the window and asked if everything was alright. Politely I said "yes, my wife had a lot to drink at her work party and said she was going to throw up so I pulled over." The lady instinctively snapped at me. "I'M NOT TALKING TO YOU. I'M TALKING TO HER." And yells the question to my wife who was about 15m away now. My wife yelled back that she was fine and just felt she needed some air. The lady parked where my wife was and my wife started walking back to me. She gets out of her car and starts approaching my wife, and I can hear her say something but couldn't make it out. All I could make out was my wife answering, "I'm fine, he's my husband. I just feel a little drunk." The lady gives me a cold stare and then tries to persuade my wife into her car, to which my wife refused. She gets back up to me and I give her some water, which she drinks and then she starts to dry-heave. I support her and grab her purse and jacket and hair. Then the lady rushes over and tries to push me out of the way, again tries to direct my wife into her car. This time I can hear her say "It's ok, you don't have to lie, I can take you to the police." Annoyed, I tell her again, "Excuse me, she just needs a little air and to vomit." The lady wasn't having it and screamed again. "That's what they all say. How do I know you're her husband?" and starts pushing my wife to her car, threatening to call police on me when I approached. My wife starts throwing up and she let her go. After my wife threw up she started walking to me again saying she felt better and wanted to go home. The lady grabbed her arm and said "You're not taking her. I'm taking her to police and the police can decide if you're her husband or not." I been at work since 7am that morning and I was tired and just wanted to go home. I was ready to snap at the lady. My wife got out of her grip and told her again "That's my husband and he came to the city (45km away) to pick me up and make sure I was safe." Again the lady offered to call police to come but my wife got in my car and waved to her, thanking her for her concern. I told the lady to have a good night, and she was visibly pissed. I buckled my wife in, put my jacket over her and before I even turned the car on she was asleep. My wife remembers bits and pieces, but I've never let her forget.
Don’t blame the lady who stopped her car to see the situation. It’s fear. And as a woman she felt the need to protect another woman instead of her dying and she having to live with the regret of not saving a life.
@@God.sDaughter I absolutely agree with this. And good on the lady for coming to check. But to clearly make me out as some kind of monster, despite me being polite and explaining to her (which I really didn't even have to, but did) only for her to become more confronting and almost abusive towards me doesn't prove anything aside from her own prejudice. Even my wife explaining the situation to her wasn't enough to convince her I was as genuine as I had explained myself to be. Even your own words show the same kind of prejudice, jumping straight to a scenario in which I kill my wife. Not all men are as good as me, I know, I used to be a police officer. However most of the DV cases I attended were caused by, and continued by the female partner. Men too scared to call the police, and often times it was the woman calling police to 'take this piece of shit away', and when we turn up and get both sides of the situation, they still can't help being abusive (physically, verbally and emotionally) to the male partner. I'm not blaming you, or saying you're wrong. I certainly am not accusing you of anything, and I completely agree with what you said, but at what point will you believe a man who is genuinely looking after their female friend / partner / companion with no ulterior motives? It may seem like gentlemen are a thing of the past, but we're out there still.
@@God.sDaughter "as a woman she felt the need to protect another woman " women are playing some sort of team games and will care and protect women while ignoring men in the same situtation ? Good to know. I hope men take notes and start to play the tem game ?
@@marchuta326Tho he said his wife repeatedly told the woman that she was “just a bit drunk” and “needed to throw up” I’m finished his wife didn’t slap the lady when she “Grabbed her by her arm and tried to get her into her car” I bet his wife must’ve been more annoyed with that lady than words can describe,
Can I level with you guys? I'm a man, and I am proud of it. Not because I think I'm better than women, I'm just generally very comfortable in my skin, and I like manly stuff. Recently though...I've developed a fear. One day, a woman, a stranger, might just walk up, and shoot me in the face. I'll be dead. That part is scary, but not very disturbing. What really hurts is I know, I KNOW that even if she went to jail, someone would think "What did he do to piss her off so badly?" It might not be a lot of people, maybe just a friend, a family member, a cop. But I know that they won't think that because of the circumstance. They'll think that because I'm a man. I'm certain. Subconsciously, I know that would be why. I do my best to live my life with integrity and honor, but if that happened...I know my reputation, even in death, would forever be stained. Maybe I'm paranoid. Maybe that's not true. But I shouldn't have this fear in the first place...
I dont get why people think if a woman hits a guy the guy cant hit her back or at least just try to stop the next ounch I mean if u lay a hand on someone u should accept the consequences that come with that action
Consequences. A word that I was looking for. So if a woman refuses to wear a mask at a shop, it should be the same consequences as a male equivalent and the message has to be clear and simple to understand, universal.
People do not belivie you can discriminate against men. Anytime you bring it up, bring up misandry or how women twist female abusers into being victims as men as a scapegoat, they will tell you that it’s not possible, they will straight up tell you that it’s impossible to be sexist to men.
Please, I'm just asking really nicely, can we have more respect to men like, not everything is about women, men are humans too, respect that, #BOYSLIVESMATTERTOO
this annoys me if a female does something to a male nothing happens and if a male does something to a female everyone reacts that is just annoying it shows that people are focusing on gender
Thank you for showing this, when I was in hospital I was attacked by a woman and forced to defend myself. Yet nothing happened and I was the one called out for hitting a woman. On another occasion I was attacked by a female with mental health issues and almost had to punch her in the face, yet again nothing happened. If I was to punch a woman in the face for no reason I would be arrested. I know 4 men who have been physically attacked by their female partner, 3 of them were from the same place, 3 of them. There is a social taboo today about defending yourself against women or being the victim of one. I've been told what a disgusting man I am for simply sticking up for men's rights. Violence against men is seen as fair gain, just like of a female of 25 had sex with an 11 or 12 year old boy, that's seen as good luck for the boy. But if an 18 year old man who just turned 18 had sex with a 15 year old girl who was 1 day off 16, he disgusting pedo! women can get away with things men cannot, it blindingly obvious these days. I've been assaulted many times by females, yet were they charged with assault, NOPE!!!!
I know that a lot of women say “no that doesn’t happen to men!” but truth be told, I think most men have had experiences of women who have assaulted or hit them, at least probaby more than once. Most people try to convince you that every woman has been assaulted by a male and that’s it a a huge societal deal, but again most people will purposely try to tell you that most men never get harmed by women, when really, women are just as guilty of randomly attacking or hurting men, sometimes solely because they think it’s funny, like in my situation where a girl hit me and laughed about it before running away. They just don’t get caught or arrested for hurting people is all.
Men, do not hesitate for one moment to put a restraining order against your female partner if you feel your safety and health is in jeopardy. Placing a permanent restraining order on my female ex-partner was absolutely the wisest protective move of my adult lifetime. My only regret is not doing it years earlier. Men, be safe!
Abuse is abuse NO matter the gender. The fact no one is protecting men is insane, these are sons, nephews humans. I would stop anyone from being abused no matter who is doing the abusing as a woman who was abused I know how it hurts.
I'm verbally and emotinaly abused on a daily basis by my wife. And probably punch in the face muiltiple times every month. No where to go so as the village idiot i am i just ride it out
Sorry if I am talking in Spanish and you all can’t understand what I am saying but my english is limited making so I can’t express myself in the way I want to, so if you allow me I will proceed to say my opinion in my native language. En mi opinión lo que vimos aquí de verdad me hizo pensar como veo y percibo varias cosas, de cómo decían un hombre pengandole a una mujer está mal pero siempre omitían la parte en donde se cambiaban las cartas, lo cual me hizo pensar en muchas cosas acerca de todos esos guerreros de la “igualidad” de género, y de cómo atacaban a los demás por simplemente tener una opinión diferente o no formar parte de su bando, este video me a hecho replantearme muchas cosas y de cómo simplemente la violencia de género ( o la violencia en sí) no debe ser permitida de ninguna manera y de que en caso de ver un acto como este no importa quien esté atacando a alguien, tenemos que actuar al respecto sin importar que y de cómo esas mentes que no hacen nada deberían pensar dos veces antes de pasar de largo. /Perdón si me contradije a mi mismo en algo pero tengo ciertas dificultades para expresarme de la manera en la que quiero.
I'm African and she was british, we married 4 years on into our relationship. I loved her just the same like back on first day I did really believe was mutual despite all the red flags, I was granted visa to move in with her in England.. took just 3 weeks before she put that fork to my eye, verbally , emotionally then financially abusing me just because it was her country and she'd gave me expelled if I didn't do whatever she wanted me to.. she cheated on me , humiliated me in public or private....isolatted me from her family and so much more.. I went to cops but no one believed me based on the assumption women are victims of domestic abuse but not men, so after that our short lived mariage went down meaning my visa was gone too so I was made to go back home. I lost my job my friends (made finally after O moved out of the toxic relationship) amd everything else.. I never got justice..
With all the attention problems like this have been getting, I think it’s safe to say that in the near future we’ll have people reacting the same way to both situations.
As someone who's lived in the UK for many years, I can confirm that the double standard is very true. The UK is a very femenist country, to the point where being a male is almost enough to automatically qualify you as a bad person. In all fairness, not _all_ british women are creepy, abusive perverts. But as with most situations, it's the small minority that ruin the reputation.
Yeah, believe me. I'm a male from the UK too and I'm fine with feminism and their people, I just hate the really pushy feminists who say stuff like 'oh if a woman hits a guy he obviously did something wrong'. Maybe that is the case yes, but how do you know? Were you there in the minutes leading up to what you saw? Were you watching the relationship through cameras and stalking? High chance is all of that is a no. God I hate society. Edit: I realized you didn't bring up feminism but oh well.
I saw a video, which ive tried to find again, that shows security footage of a dude getting repeatedly punched by a female who i presume was either girlfriend, wife, or friend of some sort, as they were different races. Dude starts spitting blood and a couple walk by, pause, look at the girl (who is nearly killing the guy about now) say nothing, and continue walking. I think the girl stopped after the guy was unconscious and thats when someone was called
I'm with on this, I hate this kind of double strandeds going on in our society. We really need to stop being like that if we want to have true gender equality.
Society sees men’s issues, including being abused, as a fault of men, even when women are abusing or assaulting or stalking other men, you notice how no one brings it up or cares or will try to make the woman into the victim for abusing the men in her life? If people wanna be equal, they need to see men as humans that can be harmed and have their own issues. They also need to stop seeing women as passive victims and men as an evil class of oppressors that only abuse women. These gender sterotypes are a big reason why people are so 1-sided about abuse, and usually side with the woman, even when she’s doing the abuse.
My ex hit me over the head with my cell phone one night and I was bleeding all over the place. At first I thought she stabbed me and was going to die (adrenaline is wild). Cops eventually showed up, I opened the door with a bloodied towel covering the gash on my head and the first thing they did was look at my ex and ask if SHE was okay…I moved and lost all contact with her shortly after…
Nowadays in America when a straight man or presumably straight man has any kind of disagreement with a woman, he is automatically presumed the bad guy.
We need people who fight for men’s rights as well. This isn’t OK. Alot of men are victims of abuse, but few people know about this, because its taboo for a man in an abusive relationship to tell their friends, and they must be better to report violence to the police, and apply for psycological help. Violence can both be mental and physical, words can be just as painful as physical violence. I remember from sosiology that in eastern European countries there is alot of violence in relationship, but they almost always blame the man for the violence, but eastern European woman can also be controlling against their men, and they can also be psycopat, and they can also beat their men, but nobody talks about that. I hope people in future can fight for men in eastern European relationship, it is too taboo in that matcho mentality to stand up for yourself. I am not east european, but I have friends from there, and I have been in Ukraine many years ago, a woman there, she is an activist for both men and woman rights, she told us that a typical thing to say in Eastern Europe things are often referred to like this, that if the man leaves his family they say: "He ran away from his responsibilities", but if the woman leaves her home and family they say "She ran away in fear". Purely hypothetically, the woman may have escaped out of pure selfishness. And purely hypothetically, the man could also have escaped because he was terrified of social control by his wife. Eastern Europe focuses too little on violence committed by women against men, But with that, I would like to point out that it IS not okay for a man to mistreat his wife, and this should of course also be focused on, but to an equal extent we must also focus on the men who are victims of mistreatment by their wives. There must be complete equality, it must be taken equally seriously, no matter what gender the abuser has, no matter what gender the victim has
Anybody who laughs at Will Smith, should be directed to this video. The abuse is happening in front of us all, and all the public is doing is ridiculing him for it.
This is called a utopia, and it can't be achieved because everyone has different opinions on how things want to be done, so an agreement cannot possibly be made with 7.7 billion people, and this leads to protests, violence, and outrage. If it's the minority doing the violence, it's still violence. Not even communism can fix that.
this makes me sick. and the worst part is that this is not even new. i saw an experiment once in which a woman actually CELEBRATED the fact that the girl was hitting the guy.. because she assumed the guy had done something to deserve it. We need to stop assuming shit we know nothing about and start realizing that violence in its whole is wrong, and we are all human beings deserving of dignity and respect. Cause I bet "assuming the girl deserved it" wouldn't cut it to excuse not reacting to a guy hitting a woman in public.
Just bc Girls are more fragile and weaker than boys(well some) doesn’t mean when u see a girl abusing the guy u don’t do anything.I mean some guys and more fragile than girls and some girls are stronger than guys.
If I had a GF , that did that to me, I would just end myself in front of the public and actually show them what is wrong with the society as a whole. I would make sure she suffers.
Is the reality if a woman abuses a man in public and in general A - It's funny. B - "He probably did something" C - That does not exist. So we relegate ourselves to suffer in silence because nobody cares.
I believe we should double standards. But this doesn’t mean, equal rights, equals fights, like it’s far from okay for anyone regardless gender to initiate violence. That’s domestic violence and it should be just as disguising regardless which gender is the one at fault.
@@Roam-de-route equality sweet heart, equality. It is right that violence is called out whether it be women or men who are hit. I think there is also a broader issue, who steps in when men hit men? Why are men not protected. I’ve also seen parents hit children and no one steps in. Also are women more likely to step in when a woman is being hit by a man? Genuine question, I do not know. It is important to ask the questions..
@@nicolewassall8177 Just look up Man vs woman domestic abuse experiment on YT. People will step in to help the woman , no one steps in to help the man. Feminism has made it so that people believe only women can be victims of domestic abuse.When a woman hits a man its funny , he probably did something wrong at least thats what people say and do about it. Feminism is about superiority or else it would be called Humanism but it isnt.
@@Roam-de-route I worked with a guy who was domestically abused by his wife. The men in the office laughed but i didn’t. He was a really lovely guy but it affected him in all ways and he didn’t want to leave his daughters with his wife. So I do get what you’re saying, but I don’t think it’s feminists fault, I think it’s social prejudice And statistics (with big assumptions made). I don’t think feminists created the social prejudice, I think assumptions were made because a lot more women are killed by partners than the other way round. It is totally rubbish that men are not protected and as a feminist - whilst I have never seen a man being hit by a woman - I hope I would try and diffuse the situation and as a feminist I didn’t assume the guy at work was making it up. And maybe the term feminist isn’t perfect, but to me it means equal.
Now this looks like a balanced report, but.... It's you, BBC. You're the problem here. My trust in you reporting anything without bias lately, has been tarnished. Even though this, hmmm, trailer? Seems like the start of something that isn't corrupted by modern day feminism. As said above, trust is the issue. I do hope that you manage to present this in an unbiased light. But I won't be holding my breath. I'm sure you understand.
***** And who else would you blame for pushing for the mentality that the sexes are ''equal''. Yet women can beat up men, but men aren't allowed to defend themselves?
+Atreadis That isn't the problem with this situation. There are two main attitudes which influence people's reactions here. 1. The perceived weakness of females how often are females physicality is seen as a joke. I'm talking not just about violence but sport as well. 2. The second is society's view on' masculinity' this idea of 'man up' that embarrassment men feel if they are subjected to violence from a female. This is not feminism fault they did create this culture. And often female victims of DV can't defend themselves, it's not really an option.
***** 1.) A joke? Considering women are half the DV abusers, it's no joke. Yet this is not reported on, why is that? Perhaps because there's an agenda to push? And pointing out that the ones who are '' abused '' are half of the abusers as well, might not be helpful to the agenda? 2.) Wrong again. As feminists like to point out. In the past it was acceptable for a man to strike his wife or significant other, if she struct him first. He was not allowed to abuse her ( since that would instigate violence and ridicule against him from the entire town ). But he was alowed to defend himself. And that was not frowned upon. The change occured, amazingly during 2nd and 3rd wave feminism. Imagine that? And at what time did the perpetual victimhood mentality of modern day feminism appear? Near the end of the 2nd wave, and throughout the entire 3rd wave of feminism. I admire that you have an opinion that is cogent. But your opinion is lacking basic insight in to our recent history.
Violence is always for personal profit. That's why women who have learned it's an easy way to get things for free help other women to get their own. Nothing mysterious here but motives are always the same and independent of person's sex.
I left an emotional and verbally abusive woman. Later on, I met an awesome lady, whom I proposed marriage to. When I talked to my beta pastor to organize a wedding and get some counseling, he imposed a completely false and biased narrative against me, and projected himself in protection of the woman in case she was being coerced to marry me, or abused in some way. He insisted so much, that she ended up telling him "He treats me well, I love him, and I want to marry him." Beta pastor married us, but making it clear that the beta church was there for her, in case I mistreated her. Beta pastor completely disregarded that I have been abused before and have never hit or cheated on any woman, but the narrative was already imposed, and a seed of distrust was already sown. I ended up taking my wife out of that beta church, and have been unable to find righteous, spiritual leadership that would help me be a better Christian leader. And since the biased narrative was already imposed, when the new wife was the one who started the abuse, I had nobody to go to. This is another example of how prejudice is present everywhere, even in beta churches. Sad.
+LibertyMan There are other experiments like this on youtube. Men and women hitting each other, berating each other, stealing from one another, they go the same way.
+LibertyMan This experiment has been done literally dozens of times. Most of the time, the men are assumed to be bad and the women assumed to be good, sometimes the men are laughed at, other times they are cheered on.
John, M, born 1995 likes women, video games and walks on the beach I perfectly understand that and I have seen plenty of videos showcasing that double standard but this particular video doesn't push through that narrative with confidence.
Feminists:"we can take care of are selves" Guy:**gets to close to women while yelling** 8 women start yelling at him and 3 guys start pushing him while another women is on the phone with the police. Women:**violently beating guy with baseball bat** Witness:**yawn**
I want to see how people would react to this situation: Woman is getting verbally abusive to her bf in public. She slaps him and he retaliates. How would randos react to this?
I know , it’s ridiculous, and it needs to change. Women would not be able to have babies without Men , Men are just as important as we are, men and women should be treated equally and respected equally and have equal responsibility.
That's because Men and Women are not the same, Women can get away with being aggressive toward a man, but not the other way around we live by different rules
Man hits woman: OMG LEAVE HER ALOOOOONEEEEE
Woman hits man: ...oh look a bird in the sky
No its woman beats the life out of man. People: thats why you never talk back to a girl 😂 its so bad I feel bad for you.
@@happyface4711 i know, you can kick our asses and get away with it, it's like we have to kiss your ass just because you're a female.
Ok, if women can hit men. So can men, we are all the same. Buthurt laws need to be stopped.
@@heyitsjulian5641 or it could be against the law in general lol
Happy Face I believe he is referring to defense
They probably thought the guy cheated and deserved a slapped, which shows how ridiculously biased society has become.
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On the other way woman cheated and she didn't reserve one. Good. Love gender roles but feminist destroy them and want us to still be gentle lol, they keep the roles they like destroy those the don't
Yeah it's not like women can cheat as well, or that only 20% of men actually cheat
@@raphaelchan7574true and thoose are rich spoiled kids
"Become"? This shit of only protecting women and treating men like trash started thousands of years ago
equal rights?? no?? i guess it only works when theyre at an advantage
slap twin thare*
so true
Slap twin it shouldn't be equal right men need more just like 300 yrs ago
Lon Hixson thei’re
Nyasha Mativenga It’s they’re. Their would be used in a context like, “Oh! Someone dropped THEIR phone.” While they’re would be used to replace they are. “They’re greedy.”
A woman slaps a man: "I will make it legal"
When a man says hey guys to womem: "now this is an avengers level threat"
Woman need to be held accountable
They will be, I sense a gender driven riot coming in the near future
I totally agree.
End violence against men now!!!
@@ernoniemi9993 About Supergirl Violence?,
@@annikenlittle9644 What about supergirl violence?
Ha, that will happen when hell freezes over.
I'm in an abusive relationship where my life has been almost taken twice. The law still supports her. I fear for my life when I happen to fall asleep at night. She told me if I ever call the police I'd be leaving in handcuffs ... I've never felt so helpless in my life.
Shaun get help please nobody deserves that
are you ok?
Mate we're here for you. Gather some evidence, get some alone time, call the police and show them. It will be that witch in handcuffs.
Call the police anyway, she is hurting u and she’ll be in trouble
Record her threats…
DOUBLE STANDARDS
This is basically what is happening in the Amber Heard vs. Johnny Depp case
Yep no evidence yet Johnny recently lost the case
@@blazor4033 there was evidence against amber, but the female sexist judge just didn’t believe johnny.
Lets stop visiting any movie with amber heard in it.
The case is still on today._.
Agreed there are mountains of evidence against Turd💩💩💩that's why she lost fair and square plus too much lying
There is a societal double-standard held between how men and women should express their anger. Men and women victims of domestic violence are treated differently. We all remember when Beyonce's sister, Solange physically attacked Jay-Z on May 5, 2014 at the Met Gala after-party. Had Jay-Z initiated the attack things would have been reported very differently (that would have been the end of Jay-Z). #DoubleStandard #ViolenceIsViolence
+lombe Ng'andu Solange would have been in prison if I had it my way and will never release an album for the next say ten years. Of course, if Jay-Z perpetrated the attack, he would have gone to prison and will never release an album for the next ten years. Violence is violence, nothing to do with the gender or the background of the person.
I also think that society (including myself) have shot themselves in the foot. It is not about the perpetrator, we as a society have let ourselves down by enabling it.
The Rhianna /Chris Brown thing is another example of a woman attacking first from the accounts I have heard. Grabbing his nuts whilst he was driving and hitting him in the face.
@@chadcadsonvii5258 Yes, there was a story about it, 2008 I think.
@@chadcadsonvii5258 How come he didn’t have bruises on his face in his mugshot then?
Female perpetrated violence is not taken seriously in most parts of the world. There are even legal excuses like the " battered wife syndrome ", that actually does not exist as an actual mental disorder any more than any reactive violence to abuse does.
Indeed here in Finland there has lately been discussion about female perpetrated violence being a social taboo and that we do severely neglect this behavior and even allow it as justified.Then you wonder that why the abused men becomes abusive. But at the very least we rightfully do hold men accountable when they perpetrate abuse, I just wish we would stop the Circle of Abuse by also recognizing the other half of the equation, and yet this is not true in any part of the western world as of date.
I completely agree with you.... I have never been an abusive male, up until the point of me getting beaten by my ex with a police Billy club all because I wanted to break up with her. She continued to beat me for the remaining year. Afterwards I found myself resentful and abusing her right back. Been arrested 3 times for domestic violence in which only one incident actually happened. I have called the police on her for assaulted me with deadly weapons and they have NEVER NOT ONCE ARRESTED HER. In the end of the day my abuse was resulted from the year if emotional and physical abuse I endured that caused PTSD and severe trauma. Police as well as law makers need to be better educated on the issues stemming from domestic violence. It's not always a typical story of the husband coming home from work and dinner isn't cooked he's drunk and violent. It's evident that feminism has aided the inequity of violence between genders. Remember folks, if takes two to tango. Much love
My last ex tried to break my fingers whilst I explained I was ending the relationship. Not a wink of remorse the next time I saw her. She then went on to spread lies to illicit sympathy and attention. Lucky I'd moved to the other side of the planet before her bs could damage me. NAWALT, but enough are that the juice just isn't worth the squeeze anymore.
What you mean western world it’s around the world
TURPA KII
@@adamraccoony ex slamed the coffee I got her into my head, then punched and stabbed me with a plastic table knife, cuz “She didn’t like singer in her coffee, no sugar ever” it was at breakfast in the morning tho, all the police lady at the counter, who is getting tackled her so fast in handcuffs right away.
Now she’s in prison for seven years, extended sentence cause she tried to escape like five times and failed. I’m just so happy she got arrested that day and I was lucky enough to get helped out of that after 4 years with her since high school
Man abusing a women: OMG HES AN ABUSIVE INCEL
Women abusing a man: *cricket noises*
I once knocked a girl's drink over in a bar by accident. Before I could apologise or offer to buy her another drink she attacked me. I left the bar to remove from the situation, she followed me outside and slapped me across the the face right in front of a police officer. She walked away. and the police man told me if that had been the other way around he would of arrested me.
Wtf
Wow, just wow. America and the West is utterly fucked at this point.
@@Brendan-kx8iy Useless cop, tell him that
That officer didn’t do his job right and doesn’t deserve to wear the badge
You dont deserve to be a police officer if you openly admit to being ignorant to men’s issues.
Violence is violence. It doesn't matter who's doing it.
Woman: *hits man*
Society:
Man: *hits woman*
Society: The council will decide your fate
And women say they want equality…
The simple fact that women can do a lot more hitting beating and smacking before anyone says anything but if a man so much as raises his hand in self-defense even just blocking or deflecting one of the woman's assault he could be cursed at yelled at insulted and even just hit from behind Jump by a swarm of other both men and women
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This is the exact reason why I feel like just to even interact with women I need to carry a weapon of self-defense because I may end up in a 1 verses 3 and counter because I don't want to be someone else's punching bag whenever they're having a bad day.
"Male Privilege"
Lon Hixson triggerd feminnst
@Lon Hixson triggered femanist go accuse more men
Lon Hixson You damn feminist
@Lon Hixson Think you got drunk too much?
@Lon Hixson dude, do you have brain damage? All you've been saying so far were stupid insults, if you disagree with these people and want to speak on it you might as well make some valid points while you're at it or at least clearly state your point. I refuse to believe that you're older than 12. And if you are, I'm genuinely concerned. Cringe AF. And btw, you wouldn't say half of what you're saying here to them face to face
I'm a feminist and I absolutely believe that there is a double standard when it comes to domestic violence against men that needs to be addressed. It's not okay for women or men to do this to any partner. It needs to be taken more seriously as do abusive, controlling behaviours, demanding the guy pay for everything and expecting every man to be some stereotype of masculinity rather than a human being.
Masculinity isn't a stereotype. It's the single biggest reason why this society has been created, thrived and survived. Feminism came along, men tolerated it and like the Trojan horse it always was meant to be, is quickly being identified as this cultures downfall. When this society is crumbling and the barbarians are r aping, pillaging and plundering. The same feminists who claim to be so independent, will be amongst the first to spread their legs in exchange for their lives. And they will weep because they destroyed the very thing that would've protected them. Masculinity.
You're right (and I wish more feminists were like you) except that it's not just about expectations of masculinity, it's also about abuse survivor advocates shooting down concerns for male abuse survivors and promoting the toxic ideas that it doesn't matter because of strength differences, that it takes scarce and urgent resources from female victims, not as many men are killed by DV, that female abusers are just "defending themselves", that every man deserves it because of "patriarchy", the list is endless.
Then maybe it's time to stop being a feminist and start being a men's rights advocate?
Misandry. The real issue is misandry. Spread by human civilization which always put women above men. Spread by feminists which hate men.
@@Siegfried5846 just be a regular human, it's not that hard, gender equality to the extreme
So tired, people have to fight against violence and it doesn't matter who it is committed against, against a woman, children, animals, men, old people, etc. I wish you never get abused,stay safe.
As a wise person once said...
*"A sinner that's never punished only gets worse."*
And its clear how the sins escalate through time.
I wanna find the people who didn’t react to the man getting hit
And the people who didn’t react to the woman getting hit?
Nicole Wassall I’m not worried about them
@@ratherande why the distinction?
Nicole Wassall dude
@@ratherande ?
In my opinion, neither man nor woman have the right to abuse their partner, because the first thing that you should always value in a relationship is respect.
Laura Wildspirit fax
LostTumbs what makes you think that?
LostTumbs come one bro you know you are master of your fate right? You can be anything you wanna be. It doesn’t matter what society thinks of you, what is truly important is if you believe in yourself and never hesitate to leap and courage to live true to yourself😉
LostTumbs don’t think like that, back in the day, if a man cries it meant they were weak but that is not true, if you cry it means you have emotions, you have heart and soul and blood running though your veins. don’t worry about it too much, remember the world is changing. There was a movement, the one where all men were created equal, during the industrial revolution. You are an amazing person and I know you know it too. 😁 just be yourself and don’t worry about what others think of you.
LostTumbs I’m sorry, heart to heart, I was betrayed by people I loved and it wounds the heart. Which is why we have to keep fighting, and cling to hope no matter what, the only way you can go is forward and never look back. the world will bring challenges, if you get knocked down, you get right back up and hold your head High. Trust your heart and let fate decide, you will always have people to guide you. never lose sight of who you are.
As long as discriminations or violence are directed against men, it's not sexist, that's basically the logic of feminists
Years ago, I picked up my wife from her work dinner where she had a few too many drinks.
11.00pm, lmost home, and she needed to throw up so I got off the freeway and pulled into a side street so she could vomit.
She was convulsing and really intoxicated, but she had her wits about her.
Anyways, I was just doing what I could with a bottle of water and giving her some space.
About 10 mins later another motorist pulled into the street and saw us.
My wife was pacing up and down (i guess to induce vomitting? not sure, I don't drink).
The lady stopped on the road, pulled down the window and asked if everything was alright.
Politely I said "yes, my wife had a lot to drink at her work party and said she was going to throw up so I pulled over."
The lady instinctively snapped at me. "I'M NOT TALKING TO YOU. I'M TALKING TO HER." And yells the question to my wife who was about 15m away now.
My wife yelled back that she was fine and just felt she needed some air. The lady parked where my wife was and my wife started walking back to me.
She gets out of her car and starts approaching my wife, and I can hear her say something but couldn't make it out.
All I could make out was my wife answering, "I'm fine, he's my husband. I just feel a little drunk."
The lady gives me a cold stare and then tries to persuade my wife into her car, to which my wife refused.
She gets back up to me and I give her some water, which she drinks and then she starts to dry-heave.
I support her and grab her purse and jacket and hair.
Then the lady rushes over and tries to push me out of the way, again tries to direct my wife into her car.
This time I can hear her say "It's ok, you don't have to lie, I can take you to the police."
Annoyed, I tell her again, "Excuse me, she just needs a little air and to vomit."
The lady wasn't having it and screamed again. "That's what they all say. How do I know you're her husband?" and starts pushing my wife to her car, threatening to call police on me when I approached.
My wife starts throwing up and she let her go.
After my wife threw up she started walking to me again saying she felt better and wanted to go home.
The lady grabbed her arm and said "You're not taking her. I'm taking her to police and the police can decide if you're her husband or not."
I been at work since 7am that morning and I was tired and just wanted to go home. I was ready to snap at the lady.
My wife got out of her grip and told her again "That's my husband and he came to the city (45km away) to pick me up and make sure I was safe."
Again the lady offered to call police to come but my wife got in my car and waved to her, thanking her for her concern.
I told the lady to have a good night, and she was visibly pissed.
I buckled my wife in, put my jacket over her and before I even turned the car on she was asleep.
My wife remembers bits and pieces, but I've never let her forget.
and of course if this was gender-swapped the entire ordeal wouldn't have even occured.
Don’t blame the lady who stopped her car to see the situation.
It’s fear. And as a woman she felt the need to protect another woman instead of her dying and she having to live with the regret of not saving a life.
@@God.sDaughter I absolutely agree with this. And good on the lady for coming to check.
But to clearly make me out as some kind of monster, despite me being polite and explaining to her (which I really didn't even have to, but did) only for her to become more confronting and almost abusive towards me doesn't prove anything aside from her own prejudice.
Even my wife explaining the situation to her wasn't enough to convince her I was as genuine as I had explained myself to be.
Even your own words show the same kind of prejudice, jumping straight to a scenario in which I kill my wife.
Not all men are as good as me, I know, I used to be a police officer.
However most of the DV cases I attended were caused by, and continued by the female partner. Men too scared to call the police, and often times it was the woman calling police to 'take this piece of shit away', and when we turn up and get both sides of the situation, they still can't help being abusive (physically, verbally and emotionally) to the male partner.
I'm not blaming you, or saying you're wrong.
I certainly am not accusing you of anything, and I completely agree with what you said, but at what point will you believe a man who is genuinely looking after their female friend / partner / companion with no ulterior motives?
It may seem like gentlemen are a thing of the past, but we're out there still.
@@God.sDaughter "as a woman she felt the need to protect another woman " women are playing some sort of team games and will care and protect women while ignoring men in the same situtation ? Good to know. I hope men take notes and start to play the tem game ?
@@marchuta326Tho he said his wife repeatedly told the woman that she was “just a bit drunk” and “needed to throw up” I’m finished his wife didn’t slap the lady when she “Grabbed her by her arm and tried to get her into her car” I bet his wife must’ve been more annoyed with that lady than words can describe,
Can I level with you guys? I'm a man, and I am proud of it. Not because I think I'm better than women, I'm just generally very comfortable in my skin, and I like manly stuff. Recently though...I've developed a fear. One day, a woman, a stranger, might just walk up, and shoot me in the face. I'll be dead. That part is scary, but not very disturbing. What really hurts is I know, I KNOW that even if she went to jail, someone would think "What did he do to piss her off so badly?" It might not be a lot of people, maybe just a friend, a family member, a cop. But I know that they won't think that because of the circumstance. They'll think that because I'm a man. I'm certain. Subconsciously, I know that would be why. I do my best to live my life with integrity and honor, but if that happened...I know my reputation, even in death, would forever be stained. Maybe I'm paranoid. Maybe that's not true. But I shouldn't have this fear in the first place...
I dont get why people think if a woman hits a guy the guy cant hit her back or at least just try to stop the next ounch
I mean if u lay a hand on someone u should accept the consequences that come with that action
Consequences. A word that I was looking for. So if a woman refuses to wear a mask at a shop, it should be the same consequences as a male equivalent and the message has to be clear and simple to understand, universal.
Assuming men are evil while women abuse them is discrimination
People do not belivie you can discriminate against men. Anytime you bring it up, bring up misandry or how women twist female abusers into being victims as men as a scapegoat, they will tell you that it’s not possible, they will straight up tell you that it’s impossible to be sexist to men.
I don't know about the other men but I'm really starting to get pissed off 😡
Please, I'm just asking really nicely, can we have more respect to men like, not everything is about women, men are humans too, respect that, #BOYSLIVESMATTERTOO
Clicked the hashtag and nothing came up, replaced it with girls and a whole bunch of stuff came up.
this annoys me if a female does something to a male nothing happens and if a male does something to a female everyone reacts that is just annoying it shows that people are focusing on gender
Thank you for showing this, when I was in hospital I was attacked by a woman and forced to defend myself. Yet nothing happened and I was the one called out for hitting a woman. On another occasion I was attacked by a female with mental health issues and almost had to punch her in the face, yet again nothing happened. If I was to punch a woman in the face for no reason I would be arrested. I know 4 men who have been physically attacked by their female partner, 3 of them were from the same place, 3 of them. There is a social taboo today about defending yourself against women or being the victim of one. I've been told what a disgusting man I am for simply sticking up for men's rights. Violence against men is seen as fair gain, just like of a female of 25 had sex with an 11 or 12 year old boy, that's seen as good luck for the boy. But if an 18 year old man who just turned 18 had sex with a 15 year old girl who was 1 day off 16, he disgusting pedo! women can get away with things men cannot, it blindingly obvious these days. I've been assaulted many times by females, yet were they charged with assault, NOPE!!!!
I know that a lot of women say “no that doesn’t happen to men!” but truth be told, I think most men have had experiences of women who have assaulted or hit them, at least probaby more than once. Most people try to convince you that every woman has been assaulted by a male and that’s it a a huge societal deal, but again most people will purposely try to tell you that most men never get harmed by women, when really, women are just as guilty of randomly attacking or hurting men, sometimes solely because they think it’s funny, like in my situation where a girl hit me and laughed about it before running away. They just don’t get caught or arrested for hurting people is all.
Incredible their aired this in BBC.
Men, do not hesitate for one moment to put a restraining order against your female partner if you feel your safety and health is in jeopardy. Placing a permanent restraining order on my female ex-partner was absolutely the wisest protective move of my adult lifetime. My only regret is not doing it years earlier. Men, be safe!
Thanks BBC3 for posting a one minute and 20 second video on this topic. So comprehensive!!! You have outdone yourselves
Although I am a woman, it is sad to see men who are victim of violence don't get the help they need.
Abuse is abuse NO matter the gender. The fact no one is protecting men is insane, these are sons, nephews humans. I would stop anyone from being abused no matter who is doing the abusing as a woman who was abused I know how it hurts.
Makes me wanna try to become President of my country and make a law that every gender must have equal rights and sexism is not allowed in any way.
The most amazing thing about this is if this was about male violence it would have 2.1 million views and at least 1.5 million likes.
Women make better victims.
Cuz their dramatic
Sorry women this is for comedic porpes
@@ayyadhammami990 spot on this is so true
@Shiba Inu
All abusers are men.
@@truongthuylan1990 ur someone who probably saw a man get harassed and did nothing.
Weaker ones get better attention
I'm verbally and emotinaly abused on a daily basis by my wife. And probably punch in the face muiltiple times every month. No where to go so as the village idiot i am i just ride it out
Sorry if I am talking in Spanish and you all can’t understand what I am saying but my english is limited making so I can’t express myself in the way I want to, so if you allow me I will proceed to say my opinion in my native language.
En mi opinión lo que vimos aquí de verdad me hizo pensar como veo y percibo varias cosas, de cómo decían un hombre pengandole a una mujer está mal pero siempre omitían la parte en donde se cambiaban las cartas, lo cual me hizo pensar en muchas cosas acerca de todos esos guerreros de la “igualidad” de género, y de cómo atacaban a los demás por simplemente tener una opinión diferente o no formar parte de su bando, este video me a hecho replantearme muchas cosas y de cómo simplemente la violencia de género ( o la violencia en sí) no debe ser permitida de ninguna manera y de que en caso de ver un acto como este no importa quien esté atacando a alguien, tenemos que actuar al respecto sin importar que y de cómo esas mentes que no hacen nada deberían pensar dos veces antes de pasar de largo.
/Perdón si me contradije a mi mismo en algo pero tengo ciertas dificultades para expresarme de la manera en la que quiero.
I'm African and she was british, we married 4 years on into our relationship. I loved her just the same like back on first day I did really believe was mutual despite all the red flags, I was granted visa to move in with her in England.. took just 3 weeks before she put that fork to my eye, verbally , emotionally then financially abusing me just because it was her country and she'd gave me expelled if I didn't do whatever she wanted me to.. she cheated on me , humiliated me in public or private....isolatted me from her family and so much more.. I went to cops but no one believed me based on the assumption women are victims of domestic abuse but not men, so after that our short lived mariage went down meaning my visa was gone too so I was made to go back home. I lost my job my friends (made finally after O moved out of the toxic relationship) amd everything else.. I never got justice..
With all the attention problems like this have been getting, I think it’s safe to say that in the near future we’ll have people reacting the same way to both situations.
The public did not intervene when the woman hit the man. It was an expected outcome.
Exactly, didn't even watch the video. Just reading the comments.
@@AO-mx9tk 😀
I am amazed this video is still available
The more we disscus about this, the more we comment on this, the more this problem goes to the national level. Keep it up.
Is it enough noise, Dutch?
As someone who's lived in the UK for many years, I can confirm that the double standard is very true.
The UK is a very femenist country, to the point where being a male is almost enough to automatically qualify you as a bad person.
In all fairness, not _all_ british women are creepy, abusive perverts. But as with most situations, it's the small minority that ruin the reputation.
Pretty much all western society is like this and it's sad
Yeah, believe me. I'm a male from the UK too and I'm fine with feminism and their people, I just hate the really pushy feminists who say stuff like 'oh if a woman hits a guy he obviously did something wrong'. Maybe that is the case yes, but how do you know? Were you there in the minutes leading up to what you saw? Were you watching the relationship through cameras and stalking? High chance is all of that is a no. God I hate society.
Edit: I realized you didn't bring up feminism but oh well.
I saw a video, which ive tried to find again, that shows security footage of a dude getting repeatedly punched by a female who i presume was either girlfriend, wife, or friend of some sort, as they were different races. Dude starts spitting blood and a couple walk by, pause, look at the girl (who is nearly killing the guy about now) say nothing, and continue walking. I think the girl stopped after the guy was unconscious and thats when someone was called
Judging by thumbnails, a video titled "Comics, illustrations, and text that explain reality and/or have deep meanings" mentions this problem.
@@LulaElenaChapaDeSilva-wj3ok That's the channel it is on.
Me: Can I have emotional support
Mum: We have emotional support at home
Emotional support at home: 0:59 onwards
Justice for woman: 😒🤚
Justice for waluigi: 😊👉
Society doesn’t care about men, but somewhat we care about women?
I'm with on this, I hate this kind of double strandeds going on in our society. We really need to stop being like that if we want to have true gender equality.
Society sees men’s issues, including being abused, as a fault of men, even when women are abusing or assaulting or stalking other men, you notice how no one brings it up or cares or will try to make the woman into the victim for abusing the men in her life?
If people wanna be equal, they need to see men as humans that can be harmed and have their own issues. They also need to stop seeing women as passive victims and men as an evil class of oppressors that only abuse women. These gender sterotypes are a big reason why people are so 1-sided about abuse, and usually side with the woman, even when she’s doing the abuse.
I don’t care about women
No no one takes violence against men seriously.
I'm amazed the BBC even touched this.
My ex hit me over the head with my cell phone one night and I was bleeding all over the place. At first I thought she stabbed me and was going to die (adrenaline is wild). Cops eventually showed up, I opened the door with a bloodied towel covering the gash on my head and the first thing they did was look at my ex and ask if SHE was okay…I moved and lost all contact with her shortly after…
Treat men like you wanna be treated
yes its,increased 10,000 % last year
Nowadays in America when a straight man or presumably straight man has any kind of disagreement with a woman, he is automatically presumed the bad guy.
Man hits woman
People: NOOOOOOOOOO!
Woman hits man
People: hmm...
Woman hits woman
People: Sweat nervously
Equal Rights Equal Fights Equal Lefts and Equal Rights.
Men: hits women because he gets mad, people: STOP UR BEING ABUSIVE!! ARE U OK LEAVE HER ALONE
Women hits man: people: oh yeah what’s for lunch
We need people who fight for men’s rights as well. This isn’t OK. Alot of men are victims of abuse, but few people know about this, because its taboo for a man in an abusive relationship to tell their friends, and they must be better to report violence to the police, and apply for psycological help. Violence can both be mental and physical, words can be just as painful as physical violence. I remember from sosiology that in eastern European countries there is alot of violence in relationship, but they almost always blame the man for the violence, but eastern European woman can also be controlling against their men, and they can also be psycopat, and they can also beat their men, but nobody talks about that. I hope people in future can fight for men in eastern European relationship, it is too taboo in that matcho mentality to stand up for yourself. I am not east european, but I have friends from there, and I have been in Ukraine many years ago, a woman there, she is an activist for both men and woman rights, she told us that a typical thing to say in Eastern Europe things are often referred to like this, that if the man leaves his family they say: "He ran away from his responsibilities", but if the woman leaves her home and family they say "She ran away in fear".
Purely hypothetically, the woman may have escaped out of pure selfishness. And purely hypothetically, the man could also have escaped because he was terrified of social control by his wife. Eastern Europe focuses too little on violence committed by women against men, But with that, I would like to point out that it IS not okay for a man to mistreat his wife, and this should of course also be focused on, but to an equal extent we must also focus on the men who are victims of mistreatment by their wives. There must be complete equality, it must be taken equally seriously, no matter what gender the abuser has, no matter what gender the victim has
Anybody who laughs at Will Smith, should be directed to this video. The abuse is happening in front of us all, and all the public is doing is ridiculing him for it.
I didn't even have to watch the video to know that no one would care when the man got hit.
There was 1 done a year ago. Same result. Nothing changes.
And the society wants equality
why can't we all be equal? lno violence, no stereotypes, nothing like tha
It's impossible
Nicole Williams so no more Dude Perfect Stereotypes?
This is called a utopia, and it can't be achieved because everyone has different opinions on how things want to be done, so an agreement cannot possibly be made with 7.7 billion people, and this leads to protests, violence, and outrage. If it's the minority doing the violence, it's still violence. Not even communism can fix that.
this makes me sick. and the worst part is that this is not even new. i saw an experiment once in which a woman actually CELEBRATED the fact that the girl was hitting the guy.. because she assumed the guy had done something to deserve it. We need to stop assuming shit we know nothing about and start realizing that violence in its whole is wrong, and we are all human beings deserving of dignity and respect. Cause I bet "assuming the girl deserved it" wouldn't cut it to excuse not reacting to a guy hitting a woman in public.
This "experiment" just proves who is stronger and who "needs" to be protected, because it's (she is) weaker.
Equal Rights are Equal Fights
You all know damn well how this will end
Men and woman should not hit each ever
If a woman hits a man first then hits her back obviously it's not right but it's not abuse its self defense
We need to keep the same energy
Same applies to being a child
The wife of a friend (*) is violent to him , nobody believes him and yet he is still with her. It’s a zero sum game.
A wise man once said, “all girls are the same”
Just bc Girls are more fragile and weaker than boys(well some) doesn’t mean when u see a girl abusing the guy u don’t do anything.I mean some guys and more fragile than girls and some girls are stronger than guys.
I would never hit a woman, but if you slap me, you will be on the ground in 2 seconds
If I had a GF , that did that to me, I would just end myself in front of the public and actually show them what is wrong with the society as a whole. I would make sure she suffers.
My cousin did that 🕊️
Is the reality if a woman abuses a man in public
and in general
A - It's funny.
B - "He probably did something"
C - That does not exist.
So we relegate ourselves to suffer in silence because nobody cares.
I believe we should double standards. But this doesn’t mean, equal rights, equals fights, like it’s far from okay for anyone regardless gender to initiate violence. That’s domestic violence and it should be just as disguising regardless which gender is the one at fault.
nice, this is what feminism had come to
Pia Dylan
What are you talking about?
@@comptonislife9046 this was all caused by feminism. They campaign for female superiority.
@@Roam-de-route equality sweet heart, equality. It is right that violence is called out whether it be women or men who are hit. I think there is also a broader issue, who steps in when men hit men? Why are men not protected. I’ve also seen parents hit children and no one steps in. Also are women more likely to step in when a woman is being hit by a man? Genuine question, I do not know. It is important to ask the questions..
@@nicolewassall8177 Just look up Man vs woman domestic abuse experiment on YT. People will step in to help the woman , no one steps in to help the man. Feminism has made it so that people believe only women can be victims of domestic abuse.When a woman hits a man its funny , he probably did something wrong at least thats what people say and do about it. Feminism is about superiority or else it would be called Humanism but it isnt.
@@Roam-de-route I worked with a guy who was domestically abused by his wife. The men in the office laughed but i didn’t. He was a really lovely guy but it affected him in all ways and he didn’t want to leave his daughters with his wife. So I do get what you’re saying, but I don’t think it’s feminists fault, I think it’s social prejudice And statistics (with big assumptions made). I don’t think feminists created the social prejudice, I think assumptions were made because a lot more women are killed by partners than the other way round. It is totally rubbish that men are not protected and as a feminist - whilst I have never seen a man being hit by a woman - I hope I would try and diffuse the situation and as a feminist I didn’t assume the guy at work was making it up. And maybe the term feminist isn’t perfect, but to me it means equal.
Google these two phrases and tell me the first result you find:
"My wife yells at me."
"My husband yells at me."
I got same results. Perhaps I should try "my wife hits me" and "my husband hits me"
Equality should be equal for both genders.
The acting in this was actually good, unlike other experiments
Now this looks like a balanced report, but.... It's you, BBC. You're the problem here. My trust in you reporting anything without bias lately, has been tarnished. Even though this, hmmm, trailer? Seems like the start of something that isn't corrupted by modern day feminism. As said above, trust is the issue. I do hope that you manage to present this in an unbiased light. But I won't be holding my breath. I'm sure you understand.
I'm pretty sure a lot of people feel the same way.
Didn't take long to blame 'feminism' did it
***** And who else would you blame for pushing for the mentality that the sexes are ''equal''. Yet women can beat up men, but men aren't allowed to defend themselves?
+Atreadis That isn't the problem with this situation. There are two main attitudes which influence people's reactions here. 1. The perceived weakness of females how often are females physicality is seen as a joke. I'm talking not just about violence but sport as well. 2. The second is society's view on' masculinity' this idea of 'man up' that embarrassment men feel if they are subjected to violence from a female. This is not feminism fault they did create this culture. And often female victims of DV can't defend themselves, it's not really an option.
***** 1.) A joke? Considering women are half the DV abusers, it's no joke. Yet this is not reported on, why is that? Perhaps because there's an agenda to push? And pointing out that the ones who are '' abused '' are half of the abusers as well, might not be helpful to the agenda? 2.) Wrong again. As feminists like to point out. In the past it was acceptable for a man to strike his wife or significant other, if she struct him first. He was not allowed to abuse her ( since that would instigate violence and ridicule against him from the entire town ). But he was alowed to defend himself. And that was not frowned upon. The change occured, amazingly during 2nd and 3rd wave feminism. Imagine that? And at what time did the perpetual victimhood mentality of modern day feminism appear? Near the end of the 2nd wave, and throughout the entire 3rd wave of feminism. I admire that you have an opinion that is cogent. But your opinion is lacking basic insight in to our recent history.
Please support every gender EVERY SINGLE gender because everyone deserves love if you're a loving person ☺️ if you're not then please become one 🥺🙏
I went through it myself my ex she was extremely controlling as well as mentally abusive.
Society is sad
Violence is always for personal profit. That's why women who have learned it's an easy way to get things for free help other women to get their own. Nothing mysterious here but motives are always the same and independent of person's sex.
I left an emotional and verbally abusive woman. Later on, I met an awesome lady, whom I proposed marriage to. When I talked to my beta pastor to organize a wedding and get some counseling, he imposed a completely false and biased narrative against me, and projected himself in protection of the woman in case she was being coerced to marry me, or abused in some way. He insisted so much, that she ended up telling him "He treats me well, I love him, and I want to marry him." Beta pastor married us, but making it clear that the beta church was there for her, in case I mistreated her. Beta pastor completely disregarded that I have been abused before and have never hit or cheated on any woman, but the narrative was already imposed, and a seed of distrust was already sown. I ended up taking my wife out of that beta church, and have been unable to find righteous, spiritual leadership that would help me be a better Christian leader. And since the biased narrative was already imposed, when the new wife was the one who started the abuse, I had nobody to go to. This is another example of how prejudice is present everywhere, even in beta churches. Sad.
No one cares about our story until its too late
try this experiment more than twice.....and then we will talk
+LibertyMan There are other experiments like this on youtube. Men and women hitting each other, berating each other, stealing from one another, they go the same way.
+LibertyMan This experiment has been done literally dozens of times. Most of the time, the men are assumed to be bad and the women assumed to be good, sometimes the men are laughed at, other times they are cheered on.
John, M, born 1995 likes women, video games and walks on the beach I perfectly understand that and I have seen plenty of videos showcasing that double standard but this particular video doesn't push through that narrative with confidence.
My ex gf gave me a black eye once.. I left without touching her because I knew if I hit her back I’d be the one in trouble
Feminists:"we can take care of are selves"
Guy:**gets to close to women while yelling**
8 women start yelling at him and 3 guys start pushing him while another women is on the phone with the police.
Women:**violently beating guy with baseball bat**
Witness:**yawn**
I want to see how people would react to this situation:
Woman is getting verbally abusive to her bf in public. She slaps him and he retaliates.
How would randos react to this?
Im sry I cant help but laugh at the accents🤣🤣🤣🤣
I very disappointed that people have no respect for a man.
I know , it’s ridiculous, and it needs to change. Women would not be able to have babies without Men , Men are just as important as we are, men and women should be treated equally and respected equally and have equal responsibility.
@@padmeneirbe7363 Babies are disgusting creatures
Thats only a peak of an iceberg
That's because Men and Women are not the same, Women can get away with being aggressive toward a man, but not the other way around we live by different rules