How to Deal With Being Disliked

Поделиться
HTML-код
  • Опубликовано: 29 дек 2024

Комментарии • 102

  • @MelissC0101
    @MelissC0101 6 месяцев назад +127

    I thought this girl hated me at work, she was cold. I completely left her alone. Then for my b-day she baked me cake & got everyone to sing happy birthday!!!! I literally was so shocked!! It was great.

    • @Vincisomething
      @Vincisomething 6 месяцев назад +17

      I've had a couple people tell me they thought I didn't like them lol...

    • @kiarademoner
      @kiarademoner 6 месяцев назад +11

      Wow! Maybe she’s an introvert?

    • @Vincisomething
      @Vincisomething 6 месяцев назад +11

      @@kiarademoner In my case when people told me they thought i didn't like them, it was because I would barely talk. So maybe?

    • @peterlongac
      @peterlongac 6 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@VincisomethingI think she was replying to homegirl bro. But also most co-workers are corporate snitches. Idk up to you if you want to entertain them

    • @Vincisomething
      @Vincisomething 6 месяцев назад +10

      @@peterlongac Obviously, that's why I said, "in my case" and "so maybe?"...... I talking about my personal experiences and relating it to OP's experience to answer that person... We all know they were asking OP, I was answering a POSSIBILITY of what it could be because I've been on the other side.

  • @_Maxten
    @_Maxten 6 месяцев назад +151

    Being misunderstood is way more frustruating than being disliked imo

    • @kiarademoner
      @kiarademoner 6 месяцев назад +8

      YES!

    • @rdxzero
      @rdxzero 6 месяцев назад +1

      Facts

    • @Sw1ftCl0ud
      @Sw1ftCl0ud 6 месяцев назад +5

      Sure, because their opinion is based on false info.

    • @tmalonso
      @tmalonso 6 месяцев назад +3

      If you’ve done your part in terms of articulation…those who misunderstand you are either choosing to do so, or they’re not yet capable of understanding…either way, that’s not your problem ;)

    • @_Maxten
      @_Maxten 6 месяцев назад +1

      @@tmalonso it is if you have to deal with them often

  • @CarlosOleaSixtos
    @CarlosOleaSixtos 6 месяцев назад +42

    Nick needs a hug 🤗

  • @thomaschristopherwhite9043
    @thomaschristopherwhite9043 6 месяцев назад +32

    This sounds corny as hell but in my late 20's I figured out that shifting from trying to be liked to seeing if you like someone is the key. That way you can pick and choose the people you surround yourself with. And if they don't like you then try your luck with the 7 billion other people on this planet. All you really need is one person to like you.

  • @sullythedoc
    @sullythedoc 6 месяцев назад +16

    8:08 wow that’s actually spot on. Now that I’m grown up I really do have a dozen other things I’m worried about

  • @kiarademoner
    @kiarademoner 6 месяцев назад +53

    One of my cousin’s wife doesn’t like me and she gives me slight dirty looks at family parties. I just smile and wave. 😂 I truly couldn’t care less if she likes me or not 💁🏻‍♀️

    • @christinekim361
      @christinekim361 6 месяцев назад +3

      She's probably jealous of you. Love your attitude, not letting her negativity get to you.

    • @PlayShorts3
      @PlayShorts3 6 месяцев назад +3

      The best thing you can do to anyone who doesn't like you is just be nice to them. Don't let their misery ruin your happiness.

    • @baseball90242
      @baseball90242 2 месяца назад

      I feel like you care if you made this comment

  • @chounrithypung3708
    @chounrithypung3708 6 месяцев назад +14

    Anthony iconic "you know what i mean"

  • @taydiggs5740
    @taydiggs5740 6 месяцев назад +9

    What a great episode!! Currently going through this in my life and I needed these ideas.

  • @FM-su1vr
    @FM-su1vr 6 месяцев назад +14

    The chick always sound like she is about burst into tears 😂

  • @seraphtty
    @seraphtty 6 месяцев назад +43

    Sometimes when Anthony Lee tells sex haver stories and he's like "Y'know what I mean", I'm like "Bro I actually don't know what you mean". Anthony Lee is a sex haver maverick dude

  • @Richardarbizo
    @Richardarbizo 6 месяцев назад +17

    Interested to hear how the prom king deals with this

    • @_Maxten
      @_Maxten 6 месяцев назад +1

      Like tim delaghetto? He said it drives him crazy being unliked lol

  • @pbadvincula
    @pbadvincula 6 месяцев назад +4

    “That’s the quality? I feel like there are others” 😂😂

  • @pbadvincula
    @pbadvincula 6 месяцев назад +6

    Great video. Much of it depends on the stage of our lives. Sometimes too, it’s them, not us 🤣

  • @christinekim361
    @christinekim361 6 месяцев назад +2

    Sally Field on winning her 2nd Oscars.... "You like me! Right now! You LIKE ME!!

  • @black4pienus
    @black4pienus 6 месяцев назад +4

    I remember this girl I knew when I was in middle school. She never talked to me even though we sometimes hung out with the same people. I thought she was looking down on me in a bitchy way. 10 years later I saw her again through mutual friends and turned out she was scared of me when we were younger! No idea why, but we laughed about it together.

  • @LakersDude626
    @LakersDude626 6 месяцев назад +7

    Lol JK Group Therapy 👌

  • @HisandHersLA
    @HisandHersLA 6 месяцев назад +11

    I’m watching this with my eyes closed right now so I can listen intently to your guys’ gay white boy accents🙂‍↔️😂

  • @barrymccaulkiner7092
    @barrymccaulkiner7092 6 месяцев назад +7

    New game: take a sip every time anyone says _like_

  • @yoselincastro3948
    @yoselincastro3948 5 месяцев назад +2

    I think I'm way to autistic to actually have that thought run across my mind

  • @RoderickTom-ge1vc
    @RoderickTom-ge1vc 6 месяцев назад +5

    Kalyne🔥

  • @serinaharvey5599
    @serinaharvey5599 6 месяцев назад +5

    You can feel the sarcasm in the thumbnail pic😂

  • @MO-nj7tj
    @MO-nj7tj 6 месяцев назад +4

    its something that barts needs to teach taika in early age .. just like how we like and dislike things ..other people can like and dislike things including you. they dont teach that in school.

  • @Richardarbizo
    @Richardarbizo 6 месяцев назад +7

    Bart really be Sandy from grease

  • @maddywan117
    @maddywan117 4 месяца назад +1

    People can like you, but it doesn't guarantee they have your back when it counts, unfortunately ..and that is common

  • @HettesKvek
    @HettesKvek 2 месяца назад

    I've always had a resting bitch face, so all my life people will assume that I'm annoyed/angry/irritated/sad, when in fact I'm just chillin thinking about pokemon.

  • @jordanferguson2254
    @jordanferguson2254 5 месяцев назад +1

    See this is all fine and dandy, but the real problem with too many people is that they won't just leave it at not liking you. They will go out of their way to let you know. You need to know how to deal with that, and I do, but it sucks balls.

  • @CuongChanster
    @CuongChanster 6 месяцев назад +2

    I'm like Nick. Overthink of people

  • @bobbyz8871
    @bobbyz8871 6 месяцев назад +5

    What’s with America being so self conscious of what others think? I blame social media

  • @michaeldavin2009
    @michaeldavin2009 6 месяцев назад +3

    Can't like everybody

  • @GYSMelanie5
    @GYSMelanie5 6 месяцев назад +1

    I'm still sensitive at times about people liking me or not, but the older I get, the less I gaf who don't like me. Especially certain trolls and people that comment here, lol. It's not a popularity contest. Great video!

  • @miketllz
    @miketllz 4 месяца назад +1

    Hey hey, i got a better one “you like your family, or your own family”…

  • @xmsxemoxmusicxluvrx
    @xmsxemoxmusicxluvrx 3 месяца назад

    Did Anthony buy the same bowling shirt, but diff colors?

  • @JD_xcvi
    @JD_xcvi 3 месяца назад

    1:07 am I crazy or is this a re-upload cause I remember this topic before

  • @peterlongac
    @peterlongac 6 месяцев назад +1

    18:04 theo von and jk 😭💔

    • @LaddRusso91
      @LaddRusso91 6 месяцев назад +4

      Theo always spoke nicely about JK on other podcasts, I think he just got really busy and popular

    • @peterlongac
      @peterlongac 6 месяцев назад +1

      @@LaddRusso91 I didn't hear him talk about jk specifically but I have heard him allude saying asians were cooler than he had thought. I still wish they were tighter cuz their dynamic is fire. But who couldn't get along with Theo amr ?!

  • @LaddRusso91
    @LaddRusso91 6 месяцев назад +3

    I like you Nick

  • @ModestMang
    @ModestMang 6 месяцев назад

    This video helped thank you.

  • @GYSMelanie5
    @GYSMelanie5 6 месяцев назад

    Join the patreon, I'll talk shit to you every day! It's so much fun! Lololol

  • @MrLiljoker310
    @MrLiljoker310 6 месяцев назад

    I had a so call best friend they only liked me to get at my cousin and they broke he wanted to get with my gf

  • @gundamzaku214
    @gundamzaku214 4 месяца назад

    The word is suspicions?

  • @jaguy4u2
    @jaguy4u2 6 месяцев назад

    Nicks insecurity/wanting to be liked is kinda adorable ..also growing out of it to NOT care anymore is kinda hot..just me? 🤔

  • @cusifeltlikeit
    @cusifeltlikeit 6 месяцев назад

    loyalty>love 21 21

  • @Mr-pn2eh
    @Mr-pn2eh 6 месяцев назад +6

    Simple.
    I don't care if you like me
    Anthony is just a dancer

    • @GYSMelanie5
      @GYSMelanie5 6 месяцев назад

      😂😂😂

    • @GYSMelanie5
      @GYSMelanie5 6 месяцев назад

      He's so much more than that

    • @Mr-pn2eh
      @Mr-pn2eh 6 месяцев назад +2

      ​@GYSMelanie5 its a steve Callback

    • @GYSMelanie5
      @GYSMelanie5 6 месяцев назад

      @@Mr-pn2eh so good though

    • @GYSMelanie5
      @GYSMelanie5 6 месяцев назад +1

      @@Mr-pn2eh I know it's hilarious

  • @darrylt8502
    @darrylt8502 6 месяцев назад +2

    For a title about dislikes, there's like a lot of like use of the word like and like you know it's like yeah.

  • @-amosc.presley-7192
    @-amosc.presley-7192 6 месяцев назад +1

    Anyone, ain't going to Go out their Way to tell you that they don't like or love you 😮😮

  • @Zel_gt
    @Zel_gt 6 месяцев назад +1

    Amazing video🫡

  • @bethnichols2875
    @bethnichols2875 6 месяцев назад +3

    When it's people I don't know or who don't really know me, like random strangers, or people online, then like David So said in a video long ago, "I don't give a f'k". Esp. the older I get, the less I care.
    Yet if it is family, falsely calling something about my character into question, then I get annoyed. An example of this is: My uncle was at the house visiting. My son; who was in college at the time; and I, were sitting next to each other on the couch. My son was eating some leftover bbq ribs for lunch. My uncle kept trying to hand him cash, and I kept trying to intercept it, because as I said, my son was eating bbq ribs and his fingers were covered in bbq, which I even pointed out was the reason I had said to just hand me the money. My uncle acted like, and basically said he thought if I got my hands on the money that I would pocket it for myself. So instead of handing me the money to hold onto for my son till he finished eating and could wash his hands, my uncle took it upon himself to, without warning, stuff the money down the front of my son's shirt. My son just looked shocked and said "wtf was that?" I said, "he thinks I am going to steal from you so instead of handing me the money, since your hands were dirty he just stuffed it down your shirt." My son said, "well I sure as hell hope he doesn't want a lap dance for that". 😏 My uncle looked at me and said "what did he just say?" I looked him straight in the eye, and said slowly and clearly with emphasis "he said, I sure as hell hope he doesn't want a lap dance for that." 🤨 My uncle looked shock and said "he doesn't really do that, does he?" My son immediately comes back with, saying as straight-faced as he could, "those textbooks don't pay for themselves ya know." I really appreciated my son's quick wit that day.

    • @kiarademoner
      @kiarademoner 6 месяцев назад +1

      😂😂😂😂😂 he’s YOUR son. Witty 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

    • @divinelymoowah6104
      @divinelymoowah6104 6 месяцев назад +1

      LOL that’s a hilarious story (I mean, frustrating, yes, but alls well that ends well)

  • @kennybushway7446
    @kennybushway7446 6 месяцев назад +1

    Like ryan, like ryan, like, like, like......

  • @Sophhh3x____
    @Sophhh3x____ 6 месяцев назад

    I stopped giving a ffff lol do I like YOU though? 👀

  • @anadventfollower1181
    @anadventfollower1181 6 месяцев назад

    Just don't give a damn. Or you'll end up like JK fans... jk

  • @Zel_gt
    @Zel_gt 6 месяцев назад +1

    Hi

  • @Garysmithersson
    @Garysmithersson 6 месяцев назад +4

    Kalynes so hot

  • @bkbenzy
    @bkbenzy 6 месяцев назад +1

    holy shit 9 secs ago

  • @Myguiltyleisure
    @Myguiltyleisure 6 месяцев назад +1

    How many "Like" can you say Ryan

    • @GYSMelanie5
      @GYSMelanie5 6 месяцев назад +2

      As many as he likes lmaoo

  • @Cr1m1nalspeed_1
    @Cr1m1nalspeed_1 6 месяцев назад

    All yall need acting classes 😁

  • @CuongChanster
    @CuongChanster 6 месяцев назад

    Why y'all speaking my pain. 🫣