Being single is a learning lesson. To see if you're ok alone. I've thought about this, I don't know if I'm ready for a relationship. Too many mind games, lies, lack of maturity, loyalty, etc. Dating these days just is so complicated. People don't have the best intentions. I like my freedom. It's all crazy. You got to be your best self first
Its crazy tho. I enjoy being alone so much but I know this will not be my long term life and I have to get out of that comfort zone. Im great alone and I fear that if I vibe too much with another woman, I'll miss that part of me. Life is so damn hard.
@@kendrick8749 I like being alone too, to a certain degree. Starting not to like people. Second that, Life is Hard, I'm realizing that everyday. Relationships are hard bc you can't control other people.
I can honestly say I'm not ready for any relationship not because of having issues with men but because I've tried settling meaning settling for less or I've tried not having a preference but I realized there are too many people both men and women who has a lot of issues that they refuse to deal with that need to be dealt with in there single season instead of masking it by getting into something they aren't ready for if they are really,really honest with themselves. I'm choosing not to be like that and just working on myself and relationship with God. But there would be less pain and hurt if we work on ourselves first
I’m now currently in a relationship after being single for a long time and I can confidently say that they’re both great places to be in. A lot of it depends on where you’re at in your own life and what you truly want out of life. I think that for a lot of people you want always be entirely ready for a relationship cuz at the end of the day it is a risk that you have to take. Same thing goes for a new job or going to higher education, or having kids. There will never be that moment when you’re entirely ready, but there will be that moment when you just know that it’s entirely worth it. These are just my thoughts on the subject and I really enjoyed this video. And as far as the playing games subject you just can’t play games when it comes to relationships, and I think that’s why mine has worked out and has been going well:)
After being in a relationship for two years I had to take some time for myself because I learned he was not ready to be in a relationship because I caught him cheating.and I needed to remove myself and take care of myself for awhile. I have been single for 4 years to take some time for me and prepare myself for the next relationship.
Good morning Corey, I'm having a relationship with myself right now and it's incredibly calming. After 34 years of marriage I'm looking forward to a new life filled with joy, peace and happiness. Blessings to you. 🙏❤🎄
I found your channel a couple months back and I just want to let you know it's helped me a lot. Thanks for uploading this type of content. I'm 26 and just recently went through a divorce. Your content has given me a new perspective and is helping me on my self development journey.
Staying single is a good thing and I enjoy my single life .. I’m not ready to get into another serious relationship but I’m ready to start dating again. But no matter what I’m blessed & happy where I’m at right now.. I once heard someone say “We grow through what we go through” .. Thanks for sharing your relationship video .. 🕊✝️🕊🌹
I'm divorced as well, it's been a little over a year, I feel I've done the inside work of inner healing. Sexually I haven't even been out there like that, I've really just been focused on myself and building me up so I can offer my best self to a potential partner
Personally speaking, once you are single for too long like me, you become compatible with yourself. The fear of moving on is challenging. Great topic. Listening in Namibia (Africa).😊
So I watched this video snippet today that was titled, "all I have to offer is p#$$y and it led me to self reflect....I don't have anything to bring to a relationship outside of that bc my true authentic love right now is buried in bitterness, hurt, and resentment. Your commentary is very digestible and in alignment with the aforementioned video, self development emotionally is key so that way you are already complete before intertwining with another. Thanks for another insightful video Corey. Keep doing your thing. GREATNESS AT WORK 😉🤩
Girl you're speaking my language because this is ME TO A T!!!!!! I just want to be alone!!!!!! I won't wrap anyone up in my mess because it's unfair & I don't want to damage anyone because I'm damaged
Yes. People like being around other people who give them good vibes, i.e bring value to the table with positive energy, because anything else is too much WORK.
I had a life but I ditched it once I got hitched. He became my world and that didn’t turn out good..listen to Corey Yll! It will save u a world of heartbreak
It was nice. We have a misunderstanding of the "friendship zone" concept, and because one small principle is avoided, it will lead to something worse... But from the moment that we learn that "any relationship based in necessity will lead to controlling", we will need to evaluate ourselves... Everything starts from the inside out... Be free, be healed, be found, be happy then we will have ways to love the others...
You hit the nail on the head with this one. I have seen folks jumping in and out of relationships for so many different reasons, but not have the right intentions. Most of the time it boils down to people not knowing or taking the time to learn their worth. You can't learn your worth if you don't take some time to be single. You have to learn yourself inside and out. I can't and won't judge anyone, because it's not my place, and we are all imperfect...but I will say I'm grateful to be able to be happy while single. Another thought...most folks aren't taught to know or learn their worth either.
Another great comment. Thank you Kimberly. I know some people who be going in and out of relationships. I try to give genuine advice, but my advice goes out of the window🤦🏾♂️😭
@@JulianSteve I'm with you on that smh. Folks don't listen, but then I have to remember it's their journey. I just pray they get the experience and learn the lessons needed to do better.
My last relationship I felt like I needed to get out of bc I was growing in another direction. I literally felt like my spirit was pulling me the opposite direction. I listened to myself and I’ve been pulled in the direction of healing! It’s a lot of hard work (self work). But my outcome has been wonderful for me and the ppl around me. So I do enjoy being single it’s been a while I just noticed listening to your video. And I’m still ok and happy being single. I have been on dates and have had a good time. But I think I am just ready to continue dating I don’t want nothing forced. But you brought up some good points! I enjoyed it and gave me some things to look out for while dating.
Seasons of singleness happen for a reason. Enjoy it, flow with it, and do all the said things... for yourself first and foremost. Not for anyone else. Love this video. Great reminders to be still in my current season. Thank you!!❤🙏🏼❤
Amen preach it brother!!! Your spouse is there to reveal and expose who you are. So before you all jump into a relationship please make sure you know who you are, heal before finding your spouse and know your purpose before the relationship. Most times relationship problems are singleness problems ... figure out you before you can figure out us. Your spouse can't love you if you do not love yourself because what ever you are filled with is all you have to give to that person. They can't fulfill a place in your heart that only God can! love is a verb not a feeling!!!
I strongly believe that it is not healthy to enter into any relationship expecting the other person to make you happy or give you peace within yourself. To some extent, you have to already have that within yourself and do the work to maintain that. Your partner's role is to not take away, support you in maintaining those things, and more. It does not mean you will never struggle. All of us are still a work of art being painted. However, I believe there has to be self-growth before and even during to sustain a healthy functioning relationship on both ends. Great Video!
All what you put out come from inner stability and knowing who you are and what your boundary lines you have set for yourself. Also, of course, experiencing the unexpected paths the life has lead you to whether you wanted them or not. You are still young, but there's a lot of peacefulness and stability of mind here. Thanks for sharing. Gently you are helping others. Authentic!
Thank you so so very much for your perspective on this matter...i have lesrned some thigs from you ...some i knew but i am happy that i saw your channel and i stayed to hesr you out and i am vert thankful to have listened to your untold story which i felt sorry that you had to go through that but i am sure that you have learned so much from that and has msde you an even better person and a man that will know how to handle certain life situations that may come to your path. I learned from mine but it is good to hear of others, like yours so that i can also lesrn from and use as a template to my own life, so that i can also learn, be more mindful of what i want in a person and how i should be treated when it cones to RESPECT...and to help be aware of taking good care of our minds and our hearts. Thank You Corey ...you are a good man ...i love how you express yourself ❤
Awesome insights. Those are 💯critical questions to ask. Glad you put them out there for the benefit of those who still struggle to make solid moves matters relationship. Myself, I'm keeping it simple and real. Got to be real, authentic, and intentional. Your channel Corey is amazing.
Very wise oung man i would love to be in a relationship but theres alot of things i need to work on thankyou corey im going back to school because i have the same things i want in a man,finaces good credit so im working on me .
I feel you on that. It’ll just take the right person, some people come into our lives and fck up our happiness. It takes a certain individual to come into your life and you still maintain that level of happiness. In due time 💯
I’ve been divorced for a long time. I’m ready to be in a relationship that leads to marriage. I know that I’m ready and have been for a few years. I look forward to a new year and a new relationship. God sent first and foremost.
Good information Corey! I know that I personally am not ready for a relationship, I am still growing and trying to get my stuff together before committing to someone!! tfs❤
Thank you for the perspective. You really brought to light about the greens, beans, potatoes, yams, etc... "You name it!" #Truth .. A person shouldn't be in a relationship or any ship if they're not loving their self and focusing on their priorities and responsibilities. They have to balance that with a partner that is willing to understand and compromise within each other's lives. You have a gift of inspirational speech and I've been following you ever since you cracked me up on that Tiny Homes tour experience. Lol. God bless.
I'm terrified to date but have a major desire to do so. I've been single for so long that I don't even know if I could date/get married even though every thing in me wants to 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️ Help Jesus 😂😂 this video was great!
I am a 21 one year old female who has never dated or even kissed a boy before. I used think I was wired for it but I 100 percent was not ready for it. I need to work on my self before anyone else is allowed in my life
I’m ready for a relationship I’ve been single for a long time healing from my past learning and I know what I want and don’t I’ve prayed worked on myself know what I bring to a relationship and what I will no longer tolerate but I want it to be right so it has to be God sent so still no rush
You said something that is very important MATURE, if you have enough mature you are very clear about want do you want and what you don’t want into your life, mature in my opinion is the clue for get a healthy relationship
Ok, backdrop was great for this topic. It made me pay close attention. ( marketing) Lighting really caught my eye. It worked beautifully with your complexion. Topic- forever evolving...lol No it was great! I am one of those that has never been married and no children @ 47yrs old. So, yes naturally, I have been raked over EVERY hot-bed of coals available w/ my family. But the same issues remain & the complaints are the same...the lack of consistent pressure on both sides. My brothers argue, well, we show the interest, stay consistent, apply the pressure, and get played. My sistas are stating, low/ to minimum effort, then its all go, then its wait, then the drop-off (games). I have to be conscious of the fact that it is true, after 40, you are NO LONGER TOLERANT OF BS...LOL AT ALL. So, I actively listen, don't judge, but when I tell you, these men are not getting past 2 weeks of conversation LAWD! RELATIONSHIP W/ WHO THE LORDT! Lol, Basically I am saying that being an avid reader, motorcycle rider, close w/ family/ friends, traveler, adventurer, music/arts lover etc., I truly believe that "my person" will at least be one of those things. We'll be able to build on that and explore the rest. But ready, I truly am, but I am here to tell you that ( a number of ) men & women are certainly bringing the "Representative" to the table. Believe what you see, not what you hear! Til next time Mr. CJ
I love your Vlogs!! They are very comforting. This Vlog has excellent relationship advice. You are very accurate and straight forward. Thanks for your knowledge and for sharing your experiences. I appreciate you! Take care and God bless 💕🙏🏽💕
I think what we also forget to discuss is dealing with your life traumas prior to jumping into a relationship. I notice that's not discussed often. Your partner is not your automatic Therapist who's conveniently there to take on all your past hurt just because you choose not to address it in your own life. That's your responsibility before even thinking about adding anyone into the equation. That's a lot to expect someone else to take on. You cannot "Love and Sex" your pain away. That is like putting a bandage on an open wound which will eventually bleed over into your relationship. We have to start being realistic about that.
❤️❤️❤️ Great Content!!💯 This is going to help a lot of people if they choose to do an honest inventory of what they want and need in life and personal relationships.
No. My divorce changed me. My trusting nature has been changed. I enjoy being single. When I say single, as in fully. Not even dating! Relationships are work! I have goals I need to accomplish and priorities that I have to tend to.
Am not.... I have attachment issues, childhood and adulthood trauma I need to overcome... I have trust issues as well.... Untill I deal with that, no relationship for me
CAN YOU PLZ MAKE A VIDEO ON MEN CHECKING THEIR FAMILY AND NOT THEIR GIRL!!!! YOU GOT SOME MEN NOT ALL BUT SOME THAT ARE SCARED TO CHECK THEY PEOPLE/FAMILY IT TAKES A MAN TO DO THAT B/C THAT CAN DETERMINE THEIR RELATIONSHIP WILL LAST !!!💯
Just started my RUclips channel and your videos started playing after one of mine. Really dope content bro bro! Do you have any advice for getting started in this sphere ?
I know this may be an unpopular opinion ..I get all your saying but me personally I've never been looking for a hot girl summer and all that of the world ish ,and I dont feel miss out in anything or desire to.I've always been in very long relationships..Also some just doing to much,I wont call it an addiction..But after living a certain way for so long do they realy desire stability ?.I wonder
This is wonderful video . However, the reason why women tend to desire a relationship is due to the social pressures that are implemented from outside forces and family members.
Corey, when you get engaged again, may I interview you (with or without your fiancé)? I have SO many questions, and I'd like to hear it from a young, successful man who was once married and is choosing to marry again.
IM READY for one I'm Healing from my Pass and Open To Love Again and that's what people don't do they don't HEAL from they pass and not open to Love Again 💯 IM READY 🥰💯😇🤍💜🤍
Since i broke up with my babies daddy in 2015 and I am still not ready 😪🤦♀️, I tried to date this guy and it didn't even take me 2 months to see he's not for me🙅♀️🙅♀️
Being single is a learning lesson. To see if you're ok alone. I've thought about this, I don't know if I'm ready for a relationship. Too many mind games, lies, lack of maturity, loyalty, etc. Dating these days just is so complicated. People don't have the best intentions. I like my freedom. It's all crazy. You got to be your best self first
Its crazy tho. I enjoy being alone so much but I know this will not be my long term life and I have to get out of that comfort zone. Im great alone and I fear that if I vibe too much with another woman, I'll miss that part of me. Life is so damn hard.
@@kendrick8749 I like being alone too, to a certain degree. Starting not to like people. Second that, Life is Hard, I'm realizing that everyday. Relationships are hard bc you can't control other people.
I can honestly say I'm not ready for any relationship not because of having issues with men but because I've tried settling meaning settling for less or I've tried not having a preference but I realized there are too many people both men and women who has a lot of issues that they refuse to deal with that need to be dealt with in there single season instead of masking it by getting into something they aren't ready for if they are really,really honest with themselves. I'm choosing not to be like that and just working on myself and relationship with God. But there would be less pain and hurt if we work on ourselves first
I’m now currently in a relationship after being single for a long time and I can confidently say that they’re both great places to be in. A lot of it depends on where you’re at in your own life and what you truly want out of life. I think that for a lot of people you want always be entirely ready for a relationship cuz at the end of the day it is a risk that you have to take. Same thing goes for a new job or going to higher education, or having kids. There will never be that moment when you’re entirely ready, but there will be that moment when you just know that it’s entirely worth it. These are just my thoughts on the subject and I really enjoyed this video. And as far as the playing games subject you just can’t play games when it comes to relationships, and I think that’s why mine has worked out and has been going well:)
This a hell of a comment right here bro 💯✊🏽
Great comment bruh!
@@coreymjones3 thank you appreciate it
Thank you for sharing this. Corey’s video is informative and your comment too✊🏾‼️
Such an amazing comment 💜
After being in a relationship for two years I had to take some time for myself because I learned he was not ready to be in a relationship because I caught him cheating.and I needed to remove myself and take care of myself for awhile. I have been single for 4 years to take some time for me and prepare myself for the next relationship.
Good morning Corey, I'm having a relationship with myself right now and it's incredibly calming. After 34 years of marriage I'm looking forward to a new life filled with joy, peace and happiness. Blessings to you. 🙏❤🎄
Sending you all the joy & happiness your heart desire❤️😊
I found your channel a couple months back and I just want to let you know it's helped me a lot. Thanks for uploading this type of content. I'm 26 and just recently went through a divorce. Your content has given me a new perspective and is helping me on my self development journey.
Staying single is a good thing and I enjoy my single life .. I’m not ready to get into another serious relationship but I’m ready to start dating again. But no matter what I’m blessed & happy where I’m at right now.. I once heard someone say “We grow through what we go through” .. Thanks for sharing your relationship video .. 🕊✝️🕊🌹
I'm divorced as well, it's been a little over a year, I feel I've done the inside work of inner healing. Sexually I haven't even been out there like that, I've really just been focused on myself and building me up so I can offer my best self to a potential partner
Personally speaking, once you are single for too long like me, you become compatible with yourself. The fear of moving on is challenging. Great topic. Listening in Namibia (Africa).😊
Clear, concise and straight to the point! You definitely dropped gems and encouraged me to develop more autonomy during my single season.
So I watched this video snippet today that was titled, "all I have to offer is p#$$y and it led me to self reflect....I don't have anything to bring to a relationship outside of that bc my true authentic love right now is buried in bitterness, hurt, and resentment. Your commentary is very digestible and in alignment with the aforementioned video, self development emotionally is key so that way you are already complete before intertwining with another.
Thanks for another insightful video Corey. Keep doing your thing. GREATNESS AT WORK 😉🤩
Great statement! And I appreciate it 💯
I pray your healing process goes smoothly. I’ve been there but with self reflection/work and God I’m sooo much better!
Girl you're speaking my language because this is ME TO A T!!!!!!
I just want to be alone!!!!!!
I won't wrap anyone up in my mess because it's unfair & I don't want to damage anyone because I'm damaged
Yes. People like being around other people who give them good vibes, i.e bring value to the table with positive energy, because anything else is too much WORK.
I had a life but I ditched it once I got hitched. He became my world and that didn’t turn out good..listen to Corey Yll! It will save u a world of heartbreak
It was nice. We have a misunderstanding of the "friendship zone" concept, and because one small principle is avoided, it will lead to something worse...
But from the moment that we learn that "any relationship based in necessity will lead to controlling", we will need to evaluate ourselves...
Everything starts from the inside out... Be free, be healed, be found, be happy then we will have ways to love the others...
You hit the nail on the head with this one. I have seen folks jumping in and out of relationships for so many different reasons, but not have the right intentions. Most of the time it boils down to people not knowing or taking the time to learn their worth. You can't learn your worth if you don't take some time to be single. You have to learn yourself inside and out. I can't and won't judge anyone, because it's not my place, and we are all imperfect...but I will say I'm grateful to be able to be happy while single. Another thought...most folks aren't taught to know or learn their worth either.
Another great comment. Thank you Kimberly. I know some people who be going in and out of relationships. I try to give genuine advice, but my advice goes out of the window🤦🏾♂️😭
@@JulianSteve I'm with you on that smh. Folks don't listen, but then I have to remember it's their journey. I just pray they get the experience and learn the lessons needed to do better.
My last relationship I felt like I needed to get out of bc I was growing in another direction. I literally felt like my spirit was pulling me the opposite direction. I listened to myself and I’ve been pulled in the direction of healing! It’s a lot of hard work (self work). But my outcome has been wonderful for me and the ppl around me. So I do enjoy being single it’s been a while I just noticed listening to your video. And I’m still ok and happy being single. I have been on dates and have had a good time. But I think I am just ready to continue dating I don’t want nothing forced. But you brought up some good points! I enjoyed it and gave me some things to look out for while dating.
Seasons of singleness happen for a reason. Enjoy it, flow with it, and do all the said things... for yourself first and foremost. Not for anyone else. Love this video. Great reminders to be still in my current season. Thank you!!❤🙏🏼❤
Going into a relationship with some growth is EXCELLENT advice!!! I never thought to ask or look for that. Great video Corey!!!
Absolutely Correct Corey❤️❤️❤️💯💯💯
Amen preach it brother!!! Your spouse is there to reveal and expose who you are. So before you all jump into a relationship please make sure you know who you are, heal before finding your spouse and know your purpose before the relationship. Most times relationship problems are singleness problems ... figure out you before you can figure out us. Your spouse can't love you if you do not love yourself because what ever you are filled with is all you have to give to that person. They can't fulfill a place in your heart that only God can! love is a verb not a feeling!!!
Bro this is timely! Thanks for posting this bro💯💯💯
Anytime man 💯
I strongly believe that it is not healthy to enter into any relationship expecting the other person to make you happy or give you peace within yourself. To some extent, you have to already have that within yourself and do the work to maintain that. Your partner's role is to not take away, support you in maintaining those things, and more. It does not mean you will never struggle. All of us are still a work of art being painted. However, I believe there has to be self-growth before and even during to sustain a healthy functioning relationship on both ends. Great Video!
All what you put out come from inner stability and knowing who you are and what your boundary lines you have set for yourself. Also, of course, experiencing the unexpected paths the life has lead you to whether you wanted them or not. You are still young, but there's a lot of peacefulness and stability of mind here. Thanks for sharing. Gently you are helping others. Authentic!
This video is needed. So many of us rush into relationships for the wrong reasons
Thank you so so very much for your perspective on this matter...i have lesrned some thigs from you ...some i knew but i am happy that i saw your channel and i stayed to hesr you out and i am vert thankful to have listened to your untold story which i felt sorry that you had to go through that but i am sure that you have learned so much from that and has msde you an even better person and a man that will know how to handle certain life situations that may come to your path. I learned from mine but it is good to hear of others, like yours so that i can also lesrn from and use as a template to my own life, so that i can also learn, be more mindful of what i want in a person and how i should be treated when it cones to RESPECT...and to help be aware of taking good care of our minds and our hearts. Thank You Corey ...you are a good man ...i love how you express yourself ❤
Yep. Ready. I've been single for 5 years & I've enjoyed that me time. So I'm believing & trusting God this is my year 🙏🏽
Facts my breda ❗️❗️❗️❗️❗️❗️❗️❗️
Awesome insights. Those are 💯critical questions to ask. Glad you put them out there for the benefit of those who still struggle to make solid moves matters relationship. Myself, I'm keeping it simple and real. Got to be real, authentic, and intentional. Your channel Corey is amazing.
This is great!
Definitely agree that you have to match your partners energy! Great topic!!
Great video! I like how you explained that cheating is not something that should be happening in a relationship
Words of divine wisdom 🤍
I love the transparency and rawness with this video thank you for the helpful advice
Very wise oung man i would love to be in a relationship but theres alot of things i need to work on thankyou corey im going back to school because i have the same things i want in a man,finaces good credit so im working on me .
I’m happy and single. My problem is im scared that I will always be happy and single. 😫
I feel you on that. It’ll just take the right person, some people come into our lives and fck up our happiness. It takes a certain individual to come into your life and you still maintain that level of happiness. In due time 💯
Yeah! I like the vibe.
I’ve been divorced for a long time. I’m ready to be in a relationship that leads to marriage. I know that I’m ready and have been for a few years. I look forward to a new year and a new relationship. God sent first and foremost.
Good information Corey! I know that I personally am not ready for a relationship, I am still growing and trying to get my stuff together before committing to someone!! tfs❤
yes compromising is a big one! enjoyed this video, your content is such a breath of fresh air 💯
Wow well stated 🎯🏹 absolutely on point.
Thank you for the perspective. You really brought to light about the greens, beans, potatoes, yams, etc... "You name it!" #Truth .. A person shouldn't be in a relationship or any ship if they're not loving their self and focusing on their priorities and responsibilities. They have to balance that with a partner that is willing to understand and compromise within each other's lives. You have a gift of inspirational speech and I've been following you ever since you cracked me up on that Tiny Homes tour experience. Lol. God bless.
Thank you ! Lol
I'm terrified to date but have a major desire to do so. I've been single for so long that I don't even know if I could date/get married even though every thing in me wants to 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️ Help Jesus 😂😂 this video was great!
Time, energy and effort💯
Great, spot-on,message .you are to the point on this one!!,!!In a nutshell😊😊👍💕❤️
This was on point!! Thanks for sharing!
Excellent video and so true!! 💯
Wisdom. Thank You!
I am a 21 one year old female who has never dated or even kissed a boy before. I used think I was wired for it but I 100 percent was not ready for it. I need to work on my self before anyone else is allowed in my life
Great questions and points!!
great content powerful message❤❤❤
I’m ready for a relationship I’ve been single for a long time healing from my past learning and I know what I want and don’t I’ve prayed worked on myself know what I bring to a relationship and what I will no longer tolerate but I want it to be right so it has to be God sent so still no rush
This video freed me boi!
honestly I feel like I'm staying around cause you're positive black brother spreading terrific advise . 💪🏿 you've actually helped me alot bro
Thanks for sharing this. 🥰
Love it!!!
Corey new subbie great video very informative thanks.
This was great!
Awesome content!! This year is my season for the man/husband that God has for me..
T.E.E. , that was gold
That's true
Enjoyed this commentary. This hits home. Keep these episodes coming. ☺🌹
You said something that is very important MATURE, if you have enough mature you are very clear about want do you want and what you don’t want into your life, mature in my opinion is the clue for get a healthy relationship
hey man! love your content
💯💪🏾
Yes I am ready I Experience it to
I'm ready I know what I want and need in my life. I have grown alot In the past years...
Yes I really for a long relationship
That beard looks great on you!
Ok, backdrop was great for this topic. It made me pay close attention. ( marketing) Lighting really caught my eye. It worked beautifully with your complexion.
Topic- forever evolving...lol No it was great! I am one of those that has never been married and no children @ 47yrs old. So, yes naturally, I have been raked over EVERY hot-bed of coals available w/ my family.
But the same issues remain & the complaints are the same...the lack of consistent pressure on both sides. My brothers argue, well, we show the interest, stay consistent, apply the pressure, and get played. My sistas are stating, low/ to minimum effort, then its all go, then its wait, then the drop-off (games).
I have to be conscious of the fact that it is true, after 40, you are NO LONGER TOLERANT OF BS...LOL AT ALL. So, I actively listen, don't judge, but when I tell you, these men are not getting past 2 weeks of conversation LAWD! RELATIONSHIP W/ WHO THE LORDT! Lol, Basically I am saying that being an avid reader, motorcycle rider, close w/ family/ friends, traveler, adventurer, music/arts lover etc., I truly believe that "my person" will at least be one of those things. We'll be able to build on that and explore the rest. But ready, I truly am, but I am here to tell you that ( a number of ) men & women are certainly bringing the "Representative" to the table. Believe what you see, not what you hear!
Til next time Mr. CJ
I love this video!!!! Thank you 💕💕
Dope Advice
Right, let it be known, be on the same page 💛💛💛💛
Truth
I love your Vlogs!! They are very comforting. This Vlog has excellent relationship advice. You are very accurate and straight forward. Thanks for your knowledge and for sharing your experiences. I appreciate you! Take care and God bless 💕🙏🏽💕
How are you doing Now and how did it take you to get over the brokeness
Good advice!
I got the TEE on your relationship readiness tips! Awesome video, Corey! :)
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I think what we also forget to discuss is dealing with your life traumas prior to jumping into a relationship. I notice that's not discussed often. Your partner is not your automatic Therapist who's conveniently there to take on all your past hurt just because you choose not to address it in your own life. That's your responsibility before even thinking about adding anyone into the equation. That's a lot to expect someone else to take on. You cannot "Love and Sex" your pain away. That is like putting a bandage on an open wound which will eventually bleed over into your relationship. We have to start being realistic about that.
Just a thought I’ve had recently, I’m getting really annoyed with this pandemic bc it’s limiting my Opportunity to maximize my singleness 🥴
I’m not getting these notifications for your vids idk why but I’m here my friend 🔥🔥❤️💯
Do you have notifications turned on for your phone and in the iPhone settings?
@@coreymjones3 yes sir I do it’s just certain video especially yours I will not get the post notifications for
Hey Corey am truly ready for a relationship pls put me through
Editing skills🔥 Content🔥
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Great Content!!💯 This is going to help a lot of people if they choose to do an honest inventory of what they want and need in life and personal relationships.
I am looking for the one I can not Live without
No. My divorce changed me. My trusting nature has been changed. I enjoy being single. When I say single, as in fully. Not even dating! Relationships are work! I have goals I need to accomplish and priorities that I have to tend to.
Am not.... I have attachment issues, childhood and adulthood trauma I need to overcome... I have trust issues as well.... Untill I deal with that, no relationship for me
CAN YOU PLZ MAKE A VIDEO ON MEN CHECKING THEIR FAMILY AND NOT THEIR GIRL!!!! YOU GOT SOME MEN NOT ALL BUT SOME THAT ARE SCARED TO CHECK THEY PEOPLE/FAMILY IT TAKES A MAN TO DO THAT B/C THAT CAN DETERMINE THEIR RELATIONSHIP WILL LAST !!!💯
Just started my RUclips channel and your videos started playing after one of mine.
Really dope content bro bro! Do you have any advice for getting started in this sphere ?
I need to send this to some of these men on the dating apps 🤣
Hello
But for now time getting relationship very difficult for me becouse am tired
I know this may be an unpopular opinion ..I get all your saying but me personally I've never been looking for a hot girl summer and all that of the world ish ,and I dont feel miss out in anything or desire to.I've always been in very long relationships..Also some just doing to much,I wont call it an addiction..But after living a certain way for so long do they realy desire stability ?.I wonder
This is wonderful video . However, the reason why women tend to desire a relationship is due to the social pressures that are implemented from outside forces and family members.
I don't know why still I'm not ready for a man in my life
I truly wish I would have enjoyed my singleness. Kids made me feel like I had to force a commitment even when I wasn't happy.
Corey, when you get engaged again, may I interview you (with or without your fiancé)? I have SO many questions, and I'd like to hear it from a young, successful man who was once married and is choosing to marry again.
I gotchu!
IM READY for one I'm Healing from my Pass and Open To Love Again and that's what people don't do they don't HEAL from they pass and not open to Love Again 💯 IM READY 🥰💯😇🤍💜🤍
Let the church say amen 🙌🏽
Are you ready mr. Jones
Since i broke up with my babies daddy in 2015 and I am still not ready 😪🤦♀️, I tried to date this guy and it didn't even take me 2 months to see he's not for me🙅♀️🙅♀️