I have applied a lot of tips and advice from your videos into my dating life and it works. It works so well that I got married within 6 months of us dating. ❤
Im sorry but dating men at this point is very exhausting…. The fact that they like when you’re mean to them says a lot about who they really are. Men also think all women like bad boys which is weird because they wear a good guy mask in the beginning….
All we need to do is match his effort, smile be pleasant and pay attention keep our boundaries and have a nice personal routine that we don’t break for anyone… that’s our self care routine. If he doesn’t plan date then keep his word then he naturally will have to plan another date around our natural weekly routine. ❤🎉
If you say “my plans are scheduled a week in advance and I’ll let you know” he will know you are playing games and if he’s smart he will move on Because you I said you know what your week look like and could have said “I’m not available again until next week Sunday after 2pm. Let me know by this Wednesday Either he re plan and by Wednesday or he just won’t see me and eventually he’s just not that into me and has many other potential ppl to date which is great and he can move on.
It is twisted. I agree. Nice vs people pleasing don’t always go hand in hand. Nice and kind also differ. So I think it’s better to inhibit kindness in the way you move in the world. Speak kindly and direct when necessary.
I listened AND applied your ENTIRE feminine energy series and I’m married now. He put a ring on it and he still chases this 🐈 every single day. Lissen sis! 💖
Great advice. I just think as a woman it's so so so sad I have to treat a man like a boy to get results....its so tiring it's just easier to stay single and pour the love and understanding into myself. I can not raise a grown man. 😢
When you are too nice it sends the message that you are desperate and afraid of losing him, you're operating from fear and it shows. When you are secure in yourself, you're not afraid of asking for what you want and be unapologetic in who you are. Be a little selfish, have confidence in what you bring to the relationship, don't be overextending for a guy and don't accept everything. Have a clear list of the things you're looking for and have clear boundaries.
I was nice and I’m married. Don’t pay bills or anything! If someone wants you, they will treat you well. If they don’t, then they will treat you poorly. It’s up to you on what you allow. Definitely shouldn’t want someone that you have to be a B to get, that will wear off quickly
You are 100% correct and really this applies to any relationship. I am an auntie (40+). Much of what we think is nice behavior is doormat behavior. Society encourages, your family encourages it. People want you to give them their way in general. When you can be honest with yourself about what you are willing to do and deal with you benefit. A lot of the time we think we are nice when we are "supportive" or "helpful". Men dont need our help and support is just believing in them. They dont NEED what we as women/feminine beings, do. I can promise that any woman getting mistreated has zero boundaries and prides herself on being nice. Because we are taught that boundaries are mean. Its a childish way of thinking, like getting mad at your parents when you were little, but most adults never grow out of that.
i was told by a man that men need to be trained. They have to be taught how to treat you. This means to be direct, firm, and reward when they get it right because it reaffirms their ego. Trust if he is emotionally invested in you it works. Be kind, nuturing and loving not nice. There was a time when nice meant ignorant and some men still want a woman who is "sugar and spice but all things nice"
Great video, A month ago, my five-year relationship came to an end. I really can't stop thinking about the love of my life, who made the decision to leave me. I've done everything in my power to win him back, but it's all in vain, and I can't imagine my life with anyone else. I genuinely miss him and just can't stop thinking about him, even though I've tried my hardest to stop thinking about him. I'm not sure why I'm saying this here.
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Love this video - it's so spot-on!!! Holding your partner accountable, and having boundaries, is extremely important... and as you said, so is affirming him and reinforcing him (with love/affection + words of affirmation) when he does a great job with this. I'm baffled at people who have commented that it's having to "treat your man like a child" or "raise him." Quite the contrary - this is treating him like a mature adult. I expect the same, in my other non-romantic relationships.
I think you’re right about the value of a “nice” woman. But being a nice woman doesn’t mean being a doormat. And, that’s what this videos about: encouraging women to have boundaries and not be a doormat. It’s not encouraging them to be mean.
Now this is the MJ Harris I know. I used to binge watch your femininity and love videos in 2020 and now I’m back. I love your advices and they help in relationships and work. Xx happy holidays❤. Sending love from Jamaica 🇯🇲
I dealt with this guy for years, we we were friend's with benefits. I put up with everything. He came over one day with all his snacks. I asked what did you get me he said nothing. I said ok, the next time you come over ask if I want something. He came over, didnt bring me anything. I wouldnt let him in. Didnt respond to text or calls for awhile. He never did that again. We latered ended up dating and in a relationship. He always took care of me.
Wow.. Thanks for sharing your experience. It's a learning for me... We teach people how to treat you.. I was always single never understood relationship psychology... I was over giving always sacrificing
I like how you clarify at the end of the video that this is NOT intended to manipulate men. It’s speak to your character and the intention behind your videos. Thank you! 💙💙💙
I was too nice, he trampled me and broke my heart then expected forgiveness becasue he knew how much i adored him, i didnt want to hide it, i feel like the workd knew how much i loved him, then he betryayed me 😮 dumped his ass quick, our baby was just 2 months old 😢 he absolutely tore me to shreds emotionally and for what ? Because i was "too nice" nonetheless ive learnt my lesson, never give too much / more than you are willing to lose x
You always come at the right time! I have fell off and haven’t seen your videos in soo long !! I have been going through something so bad and not eating in 3 days and your video came as a suggestion ! Soo grateful I’m back on track now and need this. What sucks is the dude wasn’t the greatest catch yet I got played
You CAN be yourself. But whenever they do something you don't approve of, don't be afraid to show it, and tell them. Men appreciate correction, and love praise when they do something right ✅️
You can. From what I have observed, he's right. My Mom has a man devoted to her and our family and she does anything she wants. She has him super trained. My Mom's sisters are very over accommodating and their men strung them along and did any and everything for 30 years just to leave them high and dry after they spent their youth with them.
You can, but the key is to find a man who feels you are out of their league. Find a man you're not that attracted to and you'll naturally be a challenge
I have been married for 18 years and I promise this is true ❤❤❤ learn to be balanced. I’m sweet and kind but I also don’t play 🥰🥰🥰 and he knows that 😊😊😂
I’ve been following you for quite some time and I’m Loving these new content! Hunny upgradeddddd the video quality. Thank you for this video. Needed to hear this video todau
Learned this the hard way and lost the love of my life because I overgave and he got bored of me. Looking back his biggest compliment was I was “such a nice person.” And that’s not what I wanted. He dumped me blindsidingly after 3 years. We’ve been no contact since July and I just want him to come back but I don’t think he will. My silence doesn’t seem to mean anything to him. I’m mad. I’m so mad I was so nice. It made him bored of me or something. He doesn’t even seem to miss me.
@Iloveorliandwicked i wouldn't be so mad at yourself. He just wasn't into you. Had nothing to do with how nice or not nice you were had everything to do with him just wanting different. There is nothing wrong with that. it doesn't mean there is anything wrong with you or that you did anything wrong. It simply means you two were not on the same page. Never change yourself for a man or for anyone. You'll know you have found the one when you can be exactly who you are and it's appreciated fully good bad and ugly.. But...until you find that unconditional love from someone else you first have to find it in yourself. And from you being mad for being yourself well it means you haven't started the journey of self-love to attain love from others so get to work. Love yourself like you love others. Appreciate who you are first..remember you are a mirror that reflects how you feel about yourself to others and that shows through the strongest no matter how nice you are.
@ @appreciate the kind words but I was able to be exactly who I was and he was very into me. He loved me. We got through some pretty tough and amazing things together, good bad and ugly of each other. We were together years. He’s got dismissive avoidant attachment style and there were a lot of outside factors that seemed to influence his abrupt decision.
I’m kind - but not nice lol. This is great advice. You have your learn when to ebb and when to flow 🎯 teach people how to treat you but matching masculine energy repeatedly is not the answer ❤️
There are boundaries and there are games! Anything other than authenticity can’t be sustained! Men who need you to be difficult or need obstacles are not regulated or imbalanced! No here for the “damsel in distress “ narrative. I’m not masculine but I’m not weak minded and won’t pretend to be.
A few days ago I had a date with a guy and he said that something about my attitude having kind of like bad temper and I was laughing while being surprised and he added that if I wasn't the way I am and was too nice he wouldn't have wanted to spend time with me. He said I love your temper. 😅
I am new here I am very in awe with your intelligence,, Very grateful for your insight which is powerful The intricacies are on point. I really love your articulation of the information provided for us , will be implementing when I get back into the dating scene .💯💕💕💕
You have more feminine energy than me 😂 ...This is great advice but for me being the nice girl with high standards is not an award but my attitude. But I love your video! Great video, greets
Dam. This was very high quality info! Thank you! (Just found this channel). Really takes balls and confidence to pull off every tip you gave but ill definitely try. Also, something you said really hit me as a wake up moment - i try and be aware of not emmasculating men but in the ways i knew of....i definitely "argue" (meaning rxplaining and digging in- not yelling etc) But .....youre right...i completely annihilate them. I could tell by their face and their energy they feel emasculated by me and men are intimated by me but i could never figure out why since i try to be respectful ....i think this may be it 😅😭🥴
It’s a powerful shift when you start to see how your energy impacts men, and then learn to adjust it in a way that allows them to step up as leaders. It can be a real wake-up call, but it’s a good one!
Thanks for the advice, but I don’t want to be with a narcissist that won’t appreciate me unless I manipulate him. Spiritually and mentally evolved men just want someone respectful they can trust.
It's not being difficult per se .... Much of what women are taught is nice is actually being a doormat. Anytime you allow something to slide that you don't like it when you are always helping people and being overly supportive, that is not nice. You can be kind and have limits.
That’s one perspective, but another perspective is that masculine and feminine energy operate very differently. Therefore, you get far better results out of masculine energy if you operate in a way that inspires them to give you what you want.
I have applied a lot of tips and advice from your videos into my dating life and it works. It works so well that I got married within 6 months of us dating. ❤
That's amazing! I'm so happy for you! ❤❤❤❤
Love that for you!! ❤
This is very informative and congratulations to u !I will follow and see what happens ❤
Congratulations! ❤️ 🎊 👏🏾
Congratulations
Im sorry but dating men at this point is very exhausting…. The fact that they like when you’re mean to them says a lot about who they really are. Men also think all women like bad boys which is weird because they wear a good guy mask in the beginning….
Yup but then they go after mean or uncaring, or promiscuous women then play the victim. THEY don't like nice girls.
He’s not describing your man or mine… I do this psycho babble mind play.
Either he comes healed and whole or leave me alone.
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All we need to do is match his effort, smile be pleasant and pay attention
keep our boundaries and have a nice personal routine that we don’t break for anyone… that’s our self care routine.
If he doesn’t plan date then keep his word then he naturally will have to plan another date around our natural weekly routine.
❤🎉
If you say “my plans are scheduled a week in advance and I’ll let you know” he will know you are playing games and if he’s smart he will move on
Because you I said you know what your week look like and could have said “I’m not available again until next week Sunday after 2pm. Let me know by this Wednesday
Either he re plan and by Wednesday or he just won’t see me and eventually he’s just not that into me and has many other potential ppl to date which is great and he can move on.
It is twisted. I agree. Nice vs people pleasing don’t always go hand in hand. Nice and kind also differ. So I think it’s better to inhibit kindness in the way you move in the world. Speak kindly and direct when necessary.
I listened AND applied your ENTIRE feminine energy series and I’m married now. He put a ring on it and he still chases this 🐈 every single day. Lissen sis! 💖
I'm so happy for you! It's truly amazing to see how these principles work in real life. 💖
You go girl. 🎉congratulations
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Great advice.
I just think as a woman it's so so so sad I have to treat a man like a boy to get results....its so tiring it's just easier to stay single and pour the love and understanding into myself.
I can not raise a grown man. 😢
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100%
Right! I’m a teacher and this is exactly how I deal with misbehavior. I’m repulsed.
All these games. Some men are so exhausting. I would rather be alone and happy.
Me too. Enjoying my peace and career.
When you are too nice it sends the message that you are desperate and afraid of losing him, you're operating from fear and it shows. When you are secure in yourself, you're not afraid of asking for what you want and be unapologetic in who you are. Be a little selfish, have confidence in what you bring to the relationship, don't be overextending for a guy and don't accept everything. Have a clear list of the things you're looking for and have clear boundaries.
I was nice and I’m married. Don’t pay bills or anything! If someone wants you, they will treat you well. If they don’t, then they will treat you poorly. It’s up to you on what you allow. Definitely shouldn’t want someone that you have to be a B to get, that will wear off quickly
❤❤❤ Ty for this!
Thank you
"The more you want him, the more challenging you need to be!"
Like my grandma used to say to me about how her 50+ year marriage lasted so long with my grandpa: the worst you treat him the more he like it.
Exactly 💯
Yesss mam. Spot on so crazy grandma always right 😅🤣
You are 100% correct and really this applies to any relationship. I am an auntie (40+). Much of what we think is nice behavior is doormat behavior. Society encourages, your family encourages it. People want you to give them their way in general. When you can be honest with yourself about what you are willing to do and deal with you benefit. A lot of the time we think we are nice when we are "supportive" or "helpful". Men dont need our help and support is just believing in them. They dont NEED what we as women/feminine beings, do. I can promise that any woman getting mistreated has zero boundaries and prides herself on being nice. Because we are taught that boundaries are mean. Its a childish way of thinking, like getting mad at your parents when you were little, but most adults never grow out of that.
Very interesting points you made
And if you are too nice they think you are like that with any and every man. So being cordial is proper it is a big difference
It's asinine, really 😵💫
This should work for everybody. Even at workplace and at home. Don't let anyone walk all over you.
i was told by a man that men need to be trained. They have to be taught how to treat you. This means to be direct, firm, and reward when they get it right because it reaffirms their ego. Trust if he is emotionally invested in you it works. Be kind, nuturing and loving not nice. There was a time when nice meant ignorant and some men still want a woman who is "sugar and spice but all things nice"
Great video, A month ago, my five-year relationship came to an end. I really can't stop thinking about the love of my life, who made the decision to leave me. I've done everything in my power to win him back, but it's all in vain, and I can't imagine my life with anyone else. I genuinely miss him and just can't stop thinking about him, even though I've tried my hardest to stop thinking about him. I'm not sure why I'm saying this here.
Interesting! How did you locate a spiritual counsellor, and how can I get in touch with him most effectively?
Interesting! How did you locate a spiritual counsellor, and how can I get in touch with him most effectively?
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive
Wow I just looked Father Obah Eze on the net he’s very legit thanks once again ❤
I'm so sorry to hear about your breakup. It's never easy to let go, especially when you've invested so much time and love into a relationship.
@@MJHarrisSpeaksit's a bot. I've seen this on another video. Exact same message.
Love this video - it's so spot-on!!! Holding your partner accountable, and having boundaries, is extremely important... and as you said, so is affirming him and reinforcing him (with love/affection + words of affirmation) when he does a great job with this. I'm baffled at people who have commented that it's having to "treat your man like a child" or "raise him." Quite the contrary - this is treating him like a mature adult. I expect the same, in my other non-romantic relationships.
It's about mutual respect and understanding, and it's great that you recognize that!
So glad you’re back to making these types of videos ❤❤
I'm so glad you're enjoying the content!
Nice woman allows growth. Mean and controlling woman limit you and blocks gains. A nice woman is a blessing.
I think you’re right about the value of a “nice” woman. But being a nice woman doesn’t mean being a doormat. And, that’s what this videos about: encouraging women to have boundaries and not be a doormat. It’s not encouraging them to be mean.
Nah. Nice women get played.
Y'all don't know what to do with a sweet woman 😂
Amen
No they dont@@ThePinkPantha21
MJ please more videos like this on relationships!!! Ur the Best!!!💖🔥
Now this is the MJ Harris I know. I used to binge watch your femininity and love videos in 2020 and now I’m back. I love your advices and they help in relationships and work. Xx happy holidays❤. Sending love from Jamaica 🇯🇲
Thanks for the support! Glad you're back and still finding my advice helpful. ❤
That’s right! Stay unbothered ❤
Thanks for sending me this link I really needed this information
I'm glad you found it helpful! ❤
I dealt with this guy for years, we we were friend's with benefits. I put up with everything.
He came over one day with all his snacks. I asked what did you get me he said nothing. I said ok, the next time you come over ask if I want something.
He came over, didnt bring me anything.
I wouldnt let him in. Didnt respond to text or calls for awhile. He never did that again. We latered ended up dating and in a relationship. He always took care of me.
It’s awesome that you found your power and set that boundary!
Wow.. Thanks for sharing your experience. It's a learning for me... We teach people how to treat you.. I was always single never understood relationship psychology... I was over giving always sacrificing
This is true. The meaner you are the more they follow you. Idk why! I have a guy who wants me even if I say leave me alone and low key I like him.
I like how you clarify at the end of the video that this is NOT intended to manipulate men. It’s speak to your character and the intention behind your videos. Thank you! 💙💙💙
It’s so important to make that clear, and I appreciate you recognizing it! 💙
I was just telling a friend this today. I also used to be too nice and I got the life drained out of me.
Honey you have skills !! I love your style and classy ways, for sure I can learn a lot !! 🥰
Thank you! I'm glad you enjoy the style of my videos. 😊
MJ Harris been giving good advice for yearsssssss
Thank you MJ, but I’m already exhausted just thinking about doing all this 😓
It takes work, but it's worth it! You're worth the effort. 💕
I needed to listen to this
I was too nice, he trampled me and broke my heart then expected forgiveness becasue he knew how much i adored him, i didnt want to hide it, i feel like the workd knew how much i loved him, then he betryayed me 😮 dumped his ass quick, our baby was just 2 months old 😢 he absolutely tore me to shreds emotionally and for what ? Because i was "too nice" nonetheless ive learnt my lesson, never give too much / more than you are willing to lose x
You always come at the right time! I have fell off and haven’t seen your videos in soo long !! I have been going through something so bad and not eating in 3 days and your video came as a suggestion ! Soo grateful I’m back on track now and need this. What sucks is the dude wasn’t the greatest catch yet I got played
I'm so glad this video came at the right time for you! You're a powerful woman, and you deserve someone who sees that.
@ so grateful you replied to my comment! Needed this so bad! Thank you so very much
Why can't you just be your self
Because they get bored when you're too nice🤷♀️
You CAN be yourself. But whenever they do something you don't approve of, don't be afraid to show it, and tell them. Men appreciate correction, and love praise when they do something right ✅️
You can. From what I have observed, he's right. My Mom has a man devoted to her and our family and she does anything she wants. She has him super trained. My Mom's sisters are very over accommodating and their men strung them along and did any and everything for 30 years just to leave them high and dry after they spent their youth with them.
You can, but the key is to find a man who feels you are out of their league. Find a man you're not that attracted to and you'll naturally be a challenge
@@andrealustig3547😊 interesting approach. Thank you for this knowledge!
If I have to do all this thinking for both OF US... I'll just chill...because it's too much just to get appreciation and consideration from a partner.
Happy Holidays!! This is good!! Thanks for sharing 🥰
Wishing you happy holidays too! 😊
I have been married for 18 years and I promise this is true ❤❤❤ learn to be balanced. I’m sweet and kind but I also don’t play 🥰🥰🥰 and he knows that 😊😊😂
This! ❤❤❤
I’ve been following you for quite some time and I’m Loving these new content! Hunny upgradeddddd the video quality.
Thank you for this video. Needed to hear this video todau
Thanks for watching! I'm glad it resonated with you. 💕
I absolutely love this video and needed this!
Learned this the hard way and lost the love of my life because I overgave and he got bored of me. Looking back his biggest compliment was I was “such a nice person.” And that’s not what I wanted.
He dumped me blindsidingly after 3 years.
We’ve been no contact since July and I just want him to come back but I don’t think he will. My silence doesn’t seem to mean anything to him.
I’m mad. I’m so mad I was so nice. It made him bored of me or something. He doesn’t even seem to miss me.
@Iloveorliandwicked i wouldn't be so mad at yourself. He just wasn't into you. Had nothing to do with how nice or not nice you were had everything to do with him just wanting different. There is nothing wrong with that. it doesn't mean there is anything wrong with you or that you did anything wrong. It simply means you two were not on the same page.
Never change yourself for a man or for anyone. You'll know you have found the one when you can be exactly who you are and it's appreciated fully good bad and ugly.. But...until you find that unconditional love from someone else you first have to find it in yourself. And from you being mad for being yourself well it means you haven't started the journey of self-love to attain love from others so get to work. Love yourself like you love others. Appreciate who you are first..remember you are a mirror that reflects how you feel about yourself to others and that shows through the strongest no matter how nice you are.
@ @appreciate the kind words but I was able to be exactly who I was and he was very into me. He loved me. We got through some pretty tough and amazing things together, good bad and ugly of each other. We were together years. He’s got dismissive avoidant attachment style and there were a lot of outside factors that seemed to influence his abrupt decision.
@Iloveorliandwicked well hey I'm glad you see his decision was more of a him thing and not a you thing.
The last time I saw one of your videos you had a bald head. Love the new look . Great advice as usual ❤
New season and new look! 😂Thanks so much! I'm glad you're enjoying the new look and the advice! ❤❤❤
This was amazing 🎉🎉...
I’m kind - but not nice lol. This is great advice. You have your learn when to ebb and when to flow 🎯 teach people how to treat you but matching masculine energy repeatedly is not the answer ❤️
You are so right! It's about knowing your worth and setting boundaries. 💕
I loved this video- the speed, the tone, and of course the reminders of the inescapable facts about relating with a man.
I'm glad you found it helpful! It's powerful to be aware of these dynamics!
Thank you for this!
I learned the hard way.
MERRY CHRISTMAS MJ DEAR FRIEND!!!❤❤❤
Merry Christmas to you too! ❤
This advice is EVERYTHING! Thank you darling 😘 🎉
This is very true. very good Teaching!❤❤
I'm glad you found it helpful! 💕
This is great advice. Thanks.😊
I love your videos because they are well rounded and straightforward to comprehend
Boundaries are so important ❤
Mj your looking great love your hair have a great HOLIDAY your the best. Always on point truth spoken.😊❤🌲🌲❤️
Thanks so much! I appreciate your kind words and I'm wishing you a wonderful holiday season as well!
This makes a lot of sense, Thanks
Am so tired of the games people play!!! Wish people would grow the F up!!
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Thank you MJ for all your relationship advice.
U r such a precious being. Thank you for this video
This video is a gem! 💎 Thanks to you I understand that I got the being difficult part right, but I’m lacking in the rewards department
MJ is back with gold 💎💎🔥🔥
Yaasss!! Needed it so much! Thanksss
💯🎯 I just learned in my last relationship that I’m doing it all wrong.
There are boundaries and there are games! Anything other than authenticity can’t be sustained! Men who need you to be difficult or need obstacles are not regulated or imbalanced! No here for the “damsel in distress “ narrative. I’m not masculine but I’m not weak minded and won’t pretend to be.
You are absolutely right! This video is about empowered feminine energy, not playing games or being inauthentic.
Well said! Thank you ☺️
You're welcome! I'm glad you found it helpful.
I've missed you MJ!😢
Thanks a lot❤ that was great video😊
You're welcome! I'm glad you found it helpful. 😊
I agree, I'm a nice girl, sweet, kind, and they leave you. They instead want those girls who don't give a dang, they cheat and are rude 😂😂😂
Thank you for this, MJ!! 🩷🩷🩷
I'm glad you found it helpful! 🩷
Thank you so much!! I'm learning!!❤❤❤
I'm so glad you're finding it helpful! 😊
“What is the guidebook for dealing with you” YES 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 oooooo that’s a good one.
Thank you❤❤❤❤❤❤
I could not click on this video fast enough! I’ve always been too nice and you are absolutely right.
It's a powerful shift when you start to see how your energy impacts men and learn to adjust it.
A few days ago I had a date with a guy and he said that something about my attitude having kind of like bad temper and I was laughing while being surprised and he added that if I wasn't the way I am and was too nice he wouldn't have wanted to spend time with me. He said I love your temper. 😅
Love your hair like this!❤
I appreciate that! 💕
I am new here I am very in awe with your intelligence,, Very grateful for your insight which is powerful The intricacies are on point. I really love your articulation of the information provided for us , will be implementing when I get back into the dating scene .💯💕💕💕
Thank you for the kind words! I'm glad you found the information valuable.
Thoroughly enjoyed Thank You
Now I'm not nice and don't want them.
They want what they can’t have ❤
Men like women who don't like them
Omg 😳 this hair color and hair cut took you back into look like a teenager - I was like who is this kid lol - I love it
You are amazing, MJ. Your advice is always the best. Thank you, darling )
Great advice
I go through phases where I over function and when I go sit the hell down 😂 works okay for me
I love this thank you !!!
You're welcome! I'm glad you found it helpful!
Wonderful vídeo and advices my dear thank you 🙏✨❤️🙏✨
You're welcome! I'm so glad you found it helpful. ✨
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You have more feminine energy than me 😂 ...This is great advice but for me being the nice girl with high standards is not an award but my attitude. But I love your video! Great video, greets
Dam. This was very high quality info! Thank you! (Just found this channel). Really takes balls and confidence to pull off every tip you gave but ill definitely try. Also, something you said really hit me as a wake up moment - i try and be aware of not emmasculating men but in the ways i knew of....i definitely "argue" (meaning rxplaining and digging in- not yelling etc)
But .....youre right...i completely annihilate them. I could tell by their face and their energy they feel emasculated by me and men are intimated by me but i could never figure out why since i try to be respectful ....i think this may be it 😅😭🥴
It’s a powerful shift when you start to see how your energy impacts men, and then learn to adjust it in a way that allows them to step up as leaders. It can be a real wake-up call, but it’s a good one!
Thank you 💜
I'm glad you found it helpful! 💜
Thanks for the tips
You're welcome! I'm glad you found them helpful.
Love this vid this is real facts ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Arrived at the perfect timing
Thank you for you great videos. I have been following you for years. 😊
Thanks for your continued support! I appreciate it. 😊
Sitting! 💜
Thanks for the advice, but I don’t want to be with a narcissist that won’t appreciate me unless I manipulate him. Spiritually and mentally evolved men just want someone respectful they can trust.
I don’t know how to be difficult. I always be nice girl.
It's not being difficult per se .... Much of what women are taught is nice is actually being a doormat. Anytime you allow something to slide that you don't like it when you are always helping people and being overly supportive, that is not nice. You can be kind and have limits.
Missed you ❤ thank u, as a mas guy i can use more fem energy
Glad this resonated with you! I think we all have a little feminine energy inside us! 😉
The look at 11:55! 😂👏🏼
Too many games. Too many logistics.
That’s one perspective, but another perspective is that masculine and feminine energy operate very differently. Therefore, you get far better results out of masculine energy if you operate in a way that inspires them to give you what you want.
Haven’t seen your beautiful face in a couple years love to see it Merry Christmas❤❤
I just really love you ❤😊 merry Christmas
Thank you! Merry Christmas to you too! 😊
Hey MJ
AMAZINGGGG MJ you’re great ❤thank you boooo
ive been told im a handful so i think im on the right path
Psychology ✨
PEOPLE ARE CRAZY...
I DON'T LIVE TO PLEASE MEN"...I HAVE MY OWN LIFE OF INTERGRITY...😊