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  • @cosmicK9786
    @cosmicK9786 Год назад +225

    The defendant wants to marry a woman who is a known racist, and flirts with everyone let him tell it.. doesn’t seem like he loves himself at all

    • @reneerenee5073
      @reneerenee5073 Год назад +31

      Rampant here in California 😬

    • @ShayBoogie44
      @ShayBoogie44 Год назад +34

      Their self hate overrides everything else.

    • @misterbee66
      @misterbee66 Год назад +13

      How is she racist?

    • @meeksluvspink9047
      @meeksluvspink9047 Год назад +10

      ​@Renee Renee Facts! I live in California too. So true.

    • @cosmicK9786
      @cosmicK9786 Год назад

      @@misterbee66 she clowns her biracial child for being half black.. I think that’s pretty racist and extremely harmful for a multiracial child to have to hear… that’s why black people need to marry black people imo.

  • @Lilyrose23
    @Lilyrose23 Год назад +59

    Some black men are obsessed with skin color and it's sad and damaging to our race. They'll date lighter skin women (white, Asian, Hispanic or mixed as long lighter than them) just to complain that their children are light like the mothers. They can't see past a woman's skin complexion. As a result, they'll hate on black women (esp dark like them or darker) and they'll accept anything from lighter women because they're so insecure. It's sad, they'll even put up with racism because they attract those women

    • @TyWerks
      @TyWerks Год назад +5

      this is true in a lot of ways and that's because dark skin men go through lot of hate growing up, turns to self hate

    • @ReneeR877
      @ReneeR877 Год назад +11

      ​@@TyWerks Dark skin women go the same.

    • @TyWerks
      @TyWerks Год назад +3

      @@ReneeR877 I definitely agree with you

    • @sidel3080
      @sidel3080 Год назад

      Facts! I’ve seen a lot of black men put up with things from non-black women that they would never settle for with a black woman. They’re all delusional & desperate for the non-black woman’s attention. It’s sad, but I can understand because the world puts every other race on a higher pedestal than black women and black men fall for it.

    • @Alesana907
      @Alesana907 Год назад

      That's just typical black male pathology

  • @MzPrettyDimplez
    @MzPrettyDimplez Год назад +92

    He's madly in love with her, while she seems like she's just tolerating him

    • @cunit101200288
      @cunit101200288 Год назад +2

      You dont even know how people feel about you how you reading a situation

    • @MzPrettyDimplez
      @MzPrettyDimplez Год назад +8

      @C Jamison I know how ppl feel about me, the good and the bad. Stevie wonder can see this is a lopsided relationship

    • @sherriwhite4960
      @sherriwhite4960 Год назад +2

      She's probably just over his sh☆t 😅

    • @jasonwhitfield6161
      @jasonwhitfield6161 Год назад +1

      ​@@sherriwhite4960 over what? She can't even name anything he's doing wrong

    • @theredwhoop9372
      @theredwhoop9372 Год назад

      A man should never fall in love with a female

  • @Elijahhuey2015
    @Elijahhuey2015 Год назад +93

    It’s amazing what blk men will put up with from women of other races, but will totally belittle blk women for

    • @cushe83
      @cushe83 Год назад +14

      I’m a black man and it is embarrassing. Just let them take all the men that will fail you on the back end . You see she still wound up on judge Mathis getting denied paternity so the grass wasn’t greener.

    • @TeePalmer
      @TeePalmer Год назад +2

      Exactly!!!!

    • @MPPharaoh
      @MPPharaoh Год назад +1

      For real tho

    • @godizself1
      @godizself1 Год назад +1

      💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

    • @theredwhoop9372
      @theredwhoop9372 Год назад

      ​@@cushe83 ni##a stop being goofy

  • @trenayey.5584
    @trenayey.5584 Год назад +61

    Lol we’re supposed to believe that she suddenly began using racist terms AFTER the baby was born? Please.

    • @brianal7143
      @brianal7143 Год назад +16

      He already knew, he's where he wants to be. In the sunken place

  • @KAWTELENUH
    @KAWTELENUH Год назад +81

    She taking advantage of him. She know she have him wrapped around her finger. She not scared to lose him at all

  • @malakiyahamari8448
    @malakiyahamari8448 Год назад +28

    What gets me is she never ONCE say she never slept with another man. Forget all that side talk.

  • @CinnamonTwist0204
    @CinnamonTwist0204 Год назад +23

    It is inappropriate to call your coworkers baby, honey, boo....etc. I've heard of female coworkers calling all the male workers; her husband; knowing most of her male co-workers are dating or married. Disrespectful !

    • @Author_SoftwareDesigner
      @Author_SoftwareDesigner Год назад +2

      Facts. Don't call me honey or boo. I tell them I prefer they don't call me that and they get quite upset.

    • @godizself1
      @godizself1 Год назад +4

      Technically it's sexual harassment in the workplace if any gent decides to report it. But she'll flip it and blame the guy.

  • @TiffIsMe
    @TiffIsMe Год назад +86

    I guess I’ve NEVER been in love b/c I’ve never been with ANYONE whose toothbrush I’d put against MY pearly whites 😏 😂

    • @velocityofgenerosity
      @velocityofgenerosity Год назад +7

      EVER! that's disgusting!

    • @NubianP6
      @NubianP6 Год назад +5

      I was married for 20 years, and believe me, neither of us EVER considered doing that! 🤢🤢🤢

    • @kerrywhite5253
      @kerrywhite5253 Год назад

      The way my mouth smells in the a.m. I would never put that on someone's else brush. 😂 We don't have to love that hard.😂

    • @yontine
      @yontine Год назад +1

      No that’s called disgusting 🤮

    • @iKnowYouKnow...
      @iKnowYouKnow... Год назад

      @Butterfly, @Yontine Coleman, and @NubianP6... What's Wrong With Being Oral ??? 🤣

  • @LeBrownGuy
    @LeBrownGuy Год назад +36

    At 1 month old I was white, straight hair and blue eyes. No I am brown, hazel eyes and really curly hair. Color curls will kick in hard after a few months to a year.

  • @nyeaileen
    @nyeaileen Год назад +24

    “YOU LOST ME THERE!!!!”😂😂😂😂

  • @esh5168
    @esh5168 Год назад +14

    Did JM tell this man his pockets was light 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @thedopemom7697
    @thedopemom7697 Год назад +22

    I’m never gonna understand how a woman can continue to date a man who denies their child? That makes no sense at all!!

  • @KimSoMe00
    @KimSoMe00 Год назад +83

    He’s a very nice looking young man. I hope he finds someone who loves him and will appreciate him.

    • @1234pixy1
      @1234pixy1 Год назад +19

      He is right where he wants to be.... with his preference... who will continue to dig him out. He's a clown so he'll continue to live in the 🎪

    • @mrshappilymarried1
      @mrshappilymarried1 Год назад

      He's a Simp and he needs to stay right where he is. He's embarrassing himself and she's unbothered.

    • @htntd2418
      @htntd2418 Год назад +3

      @@1234pixy1 facts! He like it

    • @Author_SoftwareDesigner
      @Author_SoftwareDesigner Год назад +2

      ​@@1234pixy1 lol sounds like somebody has been listening to Cynthia G 😂😂

    • @brunolader8586
      @brunolader8586 Год назад

      i swear man i was gonna say the same thing.😅😅​@@Author_SoftwareDesigner

  • @PutGOD1st-h7d
    @PutGOD1st-h7d Год назад +8

    He needs to grow some 🏀🏀s. He’s with a racist who doesn’t respect or love him. But he’s convinced that the toothbrush incident means she loves him 😂😂😂. What a joke!!

  • @gongzilla527
    @gongzilla527 Год назад +15

    For the first time in Judge Mathis paternity episode I prayed the man was not the father. That woman is going to send up that man's blood pressure.😂 he needs to run. She's for the streets!!

    • @queenflowers2009
      @queenflowers2009 Год назад +1

      Exactly

    • @sidel3080
      @sidel3080 Год назад +1

      I normally don’t hope someone isn’t the father besides in this case either!
      She’s going to drive him insane!

  • @bertoliu7
    @bertoliu7 Год назад +52

    That guy is just insecure and may have low self esteem.

    • @opulence_prime
      @opulence_prime Год назад +3

      He’s less than smart too.

    • @bertoliu7
      @bertoliu7 Год назад +1

      @Opulence_Prime He also should know about other cultures if he married a hispanic girl. Most latinas treat people nice and it doesn't mean they are sleeping with them.

  • @kakishisfriend1126
    @kakishisfriend1126 Год назад +65

    Lol we wouldnt be engaged anymore if theres no trust in the relatioship

  • @richardwilson7207
    @richardwilson7207 Год назад +10

    This guy has low self esteem, he should have been left that relationship, she is sooo disrespectful and on top of that doesn't even wear her ring, who cares that the baby is his, they could co-parent, but I think he can do better woman and relationship wise..

    • @Anjhol73
      @Anjhol73 Год назад +2

      I agree. She doesn’t respect him enough to not call men boo and baby and not wear her ring. It’s like she loves attention from other men and wants to keep her options open

    • @richardwilson7207
      @richardwilson7207 Год назад

      @@Anjhol73 Right💯

  • @opulence_prime
    @opulence_prime Год назад +17

    She said she feels suffocated and admitted proudly she don’t wear her ring. She wants space to be free. Brother, she don’t want you and after that shallow toothbrush comment I understand why. He don’t know what love *is.

  • @mrveee12
    @mrveee12 Год назад +7

    That brother is lost, no self-esteem whatsoever

  • @bing7play
    @bing7play Год назад +2

    She doesn't wear her ring, she has pet names for men co-workers, calls her boss boo😂, red flags

  • @otn2664
    @otn2664 Год назад +2

    Judge trying so hard to not say the obvious when he heard dude wife been calling his boss boo 😂😂😂

  • @Nursecarter115
    @Nursecarter115 Год назад +14

    He was saying caca(poop) in Spanish and judge Mathis thought he was saying cockeyed😂

    • @sidel3080
      @sidel3080 Год назад

      I was trying to figure out what he was saying!!

  • @sheilasembly-crum8447
    @sheilasembly-crum8447 Год назад +8

    They appear to be two clueless parents. Poor baby

  • @TheCinComedy
    @TheCinComedy Год назад +17

    This was probably the only case/episode i'd say was bad. Judge Mathis asked the same questions for 15 minutes straight

    • @thedopemom7697
      @thedopemom7697 Год назад +1

      He definitely dragged this one for too long

  • @thepisceanleo8677
    @thepisceanleo8677 Год назад +2

    He definitely not a "A Boss".😂😂😂

  • @supersaturn956
    @supersaturn956 Год назад +35

    We put others above our own and put up with disrespect more from others than with each other.

    • @sereneamani1713
      @sereneamani1713 Год назад +5

      ? "We", "our own". I have stopped identifying with people based on genetics alone. I have definitely stopped identifying with silly people.

    • @KayTheAuthor
      @KayTheAuthor Год назад +1

      ​@@sereneamani1713 This part!!!!!!

    • @MiguelDLewis
      @MiguelDLewis Год назад

      If you not a follower of Messiah, you not my own. 🙏🏾✝🕎

  • @alexestrada884
    @alexestrada884 Год назад +2

    Someone said them glasses ain’t got lenses 😡😡

  • @POOHGZY1978
    @POOHGZY1978 Год назад +4

    Judge got speechless for a moment🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @tiffyq7794
    @tiffyq7794 Год назад +33

    Judge Mathis basically told this woman she was “mid” and tried to walk it back. These ig models don’t even look like the pics they post, find it weird men would compare regular women to them.

    • @KAWTELENUH
      @KAWTELENUH Год назад +2

      She got a friendly kitty too lol😻

    • @opulence_prime
      @opulence_prime Год назад +3

      😅 not really. But he did forget to mention these IG models will take a broke man’s money. He was trying to shame the dude out of engaging with them. The plaintiff might be mid but she was still running circles round dude intellectually.

  • @classylil05
    @classylil05 Год назад +10

    💩 color eyes? Why would she say that 😡?
    Yeah that’s a bit…nah. Girl, bye. His kid or not, who says that about their own kid when you could easily just say they have dark brown eyes. That’s where she lost me.

    • @justcallmemoody
      @justcallmemoody Год назад

      She’s weird af with that colorist anti black bs

  • @Brialouiseee
    @Brialouiseee Год назад +2

    I’m convinced the judge be knowing the results before he says it now. Lol

  • @jasonavila9531
    @jasonavila9531 Год назад +1

    From a curly hair brotha to another… I would be careful using that toothbrush 😅 and ma’am please learn your employees names…

  • @sidel3080
    @sidel3080 Год назад +14

    I don’t feel sorry for him. He is clearly delusional. He cannot express how she loves him besides her trying to use his toothbrush, which is nasty. She doesn’t wear her wedding ring, she flirts with other guys, she doesn’t answer her phone when he calls. That doesn’t sound like love to me. He’s only in love with the sight of her. I don’t see the relationship going anywhere but down the drain. The child is only a month old and he’s arguing with her about the child’s skin complexion. Children normally don’t get their permanent skin complexion until they’re 2 years old.

  • @Subliminalmessage78
    @Subliminalmessage78 Год назад +2

    They both seem immature a bit. 🥴

  • @rpcrealpeopleconsulting6324
    @rpcrealpeopleconsulting6324 Год назад +2

    She look old.... and he is her confidence 😅😅😅😅

  • @ddavis8988
    @ddavis8988 Год назад +13

    I just think they wanted a free paternity test

  • @Amber2divine
    @Amber2divine Год назад +2

    This man is so insecure..why tolerating her b.s

  • @jojo__22
    @jojo__22 Год назад +4

    Stay far away from women like this. She got no logic behind anything. Let me see one text callin another man bae u aint seeing me again

  • @BigBecky25
    @BigBecky25 Год назад +1

    He should be glad she looked at him twice

  • @molisnia
    @molisnia Год назад +3

    OMG... he's so weak🙄

  • @lletab
    @lletab Год назад +7

    Men should always get paternity tests. Always just for 100% clarity.

  • @reneerenee5073
    @reneerenee5073 Год назад +6

    Defendants name is backwards 🤭🤭

  • @charlessantee8329
    @charlessantee8329 Год назад +4

    You are the father "Maury Povich'" lol😁😁😁😁

  • @onceuponasavage
    @onceuponasavage Год назад +1

    Brotha needs some new glasses if he doesn’t see all these red flags 🚩 🤦🏾‍♂️

  • @alexestrada884
    @alexestrada884 Год назад +3

    Someone ate all their brisket

  • @terrycooper3903
    @terrycooper3903 Год назад +2

    Lmaooo my boi said I don’t think so the hair too straight. We got curly hair yunno, well when I had it 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @Alesana907
      @Alesana907 Год назад

      I don't get why people have children especially outside of your race while being so ill informed. They expect to procreate with someone that has a phenotype that's completely opposite of them and have the child be a spitting image of them. The delusion runs deep

  • @molisnia
    @molisnia Год назад +3

    Dude, move on....I love her she wants to use my toothbrush...pathetic🙄

  • @pookulj
    @pookulj Год назад +2

    I've learned early in my marriage to never talk to another man better than my husband.

  • @traviscooper3848
    @traviscooper3848 Год назад +4

    Crazy that ppl have a problem with the whole toothbrush thing but don't have a problem with putting ur mouth on genitals 😂🤔

    • @tiarahhorne7353
      @tiarahhorne7353 Год назад

      Because that's a sexual thing..using someone's toothbrush is a bit much tho,all that leftover food in your teeth an everything..just ewww🤮🤮

    • @traviscooper3848
      @traviscooper3848 Год назад

      @@tiarahhorne7353 lol I'd rather have leftover food than leftover babies on my breath 😁

    • @quentinjones6877
      @quentinjones6877 Год назад

      Genitals where you pee from at that lol

  • @sergiodeharo5440
    @sergiodeharo5440 Год назад +1

    He came to my house and took three plates to go!!! Arrest this man!!!!

  • @BigBecky25
    @BigBecky25 Год назад +1

    Defendant talks too much that would get on my nerves!!!

  • @EBMSCHOLARS
    @EBMSCHOLARS Год назад +1

    Who is calling us? 🤣🤣🤣

  • @tinapeterson-tatman9013
    @tinapeterson-tatman9013 Год назад +1

    I swear 🤦🏻‍♀️ people, when you’re having a child, do some damn research! Your child could come out looking NOTHING like either parent! Instead like a great grandmother on one side. The baby rarely looks like 50/50 from both parents. I have the shape of my moms eyes, other than that I take after my dads side. You can’t assume the baby isn’t yours because they don’t look like you. That’s just pure ignorance!

  • @K_Cole0128
    @K_Cole0128 Год назад +3

    They are too immature to be in a relationship. Both of em! She needs to pull herself together and quickly!

  • @ayedashh
    @ayedashh Год назад +2

    The white dude in the back was STRESSEDDDDDDDDDD 😂😂😂😂

  • @ariamarshall5161
    @ariamarshall5161 Год назад +1

    Sir??? 😂 I cannot even feel bad for him. && that’s nasty not love to share a toothbrush. WTH!

  • @dollarperlike4087
    @dollarperlike4087 Год назад +1

    You can’t compare MRS MATHIS to ol girl bro….got us brothers looking bad 🫣🤦🏽‍♂️

  • @Skinnyd4
    @Skinnyd4 Год назад +1

    My wife and I are almost 13 years married, but no - we do not share toothbrushes.

  • @chancest.thomas5160
    @chancest.thomas5160 Год назад

    "Met Him @ my place of Employment"
    'Nuff said.
    Lol @ "Toothbrush Nonsense"

  • @jblanding17
    @jblanding17 Год назад +1

    Of course she would say that

  • @Ron-ny9et
    @Ron-ny9et Год назад +1

    I KNOW HIM!!!! IN DALLAS HE KNOWN AS THE CUP BANDIT. HE STEALS BEER GLASSES FROM BARS!!!

  • @queenandcrown
    @queenandcrown Год назад +4

    Her eyes are a light caca.

  • @nyjahbrand1466
    @nyjahbrand1466 Год назад +1

    at this time the baby was only a month old, it looks like no one . 🙄they both sound childish. either way it go she’s sketchy, i wouldn’t be shocked if it came out later she was cheating

  • @NokiGirl83
    @NokiGirl83 Год назад +1

    I wouldn’t marry him or her! 😂

  • @jblanding17
    @jblanding17 Год назад +1

    He should not have another child with her this is a trap I feel

  • @BeautybyBleuScy
    @BeautybyBleuScy Год назад +20

    My daughter is 3/4 White and 1/4 Black and she looks exactly like my mother but her hair is wavy instead of curly. They are the same skin tone, the same eye color and their facial features are extremely similar, although I can see her dad in her face too. Imo she looks nothing like me as far as her facial features,which is ok. Genetics are crazy thing

    • @opulence_prime
      @opulence_prime Год назад +2

      Genetics aren’t crazy it’s science. Mixed or not you can look like your grandparents. We learned this in 7th grade biology.

    • @lulu-bp5qv
      @lulu-bp5qv Год назад +3

      Who gave you these percentages 😅😅😅😢😢😢😮

    • @mrshappilymarried1
      @mrshappilymarried1 Год назад

      3/4? 🙄 DNA determines features and genetics can go back several generations. Not to mention some genes are more Dominant.

    • @lulu-bp5qv
      @lulu-bp5qv Год назад

      @@mrshappilymarried1 who cares

    • @mrshappilymarried1
      @mrshappilymarried1 Год назад

      @@lulu-bp5qv you do

  • @Neural1986
    @Neural1986 Год назад +1

    Well... Doesn't look like he forgot a bag this time....

  • @clarkwinters8299
    @clarkwinters8299 Год назад +1

    He needs some self esteem and not tolerate this mess and realize he’s in lust not love . This is what happens when you mix races someone will say something stupid sooner or later especially when angry. She’s not a looker . Co parent and don’t marry this mess because he’s going to catch hell with her. She don’t respect him at all.

  • @Mrs.Adrian
    @Mrs.Adrian Год назад +1

    Now I’ve used my husbands toothbrush on accident…but we’re not actively sharing them

  • @christiana5552
    @christiana5552 Год назад +10

    What a waste of time 🙄

  • @khrisi9410
    @khrisi9410 Год назад

    He getting dragged & humiliated for elevating a mediocre Maria 😂

  • @cammyj35
    @cammyj35 Год назад +6

    dude should have said sorry humbly. Now you want to keep going after she had to PROVE herself to you. Why be with her? Yall be having marriage twisted!!!

  • @brennenjones6658
    @brennenjones6658 Год назад +4

    He was not talking about your wife's mouth Judge, lol. You misheard him.

  • @yungfresh726
    @yungfresh726 Год назад +6

    Im here for the drama lol

  • @dbizzle85
    @dbizzle85 Год назад +2

    My man needs to hit the gym and up his self esteem

  • @T33Z239
    @T33Z239 Год назад +1

    He deserves better stop settling for something like this

  • @jay-bd9rv
    @jay-bd9rv Год назад +3

    Yes, in the Caribbean we check the inner ear and the private parts to see what color the child is going to be... it's true

  • @DarlinReal
    @DarlinReal Год назад +2

    She needs to LEARN how and where to draw the line.

    • @novembrluv
      @novembrluv Год назад

      I’m sure she knows, but I don’t think she cares.

  • @ZEROHEROICS
    @ZEROHEROICS Год назад +2

    Weird, I actually know both of them. Small world i guess

  • @DanteFarmer-zg5kl
    @DanteFarmer-zg5kl Год назад

    This is classic example of people in relationships that shouldn't be. It seems like people just have to be with someone to exist, when in reality you'll never be happy with anyone until you get happy with you

  • @robertvalentine1904
    @robertvalentine1904 Год назад +1

    I been in his shoes a few times in my life.

  • @charlesmartinez2917
    @charlesmartinez2917 Год назад +5

    Only 5 minutes into the video, she's a cheater, no doubt

  • @nicholasminor3806
    @nicholasminor3806 Год назад +3

    After 5 mins of this episode she demonstrate that she’s a flirt , colorist and a liar. And you want to marry this….why? Take care of the kid and run.

  • @daimonmarioperez9501
    @daimonmarioperez9501 Год назад +1

    The Defendant is going by the tip of the ears. It takes a good 3- months or more for the baby's features to come in . Mow the mother calling her co-workers by these affectionate names. That's another story .

  • @blackamor6615
    @blackamor6615 Год назад +7

    JM is lit😂😂

  • @wharrington8587
    @wharrington8587 Год назад +1

    I look like both my grandmother's.

  • @CinnamonTwist0204
    @CinnamonTwist0204 Год назад +1

    Question to anyone willing to answer. Why is it; that some ppl think it is appropriate to call someone they work with; play husband or play wife; knowing they are married, dating, etc? Would anyone appreciate this type of bafoonery? Wife or Husband? GF/BF?

  • @jplaya2023
    @jplaya2023 Год назад +1

    Damn Detective Bryant done got his partner Veronica preggo while his son doing 25 to life. Damn

  • @bigredd4630
    @bigredd4630 Год назад +7

    He need to realize he need to received the love that he's giving ❤

  • @terrycooper3903
    @terrycooper3903 Год назад +1

    “Cockeyed!?” 😂😂😂😂 bro I’m dead

    • @Ricksmomie
      @Ricksmomie Год назад +1

      She actually said, "caca". Its a spanish term for shit/poop.

    • @terrycooper3903
      @terrycooper3903 Год назад

      I know what she said! It was Judge Mathis who said cockeyed.

  • @Faceless_Doubleton
    @Faceless_Doubleton Год назад +1

    I look nothing like my parents I look like my great great grandmother

  • @ayabulelabossplayernawule8528
    @ayabulelabossplayernawule8528 Год назад +2

    My Man is Simping a little bit,I understand you're trying to your relationship and all that,but man not this She's out of pocket with disrespect... never too late to let her go

  • @terrycooper3903
    @terrycooper3903 Год назад +1

    You gotta check that baby nose 😂😂😂

  • @PiscesIntuition11
    @PiscesIntuition11 Год назад +1

    It sounds like she might be into magick if she's using his toothbrush and such.

  • @islandgirlruby2750
    @islandgirlruby2750 Год назад +1

    Dude should have chosen better

  • @bellissimaluna
    @bellissimaluna Год назад

    lol the guy in the back 😂 6:36 🫣

  • @rob14roc
    @rob14roc Год назад +2

    Let your love and that bundle of joy be the foundation you build a life together on. Klein, marry the woman and leave your baggage at the door. Put God first 🙏🏽

  • @cxm1211
    @cxm1211 Год назад +1

    He is a handsome guy to me he could do better. She doesn’t seem like she want him.