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Ain't that the truth, these coaches be going hard for the females when it's actually the females who creates the bullshit that these coaches want men to SIMP TO💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
Alot of times unless they are attracted you or you have some leadership or lever they wont listen. This why typically its a waste of time unless your in a long term relationship
The number one thing is this .... You’ve got to have your shit together. And more important that has to translate into being able to offer a woman a better life than what she can offer herself on her own. That’s how you get her respect and without it every thing you say to her will fall on deaf ears regardless of what you say or how you say it Whether we want to admit it or not women in 2023 are more spoiled than ever and it has fed into an unbelievable sense of entitlement, ego and very little self accountability Most women aren’t capable of taking blame unless they had an unbelievable upbringing or they didn’t have pretty privilege. The only way to keep a woman in line and be accountable is for her to know that she has a good deal and she can lose it if she doesn’t correct her behavior
from my experience, the more they invest in you, the better it is with women long-term. If you offer too much (like most men these days do), she gets spoiled and bored over time. Let her buy you thngs, let her invest in you and she will respect you. Sure, you do have to have your stuff together, own your apartment and have your hobbies outside of her.
Women are spoiled cuz men allow her to get whatever she wants without requiring her to put in her effort. Every woman can submit but only to the man who she respects
Hey steph a girl hit me up on a dating app i asked her out and she gave me her number,1 st date went good,and for the next two weeks i initiated Everything,we where supposed to go out and i let her know to tell me on Saturday morning and she replied at 12:00 in the evening and asked to see me at 6 pm fast forward she made it 8 pm,i just called it off and called me a bailer,so i let her know she is in wrong and to have accountability i actually told her that i dont like it that i initiate everything and told her coldly she is fucking boring,and she went crazy on me 😂😂😂😂😂
Great video, Stephan. Love that you defined the difference between being able to care about or even love someone and being able to be in a relationship with them. It's an incredibly nuanced and understated point that tends to get glossed over in the modern narrative. "Loving someone from afar" is incredibly powerful once you embrace it.
Hey Stephan, I love your videos, I am currently going through a break up with a girl that I truly loved. I would like your advice on how to let it go. I value your opinion, since you bring a certain balance to the manosphere. Thank you and keep doing up the good work💯
Thanks for the suggestion. I’ll add it to my list of requested videos! In the meantime, you might like this video 👉 ruclips.net/video/lax7cdSWNkU/видео.html
I'm all late on this. I have never been the person to argue I would rather walk away and come back and talk. If I'm wrong I will admit it no hesitation. I have come across dudes who likes to argue and not talk. Then I get defensive and they come back and apologize. Never understood arguing when you can just sit down and talk It out. 😊💯
I think part of the reason why the concept before the woman accountable has crossed a line is because a lot of men are also tired of seeing content on the Internet, where they’re the only one being called out, the pendulum finds a way to swing in some capacity, regardless of the topic. One extreme always tends to lead to an extreme opposite.
Lol, I was listening attentively for the whole video. It reminds me someone ))) very interesting and useful. Those girls.....Excuse me Stephan: What does boom-boom mean?
Could u make a video please, when the situation is that a couple has broken up, but they still keep contact on phone, maybe they are far from each other. When the situation in that they cant finish the partnership, but they cant stop it. I mean for example when they have many programs together, but the alcohol or not respectfull speech keep them far from each other, or when the bad speeh and the good speech are changing. How can we get over a "partnership" of this if we cant come closer to each other emotionally, but cant let each other to go?
Crazy part is I had to go through this last week, she was doing everyone dirty at her job. I didn't tell the boss or nothing. It was a one on one text that I sent her. Basically saying that we needed to talk, and I explained to her how what she she was doing was dirty, wrong and dangerous all at the same time. ( She gave me an attitude of course say idfc etc) Basically told her what's with the attitude, I was very calm and respectful. Then I basically started ignoring her all together because she was basically shitting on people who helped her out. Then her behavior literally started to shift and change after that in a good way. Because after the idfc message I literally didn't respond to nothing she sent even though she sent me like 6 messages because she knew she was in the wrong for what she did. All 6 messages are still left on delivered. Whatever I did clearly worked.
yeah none of this works, unless she is born again and understands that women in general don't like accountability it's not worth being with her, it's a turn off
Consequences are a good point, however they are the hardest to implement. Anything can be considered too harsh or too soft depending on your perspective.
Just don't deal with this type of people just leave nobody is going to change you're just wasting your time I had woman telling me they're going to change but they never do they just tell you what you want to hear
Sometimes the woman (or man) is deliberately doing these things just so she doesn’t have to be the one to end the relationship. Some are so afraid of confrontation they just don’t have the courage to say, “I’m not happy with this anymore and I feel like I need to move on.” Whether you want to call her out on this or not depends on the couple and the situation.
I’m that man I’ve been putting up with a lot from my ex I finally just said f this and walked away because she can’t control her mouth and hands she likes to hit on me
In a healthy society, where men are respected by women for the irreplaceable and unique value they bring (creating infrastructure, safety, maintaining the electric grid, inventing all modern conveniences, etc.), a random man holding a random woman stranger accountable is a good thing - social shame (or the perception that they will receive it and then want to avoid it) is an **EXTREMELY** powerful motivator for women! In fact it is debatably the #1 motivator for them! It's even a strong motivator for men in a good culture where they want to be part of society and good standing socially is rewarded for men. But all of us in the US, Canada, UK, and many other parts of the world, do not live in a healthy society with a good culture. So women don't care about being shamed by anyone, men don't care about being ostracized from a society that is terrible to them. A lot of the interactions you are probably seeing in the last 10 years are socially healthy people doing what *USED* to work to upright society and fix younger people of both genders before their behaviors got too locked in. Now everything has gotten so bad that there is no fixing it short of some kind of massive upheaval.
First: this Tutorial is magnificent! Second: It is beyond sad that roughly only 4% of the viewers liked it. I attribute that to lack of accountability by the Viewer. “Likes”👍🏾 equate to circulation on this platform just as much as shares. And THIS video definitely needs to be circulated within our community. Shout out to the Content Creators who continue to bring us content that bring the Black Man and Black Woman together again.
if you wrong you wrong . the way make things sound . women and men shouldnt even be together . what if my consequeces is sit in the corner an look at the wall . you have to teach women or men a lot . like they your kids or something but i agree with you . only if you have the time to show them all the things .
When i started dating in the 90ties we wouldn’t have these problems . I think it all comes down to the extreme entitlement of the (western)women nowadays , their perceived leverage they have over men is gigantic. I see four main reasons for that: 1. more women in college than men 2. social media/ dating apps 3. Less influence of churches , religion in todays society / liberal cultural atmosphere . 4. Increase of welfare / Absence of existential hardship / outside treats like war etc. Women run havoc these days and they obviously can afford it , so why they should even take accountability for whatever . They just move on to the next best adventure. The interesting thing is they are the most unhappy, sensitive,lost and confused generation of women ever. Everything comes with a price I guess.
When he voiced his opinion about how he interpreted my feelings for him, I felt attacked. So I stepped back even though I was in love with him. Again and again for months even though I tried to explain what his words were doing. Causing anxiety. I walked away and he blames me for not working through it. I still love him but from a distance. We are too old for this.
You are still not being accountable for making him feel like that, you felt angry because he called you out on what you did. So you’re still in the wrong and he’s right
My content is all about getting parents to hold themselves accountable for their children’s success. I trigger a lot of childless females for some reason…
best thing i’d say is to never let her disrespect you, if you want it to work it needs to be sure that she’s gonna respect what you need and know that you won’t stick around if she doesn’t respect those things you need. especially narcissistic women will take advantage of you not holding her to what you say you will and that you’ll stay so they make you miserable because they can get away with it. hope everything goes well for you
Exit that marriage, get some counseling and network with like minded Men. Date women that meet your requirements and feel free to become a Passport bro.
This is childish behavior 90,% of will never be held accountable my mother, my sister and my son's mother have almost never accepted responsibility. Those people have no problem holding you accountable they attack you
It's really sad when a relationship ends and they blame you without acknowledging anything that they've done. They get with someone else and do better than they did you. I'm a firm believer in Karma or as the bible says, "As a man soweth, they shall also reap." Getting into a new relationship doesn't shirk you of the accountability from the last one.
Honestly, if a woman doesn't want to be accountable, there is nothing you can do. If you married the wrong woman, she holds all the cards. There will always be a white knight around the corner to rescue her from her bad decisions and the big daddy government will always be on their side. You have to hold yourself accountable to behave in a way that is self respecting and thats it. All you can do is walk away and never look back. Oh, and always have a off ramp.
Woman and accountability….😂 the problem is the abundance of attention with dating apps and social media. This is making them delusional. I just don’t tolerate BS. Mirror the behavior. Equality in every way. I’m done with always thinking about her feelings and neglecting my own feelings and needs. If it’s not mutual it’s not love but providing and abuse! Stop the simping be a man. Respect is not something you get but you have to earn it! All those princesses with massive egos.
I’m say this sir on the making it to heaven part. We actually made to live on the earth forever nobody going to heaven. Only those that’s chosen from the 144,000 and thts in the book of Revelation.yet you understand the reason behind Adam eve.question yourself on this what would be the purpose of creating the earth for nothing
I am a African American male that grew up in inter city Detroit, This is very controversial but I must be honest. I think there is something to be said about growing up with both parents in the home that gets overlooked. I had both parents in my home and I appreciate it. One things I have notices in in other cultures where there are men in the home there seems to be more of a masculine culture in some aspects not all obviously. One thing that stands out and seems to be missing in my opinion in some African American men and accountability. I have noticed a lot not women will lack accountability and point everything on a man or someone else. I see this happen in the black community in men also who were raised by single moms. A lot of African American men I see are quick to call racism with out thinking logically about the situation. They think with their feelings. In my opinion that never helps you. Most keep staying in the same situation and never growing or overcoming. It the long run being accountable for yourself is so much more beneficial. It seems like the lack of accountability maybe comes from fatherless homes. I understand things like racism do exist, however a lot of times it seems as if some people use that as an excuse. Like why do you want to be a victim. You are a man you were born to able to handle it. You should not want and care for some one feelings sorry for you in my opinion.
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“..sometimes you have to love people from afar..”. Preach my brother!
Absolutely!
Yupe!! It's called "leaving that woman the f alone!"
I appreciate you speaking to men and not just catering to women.
This is missing from a lot of relationship or life coaches on the internet.
Ain't that the truth, these coaches be going hard for the females when it's actually the females who creates the bullshit that these coaches want men to SIMP TO💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
🙌 This was EXCELLENT! YOU have to have raw courage and not be afraid to speak out for what you believe.
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
This is good one Stephan....not gonna lie! It's gonna trigger some of us for sure but that's the lesson in it all! Always keeping it real!👏👏
❤️ 🙂 Thank you for watching. I appreciate your feedback!
Alot of times unless they are attracted you or you have some leadership or lever they wont listen. This why typically its a waste of time unless your in a long term relationship
Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤
The number one thing is this ....
You’ve got to have your shit together. And more important that has to translate into being able to offer a woman a better life than what she can offer herself on her own.
That’s how you get her respect and without it every thing you say to her will fall on deaf ears regardless of what you say or how you say it
Whether we want to admit it or not women in 2023 are more spoiled than ever and it has fed into an unbelievable sense of entitlement, ego and very little self accountability
Most women aren’t capable of taking blame unless they had an unbelievable upbringing or they didn’t have pretty privilege.
The only way to keep a woman in line and be accountable is for her to know that she has a good deal and she can lose it if she doesn’t correct her behavior
Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤
Well said
from my experience, the more they invest in you, the better it is with women long-term. If you offer too much (like most men these days do), she gets spoiled and bored over time. Let her buy you thngs, let her invest in you and she will respect you. Sure, you do have to have your stuff together, own your apartment and have your hobbies outside of her.
Women are spoiled cuz men allow her to get whatever she wants without requiring her to put in her effort. Every woman can submit but only to the man who she respects
@robicelus Exactly... this seems to work for me as well.
I sincerely appreciate your page brothaman and I send ur useful information to several people!!!! Be blessed brothaman!
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️ 🙏
Hey steph a girl hit me up on a dating app i asked her out and she gave me her number,1 st date went good,and for the next two weeks i initiated Everything,we where supposed to go out and i let her know to tell me on Saturday morning and she replied at 12:00 in the evening and asked to see me at 6 pm fast forward she made it 8 pm,i just called it off and called me a bailer,so i let her know she is in wrong and to have accountability i actually told her that i dont like it that i initiate everything and told her coldly she is fucking boring,and she went crazy on me 😂😂😂😂😂
This was a great presentation. Keep up the awesome work.
❤️ 🙂 Thank you. I will!
Great video, Stephan. Love that you defined the difference between being able to care about or even love someone and being able to be in a relationship with them. It's an incredibly nuanced and understated point that tends to get glossed over in the modern narrative. "Loving someone from afar" is incredibly powerful once you embrace it.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏
Hey Stephan, I love your videos, I am currently going through a break up with a girl that I truly loved. I would like your advice on how to let it go. I value your opinion, since you bring a certain balance to the manosphere. Thank you and keep doing up the good work💯
Thanks for the suggestion. I’ll add it to my list of requested videos! In the meantime, you might like this video 👉 ruclips.net/video/lax7cdSWNkU/видео.html
@@StephanSpeaksforMen thank you!
this video gives me peace, feels good I did the right thing naturally, my judgement was sound.
I'm all late on this. I have never been the person to argue I would rather walk away and come back and talk. If I'm wrong I will admit it no hesitation. I have come across dudes who likes to argue and not talk. Then I get defensive and they come back and apologize. Never understood arguing when you can just sit down and talk It out. 😊💯
that was a great video bro thank you
Thank you for this
Thank you so much you have really helped me...this is was a very big issue in my relationship
I think part of the reason why the concept before the woman accountable has crossed a line is because a lot of men are also tired of seeing content on the Internet, where they’re the only one being called out, the pendulum finds a way to swing in some capacity, regardless of the topic. One extreme always tends to lead to an extreme opposite.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏
This is it exactly!
True speak with love
Lol, I was listening attentively for the whole video. It reminds me someone ))) very interesting and useful. Those girls.....Excuse me Stephan: What does boom-boom mean?
This is true you do have to love people from afar
Absolutely!
Could u make a video please, when the situation is that a couple has broken up, but they still keep contact on phone, maybe they are far from each other. When the situation in that they cant finish the partnership, but they cant stop it. I mean for example when they have many programs together, but the alcohol or not respectfull speech keep them far from each other, or when the bad speeh and the good speech are changing. How can we get over a "partnership" of this if we cant come closer to each other emotionally, but cant let each other to go?
Great suggestion, I will add it to my list to get it done!
@@StephanSpeaksforMen Thank u!:)
Crazy part is I had to go through this last week, she was doing everyone dirty at her job. I didn't tell the boss or nothing. It was a one on one text that I sent her.
Basically saying that we needed to talk, and I explained to her how what she she was doing was dirty, wrong and dangerous all at the same time. ( She gave me an attitude of course say idfc etc)
Basically told her what's with the attitude, I was very calm and respectful. Then I basically started ignoring her all together because she was basically shitting on people who helped her out.
Then her behavior literally started to shift and change after that in a good way. Because after the idfc message I literally didn't respond to nothing she sent even though she sent me like 6 messages because she knew she was in the wrong for what she did. All 6 messages are still left on delivered. Whatever I did clearly worked.
Great video brother. Thank you
Thank you sir
“Progress, not pride.” - awesome :)
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏
Respect 🥰
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Good advice 👍🏼
simp
Tried all of this. Doesn't work. You have to walk away. It's scorched earth time.
yeah none of this works, unless she is born again and understands that women in general don't like accountability it's not worth being with her, it's a turn off
Consequences are a good point, however they are the hardest to implement. Anything can be considered too harsh or too soft depending on your perspective.
It's called Moving Forward Stephan, I've done that.
Just don't deal with this type of people just leave nobody is going to change you're just wasting your time I had woman telling me they're going to change but they never do they just tell you what you want to hear
Sometimes the woman (or man) is deliberately doing these things just so she doesn’t have to be the one to end the relationship. Some are so afraid of confrontation they just don’t have the courage to say, “I’m not happy with this anymore and I feel like I need to move on.” Whether you want to call her out on this or not depends on the couple and the situation.
I’m that man I’ve been putting up with a lot from my ex I finally just said f this and walked away because she can’t control her mouth and hands she likes to hit on me
I believe in tough love, so I will get on a woman's ass, if she has been doin it for a while! This video is great!!
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
In a healthy society, where men are respected by women for the irreplaceable and unique value they bring (creating infrastructure, safety, maintaining the electric grid, inventing all modern conveniences, etc.), a random man holding a random woman stranger accountable is a good thing - social shame (or the perception that they will receive it and then want to avoid it) is an **EXTREMELY** powerful motivator for women! In fact it is debatably the #1 motivator for them! It's even a strong motivator for men in a good culture where they want to be part of society and good standing socially is rewarded for men.
But all of us in the US, Canada, UK, and many other parts of the world, do not live in a healthy society with a good culture. So women don't care about being shamed by anyone, men don't care about being ostracized from a society that is terrible to them. A lot of the interactions you are probably seeing in the last 10 years are socially healthy people doing what *USED* to work to upright society and fix younger people of both genders before their behaviors got too locked in. Now everything has gotten so bad that there is no fixing it short of some kind of massive upheaval.
First: this Tutorial is magnificent!
Second: It is beyond sad that roughly only 4% of the viewers liked it. I attribute that to lack of accountability by the Viewer.
“Likes”👍🏾 equate to circulation on this platform just as much as shares. And THIS video definitely needs to be circulated within our community.
Shout out to the Content Creators who continue to bring us content that bring the Black Man and Black Woman together again.
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
hold yourself accountable first
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if you wrong you wrong . the way make things sound . women and men shouldnt even be together . what if my consequeces is sit in the corner an look at the wall . you have to teach women or men a lot . like they your kids or something but i agree with you . only if you have the time to show them all the things .
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
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When i started dating in the 90ties we wouldn’t have these problems . I think it all comes down to the extreme entitlement of the (western)women nowadays , their perceived leverage they have over men is gigantic. I see four main reasons for that: 1. more women in college than men 2. social media/ dating apps 3. Less influence of churches , religion in todays society / liberal cultural atmosphere . 4. Increase of welfare / Absence of existential hardship / outside treats like war etc.
Women run havoc these days and they obviously can afford it , so why they should even take accountability for whatever . They just move on to the next best adventure.
The interesting thing is they are the most unhappy, sensitive,lost and confused generation of women ever. Everything comes with a price I guess.
They know exactly what they're doing. And it'd on purpose-
April 2 2024 headline reads: woman removed from Delta flight for not wearing bras". She had the gall to say they need to change their policy.lol
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When he voiced his opinion about how he interpreted my feelings for him, I felt attacked. So I stepped back even though I was in love with him. Again and again for months even though I tried to explain what his words were doing. Causing anxiety. I walked away and he blames me for not working through it. I still love him but from a distance. We are too old for this.
You are still not being accountable for making him feel like that, you felt angry because he called you out on what you did. So you’re still in the wrong and he’s right
My content is all about getting parents to hold themselves accountable for their children’s success. I trigger a lot of childless females for some reason…
I see that a lot too
4 WAYS TO HOLD A WOMAN ACCOUNTABLE........PUT HER ON PUNISHMENT UNTIL SHE LISTENS TO STEPHAN....
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@@StephanSpeaksforMen STEPH THANKS FOR YOUR HEART AS ALWAYS....
I mean…. 😂
Best way to deal with these childish chicks fellas invest in a passport bounce on her and dont look back
Do you have advice for married men who are married to the wrong woman or a narcissist woman???
best thing i’d say is to never let her disrespect you, if you want it to work it needs to be sure that she’s gonna respect what you need and know that you won’t stick around if she doesn’t respect those things you need. especially narcissistic women will take advantage of you not holding her to what you say you will and that you’ll stay so they make you miserable because they can get away with it. hope everything goes well for you
Leave them and get your passport work on yourself and leave what cannot be fixed
Exit that marriage, get some counseling and network with like minded Men. Date women that meet your requirements and feel free to become a Passport bro.
This not gone work especially with a toxic woman
Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤
That's why, you leave a hard-headed, ignorant, toxic female the f*** alone!!
I can't do it because they're too disrespectful
This is childish behavior 90,% of will never be held accountable my mother, my sister and my son's mother have almost never accepted responsibility. Those people have no problem holding you accountable they attack you
Yap, this guy is misleading men.
It's really sad when a relationship ends and they blame you without acknowledging anything that they've done. They get with someone else and do better than they did you. I'm a firm believer in Karma or as the bible says, "As a man soweth, they shall also reap." Getting into a new relationship doesn't shirk you of the accountability from the last one.
Honestly, if a woman doesn't want to be accountable, there is nothing you can do. If you married the wrong woman, she holds all the cards. There will always be a white knight around the corner to rescue her from her bad decisions and the big daddy government will always be on their side. You have to hold yourself accountable to behave in a way that is self respecting and thats it. All you can do is walk away and never look back. Oh, and always have a off ramp.
sometimes admitting your own fault will just allow people to take it and run, stonewalling because you admitted fault.
Woman and accountability….😂 the problem is the abundance of attention with dating apps and social media. This is making them delusional. I just don’t tolerate BS. Mirror the behavior. Equality in every way. I’m done with always thinking about her feelings and neglecting my own feelings and needs. If it’s not mutual it’s not love but providing and abuse! Stop the simping be a man. Respect is not something you get but you have to earn it! All those princesses with massive egos.
Society is over!
Simp. He is deflecting back to holding yourself accountable. Bullshit.
I dont needem I let the welfare feedem - Pimpin Ken
Bro, women DON’T accept accountability…PERIOD. There’s nothing a man can do to encourage them to do so lol
There are women who take accountability. Why haven’t you encountered any?
@@purpleplus678 because I live in America…where they don’t
Not true...
U need healing! ❤
@@empreenergy3376 the ONLY thing I NEED…is for more women to take personal ACCOUNTABILITY
Specifically what consequences are we talking about here?
It does NOT work AT ALL. You talk bullshit.
Women are not accountable. Example, they never apologize. That was the demise of my last marriage, to include other things.
I’m say this sir on the making it to heaven part. We actually made to live on the earth forever nobody going to heaven. Only those that’s chosen from the 144,000 and thts in the book of Revelation.yet you understand the reason behind Adam eve.question yourself on this what would be the purpose of creating the earth for nothing
Wrong
So you going expose your heart to a narcissist? REALLY!!!!!
I totally disagree with him. All instruction she be issued and received void emotions. He contradicted himself by interjecting tone and feelings.
It's not worth it
I am a African American male that grew up in inter city Detroit, This is very controversial but I must be honest. I think there is something to be said about growing up with both parents in the home that gets overlooked. I had both parents in my home and I appreciate it. One things I have notices in in other cultures where there are men in the home there seems to be more of a masculine culture in some aspects not all obviously. One thing that stands out and seems to be missing in my opinion in some African American men and accountability. I have noticed a lot not women will lack accountability and point everything on a man or someone else. I see this happen in the black community in men also who were raised by single moms. A lot of African American men I see are quick to call racism with out thinking logically about the situation. They think with their feelings. In my opinion that never helps you. Most keep staying in the same situation and never growing or overcoming. It the long run being accountable for yourself is so much more beneficial. It seems like the lack of accountability maybe comes from fatherless homes. I understand things like racism do exist, however a lot of times it seems as if some people use that as an excuse. Like why do you want to be a victim. You are a man you were born to able to handle it. You should not want and care for some one feelings sorry for you in my opinion.