I have 5 sisters Stephan, I know this. Women that love you, aren't "difficult". We also have to appreciate that love means different things for our different genders. For gents, it's a "do", a duty, it's respect. For women, it's a feeling, ever changing like the weather. I learnt to navigate what was for me young, "nonsense", now I just treat them how I treat kids. Gentle listening, asking questions, and being firm when the "nonsense" aforementioned gets out of hand, like "we won't do this". Takes them a bit to grasp, but they do, and it creates so much harmony.
Who wants to be "loved" by someone who views love as a "duty?" If there are no feelings, then that isn't love as far as I'm concerned. And saying women's love is ever changing like the weather isn't true. And saying that you speak to women like children is so dismissive and disrespectful.
@Quianna You may have got the wrong context. We are all children, carrying deep rooted wounds from our different upbringings. What love is, is literally in the marriage vows. It's a union, of two kids, and vows tell you everything, "to honour, through the good and the bad, through sickness and health". Maybe try re-reading this, without bias, and see the different perspective. Love, is obligation, and "feeling" changes, from good to bad and everything in between.
Please do a video for men on how their childhood/family abuse and their unhealthy friendships/associations negatively impact their romantic relationships.
Stephan, these encounters seem to be major headaches. Also, how can you trust these types of people with influence over your children, life circumstances, or life and death decisions?
A perfect marriage or relationship is an illusion; there's no universal playbook for making them work. What's effective for one couple may not apply to another. Nevertheless, I've come to understand that there's always a solution to be found. Half a decade ago, my wife and I faced such trials in our marriage that divorce seemed inevitable. Yet, through perseverance and determination, we navigated through the rough waters and emerged stronger, reunited, and more resilient..
Please, men, make sure you have this nailed before you put a ring on her finger. If you can't deal with your women in this way before your married, you are settling yourself up for a world of pain and ultimately Empty pockets !!!
A perfect marriage or relationship is an illusion; there's no universal playbook for making them work. What's effective for one couple may not apply to another. Nevertheless, I've come to understand that there's always a solution to be found. Half a decade ago, my wife and I faced such trials in our marriage that divorce seemed inevitable. Yet, through perseverance and determination, we navigated through the rough waters and emerged stronger, reunited, and more resilient..
There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things
Its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is shelly renee white..
I have 5 sisters Stephan, I know this. Women that love you, aren't "difficult". We also have to appreciate that love means different things for our different genders. For gents, it's a "do", a duty, it's respect. For women, it's a feeling, ever changing like the weather. I learnt to navigate what was for me young, "nonsense", now I just treat them how I treat kids. Gentle listening, asking questions, and being firm when the "nonsense" aforementioned gets out of hand, like "we won't do this". Takes them a bit to grasp, but they do, and it creates so much harmony.
Who wants to be "loved" by someone who views love as a "duty?" If there are no feelings, then that isn't love as far as I'm concerned. And saying women's love is ever changing like the weather isn't true.
And saying that you speak to women like children is so dismissive and disrespectful.
@Quianna You may have got the wrong context. We are all children, carrying deep rooted wounds from our different upbringings. What love is, is literally in the marriage vows. It's a union, of two kids, and vows tell you everything, "to honour, through the good and the bad, through sickness and health". Maybe try re-reading this, without bias, and see the different perspective. Love, is obligation, and "feeling" changes, from good to bad and everything in between.
@Quianna I however do get your perspective fully, and apologies
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Please do a video for men on how their childhood/family abuse and their unhealthy friendships/associations negatively impact their romantic relationships.
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Stephan, these encounters seem to be major headaches. Also, how can you trust these types of people with influence over your children, life circumstances, or life and death decisions?
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A perfect marriage or relationship is an illusion; there's no universal playbook for making them work. What's effective for one couple may not apply to another. Nevertheless, I've come to understand that there's always a solution to be found. Half a decade ago, my wife and I faced such trials in our marriage that divorce seemed inevitable. Yet, through perseverance and determination, we navigated through the rough waters and emerged stronger, reunited, and more resilient..
Please, men, make sure you have this nailed before you put a ring on her finger. If you can't deal with your women in this way before your married, you are settling yourself up for a world of pain and ultimately Empty pockets !!!
A perfect marriage or relationship is an illusion; there's no universal playbook for making them work. What's effective for one couple may not apply to another. Nevertheless, I've come to understand that there's always a solution to be found. Half a decade ago, my wife and I faced such trials in our marriage that divorce seemed inevitable. Yet, through perseverance and determination, we navigated through the rough waters and emerged stronger, reunited, and more resilient..
There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things
Its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is shelly renee white..
This is helpful, I will look her up online right now...Thanks.
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Great advice
Thank you man