Exactly, right on target! Love them all but especially resonated with 5 and 6 (the part about “gut instinct” vs weighing “pros and cons” that makes so much sense to me now I struggle with that daily! Then… I am definitely the introverted social butterfly that uses my “comedic” charm to win people over and to also put myself at ease some people do not believe me when I say I am introverted BECUZ I can get along with anyone speak to anyone that I don’t know with great ease! However, people wear me out but also people r extremely fascinating to me…at the same time‼️ Good information…. thanks for sharing this video!!
More like very particular about socialization. Unless I'm forced into it for work or other obligation, I feel no need to socialize with those I feel no kinship with. And another thing I think he has kind of wrong is, the main reason we "agree to disagree" is not so much that we can see all sides, which we can, but that we understand the futility of arguing over things that will not change anyone's mind anyway.
As an INFJ woman I can say that this observation is mostly correct but you forgot about the INFJ 'door slam' when her trust is broken. A bond can be severed that way and there isn't any fixing it folks. No second tries, trust me.
Yes, yes….once trust is broken, it’s impossible to go back, even if I want too. The door slam…perfect way to,put it. It can be from one big betrayal, or a series of small betrayals that build up and finally overwhelm the relationship. I don’t even particularly like that aspect of myself, but it happens anyway,
INTJ man here. We do the same. These so called "pranks" were people break up or cheat as a prank, they disgust me. If you do that and you're my girlfriend or wife? I will kick you out from my life, so far, that not even Google could find you.
@@ErikAnkan73 Same. If Im with someone and he thinks it's cute or funny to do the very things against what I deem severely personal and emotionally trusting? Door slam and no looking back.I will forget their names and what they even look like.
Same here. However i am much more older and sure of myself, I fully embrace my difference as an INFJ and realise why my family misunderstood me...and I am okay with it...but it took a lot of time and feeling hurt...
Oh yes, that one mashes my sensitivity buttons too! Guilt complex and imposter syndrome feelings fire up, hyper-vigilance waiting for some kind of hostile treatment, sets in. Now days its just a reflex from the past and years, many years, have fostered some enlightenment. The suggestion that im the one thats questionable, is strong confirmation of the fact im in toxic company and a diplomatic way of distancing is applied.
1. Intense independence. 2. The use of metaphorical and figurative explanations. 3. You'll catch them looking lost in deep thought. 4. They'll often agree to disagree. 5. They're often met with decision overload. 6. She gets along with just about anyone. 7. They're not easy to get to know.
Why is this EDIT button not working??? I tried to add this above but can't find the typical edit feature button so will have to reply to myself - haha - - this list is true BUT I also think it's good to distinguish betw young and mature INFJ's as I have really evolved and progressed & as I get older, I get better and better. So, some of this stuff is applicable to the underdeveloped INFJ's....there is more beauty in the aging process. Enjoy it!
@@kaitlynkarol4600 I am well past the underdeveloped stage. Just hoping to save time for others by listing here. Create a new list for mature INFJ's, and add it here!! That would be great. Thanks.
No one talks about how the INFJ woman gets on her own nerves and needs to withdraw from everyone and even watch the most brainless TV shows in order to survive the constant thinking about things on deeper and deeper levels that no one in her surroundings wants to hear about - I could fill books. And all this thinking is so exhausting.
So true! I used to not be able to get to sleep at night due to THINKING TOO MUCH!! One way to help is to read a few old Hardy Boy or Nancy Drew books. They’re just barely engaging enough to hold your mind while you relax a bit! Or try Tin Tin adventure stories by Herge. Guaranteed to help ones brain go on the blink! 😂
Yes! I watch trashy reality TV on purpose to get off of that deep plane of existence. I don’t have any drama in my life, but damn if watching it doesn’t give me a break. But then of course, I want to pick apart every scene and everybody’s personality and have a full on convo about what makes the cast tick😂
I'm also an INFJ. I absolutely adore being alone and I rarely feel lonely. I've never met anyone that can hold a candle to what it feels like being by myself. Ironically enough when people meet me they think I'm an extravert and want to attach to me. I am constantly dodging the advances of others to be besties. If I don't resonate I can't let you in.
We dont just want to be alone, we NEED that alone time,because being around a few people during the course of the day becomes mentally overwhelming for us, so we need that down time to clear ourselves from the energy of other people so we cam balance ourselves again
Energy vampires. Even though I like certain people- a small number for me, they can be very exhausting. I honestly don't know how anyone in a professional capacity with a very social job, or is social personally, can handle the pressure of the emotional baggage or head space from people talking at you all day with various issues. I can really empathize and listen a long time but it can wear me out.
Not only the endless people but I don't know how people go, go, go all the time. I need my in-the-house time (& plenty of it!) to be able to deal with the people I do deal with. 🥴😬 Blessings to everyone 🙏
I’ve been an INFJ female for 80 years. Most of these observations are accurate. I usually only talk about myself if I can teach another person something that might protect that person. In a conversation, I talk the least.
Trouble is, most people don't understand why you're telling them something, giving them the benefit of your experience.🤷 I agree, it is so much better to just sit and watch people and evaluate them quietly.
@@WouldbeRenaissanceLady6926people think we are judging them when we are observing. I have been totally misunderstood for observing someone when they are insecure.
Usually when I do that, I end up being labeled the narcissist who only talks about herself, or is super judgemental for pointing out details no one else notices... "Ok. Sure. Go ahead and fail to learn from and ignore my experience and perspective, and I'm going to tap out of the rest of this conversation, and we are probably done being friends."
I am an INFJ woman and I totally agree with all these indicators, apart from the fact "we get on with everybody". We often can detect flakey fakers and BS in certain people. We become very cold and assuming when this happens. We take a step back and analyse heavily if we got that person wrong or not. Mostly, though, we have got it right. Being a Sigma too I think makes me less of an Fe people pleaser.
I agree. also when I say I don't know or I don't care.. I really don't. But not for people pleasing reasons. I wanna eat somewhere and don't care where. legit. hahaha
He did say get along with everyone 'superficially'...this I agree fully. I am quite nomadic in my lifestyle ( that INFJ independence) and can get along with varying types of personalities in my surroundings. But that's about it. They are not my friends but more like friendly acquaintances....
Number 2, the worst thing for me, in conversation with someone about a topic you’ve learned a lot about and are passionate and excited to share all theories and many different things you got from it. That you sound like a crazy person, waving your arms around and stumbling over words because while trying to talk you also put a new answer or discovery together. 😂
Yes and yes same thing happens here. I am an agronomist in palm oil… many discovery l had done and some improvement in methodology to the point that l had perfected the 100 year old method and already establish for 10 years but no one noticed that l am the one who 😅ntroduced that during my presentation at the refresher course to the field staff.
I had a friend tell me once in college, way before I ever took the MB test and found out I am an INFJ, that when she’s at a bar and someone corners her in a conversation that’s getting way too personal she would pull a “ Kiki”. She said I’ve watched you, it’s when you re-direct all the conversation around back to the other person by asking them a lot of questions about themselves or questions about their stories. It was TRUE!!!!! I still do it 30 years later!!!
"The People Person who AVOIDS Socialization...!!!" YEP. The SECRET People Person. Though with age I am less interested in people....and more in other aspects of God's creation. Still it rings true.
As a people person who avoids socializationI I'm often so misunderstood. I'm done feeling guilty for enjoying my own company more than anything. Im traveling in my mind all day, why do I need to leave the house? I'm in a perpetual state of joy with just my animals, hobbies, projects, studies, and daydreams. I never NEED people the way others do. I deeply love people though. It's funny when I make it out of my cocoon for a rare night and watch the wide eyed stares as I peel back layers and debut for a while.
This very accurate. Most ppl think I live a boring and unproductive life. I just love my solitude. My social battery definitely runs out and may take months to recharge.
@@mmkenoI've literally been home for two years, lol. I'm so happy here with my animals, my books, my music and old Britcoms, my kitchen and get to relax with my husband. That's all I need to be truly happy. I tell my family I've retired from society, lol.
Thank you for the deepest understanding of my type that I’ve ever seen. For 70 years I’ve grappled with being so misunderstood,even being considered stand-offish or stuck up. Feeling like I’m so different by needing to go home to charge my battery and loving being home coz all my stuff is there. But having trouble with decisions because I see both sides of everything. And being soooo independent that both marriages didn’t last long. Thankfully I have several deep enduring friendships lasting over 35 yrs, which have given me fulfillment and support which I gladly return. These friends are my sanity. It’s hard living in a world of extroverts and aggressive loud unkind people but ………I’m learning to protect and appreciate the loving kind gentle woman that I am. And am learning to be at peace with that.
Snap! I’m about same age and cannot sustain a relationship with opposite sex as I need to be alone and recharge batteries yet I have wonderful wonderful fiends (men and women) and support group. As I’ve gotten older I’ve realised there is no shame (social norms) and am really starting to accept myself and enjoy it because I realise it just can’t be any other way. I do have a daughter who I love dearly and even though she lives thousands of miles away we FaceTime every other day. I’m growing more and more content every day and think it’s self awareness and not trying to please everyone and just pleasing myself.
I'm just shy of 55 y/o & moved in with my 85 y/o Dad to help take care of him about a year ago. He has had some problems understanding my need to be alone. He thinks I'm shutting him out. I've lived alone since my divorce in 2012 so its an adjustment. I was never able to have children & the few long standing friendships I had have withered. Makes my siblings & I that much tighter. Blessings to everyone 🙏
I can get along with just about anyone always have being the youngest in my family. I am a people person who avoids socialization because I've been screwed over by narcissists all my life by relationships and peoyi thought were my friends. I finally found an INFJ guy who is amazing and I am so thankful for him. Being an INFJ woman is hard because we're too smart and men don't want us because we don't put up with abuse!
MB test says I am an INFj and a sigma female... the world is so strange to me... I never know if people like me, say they do, or feel sorry for me. I just like being by myself and learning and dissecting the human perspective... I say human because since I was a child I felt aliens dropped me off on Earth to study humans... at 77 I am still waiting for their return
I've always felt somewhat other also. My fam was talking about different eras they wouldve thrived in and I said I dont think there is one for me, I think I come from somewhere else, out there, in another life. My mom agreed and said she felt that about me too. I've actually seen a ufo on a couple occasions, one was with a boyfriend out in a field in the country. It was hovering for a minute or so and then disappeared like it popped out of existence, and we had missing time. The other was with my mom and grandma, it was hovering over the hotel next to ours on our beach vacation, and i pointed and said do you guys see that and they both came over on the balcony and started staring at it. And it was like the aliens knew we saw because that's when it shot back over our heads so fast and we ran out the door and out the causeway to see it blink out.
59 and still waiting here, same things, female INFJ and Sigma. My brothers all call me "a unique creature". 😂 I've sent them links to websites explaining why I am the way I am, and they say the websites nailed it. My daughters both call me a gypsy, because I can tell them what their partners are going to do next, same with their friends. I'm cool with being a unique creature or a gypsy!
I’ve been hesitant to label myself an INFJ but wow every one of these hits home. Two quotes that stood out… “befriend others on a surface level” and “…whether it’s due to their at-times people pleasing tendencies, or their fear of being seen in a negative light, an INFJ woman will quickly adjust their outer demeanor”.
This is hilarious. The rarest type of woman but somehow you all are it! This is why mgtow exists. Because women will waste your time eating up this garbage instead of making a sandwich for your boyfriends.
Yep, to a T. I've been asked at two job interviews if I'm always that "bubbly." I mean, it's a job interview dude, I'm clearly overcompensating a bit, lol. If I walled through life without any intentional facade I'd scare people, lol. And never get a job.
So true about verbal communication - my mind contains a mountain of specialised knowledge but trying to express any of it is hopeless. I stumble over words, get flustered and self conscious and sound like an inarticulate crazy woman I am sure. It’s true I am passionate about my interests and convictions and no one will change my mind.
Yep! Super intelligent, if I read something it sticks to my brain like glue, so I'm also a wealth of fun facts and get accused of "being a know it all" often... but, in my defense, I'm very very VERY rarely wrong on what I say or know, whether it's a person's true personality/intentions within the first time of meeting them, actual learned knowledge, or sometimes I just know things without knowing how I know them, but regardless, I always feel misunderstood about it and even though people have seen how accurate my knowledge and perceptions are, they still rarely listen to what I tell them and there's always a big "told ya so" moment, sometimes even taking years for my prediction of someone I just met coming to fruition. See? I feel like none of that even sounds right or makes sense. 😂 by that I mean sometimes I'll be introduced to a friend of a friend or something and within about 5 minutes of talking to the person I can tell you exactly what type of person they are, whether they're trustworthy, whether they're a liar, a snitch, a cheat, pedophile etc or a good person and in the past I've warned people about people and they didn't heed my advice, but everything was cool for a couple of years and then bam all of a sudden they're getting arrested because the person I met one time, that I told them to stay away from because they strike me as a snitch has set them up by doing police recorded control buys of WEED from them, who is supposed to be one of their REALLY "good friends". The only person who is FINALLY beginning to listen to me about people is my husband and well, my sister has ALWAYS trusted my mind and instincts. But I do still feel like a lot of times when I'm trying to tell someone something that feels really important and interesting to me, they don't get as "excited", or I feel like I start sounding like a crazy person and just let the conversation trail off. Lol like I said, I don't even feel I conveyed my thoughts properly in this comment. 😂😂
Yes Im knowledgeable in my field but HATE being on panels and doing talks. This year im just accepting that i write and im not forcing myself to tske any speaking events
This really is extemely accurate. Also i think we tend to unintentionally alienate people bc we love a good conversation with a new person for about an hour, but the minute they start asking for further time and attention we shut it down. My only friends are the ones that are fine of we dont speak for a while, but then when theres time away from everything else we can pick back up where we left off.
Soo interesting.. I can sustain a lunch date.. Maybe 2 hrs.. Then I'm off.. I can't ever hang out indefinitely, I get really stressed thinking how I'm going to exit company... To the point where I have faked incoming phonecalls, that call me away 😂
I think I am INFJ. The most important thing I have learned late in life is to smile in public and pay attention to those that I encounter. My natural tendency is to be lost in thought all the time. Now, I focus on smiling and relating to everyone I interact with now. There is plenty of time to be alone in my art studio. We do not have to be aloof all the time. It has been a life changer.
A lot on this list is true but I refrain from using filler words because they are really annoying when you hear other people speak. People just have to deal with my silence and weird face expression while thinking.
I have had to consciously edit myself while actively speaking to stop say ummm, like and you know. It’s maddening to try to do this while actively speaking. You have to slow down and be really mindful. When I’m with my besties it’s fine, I let the filler words fly.
Chameleon-like qualities is a good way to describe interaction with others. I've done that my entire life. If you got 5 people that know me from different segments of society each would give a description of me that wouldn't match the other 4. I can meet a person, look into their eyes, observe them while they speak, and in 5 minutes intuitively know their deepest hopes, dreams & desires and then outwardly change to mirror those things back to them. It does make one likeable in social settings, but it is also a defense mechanism to protect the psyche and allow it to remain intact, constant and undisturbed.
Sometimes I’ve wondered to myself… am I like a psychopath or something?😅 I know I’m not, but I can literally wear any mask that ppl want, for a short time that is. We can assess other’s’ personalities so easy. People see me as extroverted bc I can literally hold a deep conversation with anyone. As an RN, this communication trait has become my strongest asset. Stay long enough and ppl cross a line in the sand in regards to our values and then we have to speak up or just move on.
I dont like changing who I am to fit the others preference. I only know bc ive done it for so long. Id go home and beat myself up for abandoning myself, as though i let a friend down, and that friend was me. I try with all my might to not do this Even if its means some one does not like me, im willing to sacrifice them instead of betraying my best friend inside of me.
So true, all of it! Had a birthday brunch one year, invited my small list of friends. None of them had ever met, all from very different universes and that's what I wanted to see...how they'd all click or not. It was fascinating! I describe my friends as these interesting satellites I cross paths with from time to time. And I love that.
This is how people get into arguments with INFJ women and sigma women b/c they think they're so introverted, and nice they're going along with them in their ideas and they're not b/c they have a different perception. Perception doesn't mean they don't somewhat agree with the person, but they don't completely, agree b/c they see it slightly different or spiritually different. This is why sigma people at times are not liked b/c people they think they know where person is coming from and they don't.
I do agree with communication struggles, I don’t agree with saying like and um. It takes a tremendous effort to be heard and understood, especially in fast paced conversations. Anymore, I find myself holding my tongue preferring one on one conversations that are deep and intimate.
As a recently realized INFJ man I finally understand why I am the way I am and why relationships at all levels have been so difficult. Also realize that I have never met another INFJ. Sad, but so glad to learn and grow and communicate with you all. Thank you for sharing!
Thank you, I feel like a window has been opened into my soul yet I’m the only one who either knows it exists, or cares. Sort of “sad and lonely” as the song goes. But happy to meet you all. Best wishes!
Resonates pretty well. I'm an INFJ. I like harmony with people, but am always wanting to go deeper than most people want to or can, so haven't met very many who feel like they really see the inner me. So, even though I always try to make my interactions a good experience for all, I prefer to limit my time with most and spend my own time delving into the subjects and inner experiences that I don't have companionship for.
Sure! You have a thought, and you put another thought's coat on it. And hope you circle back around to whatever it was you were trying to illustrate that they didn't understand, and still probably don't...😂 Holidays are gonna be stressful
I see myself in all these scenarios. Sometimes I feel like the only one around. I have one friend who totally understands me. We are going on 13 years of friendship which I’ve never had before. And I’m a much older INFJ woman.
I am an INFJ woman and yes, these patterns and signs did resonate with me. The one about deciding where to eat made me laugh. That is me to a tee. That’s how I handle most decision-making! Even to the point of choosing off the menu or going shopping. Everything becomes an epic decision-making procedure. I am introverted in nature, but I can be a social butterfly occasionally- usually only among a small group of people…I actually appreciated the Covid Quarantine because being by myself is very comfortable to me. If someone stops to chat, I mostly enjoy myself, but have no problem going back to solitude quickly. I often go off in my head into a mental journey and I guess my resting face can look aloof. I’m not, but I’m also not “there” as it were, but somewhere else in my mind, or observing others in the room with me. I’m able to figure out where the undercurrents in the room are coming from, and can discover the the essence of a person, sometimes just by shaking their hand or being in their presence for a minute or two, which is somewhat unsettling for both of us!
I feel you! We had a hurricane hit our area a few years back and we had major damage to our home. We had to rebuild 1/2 of the house from the frame and it was the worse..for so many reasons, but mainly bc I just simply could not make these decisions. But I also didn’t want to let my husband them. 😂 picking out colors, cabinet styles, designs…omg, decision overload. Almost 3 years later and I’m still deciding on a dining room light as it has to be perfect…meanwhile there a whole in the ceiling😂
I wish I met an INFJ woman. Being an INFJ man at the age of 38 I've almost given up on finding someone who understands me. At this point I think that only a fellow INFJ woman would be able to do that. I believe that's the problem we are constantly going through in our lives. Maybe it's time to create a dating app only for INFJ personality type since we are the rarest one. That could help us to connect to other INFJs around the world and, who knows, maybe even find your soul mates.
To iggipob It isn’t necessary to marry an INFJ woman. There are other personality types that CAN understand enough to be a great partner! Look for a person who is an introverted intuitive. The rest can fall into place! Even a GENTLY extroverted intuitive may be possible to get along with as long as they understand your need to not have to mix with crowds often. Im actually an INFJ woman married 50 years to an ISFJ man and theres been enough in just introversion and feeling to make it work all this time! We continue to learn to understand each other and give space for each others needs ( one can’t be selfish ALL the time!).
we prefer independence so we would never go anywhere near that 😅 we say things like, if it’s meant to happen, it will happen. We leave every decision to the universe ❤
I have a friend who is infj and autistic had a conversation at Christmas when I saw him the next day I ran and I am feeling guilty now. But his insight on the conversation burned me out mentally drained me and I am confused is that what I do too people with my insights 😢
I would use sth like that for looking for just platonic friends for sure, but after the healing process I am going through right now.....that would be amazing...to find other deep thinkers...I have always said: I am as deep as the ocean and beyond...infinitely deep and can reach the greatest highs all on my own, just with the sincerest gratitude for the most "normal" aspects of life, like the sky, nature, my room, my appartment, my gym membership, colours (deep ecstasy for the many shades of one and the same colour), for feeling safe and snuggly retreating back to my own sanctuary after having been outside., albeit I do have to say that only the spiritual truths I have realized have made this possible )....I am thrilled to have found people who are like me....I am like a little wild joyous child on the inside and at the same time have very mature perspectives on things, e.g. how everything is connected to each other...how we all are influenced by each other. We all truly are ONE on the deepest subatomic level, just all in many different stages of development and levels of awareness.
Very accurate for me. Well done! And if you aren't an INFJ, you have absolutely no idea how exhausting it is to get through each day. It takes so much deliberation to make the simplest of decisions! I have to order the same thing on the menu because I honestly can't go through the gruelling process of making a choice. There are just too many factors to consider.
Yessss! I have like 1-2 things I'll eat at each restaurant I go to. 😂 never change them. Want to try new things, but get so consumed by "making the RIGHT decision" and "what if I hate it?" that I don't even bother. 😂
As an INFJ I'm not indecisive - I take time to review all the options before deciding. And I am absolutely a "door slammer" as another poster mentioned. Screw me once, but never again.
That's me to a 't' I am fiercely loyal untill you break my trust..then there is no going back. Intuitive, 6th sense? Yup!.....I absolutely love my own company but I have moments where I socialize...
I really enjoy these INFJ videos. This is where I come to be understood. It's so easy for us to be misread by others and is the main reason for the last trait in this video. Being mysterious and reserved is so much easier than consistently being misunderstood. It's easier to focus on others because it is my nature to empathize and understand those around me, it's just normally not reciprocated, so when I meet someone that understands me I hold on for dear life. Meaning I talk to them at least 3 times a year lol.
I resonate with almost all of what you described. The area that does not is in confiding in someone. I have many acquaintances but only 2 people I would say are friends. With each of the two friends it took about 3 years of acquaintance status before I felt they were really friends. Even after 3yrs I haven't open completely to them & probably never will. I'm happily retired now & living in the country but when I was working I would come home completely drained. Most all of the jobs I had were working with people & because I was so attuned to the needs of others that my emotions would be shot. I could go on about all the others signs but I do agree with them. Thank you!
I refuse to let people mistreat me. At work, I am very vocal to the point that my boss has to speak to me. After the confrontation, I do not bring it up again. The other person usually stays away from me. Which is just fine by me.😊
You just describe me accurately, really appreciate this video. I used to feel weird or annoyed every time people asked or telling me "I wish I could get inside your head ". This time I just reply to them "inside my head is abstract, you wouldn't want to be in it" or "my thoughts are not mine 😕 ".
I'm an INFJ woman , I agree with most of what was said here. I don't feel I have a hard time communicating but I get frustrated if I don't feel heard when I do speak. Also you left out, if trust is broken or any bad vibes given INFJ woman just leaves you alone forever.😊😊
Me 100%.. when I tell someone I am introvert they were shocked because I am so outgoing at social gatherings. Though I rather be home when I do go into these social settings I am definitely talkative and not a wall flower (it’s just getting me to the gathering lol). I once had a co worker who told me all about the passing of her mother and dreams of her.. etc. Lots of details and said.. I have never told anyone all this it’s so weird.. I think so deeply and one thing leads to another so quickly in my mind I can sometimes say something that seems if topic but I got there mentally by a quick chain of connections in my brain that lead to to something worth saying out loud. I would dream of being an extrovert when I was younger. When I would see the life of the party so to speak.. I would think I wish I was like that.. but I always thought I am really strange lol. I am an extroverted introvert. Glad to know I am not alone.
People misunderstand what introvert and extrovert mean. Carl Jung coined the terms to describe how we recharge our energy, not whether we are outgoing or shy. Many introverts are very outgoing and enjoy socilaizing, we just find it deeply draining. And many extroverts love being around people and find it energizing but are shy or awkward. I think the key is to know what you need, embrace and honor it. 😊
As an INFJ woman, I agree with pretty much this whole brief summary of experiences I have had with my personality type. Honestly, a lot of it was stuff I thought I just did and it's nice to know that I'm not alone.
That gave me chills. It more than resonated. It's like it was about ME! Every single thing is a match. I would be calling my brother if he were still alive to tell him about this! He told me I was a walking paradox once. He got me. No one else did. Thank you for making your videos. I've watched many and really enjoyed them. 😊
Certainly do, I used to think I was a freak or autistic because I would ‘mimic’ behaviour. Turns out I’m not a freak and no longer feel like one, I accept as there are so few of us in the population, the likelihood of being face to face with another is almost impossible.
Yes, they all do. I am very reserved and as much as I love (most) people, I can only handle being around them for so long. Other people are draining to be around. I only talk about myself if I think there's a teaching moment in telling the important parts of my story to help, heal, and inspire others. I am quite cold to fake people and I tend to "kill meanness with my kindness", mean people don't stand a chance to stay mean around me" 😂
I adore my independance, many people say they hate that i don't need them, i said but it should be better that i want you. I love my alone time, however, i have been working on socialising this past month. I love helping other solve problems. Metaphorical comparrisons and philosophical terms are my go to verbal expression. Alwsys observing and analysing everything, body language, gestures, words utilized, intonation/tone. An INFJ will not back down on beliefs because they will have spent years researchibg befire forming a belief, but im very open to hear others beliefs. Just deciding whst to watch on Netflix is perplexing, by the time i finally make a decision, its time for bed 😂 I can get along with most people but thst doesnt mean i will allow myself to be around all tyoes of people. Once someone is identified as fake, im polite in their presence but i avoid them. I feel no one will 100% know me, because we are so complex, its hard for us to understand us so we dont expect that of others, giving too much away would only cause them more confusion 😂 this is very accurate thank you.
Accurate. I have done another personality test just to see if i'm not an INFJ, but i wasn't lucky, the result, INFJ. Yep, i can be a social butterfly, i can camuflage myself around people that are strangers for me (colleagues and boss), etc.
Why do you see it as unlucky to be what you are? We have so many advantages and experience life in a uniquely deep way that's entirely our own. That's a blessing.
I’ve wondered almost my entire life what was wrong with me. I am definitely an INFJ woman. My husband told me once that if nothing else, I am loyal. If I live you, I will love you through it all and will stand by your side. But to people around me, like my neighbors in my apartment building, I am a recluse. I love living alone, I’m a widow and happy to just be by myself because I had only one true love, and I won’t share myself to just anybody. It’s actually hard being an INFJ.
You guuuuuuuys....Im just enjoying this comment section so much! I feel like I just fell into a pool of my soul mates here. There I go, talking in metaphors again. It's just so great to hear from other INFJ women. Thanks for sharing!
MBTI tested and certified. Twice. 2012 and 2019. Iam everything you talked about. Been aware of these scenarios- living and loving myself for being who iam.😊
Yes. The person with a lot of acquaintances but very few friendships because we are particular. Extremely caring and loyal - we just get drained easily and need extra time to recharge.
My mom told me I was an INFJ.. I took the test years ago and couldn't recall my letters. She has since passed and I was always curious to recall . Thank you! These all hit home.
This resonates with me 110%. I spent my childhood feeling lonely yet completely content being by myself. Often I was surrounded by many friends whom they considered I was their BFFs. All I did was listen to their problems but I never really opened up to them. There was a season I felt conflicted and thought there was something wrong with me. It took me a long time to finally meet one friend in my 30’s whom I felt fully understood. Needless to say she was an INFJ. Now I’m in my 40’s and we continue our great friendship over a decade.
This certainly is me and I can hardly believe how accurate it is. An introvert, I am a definite chameleon although this soon exhausts me. I can relate with anyone almost immediately and I think it is to make the other person feel better as we are so empathetic. I have recently found an INFJ friend, my first ever, and he is the only person that I truly open up to although I still keep parts of me hidden, as yet. This may change with time. It is great though for us both as we KNOW how each other is feeling and have the same altruistic outlook on life.
This definitely describes me with the odd exception. It's impressive and actually made me go "Aha!" about certain elements of my behaviour! Thank you for sharing :)
LOL! It's me. I was raised in harsh circumstances where I had to earn money at a young age to help pay for things. I had to solve problems all the time for the Family. I'm very independent, have a dislike for people but, I can get along them if needed. I can wing it without having a nervous breakdown. I do like helping the helpless, people who gave struggles. I don't like socializing more than twice a year....
Yes, but as I mature and step into my inner strength I find myself more outspoken -when comfortable I will happily speak my mind and have no problem vocalising my needs, when in an open conversation being ready to listen to another's needs too !
I always get either INFJ or INTJ, and this really resonates for me. The only thing I don’t relate to is the decision making, I have no issues making quick, decisive choices. I’m on the line between the two. I once took a test that showed the percentage you ranked for each trait and I was well above the 80th percentile on INxJ, but for T/F I was at 51%, so that explains it. Incredible how accurate this video is though!
I think you are my personal twin! That could have been my comment: I make decisions quickly, and lately I've been getting the T instead of the F. I'm only slightly more F than T. I would have just added that while I get along well with everyone, I remain aloof and am not a people pleaser. My boundaries are very clear and are resoected.😘
Similar here, only I tested right on the S/N line - INFJ/ISFJ, with S having a percent or two advantage. It can make life confusing at times. I identified with everything on this video's list.
We see the world through a 3D kaleidoscope of beautifully changing patterns and colors...complex and convoluted personality that sometimes puzzles and amazes even ourselves.
Omg this is incredible! Finding out after years of knowing they had a personality type like mine and watching videos just spot on is incredible. I’ve always felt I was special not leaning myself or ego but my qualities and of course keot that to myself along with such precision on my intuition it’s uncanny . Thank you for all your info !
This is great! As an INFJ woman, people always perceive me as a free-spirited cheerful person. I do what I want and I’m not concerned with fitting in with the other 40-something mom stereotypes. I have acquaintances, but no friends. if someone gets me to open up, they will see a very deep, contemplative sometimes brooding side to me. It shocks them and they’ll say, “wow, you’re like really deep, I never would have thought that about you.”🙄 I’ve got an emotional range as wide as Mariah Carey’s vocals😂 I can’t talk to people about the things I contemplate bc they will usually become depressed and overwhelmed, it’s just too deep for most. I always want to know more of the deeper or hidden meanings of everything while others are out here picking out lip gloss videos. A lot of ppl are just not passionate…about anything, and I find that weird.
After an awareness and hard gained, better understanding of who i am, the romantic notion of partnering with someone the same has been somewhat idealized in my mind. However I find critical fault in the possibility of starvation, with nobody making a decision on where or what to eat! LOL
I am INFJ and can identify with these points. Introvert unless I am around very close friends. Love my own space to recharge when social activities exhaust me. Cool video thanks
This is so mind blowing! This is me and I never knew it was anything more than, that’s just how I am. I am often labeled as anti social or disconnected. However, I am neither. I am glad I came across this video, it’s so on point for me💯👏🏾👏🏾
I did not know I was INFJ woman until this video. I just thought I was a weird Aquarius girl but I fit into all 7 points in this video. so I am not weird, I am just INFJ. Thanks for this
The characteristics are right. This video is so verifying. When one feels Interiorly like the odd person out, while truly caring & seeing the value, even giftedness of others, seen as being able to fit in as others perceive us to be social, there’s an internal awareness of wondering, who here, is able to know or value where I am truly. That this interior knowing that others are unable to know us or where we’re at, is due to one’s Personality Type & Awareness, not some defect or self-judging & interior wondering, “What’s wrong with me?,” the INFJ is free to accept ourselves, self-judgment & or condemnation free & more fully become who we are without our self-judging or feeling that we are in need of repair, though we might be, all told, because we are sincere & long for others to know us. That feelings & processing goes so deep, we are aware that we view others as not being able to truly accurately know, even understand us.
What's one of the most frustrating thing for me as an INFJ is struggling to get what I'm trying to say out, before either I lose my train of thought or the other person loses interest in what I'm trying to say. Unfortunately, most but not all people give me much time at all to regain my train of thought before they often change the topic altogether.
Or it comes out wrong and snarky because you rush to say it without getting to process the tone and words and there you sit, foot in mouth, as you try to plan an escape from the situation and how to never have to interact with those people ever again...
"They'll often agree to disagree". I literally say this!! Read up some more about INFJ women and was surprised to find the definition describes me. The first date I went on with my husband (of 33 years now), I said to him: "I just want to get a few things straight. What you see is what you get. If you expect desert after dinner, you can go on and get." He just looked at me and said, "All I want to do is go on a date. The movies and then dinner......" I tend to follow Buddhism -my mother's religion - and have stated that never in a million years will I reach enlightenment, but have been told that I have reached enlightenment just by saying this. This is something that I'll have to delve into more.
We do attract narcs but it’s easy to spot them and avoid them 🙂 or we choose partners that are inaccessible like those with ptsd because we really prefer that they are detached as we prefer to be alone
Deeply. It's rare but once we are truly connected, it's deep. I was happily living alone for six years, and had no desire to change that, when I met my husband. We've been together for 15 years now and he's really my only friend and contact with the world. Amd I have old friends I can not see for 20 years or more and still feel like they're family and I'd be there for them if they needed me.
I agree with all except the decision making part. The overlaod is real, but I'll never say "I don't know" or care if I really do know. I think most INFJs don't play that game. We'll say "I don't know" because we really are overwhelmed and can't think!
Oh spot on !! I am often times caught staring off in deep thought … I could be in a crowded room, an empty room and I hate that i do this one… in the midst of a lengthy conversation sometimes 😅
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Yep. Every single one of them!
To the t.
Yes this describes me perfectly
Yes! I feel validated ❤
Exactly, right on target! Love them all but especially resonated with 5 and 6 (the part about “gut instinct” vs weighing “pros and cons” that makes so much sense to me now I struggle with that daily!
Then… I am definitely the introverted social butterfly that uses my “comedic” charm to win people over and to also put myself at ease some people do not believe me when I say I am introverted BECUZ I can get along with anyone speak to anyone that I don’t know with great ease! However, people wear me out but also people r extremely fascinating to me…at the same time‼️
Good information…. thanks for sharing this video!!
A people person who avoids socialization!
Facts - I’m lucky I haven’t strangled myself by now (in frustration).
Truly Brilliant
Wow so true 😂
More like very particular about socialization. Unless I'm forced into it for work or other obligation, I feel no need to socialize with those I feel no kinship with. And another thing I think he has kind of wrong is, the main reason we "agree to disagree" is not so much that we can see all sides, which we can, but that we understand the futility of arguing over things that will not change anyone's mind anyway.
Guilty as charged.
As an INFJ woman I can say that this observation is mostly correct but you forgot about the INFJ 'door slam' when her trust is broken. A bond can be severed that way and there isn't any fixing it folks. No second tries, trust me.
Yes, yes….once trust is broken, it’s impossible to go back, even if I want too. The door slam…perfect way to,put it. It can be from one big betrayal, or a series of small betrayals that build up and finally overwhelm the relationship. I don’t even particularly like that aspect of myself, but it happens anyway,
You’re so right❗️about that.
This.
INTJ man here. We do the same. These so called "pranks" were people break up or cheat as a prank, they disgust me. If you do that and you're my girlfriend or wife? I will kick you out from my life, so far, that not even Google could find you.
@@ErikAnkan73 Same. If Im with someone and he thinks it's cute or funny to do the very things against what I deem severely personal and emotionally trusting? Door slam and no looking back.I will forget their names and what they even look like.
I am so tired of being called "sneaky" when really I am just very reserved and independent. Even my family misunderstands me.
Same here. However i am much more older and sure of myself, I fully embrace my difference as an INFJ and realise why my family misunderstood me...and I am okay with it...but it took a lot of time and feeling hurt...
People often do not trust as as they cannot figure us out....and it can really make our and their lives difficult.
only manuplative people call a reserved person "sneaky". So, nothing personal dear.
Sounds like you are acquainted with a narcissist or two
Oh yes, that one mashes my sensitivity buttons too! Guilt complex and imposter syndrome feelings fire up, hyper-vigilance waiting for some kind of hostile treatment, sets in. Now days its just a reflex from the past and years, many years, have fostered some enlightenment. The suggestion that im the one thats questionable, is strong confirmation of the fact im in toxic company and a diplomatic way of distancing is applied.
1. Intense independence.
2. The use of metaphorical and figurative explanations.
3. You'll catch them looking lost in deep thought.
4. They'll often agree to disagree.
5. They're often met with decision overload.
6. She gets along with just about anyone.
7. They're not easy to get to know.
That is me. Thank you.
Tha KS lol saved me an extra 4 mins 😂❤
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Why is this EDIT button not working??? I tried to add this above but can't find the typical edit feature button so will have to reply to myself - haha - - this list is true BUT I also think it's good to distinguish betw young and mature INFJ's as I have really evolved and progressed & as I get older, I get better and better. So, some of this stuff is applicable to the underdeveloped INFJ's....there is more beauty in the aging process. Enjoy it!
@@kaitlynkarol4600 I am well past the underdeveloped stage. Just hoping to save time for others by listing here. Create a new list for mature INFJ's, and add it here!! That would be great. Thanks.
No one talks about how the INFJ woman gets on her own nerves and needs to withdraw from everyone and even watch the most brainless TV shows in order to survive the constant thinking about things on deeper and deeper levels that no one in her surroundings wants to hear about - I could fill books. And all this thinking is so exhausting.
I need 16 hours of sleep, much like the koala.
So true! I used to not be able to get to sleep at night due to THINKING TOO MUCH!! One way to help is to read a few old Hardy Boy or Nancy Drew books. They’re just barely engaging enough to hold your mind while you relax a bit! Or try Tin Tin adventure stories by Herge. Guaranteed to help ones brain go on the blink! 😂
Yes! I watch trashy reality TV on purpose to get off of that deep plane of existence. I don’t have any drama in my life, but damn if watching it doesn’t give me a break. But then of course, I want to pick apart every scene and everybody’s personality and have a full on convo about what makes the cast tick😂
@@Bayoubebedidn’t know there were others that did this. Nice to know I’m not alone
Best of all coping skills
I'm also an INFJ. I absolutely adore being alone and I rarely feel lonely. I've never met anyone that can hold a candle to what it feels like being by myself. Ironically enough when people meet me they think I'm an extravert and want to attach to me. I am constantly dodging the advances of others to be besties. If I don't resonate I can't let you in.
I can relate to you very well actually.
Yes.
I am exactly the same way. I don't find anyone as interesting or fun or cool to hang out with but people are always trying
Absolutely resonate
Very much myself as well
And humble as well.
We dont just want to be alone, we NEED that alone time,because being around a few people during the course of the day becomes mentally overwhelming for us, so we need that down time to clear ourselves from the energy of other people so we cam balance ourselves again
Yes!
Energy vampires. Even though I like certain people- a small number for me, they can be very exhausting. I honestly don't know how anyone in a professional capacity with a very social job, or is social personally, can handle the pressure of the emotional baggage or head space from people talking at you all day with various issues. I can really empathize and listen a long time but it can wear me out.
It's truly exhausting. It makes my teeth vibrate. It makes motherhood extremely challenging when not even trips to the toilet are sacred or solo.
@@edenelston7668 I nice long peaceful soak in the tub after they go to sleep will help recharge you
Not only the endless people but I don't know how people go, go, go all the time. I need my in-the-house time (& plenty of it!) to be able to deal with the people I do deal with. 🥴😬
Blessings to everyone 🙏
I’ve been an INFJ female for 80 years. Most of these observations are accurate. I usually only talk about myself if I can teach another person something that might protect that person. In a conversation, I talk the least.
Trouble is, most people don't understand why you're telling them something, giving them the benefit of your experience.🤷
I agree, it is so much better to just sit and watch people and evaluate them quietly.
@@WouldbeRenaissanceLady6926people think we are judging them when we are observing. I have been totally misunderstood for observing someone when they are insecure.
Wow that is so very true,these days at 46
Me too
Usually when I do that, I end up being labeled the narcissist who only talks about herself, or is super judgemental for pointing out details no one else notices... "Ok. Sure. Go ahead and fail to learn from and ignore my experience and perspective, and I'm going to tap out of the rest of this conversation, and we are probably done being friends."
I am an INFJ woman and I totally agree with all these indicators, apart from the fact "we get on with everybody". We often can detect flakey fakers and BS in certain people. We become very cold and assuming when this happens. We take a step back and analyse heavily if we got that person wrong or not. Mostly, though, we have got it right. Being a Sigma too I think makes me less of an Fe people pleaser.
I agree. also when I say I don't know or I don't care.. I really don't. But not for people pleasing reasons. I wanna eat somewhere and don't care where. legit. hahaha
I agree entirely as there are people who I immediately want nothing to do with. I also analyse later and have never been wrong.
He did say get along with everyone 'superficially'...this I agree fully. I am quite nomadic in my lifestyle ( that INFJ independence) and can get along with varying types of personalities in my surroundings. But that's about it. They are not my friends but more like friendly acquaintances....
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I hate mean people
Number 2, the worst thing for me, in conversation with someone about a topic you’ve learned a lot about and are passionate and excited to share all theories and many different things you got from it. That you sound like a crazy person, waving your arms around and stumbling over words because while trying to talk you also put a new answer or discovery together. 😂
Girl, it's one of our best traits when we are spilling the beans without spelling the beans. 😂😂😂😂
yesssss, i feel related.
Yes and yes same thing happens here. I am an agronomist in palm oil… many discovery l had done and some improvement in methodology to the point that l had perfected the 100 year old method and already establish for 10 years but no one noticed that l am the one who 😅ntroduced that during my presentation at the refresher course to the field staff.
@@Ergtt7491 😂 I’ve been told later it is a charming quality, but that doesn’t help the overthinking at the moment.
@@mearaftadewos8508 🙋🏾♀️we’re out here, we’re just scattered lol
I had a friend tell me once in college, way before I ever took the MB test and found out I am an INFJ, that when she’s at a bar and someone corners her in a conversation that’s getting way too personal she would pull a “ Kiki”.
She said I’ve watched you, it’s when you re-direct all the conversation around back to the other person by asking them a lot of questions about themselves or questions about their stories.
It was TRUE!!!!! I still do it 30 years later!!!
We’re great listeners, and that’s rare 😀
That's true.
I do that too, always have. Very few pick up on it. They love talking about themselves and I'm more than willing to listen and see what they tell me.
"The People Person who AVOIDS Socialization...!!!" YEP. The SECRET People Person. Though with age I am less interested in people....and more in other aspects of God's creation. Still it rings true.
As a people person who avoids socializationI I'm often so misunderstood. I'm done feeling guilty for enjoying my own company more than anything. Im traveling in my mind all day, why do I need to leave the house? I'm in a perpetual state of joy with just my animals, hobbies, projects, studies, and daydreams. I never NEED people the way others do. I deeply love people though. It's funny when I make it out of my cocoon for a rare night and watch the wide eyed stares as I peel back layers and debut for a while.
Yep!!!
This very accurate. Most ppl think I live a boring and unproductive life. I just love my solitude. My social battery definitely runs out and may take months to recharge.
Yes! My husband is always telling me to get out more, but I don’t want to. I’m perfectly content.
@@mmkenoI've literally been home for two years, lol. I'm so happy here with my animals, my books, my music and old Britcoms, my kitchen and get to relax with my husband. That's all I need to be truly happy. I tell my family I've retired from society, lol.
Thank you for the deepest understanding of my type that I’ve ever seen. For 70 years I’ve grappled with being so misunderstood,even being considered stand-offish or stuck up. Feeling like I’m so different by needing to go home to charge my battery and loving being home coz all my stuff is there. But having trouble with decisions because I see both sides of everything. And being soooo independent that both marriages didn’t last long. Thankfully I have several deep enduring friendships lasting over 35 yrs, which have given me fulfillment and support which I gladly return. These friends are my sanity. It’s hard living in a world of extroverts and aggressive loud unkind people but ………I’m learning to protect and appreciate the loving kind gentle woman that I am. And am learning to be at peace with that.
Snap! I’m about same age and cannot sustain a relationship with opposite sex as I need to be alone and recharge batteries yet I have wonderful wonderful fiends (men and women) and support group. As I’ve gotten older I’ve realised there is no shame (social norms) and am really starting to accept myself and enjoy it because I realise it just can’t be any other way. I do have a daughter who I love dearly and even though she lives thousands of miles away we FaceTime every other day. I’m growing more and more content every day and think it’s self awareness and not trying to please everyone and just pleasing myself.
I'm just shy of 55 y/o & moved in with my 85 y/o Dad to help take care of him about a year ago. He has had some problems understanding my need to be alone. He thinks I'm shutting him out. I've lived alone since my divorce in 2012 so its an adjustment. I was never able to have children & the few long standing friendships I had have withered. Makes my siblings & I that much tighter.
Blessings to everyone 🙏
I can get along with just about anyone always have being the youngest in my family. I am a people person who avoids socialization because I've been screwed over by narcissists all my life by relationships and peoyi thought were my friends. I finally found an INFJ guy who is amazing and I am so thankful for him. Being an INFJ woman is hard because we're too smart and men don't want us because we don't put up with abuse!
You go girl-narc slayer now yeah ha ha
Too true!
EXACTLY 🥹 same here about the narcissists, it really sucks but the signs help you recognize who you don't need in your life and who to avoid.
Omggggg this is me
Seems like almost all INFJ has narcissist family or atleast met a narcissist in their life. 😂
MB test says I am an INFj and a sigma female... the world is so strange to me... I never know if people like me, say they do, or feel sorry for me.
I just like being by myself and learning and dissecting the human perspective... I say human because since I was a child I felt aliens dropped me off on Earth to study humans...
at 77 I am still waiting for their return
I've always felt somewhat other also. My fam was talking about different eras they wouldve thrived in and I said I dont think there is one for me, I think I come from somewhere else, out there, in another life. My mom agreed and said she felt that about me too.
I've actually seen a ufo on a couple occasions, one was with a boyfriend out in a field in the country. It was hovering for a minute or so and then disappeared like it popped out of existence, and we had missing time. The other was with my mom and grandma, it was hovering over the hotel next to ours on our beach vacation, and i pointed and said do you guys see that and they both came over on the balcony and started staring at it. And it was like the aliens knew we saw because that's when it shot back over our heads so fast and we ran out the door and out the causeway to see it blink out.
59 and still waiting here, same things, female INFJ and Sigma. My brothers all call me "a unique creature". 😂
I've sent them links to websites explaining why I am the way I am, and they say the websites nailed it. My daughters both call me a gypsy, because I can tell them what their partners are going to do next, same with their friends. I'm cool with being a unique creature or a gypsy!
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Maybe you are a starseed and dont know it yet. Research Starseeds, if this makes you curious! 😉
You might be autistic
I’ve been hesitant to label myself an INFJ but wow every one of these hits home. Two quotes that stood out… “befriend others on a surface level” and “…whether it’s due to their at-times people pleasing tendencies, or their fear of being seen in a negative light, an INFJ woman will quickly adjust their outer demeanor”.
This is hilarious. The rarest type of woman but somehow you all are it! This is why mgtow exists. Because women will waste your time eating up this garbage instead of making a sandwich for your boyfriends.
Yep, to a T.
I've been asked at two job interviews if I'm always that "bubbly." I mean, it's a job interview dude, I'm clearly overcompensating a bit, lol. If I walled through life without any intentional facade I'd scare people, lol. And never get a job.
This description hits home. That is me. I will add socializing with animals (my dogs) is much less draining than socializing with people.
absolutely
So true about verbal communication - my mind contains a mountain of specialised knowledge but trying to express any of it is hopeless. I stumble over words, get flustered and self conscious and sound like an inarticulate crazy woman I am sure. It’s true I am passionate about my interests and convictions and no one will change my mind.
Yes, my brain goes faster than I can speak. Feel like I had a stroke and speak my mind for shit!
Yep! Super intelligent, if I read something it sticks to my brain like glue, so I'm also a wealth of fun facts and get accused of "being a know it all" often... but, in my defense, I'm very very VERY rarely wrong on what I say or know, whether it's a person's true personality/intentions within the first time of meeting them, actual learned knowledge, or sometimes I just know things without knowing how I know them, but regardless, I always feel misunderstood about it and even though people have seen how accurate my knowledge and perceptions are, they still rarely listen to what I tell them and there's always a big "told ya so" moment, sometimes even taking years for my prediction of someone I just met coming to fruition. See? I feel like none of that even sounds right or makes sense. 😂 by that I mean sometimes I'll be introduced to a friend of a friend or something and within about 5 minutes of talking to the person I can tell you exactly what type of person they are, whether they're trustworthy, whether they're a liar, a snitch, a cheat, pedophile etc or a good person and in the past I've warned people about people and they didn't heed my advice, but everything was cool for a couple of years and then bam all of a sudden they're getting arrested because the person I met one time, that I told them to stay away from because they strike me as a snitch has set them up by doing police recorded control buys of WEED from them, who is supposed to be one of their REALLY "good friends". The only person who is FINALLY beginning to listen to me about people is my husband and well, my sister has ALWAYS trusted my mind and instincts. But I do still feel like a lot of times when I'm trying to tell someone something that feels really important and interesting to me, they don't get as "excited", or I feel like I start sounding like a crazy person and just let the conversation trail off. Lol like I said, I don't even feel I conveyed my thoughts properly in this comment. 😂😂
@@nunyabidness6045wow you remind me of me. I feel like I could have wrote most of this.
Yes Im knowledgeable in my field but HATE being on panels and doing talks. This year im just accepting that i write and im not forcing myself to tske any speaking events
This really is extemely accurate. Also i think we tend to unintentionally alienate people bc we love a good conversation with a new person for about an hour, but the minute they start asking for further time and attention we shut it down. My only friends are the ones that are fine of we dont speak for a while, but then when theres time away from everything else we can pick back up where we left off.
Yesss! So accurate!
Exactly! I always thought I was flawed with these personality traits. It’s wonderful learning about myself and that I’m not alone.
Oh, I so relate!
Soo interesting.. I can sustain a lunch date.. Maybe 2 hrs.. Then I'm off.. I can't ever hang out indefinitely, I get really stressed thinking how I'm going to exit company... To the point where I have faked incoming phonecalls, that call me away 😂
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I think I am INFJ. The most important thing I have learned late in life is to smile in public and pay attention to those that I encounter. My natural tendency is to be lost in thought all the time. Now, I focus on smiling and relating to everyone I interact with now. There is plenty of time to be alone in my art studio. We do not have to be aloof all the time. It has been a life changer.
Have you taken a Meyers Briggs test? They're free and all over the interwebs. 😊
A lot on this list is true but I refrain from using filler words because they are really annoying when you hear other people speak. People just have to deal with my silence and weird face expression while thinking.
Good for you! 🙌💖😂😂
I have had to consciously edit myself while actively speaking to stop say ummm, like and you know. It’s maddening to try to do this while actively speaking. You have to slow down and be really mindful. When I’m with my besties it’s fine, I let the filler words fly.
Chameleon-like qualities is a good way to describe interaction with others. I've done that my entire life. If you got 5 people that know me from different segments of society each would give a description of me that wouldn't match the other 4. I can meet a person, look into their eyes, observe them while they speak, and in 5 minutes intuitively know their deepest hopes, dreams & desires and then outwardly change to mirror those things back to them. It does make one likeable in social settings, but it is also a defense mechanism to protect the psyche and allow it to remain intact, constant and undisturbed.
I thought I was like this because of 20 years (kicking a$$) in sales….. but now I’m seeing how I’m great at sales Because I am like this 😂
Sometimes I’ve wondered to myself… am I like a psychopath or something?😅 I know I’m not, but I can literally wear any mask that ppl want, for a short time that is. We can assess other’s’ personalities so easy. People see me as extroverted bc I can literally hold a deep conversation with anyone. As an RN, this communication trait has become my strongest asset. Stay long enough and ppl cross a line in the sand in regards to our values and then we have to speak up or just move on.
I dont like changing who I am to fit the others preference. I only know bc ive done it for so long.
Id go home and beat myself up for abandoning myself, as though i let a friend down, and that friend was me.
I try with all my might to not do this Even if its means some one does not like me, im willing to sacrifice them instead of betraying my best friend inside of me.
So true, all of it! Had a birthday brunch one year, invited my small list of friends. None of them had ever met, all from very different universes and that's what I wanted to see...how they'd all click or not. It was fascinating! I describe my friends as these interesting satellites I cross paths with from time to time. And I love that.
SAMEEEE
This is how people get into arguments with INFJ women and sigma women b/c they think they're so introverted, and nice they're going along with them in their ideas and they're not b/c they have a different perception. Perception doesn't mean they don't somewhat agree with the person, but they don't completely, agree b/c they see it slightly different or spiritually different. This is why sigma people at times are not liked b/c people they think they know where person is coming from and they don't.
I do agree with communication struggles, I don’t agree with saying like and um.
It takes a tremendous effort to be heard and understood, especially in fast paced conversations. Anymore, I find myself holding my tongue
preferring one on one conversations that are deep and intimate.
I totally agree. I rarely say like or umm.
I find it difficult to communicate through speaking, but an excellent at written communication because I’m able to think things through.
As a recently realized INFJ man I finally understand why I am the way I am and why relationships at all levels have been so difficult. Also realize that I have never met another INFJ. Sad, but so glad to learn and grow and communicate with you all. Thank you for sharing!
Same! I have never met another either.
It's cz we INFJs are a rare type....
But we found our people here ❤
Hey hi glad you have found yourself, makes things easier understanding yourself.
Thank you, I feel like a window has been opened into my soul yet I’m the only one who either knows it exists, or cares. Sort of “sad and lonely” as the song goes. But happy to meet you all. Best wishes!
Resonates pretty well. I'm an INFJ. I like harmony with people, but am always wanting to go deeper than most people want to or can, so haven't met very many who feel like they really see the inner me. So, even though I always try to make my interactions a good experience for all, I prefer to limit my time with most and spend my own time delving into the subjects and inner experiences that I don't have companionship for.
Thank you, kindred spirit.
#2--as an INFJ woman, i talk in metaphors to the point where sometimes, i don't even know what I'm saying 😆😆😆
Sure! You have a thought, and you put another thought's coat on it. And hope you circle back around to whatever it was you were trying to illustrate that they didn't understand, and still probably don't...😂 Holidays are gonna be stressful
Dear lord, this must be why I love so many Tori Amos songs!
As an INFJ woman, I approve this message. Nailed it! 😊
I see myself in all these scenarios. Sometimes I feel like the only one around. I have one friend who totally understands me. We are going on 13 years of friendship which I’ve never had before. And I’m a much older INFJ woman.
Hang on tight to that friend.............
@@nanetten6238 Thanks for your support. Appreciate it more than you can know.
My BFF and I have talked about every detail of everything, every day for 25 years ❤️ She’s my parallel.
Yeah... finding a friend who can accommodate an INFJ's "weird tendencies" without judging is a good thing all-together...happy for you❤❤❤
I am an INFJ woman and yes, these patterns and signs did resonate with me. The one about deciding where to eat made me laugh. That is me to a tee. That’s how I handle most decision-making! Even to the point of choosing off the menu or going shopping. Everything becomes an epic decision-making procedure. I am introverted in nature, but I can be a social butterfly occasionally- usually only among a small group of people…I actually appreciated the Covid Quarantine because being by myself is very comfortable to me. If someone stops to chat, I mostly enjoy myself, but have no problem going back to solitude quickly. I often go off in my head into a mental journey and I guess my resting face can look aloof. I’m not, but I’m also not “there” as it were, but somewhere else in my mind, or observing others in the room with me. I’m able to figure out where the undercurrents in the room are coming from, and can discover the the essence of a person, sometimes just by shaking their hand or being in their presence for a minute or two, which is somewhat unsettling for both of us!
I feel you! We had a hurricane hit our area a few years back and we had major damage to our home. We had to rebuild 1/2 of the house from the frame and it was the worse..for so many reasons, but mainly bc I just simply could not make these decisions. But I also didn’t want to let my husband them. 😂 picking out colors, cabinet styles, designs…omg, decision overload. Almost 3 years later and I’m still deciding on a dining room light as it has to be perfect…meanwhile there a whole in the ceiling😂
I wish I met an INFJ woman. Being an INFJ man at the age of 38 I've almost given up on finding someone who understands me. At this point I think that only a fellow INFJ woman would be able to do that. I believe that's the problem we are constantly going through in our lives. Maybe it's time to create a dating app only for INFJ personality type since we are the rarest one. That could help us to connect to other INFJs around the world and, who knows, maybe even find your soul mates.
To iggipob It isn’t necessary to marry an INFJ woman. There are other personality types that CAN understand enough to be a great partner! Look for a person who is an introverted intuitive. The rest can fall into place! Even a GENTLY extroverted intuitive may be possible to get along with as long as they understand your need to not have to mix with crowds often. Im actually an INFJ woman married 50 years to an ISFJ man and theres been enough in just introversion and feeling to make it work all this time! We continue to learn to understand each other and give space for each others needs ( one can’t be selfish ALL the time!).
So true but none of us would use it 😂
we prefer independence so we would never go anywhere near that 😅
we say things like, if it’s meant to happen, it will happen. We leave every decision to the universe ❤
I have a friend who is infj and autistic had a conversation at Christmas when I saw him the next day I ran and I am feeling guilty now. But his insight on the conversation burned me out mentally drained me and I am confused is that what I do too people with my insights 😢
I would use sth like that for looking for just platonic friends for sure, but after the healing process I am going through right now.....that would be amazing...to find other deep thinkers...I have always said: I am as deep as the ocean and beyond...infinitely deep and can reach the greatest highs all on my own, just with the sincerest gratitude for the most "normal" aspects of life, like the sky, nature, my room, my appartment, my gym membership, colours (deep ecstasy for the many shades of one and the same colour), for feeling safe and snuggly retreating back to my own sanctuary after having been outside., albeit I do have to say that only the spiritual truths I have realized have made this possible )....I am thrilled to have found people who are like me....I am like a little wild joyous child on the inside and at the same time have very mature perspectives on things, e.g. how everything is connected to each other...how we all are influenced by each other. We all truly are ONE on the deepest subatomic level, just all in many different stages of development and levels of awareness.
Just found out at 65 years old that I’m AUTISTIC !! That explains a lot !!
Very accurate for me. Well done! And if you aren't an INFJ, you have absolutely no idea how exhausting it is to get through each day. It takes so much deliberation to make the simplest of decisions! I have to order the same thing on the menu because I honestly can't go through the gruelling process of making a choice. There are just too many factors to consider.
So true. I could never go into Baskin Robbins. 32 flavors ???? After chocolate or vanilla you lost me.
So me too😂😂
Yessss! I have like 1-2 things I'll eat at each restaurant I go to. 😂 never change them. Want to try new things, but get so consumed by "making the RIGHT decision" and "what if I hate it?" that I don't even bother. 😂
😂😂😂😂 i can so relate
As an INFJ I'm not indecisive - I take time to review all the options before deciding. And I am absolutely a "door slammer" as another poster mentioned. Screw me once, but never again.
That's me to a 't' I am fiercely loyal untill you break my trust..then there is no going back. Intuitive, 6th sense? Yup!.....I absolutely love my own company but I have moments where I socialize...
I really enjoy these INFJ videos. This is where I come to be understood. It's so easy for us to be misread by others and is the main reason for the last trait in this video. Being mysterious and reserved is so much easier than consistently being misunderstood. It's easier to focus on others because it is my nature to empathize and understand those around me, it's just normally not reciprocated, so when I meet someone that understands me I hold on for dear life. Meaning I talk to them at least 3 times a year lol.
Your last sentence truly made me laugh out loud😊
I can so relate to that!
As for 6, I would say I can get along with most everyone, but I feel comfortable with few.
I resonate with almost all of what you described. The area that does not is in confiding in someone. I have many acquaintances but only 2 people I would say are friends. With each of the two friends it took about 3 years of acquaintance status before I felt they were really friends. Even after 3yrs I haven't open completely to them & probably never will. I'm happily retired now & living in the country but when I was working I would come home completely drained. Most all of the jobs I had were working with people & because I was so attuned to the needs of others that my emotions would be shot. I could go on about all the others signs but I do agree with them.
Thank you!
I refuse to let people mistreat me. At work, I am very vocal to the point that my boss has to speak to me. After the confrontation, I do not bring it up again. The other person usually stays away from me. Which is just fine by me.😊
You just describe me accurately, really appreciate this video. I used to feel weird or annoyed every time people asked or telling me "I wish I could get inside your head ". This time I just reply to them "inside my head is abstract, you wouldn't want to be in it" or "my thoughts are not mine 😕 ".
Thank you for the appreciation! We're complex, yet I wouldn't trade places with someone else if I had the chance 😊
I'm an INFJ woman , I agree with most of what was said here. I don't feel I have a hard time communicating but I get frustrated if I don't feel heard when I do speak. Also you left out, if trust is broken or any bad vibes given INFJ woman just leaves you alone forever.😊😊
I am an INFJ woman and this was incredibly spot on 💗
It’s almost therapeutic, listening to that description … so familiar
We love to hear it!
Me 100%.. when I tell someone I am introvert they were shocked because I am so outgoing at social gatherings. Though I rather be home when I do go into these social settings I am definitely talkative and not a wall flower (it’s just getting me to the gathering lol). I once had a co worker who told me all about the passing of her mother and dreams of her.. etc. Lots of details and said.. I have never told anyone all this it’s so weird.. I think so deeply and one thing leads to another so quickly in my mind I can sometimes say something that seems if topic but I got there mentally by a quick chain of connections in my brain that lead to to something worth saying out loud. I would dream of being an extrovert when I was younger. When I would see the life of the party so to speak.. I would think I wish I was like that.. but I always thought I am really strange lol. I am an extroverted introvert. Glad to know I am not alone.
People misunderstand what introvert and extrovert mean. Carl Jung coined the terms to describe how we recharge our energy, not whether we are outgoing or shy.
Many introverts are very outgoing and enjoy socilaizing, we just find it deeply draining.
And many extroverts love being around people and find it energizing but are shy or awkward.
I think the key is to know what you need, embrace and honor it. 😊
As an INFJ woman, I agree with pretty much this whole brief summary of experiences I have had with my personality type. Honestly, a lot of it was stuff I thought I just did and it's nice to know that I'm not alone.
Very true on the “get along with pretty much everyone but they are difficult to get to know”
That gave me chills. It more than resonated. It's like it was about ME! Every single thing is a match.
I would be calling my brother if he were still alive to tell him about this! He told me I was a walking paradox once. He got me. No one else did.
Thank you for making your videos. I've watched many and really enjoyed them. 😊
Certainly do, I used to think I was a freak or autistic because I would ‘mimic’ behaviour. Turns out I’m not a freak and no longer feel like one, I accept as there are so few of us in the population, the likelihood of being face to face with another is almost impossible.
I'm an INFJ, tested many times. This was amazingly accurate. Thank you.
This blessed me as you spoke and described me so well. It feels good to feel understood which isn’t too common for me. Love and shalom to you! 🎯💯🥸
This is so accurate. Also explains two reasons that I have few close friends and difficulty finding dates. Great video%
Thank you for the feedback! 😊
Yes, they all do. I am very reserved and as much as I love (most) people, I can only handle being around them for so long. Other people are draining to be around.
I only talk about myself if I think there's a teaching moment in telling the important parts of my story to help, heal, and inspire others.
I am quite cold to fake people and I tend to "kill meanness with my kindness", mean people don't stand a chance to stay mean around me" 😂
I adore my independance, many people say they hate that i don't need them, i said but it should be better that i want you. I love my alone time, however, i have been working on socialising this past month.
I love helping other solve problems.
Metaphorical comparrisons and philosophical terms are my go to verbal expression.
Alwsys observing and analysing everything, body language, gestures, words utilized, intonation/tone.
An INFJ will not back down on beliefs because they will have spent years researchibg befire forming a belief, but im very open to hear others beliefs.
Just deciding whst to watch on Netflix is perplexing, by the time i finally make a decision, its time for bed 😂
I can get along with most people but thst doesnt mean i will allow myself to be around all tyoes of people. Once someone is identified as fake, im polite in their presence but i avoid them.
I feel no one will 100% know me, because we are so complex, its hard for us to understand us so we dont expect that of others, giving too much away would only cause them more confusion 😂 this is very accurate thank you.
That netflix part hahahaha so true
Accurate. I have done another personality test just to see if i'm not an INFJ, but i wasn't lucky, the result, INFJ. Yep, i can be a social butterfly, i can camuflage myself around people that are strangers for me (colleagues and boss), etc.
Why do you see it as unlucky to be what you are? We have so many advantages and experience life in a uniquely deep way that's entirely our own. That's a blessing.
I’ve wondered almost my entire life what was wrong with me. I am definitely an INFJ woman. My husband told me once that if nothing else, I am loyal. If I live you, I will love you through it all and will stand by your side. But to people around me, like my neighbors in my apartment building, I am a recluse. I love living alone, I’m a widow and happy to just be by myself because I had only one true love, and I won’t share myself to just anybody. It’s actually hard being an INFJ.
What does " if nothing else" mean. That would've hurt me?
@@lindamast2766 it was a compliment.
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Please look into it and find out if you are autistic. You're not the only one who feels this way.
You guuuuuuuys....Im just enjoying this comment section so much! I feel like I just fell into a pool of my soul mates here. There I go, talking in metaphors again. It's just so great to hear from other INFJ women. Thanks for sharing!
MBTI tested and certified. Twice. 2012 and 2019.
Iam everything you talked about. Been aware of these scenarios- living and loving myself for being who iam.😊
Yes. The person with a lot of acquaintances but very few friendships because we are particular. Extremely caring and loyal - we just get drained easily and need extra time to recharge.
My mom told me I was an INFJ.. I took the test years ago and couldn't recall my letters. She has since passed and I was always curious to recall . Thank you! These all hit home.
This resonates with me 110%. I spent my childhood feeling lonely yet completely content being by myself. Often I was surrounded by many friends whom they considered I was their BFFs. All I did was listen to their problems but I never really opened up to them. There was a season I felt conflicted and thought there was something wrong with me. It took me a long time to finally meet one friend in my 30’s whom I felt fully understood. Needless to say she was an INFJ. Now I’m in my 40’s and we continue our great friendship over a decade.
This certainly is me and I can hardly believe how accurate it is. An introvert, I am a definite chameleon although this soon exhausts me. I can relate with anyone almost immediately and I think it is to make the other person feel better as we are so empathetic. I have recently found an INFJ friend, my first ever, and he is the only person that I truly open up to although I still keep parts of me hidden, as yet. This may change with time. It is great though for us both as we KNOW how each other is feeling and have the same altruistic outlook on life.
An INFJ woman ,if betrayed by male or female (husband/wife , friend ) will probably forgive the person ,BUT WILL NEVER FORGET!
Are you also a Scorpio, lol? 😂
This definitely describes me with the odd exception. It's impressive and actually made me go "Aha!" about certain elements of my behaviour! Thank you for sharing :)
LOL! It's me. I was raised in harsh circumstances where I had to earn money at a young age to help pay for things. I had to solve problems all the time for the Family. I'm very independent, have a dislike for people but, I can get along them if needed. I can wing it without having a nervous breakdown. I do like helping the helpless, people who gave struggles. I don't like socializing more than twice a year....
The last points😂
💯% accurate of me. Well done once again 👏
Yes, but as I mature and step into my inner strength I find myself more outspoken -when comfortable I will happily speak my mind and have no problem vocalising my needs, when in an open conversation being ready to listen to another's needs too !
I always get either INFJ or INTJ, and this really resonates for me. The only thing I don’t relate to is the decision making, I have no issues making quick, decisive choices. I’m on the line between the two. I once took a test that showed the percentage you ranked for each trait and I was well above the 80th percentile on INxJ, but for T/F I was at 51%, so that explains it. Incredible how accurate this video is though!
I think you are my personal twin! That could have been my comment: I make decisions quickly, and lately I've been getting the T instead of the F. I'm only slightly more F than T. I would have just added that while I get along well with everyone, I remain aloof and am not a people pleaser. My boundaries are very clear and are resoected.😘
same here hahaha
Similar here, only I tested right on the S/N line - INFJ/ISFJ, with S having a percent or two advantage. It can make life confusing at times. I identified with everything on this video's list.
We see the world through a 3D kaleidoscope of beautifully changing patterns and colors...complex and convoluted personality that sometimes puzzles and amazes even ourselves.
Very much to the point👍🏻 Flexible but not bendable in the social scene!
This is so accurate. Im also infj. We also can see through people, a born spiritual, a gift of knowing. We are also very observant.
Thank you, I feel heard and understood for once.
Omg this is incredible! Finding out after years of knowing they had a personality type like mine and watching videos just spot on is incredible. I’ve always felt I was special not leaning myself or ego but my qualities and of course keot that to myself along with such precision on my intuition it’s uncanny . Thank you for all your info !
That's a negative on 6. You got that wrong, sir. I don't really like ppl, I tolerate .
I used to. And when I find those rare genuinely interesting and kind souls, I melt for them. On the whole though, yeah, people suck, lol.
This is great! As an INFJ woman, people always perceive me as a free-spirited cheerful person. I do what I want and I’m not concerned with fitting in with the other 40-something mom stereotypes. I have acquaintances, but no friends. if someone gets me to open up, they will see a very deep, contemplative sometimes brooding side to me. It shocks them and they’ll say, “wow, you’re like really deep, I never would have thought that about you.”🙄 I’ve got an emotional range as wide as Mariah Carey’s vocals😂 I can’t talk to people about the things I contemplate bc they will usually become depressed and overwhelmed, it’s just too deep for most. I always want to know more of the deeper or hidden meanings of everything while others are out here picking out lip gloss videos. A lot of ppl are just not passionate…about anything, and I find that weird.
After an awareness and hard gained, better understanding of who i am, the romantic notion of partnering with someone the same has been somewhat idealized in my mind. However I find critical fault in the possibility of starvation, with nobody making a decision on where or what to eat! LOL
I am INFJ and can identify with these points. Introvert unless I am around very close friends. Love my own space to recharge when social activities exhaust me. Cool video thanks
Man, you nailed it. That's me to a tee.
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This is so mind blowing! This is me and I never knew it was anything more than, that’s just how I am. I am often labeled as anti social or disconnected. However, I am neither. I am glad I came across this video, it’s so on point for me💯👏🏾👏🏾
As an INFJ my favorite game is Solitaire 😂 (no really, I have multiple versions on my phone)
I like playing solitaire too! On my computer, on my phone
Original, Spider solitare, free cell, etc.
Yes!
me too!
Love me some Solitaire or the classic bubble shooter games, lol. Love the way they distract the conscious mind so my subconscious can frollick. 😂
I did not know I was INFJ woman until this video. I just thought I was a weird Aquarius girl but I fit into all 7 points in this video. so I am not weird, I am just INFJ. Thanks for this
Well you sure got this one mostly quite accurate.
The characteristics are right. This video is so verifying. When one feels Interiorly like the odd person out, while truly caring & seeing the value, even giftedness of others, seen as being able to fit in as others perceive us to be social, there’s an internal awareness of wondering, who here, is able to know or value where I am truly. That this interior knowing that others are unable to know us or where we’re at, is due to one’s Personality Type & Awareness, not some defect or self-judging & interior wondering, “What’s wrong with me?,” the INFJ is free to accept ourselves, self-judgment & or condemnation free & more fully become who we are without our self-judging or feeling that we are in need of repair, though we might be, all told, because we are sincere & long for others to know us. That feelings & processing goes so deep, we are aware that we view others as not being able to truly accurately know, even understand us.
What's one of the most frustrating thing for me as an INFJ is struggling to get what I'm trying to say out, before either I lose my train of thought or the other person loses interest in what I'm trying to say. Unfortunately, most but not all people give me much time at all to regain my train of thought before they often change the topic altogether.
Yes, it's like that for me, too. I've given up on conversation.
Or it comes out wrong and snarky because you rush to say it without getting to process the tone and words and there you sit, foot in mouth, as you try to plan an escape from the situation and how to never have to interact with those people ever again...
@@edenelston7668 lol! I can relate!
INFJs in the house! 🫶🏼🫶🏼🙋🏼♀️🙋🏼♀️🙋🏼♀️ Rare creature. Very cool way to describe us quirky introverts.
"They'll often agree to disagree". I literally say this!!
Read up some more about INFJ women and was surprised to find the definition describes me.
The first date I went on with my husband (of 33 years now), I said to him: "I just want to get a few things straight. What you see is what you get. If you expect desert after dinner, you can go on and get."
He just looked at me and said, "All I want to do is go on a date. The movies and then dinner......"
I tend to follow Buddhism -my mother's religion - and have stated that never in a million years will I reach enlightenment, but have been told that I have reached enlightenment just by saying this.
This is something that I'll have to delve into more.
I study Buddhism also! I’ve had a special interest in spiritual stuff since I was a teenager
I don’t know how to explain how true this is. We infj women march to our own drum, and just know things.
Do INFJ women ever get attached? I feel that being single may be the best choice. Plus I feel that we attract narcissistic people 😢
It's much easier to not attach and walk away.
Especially when dealing with narcs.
Avoid narcs like the plague. They're not worth your time or energy.
We do attract narcs but it’s easy to spot them and avoid them 🙂
or we choose partners that are inaccessible like those with ptsd
because we really prefer that they are detached as we prefer to be alone
Deeply. It's rare but once we are truly connected, it's deep. I was happily living alone for six years, and had no desire to change that, when I met my husband. We've been together for 15 years now and he's really my only friend and contact with the world. Amd I have old friends I can not see for 20 years or more and still feel like they're family and I'd be there for them if they needed me.
I literally feel like you just wrote a book about me. Every single thing resonated with me so deeply.
I agree with all except the decision making part. The overlaod is real, but I'll never say "I don't know" or care if I really do know. I think most INFJs don't play that game. We'll say "I don't know" because we really are overwhelmed and can't think!
Oh the social battery...all...the...time... it's exhausting. I then need to hide for a week or so and not speak to anyone LOL
But why is she shaving her face? Also I NEVER say 'like' or 'um'!
Same. I never say filler words. I just pause and continue.
This seems very fitting! Thanks for deepening my awareness of the behavioural patterns I exhibit and what that makes me appear like in society.
Spot on ... hands down... accurate.. thanks.
As an INFJ woman, I must admit that this is true. Thank you so much for this video!
This is so funny! You have describes me to a ‘t”! Well done.
Amazing! Thank you for the feedback 🙌
THANK YOU!!! I love these so much and it’s really illuminating about myself. My boyfriend is also an INFJ! Pretty cool
I am INFJ also and I agree except for the "Meal choice" thing. But if I have to buy new furniture, oh dear....
Haha yes totally!
Oh spot on !! I am often times caught staring off in deep thought … I could be in a crowded room, an empty room and I hate that i do this one… in the midst of a lengthy conversation sometimes 😅