@@knox7945 Well, if he talked that way about my wife, the next time he would talk so called truth, he would do it with some teeth missing. There is a difference between being a man and being a lame brain.
absolutely true. And arseh-oles are not emphatic. you SHOULD care about people's feelings, but not allow them to act entiteled, selfish and immature - so things don;t have to be absolute, like in the west. One can care for feelings and present facts also, in a polite and kind way. What people from west can;t see, both those crying abou ttheir feelings and those forcing "facts don;t care" are same immature selfish people - just with oposite views :)
That's what I'm saying and the guy who made the video sounds American and he keeps saying he is. Like where have you ever in your life heard that accent in America unless he was a foreigner
Bro on the first video said "Doesn't matter what you think, but what she thinks." This kind of people will lead you to pure and utter unhappiness. Just stay away.
That's not what he meant. He is saying that when you say something hurtful, you don't get to decide whether or not you hurt the persons feelings. If she finds it hurtful to be called fat, then that's what matters. He is a man sticking up for his wife. Get your priorities straight, psycho.
You don't know their love story. Maybe she used to be bigger and he is taking her on a weight loss journey to health because he loves her...or maybe he likes his woman plump. There ARE guys who do...just because you don't doesn't mean they can't.
@@JonathanVachon777 Beeing POLITE to a person is not the same as RESPECTING them. I am usually polite to stranger. But my respect, has to be earned. Have a nice day :)
So I’m a Desi (South Asian, Bengali to be exact) female. It is not uncommon for uncles and aunties to take notice of weight in younger folks. Most in laws don’t want heavy looking son/daughter in-laws cause it isn’t healthy and they worry they will not be able to have kids. And it is also considered shameful cause being fat at a young age shows lacks of self control.
I was newly married and my wife was a 3-meal-a-day cooker, so I gained like 20 pounds. One day, my neighbor came over to talk to me and said, "damn, son, you're getting fat." My initial thought was it was rude, but he wasn't wrong. I knew I was getting fat. I didn't like the weight, I just hadn't done anything about it. So I started eating less that day and lost the 20 pounds… all thanks to my "rude" neighbor.
How is it rude? It’s stating facts. It’s crazy how in today’s world we’re supposed to live in delu lu land and believe lies, because the truth hurts peoples feelings.
See, the woman from Guatemala knows what it is to be poor and struggling, and she doesn't expect the entire world delivered to her on a silver platter. She has different standards than American women or women from rich countries.
I think the Pakistani man is correct, I think the American man needs to be the one to learn, he went to their country and he was innocent in his comment he needed to just thank him and move on, but he embarrassed him by pushing American culture on a non American. Just because an vain American finds it rude doesn't make it rude.
Funny thing, our grandparents and their parents, were much like this pakistani guy......(althoug they were cristians instead of muslims). But this down to earth, respectfull but blunt attitude, is how my grandparents used to be....... they thought telling you how things were, instead of caring for your emotions, was actually doing you a favour ........ My grandma told my once that a girl I brought home was like a pear, with a slim face, but with fat *ss and legs. Another time she stated that another had not the best hips to give birth, and she was no good for me.......and she didn`t wait to speak to me in private, if you know what I mean.......when I asked her why she was so harsh, she told me it was their mothers job to care for their feelings, not hers........ When she was young, marriages were still arranged by families in my country and for her, marriage was about family and buissness, not about romance and love......... I miss the old lady........
@@jorgebarriosmur yeah that sounds like my grandparents too. My wife is from Vietnam and they don’t have any problems telling you you’re fat or ugly and they’ll say it straight to your face. America is the only one that worries about your feelings instead of being honest with you to help. It keeps people in perspective so that they don’t act like a lot of these people do nowadays where they think they’re entitled when they’re way out side of their league.
@@tonylayfield8750everything I said still applies. Doesn’t matter where he from he shouldn’t apply his culture to the citizens of the country he is visiting.
@@phantomghostdiv I totally agree and wherein heaven forfend that one should stop and / or chastise a Pakistani chap for beating his wife (it being in their 'culture' to engage in that sort of thing... I've been there and seen it... and wherein there's maybe something to be said for keeping ones womenfolk in check)... and I likewise can't abide those sanctimonious pricks whom would, for example, engage in the censure Faroese people wrt their habit of rounding up and then slaughtering whales within the harbour at Vagar, 'coz that's part of Faroese 'culture'... and / or those whom would censure of FGM, as regularly practiced across much of sub-Saharan Africa, i.e. from Senegal on the shores of the Atlantic right across all the Saharan countries to Djibouti on the Red Sea, plus in Yemen and Iraq too, 'coz FGM's a normal part of their culture. Yep, all cultures are equal and therein are all worthy of respect.
Go to other countries and someone stating you are fat, when you are, is just what people do. It's like saying, "You have blue eyes.". The rest of the world isn't delusional. Only the West.
If I'm fat, I know I'm fat, right? Having people telling me (or my husband) serves what purpose exactly? If I see a fit woman with a fat guy I won't go to the woman and tell her her man is fat. She knows, he knows. It's plain disrespect.
Recently stumbled into your videos and they are amazing! I love how you don't mince your words and emphasize on what is really wrong with this world now. I'm a straight girl and was bullied by a group of non binary people hanging outside my house. They were holding signs and i just walked past them and they confronted me asking do you support us and i just kept quiet and continued walking, one of them yanked at my bag and shoved me to the ground. I was scared and called my dad and he went out with a shotgun and they ran. i didn't even do anything wrong and they expect everyone to support their weird beliefs. Thank you for doing what you do.
The thing is. They're the foreigners, not the man speaking the truths. He was polite and speaking the way people speak in that country. The visitors should respect other peoples culture even if they don't like it. 🤣🤣
Also the thing with the truck driver who doesn't spit game but who makes very decent money truly illustrates the female mind: to them, it's not prestigious or status-building. They'd sooner be with a violent, abusive financier who can sweet talk them than with than an honest, good truck driver. It's just how they are. Zero rationality, 100% emotion. They never think about long-term consequences, and they will never take accountability for their choices.
Personally for me, I think the reason why people don't go for single moms is because the majority of them try to hook the guy (immediately) into taking care of their child like it's their own wayyy too early. It makes the man feel burnt out and not wanted, so at that point, they pack up and leave. Most have to worry about facing humiliation both privately and publicly bc they are shamed into thinking they left the woman on her own with the child and the man instantly gets blamed for anything. I could be wrong being that im only 21 but that's just what I see
I don't believe in cultural relativism, but I also don't think it's right to visit a foreign country and tell them that their cultural norms are wrong. It's extremely arrogant.
@@zera2314 I'm more inclined to believe it was a miscommunication. The Pakistani man contradicted himself multiple times, and he seemed genuinely surprised that the passenger thought he was being rude.
"Rude" (to say a woman is fat)? I would argue that is a "sin" to "bear false witness against thy neighbor". Most religions follow the same "don't lie / cheat / steal / murder" rule of thumb.
Here's the thing. Every country no matter how traditional is going to have outliers who live the city girl dream. But 99% of the women in these countries are completely 100% authentic and traditional. Women in the US are the only ones who actually turned it into a lifestyle. We don't have outliers here we literally have life controlling trends. And that's what's funny to me. They say they won't let a man control their lives but they will let something that doesn't exist physically, ya know, like a trend control their lives.😂😂😂
On the 6 figure man bit. I know 2 guys personally that wifed up shallow women. It was obvious they were marrying them for their money. These guys worked ALL THE TIME for that money. They had kids with these women who eventually left them bc they werent home enough, there for them, etc. Absolutely tiny amount of men that work a M-F 9-5 and have that kind of money. As griff said theyre almost nonexistent.
the women that wouldnt date a truck driver are the reason why i say, women desire power, but cannot have societal power until they are willing to do the hard jobs that society requires to function. truck drivers, construction workers, ditch diggers, sewer workers, etc. until women are willing to do the hard jobs that society requires to function, they cannot have societal power because that means the jobs they do do, are largely irrelevant to society. teachers and nurses, both fields women dominate in, are critical to society, but that is just a handful of the large number of jobs society requires. until women do the jobs critical to society, then anything they do do, is at the tacit behest of men.
I work as a truck driver, I work 3 days a week for 15 hours a day and I'm projected to make $75-$80k this year. I strongly suggest anyone interested to get their class A license.
Finally get to say it. First baby ! Also thanks Griffin for the healthiest red pill perspective on the platform. Been watching your videos a lot and trough the last 6 months it help me get back on my schedule and focus on my purpose.
The problem is we have a law that contradict itself example: we take vows to stay together forever and that same system in court says we can break it if we are unhappy
if people think this man is rude , come shop for plus size in thailand , the stores that carry plus size clothing for women are called " MOO MOO SIZE " , " FAT GIRL " etc if you don't believe me you can see them all over you tube
@@shanehegarty6844 I know I wish we were more like you. But these days people are so soft you are supposed to walk on egg shells and lie everywhere you go because we can't say what we actually think. It's insanity and no wonder so many of us white guys want and are marrying Asian women.
I live there too, but there is a difference from other countries in that the big girls and boys refer to themselves as fat, as do their friends, and it's not derogatory, it's descriptive. They will call you fat, if you are fat, and it's malicious, it just is what it is. Funny AF. 😂
For the first one, i seent nothing wrong. He did what he should do culturally which is address the man. That's how it is in the middle east. Idk what it is with career women. All you have to do is stay home for like 5 years with the child and then you can start your career. My wife did that and it worked out great.
If things go wrong, the first woman will take it all out on her boyfriend and be mad at him for not upholding her honor, defending the lie. All this nonsense about not being allowed to ask a woman about her age, her weight or her body account. Why shouldn't you be allowed to ask that? What are you not allowed to ask a man? This is all just to ignore a characteristic of a woman that exists but doesn't help her.
You see they want the career and stuff to put on the attractive things to attract a man that will provide a higher standard of living. I grew up in poverty. I dumpster dived for food. I had a family and worked my way out of destitution with partners who only dragged me down. We aren't taught how to choose a mate. My dad was either a sociopath or a psychopath. My mom is a narcissist
There are millions of Americans living a good life on $40K. And even less. It is more about where you spend it than how much you make. A dude could make $100K and be broke. A dude could make $35K and own his house. No car payment, and be lounging back on vacation.
i live under 50k job is flag/flate rate so some years its 35k (cough 2020/21) some years its good. just saving money now in 2024 has been rough. i want a house and to get there im stopped 1 of my hobbies and dont eat out.
@DHGcrimson Where do you live? That is the big determining factor. If you live in NYC then life is tight. But if you live in rural Georga your money goes a whole lot further. Rent can be ¼ the price. Food and fuel can be cheaper. Insurance can be ½ the cost. Room for a garden and your food bill is slashed. Buy meat direct from the farmer is a huge savings. All these things add up quickly. But if you need that fancy apartment and shiny new fancy car, going out to the clubs, well, then that same income just won't do.
My friend manages drivers for a major international bottling/coffee company in Chicago area. Local drivers make over $35 an hour plus health and pension benefits. Home every night and they can't find enough drivers.
I'll pick the 2nd one. She can defend the home when I'm not around. And if a dog start yappin at her then WAP! Now it's already in the pan. I respect the efficiency.
Let her talk Let her explain why she is, or isn't healthy she's a "strong independent woman" -- WAIT HOLY CRAP DID I JUST ASSUME H'....ITS GENDER?? Real Talk: The Pakistani man is FREE to speak outloud..... he is FREE to start a conversation of his subject choice...... if SHE is offended, SHE can speak up..... no need for guys to defend women
My top five criteria are: 1. same religion 2. if I would be willing to let him be the head of the household (in the Bible there are actual lists for what that includes) 3. I ran out of 'absolute requirements'
I could write a book in this comment box. Long story short, you are right about finding a blueprint, and from there seeing what we have in common, the way we were raised, interests. Hobbies, life styles, etc. Talking is so important, to really get to know someone, and it is most important that both people are truthful to each other! I was almost 50 before finally meeting my husband. He is one of the last true gentlemen; sincere, honest, caring, loving. Soon we'll have been married 4 years, and every day we are both grateful we found each other in this word fallin apart. Maybe it helps that my mother was from a third world country, and I was raised right (in the U.S.) and my husband is from a third world country. We were raised the same, besides our humor, and views also match. Good luck to those who are being themself and being honest, looking for a mate.
Girl in the red dress doesn’t care about money she wants love and respect. I’m sure she knows that she will build financial wealth as they grow together as a couple. No devils advocate, she is a keeper, her man would strive for the bread winner role due to how much love, support and submissive.
As a woman, l believe you can have it all, but not all at once. Search for a good man in your 20’s to marry, while pursuing an education towards a good paying job. Both continue working once married to save money before you have children; stay at home once the children arrive. The cost of buying a home is insane, at least in my country
This isn't particularly useful advice anymore since women do not know what makes a good man, most good men are heavily reconsidering marriage, education costs a fortune and puts you in initial debt, it takes years to build wealth out of a career and time is ticking for the woman, plus with inflation, stagnant wages and as you state, the house prices. Most of these things cannot be done in the time frame to permit having kids.
Very few people, men or women, have a job they would consider fulfilling. Most men know this by the time they’re 20 years old but this fact seems to have eluded most women. A job is a means to an end for nearly everyone. Support your husband in his effort to provide for you. It makes a tough and thankless job so much easier when you’ve got someone at home that’s handling business there and can offer some relaxation and happiness at the end of a shift. Guys don’t want business partners they want wives.
The people that keep claiming they have empathy and have so much empathy and understanding of poeple's emotional needs seem to not understand hypocrisy.
My wife cooked and cleaned and did the laundry. I fixed, mowed the lawn and paid the bills. I woke up to great food, happy children, and I paid for it all and loved it. Our 4 bedroom 2 bathroom and 3 single stall garage was not enough for her. I could not give much more and she divorced me, took my child support, and found a new man who made almost the same amount of money.
A lot of other countries don't consider it rude and that's something you gotta expect when visiting. Latin American countries will straight up call you gordo if it fits LOL
"it's rude, so you can't say that."
"It's true, so I can say it."
Some people can't handle the truth
@@knox7945 Well, if he talked that way about my wife, the next time he would talk so called truth, he would do it with some teeth missing. There is a difference between being a man and being a lame brain.
Isn't telling someone what they are allowed to say also 'rude'?
HAHAHA.....I loved that part. Facts over your feelings.
@@varashamus7633 EXACTLY 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Shows how weak Western men have become.
He's not western he's eastern European and one guy isn't the majority.
@@Kielbasa_Starmer where's he from ?
@@Kielbasa_Starmer he is British definitely western
It's fine to call her fat, but I don't think that's considered polite general talk.
Tho I will aprox. asume he is from a North African or the Middle eastern country which have the highest rates of obesity in the world.
"Your wife's too fat for you."
"wHaT dO yOu MeAn?"
Great.
Should've answered with "Means you should hit the gym"
I would have said "I like em chunky"
Leave it to a euro to go to a foreign country and tell them what they can or can’t do/say
Bro just wanted the other guy to tell his wife she's fat so he didn't have to
I want to marry but I want a fat woman bone is for dog and meat is for man 🎶🎵🎶
Facts are not rude. Facts don't care about your feelings.
absolutely true. And arseh-oles are not emphatic. you SHOULD care about people's feelings, but not allow them to act entiteled, selfish and immature - so things don;t have to be absolute, like in the west. One can care for feelings and present facts also, in a polite and kind way. What people from west can;t see, both those crying abou ttheir feelings and those forcing "facts don;t care" are same immature selfish people - just with oposite views :)
So, if you're an idiot, you would like to hear it every day? Like, do you want to hear it now?
(will that make your life better?)
Woke ages like milk think about thay
if facts are not rude why is it a big deal to show the guy and his little pedestal?
@@ivanangeli right, we dont need to say everything we think. And it is his wife so he wouldnt be a good husband to not say anything.
That guy is not American
Neither is the wife. They both have accents that are somewhere in UK
That's what I'm saying and the guy who made the video sounds American and he keeps saying he is. Like where have you ever in your life heard that accent in America unless he was a foreigner
Sounds like a Danish accent.
@@blorkflorkernorp9773its not danish trust me I know.
I've seen his blog, dude's british.
The arrogance of that kid. "YoU cAn'T SaY tHAt!" Yeah, he can.
In his own country, yet. WTF?
Technically he can, but he can also get knocked out when he says it to the wrong husband, karma is like that.
"This is not good Pashtun hospitality"
"There's a limit to how much food I can hold in my fridge"
just file it under the "things we're not allowed to say but we all know are true"
the shared silent agreement LOL
Nope say it lol
if it's true, there is no compelling reason not to say it.
Bro on the first video said "Doesn't matter what you think, but what she thinks." This kind of people will lead you to pure and utter unhappiness. Just stay away.
We’re on the verge of one being “voted” in to office for the final nail in the Empire.
That's not what he meant. He is saying that when you say something hurtful, you don't get to decide whether or not you hurt the persons feelings.
If she finds it hurtful to be called fat, then that's what matters. He is a man sticking up for his wife. Get your priorities straight, psycho.
And that was also rude. Dude has double standard
@@JonathanVachon777how is it rude if it’s true? She is fat, she is unhealthy. Nothing he said was untrue lol
Marry healthy, maybe get unhealthy overtime
But dont start with unhealthy?
You don't know their love story. Maybe she used to be bigger and he is taking her on a weight loss journey to health because he loves her...or maybe he likes his woman plump. There ARE guys who do...just because you don't doesn't mean they can't.
@@lindadelorme5117cool story you invented.
Respect is earned.
So that means i can disrecpect you until you earned my respect?
Thats not how it works. Respect people.
Respect is something you loose, not gain
@@JonathanVachon777 you are deliberately injecting context that is not there, showing great disrespect. You're a POS.
@@JonathanVachon777 Beeing POLITE to a person is not the same as RESPECTING them.
I am usually polite to stranger. But my respect, has to be earned.
Have a nice day :)
@@jorgebarriosmur thats because you have low standard
“You have to learn this”
Is a *crazy* thing to say about another person in another country
They want a six-figure man that doesn't actually do a job. They just want him to be rich.
That poor guy isn't bad looking. Symmetrical face, strong jawline. He's out of her league but she's the only one who said "yes"
So I’m a Desi (South Asian, Bengali to be exact) female. It is not uncommon for uncles and aunties to take notice of weight in younger folks. Most in laws don’t want heavy looking son/daughter in-laws cause it isn’t healthy and they worry they will not be able to have kids. And it is also considered shameful cause being fat at a young age shows lacks of self control.
exactly, it really does come from a place of concern
I thought it was healthy criticism.
@@kashifreza1993 It quite literally was.
But taking a dump in the gutter? All good.
Miss Guatemala is why passport bros exist.we search for her, true definition of demure.
I was newly married and my wife was a 3-meal-a-day cooker, so I gained like 20 pounds. One day, my neighbor came over to talk to me and said, "damn, son, you're getting fat." My initial thought was it was rude, but he wasn't wrong. I knew I was getting fat. I didn't like the weight, I just hadn't done anything about it. So I started eating less that day and lost the 20 pounds… all thanks to my "rude" neighbor.
My rude neighbor was a vacation pic with my mom 😂
American teaching a guy that he cannot say stuff. He should teach first amendment.
If that accent is American, I'm a Martian.
@@drmwpnYou are an American Morron 😂
Agreed criticism is necessary. Its not like the Paki called her fat ass. He was really rather tactful.
@@drmwpn 🖖just in case
Ofcourse he can say what he wants, but it will come with consequences is the point.
How is it rude? It’s stating facts. It’s crazy how in today’s world we’re supposed to live in delu lu land and believe lies, because the truth hurts peoples feelings.
He respects her, that's why he won't talk to her. That's how it is in some places. If he talks to her directly, it would be a disrespect.
Cultures vary WILDLY on this planet, some places it is normal to eat dogs. Respect and Learn local culture, you are a GUEST in another country.
@@mikefleek9259 true, I ate dog meat when I was young it's not like I like it but I have no choice we live in the mountains
No he views her as being half a person that's how it works in that religion.
@@mikefleek9259They don't have that same energy when they come to the united states...
@@blickedxboooh cry more 😢 western woman are converting in high rates despite your lies.
See, the woman from Guatemala knows what it is to be poor and struggling, and she doesn't expect the entire world delivered to her on a silver platter.
She has different standards than American women or women from rich countries.
I think the Pakistani man is correct, I think the American man needs to be the one to learn, he went to their country and he was innocent in his comment he needed to just thank him and move on, but he embarrassed him by pushing American culture on a non American. Just because an vain American finds it rude doesn't make it rude.
Funny thing, our grandparents and their parents, were much like this pakistani guy......(althoug they were cristians instead of muslims). But this down to earth, respectfull but blunt attitude, is how my grandparents used to be....... they thought telling you how things were, instead of caring for your emotions, was actually doing you a favour ........
My grandma told my once that a girl I brought home was like a pear, with a slim face, but with fat *ss and legs. Another time she stated that another had not the best hips to give birth, and she was no good for me.......and she didn`t wait to speak to me in private, if you know what I mean.......when I asked her why she was so harsh, she told me it was their mothers job to care for their feelings, not hers........
When she was young, marriages were still arranged by families in my country and for her, marriage was about family and buissness, not about romance and love......... I miss the old lady........
@@jorgebarriosmur yeah that sounds like my grandparents too. My wife is from Vietnam and they don’t have any problems telling you you’re fat or ugly and they’ll say it straight to your face. America is the only one that worries about your feelings instead of being honest with you to help. It keeps people in perspective so that they don’t act like a lot of these people do nowadays where they think they’re entitled when they’re way out side of their league.
He’s British (specifically, English)…. not an American.
@@tonylayfield8750everything I said still applies. Doesn’t matter where he from he shouldn’t apply his culture to the citizens of the country he is visiting.
@@phantomghostdiv I totally agree and wherein heaven forfend that one should stop and / or chastise a Pakistani chap for beating his wife (it being in their 'culture' to engage in that sort of thing... I've been there and seen it... and wherein there's maybe something to be said for keeping ones womenfolk in check)... and I likewise can't abide those sanctimonious pricks whom would, for example, engage in the censure Faroese people wrt their habit of rounding up and then slaughtering whales within the harbour at Vagar, 'coz that's part of Faroese 'culture'... and / or those whom would censure of FGM, as regularly practiced across much of sub-Saharan Africa, i.e. from Senegal on the shores of the Atlantic right across all the Saharan countries to Djibouti on the Red Sea, plus in Yemen and Iraq too, 'coz FGM's a normal part of their culture.
Yep, all cultures are equal and therein are all worthy of respect.
The truth is never rude. Truth is love.
The Pakistani man only speaks truth, he doesn't lie to placate others
I like the foreign guy..he knows whats up..
They are both foreign. The “American” man isn’t American and probably neither is the woman.
Go to other countries and someone stating you are fat, when you are, is just what people do. It's like saying, "You have blue eyes.". The rest of the world isn't delusional. Only the West.
If I'm fat, I know I'm fat, right?
Having people telling me (or my husband) serves what purpose exactly? If I see a fit woman with a fat guy I won't go to the woman and tell her her man is fat. She knows, he knows. It's plain disrespect.
He got offended because it’s true… hahahaha
"Mind if I pay for you?" and then literally pays with her card got me rolling💀
If he didnt want to be offended, he shouldn't have asked. In a foreign land telling them they're rude???
Recently stumbled into your videos and they are amazing! I love how you don't mince your words and emphasize on what is really wrong with this world now.
I'm a straight girl and was bullied by a group of non binary people hanging outside my house. They were holding signs and i just walked past them and they confronted me asking do you support us and i just kept quiet and continued walking, one of them yanked at my bag and shoved me to the ground. I was scared and called my dad and he went out with a shotgun and they ran.
i didn't even do anything wrong and they expect everyone to support their weird beliefs. Thank you for doing what you do.
Bruh there are groups of non-binary people traveling around like in packs? Tf
lol last time I went to Vietnam and everyone told me I was fat and it was true lol so I been working out for a year and I’m much better lol
There’s are a lot of “not too healthy” women in the USA 🇺🇸
The thing is. They're the foreigners, not the man speaking the truths. He was polite and speaking the way people speak in that country. The visitors should respect other peoples culture even if they don't like it. 🤣🤣
Also the thing with the truck driver who doesn't spit game but who makes very decent money truly illustrates the female mind: to them, it's not prestigious or status-building.
They'd sooner be with a violent, abusive financier who can sweet talk them than with than an honest, good truck driver.
It's just how they are. Zero rationality, 100% emotion. They never think about long-term consequences, and they will never take accountability for their choices.
Personally for me, I think the reason why people don't go for single moms is because the majority of them try to hook the guy (immediately) into taking care of their child like it's their own wayyy too early. It makes the man feel burnt out and not wanted, so at that point, they pack up and leave. Most have to worry about facing humiliation both privately and publicly bc they are shamed into thinking they left the woman on her own with the child and the man instantly gets blamed for anything. I could be wrong being that im only 21 but that's just what I see
I literally said that too lol she went from a 6 to a 4 via delusion and ego.
I don't believe in cultural relativism, but I also don't think it's right to visit a foreign country and tell them that their cultural norms are wrong. It's extremely arrogant.
It's not a cultural norm to call someone's wife fat. It's disrespectful. Turn your brain on.
@@zera2314 dude he's just more health. He was complimented.
it's not a cultural norm to offer unwarranted opinion about someone's wife.
@@zera2314 I'm more inclined to believe it was a miscommunication. The Pakistani man contradicted himself multiple times, and he seemed genuinely surprised that the passenger thought he was being rude.
@@zera2314 it's disrespectful in your culture
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It's actually nice, that the he cared so much about a strangers health and marriage that he didn't lie to their face.
"Rude" (to say a woman is fat)? I would argue that is a "sin" to "bear false witness against thy neighbor". Most religions follow the same "don't lie / cheat / steal / murder" rule of thumb.
6 figure man wants a high value mate. Being pretty isnt enough.
Women "we're more empathic" also women "wow.. you mean a guy in the friendzone is like a girl in your friendzone, i don't like that"?
Here's the thing. Every country no matter how traditional is going to have outliers who live the city girl dream. But 99% of the women in these countries are completely 100% authentic and traditional. Women in the US are the only ones who actually turned it into a lifestyle. We don't have outliers here we literally have life controlling trends. And that's what's funny to me. They say they won't let a man control their lives but they will let something that doesn't exist physically, ya know, like a trend control their lives.😂😂😂
Foreigner tries to tell local what's acceptable in their country.....
I'm American, but I prefer the foreign guy in the 1st clip.
BRO!! "can I pay for you?" that one made me laugh hard. hahahahahahahahahaa🤣🤣🤣
On the 6 figure man bit. I know 2 guys personally that wifed up shallow women. It was obvious they were marrying them for their money. These guys worked ALL THE TIME for that money. They had kids with these women who eventually left them bc they werent home enough, there for them, etc. Absolutely tiny amount of men that work a M-F 9-5 and have that kind of money. As griff said theyre almost nonexistent.
the women that wouldnt date a truck driver are the reason why i say, women desire power, but cannot have societal power until they are willing to do the hard jobs that society requires to function. truck drivers, construction workers, ditch diggers, sewer workers, etc. until women are willing to do the hard jobs that society requires to function, they cannot have societal power because that means the jobs they do do, are largely irrelevant to society. teachers and nurses, both fields women dominate in, are critical to society, but that is just a handful of the large number of jobs society requires. until women do the jobs critical to society, then anything they do do, is at the tacit behest of men.
I like watching your videos. It remind me why I should stay single because this world is too fucked to try.
bro told him he's a healthy good looking guy and he settled for a caribou and could do better
Glad to see you back to the OG format bro.
I work as a truck driver, I work 3 days a week for 15 hours a day and I'm projected to make $75-$80k this year. I strongly suggest anyone interested to get their class A license.
We strongly suggest you put an effort to exercise with all the 15 hours sitting that you do. Otherwise you will be fat as.
Great video, very enjoyable commentary^^ chill and also smooth criminal humor at the right points👌
Guy only knew a few English words.. what did he expect
No millionaire with tons of free time is going to waste any of it on women.
$20 says that the feet kisser was raised by a single mom
"I pay my own Phone Bill" 😂😂😂
Finally get to say it. First baby ! Also thanks Griffin for the healthiest red pill perspective on the platform. Been watching your videos a lot and trough the last 6 months it help me get back on my schedule and focus on my purpose.
The problem is we have a law that contradict itself example: we take vows to stay together forever and that same system in court says we can break it if we are unhappy
If you're a single mom, some dude took your snacks, juice box, filled your belly, and left. 😅
8:12 Griffin!!!!
That face 😂😂😂😂😂
Looks like the "Listen to me Linda" KID 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 THATS SO 🤣
if people think this man is rude , come shop for plus size in thailand , the stores that carry plus size clothing for women are called " MOO MOO SIZE " , " FAT GIRL " etc if you don't believe me you can see them all over you tube
Yeah us westerners are just way too fragile and can't take any fun poked at us.
@@beatnik6806 in asia they call it as they see it , we don't care if it "hurts your feeling"
@@shanehegarty6844 I know I wish we were more like you. But these days people are so soft you are supposed to walk on egg shells and lie everywhere you go because we can't say what we actually think. It's insanity and no wonder so many of us white guys want and are marrying Asian women.
@@shanehegarty6844Yet they also have a culture of "saving face" and deference to people considered higher in status or authority.
I live there too, but there is a difference from other countries in that the big girls and boys refer to themselves as fat, as do their friends, and it's not derogatory, it's descriptive. They will call you fat, if you are fat, and it's malicious, it just is what it is. Funny AF. 😂
For the first one, i seent nothing wrong. He did what he should do culturally which is address the man. That's how it is in the middle east. Idk what it is with career women. All you have to do is stay home for like 5 years with the child and then you can start your career. My wife did that and it worked out great.
If things go wrong, the first woman will take it all out on her boyfriend and be mad at him for not upholding her honor, defending the lie.
All this nonsense about not being allowed to ask a woman about her age, her weight or her body account. Why shouldn't you be allowed to ask that? What are you not allowed to ask a man? This is all just to ignore a characteristic of a woman that exists but doesn't help her.
Hurting people's feelings are always just giving them a dose of reality.
Some of these are funny - "do you mind if I pay for you?"... then the guys swipes HER card..lol
That balloon pop game seems great. All the red flags threw themselves out and you get that cute girl at the end with a genuine smile.
Bahahaha!!! I feel the same way when see I a not bad looking guy with a troll beast of a girlfriend. I always look at them like really bro? Dang. 🤣
You see they want the career and stuff to put on the attractive things to attract a man that will provide a higher standard of living. I grew up in poverty. I dumpster dived for food. I had a family and worked my way out of destitution with partners who only dragged me down. We aren't taught how to choose a mate. My dad was either a sociopath or a psychopath. My mom is a narcissist
Call the fire dept. cause she BURNED
Popping the balloon sounds to me like a bullet dodged.
There are millions of Americans living a good life on $40K. And even less. It is more about where you spend it than how much you make. A dude could make $100K and be broke. A dude could make $35K and own his house. No car payment, and be lounging back on vacation.
Well buying a house would be hard now but that ain't gonna stop me
I want to build a multi generational home
i live under 50k job is flag/flate rate so some years its 35k (cough 2020/21) some years its good. just saving money now in 2024 has been rough. i want a house and to get there im stopped 1 of my hobbies and dont eat out.
@DHGcrimson Where do you live? That is the big determining factor. If you live in NYC then life is tight. But if you live in rural Georga your money goes a whole lot further. Rent can be ¼ the price. Food and fuel can be cheaper. Insurance can be ½ the cost. Room for a garden and your food bill is slashed. Buy meat direct from the farmer is a huge savings. All these things add up quickly. But if you need that fancy apartment and shiny new fancy car, going out to the clubs, well, then that same income just won't do.
Fat is Fat or Lizzo but never an insult.
i like this kind of real talk. More of these videos are entertaining and good for everyone to know.
Over 1 mil. swipes? One date?
Sounds like a perfectly invested energy🤣
Truth is rude.. hmm weatern weakness.
The truth is just too hard to handle nowadays.
HAHAHAHHAHA that 4 my dude, awesome! hjaahajahah
My friend manages drivers for a major international bottling/coffee company in Chicago area. Local drivers make over $35 an hour plus health and pension benefits. Home every night and they can't find enough drivers.
Thanks for showing the headline first 🎉
I'll pick the 2nd one. She can defend the home when I'm not around. And if a dog start yappin at her then WAP! Now it's already in the pan. I respect the efficiency.
My buddy makes $100,000 a year. He cannot afford to buy a house in Washington State. We are moving in a year & a 1/2
Just ask the Pashtun if he loves man love Thursday! 😅😅
Let her talk
Let her explain why she is, or isn't healthy
she's a "strong independent woman" -- WAIT HOLY CRAP DID I JUST ASSUME H'....ITS GENDER??
Real Talk: The Pakistani man is FREE to speak outloud..... he is FREE to start a conversation of his subject choice...... if SHE is offended, SHE can speak up..... no need for guys to defend women
That second video with the country chick. As a lifelong Texan, I have never heard such a fake Texan accent. She's putting it on big time.
My top five criteria are:
1. same religion 2. if I would be willing to let him be the head of the household (in the Bible there are actual lists for what that includes) 3. I ran out of 'absolute requirements'
I could write a book in this comment box. Long story short, you are right about finding a blueprint, and from there seeing what we have in common, the way we were raised, interests. Hobbies, life styles, etc. Talking is so important, to really get to know someone, and it is most important that both people are truthful to each other! I was almost 50 before finally meeting my husband. He is one of the last true gentlemen; sincere, honest, caring, loving. Soon we'll have been married 4 years, and every day we are both grateful we found each other in this word fallin apart. Maybe it helps that my mother was from a third world country, and I was raised right (in the U.S.) and my husband is from a third world country. We were raised the same, besides our humor, and views also match. Good luck to those who are being themself and being honest, looking for a mate.
Uuff boy ! The American simp is just .. stupidly fabulous !! Waah !
I laughed out loud at the guy who "paid for the girl" and used her card.
Yup, that's the only Right way to do it. He's a Drizzle King.😎
the 2nd fry girl. i've seen far too many clips of frying pans breaking just from flipping a pancake.
Yes you can say what you said.
Girl in the red dress doesn’t care about money she wants love and respect. I’m sure she knows that she will build financial wealth as they grow together as a couple. No devils advocate, she is a keeper, her man would strive for the bread winner role due to how much love, support and submissive.
it´s funny how people often use ´i feel like` or ´you are hurting my feelings` when they hear facts
As a woman, l believe you can have it all, but not all at once. Search for a good man in your 20’s to marry, while pursuing an education towards a good paying job. Both continue working once married to save money before you have children; stay at home once the children arrive. The cost of buying a home is insane, at least in my country
This isn't particularly useful advice anymore since women do not know what makes a good man, most good men are heavily reconsidering marriage, education costs a fortune and puts you in initial debt, it takes years to build wealth out of a career and time is ticking for the woman, plus with inflation, stagnant wages and as you state, the house prices. Most of these things cannot be done in the time frame to permit having kids.
@@loganblackwood2922 Very true, unless you go into the trades. No debt. As you learn, you are making money
@@loganblackwood2922 Very true on many points, however going into the trades won’t place you into debt.
As you are learning, you are being paid
Very few people, men or women, have a job they would consider fulfilling. Most men know this by the time they’re 20 years old but this fact seems to have eluded most women. A job is a means to an end for nearly everyone. Support your husband in his effort to provide for you. It makes a tough and thankless job so much easier when you’ve got someone at home that’s handling business there and can offer some relaxation and happiness at the end of a shift. Guys don’t want business partners they want wives.
The TRUTH is rarely NICE .... PS - we don't GAF about 'feelings'
no no no - RESPECT is earned,.... and BEING FAT - shows you don't respect your own body.
That Pakistani dude is ON POINT!
The people that keep claiming they have empathy and have so much empathy and understanding of poeple's emotional needs seem to not understand hypocrisy.
Just remember everyone there are people like this everywhere in the world
I pay my phone bill. What a joke. 😂
My wife cooked and cleaned and did the laundry. I fixed, mowed the lawn and paid the bills.
I woke up to great food, happy children, and I paid for it all and loved it.
Our 4 bedroom 2 bathroom and 3 single stall garage was not enough for her.
I could not give much more and she divorced me, took my child support, and found a new man who made almost the same amount of money.
Sucks man, I hope you are good. But to be honest.. She did you a favor. Apart from the child support part, of course.
A lot of other countries don't consider it rude and that's something you gotta expect when visiting. Latin American countries will straight up call you gordo if it fits LOL